Overcoming Pressure and Low Self Esteem|| True Talk with TED||S04E03

[@lvskitchen5964]

Ladies, I’m loving all the studio improvements! The table. Background looks more homely, sound is fantastic! The video close ups are an amazing addition. Love the use of the microphones. You’re all doing amazing work. May God continue to increase y’all’s anointing in Jesus Name. Thank you for blessing us with this show!

[@kennedyigue4352]

Today's episode is for me. My friends are all getting married this year and I have bn depressed lately because I don't even have anyone in my life right now. Now I know the attitude to carry because my character have really bn affected like Mrs Ella said. God bless TED and increase their ministry IJNA

[@DrWeeley]

Amen

[@Godownchild682]

Kennedy your right ...good to check oneself ..cos of all my disappointment ..I have been chasing people away and still praying to God ..saying God when naw ...I just checked myself and realized that pressure and depression had cause more for me

[@sarahmonday5]

As if you know.. it's well 🙏🙏🙏

[@elshaddaisdaughter8241]

I just love Tolu. Even if you don’t usually laugh, you will laugh by force. Love you all 💕

[@Madeformore90]

l was sooooo blessed by this episode thank u so much for allowing, God to use you, this has been a great challenge for me, as an orphan l grew up in a family where l heard little of who l am and the fact that l am beautiful the way l am, so l turn to pleasing people and later on found myself confused at my journey because who l felt inside of me was and who God said about me, was not what people said, but now God being so good l am in the journey of understanding that the Word of God is the most ultimate in my life not what people say or not what has happened to you .....l am Docus from Zimbabwe

[@adewaleomolayo7664]

Today's episode was for me, don't know about you, Jesus!!! It came at the right time. More grace TED

[@olubunmiodesanya9955]

Exactly!

[@thetoniolatunji]

It's a battle of thoughts that we all have to deal with from time to time. Thank you sisters for shining light on this. You're doing a great work.

[@gbemietryphoza]

Thanks so much beautiful ladies for this wonderful episode, I learnt a lot. The fact that things are not working out based on my schedule does not mean that God doesn't love or care about me. Even though it's hard to not feel that way sometimes, it's a good reminder to know that He's still in control and it's well. So many nuggets to latch on to: 1. Do not isolate yourself from others. 2. Guard your heart. 3. You're not in competition with others. 4. Believe what God says about you. 5. Meditate on God's word. This was spot on. Came at the right time. May God continue to increase your anointing and wisdom in Jesus name. Also, I'm here for the bloopers 😂 Ella's beautiful spirit, child-like, carefree and spontaneous, love it and thank you so much 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@aetvdocumentary6716]

So happy for having watched this video. I've learnt to guard my heart with all jealously and to hold on to God's promises for my life. Thank you ladies for this impactful video.

[@deborahjesusegun9705]

Thank you all so much. I’ve been a victim of both pressure and low self esteem for a long time. I used to think I had so many weaknesses and so nobody will want to relate with me. As I listened to you TED, I felt like crying and I just believe God is opening my eyes to see how wonderful he has made me. Thank you all. Amen.

[@belusochicas-osuji5981]

The waiting period is for preparation... That really hit home! God bless you, sisters

[@ovoblossomtv9888]

I once had the challenge of missing scripts & carry over in school and even thought of suicide but now i am also a living testimony of how God can turn things around for good and now I share my story and encourage others. Indeed there is no need for one to put pressure on himself or herself, God is good.

[@chidikespath7146]

Yea God is good

[@fisayoamusan4211]

Yes he is a good God. we thank God for ur life ma

[@ajuadanielangefac411]

Wow! Could you shed more light, ma?☺️🙏🙏🙏

[@theGodlywalk]

I love Sis Tolu’s food and kitchen analogy

[@aniket7332]

Is it on KZbin too

[@osahonigiebor5873]

Yes, that was a very good analogy

[@ijeomawilliams5151]

Please what's the name of the page

[@kehindealonge9810]

Yes

[@fisayoamusan4211]

yes

[@glominexintegrated2971]

Discovering your purpose and staying focused on God's plan is one of the greatest ways to deal with pressure

[@CharisLawal]

Tolu, you're just too much!!! The kitchen knife/table knife analogy and then baking bread/baking cake..... lovely 😘😘😘😘😘

[@adebayograce8487]

Actually, comparison fuels pressure and low self-esteem. Comparison is a real thief of joy. One of the things to ensure in life is to find joy in one's uniqueness.

[@meditationandrelaxationwit114]

Thanks alot for this. Have not being myself and have been a victim of low-self esteem unknown to me and I felt it's normal but this video has opened and touched my life to see God's bigger picture for me

[@PraiseAbimbola]

Aunty Tolulope, Aunty Ella and Aunty Darasimi, God bless and keep y’all so much. This was so profound! Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️

[@politeayikiriza4605]

Excited we are here (TED ) with love from Uganda.

[@moyosoluwajejeloye4389]

Have really been blessed by this...who else noticed sis Darasimi is glowing.. Marriage is good o

[@marylyndaobioha]

Yes oh. Marriage is good. She is really glowing.

[@Jemimahyanduwa]

Yeahhh

[@adeyemiadedolapo3011]

Yes o, I'm so happy for her

[@rocklandrockland2680]

The happiest young wives on the globe. What a blessing! Thank you for this beautiful and most helpful presentation for our young people. Blessings to you all.

[@awobifakemi1752]

This message was timely for me, thank you sisters. This is a period in my life when I am battling with serious depression, low self esteem and pressure esp from family. I feel I can never be good enough, the least of all, need to live up to parent's and siblings expectations. I constantly find myself trying to live to be acceptable to others. But your talk tonight answered it all. I know the low self esteem, depression and pressure won't go all at once, but as I gradually take the steps mentioned, I pray God helps me. Though I have been trying but each time I try to guard my heart, that is when the devil even brings a bigger blow from esp family that makes me sink the more into losing myself, to the extent that I have lost the joy and the real me I used to know, no more Joy, smile and life, just trying to live not to offend anyone. Sisters keep praying for us pls, like you said, I am who God says I am, not what anybody else says... I am the daughter of the most high, I guard my heart and I would no longer compete (cos it's tiring), I pray God helps. Much love from here 😍

[@chimadivine7715]

These points discussed are on point. Even St Paul said "For I do not consider myself inferior to the most eminent apostles". Thank you. It's my 2nd time watching this vid. Reminds me of the song: "God is working His purpose out" Thanks again!

[@MmasichukwuMary]

How much is enough to thank this unique ladies, thanks for reviving me. Love you guys 😘❤️

[@ejayscorner3921]

Thank you for this conversation ladies, A lot of these pointers really speak to my spirit so I definitely believe I was led to here, God bless you all🤍 I have to start seeing God in the midst of my situation, he is always with me and he does have a plan for me.

[@modupeoluwaatobalo3090]

This episode blessed me exceptionally, it's timely for me, thank you so much for yielding to God.... 💙💙💙

[@chinwesdiary9175]

"we are not in competition with anybody " is the mindset someone waiting should have. The bible says let this mind be in you. I relate with Ella regarding the height,😂😂am 6ft 1inch and sometimes i can be shy, but right now I'm happy with what i got

[@akuapenuellatv4413]

Thank You oh Lord Jesus... preparing for college in August...I need this🙇🏽‍♀️🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@Veekee_Unashamed]

I just watched this episode It really blessed me Thanks TED sister Especially the point Tolu raised About admission causing depression.. honestly it's true, but your point has changed my perspective about life. Thank you Lord for more encouragement.

[@bukolaadeleke5779]

TED am grateful for this topic. I was once a victim of low self-esteem. But I found d scripture which says I am wonderfully and beautifully made by God. I will always b myself and not anybody else.

[@nnobeabenamary1838]

Glory be to God You guys have done good job I having been passing through that and with a lot of tears But by God Grace you have strength me today

[@thefeliwoman]

I really needed this, this was beyond timely and an answer to prayer!

[@bisolaanastasia6484]

Who else thinks the great TED select their topics by the spirit? Who also noticed each new episode is always an improvement on the previous? We appreciate your contents, we see excellence and we applaud you for it. I have a question - I know the TED sisters are not big on organics, what is the secret to glowing? Is it spending time with God too?

[@temitopeoladunni9544]

True oooo...I think spending them with God

[@folasadeoyewole1564]

I totally agree.

[@ekundayoracheal3966]

Yes ooooo, No doubt, Spending time with ABBA is everything 🥰🥰🥰

[@sabinaannan2443]

True o. God help us. They are intent and deep. I admire them

[@adeyinkasanni4488]

God bless you my Darling TED.... more greater Grace for the next levels/phase's In Jesu's Name.🙏❤

[@chemmybee]

Thank God for today’s discussion. Being a very very short person, I swam deep in the pool of low self esteem for over 2 decades of my life so I can relate to this topic 100%. Grateful for the grace to finally start living life abundantly. Please guard your heart with all diligence and just be contented in God

[@theburningone_]

It’s everyone’s smile for me 🥰 God bless you Sis Tolu Sis Ella and Sis Dara in Jesus name

[@godblessyou7073]

I was contemplating on weather to watch this video or not. And I just decided that I should just watch it. This really spoke to things going on inside my heart, I have always had a low self-esteem to the point that I couldn't even realize it at times. This video really spoke to the issues and revealed to me that God's not done with me even though I have a really terrible past even though I'm very insecure, God still is with me. This video also revealed to me how I've been going through a lot of pressure because of my exams and I know I'm not the smartest in the world but it's really pressuring when you see news about other people getting high grades and you don't know what your grades are. And I know that there hope at the end of the tunnel that I believe in God that he perfect everything that concerns me. May God bless you all and I pray that your ministry will not be cut short in Jesus name amen.

[@aweleodih5430]

Amen! Receive strength ma/sir

[@godblessyou7073]

@@aweleodih5430 Amen! I receive it in Jesus name!

[@josephinecudjoe3207]

Very insightful and inspirational... God bless you TED💝🙏

[@fisayoamusan4211]

Amen in Jesus name

[@dawnekeomaunaji9421]

Competition is the real problem in our world today. When u overlook that competition u become great

[@bbadekoya6033]

I love tolu's example of the table knife and kitchen knife....

[@rachaelndana-tsado2783]

Ella, I appreciate you guys, speaking to public, really take courage and practice, I washed your talk to the end. More grace.

[@magugayonela8978]

Yhoo Tolu has said it all . I have really settled for less in the past in career, spiritually and almost everything in me because of low self esteem and pressure

[@abimbolaowomoyela3884]

I so much enjoy my time with my sisters. I've never wasted time or data, it's always worth it. God bless you and increase you in wisdom, knowledge and understand. More anointing to function well blessed sisters.

[@yadday5153]

Wow -God was intentional. It sank in today. Thank you Lord!

[@toluwaniopeagbe3439]

I really love this episode cos I have been feeling some pressure lately, but this is an encouragement 4 me, I am not in competition with anyone and God is always on my side. Thank you very much for this👏👏👏

[@mercyampofo8982]

I really admire you guys. God bless you soo much 🥺❤because you have availed yourself to be used by God ! I pray for a double portion of your oil . Much love from Ghana i pray i meet you and come on your 😂❤show !!

[@niniolaolayinka6659]

Am actually blessed from this episode as I do not know I was actually suffering from low self-esteem.... I let things get to me a lot and allow people's standard.Well I can work on myself at least start from somewhere now,more grace

[@itohanogbeifun5144]

This is so practical. I enjoyed every speaker and was blessed. Thank you so much

[@abiolakehinde879]

God bless you my dearest TED, more inspiration and more ink to your pen.❤❤❤

[@OziomaVictory-rz2qs]

God bless you TED. I have been battling we low self esteem and pressure but now, I will begin to see my self from the lens of God's word. God bless you ma'ams.

[@omolarafamodun1467]

Wooooow Thank you my beautiful sisters, I've been really blessed, more grace & unction for you all......Ese pupo❤️❤️❤️

[@dawnekeomaunaji9421]

Dara ur point finding the right association is so authentic especially when it comes to low esteem

[@Tarron_Innovative_World]

God bless you sister tolu, I love your beautiful points: You are not in competition with anyone. Understanding your timing. Thanks to Dara and Ella too

[@olorunfemibimbola6879]

Watching this episode is the best thing that as ever happened to me. God bless you sisters.

[@thelords_favourite]

This True talk is for me .....came at the right time God bless you Sisters😍

[@adebimpethechoosen5901]

Thank you all for the points mentioned in the SOLUTIONS aspect. I was a worrier during my waiting time, but God found my lost soul and he brought me back to his path. Thank God for bringing me out of Depression, Low Self Esteem and Pressure from Family mainly, I'll just continue to wait on God for directions and leading. Thank you for your words blessed with God favor.

[@olubunmiodesanya9955]

God bless you dear sisters. You are always a blessing. I pray for more grace and anointing of God upon your lives in Jesus Mighty Name. Shalom👍❤

[@idikajanet9392]

"The picture of your friends is the vision of your future".....🔈🔉🔊✅

[@diglaontama8003]

Sister Ela and sr Tolu remain bless both ; your are a blessing for the KINGDOM

[@adebayooluwaseun6417]

TED, u are a blessing to me and entire world, thank you so much, i always encourage both teenagers and young adult in my fellowship to always watch TRUE TALK. God will promote u to a grater height, u will never be discourage, d Lord will supply all your need in Jesus name. U ARE ALWAYS UNIQUE.

[@chikodililoretto9103]

I am deeply touched by this message, thanks sisters for giving me hope today, it is never too late for God..I love you TED

[@titemitopesfn4220]

Understanding your purpose, that makes you stay focused. Thank you TED🥰🥰

[@NguhemenQueenDzuave]

Thank you sisters for this message..I'm really sad now for how people treat and see nothing wrong and keep talking down on me really makes me sad but thank God cos this message is timely.

[@queencoolgamer7670]

You are fearfully and wonderfully made

[@akinterinwawumi6605]

Seriously this came at the right time for me,, being feeling this way since, Thanks so much for this Ma's more blessing 💞

[@GodlyInspirationChannel]

This is very insightful and impactful, I pray that God will continually reveal himself to TED...

[@victoriau9629]

Thank you TED. Am blessed with this episode and with several others. I pray for more grace for you TED

[@annie-floramills1937]

Another great episode!!! 👏 God bless you TED. This discussion was 💯💯💯💯

[@olayanjuikeoluwaruth4447]

God knows the best time for everything we need. Thanks for this @true talk with TED I was blessed

[@maryolaitan6828]

God bless TED. It's as if God told you what I'm going through.

[@isaac-johnwisdomosemeke2847]

Low self-esteem is very dangerous and pressure is the twin sister of low self-esteem. One thing will lead to the other. I once had an experience with low self-esteem but now to God be the glory I have overcome it.

[@zeea6507]

Great episode. Comparion is the thief of joy. guard your heart even with social media.

[@adekunleruth1751]

This massage is about me, thank you so much Mrs Ella, Mrs Tolu and Mrs Oyor,God bless you people for these.

[@rachelowhonda2913]

Knowing God and believing everything he says about me helped my self esteem 🥰. Thank you blessed ladies 😊😊😊

[@Kevin-jc1fx]

The most confusing part is when you don't know why you are waiting and if you should be waiting in the first place or you should be doing something about the situation. May God help us.

[@ComfortJerry]

I'm blessed You're lifted in Jesus Name!

[@abdulganiysofiyulah1263]

A big thank you to our lovely sisters. May God continue to increase your knowledge and understanding.

[@joyozioma_]

I'm grateful for this platform

[@abundance8962]

Thank you TED for this episode. I was really blessed by it. More grace

[@mobisolaoluwafemi1853]

Wow! I am so blessed with this episode. God bless you sisters. I love sister Tolu smiles... Love you 💞

[@badebayo49]

No one can make you inferior without your own consent. Freedom come from within. Happiness is free. Don't let the enemy steal your joy.

[@gladnessdanpossible7247]

God bless you and the powerful words. I don't know how you get to select topics but it so amazing that all the topics discussed is always addressing seriouspersonal issues in my life. Thank you for yielding to God.

[@lifewithmaeeaya]

I'm blessed by this😩,; just the word I need now🥺. God bless you all 🙏

[@ekenmadeborahagwu569]

More grace Dears. This is actually my best episode. I'm sure heaven is proud of you all.

[@kennedyigue4352]

I tell you my sister. This is my best episode so far

[@graceakinde2481]

Thanks for this sisters @TED. Really encouraged. I pray God helps us with the pressure/low self steem And May God continue to bless you all.

[@oangulu]

Count your blessings Name them one by one🎶 Count your blessings See what God has done🎶 etc etc

[@oghenetejiriedaferiemu8967]

It was so amazing listening to this, this has lifted me, by The help on God I will try to understand my season and time and what God says about

[@tatacathryn6750]

Thanks very much. I am still struggling with this low self esteem. Your video has been a great blessing to me. Continue to do this and bless many.

[@ajuadanielangefac411]

Timely message😭😭😭 Timelyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Thank you so much. God continue to bless and use you ❣️

[@fisayoamusan4211]

I am extremely blessed. Thank you so much TED for this episode, God bless you and increase your understanding in Jesus name

[@oludamilarebolatito6882]

Thanks for this beautiful topic. I could remember back then in school my H.O.D almost run me mad in her courses to the point that when I’m sleeping I saw her in my dream see her every where simply because she gave me 2 carryover in her two subjects and gave me sets back. Some lecturers are just naturally wicked and the devil really use her for me back then. Anyway I give glory to God Almighty for where I am today ( Oba alasetan)🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. She cause me so much pains and lots of hatred then but thank I have forgiven her.

[@patiencedensu7234]

Great topic with great insights. Dara looking so so beautiful 😍

[@munahjesuslove9296]

Yes my dear she is looking great.

[@marylyndaobioha]

Thanks so much, TED Sisters. I got so much value. When are you going to start bringing in other ministers aside from the regular people we have always seen so far? God bless TED sisters.

[@joyarthur-akabogu5038]

I am so BLESSED team TED. God bless you all and your families.

[@TheMultifaceted-T]

I love Ella so much. Cos I'm actually her height too and I can relate to what she went through. But I'm wonderfully and beautifully made. God bless you TED

[@myrrhemenyi]

Love the improvement I'm seeing in the editing. That's growth

[@debbyv.5784]

So insightful and timely. Thank you Lord for these sisters. I understand now Lord and I'm sorry for doing things my way just trying to be like others.

[@jameismejameisme1415]

The TED you bless and reassure me in every episode of true talk, God bless and reward you

[@falusiomowumimary9852]

Thanks so much for what you're doing....u know what u guys inspire me alot. I wish you heaven at last in Jesus name

[@vivianotseakemhe1511]

This really blessed me. Thanks so much. I literally feel lighter.

[@wale-onitemiloluwa9055]

This was timely 😊..... God bless you abundantly my Sisters

[@olajumokefatoye2320]

I am blessed.........God bless you sisters.....Love you sisters💖💖

[@IzzyDak]

I was really blessed by this episode. Thank you TED!!🤗