YWJ KOJ SIAB Official music video by: Dang Thao

[@dangthao916]

MUSIC LYRICS VRS 1. WB LUB NEEJ ZOO LI TWB TSIS TAU NTEV CAS IB PLIAG WB LAUS TAS ZOO LI NO LUB KUA MUAG TSEEM LOS TXHUA HMO VIM KUV TSREEM HLUB KOJ XAV TSIS TXOG HAIS TIAS YUAV YOG ZAUM KAWG VRS 2. WB LUB NEEJ NTAWM NO THAUM TWG LOS SIB CUAG XAV TXOG KOJ THIAB KUV CES KUV LUB KUA MUAG LOS TWB TSIS TXAWJ SIB HLUB LAWM CES CIA WB NYIAS MUS NYIAS THIAB TSIS MOB WB LUB SIAB MUS NTXIV CHORUS CIA KUV MAM LI TSO KOJ MUS YAM LI KOJ LUB SIAB NTSHAW SEB PUAS MUAJ IB HNUB ES KOJ ZOO SIAB CIA KUV MAM LI TSO TXHUA YAM TSAWS LI KOJ LUB SIAB XAV SEB PUAS MUAJ IB HNUB ES KOJ KAJ LUB SIAB THAUM KAWG NO CES TSUA YOG TAU LUB KUA MUAG XWB MOG TXOJ KEV HLUB NTAWM KOJ THEB KUV CES TAG VRS 3. WB TXOJ KEV SIB HLUB CES YUAV LOS XAU LI NO TSI MUAJ HNUB ES WB YUAV ROV ZOO LI QUB YOG TIAS MUAJ IB HNUB ES KOJ ROV NCO TXOG KUV KOJ MAM SAIB PUAG TIM NPOO NTUJ CES LIG CHORUS REPEAT. SOLO BRIDGE KOJ THIAB KUV CES TAG LI NO LAWM XWB OS TXAWM UA NPAUM CAS LOS TWB TSIS TXAUS KOJ SIAB VIM WB TSIS TXAWJ SIB ZAM THIAJ PLAM TXHUA YAM WB LUB NEEJ THIAJ LIS MUS TSIS NTO NTSIS CHORUS REPEAT END

[@bettyb00hawj]

Awesome

[@bettyb00hawj]

Someone needs to go put this on smule. I would do it but Im too lazy i just wanna sing. Lol

[@เดเด-ต3ฑ3ฅ]

บน​ณ​

[@Kabnoogxyoojchannel1030]

Kuv pab koj lawm o koj pab kuv thiab

[@lamhong8759]

Tij laug hu tau zoo heev li, kuv thov cover koj zaj nkauj ni puas tau os?

[@sandyvang1555]

Marriage is a journey and a promise/covenant between each other. The trials and tribulations are meant to teach one another the meaning of love...to not give up on each other when times are hard. There are many ways to resolve the trials faced, the point is to face them together as a team...not against each other. In my eyes, the world is cruel enough, don’t be one to each other. It’s your spouse, love them. Beautifully written and executed.

[@dangthao916]

Well said 👏 and thanks for your support!

[@mikef2811]

We met when I was just 19 and you were just 18. You were always the better person. So wonderful. so patient, so kind. This could have been our sad song but lucky me...Despite all my flaws...you stayed even when I didn't give you a reason to stay. Thank you for 26 years together.

[@cantyyang6715]

I honestly just love the beginning part. Us not realizing the years and time we’ve spent with our love ones, and yet everyday we work so hard for the things we need and want. We don’t realize that we are already getting old so fast. Yet we may sometimes have problems with our significant others. We forget about our love we once had in the beginning for one another, instead with all the problems that we face together. We start to blame eachother for our hardships creating separation and sadness.

[@beelao5755]

Well say.... A day is so long. An 8 hour work day is boring. But life past without permission. In life we strive for the best... the best in our marriage but due to the burden of materialist and financial we forget the one closes to us. The one we fall in love with. The children's we had. In the blink of an eyes, we strive for better life yet we fail in our own life. This is a beautiful song and real regardless what we face in life. If we are not careful what we pursue may threaten to destroy our happy life. Remember brother and sister, we have one life to live. Lets make the best of it. Love ourselves, love our spouse, love our children's, love our family and friends. Lastly, we only have one life and remember our creator put us here to make a better life for all. Take care.

[@mrjjthor]

Wow, marriage is hard. If I ever separate I don't think I ever want to get married again. Good luck to married couples out there going through a tough time.

[@oneandonlybrielle6079]

Same here.....after 20+years....if this is the last thing that I have to chose, I will not remarry anymore...will have friends but to love again....smh...strong lyrics...

[@mryaj0095]

#4everSingle

[@mrjjthor]

@@mryaj0095 stay single my friend. Marriage is not worth it. Been married for over 13 years and have not seen any benefits whatsoever. Especially as men age we see benefits in marriages less. It's as if our marriage is holding us back.

[@mryaj0095]

@@mrjjthor know exactly what u talkin bout. Been there, done that... no living stress free.👍🏻

[@fortnitepzprs584]

Same thing brother here I don’t want getting marry again.

[@maitoojymoua1601]

Wow didn’t know Moon and her husband was in here! Nice! Love this song

[@Chrissaayy_Lx]

Beautiful message with the story line here Dang. I got teary eyed watching the music video. It is truly a sensitive topic for those who struggle with conceiving and most of the time they struggle in silence due to being afraid of judgement. I hope that couples out there continue to fight for each other even when life gets tough, and regardless of the outcome I hope that couples also remain strong for one another in this tough journey. Remember that it takes two to make a baby, so learn to understand one another.

[@dangthao916]

Yog kawg. Ua tsaug os!

[@leekemrajh3104]

You said it well! 💯 agreed ❤️

[@วรัชยาจิตรปภากุล-ส7ซ]

@@dangthao916 puas muaj karaoke os

[@tseemciasiablauj4072]

Thank you for the explanation. I didn't understand why they were divorcing; thought she was his pregnant mistress/side chick.

[@kuvyoghmoobvaj2172]

You are on point sister. I, myself went through this and suffered infertility for 10 years by myself while my ex husband said nothin was wrong with him. We parted ways after those 10 years. Now looking back, I felt we did quit too soon and now we are left with the unknowns, what if’s, etc . I now have two beautiful kids and so does he with his new wife. 😞

[@SoupermanXiong]

@4:26 She used Bruce Lee's 1 inch punch.... anyway this song came right on time. Great job Dang for writing such sad and meaningful song. Tearing me up...

[@powerprestige]

It seems the world is changing faster than we can. The inability to love in today's society is based on circumstances and social expectations. In the past, love was considered sacred and was cherished on a personal level. Good luck to anyone reading this.

[@jennielee1862]

Wonderful song. Marriage is hard and has many challenges. Others have children and dont love each other, while others love each but cant have any children. Life is all hard but the greatest thing is to endure through lives challenges together.

[@dangthao916]

Well said and thank you,

[@mikef2811]

After help raising 6 siblings from the day they were born until the day I left for college. I swore I will never want any kids ever. My wife says that she is okay....but deep down when she is alone, I sometimes wonder if she really is okay with not having kids. Anyways too late now. We are in our mid 40s now.

[@Nkauj_hmong_Muas]

@@mikef2811 40 xyoo xwb tseem muaj tau me nyuam mas..

[@mikef2811]

@@Nkauj_hmong_Muas No turning back now. Already in the back end of our 40s. 46 and 47. Not impossible but very slim now, plus I want to gear up for my retirement, not start a saving funds for college. May be I'll have kids in my next life, if there is a next life.

[@Maivntxawm05]

I got super emotional because this almost become my reality. Fortunately, my husband and I were finally able to conceive after 10 hard years and with the help of IVF.

[@dangthao916]

I'm happy for you guys!

[@pakoumoua8074]

Congratulations!

[@mryaj0095]

Glad ya stuck together..it was a test from God..yall both pass. Congrats

[@xislee1740]

Sad, even if you ( myself) conceive still wasn't appreciated by myself in the nicu.always argument it's best if we( him n I) go our ways.😭

[@kellielee9829]

13 years of constant heartbreak has come to an end. I now have to take myself out of the equation. Breaking my own heart staying in a situation where my time and energy were no longer needed or wanted. Even though it was toxic, just knowing that it ended brings me to tears.

[@maileelor9892]

Why am I crying? Such a touching song. Hits me deep. Awesome job dang thao. Keep it up.

[@vangx356]

Omg. This is Moon and Que! IYKYK. 🥰

[@PRIZM_LOCK]

So may couples go through this. Its sad that since we are hmong, divorce inst really an option due to the respect of both sides of the family. I hope who ever is going through this, does it in an adult way where the kids and the families don't hate each other. Great Song.

[@oneandonlybrielle6079]

This song strikes me in the head just recently. After 20+ years.....tso los tau lawm thiab mas. Maybe its best for him to realize what he will lose once he gets his freedom. Maybe I won't suffer so much for waiting, loving and sacrificing to make things better. Lyrics is on point for those that wear this shoe.

[@ibobpeb4]

Very beautiful song... especially hard for couples to stay true to each other during these tough times. This is a good reminder to hold your loved ones close, and tell them you love them.

[@lindalorchannel2498]

Another powerful song! Sad, but life takes people in different directions, just have to make the best of it.

[@collinethao]

loved everything about this. it speaks every thing about a marriage.

[@dangthao916]

Thanks,

[@mnloser]

Hit me deeply. This song reminds me of my past. I am happy where I am at now. The past haunt me from time to time. I no longer love the past person but all the memories haunt me. I was in depression for two years which cause me to use sleeping aid and cannot sleep in the dark because I will have thoughts of death. I just want to say that I am okay and I have slowly moved on. He should be happy now so he doesn’t have to bear with me. I will be okay . I have slowly picked me up and I won’t fall again. Everyone assume that I will be okay but no one ask me time to time if I am okay because I kept quiet. I pretend that I am okay . So I just want to say that I am okay. Thanks for this song.

[@dangthao916]

Thanks for sharing your story, I'm happy for you.

[@mryaj0095]

Are u Okay?

[@payang6028]

What a deep, meaningful song! I’ve always loved your strong voice and the emotions behind the lyrics and music. This song explains my life right now...😢 You want to be with someone but know it is not the same anymore. The hurt, the pain, is much too strong to continue.

[@dangthao916]

I'm sorry that you're going through that. Be strong 💪 and thanks the compliment,

[@SL-gt2kh]

​Paj, if there's anything left to fight and regain your marriage, please do so. You don't want to regret not fighting to keep it alive. Good Luck Friend.

[@Kyleen-t3v]

I have finally found a hmong singer with such a soulful voice filled with emotions.

[@dangthao916]

Thank you,

[@paovang88]

Sister moon and her husband! Great acting both of you! Awesome song too!

[@shawj7876]

I think we all can relate to this song at one time or another in our life. My marriage was put to the test a few months back. We couldn’t just walk away for some selfish acts. We are given a second chance to rebuild the love and trust we once had.

[@princeallen2288]

Omg... It is Moon and Que... The comment on Facebook really made me come back to watch this MV again. Lbs

[@zoua.yang90]

This song came out right at one of my hardest time during my marriage. It was a heart breaking song that every lyrics hit the spot. Even now that things are good, listening to this song is still sad.

[@famili35]

Wb sim niam txiv txij nkawm txaus tu siab heev li os tus hlub aw.. mam mus zoo koj nawb mog. Beautiful song. thank you for shared.

[@ตามาวาตา]

ขอบคุณเพลงๆนี้ที่แทนความรู้สึก ความในใจ ของหลายไปชีวิตฯคู่ ที่ไม่อาจสามารถรักษามันไว้ได้😥💔💔😥😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@kristyplauj]

Everything im going through right now.. lyrics is awesome! They always says "..when you're happy you hear the music when you're sad you'll understand the lyrics.. " very true!! Thanks brother!

[@panhiaxiong7494]

😭😭😭 Even if you have kids together, this song truly cut deep with all relationship. There's always be fights and arguments in every marriage. At the end of the day, it's the both of you willing to stay together even if it means to let them go. Love it! Keep it up!❤

[@dangthao916]

Well said. Thanks,

[@jcvue5810]

Such a beautiful song and message. We as a couple, goes through this struggle and we don't talk about it more in public. We're so scared of others judgment that it end up destroying or making more problems in our relationship. Keep it up Dang, love your songs. Great job to Moon Vang and her husband for making this MV more powerful.

[@dangthao916]

Thanks,

[@sungva1192]

Hoyo je 😪

[@tubher5819]

Or that we don't seek couples counseling.

[@valmalove]

Oh my heart. 💜💔😥Your lyrics is hitting several levels for many marriages. Especially the part about how it felt like we just got married and we are already old like this together. It will take two to resolve any marriage issues but it's that first step that's probably the hardest. Thank you for song ... serving as a purpose and reminder on many levels.

[@dangthao916]

You're welcome and thanks for sharing your thoughts on this song 🎵 🙏

[@PajnyiagVwj0815]

Thank you Dang for such a beautiful song. My ex-husband and I went through this trial which we end up going our separate ways after 23 years. This song can relate to so many couples out there.

[@dangthao916]

You're welcome and thanks for your support!

[@SL-gt2kh]

I can relate Crystal. My wife and I decided to end our 25 years of marriage recently. I know the pain! Good luck my friend.

[@HmongMelody]

You can always count on Dang Thao to toss out great songs like these.

[@-oreo_vibes-5965]

Mob sab heev le os. My life without the obstacle of conceiving. My heart aches. Well done. Love it and it's been on repeat.

[@michaelvang1692]

I’m not crying, someone’s just cutting onions. 😭😭

[@Fwmzoo3891]

😂

[@mandy-yu9wo]

Yog lub neej yooj yim npaum li zaj nkauj no ces twb tsis nyuaj siab sim neej no,thov kom peb hmoob xyhaum li zaj nkauj no xwb,koj hais tau zoo mloog kawg li tus nus, thov qhuas koj lub suab zoo heev

[@กลิกาแสงม้า]

ฟังเพลงนี้แล้วจะร้องไห้ บางทีชีวิตก็ไม่ได้สวยเหมือนที่ฝันไว้😭😭😭😭

[@cupidxiong8032]

Hey dang I think this should be ur new number 1 hit.. this song hits the heart more.

[@loralor8203]

Dang you one of the best Hmong singer..you have such a beautiful and unique voice that you can be recognized right away from a distance..love your songs...

[@dangthao916]

Thank you very much for your compliment!

[@เลาแซ่ม้า-ฌ9พ]

ในวันที่เขาบอกไม่ต้องรอเขาแล้ว ฟังเพลงนี้ทีไรน้ำตาซึม😭😭

[@MaiMai2389-m3q]

This video have so much meaning and it can go both way! For so many years I never try to understand my ex for leaving him and have to hear from people who was around us telling me how hard it was for him and how much he love and miss me. Now I know what it mean to love and miss someone. Thanks for the video is a reminder that life is short we must love those who love us🖤.

[@jessevang853]

Awe. This is the best song this year already!!!

[@KooCheePow]

The husband's eyebrows look better than mine. They're perfect! This is such a good song.

[@mryaj0095]

Jelly

[@KooCheePow]

@@mryaj0095 Totally LOL!

[@hergurl]

Wow, you’re amazing Dang Thao! I cannot wait for the collab with J Vang!

[@dangthao916]

Thank you

[@b4themusicfadesher120]

Wow such a powerful song brother. Never disappointed with your music.

[@pojnom5724]

Here to comment & listen to your version again bc I just listened to ICU version……Your songs are so amazing n your version will always be the best! ❤️

[@dangthao916]

Thank you for love and support!

[@simplygal6744]

Damm another great song. This is story of my life. Not about conceiving , but about understanding and supporting each other .

[@dangthao916]

Thanks,

[@msbleu78]

oh my, this couple is so beautiful together. i know they are married in real life. lucky kids blessed with beauty genes and probably more!!!!

[@onelove5525]

you hit gold on this song ... keep it up . got goosebumps through out the whole song well done ...

[@yee.lee1lee610]

This original and cover by ICU are fire asf!!!! I love both!!!

[@Ilamvang]

Omg I knew I saw Moon and her husband somewhere! Ahhh had me searching for this song! #Memoirsofahauntedhmonggirl

[@ken517]

This dude is legit. Think this sounds good, wait til you see his live performance. Hooked on this guys music, definitely has my support. Oh yea, he doesnt let celebrity status get to him. Met him down in NC a few years ago for a concert, down to earth guy. Go away Covid19, want to see this guy in a concert in WI.

[@dangthao916]

Much appreciated 🙏

[@kristyxiong4140]

This song really hits home for me! Still going through this with my Ex. Not sure if we should continue to love & come back or to just go separate ways. It was so hard for me to let him go because we didn’t think alike anymore. Our struggles were too much to handle & I knew I wasn’t the love of his life. I never was but fought hard to stay as much as I could. To let go is very hard when you’ve been with that person for 15 years. Been through thick & thin & then to let it all go. It’s a struggle but hopefully God has a plan.

[@dangthao916]

Good luck to you both!

[@tubher5819]

Some people grow apart but aren't aware enough to realize that who they are now is not the person they used to be. You have to have enough courage to love the person you've become, so that you can understand how to love the other person better.

[@kavang1247]

Love this song. You are my favorite singer. All your songs are always so touching and with so much emotions. Can’t wait for your next songs.

[@dangthao916]

Thank you!

[@igotsmallpeepe]

There's no way anyone will be able to throw chairs with this song in the background. It's beautifu!!!

[@mlthao1998]

Hu tau zoo kawg nkaus! This song isn't only about being infertile but that missing piece in life and being strong enough to let someone go. Ntau khub namtxiv kuv xaav tas ntsib txuj kev nyuaj sab le nuav. Tsawg tug txhaj sib uv hab fight for each other. Zoo sab hab ua tsaug rua koj zaaj nkauj.

[@dangthao916]

Ua tsaug os!

[@CheViews.20]

Can't wait to sing his song!!! Mloog npaum cas los yeej mob kuv siab 😭

[@carolineyang4169]

Love your voice!! Moon and her husband did great with the acting. That push though 🤣🤣 lmao

[@dangthao916]

Thanks,

[@Malakapeekojyuavthovtuag]

This song is soo ILLEGALLY written and sung... love ur voice and lyrics... beautiful....

[@dangthao916]

Thanks,

[@nkaujhuabyajyaj5486]

Ua niam txiv nyob ces 1 leeg yeej muaj 1 txoj kev zoo li no...nyias muaj nyias txoj kev xav...😢💔

[@YamjwVYT]

No not today. 😭😭😭 on this gloomy snowy white morning this song pops up. Ugghh... Mob siab dhau lawm os. (Sigh)

[@yamamamama6219]

If you give more than your partner and if he/ she can’t see your commitment and still unhappy it’s best to let it go. Some people are blind and takes your kindness for weakness. Love yourself first! Don’t chase them just replace them.

[@chailee2815]

That’s wonderful song and sadness thank you brother ❤️❤️❤️❤️.

[@traywaybby]

Dammmmmnnn!!! This song mob siab dhau! Man you never fail to make good ass music!

[@shawnvang6374]

One of my favorite song. You and me used to be best friend in middle school in Merced. Thank you for this beautiful song.

[@jiratradalee5069]

Listening to this song is like my life. have to let go of the married life go like this song

[@DBEK1000]

Ok funny thing is that I love your songs dang!! But this is my first time i actually watch the music video because of Moon Vang 😂😂😂😂

[@mr_zeus6148]

Feels!!!!Thanks Dang Thao....another great song....

[@txlec99]

finally brother dang, ive been waiting for thjs song since the trailer goodness thank you for sharing with us.

[@pobtsuasxyooj745]

hu tau zoo heev os tij laus dangthao

[@dangthao916]

Ua tsaug os!

[@mss227rose6]

What a beautiful song but full of pain n sadness. Ty for singing it so well.

[@crystalxiong788]

I really love this song.. it brought me to tears!!😭 I LOVE YOUR VOICE DANG!! So deep and soothing!🙌🏼❤️

[@dangthao916]

Thank you very much 😊

[@Farahsadventures]

The problem with our Hmong people is that we value boys more than girls. As evident in the lyrics of this video "ib khaub ntxhais." It doesn't matter if you're a boy or girl, you should hold the same value in your parents' heart.

[@cheetoyang4056]

brother this song took me back to my pain of what i done in my life ... love it

[@dianasaur2612]

Still one of my favorites. The meaning of this song and the lyrics hit even those who haven’t gone through a heartbreak.

[@aminavue5600]

Such a beautiful song. 😭💔😭❤

[@misscid]

I can cry over and over just listening to this song. 😢 💔

[@austinyang7474]

Dang anymore sad songs from you and the Hmong community will go into depression. The lyrics is beautiful bro.

[@dangthao916]

Haha..Thanks!!

[@janvoos]

Brother idk how u do it … you always take the words right out of peoples mouth … you are truly a musician with passion… I’m crying and singing at the same time ❤️❤️❤️

[@dangthao916]

Thank you :)

[@baokoulee867]

Love the song, but the part he fell on the bed got me dying laughing lol😂😂😂 great video.💙💙

[@beesting_yang3883]

HOLYFUCKEN SHIT LMAO 😭😭😭😂😂😂 that fall freaken destroyed me LOL

[@phillipyang5865]

Dang, you are one of the best singers of the 21st century! Love your voice and lyrics for all your songs.

[@dangthao916]

Thank you very much for your support!

[@smileythao]

The lyrics are so deep and touching!! I can feel it in my heart, I love it!! 😭❤️

[@dangthao916]

Thanks,

[@ThanamasLuv]

Wow never realized it was Que and Moon. But love the music.

[@Kongloshaa]

Reading these comments makes me wanna skip to the part where he was pushed. But the song is too good so have to keep listening til then 🤣😅

[@khaistauvajktv9997]

👍👍👍 HU ZOO MLOOG KAWG LI KUV NYIAM HEEV

[@averyworld9005]

You did an excellent job delivering this song Dang. You’ve got such a soulful and unique voice, please don’t ever stop sharing your pleasant and beautiful gift with all of us through your music. This is another great song with sentimental lyrics that everyone can relate to in their own ways. ❤️ I’m a huge fan. Excellent MV and song!

[@dangthao916]

Thank you very much!

[@kaoleexiong9046]

It's Moon and Que ! ❤😍 Great acting and great song !

[@a-vangthao6447]

Omg! If only you wrote this 20 years ago. Till this day, I hope he is happy for letting me, letting go.

[@maneelee8507]

Tij laug kj lub suab zoo heev li o hu tau zaj nkauj tu siab kho siab heev li o nyiam kj thb nyiam kj txoj nkauj nyiam kj lub suab

[@dangthao916]

Ua tsaug os!

[@gxiong3917]

It's just like my life story... 6 years later, It's still the same o' sh*t, but now I have a beautiful 5yr old baby girl that brightens up my day... I don't know how long I can deal with this living Hell, but for my children lives, I'll surely give up my own...

[@dangthao916]

Thanks for sharing your story and glad you found happiness!

[@bobthor963]

Bruh, if you love your child, get out of that toxic relationship. It's never gonna get better and the one you gonna hurt the most is your daughter.

[@MiscutieKhaab]

I always get excited when you come out with a new song! I’ve been putting this song on repeat!

[@dangthao916]

Thank you very much for your support!

[@nachiathao47]

Such a beautiful song with a powerful message. It has been on repeat all day. 👍👍👍

[@dangthao916]

Thanks,

[@cny4609]

Damn.. another one for Dang Thao! Seem like every song you sing turns into gold! Awesome job brother!

[@dangthao916]

Much appreciated 🙏

[@hawtyangbabie]

My husband and I love all your music ❤️❤️ thank you for sharing your gift with all of us ❤️❤️

[@dangthao916]

Thank you very much for your support!

[@merceyvang]

I love this song. It expresses what many people do go through in their hearts.

[@dangthao916]

Thank you!

[@andrewvang2118]

Can't get over this song, when you hit your peaks

[@sophialee1987]

I love every word of this song. It's man's me feel like someone finally understand how i feel

[@dangthao916]

Thanks,

[@maiseevang5475]

It's Moon and her husband love it..

[@laoher4491]

Beautifully sang, Dang...keep those wonderful songs coming💗💗💗 it's definitely true, if they're are not happy ..let them go and wish them well...🙂

[@dangthao916]

Thanks,