VLOGMAS IN NEW YORK DAY 6: relationship struggles, dyson airwrap tutorial, yummy sandwich recipe

[@foxydancer104]

Dani’s vlogmas series is my Super Bowl

[@daniellecarolan]

Omg

[@laurenmacinnis2619]

I related so much to the relationship struggle! My boyfriend works in sales and I work from home so I get it. He always reminds me it's temporary and is benefitting our future. If you're comfortable moving in together I highly highly recommend. It was one of the best decisions we ever made for our relationship and you get those pockets of time together every day which is the best! From one quality time gal to another - you got this and I love that your turned it into a self care night!!

[@luisaalba2592]

Hi Dani! I understand your relationship struggles. My boyfriend and I are currently LDR (For 2 years) and it kills me and gives me so much anxiety when I can't talk to him in a day. I tend to overthink but at the same time understand his tough schedule. He too gets busy and just wants to either sleep or plays video games. I opened up to him about what I was feeling and I am glad he understood me. It's hard but we find ways to call each other despite the the time difference. I hope you are OK Dani. That's life but we will get through it.

[@ohaggie]

Sorry to hear! What’s LDR?

[@luisaalba2592]

@@ohaggie Long Distance Relationship , my boyfriend and I are currently in different countries

[@hayleyjohnson2085]

Girl that used to be me and my bf. He travels for his job, so we stayed on different schedules and making time to see each other overtime becomes really hard. Once we moved into an apartment together things were so much better. Like you said, just the presents of the other person makes a difference even if y’all aren’t really doing anything. You find those little pockets of peace. Now we’re married and we find fun activities to plan when he gets home from a work trip!

[@allyssa3625]

As a newer viewer I was honestly interested to hear you talk about not seeing Ryan as much as you’d like to because as I’ve been watching I’ve been wondering about it! My husband is military so he’s gone a LOT and my love language is quality time so it’s really hard, honestly when he’s gone and i’m alone I kinda crumble (also in a unique situation though because we’re stationed overseas) but I watch you living alone and you seem SO okay on your own and it is honestly really inspiring to me because I wish I could be more like that, but it’s comforting to see that it’s normal to struggle with being apart sometimes too. P.s you’ve inspired me to start focusing way more on self care, especially those nights that i am alone, you’ve started to shift my mindset from “I’m alone, what’s the point?” to “let’s cultivate the vibes” so thanks for reminding me that i matter too 🥰

[@victoriaagibsonn]

you’ve been killing the vlogmas uploads, love you dani!!! 🫶🏻

[@GGGIANA]

I look forward to your vlogmas every day especially working from home, something to watch to breakup the day! Definitely going to miss these once vlogmas is over this year. A lot of us are going through the same struggles, so thank you for keeping it raw and real with us 💕 sending love from TN!!

[@katelynmiller169]

OMG I so relate to your relationship struggles. My BF is currently finishing his doctorate and I have a full-time 9-5, so our schedules tend to not overlap during the week either. What I find really helpful is doing little acts of service for my boyfriend when we can't see each other. I went over to his apartment the other day and did all his laundry because I know he was really stressed about having to do chores and study enough for his finals. Little things like that they will really appreciate when their lives get super hectic. Just know that this time struggle with schedules comes and goes!! All the best

[@dymplez12]

Wow thats amazing tips!, I love that!

[@sierrawheeler6462]

I will say living together does help! My boyfriend does full time sales, army national guard & is now doing his masters. I’m lucky we live together so I get to see him 24/7, but we definitely don’t get much quality time together, even on the weekends. Hang in there ❤

[@sn00gums]

This has become my favorite vlogmas series this year so far. ❤

[@ashlynnrobinson1154]

Thank you for being so real and raw with everything you share. Even though I don’t live in NY I feel like I can relate to you so much. I also love that you share your meals and little details like making lists and putting your kombucha in a wine glass. It’s the little things!

[@cassievolp]

I relate to you a lot! My boyfriend and I are long distance and we have different work schedules and it is hard. When he gets off work I am heading to bed. It is challenging.I do not know when I will see him next. It is hard but it is worth it. Hope you get to have quality time soon!! I agree with you that we need a group!!

[@carlottasilos7662]

i’ve been watching your Vlogmas series every year since you started and it never disappoints!!🤍

[@oliviabedenbaugh1355]

Danielle! Long time viewer, not frequent commenter! I have enjoyed your vlogs in since your high school collared shirt days!! Grateful for your content!!

[@marissa9522]

Dani I relate to your bf working a lot, mine does too and sometimes it hits me more than others. It’s a hard struggle because we want to be supportive but we miss them. Love your realness and vlogmas ❤❤

[@thecuratedhome8595]

I totally feel you on the relationship…my husband works on a tugboat and is gone two weeks home two weeks so he misses a lot of things and it’s so hard! But it’s worth it for the right person, hang in there 🥰

[@dkdc451]

you can mix the oregano/salt/pepper in the vinegar before you add to the oil in the bottle -- really you could mix it all in the measuring cup you before you pour into the bottle

[@daniellecarolan]

Omg duhhhh good idea thank you

[@dkdc451]

@@daniellecarolan I’m sorry. I’m addicted to helping anyone I see struggling… you would have eventually figured it out

[@bergen-schmidt]

BIG YES TO THE SUPPORT GROUP!!! Haha!My boyfriend and I are long distance (almost done yay!) and he works long hours for a large investment firm and it can be tough! Being supportive while still wanting quality time can be SO anxiety inducing but keep pushing through. You got this girl and all of us girlies going through the same thing are here for you ❤❤❤

[@sabrinahance2135]

look at all these relatable comments, love to see it xo

[@emilyrosdahl]

i’m OBSESSED with ithaca hummus. the lemon garlic is soooooo good & the lemon beet

[@laurazdiaries]

cryinggg at that part when you conveniently get a comb and then start using it to fix the morning bed head 😭🤣❤

[@brionnamerritt]

Your Vlogmas videos get better and better each year ✨🤍

[@kbdancer1218]

I use red wine vinegar a lot for making homemade salad dressings, as well as a lot of stir fry recipes can call for red wine vinegar in the sauce! Just some ideas for using up your bottle :)

[@daniellecarolan]

Omg yum thank u

[@madisonleigh1077]

Relate relate relate to the relationship struggles. Work sometimes throws a big wrench in quality time

[@norahjones8872]

your videos hit every time lol. thanks for being real with us, danielle

[@huntyrholloran7851]

im sure youve linked a hundred times but will u pleeeease let me know where your necklaces are from? youre my favorite vlogmas to watch this year!! xx

[@NoelPendergrass]

I’m a new subbie, YT recommended you this year & I’ve been hooked ever since. Your Vlogmas is great ❤

[@tamarbitran5247]

I literally look forward to ur vlogmas every single day I love these vids!!

[@Laurensthoughts12]

I watch all your videos and never comment but I’ve been relating to you so much even though I’m about a decade older than you 😅😂 I also have health anxiety and have been getting sinus headaches it sucks! And can relate to having a partner who works a lot my husband has a different schedule so he’s at work or sleeping a lot while I work from home. It can be lonely but it’s definitely better when you live together and can hang out more on off work days ❤

[@violettamarquez909]

I totally get it ! My boyfriend is an electrician and in the military so he is never home ! But it's nice since we do live together 💕 it's hard when people say it gets better but you and Ryan got this and it will only make you two stronger ❤️ My bf and I have been together for 9 years now and stronger than ever having time apart and now living together.

[@samanthabissell22]

I'm among the other subscribers that also understand your relationship struggle as it's a rocky road fabulous video

[@carolinekam6513]

Can you link your floor lamp in the living room and your diffuser ?!? Loooove the vlogs

[@chrisoulalakkas7935]

Never give up on yourself.

[@jordannpeek122]

idk what it is but this apartment has so much more Dani vibes

[@brittanygee1]

I use red wine vinegar in my cowboy caviar! 😊

[@oliviapumford]

I legit look forward to this notification every morningggggg

[@marleel7057]

You can make a lot of yummy salad dressings with red wine vinegar!

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Hi Danielle happy vlogmas day and happy Wednesday afternoon and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter

[@amybuccanero6670]

My husband works for an investment firm and this year has been especially tough since the market is so crazy. It gets better Dani! He and I have been together for ten years and some seasons are harder than others. I totally agree there needs to be a support group for girlfriends of finance/investment boyfriends 😂

[@jordynmarie972]

Love you!! We’re always here for you ❤️

[@Bebecakes2025]

Dani your Vlogmas is awesome! You are killing it girl ❤❤❤

[@zaracolley]

firefly lane is based off a book, you should add it to your list!! so so good. loving the vlogs

[@jessicamascheri4115]

Do you have a link for the Tarte lip gloss?! I've been *influenced*

[@mariapinto3042]

Good morning 😊 Going to. Union square next week. Love to know what you find.

[@biancabeton]

Hi Danielle! You should try going over to his place and do your work in the same space as him and make him a meal! My boyfriend did this for me a lot when I was in my masters. It made me feel less guilty about not having time and still allows you to have quality time. 😊

[@olga7193]

Missed u Danielle!!!!😢❤❤❤

[@hannahcrouch22]

Next apartment: the bf and the gf move in together!!!! Can’t wait for that era

[@alexagiec1743]

dani I've seen the ithaca lemon hummus at whole foods all over the city. check there!!

[@averygaming8707]

Trying this sandwich recipes today! Thanks Danielle

[@maggie455]

I feel like you’ve mastered the Dyson airwrap look

[@AnnaleeMatilda]

Your little talk about your relationship I felt that you’re not alone my bf is in sales and we do live together but only get to spend maybe an hr together every night because he works so late

[@joycekerrx]

your vlogs are my favorite start to the day🤍

[@theyallknowjojo]

the flannel is nice !

[@billiehicks6587]

Enjoyed you as always and sad when your Vlog ends…

[@nancylynndelahiguera]

Publix is the best grocery store as a Floridian we love our Publix

[@sarahmajors18]

LOVE YOU DANI! LOVING YOUR VLOGMAS!❤️❤️

[@mariaarguello9602]

LOL watching this as my finance bf is working tonight as well

[@maggiec4195]

Danielle you should just squeeze a lemon into the hummus!

[@lucyanne-marie3719]

Look forward to these videos everyday

[@carynmcgrenra5967]

What kind of toaster do you have?

[@billiehicks6587]

Happy Vlogmas. May I ask where you got your metal funnels from?

[@lydiamorrison2436]

I hope you shared this recipe with your dad ❤😊

[@jesusm2159]

Happy Wednesday

[@jessica13xo]

Ah you went to the madewell store that's right next to my work!

[@haley2058]

Where is your bed frame from?!

[@jillian.jm09]

I live with my bf and I’m still in school so even sometimes still I feel like there isn’t enough time in the day to spend quality time 😢

[@jancarlson2165]

Love these!!!! 🎄🎅⛄🦌🕯️

[@ameliadennis7824]

LOVE YOU! you're so awesome!

[@singingluver01]

Got here pretty early today 💖💖

[@katherynnatalie3388]

here for the finance bro girlfriend support group! My bf works till 9 sometimes & while I’m so happy for him I’m just like :( I want to hangout w him

[@maddiet5670]

As someone that works at Madewell, their mens flannels are literally the best!

[@lucin2586]

Does Ryan watch your vlogs? Love the stuff you got him!

[@graceperkins4080]

Babes laneige tests on beagles 😭

[@katherineeike1108]

Laneige heavily tests on animals for their products just fyi :(

[@shelbifavre]

I read that recently! It’s sucks cause they claim they don’t! Definitely not using them in the future

[@emmajackson568]

Guarantee you use animal products on the daily

[@shelbifavre]

@@emmajackson568 first, you don’t know that, do you? Second, does that make animal testing ok?

[@TTLYTEALA]

I love u

[@madisontackaberry6743]

Can you enter the giveaway if from Canada???

[@pamelacooper1122]

Great vlog. Ya it gets hard to see you bf when the work alot been there done that. I hope you have a nice evening.❄️☃️🌲🗽

[@sev7047]

hey dani! my boyfriend is also in investment banking/finance for a large firm based in chicago and we’re long distance. it’s hard. really, really hard but the time together becomes more meaningful and special :) wishing you love

[@itsmeku]

Do you like straight hair or curly hair?😅🤔⭐

[@nataliebardach5503]

u should read the book that firefly lane is based on!! the author is Kristin Hannah, she's so great :)

[@LindsayMelrose]

PUBLIX has the bessssssst SUBS!!!!! IYKYK

[@gracehickey7906]

Does anyone else feel like the Summer Friday’s lip balm makes their lips look bigger?

[@LivingBrightly]

Hello happy Vlogmas

[@xtinnnnnne]

Ugh. Feel you on the bf working a lot. My husband has been working 60 hour weeks and it just sucks! I feel bad for him too. Just hanging there and things will get better 🤎🤎

[@katiekorenek]

Hiiii I work for a financial advising firm and I can tell you, fourth quarter is DEMANDING and TOUGH. I’m sorry & it does suck because during this time it’s the holiday season but also the industry is demanding to push deals through!

[@billiejoe8304]

Just use a cleaning rag for your counter , it cant be that hard.

[@alexandrat9935]

Up close and personal

[@kathreilly7050]

💜🇬🇧🎄

[@alyssaLeahh]

Get him some tecovas boots

[@mzenlighten]

Broccoli, rice and beans cooked without any seasoning? That has to taste bland.

[@JuliaBella]

yea no seriously can we hv a finance bf support group made 😂

[@flowerlove6966]

It’s sad that you barley make sandwiches often because you don’t think they’re good for you etc

[@alin.6514]

I rest feel like you would look great brunette!!!

[@fashiongurlable1]

Laneige animal tests

[@dreamsequence101]

Throwing an ingredient onto a cauliflower thin isn't a recipe lol.

[@alexventura9362]

@@koalabear07100 okay and your bothered because??? dont watch her videos if youre going to be bothered. let the girl have a sanwich

[@YadavGayen-q9y]

Imcofesopehiermamkrige

[@amysoto5029]

Oh my gosh I’m actually first 💀🤣❤️ Lol jk

[@jaidentweed8528]

I AM LOVING EVERYTHING!!🤍 but just a heads up…laneige tests on animals 😭 spreading awareness