Dating African VS African American Women( Who do you prefer?)ft Denis Duke

[@ValueFarmUG]

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[@goldenheart751]

I love this brother. He appreciates us. I am African American and I love a good strong minded African man. African women are also very valuable 😀

[@edithbell8955]

Ok

[@rayforray24]

That man, has not clearly dated an African American woman before!!!!! I have dated both and he is completely wrong about African American women!!!!

[@franklinscarlett9698]

LOL. To @rayforray24........been married twice. I married a blackwoman from America together for 7yrs and married a woman from Nigeria we together for 3yrs and currently married to a woman from Ghana whom a paid a dowry for and getting ready to marry her friend a year from now. So i know what i am talking about........i am black american man and have NO DESIRE to be with a black american woman. ZERO........you want to NO PROBLEM..........look you give me some African food and some African women at the same time......a bro like me going to want some dessert. LOL.............i got 2 looking for more.......you dont want African women. NO PROBLEM.....send me names and numbers and the rest is history.........you dont want the chocolate ice cream pass it to me..................they want a real man come contact me.............not into black american women.......

[@AdilmalakKoul]

@@rayforray24 He taking his experience from movies

[@Ismail-ie5gi]

As a Black American man, I find myself dating a lot of African women. My college sweetheart was from Sierra Leone. I’ve dated S.African (Zulu) , Sudanese, Ethiopian, and now Malian. The romance he’s speaking of, I get from African women and not African American women so much so I think it’s unique to the individual. There’s always a trade off. Some good and bad.

[@Flourish_today]

I love how the ladies are respectfully engaging and laughing and enjoying themselves without taking this personal.

[@africaine4889]

Because they are confident

[@mathematical_theology]

After watching the entire conversation I’ll add my perspective. Generally speaking, the women from your own culture are better on paper but that doesn’t take into account compatibility and whether or not you have competing desires. Each individual situation is unique. It doesn’t necessarily matter where she is from, it’s where she is at (mentally, psychologically). By competing desires I mean you could want a stay at home mom but she wants to work outside the home. So just find someone who is willing to be congruent to how you see your life/lifestyle. That isn’t germane to a particular land mass. Each have their own unique things that the other doesn’t have due to culture but the environment you set up as a man has to foster an environment for learning. You show someone how you want to be treated/cared for. This can be taught like anything else. As far as the finances, I don’t mind paying for everything down to the maintenance of a woman because she is a direct reflection of myself and my care. But, in order to earn that privilege, she must be willing to follow the program I set up for my home. She doesn’t have to necessarily have “money”, but something like connections and/or comes from a good family to where we can do good business is always a plus. Intangible things that can be invaluable for the long term interest of your family unit. Peace!

[@blackgod4u2c]

Very well spoken 👍

[@kfelix2934]

Very good assessment. I was married to a African lady and she was okay but our ideals clashed in many areas. She was smart and caring which where very good positives, but in other areas she was not mature and our two ideals of running a home, child raising & management of union, we where not on the same page. She was very immature in the area as far as what a American male is expecting in a partnership. Most of that is due the ladies from her country have this same small mind ideal of being pamper thru out their lives. FWIW, My failure in that marriage is not going to prevent me from dating or marrying another African woman. I just picked the wrong one to marry. I think culture difference is party of a issue you have to review and being willing to accept.

[@blackgod4u2c]

@@kfelix2934 well said and my situation was nearly the same but I was married to a Jamaican woman while living in Jamaica and people would be surprised how much having a different culture will have a effect on a relationship.

[@africaine4889]

@@kfelix2934 well this is a cultural thing that will u will find throughout Africa. We grew seeing our fathers taking care of everything in the household. It's always been like that. So most expect the same from their husbands. African men in the continent were thought to provide and care about their woman and children

[@kfelix2934]

@@africaine4889 When you say cultural thing your painting a broad brush. I have other relatives & friends who are married now that I think about it are African males from Nigerias ( their wives are black -americans ) and it's very different outcome. The learn to assimilate to our American ways of lives , methods and yet still take care and are head of the family.

[@HERRUTUTT]

AFRICAN WOMEN FROM THE CONTINENT ARE IN MY OPINION 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥THE BEST

[@SmartBrandon72]

💯% HANDS DOWN👌🏾🔥🔥🔥

[@mkc9737]

Please have this guy back as I really enjoyed his candor and perspective. And I was especially please with how you allowed him to speak without any interuption. You guys are doing a great job keep it up.

[@kvirgo5207]

First & foremost.. I’m an African American woman.. I really don’t even like the fact that us black people are always comparing & contrasting! Bottom line we are raised COMPLETELY different but that’s not to say one is better or worse than the other. All black women hold it down in the home & that’s a FACT! The difference is the family upbringing many of us American women might understand money because we have been dealing with our American men not being present so we gotta make things shake. Regardless, put an African woman in America w/NO man she will be independent. That’s just us women & we do what we have to do!

[@Divineluv143]

I love this episode 😍 ❤ I am a African-American women and I actually have a Turkish husband. I was taught to treat my man like a king, take care of the household, be independent and financially successful. My husband was shocked when we were first dating because not only did he get a woman that can cook, clean and take care of the family but he also got a woman that can hold things down financially. I love making sure my husband comes home from work to a clean house and a nice home cooked meal. And watching this video makes me smile because I can honestly say that I hold the beautiful standards of both the African woman and a African-American woman 🥰

[@miss_pearl]

So apart from working to meet you halfway with the finances, what else does your husband brings as value to the home? It can't be finances as you have already stated you are also financially independent.

[@stevenwilliams3015]

Leave her alone. She enjoys her contributions to her home and that's totally fine. It's people like you that destroys a peaceful and understand home with comments like this. What's your business with the contribution of her husband?

[@shawndrawoods]

I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation.... very interesting... I know that AA women and Africans are both beautiful and can offer good values to any relationship. It just depends on you and what you need out of it.

[@SecretMediaTV]

Thanks you for hosting me🙏🙏🙏 Always Glad...

[@elijahpeace5133]

Not all black women in America, treat men well . But he is telling the truth Duke. My brother is breaking it down well. But when I come to Uganda 🇺🇬 I will find me a beautiful Uganda lady after I visit and invest. And make a home there

[@SecretMediaTV]

Thanks...

[@allfactz7117]

Black love you are right but when you have a woman always asking for money,credit,Uber fare and everything like you are already married that gets old very fast.

[@elijahpeace5133]

@@allfactz7117 oh no my brother I understand and I agree with you

[@blackgod4u2c]

Simping will always encourage non productive behavior.

[@elijahpeace5133]

@@blackgod4u2c wow 😮 I hope I was not simping

[@larikavanduren6716]

I’m African-American woman and I love my African men! Everything this brother has said is TRUE when it comes to African American women vs African women

[@ValueFarmUG]

Wow. Thanks for your contribution. Be blessed 🙏

[@larikavanduren6716]

@@ValueFarmUG you too God bless!

[@keitasalif4818]

We love ya too I'm african man but i like african American woman that's my choice

[@anthonybajee4824]

NO PREFERENCE, all women are the same, depending on their mindset, black american are more independent however, because of the financial ability

[@michelemobley6749]

This is an interesting conversation. I'm AA and I'm moving to africa in about 2 years. So I don't date American men anymore..AA men don't really leave america and I'm determined to live in the continent. I think it is a difference. As American you are taught to be independent. Buy your own home..cars..go on your own girls vacations. I went to Nigeria last year alone...im divorced 12 years ..but married I paid for my own maintenance ( hair ..nails..clothes etc). I'm getting to know an African man now and I know going in African men are different. I was engaged to an African man for a year so I know that African men are raised to be the boss..but AA women are raised to be independent and bold. .but on a funny note. I wondered why my new friend asked if I drive..and I said of course..he got so excited lol. I do think with compromise it can work

[@keitasalif4818]

We african men we love you african American woman I'm single i wish To marry an african American woman

[@geraldmvela7266]

This thing of American and African women,..me personally I will choose the one I luv , AA or African to me is the same.

[@geraldmvela7266]

Hola @me

[@stevenwilliams3015]

​@Targeted Indvidual Empire Planet It's your experience

[@mrdblack313]

Dude kept it real AF!

[@nubianpwr]

yes he did - LMAO

[@blackgod4u2c]

African American and Africans on the continent are different people no matter what but there can still be a union if the people are equally yoked. It can't be a situation where one person is looking to better themselves from the person they are with. It's not a man or woman responsibility to take care of another grown person. In a culture that has a lot of poverty, it's always people looking for a meal ticket. As we have seen from a recent event of a American youtuber being in a domestic dispute with his African queen. I'm American and I've dated African women and African American women and as for me , it's always better dating someone that has the same values,education , spirituality and finances that you have so that person won't look at you as being a walking ATM.

[@KrimsonKannon1969]

Well said @MR. Truth

[@shawndrawoods]

Yessss

[@shar1202]

It is the man responsibility to care of the women. I guess thats where AA men are different.

[@blackgod4u2c]

@@shar1202 if you compare African men on the Continent vs African American men you will see that over all the AA men take better care of our women compared to other races of men. We just get a bad image because of social media and the laws in the States benefits women and not men. The families living in poverty on the continent shows that the so called men not doing what they need to do to support their families. I'm not concerned what other men do but for any woman to be with me she has to be worthy. Only simps look forward to taking care of a woman then in the end they get burned.

[@shar1202]

@@blackgod4u2c As an AA women I have to totally disagree. BM want BW to come to the table and help him. BM have no resources they dont build nor provide. If you look at the AA community it is upheld by BW. And BW raise the children by the way. African are known for being providers. I never heard of an African man being taken care of by there women. They also build communities. Black men pit most of there money into themselves. But them being providers... that is very few men. AA dont establish families. They want to create children without being responsible 4 them.

[@sharifahmbazike1]

Women also need men who can build , mentor , inspire and most importantly support their dreams however small they seem to appear. But some men too neglect the fact that a woman can be independent when well groomed. Some have financial background. Yiiii mukama omwana wo'munaku alabyeee

[@blackgod4u2c]

What you said is a 💯 because I grew up in a middle class American family and we was raised to marry someone that's equally yoked and to be a asset instead of a liability. If someone's goes to a place where they teach a person to be dependant on someone else and not be a helpmate , that environment will be full of poverty with no growth. A man will do his responsibilities if the woman does hers. Keep playing with a playbook from a losing team you will continue to lose.

[@krystingrant6292]

Prefabricated over here ☝🏿

[@mrstevens70]

I'm an African American man, and I would take the woman that knows what a good man is and WANTS(submits) to be with a good man. I feel more African women have this characteristic than African American women. More African American women overlook good average African American men to either chase unicorns(high value men/out of their league) or are hooking up with the Pookies and Ray-Rays.

[@Art_Travel_and_Hobbys]

I like the African women vibe... So, I talk to most African women these days

[@doreenonekalit9888]

Great insight from this conversation. Dennis Duke is the man👍👍😄🇺🇬♥️

[@nubianpwr]

Appreciate this brother's honesty... he made good points I never thought of. The grass always looks greener. I'm African American, and the African woman is very appealing to me. But his points are fair👍🏾

[@EatingTheAfricanWay]

I don't mind about someone -African or American...what i would consider...is...will this person love me as i am....understand my situation...be patient with me....will we have a happy future together...

[@RealStellaStella]

Hahaha 😂. I subscribed because of this video. I liked the conversation and see what Denis means. I'm a Ugandan woman that was raised in USA. I was shocked and asking what do Ugandan women in Uganda bring to the table when I saw the video of Ugandan women say the men they are dating or in a relationship with have to pay for transport, utility bills, rent, hair care, manicure, clothes because that's not how I roll when dating a man or in a relationship with a man. I like being financially independent and I hate being helpless/useless. Bring something to the table ladies bring something to the table in your relationships.

[@blackgod4u2c]

That's true because as a father you should want all of your children to be a asset and not a liability. I'm former USA military and I traveled and lived on 5 continents and one thing in common is that people with a poverty mindset mostly all teaches their daughters to go out and look for a man to take care of them and be totally dependant on that man. That's a backward way of thinking and they will remain in poverty and do without teaching those bad mindset. I hope that young ladies really start to look at how they was raised and realize that if they or brought up in poverty they have to change the way they think and move.

[@SecretMediaTV]

Hahahahaha Wooow

[@lemondrizzle5658]

Maybe they can if they have, you have to know most of our girls don’t have jobs, no money to bring to the table. But if a man wanted to date her what do you suggest she should do. Say no, I don’t have any money. Your lucky you have traveled and am sure you made some money, but most girls are poor. Even our culture is a man looks after the woman.

[@blackgod4u2c]

@@lemondrizzle5658 they should work on themselves first so they can become a person of value to a man that's actually looking for a possible wife. We all have the same amount of time in a day to accomplish what we want. People that's always looking for the fast track to what they believe will make them happy will most likely end up never reaching their goals. A man and woman must write their own narrative to their story instead of letting others do it for them. Sorry to say but if a person comes from poverty and is in a poverty environment , I would get rid of that culture/ customs and follow one that's actually productive. A person can't keep doing the same old things and expect change.

[@blackgod4u2c]

@@lemondrizzle5658 and lastly to say the least, Africa isn't a poor continent, The majority of people have a poor mindsets and they give their entire trust to leadership that has failed them. Africa has to many resources that you'll Chiefs,elders , politicians have given to the highest bidders without sharing it with the communities.

[@danielaragaw3828]

My African women is my choise

[@africaine4889]

So his views about African American women come from movies lol. I thought he had a relationship with one

[@rayforray24]

100% agreed 👍... He has no clue about what he is talking about lol 😆 😂 🤣 😅 😄

[@trippinwithturk3016]

Brother Denis Duke is speaking the truth. Women if you want a man who is financial stable and business minded. Pay close attention to what he is saying.

[@edithbell8955]

Yes we put it down my man is from Nigeria I love him he is my king 👑

[@ackshonlife]

Great insight from an African man perspective.

[@Bmore201]

Funny listening to this guy, I'm African American and what he is saying is partly true but ca also be a curse in a relationship, in terms of independence. In America both must work

[@allfactz7117]

Facts! And on the continent of Africa there's no welfare or any other programs to help at all and the majority of the young ladies or always looking for a donor. That's why the foreigners come here and use money to get what they want from them., Well at least the ones with no class and the bad thing about it is their families will tell them to eat the money because poverty has turned their stomachs.

[@Glamyougirl17]

No I’m American and I will not work with a husband. If the man makes enough he should but require his wife to work.

[@miss_pearl]

@@allfactz7117 That's not even true. Different African countries have different governments with different structures. Please don't generalize, here in in SA we have welfare, we have a lot of structures that support us so rather name the country, don't say in Africa.

[@allfactz7117]

@@miss_pearl the Native South Africans not controlling South Africa but it's the foreigners that's controlling SF. Yes the SF might benefit from the infrastructure but non Africans or controlling the economy. Now prove me wrong?May 31 1961 is when South Africa got it's name. Black South Africans just fully got the right to vote in a full election in 1994.

[@miss_pearl]

@@allfactz7117 Listen, not only SA has these structures in place. I have lived in Swaziland too, and I can tell you the government has a lot of structures in place to help the citizens, sadly most people don't use them. There is money readily available to help a nobody start a business and it's easy to get, there's NDMA that gives poor families money monthly, though you will never find these advertised everywhere. Now back to SA, last time I checked there was more blacks in power, and the BEE was put in place for what? Stop assuming, do research and travel more. I hope I don't sound aggressive coz I am not, just having a conversation. Go and do research about the Black Empowerment Enterprise. If you hear South Africans complain about corruption and embezzlement of funds, you think it's the whites doing that? It's the people who have access to those funds, and trust me, they are not white. You don't know much about SA, you see a lot of white people around and automatically asse they control AL the economy, typical of a black person to think white men is the one who can control the economy.

[@marvl6472]

Interesting interview..what he said about Black American women is what many foreign man say about African women..must share this and see how some black American brothas and African sistas feel about this.. also, speaking on finances, independence. Are there programs in Africa particular Uganda where women get help support for being single parents??

[@briann5001]

This brother wants a African American Women who hustles lol. My African Brother, you are the hustle, we in America as Men don’t need an “independent women” … we make the money 💪🏾.. we just need a women to love God, be kind, be feminine, be a good mother so that we can create a Empire.

[@stevenworld3364]

African American Woman without a doubt.

[@focus9489]

I agree totally with the brother.

[@1969concetta]

I so love this discussion but there's a flip side to my story I am American and married an African man and I depended on him for finances in the home and did not contribute as I should have because my mindset was that he met three times more than me and to this day we are separated.

[@mathematical_theology]

Ok, I see y’all with the new intro. All fancy 🤓🙃

[@ValueFarmUG]

Thank you but that's actually our old intro.

[@yafavlilcuzin3197]

As an American man I need my woman to meet me half way with work and bills and I meet her half way with house and children.... An entitled woman that doesn't bring anything to the table is very unattractive and unacceptable

[@blackgod4u2c]

Yes! Have to make the ones that think they can receive and not give step up to the plate.

[@yafavlilcuzin3197]

@@blackgod4u2c u are right about that on both ends men and women...being on an equal plan on both ends well make any relationship a successful one

[@yafavlilcuzin3197]

@vicent sykes different cultures... Africans still be married but the man live in Canada and the wife can go back to her family many miles away...basically "divorced" just not on paper. Divorce is a bigger business in America because both sides are making money and lawyers play on that for the benefit of business... I work with 3 African women who are still married but don't live with their husbands...its easier in their culture to send the woman back to her family than to go through court like in America

[@maryamadahir1199]

@@yafavlilcuzin3197 Thank God our African men don't like a woman sharing with them bills. They take pride in paying for everything and we respect how hard worker they are. Sharing bills is a white man's culture and we have nothing to do that.

[@milibibi2152]

@@maryamadahir1199 😂😂😂 so true women don't pay bills

[@MkA402]

Black women are beautiful period, no matter what culture they come from. For me it really depends on the qualities you re looking for in a woman and if you both have chemistry and respect for each other. I am a Ugandan born man, who has lived more than half his life in North America, and so for me I have been fortunate enough to date both cultures and at the end of the day it was all about the character rather than where they were from; each had good and bad. I’ll leave it at that.

[@blackgod4u2c]

This brother spoke nothing but the truth. I hope you'll ladies taking in what he's saying become it's long past time for the women to help her man and not be a burden. You can get to your destination faster when two people or working together.

[@DenisDukeUG]

Thanks Brother...

[@blackgod4u2c]

@@DenisDukeUG thank you because more women need to here this. Men we get tired of all the begging lol.

[@DenisDukeUG]

@Nash Musta welcome brother

[@GatherNowNetwork]

I am looking for a driving woman,is either tinah or betty driving?so that I can come for one

[@pebsa31]

I will say this is true about African American women. We can work in high school and I had my first part-time job at 15, my driving permit at 15, my license at 16, and never stopped working since. We are expected to work and I would never want to let anyone feel like they were taking care of me. That's just our culture, right or wrong. Even my husband, I don't want him to think he's got to bear the burden of our upkeep or that he has more say in the decision-making. The old adage is true; " I pay the cost to be the boss". Since we both pay, there is no boss, and I'd like it that way!

[@marvl6472]

That last statement 👏🏾👏🏾

[@LostToAdventure]

Love from Kenyaaaaaa.....I enjoyed this talk....😊😊😊

[@ValueFarmUG]

We love you more! Thank you so much for passing by.

[@jayglock6099]

He's talking facts tho I have dated both we like women who help out

[@annieschmannie8962]

The only difference is basically the cultural aspect. There’s a lot of things african women in general that have carried over and that is their strong matriarchal values. Black women know how to work and handle business. Each woman is valuable in their own right.

[@Bmore201]

Brother going hard though

[@shahross8366]

I am only interested in African women at this point in my life. Rwandan women in particular.

[@lifeandhigherself6559]

I am new to your channel love you ladies

[@lemondrizzle5658]

Why are you agreeing with him girls. He doesn’t know what he’s talking. All women all over the world are the same, they all looking for a man who can provide . He doesn’t know what he’s talking a bout. What does he know about an Africa America women ?? Nothing. African women are more Respectful hands down.

[@lifewithmelody8462]

Facts.... Mans r provider, woman's d home maker n nurturer

[@kiiza2886]

ahhaha he has never dated one he will not understand. those even slap you hahaha they are so arrogant

[@kaiiir9312]

@@kiiza2886 "those", not you trying to put african americans down lmaoo

[@kaiiir9312]

yeah no, aa women in america are mostly looking for a man that loves them and brings as much as they bring to the table. half-half. you said "all" as if you know, definitely a culture difference. these are two different cultures...i wasn't taught to bow down to a man and wasn't taught to sit at home and watch kids while he works. respectful as in what? bowing down? lmaooo we're taught to be more independent with or without a man.

[@Emma256Fitness]

I’m getting a driving woman 😂 soon

[@EgunBiyi.OrisaYege]

😆😂😅

[@solelyreviewsbytishastarr1394]

😂😂😂

[@rcbisesi]

Over the past 9-10 years I have dated 3 African American women for at least 18-20 months each. I have met a woman from S. Africa online and she is coming to the US in the next month. My experience dating African American women is very different from what Mr. Dukes experience is and that is because AA women have been raised in the AA culture in the US which is one where AA are raised in a culture that perpetuates victimology, the belief that racism is systemic, and the level of racism is the same now as it has been in the past, that nothing has changed... which is not true. One only has to look at the history of the black experience in the US over the past 60 years to see the enormous progress that has been made in opportunity and race relations in the US. I am hopeful that my S African woman will not have those same false beliefs because she was not raised in the AA culture of victimology and persistent systemic racism in the US....

[@eianwilliams7238]

Good discussion, however this young man needs a lot more exposure. I'll like for him to check the percentage of how many african american woman dating in any measure city. Then find the reason behind the numbers

[@jeffreyandrews9614]

I would love to date an Western African Woman!

[@jeffreyandrews9614]

Oh? I'm an American, of Western African descent

[@FelixMaterial]

African women will be more down to earth. I will go to African Women. To be honest typical American women don’t worth marry but there are few that are different.

[@juliusmcbean1611]

I never dated an African woman. Probably only if I visit. Very interesting topic

[@jay1prauve1998]

I would choose an African woman.

[@jeffreyandrews]

The way things have been going? I'd like to try and meet an African women

[@bazirabetty2101]

not all African American women put something on table some also depend on child support and never work its not only us African women. I myself have seen African babes who bring 80% on table

[@kaiiir9312]

child support because the aa man has issues and the child is left with the mother, then she is doing 100 percent of the work sooooo... i don't know why they're comparing us with y'all anyways. this is just a culture difference from African culture and American culture, nothing to do with us being African American lmao

[@africaine4889]

Lol I am African. A women that brings 80% on the table is rare. A true African man will not like that at all.

[@fonkythumbs]

I am an African American man and let me tell you that independence that you say you love in African American women, it comes with a cost. But I do love all the women of the African Diaspora.

[@vladicopter]

From my limited exp, my view/expectation AA women are spoilt.and A women better quality and hard working...but i could be totally absolutely wrong. And still would consider both for dating

[@Anonanon45]

This is a completely ridiculous topic. First off, you can’t generalize all African women as there are 54 countries involved, so this is already problematic. Second, the same things he is praising black American women for are the things black American men complain about. Third, American women are more independent in general because of more education and higher income capacity, so even African women in America are also very independent. The equal financial aspect is an American thing in general. Finally, men always like what is different because they like variety. It’s like when black American men say they prefer Latinas because they are more “spicy”, when the same behavior in a black American woman is considered a bad attitude. If anything this should be titled Ugandan women vs. American woman. This is not a fair assessment of African women v. African American women, because this is an assessment you can’t actually make as not all African women are the same. And for further perspective, most intercultural relationships are unsuccessful. Almost all the African/African American couples I know of are are divorced or did not last and the vast majority of them were between African men and African American women. I do know two couples that are wonderful, but again they are in the minority.

[@johnmcnally6681]

African women are more loving and humble . African American women in my view are too sophisticated , complicated and too impatient.

[@kaiiir9312]

mmm you mean too independent...

[@deondimicks8159]

As a black american man I love my woman i love the good bad and the ugly they are mine

[@1johnnygunn]

I'm sure there's individuality present in all women, yet generally if in light of family values or culture my choice would be an African woman all day long.

[@dexteryoung907]

He's on point wow! Facts....

[@Rose-ql7lc]

GUYS THIS MAN IS MARRIED TO AN AFRICAN WOMAN, NOT AN AMERICAN WOMAN.

[@AmitoMitra]

A driving woman banange nga tulabye

[@Muchwezi-XII]

Omwavu wakufa 🤣

[@kiiza2886]

hahaha kubanga yakurira mukyaro so he didnot growing up seeing 17years old girls driving

[@BlueBookMen1000]

You would have to be out of your freakin mind to pick an African American woman over an African woman. I'm sorry but I have to be truthful. The only reason I think an African man would date a black American woman is for financial reasons.

[@BlueBookMen1000]

@V Ayodele Yes exactly and I am so happy with my choice, 8 years going strong with my smart kids. life is good.

[@KimFert]

Yes he's obviously delusional and I'm sure the experience he has with AA women are from the TV.

[@BlueBookMen1000]

@@KimFert Nope you are wrong. 20 years straight of bad experiences in the US. 8 years straight of nothing but good experiences in Africa. I never have seen two situations so extreme.

[@Carol0110]

Kyoka Duke Kati abatevuga tuli bakufa

[@lifeandhigherself6559]

I agree with what he is saying. I often hear African men love African American women because of our independence and we are not so hung up on a man having a lot of money in the beginning it looked as though these women were a little bit jealous or kind of feeling some type of way but I think you all are very beautiful I think African women are very subtle and you have more tack in humbleness for the most part but the reason why African American women are so bold is because we are independent and we get out there in the world way sooner than African girls do so we know what we want when we want it and how we want it so you need to take the boldness or you take the reserved woman

[@kaiiir9312]

right, all the African women in the comments are really trying to compare us like they know us. I have nothing against them but yet they are spreading false info and half of the story, I could honestly careless about what a man thinks and I guess that's where we differ lmao

[@almasmith2733]

So many african americans are not married!!! So what are the African women doing right. This gentleman needs more experience.

[@lifeandhigherself6559]

@@almasmith2733 well the one thing that they may be doing is settling secondly you have to understand African American women mostly prefer black men but there's just not that many available in the US there are more black men in Africa and at the disposal of African women but you know what bottom line is let's stop comparing ourselves to each other the division between African-Americans and Africans needs to be over we have to do our own agenda and not worth the west and the European one because they fear black Unity

[@baboucarrjitehbojang881]

You know , this media Guy just saw how AA Women acts in a movie, don"t he know those movies are arranged in anyway possible? He should try them in Reality and a cultural shock will blow his face off. Thanks.

[@kevinsakwa6665]

Who kneels for their husband nowadays? Which country in Africa? I lived in Kenya and I haven't found that woman that kneels for you those days are gone if they used to be there.....

[@py20]

A woman managing the home and taking care of your children is "NOTHING"? That's ignorant and insulting! On balance, the African women I know do more to hold the family together than the men, and I'm a man. Which African women is this guy talking about? Maybe Ugandan women but definitely not the African women I know.

[@miss_pearl]

I also felt like he was talking about Ugandan women, yet he was generalizing and saying African women, bcz I cannot relate with any of the things he said. He needs exposure.

[@trendingtiktokvideos8306]

I like this topic hahaha

[@diasporabeware8256]

WTF did I just listen to?!?! Why is this excuse of a man comparing a Ugandan woman living in Uganda with an African American woman living in America. Compare apples to apples and compare a Ugandan woman living in America with an African American woman living in America. Yours sincerely Kenyan in America

[@shawna7227]

If she is an African living in America she is now an African American. He was balanced. This is his experience.

[@more_money5583]

Facts I rather an African Sister the sisters in the USA have too many issues many or not mentally stable.

[@mafiooato7233]

Sorry to all earth women, I only date women from Mars, Mars women are the best women 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@miss_pearl]

I am not against women helping financially in the home, but if I as a woman is meeting you halfway on your duties, it better work both ways. You also meet me halfway in my duties. I assist with the bills, you assist with the running of the home, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids etc. That is 50/50. I know a lot of women are willing to deal with all that bcz women want to be married and be called Mrs and say they have a man, but let's be real here if I run the home by myself and I also help financially, what is the man bringing to the table? He surely can't claim he brings finances coz I also bring them, so how then is that 50/50. Does the 50/50 only applies when I assist the men financially and doesn't apply when he has to assist me run the home? It's just a pity that women are so desperate that they are willing to bend for anything, as long it makes them look better and called "good woman."

[@vergespierre4271]

The young woman with the black or blue flower shirt is beautiful 😊

[@Rose-ql7lc]

THANK GOD, MY MAN IS NOT WEAK LIKE THIS MAN. MY MAN PAYS IT ALL . AND I GIVE HIM ALL THE LOVE. LOL😅

[@davidparks4835]

Dude in this video thinks he is missing out on AA women. My brother in Africa I assure you that is not the case. We are trying to get with African women as AA men considering the femininity of these beautiful African women.

[@williamtukei1488]

Encourage people to better themselves fanacialy

[@AmitoMitra]

Eeehh Duke when did you get engaged. People can lie

[@Art_Travel_and_Hobbys]

Dennis Duke is brutal in criticizing women... lol

[@graceamelia1331]

Just need a really dude, honest and caring.

[@mohazilino9130]

Guys we need Speke apartments video

[@tratney]

i can tell you people don't read the bible with it being a daughter stays under her parents with her being under their care until she is married, she did have a business of her own as well if you proverbs and as far as the wife does nothing if she is taking care of your home and children that is work so what do you mean she doesn't offer anything. dude give me a break you tripping coming from an African American woman

[@conceptking7512]

Yea i disagree Im a American men and i have approach sisters with respect where Im at and all i got is crap so African women id rather talk to all.day

[@stevenwilliams3015]

He was on point until he confused arrogance and disrespectful as being bold. African women are bold but don't have to be disrespectful when being bold

[@TonnyOkello]

He speaks the truth and he is a funny guy 😂

[@DavidAnthonyBrayboy60]

This would be more enjoyable to watch if they would allow him to talk.

[@CharlieDmus]

Great topic ladies. I don't think it's true that African women don't work and don't contribute. It's just that I think our modern capitalist culture only values people in monetary terms. In fact it's actually the norm in traditional African societies and rural areas for women to work more and bring more to the table. Women grow crops and work as market women. They make, clothing, arts and crafts and keep domestic animals. On top of tending to home, husband and children. And they've done so for centuries. In fact even now what we consider a good woman is one who once she settles into a long term relationship, will find some economic activity like a business of some sort. This idea of a wife that doesn't work is a colonial import that we learned from the masters that dominated civil service and industry and their wives who lived like goddesses waited on by servants. But it's definitely not the norm. I can't say women were equal in old Africa but they certainly contributed more than equally. But even now I don't think they don't want to contribute. There are two things. 1. They see their contribution differently. As in not the monetary aspect. And 2. Most really don't have access to money and resources because of general unemployment as well as a patriarchal society. I know this from experience. I'm the bread winner in my house but my African woman is a hustler. Always has a money making scheme and whenever she gets something she puts it into something in the house, like school fees, paying into our mortgage or the children's savings. But she knows that whether or not she gets money I've got the household. Primary responsibility is mine. If you're used to it it's not a problem. I also saw the other side before I was married when I dated people from different cultures. One thing is for sure; capitalism and economic transformation which is on its way will change most of this.

[@edithbell8955]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Rose-ql7lc]

AFRICAN WOMEN HAS CULTURE THATS ALL. A MAN HAS TO PAY. YOU CAN'T USE AFRICAN WOMEN THEM . THEY ARE NOT CHEAP.

[@diezelspfdmvmusic1271]

It don’t seem like he had a lot of good stuff to say about African women.And it seem like he wants the same thing the typical American black man wants. Some respect, peace and a little bit of help every now and then. He made it seem like African women are broke and lazy but have respect. Shoot, same thing go for American women. Some of them. It seem like he’s more in it for the financial shape than an actual relationship and the African-American women are in it for the same thing. But I’m just observing👀👀.

[@Bmore201]

Can we take a break, LoL

[@dragonbloodtv]

This guy is playing😂 if i want to knack, I call up the African American woman 😂😂 but for a serious relationship and marriage, im going with the African woman

[@danielaragaw3828]

When he saide African women are not independent 100% you are wrong not all African women some of them diffrent from one cantry to another . African women are not dampening you if they love you also they are not easy goiner with anyone intermes to relationship .

[@DONNYPESO]

I prefer African or Caribbean women lot of AAs have bad reviews on black people in general

[@kaiiir9312]

huh? that's false lmaoo, we think y'all are the same way in America..that's funny

[@immortalideas-fi6kj]

This dude is crazy. If I want great sex, I will seek an African American girl. But if I want a woman with good morals and if I want peace of mind, I will seek an educated African woman.

[@dragonbloodtv]

Gbam! ‼️