Dating as A Black Gay Trans Man

[@TheIntrovert83]

01:15 I dont even really believe in love no more. Bro I feel you!

[@Teesbrough]

This video popped up on my KZbin recommendations tonight. I loved it. Then I saw your PReP one and your first ever one on this channel. Then I subscribed and started following you on Twitter. Your style is infectiously engaging and I trust you do well with whatever you do. I hear what you say though I’ve been lucky (as a white gay guy in UK) to have been in a loving relationship with my Jamaican-born partner now for over 17 years. I can see why some guys might find your personality a little (proudly) fierce to want to start a relationship right now but the right guy for you will come soon enough, I’m absolutely sure.

[@stg8684]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! You're not alone < 3. I believe a lotta relationships are transactional. I still believe in love, but as you said, love between my friends and my community, not the vision cishet romcoms have sold us.

[@jahmatv2157]

Honestly I felt the same exact way but as my therapist told me you have to just continue to be you and someone will snatch you Of the market everything is patience !

[@Cedrclovesutube]

I guess you should start connecting to groups who are like-minded that can help you have more understanding of the desires the needs and wants you have. I hope you find happiness I hope you find love I hope you find the affection comfort trust you need and less for desire be strong and be blessed. Happy to learn to understand people like you

[@NB-rv2yz]

Gio are you a comedian? Youre very funny and you dont seem to know it. I bet youre fun to be around. I have the complete opposite. Ive tried to date transmen, they seem to always be busy until 9pm. I am very open about dating a black masculine transman. I cant meet a transman who isnt sneaking, DL or who only want a cis guy for other than sex.

[@mrwestonizer]

I’m lovin this view!

[@sheesh161]

He's beautiful inside and out, mentally and physically 🥵🔥 c'mon herbal tea talk

[@GioFvcks]

Thank you 🙏🏽 & yes 🙌🏽 I love tea 🍵

[@tia0923]

Gio this was such a great video, you always open up in your videos, but this one was so hard hitting and touching to me...I truly get where you are coming from....and unfortunately men are like that, so I truly feel your pain....and I hope you do more videos like this, it was very poignant and enlightening to me....

[@jayebullock8002]

Have you considered going t4t? As a non-binary/questioning person that's what I've done, and I've had wonderful experiences with the people I've gone on dates with. Admittedly, I'm new to dating, so I haven't gotten into anything serious, but I've had fun at least.

[@cupcake3124]

Love how real and honest this is. Just subscribed, looking forward to more.

[@johnnycage9914]

I can change all that for you, I’d date you !

[@luckyjay9562]

This is kind of depressing ngl

[@shaunabrown6331]

Coz playing as a sis woman? What does that mean??

[@anwarlangford3668]

Ur soo handsome....

[@Travis-f5m]

Your not a bad looking guy. I mean I'm not gay but it may be you seem too nice. I think that's where I fell into. I've found a trans black woman I'm trying to get togethervwith. Even though I'm engaged to a straight woman I love the idea I may finally have an American black woman, trans woman. I'm totally down with her having her male organs. And love her honesty. She's very polite and proper. Not loud or much. She's taller but as a man who gets nobody I'm proud to have her in my life. I'm now a proud man. ❤ I'm assuming your wanting a women? What type? You'd be cool to hang out with because you remind me of me. But I really love black or African women. Or trans black women. ❤

[@sirroc216]

You gay to bro ☺️🤔

[@lightblueseaglass]

The reason you struggle as a gay man is because you don’t pass as a gay man. Like, sure you’ve got some facial hair. But, your bone structure, stature, and PERSONALITY read as female. And gay men don’t want a girlfriend, no matter how luxurious your beard is. Pro-tip: If you want to pass as a gay man, then learn how to be transactional in most aspects of your life, and also learn to live in the moment because most gay men are hyper plugged-into “what’s hot and happening now.”