👀 Dating as a Plus Size Dark Skin Woman, The Biological Clock & Why I Make Singleness Content

[@Gabster1990]

Many desirable people are single and a lot of them know themselves to know they don't want to be with just anyone!

[@FA9082]

Courtney just talks absolute chickenbawk 😂 She is so far up her own ass, she is gonna be single forever

[@WordsPictures997]

" Date people who want to date you!!!! " THIS!!!! As my mother would say ' Go where you're loved ' 🙌🙌🙌

[@Miss_Yusuf]

As a plus size woman (Size 16). I’ve come to find that beauty is an aura. When I was insecure and trying to grasp people to like me even know I wasn’t the preference, I felt miserable. Today, I believe that I feel more confident and beautiful. Haven’t lost any weight but everyday I go out I get approached and enjoy the “IT girl” benefits. Moral:- don’t go around feeling like you’re not all that cause you’re plus size. Believe that you’re gorgeous the way you are and move like that - it changes everything.

[@Thisisbisola]

Your camera quality is really good! ❤

[@CourtneyDaniella]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@kimpoba]

​@@CourtneyDaniella Hello Courtney. May I ask what you use to film your videos?

[@GemsWithIdy]

I also wanna know your camera and mic set up

[@stinaw.454]

I think marriage can be a desire but should not a goal. We can date with intent and aim for marriage, but getting and staying married will never be 100% in our control since another person is involved.

[@papurnadi]

Please don’t feel like you’re dragging this singleness content, i’m sure I’m not the only one who are very blessed and encouraged by your content. Thank you for reminding us that we can thrive while being in our singleness season ❤ keep it up Sis! God bless

[@noxolondlela8843]

Feminine energy content triggers me so much because to me it's built on charging your style, personality and mindset to attract men or men's approval . That is very problematic.

[@CB-123]

Why is it problematic to intentionally attract the opposite sex....if you want to be in a relationship/get married and it hasn't happened or maybe your attracting the wrong kind....you may need to reflect on how you present and make changes.. Men also do basic things to attract women, dressing well, working out, getting a good job etc

[@WordsPictures997]

" We don't come out the womb with someone in our womb " 🎤 DROP!!!! Courtney!!!! YOU WERE BORN FOR SUCH A TIME AS THIS!!!! God really did us a solid by creating you ❤

[@raemae1378]

Love the bit about how your perspective and insight is relative to you (age, background, personal experience) and that it's dynamic, not static. So important as we consume so much content on social media, it reminds us to consume smartly and filter what we're receiving through the nuances of our own lives!! Love it, really aprpeciated this video and the singleness content 🤍

[@awandezwane1500]

This was such an awesome and relatable video, especially about dating as a plus-sized woman. I very rarely find dating content that sounds like what I am living. Thanks Courtney!

[@CourtneyDaniella]

I know right! You’re more than welcome ❤️

[@christalkim2076]

Yess please! I would love a video discussing how to build confidence in general and in the dating world when you are not the beauty standard. You said that you should just gravitate towards those who already appreciate you. However, as a dark skinned Black woman in a white majority place, I often felt like romance was just not accessible to me. How do you date? Are you approached in real life? Would you tell me to approach people more? What’s considered approaching - just saying hi, asking for number, asking out?

[@CourtneyDaniella]

These are really interesting questions which I’d be happy to touch on in a video but I am far from an expert so please bare with me ❤️✨

[@noxolondlela8843]

@Chirstal Kim . Hey good sis. I just wanna say dating is hard for all black girls and especially when u have standards. . You are beautiful ❤️

[@WordsPictures997]

The biological clock narrative exhausts me 😓 ... there are people who got married in Their 20's and unfortunately haven't been able to have biological children. We need to be more honest with the stories we share. If we're running to get married solely to have children ... we never really know what awaits us. It's sooo important to marry the right person ... children aren't a guarantee. If they come, great but that can't be the main reason we get married.

[@AvuzwaKeei]

Exactly. And some people even have kids so much later in life.

[@dorm59]

Could you kindly show how you style your hair like this? It suits you so well!!

[@cynthiaatanga4135]

Fumi is awesome!! I’ve watched every single one of her videos for over a year now. Such a wise and respectable woman!

[@CourtneyDaniella]

Honestly she’s fantastic ❤️

[@sydneymichelle1609]

Love seeing your uploads on my timeline consistently !

[@CourtneyDaniella]

Yaay ❤️ thank you so much

[@sunflowerjoy333]

Miss Courtney you look so gooodt and love the consistency!❤

[@CourtneyDaniella]

Aww thank you so much ❤️ I’m trying x

[@daniellemoxey9940]

Such a refrrshing voice on this platform. You're energy is so helpful and healthy! Always coming thru with wise words of advice❤

[@reinepoaty6747]

Unrelated question, what are you filming with? the quality is amazing.

[@mariel3212]

I love your message. Thank you for sharing! ❤

[@baepy]

You look good sis🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@CourtneyDaniella]

Thank you sis ❤️

[@saquoiag]

You are one of the most beautiful and classy women I’ve ever seen.

[@rainbow_sparkledelights5984]

Very insightful 👏🏾👌🏾

[@AlieshiaTV]

Craziness & stupidity is right lol

[@Lifeofleesha]

I absolutely love your vibe!

[@rlubinga]

Great video!

[@CourtneyDaniella]

Thank you ❤️

[@joynorwood8713]

Love you girl ❤

[@arlenaholmes]

What you said at 10:00 - 11:00 YEAH that part!!!!! Profound love!!! @ 16:00 - 20:00!!! Hmmm Yasssss Gurl!!!!

[@MsYondaschannel]

You're beautiful 🤎🤎

[@sesneiz36]

Are you content if you never get married?

[@ismalaz9448]

Depends on the person. You certainly can be!

[@sweetypietwo]

Yep definitely.

[@shy_donut8307]

Nope. I had a crush flirt back with me in one of my classes and wasn’t afraid to get physically close to me and the feeling from that was something supernatural in a good way. Feeling his body pressed against mine in the backseat of my friends car every week after class was beyond amazing. It feels wonderful being desired and realizing that someone else finds you attractive. We’re hard wired for close human connection even if we do stupid shit to achieve it. Things are going slow between us but there’s something there and I want to slowly lean into that.

[@kurokaizen1889]

​@@ismalaz9448 no one asked you fruitcup.

[@CourtneyDaniella]

I believe a person can be content with that, as fulfilment, connection and love can be found in other ways. I think it’s a supernatural grace and a different understating about life.

[@nkosi3820]

Oh Courtney those press ons look delicious 😍

[@CourtneyDaniella]

Thank you ❤️ they’re Elegant Touch Press Ons in the shade ‘Hot Chocolate’