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@joyhasnolifem8
@joyhasnolifem8 3 жыл бұрын
When I was 18 or 19 my aunt had brought over a man her age (around 40+) Our family had game night regularly and invited a few friends and family over. This man was her boyfriend and my Aunt thought she was in love with him. (She’s had running issues with men in her life and still chooses questionable men) The entire night we’re playing games, I felt like I was being stared at but I wasn’t really bothered because when you play CAH people look at you when you’re the czar. The adults had a couple of alcoholic beverages but only like 1 or 2. Other than that there was nothing really going on. 3 AM rolls around and this man comes to my room. I’m awake because I have insomnia. I’m still tired though and not capable of thinking properly. He asks me if there are any antacids in the bathroom. I, being tired and whatnot, get up and go search the bathroom. While I have my back turned searching for something in the cabinet that I knew wasn’t in there (because we never keep that type of thing in our bathroom) he had came in, and closed the door behind him without me noticing. I knew the antacids weren’t there but cooperated anyway. I wasn’t thinking anything by it. I gave up searching though and said “I don’t see any in here sorry. We might not have any.” And I was turned to him cause I wanted to leave obviously I was tired and want to try and sleep again. He went in for a hug and said things along the lines of “oh that’s okay. Thank you for checking.” BUT in that “hug” he ran his hands up and down my back. All over my back. He then let me go slightly and “hugged” me from the other side (like his head was on the left for the first hug and then switched to the right the second time). The next thing he did though was hold my sides near my waist and then lean down to try and kiss me. Now at this point my brain is flashing red lights and I at first didn’t even realize what was going on. I wasn’t even fully aware of what he was doing until he was inches from my face. I speak up scared to death “w-what are you doing?” And he lets go of me and let’s me leave the bathroom. I run to my room and hide under my blankets. I barely slept. I didn’t know what to do. I didn’t know if I should wake everyone up, if I should go to the police. I knew if I woke someone up then that man would not leave the house alive. Mind you my Aunt claimed to be in love with this man so I didn’t want to ruin anything between them as well. So much was racing through my head. I wanted to run away. Mind you this was IN MY OWN HOME. I wanted to leave the house and sleep at the park. I was going to get an hour of sleep in my own bed (it was 5 am at this point.) I get a nap in and wake up at 6 am. Then I get a text from my aunt asking if I was awake. I said yes and we went to the kitchen and had a talk. I said my piece. Though when I was explaining it I was scared to mention the truth. I said “I think at the end he tried to lean in for a kiss” and she said “tried or did?” And I have anxiety to begin with so I feel like I’ve done wrong by even stating that. But what really got me is what I heard my aunt say what that man had said to her when she first woke up. “I think Joy has mistaken my ‘thank you’ a bit. I had said thank you last night and she looked a bit freaked out by it” trying to manipulate the situation to make me the crazy one. My aunt and him left right after that. Later on I told everyone who lives in the house (my mom, sister, and brother) what had happened in my case last night. My mom was livid. Last night he had been pacing all night and had been making my mom uncomfortable too. He tried “showing her his hernia” by pulling down his pants in front of her. Essentially showing my mom his privates. And even before that he came out asking about antacids to my mother and she handed him a whole bottle. So before coming and asking me about the antacids he knew where they were already and knew they weren’t in the bathroom. My point is this just goes to show that men well off in their age are still manipulative and will do whatever they want if they feel like that’s what they gotta do. It’s disgusting and from this time and a handful of other times something has happened between me and males, I’m terrified of men. I can’t see myself with a man anymore. I have a hard time being able to be in a happy, heartily relationship with a man. And it’s sick that now my life will forever be effected by these shitty human beings.
@theninjamaster67
@theninjamaster67 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry that happened to you It's a shitty thing to go through for me I have a difficult time having relationships with either gender (I'm a bi male) because both genders have done something to break my trust in some way on the female side nearly every relationship I've had I've been cheated on (3 seperate girls out of 4 relationships) so that kinda puts a damper on that one and on the other end of things I've just never gotten along with men that well in general cause growing up I was surrounded by drunk idiotic guys who were friends with my parents and in general I never really vibed with the being masculine thing the hardest one for me to deal with and the most serious one though is my "friend" on multiple occasions pushed me into doing sexual things with him and on specifically one occasion he molested me as I had told him no multiple times but he rubbed his "member" against my back door (really trying hard not to be too graphic) after I had said no and I had never done that sort of thing before so it was scary cause I didn't really know what to do other than say no and wait it out but yah main point is people suck in general and relationships just don't feel worth it to me anymore.
@joyhasnolifem8
@joyhasnolifem8 3 жыл бұрын
@@theninjamaster67 I’m sorry you’ve gone through your own share of shitty situations. I hope you get to experience a proper relationship with someone who won’t try and push you into anything you don’t want and also is there for you and won’t be childish and cheat. Everyone deserves that. It’ll definitely take time to heal but I do wish you the best.
@theninjamaster67
@theninjamaster67 3 жыл бұрын
@@joyhasnolifem8 I'm hoping for a good relationship too but it just feels so much like it's just not in the cards for me with so many crappy relationships including my latest one where it felt like my boyfriend just ignored me all together and I literally just ended it cause I finally had enough.
@joyhasnolifem8
@joyhasnolifem8 3 жыл бұрын
@@theninjamaster67 it probably isn’t the time then. Give yourself a break and better yourself. Find a new hobby or take walks and think about things that make you happy. A good relationship will come on time. Be patient, mr. or mrs. right is out there. You’ll meet them eventually.
@theninjamaster67
@theninjamaster67 3 жыл бұрын
@@joyhasnolifem8 Yah I'm planning on a good long break from relationships to just chill for awhile.
@hughjass346
@hughjass346 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like everyone's missing the point. It wouldn't matter if Yvonne said no, because the fact that Yvonne would've said no, wouldn't have changed the fact that Fed overstepped his boundaries. If she just said no Fed would've still been in the wrong. There's no reason for you to say "She should've just said no" because he would've still overstepped his boundaries and gotten kicked out of offline, even if all the girls would've said no.
@AnthonyRecenello
@AnthonyRecenello 4 жыл бұрын
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@chrisneratko3346
@chrisneratko3346 4 жыл бұрын
Yes and no. Imo this is all true. Women are raised that way and men are raised a different way. So yea men need to change the way they look at things like how women dont want to make a big deal out of things. But the other direction is also true. Women need to open up and say no. And be willing to make a statment. Just like men need to look for context clues that something is wrong.2 way not 1. Saying no is not the be all and end all and them not saying no is no ecuse to fed.but progress is made vy working together towards a better life. Not make only one group do the work. Again cant say this enogh. Fed was shit for what he did and the girls in no way shape or form did anything wrong. Simple fact. But on top of that. Women do need to be more clear with what they do and dont want. Help us less social skilled people out. Again fed bad girls good
@marlyocampo3526
@marlyocampo3526 4 жыл бұрын
@@chrisneratko3346 I do agree that everyone should be doing something to make progress and not just 1 party, but as much as a lot of us women would love to speak up, a lot of us are afraid. We'd love to be more open, but we just don't know how men will react. It's very hard to say what you really want when there's a chance of the guy becoming aggressive or you get blamed. For example, when Lily and Yvonne spoke up about their experiences, a lot of guys immediately placed the blame on them. So yah it isn't easy to just be more open (tho i get nobody said it was but yknow). And there's also a chance that when we do say what we mean, it just gets absolutely ignored and disregarded no matter how much we try. I do hope things change for the better around here.
@philypichu
@philypichu 4 жыл бұрын
@Pile Of Beans *F A C T S* 👏👏👏
@zarahshabs7936
@zarahshabs7936 4 жыл бұрын
I agree 100% @midnight howls! Especially if it’s someone you know, the shock may overcome you in the beginning. If it’s a DANGEROUS situation, you may just want to let it pass so as not to make the guy more aggressive and do something worse to you ....
@MountainDrew2000
@MountainDrew2000 4 жыл бұрын
Keemstar makes me sick
@isobuster6107
@isobuster6107 4 жыл бұрын
i think thats what he do thats why its ok to him if girls did not say anything because of shock.....he's shit
@twisted319
@twisted319 4 жыл бұрын
He did say he was more educated and apoligized for his action. But he can def still be a huge jabroni
@KyamosTheStubborn
@KyamosTheStubborn 4 жыл бұрын
Tbh i almost closed the video when i saw him, i really can't stand that man.
@DGNT1
@DGNT1 4 жыл бұрын
@@KyamosTheStubborn i recommend you keep watching, anthony's reaction is really informative
@DGNT1
@DGNT1 4 жыл бұрын
Im so glad he reacted to keem. Now i want keem to react to this
@kuzadd
@kuzadd 4 жыл бұрын
"I don't need to watch anymore of this jabroni" THANK YOU
@ashsawyer558
@ashsawyer558 4 жыл бұрын
Seriously! Thank God he cut Keemstar off. I couldn't listen to him ramble on and victim-blame. He's a fool, for sure, and I hate how people brush him off as a harmless troll or "he's just reporting the news", but Keemstar really showed his true colours when he said, "It's your responsibility to say 'no'." NOPE. That's the exact kind of toxic masculinity that leads to rape culture and assault. As soon as Keemstar started his victim-blaming rhetoric I looked at Anthony to see his expression. I knew he'd shut Keemstar's BS down, but the jabroni comment was the icing on the cake. THANK YOU!
@cyc2140
@cyc2140 4 жыл бұрын
i dOn't nEeD To wAtCh aNyMoRe oF ThIs jAbRoNi. GiRlS ShOuLd bE PaSsIvE LiKe oBjEcTs.
@zarahshabs7936
@zarahshabs7936 4 жыл бұрын
cyc2140 he’s not saying girls should be passive. He’s saying it’s very understandable that their immediate reaction isn’t always to say no right away. Watch part 2 PLUS fed has established a close relationship with the women in the house so if something different happens out of nowhere, you are going to be shocked more than anything. I know I would be
@thatsprettylunchean
@thatsprettylunchean 4 жыл бұрын
@@cyc2140 Le funny distortioned audio effect
@lofi_bunny_a.m9890
@lofi_bunny_a.m9890 3 жыл бұрын
cyc2140 Did you not watch the video?!
@mc87528
@mc87528 4 жыл бұрын
Dude, you are angel, like seriously, hearing kimstar's point of view, I knew that he was not being empathetic, that he didn't understand, but I couldn't put it into words, I felt so much rage. But then you said your opinion about it, and I felt so relived, you were able to say what I tried to but couldn't, in the best way possible. I wish, we all as men can learn from this, and be less toxic. Thanks for your work, you are amazing.
@cjdarksoul911
@cjdarksoul911 4 жыл бұрын
I mean, he doesn't deserve empathy of any kind though. He's a sich individual.
@hellothere7389
@hellothere7389 4 жыл бұрын
Moe’s (Yassuo is his online name) shows a perspective of Fed’s actions on his male friends, and it’s really worth checking out. I think it does a good job of representing that women weren’t the only ones being manipulated (although they certainly took the brunt of it). Also, an FYI: if you’re gonna go and try to interview Fed, be prepared since he might just give out a lot of apologies without really meaning them, and his fanbase might come and be very problematic (males make up the vast majority of his fanbase, and I personally think nearly all the women left his fanbase after what happened)
@sifibruh7055
@sifibruh7055 4 жыл бұрын
I agree if you do another part look at Moe’s perspective
@DTejeiro1
@DTejeiro1 4 жыл бұрын
Hello OTV Fan and Former Fed Fan here. if you go to any outlet from his discord to his subreddit 90% what you would find is former fans either express sadness and disappointment in fed or anger from his actions. I have no doubt that there is a lot of his fans that still love him and want him to come back as soon as possible. But anyone that were his true fans would loved and respected him want him to get help and want him to change and be a better person. Also, (side note) a lot of his fans were Yvonne fans and Lily's fans and just general OTV fans. I would say that a huge majority of his fan-based feels like me or at least are very angry at him so I doubt he would have a warm welcome if he came back too soon or at all (just look at Albert (lily ex) what he did was much less (still awful) and they ran him off the internet).
@Kintayisme
@Kintayisme 4 жыл бұрын
I agree Yassuo/Moe’s statement would be the way to go. It’d be a great counterpoint to Keemstar’s reaction; from a guy who knows the situation and isn’t succumbing to toxic masculinity.
@GOKU-eg1ih
@GOKU-eg1ih 4 жыл бұрын
Yassuo never show up here
@kaneylinch2
@kaneylinch2 4 жыл бұрын
Angelskimi is another good video to react.... i feel like her video is important to understand better that fed was doing things well with some girls but ruined his posible relationships by trying to always be available to these 3 girls poki, lily and ivone, check it out.
@valentinofilm2116
@valentinofilm2116 4 жыл бұрын
"when you see dating as a game you no longer see women as people; merely as objects to win." You make amazing points and I love your videos keep up the good work!
@amandaw3212
@amandaw3212 4 жыл бұрын
Valentino Film agreed. Anthony come to London. I mean it. Im gonna keep asking ❤️
@ZebbMassiv
@ZebbMassiv 4 жыл бұрын
When you're "gamer" everything is a game even women.
@Kat31017
@Kat31017 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate how Anthony says "I used to think this way", and has changed his mindset about certain things. It's very respectful to see that a person can question their beliefs and say "no this was wrong of me to think this way".
@bellablue7661
@bellablue7661 4 жыл бұрын
When I was 15 or so I had a male classmate put his hand on my thigh during history class. He kept it there for the whole class, slowly moving up my leg. I was sort of friends with him and I was too shocked and scared - and also too embarrassed - to push him away or say anything during class. I froze up, and when the bell rang I stood up and bolted out of the room. I was so confused. I thought maybe I had done or said something that made him think I wanted his hand on me, I thought it must have been my fault somehow. The next day he told my friend I had been “flirting with him” in class and asked her if I liked him... I think he honestly didn’t know how to tell a girl he liked her except through getting physical. I don’t know. Maybe he thought I would just push his hand away if I didn’t want it. I don’t know why I couldn’t do that, I honestly just felt like a deer in headlights. I think it’s a really widespread problem that men are taught that that’s how you act around women when you want them to like you. From experience, it doesn’t work.
@trevorkorber
@trevorkorber 4 жыл бұрын
It’s a huge problem, men especially should be taught not to make physical contact advances toward anyone without consent. In general kids should be taught that your body is your body and your voice will make a difference. I realise it is hard to speak up but I think maybe with the right education and the right system being held in place, that would help being vocal against unwanted advances.
@marco_dl
@marco_dl 4 жыл бұрын
Nobody is taught that, but a lot of people do because they can't figure out how to act around women. It's sad, it comes more from the fact that we don't really teach kids anything about that so then they go for the dumbest things without realizing how much it is inappropriate and how much it can hurt someone...
@Proger-sj8cj
@Proger-sj8cj 4 жыл бұрын
Trevor Körber *Humans are becoming dumber ever second we speak , parents don't even teach that cause it may be " akward " which is bullshit.*
@trevorkorber
@trevorkorber 4 жыл бұрын
@@Proger-sj8cj I think it is the responsibility of parents and school to teach these things.
@Tony-ff4dg
@Tony-ff4dg 4 жыл бұрын
I have experienced something similar but the person legitimately inappropriately touched me. I couldn't speak up because I knew no one would believe me, so I just went through the rest of my school days sitting next to him knowing he had disgusting thoughts about me or that the reason he was nice to me was just because he had certain intentions. I am a pushover and I'm timid, I have a hard time speaking up so I often blame myself.
@cathywang5613
@cathywang5613 4 жыл бұрын
You should react to yassuo's perspective as he was basically one of his best friends and shows the aftermath of the situation
@nigrinereine7755
@nigrinereine7755 4 жыл бұрын
Just done with the premiere please react to Yassou/Moe, Leslie and Kimi, the statements that they have are good specially Moe's. Also I think you should give Fed more time before he comes back in any platform. As many fans wants him to get help first and maybe figure out his life. Personally I think it would be great to just give him more time and let the community relax, as of now as many as his supporters would be there are also many haters that would cancel him. I don't support him but OTV themselves wants hin to be better and to not recieve hate. Peace, love the premiere 🌼💖
@AlexBeast25
@AlexBeast25 4 жыл бұрын
agreed.
@cjdarksoul911
@cjdarksoul911 4 жыл бұрын
Or, he shouldn't come back at all since predators don't have a place having the power and influence being a twitch streamer with that kinda following has.
@tunguska-1454
@tunguska-1454 4 жыл бұрын
@@cjdarksoul911 ​ That's essentially the point Reine is making. He needs to get help and seriously reform before he comes back in any meaningful way.
@mikeyv444
@mikeyv444 4 жыл бұрын
@@tunguska-1454 you're missing his point. AT ALL meaning even if he does "change" he shouldn't be coming back to a social platform especially not one so polarizing and toxic as twitch.
@tunguska-1454
@tunguska-1454 4 жыл бұрын
@@mikeyv444 No reason not to return after reformation if one takes it in earnest. Nothing good to come of scorching the earth.
@EternalSnoie
@EternalSnoie 4 жыл бұрын
🙏🏼👏🏼 thank you on the video with freaking Keemstar. He has NO clue what it’s like to be a women. The power dynamic is truly there.
@tamhuy10
@tamhuy10 4 жыл бұрын
@@alansaulson yeah, but those toxic traits hurt women more than they hurt men
@himefumizuki1157
@himefumizuki1157 4 жыл бұрын
When I was 17, in a public transpo vehicle, a man around 50 sit beside me and started touching my side boob using his elbow. I frozed and my brain just stop functioning. I wanted to say stop or no to him and ask for help but my voice just can't come out. It was a feeling that I can't explain. There's so many things going on my mind, I even think that he might not intentionally meant to rubbed on to me, I was validating his actions, but I moved a bit on the side to avoid him and he moved towards me as well. I keep saying to myself that I need to scream for help, that this is the situation that I was warned about and that I need to ask for help, but I thought if I did scream, will they help me? What will this man do to me? Will the police get involve? What if this man hurt me? What will they say? So no sound came out. And i just fucking sit there, hugging my bag so hard, teary eyed. Thankfully the other guy on my side gets up and leaved, so I have more room to move further away from him. It was my stop, I got out and go on with my day like normal. I didn't tell anyone (except here today). That night I cried myself to sleep, I had many sleepless nights. I keep blaming myself why didn't I fight back. Why didn't I ask for help. Why. Just why. From my friend's POV I am a very vocal person, a fighter you might say. But when I was on that situation, I became someone else, someone I don't want to be. After that I am more aware of my surroundings, I constantly feared that someone might do that to me again. When I feel that someone's invading my space I moved away to another seat. But still cant voice out my discomfort. So please stop saying that the victims should've say NO, because we wanted to, you don't know how much we fucking want to say NO and STOP. We wanted, but we couldn't. And that fucking hurts..
@mayapril4213
@mayapril4213 3 жыл бұрын
@DaybreakCD Thank you for explaining what this reaction is! I’ve been in situations, where it’s so tense, awkward or terrifying that I just freeze up and don’t know what to do. Sometimes I can get through it and ‘override’ my lizard brain’s commands, while other times I can’t and get stuck in that situation. I’m glad I finally understand what happens to people during these terrifying situations.
@hellterminator
@hellterminator 3 жыл бұрын
I get that, but at the same time it really is important to say something because that person may be genuinely unaware that he's making you uncomfortable. This doesn't sound like the case (at least from your recollection), but it is entirely possible to get into someone's personal space without realizing it. And if I did that, I'd _want_ to know because I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable. Any normal person would want to know. And even if that's not the case and you're dealing with a somewhat deranged person who's convinced himself that your lack of resistance is consent, saying no could still help. In fact, there are very few situations when saying no could make things worse. It may not help, but it almost certainly won't hurt.
@Ace-xn5tu
@Ace-xn5tu 2 жыл бұрын
@@hellterminator Read the last bit of her paragraph again, I don’t think you understood.
@geargrunt1264
@geargrunt1264 4 жыл бұрын
i am a 15 year old boy, I do not really understand relationships all that well, I never thought in a way that makes women seem lesser than, i have never thought in a way that has made me think of them as objects, but this channel and this whole fed situation has definitely helped inform me of what relationships should be and what i should and shouldn't seek out of them, thank you for doing what you do.
@homeworkbreak4237
@homeworkbreak4237 4 жыл бұрын
Ey I'm a 16 y/o girl, I'm glad young guys are seeing stuff like this and learning not to be toxic (and not have horrible beliefs like the ones in Keemstar's video) uhh make sure your guy friends respect women and you do that too 👌
@julia8119
@julia8119 4 жыл бұрын
I love ur profile picture 😂
@geargrunt1264
@geargrunt1264 4 жыл бұрын
Julia thanks lmao
@Entropy67
@Entropy67 4 жыл бұрын
@@homeworkbreak4237 guy friends that respect women are incredibly rare and it somewhat pisses me off. To the extent that in some groups, trying to explain what toxic masculinity is gets you alienated and kicked out. Basically I no longer have any friends and I'm fine with it
@homeworkbreak4237
@homeworkbreak4237 4 жыл бұрын
Sibte Ali oof that sucks, I thought that it may be weird to bring stuff like that up but enough for someone to stop being friends?! Makes me scared that these things that have to change so much never will... glad you're good and try to spread that though, thanks for respecting people 👍
@AnthonyRecenello
@AnthonyRecenello 4 жыл бұрын
Trying to fix the muted audio. Tweeted TEAMKZbin
@saigonrider
@saigonrider 4 жыл бұрын
My suggestion is adding subtitle into the blank space
@bahramchoobin16
@bahramchoobin16 4 жыл бұрын
:D i'm going to open up here. i raised in a society that is heavy on toxic masculinity plus i have little to no experience when it comes to talking dating etc with women. when i learned situation in my mind was oh man i might do something like that cause i'm so inexperienced with women etc. then anthony said he is gonna react to this i was yea this is my chance to learn how not to end up like fed. anthony you have my especial thanks.i learned a lot be from your videos or audio book i learned so so much. this stuff never was this much helpful and never was free in my knowledge. so keep up the good work.
@bellzhellz5922
@bellzhellz5922 4 жыл бұрын
"This jabroni" omg I'm dying!
@Zamerus
@Zamerus 4 жыл бұрын
8:29 how come the audio cuts off until like 10:26 ? there's like a huge chunk of speaking entirely gone there and a few seconds of it being yours.
@DGNT1
@DGNT1 4 жыл бұрын
just got to that part. Someone please find out!
@jhaymonroe4706
@jhaymonroe4706 4 жыл бұрын
Probably just *didn’t want to get demonetized for the music* (yes, I did edit this), long story short toast was saying how he wishes he would’ve done more and/or wishes he was more perceptive about these type of situations Bc it happens way too much to his female friends and associates (not just with fed)
@dariusthomas7781
@dariusthomas7781 4 жыл бұрын
I thought my phone was fucking broken
@AnthonyRecenello
@AnthonyRecenello 4 жыл бұрын
Demonetization for music
@PastryChefMC
@PastryChefMC 4 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello that damn music
@klevin21
@klevin21 4 жыл бұрын
I’m in my college age and tried dating but without success, so naturally, i asked my friend (who is basically a F boi) for advices. But i always felt that those advices are way too manipulative and was not right. For the longest time i thought i’m in the wrong here, but after watching your videos, i realized it doesn’t have to be that way. Thank you for making these videos
@GannaLavrova
@GannaLavrova 4 жыл бұрын
I was 21. My driving license teacher put his hands on my hips once and I was so shocked , I couldn't move, I couldn't say anything, I think I even stopped breathing that moment. My body was paralyzed from fear and I didn't expect that reaction from myself, because I am usually pretty brave. But in situation like this I couldn't control my body and it did what it did. Fortunately he went no further
@lilianna5613
@lilianna5613 4 жыл бұрын
im sorry that happened to you i hope you are ok 💞
@Ash-ww8xg
@Ash-ww8xg 4 жыл бұрын
@Afonso Robalo(10 CTAV) What do you mean by that
@Pudding--_--
@Pudding--_-- 4 жыл бұрын
@Afonso Robalo(10 CTAV) you just shouldn't touch people you don't really know and if you know them well show your hand moving towards them so they don't get a shock
@cookiesarelikecream
@cookiesarelikecream 3 жыл бұрын
I felt the exact same way too when I was 19 working at a restaurant. One of my co workers, an older man in his 40s offered to tie my apron. After he tied it, he groped my breasts for a couple of seconds. I was frozen with fear too and didn’t say anything. Other co workers like a guy a decade ago would always hit on me and sometimes it was uncomfortable but I had to laugh it off because that’s just “what he does” with all the girls. But at least he didn’t do anything inappropriate compared to the other guy. I ended up quitting after a month.
@Julian-re2ey
@Julian-re2ey 4 жыл бұрын
This sounds probably stupid, but thank you for these 4 videos of yours. I actually learned a lot about thinks I initially thought I already agreed on morally, but I clearly haven’t paying attention in my life enough to acknowledge this issues of mine. I have to say that you also pointed out stuff that I don’t agree with, but these points are relatively small. You definitely helped me to understand all sides. For example now I understand much better why the girls reacted how they reacted. I actually believe that I myself will come out as a better person with this knowledge in hand. So thank you. At the end when you pointed out that Fed didn’t apologized in his tweet, I want to believe he apologized to his friends in private. To be honest, at the beginning I thought all these videos of yours about OTV are disrespectful to all members. Because they initially wanted to solve these issues in private. They just couldn’t do that because they are public figures and obviously many fans demanded answers why fed is out. So they released statements for their fans and now THE WHOLE internet jumps on these statements to blame someone and to get themself involved, even though they have no business in doing so. At the beginning I though you were one of these people, who jumps on drama to release videos about this topics and to make a quick KZbin money buck. Now I saw you are not one of them. Your videos about this topic are actually very educational. That’s why I would liked for you to have a bigger disclaimer in front of you videos. Something like: “These videos don’t exist to judge Fed, but to educate people and especially men about these situations similar to Fed’s his situation, so they can change there behavior BEFORE something horrible happens in there lives.” This wasn’t clear to me from the beginning and after the first video with Poki, I nearly wrote a horrible comment to you xD But I sat down and watched all the other videos before I wrote anything, and now I see things definitely more clear. I just don’t think everybody who disagreed with you, sat down to watch even more of your content before judging you. That’s why I think a disclaimer would have helped xD Also to show the OTV members, who probably have seen your videos existence, to show some respect by saying: “I know I am not involved in your private problems and I am not here to judge any of you, these videos exist only to educate viewers.” I hope everything was understandable, sometimes my English isn’t that good and especially my English grammar. So if anything was unclear just ask and I try to clarify things. Thanks for reading.
@AnthonyRecenello
@AnthonyRecenello 4 жыл бұрын
If it was for drama do you think I’d talk like a slow asshole?
@giselleperez4033
@giselleperez4033 4 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello heh not wrong
@z_zenith
@z_zenith 4 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello Ehhh, could be to lengthen the video for ad revenue.
@rianneroo
@rianneroo 4 жыл бұрын
b r u h... he says the bit about educating people about healthy relationships every single time tho i---
@johnx140
@johnx140 4 жыл бұрын
Bruh imagine judging a video without watching it and expecting the worst out of people. Oh wait
@CreatureFeatureRlz
@CreatureFeatureRlz 4 жыл бұрын
If you could get him on your channel i would be BLOWN AWAY. He's more or less been MIA this whole time since that screenshotted set of tweets. It feel like it would be nothing short of a miracle but it has been quite some time. If anyone should have a talk with him about his behavior I think you're the content creator whose best suited to do it
@amnuel12
@amnuel12 4 жыл бұрын
This sounds fucking awful
@Entropy67
@Entropy67 4 жыл бұрын
I honestly feel like hes just trying to run away from the problem. I hope he doesn't get the misconception that this is something that will die down with time and he will be able to come back, because from what I've heard that is his way of dealing with problems. (example, when he had issues with poki he runs to their friends house and complains, then goes back after a while)
@naqueeldiva7693
@naqueeldiva7693 4 жыл бұрын
Yea I get that, I just don't think it would be the best idea to give him a public platform so soon. It hasn't been that long so his alleged pattern of empty words wouldn't result in a good situation.
@DonDeDon445
@DonDeDon445 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t think I want to see fed on the internet yet. The entire situation is still fresh and I don’t think he’s had time to completely reflect on his actions and anything he would say would probably be a reflection of what he told Offline during the private intervention. I think him keeping to himself and seeking private counseling would work best rather than the entertainment of his fans
@DTejeiro1
@DTejeiro1 4 жыл бұрын
agreed
@jsbfkdls
@jsbfkdls 4 жыл бұрын
Nah he SHOULD be gone for years. I don't care, if he comes back any earlier than a year or two I won't accept that hes changed. He has some serious mental problems that require hundred or thousands of therapy and other types of treatment. For him to be mentally prepared to get back to an actual life.
@pandim3875
@pandim3875 4 жыл бұрын
'why didn't she say no" it's all in the brain really, when someone panics and freezes it' s because the panic signs from the amigdala in the limbic part of the brain doesn't transfere fast enough to the frontal cortex (which tells us to act and do smth). Plus i also think it does have something to do with how woman were raised to be quiet and never act on things.
@sakidickerson
@sakidickerson 4 жыл бұрын
"I don't need to watch any more of this jabroni" 💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@awesomecow7264
@awesomecow7264 4 жыл бұрын
Made my blood boil when he was talking like...YOU JUST SAID YOU DIDNT RESEARCH!!!
@user-tr1qd4ss8m
@user-tr1qd4ss8m 4 жыл бұрын
seeing scarra with hair is amazing
@CrazyGamerTVY
@CrazyGamerTVY 4 жыл бұрын
Hearing you talk about this stuff is stirring something in my soul man. Jesus I wished I lived in LA just so we could chat and just talk. You seem like a really cool dude.
@MenWithoutTies
@MenWithoutTies 4 жыл бұрын
1:25 i legit thought he just left a still screenshot of his face instead of a video reaction until a few seconds later when his eye twitched 😂💀
@hodgepodgejr.3021
@hodgepodgejr.3021 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely get Fed on a video for a sit down to talk about it and how to improve.
@hi-lo-fi1953
@hi-lo-fi1953 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely but I wouldn't really film it
@jonathanrao4876
@jonathanrao4876 4 жыл бұрын
that was the intervention the otv cast did. it didn't work.
@hodgepodgejr.3021
@hodgepodgejr.3021 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I figured if it's out there for everyone to see it not only could help Fed to look back and reflect on his own time but also for other guys who might need that kind of conversation too.
@hi-lo-fi1953
@hi-lo-fi1953 4 жыл бұрын
@@jonathanrao4876 true but he could also make a forced perspective for the viewers and do what he did when he called his friends about the intervention and even tho we probably won't believe him it wouldn't make it better for him if he does lie
@nerevarchthn6860
@nerevarchthn6860 4 жыл бұрын
To early for that
@danielamejia7023
@danielamejia7023 4 жыл бұрын
You should watch Kimi's, Mo and Leslie's videos on fed
@niama7831
@niama7831 4 жыл бұрын
Kimi's was... pretty bad
@garyyau_xd
@garyyau_xd 4 жыл бұрын
100%. I think the three videos Artluv mentioned are ones I'd be interested to see your reactions on, since they're from people a step back.
@gonzalezm244
@gonzalezm244 4 жыл бұрын
Niama Wait, I thought it was pretty good. What was wrong with it?
@AlexBeast25
@AlexBeast25 4 жыл бұрын
Manuel Gonzalez Parra i think Niama meant by, Kimi’s situation with fed was really bad, not necessarily her response
@PalitaTW
@PalitaTW 4 жыл бұрын
No
@MasudYT
@MasudYT 4 жыл бұрын
Please check out MOE’s perspective on this. His name is “yassuo” and his statement is really eyeopening to find out that what we know is STILL not everything that’s going on!
@limweimin3250
@limweimin3250 4 жыл бұрын
Yea, I think talking to Fed will help not just him but a lot of other people in general. Do it :D
@redab8208
@redab8208 3 жыл бұрын
Toast crying made me start crying so much because I have never seen him be emotional. It honestly made me like him more 😭🌸
@ElectroRage
@ElectroRage 4 жыл бұрын
You know, it's kind of insane how life slaps you in the face sometimes. One day a series of youtube videos pop up in your feed, and it makes you realize how much growth you still need to go through as a person... Seriously, thanks for that.
@ehColors
@ehColors 4 жыл бұрын
You definitely react to Angelskimi because she actually thought she was in a relationship with him but she got led on because he was trying to go for other girls too
@Colboi92
@Colboi92 4 жыл бұрын
why you using that pic of my boy scarra?
@ErisedMarauder
@ErisedMarauder 4 жыл бұрын
Probably because all the other good quality pictures are of him smiling, and it might be weird to have a happy picture in this situation.
@aimforchaos
@aimforchaos 4 жыл бұрын
Aesthetic 😌
@brandonpersaud5634
@brandonpersaud5634 4 жыл бұрын
You need to react to Moe/Yassuo and yes please do Fed on video
@jannsyjensy
@jannsyjensy 4 жыл бұрын
This video reminded me of an experience in high school that happened when I was 16. My high school had an open campus lunch policy, so my friends and I went with some friends to go eat at a local restaurant. My boyfriend at the time had to stay at school to finish some school work, so he wasn't able to go with us, but we had mutual friends, and they were all guys that we all mostly grew up with since elementary school. So it was me (female) and four other guys that I've grown up with and didn't really see romantically. We all crammed into a truck to get to the restaurant we wanted to go to; two in the front, one in the middle, and me and another guy in the back. The guy sitting in the back with me was really good friends with my boyfriend at the time, and so I didn't think much about sitting beside him. As we were heading to the restaurant, he started to let his hand wander around and attempted to place his hand on top of mine. I proceeded to move my hand away, and then he left his hand on my thigh instead. Not really knowing what to do or say, I left it at that. Except his hand kept getting higher and higher to the point where his hand was basically at my waist, he then wrapped his arm around my waist and pulled me closer to him and began to go up to my shirt. I tried pulling away and just trying to make him stop without causing a scene. My head and heart are just pounding because I didn't know what to do. With a sigh of relief, we finally arrived at our destination; what was about three miles away felt like an eternity. I couldn't look at him once I got out of the truck, and I purposively didn't sit next to him. We finished eating, and all I felt was dread of getting back into that truck again. I tried positioning myself further away by sitting as close to the window as possible, but it didn't prevent anything. He made advances again, thigh to the waist, waist then up the shirt, and under the bra, but this time he wanted to take it further and came back down the shirt from my abdomen and tried sliding his hand under the band of my leggings. Fortunately for me, the band was really tight, and I had my legs crossed already, making it really hard and uncomfortable for him to do what he clearly wanted to do. Finally, we arrived back at school, and I darted out of the truck and never spoke to him again. I told my bf and the friends I was with what happened later on. My bf was mad at me for not saying anything to the other guys while it was happening, but he didn't put all the blame on me and chose to not speak to his friend again. I couldn't help but blame myself for why it happened, and why didn't I do more to stop it? It would've been so easy to just shout "no" or to just ask for help when others were just 3-7 feet away. I've always been really passive, and some would say a push-over, but it's still hard to accept that I just let that kind of thing happen. However, I learned a lot from that experience and just tried to never put myself in that kind of situation again.
@marcycavazos2496
@marcycavazos2496 4 жыл бұрын
I think if Fed wants to come and talk or say his piece you'd be a great guy to talk to him about understanding where to go from here and how exactly to grow. He's not a horrible dude but he could've easily been going down a path of no return. I really appreciate your mentality and how you speak about this subject, you're calm,collected and do really understand a woman's perspective but not in a condescending or mansplaining way.
@Antonin1738
@Antonin1738 4 жыл бұрын
"He's not a horrible dude but" yeah stop right there. He manipulated everybody, including sexual conducts with different women.
@karlrosal5891
@karlrosal5891 4 жыл бұрын
he's definitely a horrible person
@cjdarksoul911
@cjdarksoul911 4 жыл бұрын
He isn't a horrible dude? After manipullating literally everyone around him and sexually harassing all females in his friend circle and downplaying his attitudes with that alcohol excuse? He doesn't deserve one word out. He deserves the harshest of punishments and to be remembered for this for the rest of his life.
@amnuel12
@amnuel12 4 жыл бұрын
@@cjdarksoul911 "sexually harassing all females". Who did he sexually harass besides yvonne?
@johnx140
@johnx140 4 жыл бұрын
Dr. K needs to talk with him first, then this man second
@bearing8
@bearing8 4 жыл бұрын
It pains me when some people say.. "You could have said no" I would argue that it should be "You should have said no" Because in reality Not everyone has the ability to say no. Not everyone has the confidence to say no. Not everyone has the mindset to say no. Saying No may not be something you would have been able to but it is the right thing to do. The notion of "Oh, You could have done this , you could have done that." is flawed. Of course, she could have done this or she could have done that but the question will he/she be able to. From watching Yvonnie throughout the years in Offline I can confidently say that Yvonnie in that situation is not someone who would have been able to say No even if she wanted to.
@1292817341
@1292817341 4 жыл бұрын
add on to the fact that actually hearing 'no' doesn't mean anything to some people; see twitch clip: "Fed want a hug from Yvonnie because he's sad."
@ndaemon1718
@ndaemon1718 4 жыл бұрын
@@1292817341 not wrong.. "No" is sometimes seen as just another challenge in the game to overcome. :)
@ramunerachel888
@ramunerachel888 4 жыл бұрын
LMAO THE THUMBNAIL SCARRA-
@aboz8649
@aboz8649 4 жыл бұрын
F
@JBitzz
@JBitzz 3 жыл бұрын
That scene with Toast just made me fall in love with him.
@victoriaodegaard1
@victoriaodegaard1 4 жыл бұрын
What you said during Keemstar's video (and in previous videos in this series) really resonated with me. A couple of years ago, I was a freshman in college and I had an experience where I was hanging out with someone who I thought was going to be a friend of mine and he kissed me out of nowhere when I gave no indication. I wasn't even looking at him at the time. I froze like a deer in the headlights and was confused as to why he was doing that, what I felt about it and what I could do to figure it out. He kept trying to escalate things and that's when I snapped out of it and said I was leaving. I was lucky, he was just a horny idiot and not a rapist that would keep me in his dorm room against my will. I didn't report it only because I was not in a good place mentally to discuss it with college administration. All I wanted to do was move on and heal privately. For this reason, I don't regret this decision. I wish I could have been in a place to do so but that was not the case. I was in shock as to how this could have happened to me as I wasn't drunk, sleepy or at a party. And it wasn't a stranger. It took me a long time to stop blaming myself for even being in the situation in the first place. Now I know how to handle things, and I take the experience as (in a strange way) a blessing. It made me grow up and better learn how to read people, how to keep myself safe and what to do in situations when I am not. But I feel for everyone who has ever frozen in such a situation and been terrified as to what to do. It's not as easy to understand if you haven't been there, but I'll say this. When you know something is coming, you have time to prepare. You can think things through. Maybe you can avoid the situation. When it comes to you without warning, especially if you've never had something like that happen, it's like you're in the Twilight Zone. You are in shock. Your brain shuts down and you can't process anything. Enthusiastic consent is the only consent.
@fk1484
@fk1484 4 жыл бұрын
R I P SCARRA HAIR PepeLaugh HAHAHAHA
@ciscuu9464
@ciscuu9464 4 жыл бұрын
This is what it feels like to comment early huh? It's not much different
@DGNT1
@DGNT1 4 жыл бұрын
Wow you actually reacted to keemstar. That's literally all i wanted out of all this, thanks so much!
@digicraze
@digicraze 4 жыл бұрын
It would be great to have Fed on, but I think he needs time away from everything to think about his actions first
@s0apdisco
@s0apdisco 4 жыл бұрын
I hope you could react to Yassuo, angelskimi, and fuslie's video. Those are important ones as well as yuna's statement. And Im sure it would be really helpful if you try to get in contact with Fedmyster thank you so much for doing this.
@heavymetal1ization
@heavymetal1ization 4 жыл бұрын
i dont think yassuos is informative at all tbh
@bahramchoobin16
@bahramchoobin16 4 жыл бұрын
yes pls. yassou showed this situation is not only gender thing but he did broke some bro code :D. and angel imo kimi experience was straight up assault. i really think if you can show fed the error of his "dating tactics" would be helpful for a lot of people.
@s0apdisco
@s0apdisco 4 жыл бұрын
@@heavymetal1ization it'll show how yassuo felt betrayed by his bestfriend.
@Supaawesomeification
@Supaawesomeification 4 жыл бұрын
Yassuo has an interesting perspective as Fed’s former best friend. Kimi’s statement was genuinely hard to watch at a couple points. Both worth reacting to imo. And yes please, if possible, talk to Fed. Everyone, including Fed, agrees he needs help and I think you could do that
@helgard36
@helgard36 4 жыл бұрын
Concerning keemstar's take on this - I absolutely agree with your points Anthony. Namely, (1) he's viewing this from a man's perspective, (2) the focus should be on the guy NOT carrying out bad behaviour, (3) incremental "boundary overstepping" by Fed within a very close-knit friend circle contributed to the whole affair. I also get that toxic masculinity is a thing and that it's deeply ingrained. HOWEVER, the key lesson from keemstar's rant would be that just as men should be taught not to view dating as a game or to sneaky sneaky, women also need to be taught that it is OK TO SAY NO. Toxic masculinity isn't just ingrained in men - it's also why women are often subservient/quiet when uncomfortable. They need to unlearn that trait just as much as men need to unlearn "nice guy" behaviours. Ultimately, should the worst case happen, it will be up to a woman to say NO. It is her responsibility to herself to do so. She won't be able to always rely on someone coming to help in the moment. Ofc, there is the flip side of this being able to say NO- #metoo has shown that things can happen to excess, with innocent men being accused of crimes.
@emiliosanchez8656
@emiliosanchez8656 4 жыл бұрын
the uncle iroh of dating
@homeworkbreak4237
@homeworkbreak4237 4 жыл бұрын
AH while you were talking right before you watched Keem's video I thought about that video and wondered how you would respond- I paused it when his video started and haven't played it yet but oh my gosh I hate what his idea of consent is it's super harmful to spread that to so many impressionable people (idk his audience but I know it'll have some non-adult people) I got so angry he's minimizing the survivors struggles too and victim blaming AGH
@homeworkbreak4237
@homeworkbreak4237 4 жыл бұрын
It wasn't consent for sex but that idea will spread from physical touch to sec in people's mind and that's NOT what consent is
@Antonin1738
@Antonin1738 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know why I kept getting your vids about Fed on my recommendations. I believe in second chances and worthy redemption. However, this guy Fed was given many second chances. He was in a mini intervention, and finally a full intervention before getting kicked out. How many chances must he have?
@swrnm
@swrnm 4 жыл бұрын
Dont call him he will just leach content off of it.
@aboz8649
@aboz8649 4 жыл бұрын
I think it’s possible to be done well, but after a lot of time I think
@TheRecklessmonk
@TheRecklessmonk 4 жыл бұрын
He was otvs content lol. What are talking about. Plus he doesnt need to show his face for anyone, dude got cancelled, he doesnt owe anyone an audiance anymore. OTV already said hes going to counsiling, so him coming on this guys youtube channel isnt gonna help him. Its just entertaintment at this point, seeing as hes getting professional help.
@swrnm
@swrnm 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheRecklessmonk Anthony should definitely contact him if he wants to in private and help him with whatever means he sees fit. Its just that doing it now on youtube will just help fed paint narratives to his audience in his favours since hes so good at it and his fans are so malleable as well apparently.
@swrnm
@swrnm 4 жыл бұрын
@@aboz8649 trueee
@jojoecr7626
@jojoecr7626 4 жыл бұрын
I think it is crucial for you to react to Moe "Yasuo"´s statement. It really presents diferent issues.
@victor.blanco
@victor.blanco 4 жыл бұрын
Yo seriously thank you. I think something like this happened to me with a girl and back then I couldn't understand why it felt like she was just letting things happen but didn't look interested on it. It wasn't anything serious I think, just crossing boundarys a bit. Like if I were to put my hand on her thigh. And now it hit me hard that it's not that simple for some women. (Or people in general) To me it was just say no and there. But not everyone's like that and now I understand that. I think what's really important is to be there in the moment with the person you're with. Then naturally you'll just pick up on anything about them that seems off. Ex. Looking uncomfortable. Then you'll stop and ask about it. I feel that's really important.
@Mariassweet
@Mariassweet 3 жыл бұрын
If you were to do a follow up on this topic I'd recommend hearing Moe's point of view and leslie's as well (fuslie)! I feel like they complement the points you've made but it also puts things in a different light when it comes to his manipulative nature and how he also did this with guys and not only girls.
@Sam-tk6dq
@Sam-tk6dq 3 жыл бұрын
Toast's reaction is so heartbreaking
@katet-g6820
@katet-g6820 3 жыл бұрын
I want to add something to your already very empathetic and accurate description of how women have been taught to behave in situations that are scary or uncomfortable (try to diffuse it passively to not cause problems). I know that I can only speak for myself, but I also know many many women who share these feelings: As a woman, I am constantly, deeply aware of my physical vulnerability. I am not a big or strong person, and I realize that most men can physically overpower me with very little difficulty. I also know that men who overstep with women, who are entitled and persistent and insecure, can be very volatile when they are rejected. I am constantly weighing the risks and benefits of different responses to unwanted advances, and I often feel fearful that if I respond too forcefully or reject them in a way that hurts their egos, I could be attacked, raped, or killed. And there is Nothing. I. Can. Do. (Obv I would fight back but, realistically, my chances are slim) This is why we do our best to just keep calm and be agreeable and do our best to just physically get ourselves out of that situation where we have no physical power, so that afterward we can take steps to stay safe and keep friends safe around the guy in question. To all men who get mad at women for not responding to these situations by being really assertive, please understand that A) you are coming from a place of privilege in which you don't feel you're always at the physical mercy of people you interact with, and B) that men have a responsibility to ask for consent and read body language rather than just assuming that stressed silence is a green light.
@zeston959
@zeston959 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I want you to talk to him!! PLEASE!!
@delanie5594
@delanie5594 4 жыл бұрын
Can you react to SimplyNailogical and Ben?
@HomiePopTart23
@HomiePopTart23 4 жыл бұрын
Your response to k* is really great. From past trauma when I get overwhelmed with any kind of emotions good or bad it's like my body just stops. I can't speak & I can't move. I had to go to therapy where what overwhelms me is constantly reintroduced to me until I can function enough while it's happening. It still happens but now days it's usually because I'm too overwhelmed with good emotions so like I can't tell people I love them when the feeling is too strong no matter how much I want to but I've found ways of showing it rather than saying it in the moment.
@TheEzio1991
@TheEzio1991 3 жыл бұрын
I assume people have watched the other videos and didn't just skip to part 4. If I'm correct, how the hell can you argue that it was Yvonne's fault at this point. Either you did skip or just didn't listen to a goddamned thing.
@BilboSwaggins69
@BilboSwaggins69 4 жыл бұрын
I know this is serious but I lost it when keemstars video came up lmaoo
@SF-op5ix
@SF-op5ix 4 жыл бұрын
LMAO IK
@awesomecow7264
@awesomecow7264 4 жыл бұрын
Right? Lol hes a meme for drama
@broadwaybutterfly310
@broadwaybutterfly310 3 жыл бұрын
I can't stand man who's first thought is "she should've said no" instead of "he should've asked for permission". Like some randomly comes into a girl's room in the middle of the night, climbs into their bed, and starts touching them and instead of thinking their something wrong with the person committing the act, you're gonna blame it on the girl that didn't know how to respond to her friend violating her boundaries?
@PuffinDaEr6
@PuffinDaEr6 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't worry about Keemstar too much. He's barely an expert if any. Just a man with a loud mouth that talks before he speaks.
@lambz2934
@lambz2934 4 жыл бұрын
There is a few videos of people not in otv and if you could talk to Fed that would be amazing.
@fatimaezzahralaamarti6104
@fatimaezzahralaamarti6104 4 жыл бұрын
Can you make some videos to give us women advices on how to maintain a healthy relationship and how to solve this problem with saying no. I know that this video is also for women but please we want some special videos for us. Thank youu so much.
@ryukrocks8843
@ryukrocks8843 3 жыл бұрын
Keemstar is such a clown, men shouldn’t feel like they’re in the right to just do whatever they want until they get a „no“ they should wait until they get a „yes“ in the first place, silence isn’t consent
@caffastrophe
@caffastrophe 4 жыл бұрын
It would be great if you helped him. I think he has a lot of issues and he might have gotten too desperate... Also, you really should say something about videos of OfflineTV friends.
@KireiReiful
@KireiReiful 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely react to Leslie, Angelskimi and Moe's side of the Fed situation. He should not get a say, he still proves himself manipulative even after all that has happened.
@zebraman1154
@zebraman1154 4 жыл бұрын
I suppose I'm incredibly fortunate to have been raised entirely by women. I didn't think the whole, "That's not a cool thing to do, so don't do it" mindset is a privilege. There are times I'll say things that I don't think of in the moment as wrong, but are. I'm glad I have enough humility, that once I realize I've said something wrong, I am more than ready to apologize profusely.
@iTRYMLGaming
@iTRYMLGaming 4 жыл бұрын
SCARRA !!! MY MANNNNN!!! YES!!!
@MrGumEm
@MrGumEm 4 жыл бұрын
Hey man, discovered your channel a few days ago. As a man, you made me realize that maybe what I think as obvious facts, really aren't. So I wanna ask you to review the situation of the KZbinr Relax Alax, I thought he was absolutely right but now I wanna know what you think. Keep up the good work!
@uncleiroh4650
@uncleiroh4650 4 жыл бұрын
As a man in college I definitely have seen this type of problematic behavior take place, mainly in the form of guys complaining that they didn’t get laid after buying some girls drinks. However, I have a few minor points that I slightly disagree with (overall, I completely agree with your stance) Starting on a positive note, the vast majority of his fan base is NOT on his side. A ton of them initially wanted to defend them as he was many of their “idols” so they were bound to look for ways to prove him “innocent”, but right now, you’d be hard pressed to find someone who thinks he is absolved of any guilt. Also, I don’t think the main reason the women don’t speak up is because they’ve been brought up to be submissive. There are some “old fashioned” parents like that, but the vast majority girls I know are just as if not more assertive than my male friends. The main thing is the gradual escalation of inappropriate behaviors from a person they trust (like you’ve pointed out). It’s the same way people get bullied both in school and even in jobs sometimes by close friends. It starts off with small pushes or comments that when left unchecked can become more frequent and aggressive. Just like the saying, “give them an inch and they’ll take a mile”, lots of predators gradually look for their opportunity. Lastly, calling dating a “game” isn’t inherently negative. As long as you are just trying to build meaningful connections and enjoy each other’s company it’s fine, sort of like likening it to playing a game of pickup with a friend, with the objective just being to both have fun and not obsessing over the “score”. The main trouble comes when people begin seeing others as objects for their own validation and personal pleasure. This causes them to stop viewing them as people but just objects to be “conquered”. Regardless, dude needs some serious help as he’s had a long track record of manipulating even his closest friends to get what he wants. An interview between the two of you would be interesting to see, but it’s obvious dude needs some serious help. Hope he can get it and this series should be helpful to a lot of men
@lokestendahl8087
@lokestendahl8087 4 жыл бұрын
Could you talk about dan bilzerian or however u spell it and give us your opinions on him?
@milano7873
@milano7873 4 жыл бұрын
I don't have many guy friends, the guys I know are mostly friends with my sister. But one of the guys she's very close with has similar qualities as Fed. The guy doesn't do anything to my sister cus she's a ’tomboy’ but he has tried to make a move on me MANY times. Like trying to hold my hand at random times and small things like that. One major thing I really didn't like was when he asked if he could say ’I love you’ to me and me to say it to him. I told him to do whatever he wants cus personally, I couldn't care less what he does or says, I didn't tell him ’I love you’ that cus 1. I only say that to my family and 2. I get uncomfortable saying it to relatives so why would I say it to him? He's told me he's had a crush on me for years now but he's had more than one girlfriend while still saying he loved me. And I know the only reason he says he loves me and wants to get with me is so he can brag about it to his friends. I've known him for a long time and I've talked about this stuff with my sister and she looks after me when we're all together. .
@kooohi2980
@kooohi2980 4 жыл бұрын
thank you for addressing what kem said. when i saw kem’s video i was horrified, and even more horrified at all the people agreeing with him. especially because he didn’t even read half of yvonne’s statement before posting that video, despite the fact that over five statements have been made by the time he posted it. thank you so much for teaching people about this.
@skoigetti
@skoigetti 4 жыл бұрын
I think it saying "No" and voicing your discomfort is important. Ever since I was young my parents told me to speak up if something like this ever happened, my ma specifically. However, I want to make this very clear, just because the victim did not say no or stop when they were being touched inappropriately, does not mean they should be judged or blamed because the truth is *that SHOULD NOT have happened in the first place without their consent.* Sometimes you can't simply say no/stop (or if you do some shitface may not listen, they take what they want regardless of the feelings of who they are assaulting) there are so many factors that could contribute to them not speaking up. They could of freeze up (in these type of situations you might, scream, hide, run or freeze) or they could be clouded by the initial confusion or just general what the fuck of a close friend hurting them in a sexual way. It's not always simple. While others (like Keemstar) may think that it is the victim's responsibility to speak up, guess what like I said before it shouldn't happen. Period. Sorry for the rant, but it really pisses me off when people are quick to judge the victim for not saying something, like it's somehow their fault for not saying something. If someone genuinely wants to hurt you, than unfortunately speaking up for your self won't do a god damn thing, unless they truly were not thinking clearly and did it out of impulse (but even then).
@jabbaryu5399
@jabbaryu5399 4 жыл бұрын
I know this is off topic, But are you working on a Wingman Season 2? I really enjoyed that Series.
@AnthonyRecenello
@AnthonyRecenello 4 жыл бұрын
100%
@jabbaryu5399
@jabbaryu5399 4 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello I will be looking forward to watching it :)
@IridescentMoth
@IridescentMoth 4 жыл бұрын
Yes I think I would be good to have Fed in a video not only for himself but for his fan base to show that toxic Masculinity it an issue even if most people don't realize it. I believe that most men and women have been in very similar situation where it has not been address or brought to their attention and it becomes this normalize behavior what should exist. if things happen to make and some is uncomfortable they should speak up. Now I'm not saying to tell wolf but it should be know withing the friend group or to someone they can trust in case it proceeds go happen. But this is just my opinion
@otishames2175
@otishames2175 4 жыл бұрын
Why am I here this early?
@henkarars
@henkarars 4 жыл бұрын
Feel like Fed has manipulated them to feel more sorry for him than mad like poki and scarra. Like they excuse him for alcohol and he need rehab whatever.. its not just alcohol that makes you do these things. Only toast Yassou that putted straight clear words on him.
@Proger-sj8cj
@Proger-sj8cj 4 жыл бұрын
*Fed fanboys don't want to swallow facts , it's a common thing among celebs and their certain percentage of their fans being literally fucking brain dead*
@LviathanGG
@LviathanGG 4 жыл бұрын
Anyway a more serious comment, I just wanna say that you're starting to make me rethink of many things in life. Its even to the point of me pursuing something similar to what you are doing by taking out BS Psychology or something. This is not out of a whim though since I've had my fair share of friends who come to me for advice on life since I've had my fair share of experiences myself though the only thing that makes me stop from pursuing that is my lack of self-confidence when it comes to other people I'm not close with. But after watching you it just ignited that flame back because I legit want to inspire others the way you do.
@WesM369
@WesM369 4 жыл бұрын
keemstar really is a jabroni lmao
@kouji7otake
@kouji7otake 4 жыл бұрын
No audio from 8:28 until 10:28. Is it intentional? Because I have seen these clips before, but I'm not entirely sure if there's a restriction or anything.
@boandarrows6768
@boandarrows6768 4 жыл бұрын
Music copyright
@arruxii
@arruxii 4 жыл бұрын
Whoever agrees with Keemstar needs to grow up.
@skullgamer7493
@skullgamer7493 3 жыл бұрын
Anthony does a good job in explaining things in a nice and calmed manner, even after hearing Keemstar
@kaixis
@kaixis 4 жыл бұрын
Keemstar is the literal definition of a beta male
@calmrhombus2917
@calmrhombus2917 3 жыл бұрын
These videos helped me as a woman understand how to recognize when a friend’s behavior starts to become manipulative, or when a situation should be addressed instead of trying to convince myself that it’s me just being weird.
@chou413
@chou413 4 жыл бұрын
Its not an Anthony Recenello video, without his camera dying 3/4th way thru the video LOL
@chet5459
@chet5459 4 жыл бұрын
Can you react to ryan trahan and haley pham
@eden2665
@eden2665 3 жыл бұрын
ANTHONY DO A VIDEO WITH FED PLEASEEEEE
@eyesReMiXeD
@eyesReMiXeD 4 жыл бұрын
Disguised Toast video was muted.
@gaminbrotato6830
@gaminbrotato6830 4 жыл бұрын
This really made me re-evaluate myself, I always thought I was a good person .... Well now I know i might've been but maybe i've changed and now I'm literally thinking of every single relation I've had with women where I felt attracted at some point and never said anything waiting for an opportunity to say something, I'm probably insecure, To the point where i never have, maybe its good i never did, cause now when I do feel attracted to someone the next time I should probably speak up and be clear about it.
@tshinakahonthangeni9223
@tshinakahonthangeni9223 4 жыл бұрын
Talk to Fed! Talk to Fed! Talk to Fed!
@YourRyeBread
@YourRyeBread 3 жыл бұрын
Seeing Lily in the exact same situation ive been in for 8 or more years helps me so much. I realized so much about why Im not at fault and why I felt guilty
@dannyr.5755
@dannyr.5755 4 жыл бұрын
Yo did anyones audio also cut out at 8:38
@pinkgengar
@pinkgengar 4 жыл бұрын
i said in previous vids, but i really hope u read over yuna's statement, since she was involved or planned to be more romantically involved with fed and was flirty back, but ended up deciding to be with her ex since she was losing interest and fed said some manipulative shit
@desmondbaden3521
@desmondbaden3521 4 жыл бұрын
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