Dating/More Kids?/Her New BF... and how I got the closure I didn't know I needed

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[@kelciewall2522]

You handled this awful situation with the most maturity I’ve ever seen in a co-parenting relationship. From somebody who comes from toxic divorced parents I can’t tell you how much your kids will appreciate this!

[@alisalaska1786]

Saaame

[@midnytjewelrybox]

agreeeee

[@nicole1855]

Honestly I’m actually really impressed with how mature he is it’s amazing for the kids.

[@saddamahmed8947]

@@alisalaska1786 lE.Z

[@johannaekmam9615]

Can't agree more!

[@pnwbabe748]

Says a lot that he values his kids more than getting into a relationship right away. At least these kids have one mature parent.

[@AnnA-jd4xm]

How does it make someone not mature to get into a relationship after a break up? It's not a one size fits all. As long as the kids' needs are being met, that's all that matters.🙄

[@tareastanley7293]

Truth is they have two mature responsible parents. They both provide a roof over their head, clothes on their back, food for their bellies. Just because you don't like that two people who where not meant to be together and personally where not involved in their relationship to know why each party felt the way they felt or moved forward on the steps they did or how life sometimes happens and people fall apart and come together does not give you any right to bash these kids parents specially with low blows. It's sad to see how individuals will degrade people when of you look at the whole picture the kids are happy and healthy and that should be the main focus and it's been for the parents to ensure that! Food for thought it's 2023 bashing and judgment on a personas life that you get a glimpse into is silly.

[@seesoosaw3070]

@@AnnA-jd4xm it’s one thing to go into another relationship but another to go into a relationship with your best friends fiancé. No one has anything against her dating again but to cheat with your best friends fiancé and continue to lie about it is the immature part.

[@AnnA-jd4xm]

@@seesoosaw3070 How do you know if she cheated with her best friend's fiance?

[@pickingwilddaisies945]

@@AnnA-jd4xm how can you work on yourself or even heal as a person if you just jump right into another very long term relationship? I used to jump from relationship to relationship when I was younger, I was very immature and not self-confident at all. I have since going to therapy and have been single for two years now on purpose.

[@holli8493]

It isn't selfish to focus on you and the kids. If anything, it would be selfish to date for validation and happiness. You have 4 kids, and just got out of a relationship. And not only that, the relationship was tough and trust was lost on both ends. When it's meant to be it will happen. Don't force happiness. You are thriving now, and will continue to thrive and grow. Best of luck.

[@paaservantofjesuschrist]

The Gospel of Salvation/Warnings JESUS CHRIST is the only Lord and Savior this whole creation needs. Please turn to Jesus Christ and get saved now while his grace is still merciful for he is coming soon! John 3:16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life”. Isaiah 45:18 “For this is what the Lord says- he who created the heavens, he is God; he who fashioned and made the earth, he founded it; he did not create it to be empty, but formed it to be inhabited he says: “I am the Lord, and there is no other”. Deuteronomy 32:39 “See now that I myself am he! There is no god besides me. I put to death and I bring to life, I have wounded and I will heal, and no one can deliver out of my hand”. Philippians 2:8-11 “And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father”. JESUS CHRIST WAS GOD IN THE FLESH; Son of God. John 1:1-5 “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it”. John 1:14 “The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth”. How to get SALVATION (be saved): 1. Admit that you are a sinner. Romans 3:32 “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God”. Romans 6:23 “For the wages of sin is death”. 2. Believe that Jesus paid for your sin at the cross. Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates His own love for us: while we were still sinners, Christ died for us”. Romans 6:23 “but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus”. Ephesians 2:8-9 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith-and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God-not by works, so that no one can boast.” 3. Confess that Jesus is the Son of God, and commit your life to him. Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved”. 4. Repent (What does repent mean and do? To repent is a change of mind, that leads to a change of heart, that leads to a change in actions. This “change” involves both a turning from sin and a turning to God.) Mark1:15 “And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.” Luke 13:3 “But unless you repent, you too will all perish”. Acts 3:19 “Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord”. 2 Peter 3:9 “The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance”. Once you come to Salvation then comes baptism. (Baptism is an act in which symbolizes one’s renewal/purification and becomes a child of God with the power of the Holy Spirit through water, whether the water is poured on to the forehead or one’s body is immersed into it. This symbolizes the death of our flesh with Christ and our new life through Jesus by the power of the Holy Spirit.) Acts 2:38 Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.” Galatians 2:20 “ I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” Galatians 3:26-27 “So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ.” 1 Peter 3:21 “And this water symbolizes baptism that now saves you also-not the removal of dirt from the body but the pledge of a clear conscience toward God. It saves you by the resurrection of Jesus Christ.” WARNINGS!!! Anyone who does not have Jesus Christ will always be condemned and their righteous deeds are like filthy rags. Romans 8:1 “There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit”. Isaiah 64:6 “All of us have become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous acts are like filthy rags; we all shrivel up like a leaf, and like the wind our sins sweep us away”. Do not worship/sacrifice to other gods; you will only bring harm to yourself. Jeremiah 25:6 “and do not go after other gods to serve them and to worship them, and do not provoke Me to anger with the work of your hands, and I will do you no harm”. Deuteronomy 8:19 “It shall come about if you ever forget the Lord your God and go after other gods and serve them and worship them, I testify against you today that you will surely perish”. 1 Corinthians 10:20 “No, I imply that what pagans sacrifice they offer to demons and not to God. I do not want you to be participants with demons”. TAKE HEED NOW!!! Jesus Christ wants you to have a personal relationship with him. He cares and loves you more than his own life that he gave it up for you to be saved. Jesus Christ is the ultimate sacrifice for all mankind; to atoned away all of our sins with his precious life and blood, that we may share in his Kingdom (1 John 2:2 “He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world”). Jesus Christ is not about being religious but to be in unity with him and allow him to deliver you from the bondage that this sinful body (flesh) is doomed for; God’s wrath (John 3:36 “Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life; whoever does not obey the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God remains on him”). Only through Jesus Christ will you ever get to heaven (John 10:9 “I am the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture”). Seek Jesus Christ only: no other gods can save you from God’s wrath. God’s wrath is not a joke or to be taken lightly (Hebrews 10:31 “It is a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the living God”). Remember he is our Creator and all things are possible with him (Matthew 19:26). May God bless you and soften your heart to discern the truth that is in Christ Jesus, the Lord of Lords and King of Kings; the Savior of this world. AMEN!!!!

[@planetluna9554]

Oscar, I think your kids will be so proud to watch back on how gracefully you handled this life chapter. You pushed forward everyday with your kids FIRST in mind and that’s something to be so proud of. You deserve all life’s happiness and beautiful moments.

[@ellyne3863]

Yes I agree!!

[@AdrianaGonzalez-lb7yu]

100%

[@johannaekmam9615]

Agree

[@hippychick420]

It's not selfish to think about yourself. If you're not taking care of yourself you won't be yourself. You get what I'm saying.

[@jaceylynn2581]

When you’re taking care of yourself you’re also taking care of others ❤win win!

[@rebeccawright5987]

Exactly. Nothing selfish about that.

[@cupcake9453]

From going to "let's go watch Uncle Preston's game and cheer him" to "we give space to each other and respect it". I'm sorry you had to go through with that Oscar.

[@babydinosaur62911]

My exact thoughts. Damn dude...

[@secoolin]

SHUT UP!!! OMG OMG OMG. My mouth hit the floor I can not believe that!!!!!

[@cupcake9453]

@@secoolin wait! you didnt know?

[@love_nyc_]

@@cupcake9453 what happened???????? im confused

[@WalkWithFaith7]

What happened 😮

[@happystar7777]

Is it just me or does Oscar seem like a really really decent catch like he needed validation??? That's so crazy to me. He's very attractive, kind, caring, forgiving, open, fun. A great dad. Crazy to me.. I havnt watched in years but he's still just such a good vibe

[@shadow-lp9gy]

I can't...I can't...understand how you're this CREATIVE!! You seriously were meant to use your talents whether it is a youtube channel, (which I'm so grateful for) filming awesome adventures with your kids, or anything that has to do with videography you definitely have the creativity required for it! Some of these KZbinrs really just are not as good and this was cool adding in clips between the Q and A. I've never seen anyone do that. YOU ARE AMAZING OSCAR. Don't ever forget it. Peace and love for you and your kids 💙

[@tay2520]

I was thinking this ^^

[@Streamscream9]

That’s how I found the OKbaby channel. His videography is truly talented. He needs to do drone footage again!

[@paigethomas3920]

yes totally!

[@juicytiana94]

I honestly can’t even imagine having to deal with someone who was once your friend, someone you welcomed in to your home and hung out with your family and had game nights with you and your fiancé, now having to respect the fact that he took your life from you. I don’t think I can ever get over that. It must be the shittiest thing to have to deal with but Oscar’s such a great guy I can definitely see how he would be totally respectful towards it all now. I couldn’t do it that’s forsure.

[@nomadicfamilyadventures6909]

100% this is what I was thinking. I went through it with someone who worked with my husband, and talked to me and gave my kids things. I found out and felt so betrayed. I couldn't imagine if that person had been in my home, repeatedly, and became a friend. I don't know if I would have handled it as well if it were that way, but Oscar is handling it amazingly. And I believe a lot of it is for his kids, and I will always applaud him for it.

[@byetaylor]

I’m a single mom & I definitely feel the focusing on the kids thing instead of dating. I think once the kids are older and don’t need me as much I’ll try dating but rn they’re my first priority as well as taking care of myself!!

[@sarahmc8309]

Amen !!!!

[@KayCeeKaye]

Same girl same!

[@powderandpaint14]

Your kids will thank you for that. As a child of divorced parents it was no fun to be dragged through relationships they had with them and having people coming in and out of our lives over and over again.

[@EvolvingMama_]

💯🙌🏾

[@Bunbur]

I love how honest he is, that dating for validation was real af. The fact that he's more concerned with putting his children and himself first is legit. You go Oscar! I hope only wonderful things come your way

[@haleydecker3963]

Your whole approach to this has been so mature. It’s incredible to see the growth from the beginning of your youtube journey to now!! Congrats Oscar!! you definitely have incredible things coming!!

[@Secret_Squirrel_Scottishgamer]

You can still tell hes secretly dying inside behind the scenes, but in all honestly he is wayyyy better without her!

[@JadeVoyles66]

@@Secret_Squirrel_Scottishgameryou can tell he hates whats his face and you can tell he knew they were together before the split

[@Secret_Squirrel_Scottishgamer]

@@JadeVoyles66 The worst of it is hes probably thinking the other guy has a bigger ding dong and shes loving it.

[@CallHerCassie]

Oscar’s vlogs are going to try be the best vlogs of 2023 I can just feel it

[@kayladinovo]

Oscar, your ability to handle the last year with maturity, transparency, & constant positive outlook is inspiring. You’re an amazing Dad and your kids will continue to shine because of your dedication to yourself & them ❤

[@jennifermassie7227]

I never watched your channel with your ex. I heard about you from The Dad Challenge Podcast. That man totally had your back. You are now one of my favorite channels to watch!! Keep doing you pal!!❤🇨🇦❤🇨🇦❤

[@seesoosaw3070]

I just want to say that the style of this video is truly the best thing for my ADHD brain and the effort you put in DOESNT go unnoticed. I have been loving seeing you happy and thriving and to see you get past everything for the sake of your kids is truly inspiring and is one of a kind. Keep up the great work Oscar and I hope happiness follows you wherever you go

[@mollymarie1265]

I love that you’re choosing to focus On your kids right now especially because they are so young they will love and appreciate you for that forever, never forget to make time for yourself you’re an amazing dad.

[@BreeCoghlan678]

Watching this back and seeing how excited Levi and Oscar were about Levi’s room, and then watch kyras video and seeing her get rid of ALL OF THAT STUFF, makes me so angry.

[@FikilePreciousMabilisa]

I wish it was longer 😭😭😭😭😭

[@louisekate3736]

Those two (k&p) do not deserve you Oscar. I hope they know how Lucky they are to have you handle the situation as you have done because ain’t no way any other man would have.

[@orlamcib2542]

Your completely right to put all your energy into you and your kids , you’ll know when your ready and the time is right to bring someone into your life 🙌🏻

[@theguzmanfamily1669]

One thing to remember as a parent Oscar is that IF YOU ARE NOT OKAY YOUR KIDS ARE NOT OKAY. Its not wrong to focus on ur self and work on your self it’s not wrong for you put ur self and children first . U have a long life ahead of u and you will get to Dating when ur mentally and physically ready for it 🙏🏽🧿🤞🏽 wishing u nothing but the best ! You are a wonderful father and a great human being

[@nr3349]

I am lovin these vlogs !!!! It’s sooo good to stay updated with Oscar! He has such good positive energy! You are killin it, Oscar!! You got this! Can’t wait to see the success you have this year! I can already feel it!

[@ellyne3863]

Oscar, it's extremely appropriate and mature, and not selfish at all that you're focusing on yourself and the kids. When you're a parent, especially to little kids, the more energy and work you put into creating a healthier version of yourself whether its mental, physical, financial health, whatever your goals are (and frankly any adult could better themselves in at least one if not all of those aspects), the better off your kids will be. Congrats on making smart choices! I always love Q&A videos and really enjoyed this one. Also so happy to hear everyone is able to be civil and keep the peace with all the changes happening. You guys are GOOD parents. You're putting the children first by all getting along, as best as you can. Like you said, you won't ever be best friends but just being respectful to one another will go so far for the kids. You are strong and smart Oscar, you are a wonderful person. You got this!!!!

[@Shelbs_1572]

This was an amazing video and I think it helped us as viewers and you get some of the icky, sort of taboo questions out of the way! Perfect way to start 2023 by explaining goals, your mindset, etc.

[@theblackschaos]

I think out of this whole situation you have grown so much! You have worked your butt off to move forward and I’m proud of you Oscar! Here’s to 2023 being good to you and providing you many blessings!

[@beleneguren]

Your kids will forever thank you for the amazing attitude you have towards every little thing that comes your way. You are an incredible father

[@nevsgreens]

this is honestly such a cool way to do q&as ! it doesnt get boring with straight questions the whole video

[@thekhanvict12]

I loved how you incorporated a regular vlog with the Q&A. It felt way more personal and different. Can’t wait to see all the content you come up with this year 💛

[@babymamajesss]

Its not selfish! I think its great you are focusing on yourself and your kids and you deserve that ☺️

[@alicerice8506]

I love this style Q&A. Never saw one like this before. I can’t wait to see what’s coming😊

[@aliciaramsdell6219]

Oscar is such an old, humble soul. He shows us the best in someone and I aspire to be like him. He is an amazing person and his kids always get put first which shows how truly, amazing of a man and father he actually is! Love you lots Oscar keep being the best you can be it shows xoxo

[@nicolesc1995]

Oscar, you’re amazing. You’re an incredible dad, you’re an inspiration to a lot of people. You’re absolutely gorgeous and any woman would be so lucky to have you!

[@simpyemss]

Oscar is a walking W as a dad and co parent. I’ve never seen you more happy! You’re making the best out of this situation. Way to go Oscar!

[@jowicka1]

I can not say I am teaming one or another, but Oscar with his excitement for this year is something!!! Go Oscar! You are an amazing dad , man and it’s okay to focus on you and your children ☺️

[@ASMRconKiki]

You are a wonderful father, Oscar ❤ You deserve to be happy and focusing on yourself and your kids is the best choice. You are wise beyond your age! You are loved and supported by so many 🎉 Muchas bendiciones!!

[@korey1112]

Your so mature beyond your years and that will carry you far in life, your doing great Oscar. So excited to see how the future unfolds for you

[@housewilson403]

Loved the new format on this one!!! So glad you are trying out these new styles. They are really captivating

[@kellyb6749]

You have such a pure heart Oscar! Your kids have one of the best dads in the world! You've been handling all of this with such maturity!

[@LittleCezza]

I literally love all this content. I've missed your style of vidoes so much. You've grown MASSIVELY and you can tell this is what you both needed to become who you're becoming.

[@Browneyedbabe96]

It is not selfish to put yourself and your kids first you are making amazing moves and memories with them and that is meaningful to them and I am so glad everyone is civil. You are an amazing human and a great dad to those kids

[@Kaylaakakay]

I’m so glad you’re Putting yourself and the kids first, you’re doing amazing and I love these kinds of videos

[@brahminiravi4717]

So proud of you for being vulnerable, Oscar!! You’re doing great!! ❤❤❤

[@hayleyj.]

“He is beauty, he is grace” but for real Oscar, you have handled all of this with such grace and respect for everyone… I think you will look back on this time and have no regrets about the way you handled thjngs. You are a real one. Love this style video! Don’t ever think your editing goes unnoticed, you have talent!

[@jennroks3]

I like this type of q&a, a lot more fun to watch then just sitting and answering questions! Your videos are just getting better and better. Excited for your next one!

[@aprilautry7045]

You are so mature and not selfish at all!!! I will say this once again, this Oscar is an Oscar we have not seen in a long time and I love it!!! Your an amazing dad!!!

[@dodadyo]

For someone who has not been in a relationship before, all these relationship and breakups I am seeing makes me actually relieved I am single. I easily gets too attached and breakups would surely ruin me. Proud of you Oscar. I am excited for what's in store for you in the future. Hoping to see more vlogs of you living life happily.

[@danellekurtz6465]

I liked this video! Glad to see you are happy! Choosing you and your children is a great thing and not selfish at all.❤

[@Gabzpipe]

I honestly only really watched okbaby to see Oscar. Hes always so positive and I’m happy for him. He seems like he’s in such a good place.

[@maddieholden6904]

Oscar is such a genuine kind soul❤ wish him nothing but the best in 2023!

[@saravansteenwegen6265]

this was so fun to watch! i liked the style of the random clips in between the questions! also thank you for being so open en honoust to us and it's so nice to see the relationship kiki has with the kids!

[@createconsiderconnect3356]

Loved the video & the maturation shown in answering these questions. Your growth & introspection during an absolutely devastating situation all for the sake of the children is amazing. Your actions & words during this as you move forward with life will have lifetime affect on the kids mentally, emotionally, & physically. So your sacrifice, though very hard in the moment is worth it in the long run. Your children didn’t ask to be born into this situation so they should never be the ones “punished” by the actions/words of their parents. Children come first PERIOD.

[@ogblumpbone4479]

Your maturity level is well beyond the other folks referenced in this video. I’m happy you don’t hold any outward resentment and you’re better for it. The selflessness you show towards your kids is amazing and they’re lucky to have you so involved in their life.

[@giovannabaldoni8606]

I'm impressed by your honesty and I think that although it's the hardest choice it's important to first try to feel good about yourself and understand who you are especially after getting out of such an important relationship; I personally think you've chosen the more mature way of dealing with it. I wish you a future full of fulfillment and happiness!

[@danaconda]

You’ve handled this whole situation with grace. No slander, no bad blood. Your kids are always happy, and smiling. I feel like you have truly grown as a father, and as an individual, and that is so so important. Your children 100% will thank you for it all one day. Even if they don’t see it now. The extents you’ve gone to mature, and focus on yourself and your children is admirable. I wish you nothing but success in your future!

[@2306lipex]

I think it's so amazing how you're watching all four kids, working, vlogging, editing, and taking the dog out for walks and doing it all so gracefully! You're a role model!!! 👏 😍

[@EGORElicious]

You're doing awesome, Oscar! Everyone looks forward to your videos. Focusing on yourself and your kids is not a selfish thing. You focus on yourself and those babies. Get it! 🥰

[@babybx3]

I love this video. I’m glad we got to hear about how your doing. Proud of you and how far you have come Oscar. I can’t wait to see what you and the kids get into this year!

[@kytruth1027]

You're an awesome Dad!!! So many men ... and women could learn so much from you!! You're slaying the whole co parenting thing!

[@annielance4754]

This is the best way. Showing respect to one another even if there is bad blood is super important for the kids to see. To know that mum and dad and whoever else will show up when needed and be welcome to do so. Its a nice security for those babies 😍

[@ashliegraham5763]

I LOVE this video!!! You’re amazing Oscar! You video about let’s leave the past in the past made me cry!! You’re so smart to focus on the kids and yourself!! Good luck in 2023 ❤❤❤

[@yui8604]

As someone who just got out of a long-term relationship, I just want to tell you that I love watching your videos. They always make me smile and give me a sense of drive and hope that things do get better. You inspire me to keep going and that with endings come great beginnings. Thank you Oscar. I wish you nothing but the best!

[@kamaladevi1441]

Oscar, you are mature beyond your years. It's so heartening to see how you bear no malice to the one who left you or her BF. You have such a big heart and I hope that 2023 will bring you and your kids nothing but happiness and joy. You so deserve it after what you have gone through in the past year.

[@kayzzzasmr6612]

I watched the OKBaby channel for years, but I realize I watched for YOU and the kids, you’re optimistic outlook on life was so helpful for me. As long as you stay true to yourself and your kids, I know you’ll go far in this life

[@KatTheTruth]

You seem way more mature than their mother, for sure. You really seem to put the kids first. You are super likable and are clearly an amazing daddy! You got this, man!

[@kerenmartinez801]

Omg this format for a q and a was so cool! I loved it! Your videos are sooooo good, I never get bored! Keep it up 👏

[@leshaj1989]

Proud of you that shows real maturity ♡ Learn who you are and what you want and give your kids your energy until your ready.

[@merinahpopp4349]

I hadn’t seen any of your previous channels videos in years and randomly came across your videos again. So many kiddos now! I’m so sorry you had to through all of this but you’re handling it wonderfully!

[@iwantmyp1nkshirtback]

Your videos keep getting better and better! I look forward to sitting down every few nights and have a handful of videos to catch up on!

[@ericaleegill2445]

So happy for you keeping pushing through for your babies

[@Maddy98019]

You are definitely not selfish about thinking about yourself. It’s a time where you can grow yourself and have much needed time with your kiddos!!! ❤

[@angelaswan7614]

Oscar you are so mature and have your priorities in the right place. Taking time to concentrate on you and your children is exactly what one should do upon separation. For the children, this is actually a selfless action. So happy for you.

[@juliajones2283]

Oscar you are setting a great example for your children. I admire how you have handled the situation you have been put in. It was great to see the children with Kiki as she has been a big part of their lives so good they can see her with you. Xx

[@hherbst1]

These videos are so refreshing. I love that the vlogs are you focused with a sprinkle of kids. Well done!

[@lex3097]

Oscar! your strength is admirable. you’ve handled yourself very maturely. i wish nothing but the best for you and your children! don’t rush into anything and just learn to love yourself again. you’re killing it ! Nothing but love

[@cierralinden9962]

Yet another oscer blog that I loved. You’re killing it

[@RJB1980]

This was a much more entertaining style of Q&A than just sitting in the same location talking for the duration. Loved it!

[@lainacollins]

So glad you are happy! I am loving these everyday vlogs too!

[@ellenkkneal]

The way you talk about each situation is literally so mature!

[@27Tigress]

Love the vulnerability sharing about how you felt free from a weird mental bubble being in the house and having made the goodbye video. Woohooo. Happy for you!!

[@maureenjacob3902]

Love the video Oscar! You are really good at editing, keep killing it dude and doing it for the kids 💪🏼 also love that you keep Kyla and her bf involved with the kids, the seem to love her so so much

[@Jennbeth24]

I love the format of this video and as a long time viewer and subscriber of both you and Okbaby I’m happy to see how you are growing and thriving for yourself and your children! ❤

[@MostlyMom]

Oscar, I’m loving these vlogs! I never followed OK Baby or any family vloggers but I heard about your story and family story from the dad challenge podcast and came to check out your solo channel stuff. Your authenticity is refreshing and your vlog style is fun! Perfect length and love that you’re not super focusing on your children, but more about sharing your journey as an adult/person/parent!

[@rubiaoliveira6904]

Dear God, i'm so happy with the daily vlogs and to see this beautiful fam again as someone who's been watching you guys since Levi was a newborn 💙

[@arellytran]

Liked the style of the vid! I know you’re showing us this awesome new strength you’ve found but let’s be real… healing takes time. It’s okay to put yourself first and be selfish. I was a single parent for a long time and couldn’t imagine jumping into another relationship after a broken one. You’re doing what’s right and you should be proud of that. The next person (if you choose to have a next) will get the best version of yourself and they will be up to par because you attract what you put in. The quality of people that you attract will be elevated. Trust me on this! We’re here for you Oscar!

[@Oceanww]

Always nice to see a proud dad. Closure is a process. Even though I made the choice to leave my toxic ex, it still hurts a lot when you wanted so badly to turn it around. When you’re ready to date, I’m sure you’ll find a very nice girl.

[@2manyjules]

You rock because you reflect and its not selfish but healthy. You made a grown up decision to not stumble into a new relationship with past baggage... best decision you made for everyone around you and for your future.

[@margaro2615]

Best of luck to you and your kids! You seem to have your priorities straight. I really enjoy your videos ❤️

[@liveloveaubree]

loved the way this video was set up!! made it super interesting and fun to watch when it was basically just a sit down q&a

[@SrgelJulia]

Oscar just went next level doing a Q&A with content in between! Loved it

[@Slimmingwithsandy]

This right here needs to be shared more… all moms are always being applauded for being a mom. But we don’t have any examples of how to go thru a situation like this. Thank you for helping dads learn ways to be a dads

[@prwences]

Happy New YEar! You are such a light for your kids! ❤️💕

[@nourboukhris7107]

This style of QA/vlog is crazy good !! Keep up the good work

[@Returnofthemackburt]

I’m really proud of you, Oscar. You handled this huge situation with respect for your kids and it will be worth it as they grow. You deserve every ounce of grace.

[@daisydukes9870]

I’m not crying you are. You’re so perfect! I’m so happy for you & this chapter of your life. You’re an amazing person & even more of an amazing father! ❤️

[@helen1396]

Honestly Oscar you are the most sincere KZbinr I watch. I’m so glad you’re putting yourself & the kids first. There’s no reason to rush into a new relationship when you just got out of a long one. You need time to heal and figure yourself out & the best way to do that is by yourself with your kids! You deserve the world and hope You get everything you want in life!

[@lindamonnett4450]

Oscar every time I think you made the best video; you make a better one. The questions were great but your answers were amazing. Your are a fantastic generous human being. Putting you and your children first is the most mature and loving thing ever. Your acceptance of the situation just proves your love for the kids is more important than having animosity towards the bf. Life is going to reward you for unselfish intentions. Love to you and your beautiful family! 💖🥰👍

[@brendad940]

Knowing you need to focus on you and the kids right now is maturity not selfishness sweetie. You are doing great. I just wish your videos were longer! Sending love from Wilsonville Oregon

[@KaniLott]

Oscar, I seriously applaud you for how you have handled the shit that was dealt to you and continued to stay true to you and your family values. Your kids are so lucky to have you and have someone who truly cares for them in their corner. 2023 is looking good for you Oscar! Keep kicking ass and doing what you’re doing, you got this! 🤍

[@vmontoya58]

Your definitely on the right track, I’m amazed as a young father that you are focusing on your kids. No rush on dating, you can date anytime kids are alway number 1 believe me they grow so fast so embrace every second.

[@maeganjoyce]

Oscar’s vlogs are so authentic and genuine! Love watching!!❤️❤️