Dating the Fantasy - Part 1

[@summerxo3203]

The most honest I've ever seen Adrienne 'ended up with someone who has more kids than my last relationship' 😂😂

[@positivevibes8516]

she had no choice her eggs were getting old

[@mkhuiogrgingid8021]

Positive vibes she's only 30 something 1. 2. There's of plenty of people her age having children. And 3rd I think she might actually be pregnant now.

[@Key_1111]

+mkhui ogrgingid Exactly!

[@anunaneyonti2899]

Tamera looks gorgeous today

[@92gigigeorges]

anuna neyonti She really does!!🤗

[@shojogrl]

Yas! Love her outfit. It reminds me of classic Harley Quinn.

[@AGirlCalledNicole]

What about yesterday?

[@lamoskgr]

anuna neyonti She's come a long way in terms of personality and fashion. I remember how she wouldn't like talking about sex nor wearing short skirts because she thought her knees were fat. Now she's really comfortable, she even talks about her fantasies and her fashion choices are way better. The Real has been an amazing change for her.

[@ilenmunoz4802]

anuna neyonti she does. Doesn't she remind you of The joker today because of the colors she is wearing lol or is it just me ?

[@shimaa7732]

Tamera! Girl you are so fine!

[@jenniferatlet6238]

This also needs to be adressed to the majority of guys these days that think looking like a surgery enhanced Kardashian or Victoria secret model is "reality"

[@DebraFileta]

Amen to that - here's an article about that called "Men, Stop Looking for a SuperModel Wife!" truelovedates.com/men-stop-looking-for-a-super-model-wife/

[@strikerron2252]

@@DebraFileta men these days would marry anything that looks like a women even if it is a doll , that article is literally baseless

[@latina7292]

WOMEN. You do NOT have to settle. PLEASE do not lower your standards out of fear of being alone. Know your worth and fight for it. Do not ever let that go.

[@ashleyramos767]

They’re not saying that they’re saying that sometimes ppl just focus on looks when the love of ur life might not be ur type

[@ayana5508]

You know.. women are always encouraged to be flexible with our partners...but men are never given the same advice.

[@asmaal9972]

Ayana exactly thank you for saying that , all the advice only for women

[@brinaechanel4236]

Ayana Big Facts

[@missybe3238]

Men are generally not as picky as women.

[@ccovergirl]

Adrienne,buckle up,the commentsavages is coming for you,lol!

[@omphilemoerane2569]

Dude I swear that is what I think to myself whenever she talks about Israel and his kids and side babies. L

[@aci12345678]

Omphile Moerane oh adrienne is definitely not going to mention those side babies..

[@shaedavis53]

GVOM I know and it's pathetic

[@jessicam1039]

Loni even nominated Adrienne @ 00:30 y'all... it ain't just me shading her

[@janicelambright5256]

GVOM everyone has a opinion if you werent on social media, all the time. then noone will know your business.

[@nnako]

I wish people would give Adrienne a break.

[@1992Fabulous]

i know right?

[@theprycecam132]

Nako Mmopelwa they always on her ass and some of these bitches on here ain't the one seated up there...like dang give her a break at least she is married..and not walking around sleeping with married men

[@layla8647]

Nako Mmopelwa Agreed, she might have made mistakes in the past, but isn't that what living is all about. U live and U learn. No one knows what the future holds. Now she's happy, and that's all it matters:)! That's doesn't mean, she's not qualified to give advice, express her opinion or share her experience! Plus she's a nice person:)

[@1992Fabulous]

Neka Chynn Exactly!! i swear people r counting the down the days till she gets a divorce... they should let her live...let her enjoy her marriage. many people dont like what Israel did, we get it.. ! Bt she LOVES HIM, and she is HAPPY people...

[@clarke4400]

She needs to give herself a break 🙄

[@chianteb19]

Men get to choose whatever woman they want regardless of whether or not they deserve them. They are never told to settle. Women are always told to adjust what we want and need just to have someone.

[@andieashdown4219]

OMG SO TRUE!! Women are meant to be so accepting of mens flaws but men can have the highest standards ever and are never questioned. This is unfortunately why a lot of women have low self esteem :(

[@chianteb19]

Andie Ashdown Exactly, trying to be perfect for a dude with no job. smh

[@hannahi9355]

chianteb19 So true, men always get to choose. women just have to wait. Its such bull.

[@hannahi9355]

Andie Ashdown Preach

[@blakecoston1831]

Not all men wives look like beyonce. Stop it. Maybe you missing out on a great guy cause your standards are too high is what this was about. Especially gold diggers like remy mention. Your standards should not be low either but the perfect guy might have one thing missing from your list like height. So what. I get why women don't want broke guys if they doing something. Don't expect a guy that going to take care of you.

[@joannasaad298]

When Loni does that giggle you know it's gonna be good :D

[@dunniadegbite9979]

Joanna Rad Or a lie

[@joannasaad298]

Dunni Adegbite yes! But still funny 😄

[@seliglam6078]

remy ma is so beautiful omg

[@MegaDede1212]

selam queen 😍🍫

[@claudiacastro2709]

selam queen Yes, she is gorgeous and doesn't seem to need much to look beautiful

[@femme434]

blend the contour!

[@farrah7372]

Femmè82 thought I was the only one thinking that😂

[@madwalka6402]

It makes her FF look skinner tho. (FF = FatFace)

[@usadrones]

🎵🎶I got a darkskin girl look like Michael Jackson 🎵🎶

[@myluv2x]

Everybody else makeup got better as the seasons went on but Loni 🐸☕️ fire that white lady.

[@candicurls9855]

Lonnie's makeup has been looking so great lately. I was thinking they got a new makeup person. Then this episode happened : ( Maybe they were rushing to get her out the makeup chair to start filming?

[@britbritnicole]

God gives us what's best for us

[@MajesticMyronn]

#MakeupByBrit and that's my point as well

[@samiraabdulaahi8631]

savage!!

[@britbritnicole]

You Tried It! Yep that's why nobody can see your face so you can talk mess without being seen

[@ritz_essence1547]

#MakeupByBrit why do you always come for people that are even slightly critical of Adrienne?

[@feefs2139]

Period

[@yeseniaarguelles8099]

Loni should just hire me as her makeup artist lol. I for one will not have her going out there with an unblended nose contour and white under eye setting powder 😩 #IWontDoYouLikeThatLoni

[@ladyt9505]

I wish Dark skinned women stop with that white powder stuff. That is not for our complexion it makes you look dusty. I learned my lesson no thank you.

[@seaguerra]

Loni's makeup artist make her nose contour a little too dark

[@faryal818]

Cee G totes agree...cant stop staring at it lol

[@melissacharles8410]

Cee G faxxx

[@BabeEli3]

Her make up kills me man, her highlight is too light too.

[@Reneeri]

Cee G her makeup still looks better than mine 😂

[@SallayMusic]

I think the powder is too light for her also, she needs something more warmer for her skintone

[@camileahnrox47]

ONCE AGAIN PASTOR JEANNIE CAME THROUGHH

[@Denise-ob8dk]

Leah E 👏👏👏👏

[@honeydip19]

Yep with her "get ready God". lol It's so true. We try and tell God what we want/need.

[@shanice_a]

honeydip19 And he is always 20 steps ahead of us and gives us what HE KNOWS we need. Not what we want in another person so I agree.. We shouldn't tell him what we want and need. He already has the person for us that he thinks we should have. However, If you get who you want and that is also the person that God has for you, You are lucky..

[@rebuiltgirl3263]

Whenever I see these old clips and Jeannie talks about her marriage I cringe because her comments are so different now

[@jordangaddis9207]

Adrienne been dying to give advice to her single friends lmao

[@MirrorSelfies]

Lol my single girlfriends 😂😂😂😂😂

[@tweetsosweet]

always wondered what happens if you find someone who has everything on your list , but you don't have everything on their list. so they're not interested in you. lol

[@humblechiq7194]

skiblue61 BINGO!

[@blessednotstressed116]

Loni's under eye area looks too light!! I don't understand how her makeup artist can be so hit and miss with it. There is having a bright under eye and then just plain ashy. Loni has amazing skin and her makeup artist is just doing her wrong!

[@miadubose9339]

That's EXACTLY what I was thinking!

[@lovemecom3832]

I love how Adrienne shared her advice and experiences to everyone. It was really on point and she just admitted everything that she wants in a man even if her husband doesn't have those qualities.

[@FitnessSweets]

Adrienne is short, so a 6' tall dude isn't necessary. Lol.

[@vliciouss]

SangtotheDy exactly

[@mssmartepants]

seriously. that annoys me. it just makes it harder for a tall lady like me to find a taller guy so i can feel more feminine

[@DSanchezzzz]

SangtotheDy rightttt 😂

[@ritz_essence1547]

Yesss like that affects the short men & the tall ladies groove. Stop it.

[@mssmartepants]

There are definitely hot short guys, and they definitely don't need to be tall to be masculine. I'm only 5'8; I just like feeling small and dainty next to my guy, especially in heels, and it's easier with a taller guy. (i.e., it's my internal feeling, and a personal problem)

[@andanievans9580]

give Adrienne a break! stop judging her every time when a topic is about MEN and she says something. not fair at all

[@positivevibes8516]

uh nah lol shes on a talk show welcome to society we judge

[@andanievans9580]

hello Mr society. judging her its fine, but judging her for one thing over and over becomes STUPID

[@NaturalChic93]

andani evans i agree. she can literally say "so yesterday me and israel were out to dinner---" and people start talking about her so quickly it's getting old and dumb quite frankly

[@andanievans9580]

i know right. its really getting tiring now

[@britbritnicole]

Positive vibes that doesn't make it right

[@jo.onthego]

Remy is so Gorgeous!

[@rhondarosoboro7874]

Adrienne has grown so much. I'm really enjoying see her be herself. Her perspective is on point lately.

[@Kuk938]

'Get ready God' lol Jeannie cracks me up

[@kianah544]

I meeaaannnnnnn, I personally don't indulge in the dragging of Adrienne and Israel, but I would never take relationship advice from Adrienne. I suppose that's completely up to what you want though. Personally, I ask myself: Do I want a marriage like them? If the answer is no, then I shouldn't be getting advice from them. Anyways, this sounds a whole lot like settling. I don't think you should be unreasonably picky but there is nothing wrong with having your mind set on something specific. It's not too much to ask for a man with no ex wives or side babies. If that's not what you want, don't feel like you need to "change your filter" just so you can end up with someone. And I hate the analogy too for that reason. Not having a porch on the airbnb you'll be living in for a WEEK, is not the same as someone not having a quality you want for a lifetime. Also, in general, I feel like some people are so quick to insist that God is the reason for their decisions. He's used as justification and a means to shut down opposition. That's not always the case... Sometimes it wasn't God's will. Don't put that on him. That was all you.

[@Earth712]

Istg, people make there own decisions you can't have the freedom to choose if god is always choosing 4 you. So yeah you might not be ready 4 children, so your settle, knowing your not going to be your best.

[@artofmajic]

I swear Adrienne talk like she read nothing but inspirational ig quotes all day

[@sheronb2891]

Jeanie shaded Loni so much when Remy said " they want to be stay at home thots " . Man I love her 💀❤

[@longninh1168]

My things is, we want what we want, I'm 24, people tell me date a little older, 40 year olds seem to treat me way better but I'm not attracted to them! I'm just not. People say don't worry about age, but to a 24 year old college student, I'm not looking at them like a partner, I prefer someone 25 to 30, mature and Christian. that is hard to find though. Someone who is young, attractive but still mature and sophiscated

[@MissShootingStar5]

40 is way too old for you!! There would be a power imbalance there.

[@longninh1168]

Exactly!! Thanks for confirming what I already knew! But people keep telling me , "Age is nothing but a number, it's not about age, its about how a man treats you" Yea, right lol I don't want an old geezer lol while they may treat me better, my father would be 46 if he were alive,, even he would disapprove.

[@CourtneyA.]

Long Ninh Same, I'm turning 24 in two months and my friend tried to hook me up with her 38 year old brother in law. I told her I wasn't attracted to him plus, he was a Jehovah's Witness which isn't exactly the same as Christianity. So I end up looking like the picky single girl because I didn't settle for him.

[@autumnsummers6599]

Long Ninh Also whether or not you are attracted to a guy, a guy proposed to me, I said no, people were saying I should say yes, even though I've only dated him 4 months, and we broke up 3 times, it's like making me feel bad for not being physically attracted to him, like physical attraction can be controlled, I'm so tired of the rules being different for men and women, no man will get with a girl he's not attracted to but women are guilted into doing so.

[@sayu4606]

I agree, drop your filter down but Adrienne telling us to be like her is a NO-GO for me like, i love her but I would never ever take a man that has cheated on his wife of 20 years, has side kids. She was their homewrecker, and someone might do it back to Adrienne.

[@livelovelearn6343]

sayu know your facts

[@sayu4606]

know my facts what? ya'll think she wasnt the homewrecker? looooool ok. don't believe everything

[@janicelambright5256]

sayu agreed.

[@mimicovers97]

sayu Can we not call Adrienne a homewrecker please? Why is the blame solely on her?

[@sayu4606]

Miriam Onen don't even get me started on Israel...

[@jenny-yn3lu]

I'm in love with someone who doesn't exist. his name is myself. strong independent women who already has a man which is my INNER BITCH 😍😍😎😎😎

[@melyg2034]

lol nicely said @Juna Antenor

[@Mel-nb7ee]

Juna Antenor yous a lonely bitch smh

[@aleeshaali2295]

Juna Antenor 👏👏😂

[@kinndah2519]

Juna Antenor your inner self isn't going to give you babies

[@nikiracarter]

I hate the idea that if u don't agree with someone/something you're automatically deemed as a hater/jelous, at the end of the day Adrianne taste In men isn't the best and that's that, there's no hAte or jealousy to it

[@jodynanci]

kira murray it's not what I would've chosen but God did the choosing for her and he sees things in people our human eyes cannot. Ps it's truly only hating when u say negative things because ur secretly jealous of her and her life...if u ain't then keep it pushing, you're entitled to ur opinion

[@nikiracarter]

Showcasedmommy I hear what you're sayin however who's to say God actually wanted her with isreal? God could of been pointing her in another direction she ignored. Not only is divorce wrong in the bible but so is infidelity, I know we serve a forgiving God but why would he want this beautiful woman with a good heart with someone like that?

[@madwalka6402]

kira murray And they'll call you "Miserable" , "Pathetic", or "Mad". 😂😂😂

[@jamesbryson8927]

+kira murray Well said!!

[@nikiracarter]

James Bryson lol won't he do it?

[@LeahLayah]

They all look so gorgeous!😍😍 Especially Tamera!❤

[@oftones]

lmao love Remy on this panel!

[@truworship26]

I fell in love with a guy that was not everything on my list...almost four years later we are newlyweds and continue to grow together, work together and achieve together. I thank God we are achieving perfection together. I thank God I didn't get everything on my list but he is exactly what I needed.

[@omphilemoerane2569]

Does Adrienne not read the comments here? I swear everytime she talks about Israel and his bus load of kids I'm like oh Lord the comments section is about to be lit.

[@britbritnicole]

Omphile Moerane she obviously doesn't care lol. And I don't blame her. It's her life and she can talk all she wants.

[@MusicSeason22]

he only has 4 kids

[@trulyrblessed]

Oh Lord! Adrienne brace yourself for these comments!!!

[@anewloveofficial9137]

I absolutely agree with you guys. We should really try to lower our standards specially to those who are still single right now. Who knows? the one that you've been looking for all the time is just at right in front of you, but you're too busy on searching for someone that can fit in your categories.

[@AJay-mo7zx]

A 5'7 guy would look like 6ft next to u Adrienne!!! Chill out.

[@Alexis-ec9cl]

A Jay exactly. Us shorter women are usually happy with any man taller than us. Idk why 6'0 is even a requirement for someone 5'2 Lmao

[@aci12345678]

It's either they have an airbnb sponsorship already, or Adrienne is working to get that promo. Either way I like the subtleness 😂👍🏽

[@jaspreetdhaliwal4953]

Adrienne there is no damn reason why a unmarried woman in her 20s without a man should be settling for a man with multiple children

[@laurenclem]

Loni's eyeshadow is always soooo blended and I absolutely love it!!! Work it girl!

[@suporiaa6826]

Loni gets annoyed when Adrienne talks 😂

[@dianajorgeloyalones6083]

This Is So True You Might Make A List But You Might Meet Someone That Has Some Of What You Looking For But Not All Just Open Your Eyes👀To New Things Out Here💯💯

[@MajesticMyronn]

Tbh... We all have this idea of " the perfect guy " or " perfect girl " but in reality NOBODY is perfect... to me sometimes God leads you to someone that need and not necessarily want!!!

[@anastassiyali140]

Adrienne, what u've described is called settling...

[@brittanyburley8966]

"Date outside of your race..." I'm sorry Adrienne but I can't turn on my black men. No others top them lol I've tried but there's a lack of connection with other races of men. Not only that but I support black love. It's all about waiting on God. You can tell a good man by his fruits and you have to be evenly yolked. I'm not settling. I know I don't want men with kids unless I have one. I think it's unfair for me to share my man with his child and baby mama. No. I want my own family. I think us women settle too much which is why we have so many broken homes and families. Adrienne, I hope your marraige last but it SOUNDS like you settled.

[@positivevibes8516]

lol im open to dating outside buts its very convenient she had to steal a black womans man to push this theory lmaooo

[@incontrolfantasy9]

Brittany Burley 👏

[@jmeiahburke5388]

s Yil COME ON SOMEBODY!! Everybody always dogging her out. It bothers me when they don’t even know her PERSONALLY and are so heavily opinionated like getcho life!!! Whatchu talkinn bouuuttt?! People always gotta make a mountain out of a mole.

[@kellyt4528]

You are misusing the phrase unevenly yoked. That is in reference to the spiritual part of a person, not the physical.

[@xXxbaxroxXx]

lol i cant take addriene seriously but i think its ok to have a list so long as you yourself fulfill this list. its ok not to want a man with kids of u dont have kids. its ok to want a man with a good job if you yourself have a good job. it just depends on the person

[@CourtneyA.]

xXxbaxroxXx Amen

[@summerxo3203]

When your friends tell you 'I would love to see who you marry 😊' let me dream

[@maricelacorral1825]

You guys really sent a message and I realize that you guys are right we as woman have a high standard on the men we want next to us that we forget to add what we need.

[@Lycheaa]

I'm never this early to the videos. I feel like I've turned up at a party before the regulars arrived and I'm sitting in their seats. Lol. * *Looks for the usual comments* *.

[@yaclilly]

Preach Pastor Mai. She the only one that had something valid to say here.

[@kk-lz1by]

I don't know ... a fantasy is also what I'd call having standards, sure you can keep an open mind but if you really want something in a guy I say don't settle.

[@TuAmorCheyenne]

Adrienne RELAX! You were just one of the "single girlfriends" stop acting like you know everything when it comes to love, relationships and sex you've only been married for 2 minutes.

[@SophieLovesSunsets]

When I was single and dating I ALWAYS said that I would never be with a man who was away from home a lot ... and now I'm married to an airline pilot lol. And it's not easy because my husband is away working more than he's home but we're in love with each other and we make it work. We don't let the days we're apart tear us apart because we're just thankful for the days we're together. It's about finding the right person who you're truly in love with that makes the relationship worthwhile. There are times when you think, DAMN this is tough, but if that's what it takes to be married to the person that makes you happy it's worth it. When you find something REAL with someone don't let it go 💖💖💖

[@lifebeingwendii2712]

TamTam's shoes are always gorgeous​!!!!

[@yangtzeling7468]

At different stages of our lives , we see things through different lenses.

[@kelendria]

All those Bitter Betty gon talk today about our adrienne! The hateration lol

[@britbritnicole]

jeanne violette not attractive at all lol smh

[@positivevibes8516]

and will speak the truth as they talk

[@britbritnicole]

Leon O opinion and being mean and hateful are two totally different things. People don't know the difference anymore because they think their " opinion" is a fact

[@kelendria]

***** what kind of truth do you speak when you only hear a blog side and never heard the side of those involved?

[@positivevibes8516]

jeanne violette shes told her story many times in the panel shut your ass up😂😂

[@mimisvida6264]

I hear ya Adrienne. I am currently dating my sweetie who is younger than I. He also is Irish and German and I'm Hispanic. I never thought about dating outside my race but now it's not a factor for me. He is my complete opposite but thats what makes us vibe together as one. I love it!

[@salmgeremew8793]

Who ever did Loni's make up needs a high five on the face ✋ Lord have mercy!!!

[@Harunna25]

A Black Diamond guuuurl I'm dead 💀 Ahahahahaha 😂😂 you are so funny! And you right too! 👐

[@doreenappiah1581]

Jeannie is always speaking some truth. She's my fav!

[@carbonintellectuals8346]

Remy ma is drop dead breathtaking her smile is everything

[@melyg2034]

These women are seriously a joke. Now they're telling women to settle? They over flatter their unattractive husbands all the time and Loni needs to stop giving their husbands props too like please. I'm tired of this stigma that being single is such a bad thing and that there is something wrong with you if ur single and ppl feel sorry for you. Umm news flash not all single ppl are down and some ppl prefer being single and are happy being single. Relationships and marriage aren't for everybody and that's okay. Don't listen to these women, they were all desperate to be married especially Adrienne & Tamera, Jeannie not so much, but they talk about their husbands and relationships way too much on this show in general. Having expectations and standards for what you want in a partner physically, quality and personality wise is a good thing and a person shouldn't stray away from what they want for a partner just, because they are single for a long time and are having a hard time finding the guy they want. Granted, no one is perfect and there isn't such a thing as Mr. or Mrs. perfect, but there is a fine line between being open and settling, so with that being said please don't settle people.

[@blakecoston1831]

She not saying standards are bad but you going be alone forever if you expecting perfect. Don't date a bum but you might miss out on a great guy and idk what you look like but i sure you unattractive to alot of people but your ego big. Everybody ugly to someone.

[@nesswebb459]

Mely G you call them unattractive bc their unattractive to you. To them they may be everything. They aren't telling women to settle. It's most likely not realistic that you are going to meat someone who fits the description down to a T I'm sorry. So yes sometimes you have to step out your comfort zone

[@Simplykiebby]

Mely G You read waaaay too much into this

[@Poopie22]

Tf

[@yasminpineda1461]

I’m so happy Adrienne is happy. I see the difference in her relationships

[@taydee8611]

Rem shirt is bombbbbbbbbb i needs that....

[@MiMiOrt]

I'm completely convinced that Adrienne is pregnant. Guess they're waiting on next season 2 tell it. CONGRATS A !!!!!!!

[@tyerra1213]

Is it bad that I skip forward when Adrienne is talking? 😩

[@tianawilliamsrn]

I love how much Adrienne and Tamera love their husbands. it really inspiring!

[@SolarLove7]

I'm not taking advice from Adrienne, I'm sorry smh

[@mwoww08]

Bella Golden then don't lol

[@BogusBozo]

@mwwow08 she just said she wont...

[@annsims3776]

This is so true! I used to have a height requirement when I dated. The moment I changed my mindset I found my husband! Literally he appeared that same week lol Had I still been super picky about the height, I would have dismissed him with a quickness! And I would have missed out on the man of my dreams!! Definitely everything that I NEEDED!

[@sheena-marieroots4706]

I'm so distracted by lonis nose contour ...her makeup artist ain't right smh

[@BogusBozo]

If that distracts you then girl you need Jesus BADLY.

[@chikhulupilironsanjama8244]

Loni Love's signature laugh at 0:12 gets me every time oow hu!

[@naylani7790]

Loni's makeup is tragic 💀......

[@fatouthiam5192]

Sometimes when loni have a lighter foundation she looks like what I would look like if I put on my moms foundation,and my mother is like three shades lighter then me I am not hating on her I love her but her makeup artist did her wrong😞😞😞😞😞😒😒😒😒😔😔🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@kaylenejantjes8113]

When it comes to life plans, I will never dare say "Get ready God". CRAZY!

[@keannaa2012]

Loni's nose contour is too harsh 😬

[@paularene4961]

I really enjoy visiting with you ladies DAILY even know y'all don't know it but remember I've been A GREAT FRIEND with u all as Y'ALL have been FOR me so for THAT I thank you😙😙

[@adelizagarcia337]

Remy, you looking fresh!

[@ifeomao7814]

Loni's makeup is so on point today.

[@capirotazo8]

I think its all about your own expectations 🤔

[@Lalalalala...]

Jeannie and Tamera look sooo good! They always look pretty, but their styling is extra awesome today

[@positivevibes8516]

i wish Adrienne would be married for at least of year before the on slaughter of love advice cause lets not act like shes not saying she settled and those types can end in divorce too lol she need to chill

[@elix0x0]

Positive vibes

[@jmeiahburke5388]

Being married long doesn’t mean that you know anything about love.

[@itsjustindia92]

I like how Tamera , jeanie, and loni's makeup is matching there outfits.

[@bookbag6432]

It's smart to make a list though or you could allow anyone in and you don't want that either. Being stuck with the wrong man because you let the little red flags slide.

[@joannaherodotou1491]

Adrienne is looking very pretty today, her hair is great up, shows off her lovely features.

[@chanelledee5997]

Adrienne if you wanted someone with no kids you should have changed your age filter to at least 30 not late 40s. I'm sorry but Israel seems to have too much baggage

[@LeonardoAraujo2208]

Tamera doesn't speak that much but her eyes do the talking very well, love it

[@devinj.6904]

Adrienne dragged her point out way too long lol

[@BogusBozo]

Lmao I can imagine yall getting impatient 😂

[@angelatiney9019]

I LOVE Loni so much her personality makes everything for me!!

[@ayakwany3384]

1. They have talked about this topic SO MANY TIMES! 2. You can't have a list of qualifications that you expect a man to have and fulfill all of them. That's insane! It's okay to want him to possess (or not possess) certain qualities, but in the end you don't control what your heart wants so what's the point?

[@positivevibes8516]

its very realistic if thats what the woman wants lol telling women to lower their standards does as much as the opposite ...both relationships can end

[@clarke4400]

Theresa Wany they repeat topics a lot

[@ayakwany3384]

Positive vibes I'm not telling women to lower their standard, I'm saying that's unrealistic and ridiculous to have a list of 100 demand the man has to meet. To have standard and things you do or don't want them to do or have is fine.

[@ayostupid4049]

Omg thank you for putting that in the light. Most women have a unrealistic check list

[@RA-so2nh]

Adrienne, some girls have standards.

[@YPM498]

R A 😂💀

[@livelovelearn6343]

The bar is really low if you feel the need to bring someone down. What is the standard that you hold yourself to?

[@livelovelearn6343]

THE REAL IS MY CEREAL JESSICA M it's all if you know that to be true. Is it facts or things you heard on social media? Is it your life or are you judging someone based on scraps of knowledge pulled away from a Facebook article? Hold yourself to the standard of uplifting someone, kind hearted, and being educated. Good qualities. Not a person who feeds off of drama of someone else's life.

[@jessicam1039]

I believe what you are saying, but this guy is NOT decent. He has admitted one of the side children, I guess he potentially could be only half as bad as I think he is ? You might make that mistake in your 20's, but in your 40's? He's a creep. Period.

[@ritz_essence1547]

Live Love Learn I don't see how the OP insulted Adrienne. He/she is saying that not everyone is willing to give up their "filters" because they have a set of standards in mind.

[@benignendayishimye3449]

can we appreciate how Loni is just glowing these days?!!

[@AmaresAngel]

I really don't know what God has for us but I just don't want my first marriage to be with a man who not only cheated on his wife of 20 plus years but he also had a family with another woman. My future children deserve better than having to hear that story or be around those children whose may feel a certain type of way as time goes by.

[@janicelambright5256]

AmaresAngel amen

[@Dior3llaxoxo]

But I don't understand why god would choose a man with so much baggage to marry someone. Like a man who has 6 kids, and has already been married, and cheated heavily on his last wife. You mean to tell me this is the best that God can do? This is why I will remain single. I'm not settling, what's wrong with having standards? What's wrong with me not wanting to date someone with kids? SMH. Obviously no man is perfect but I believe that I can find the perfect man for me.

[@diamonte18]

SaraWithoutTheH sometimes we think that it's God's will but in reality it's just what we think based on being strongly attracted to the person. That's why it says to guard your heart because it helps protect you from the men who might not be good for you.

[@ambersossaman2986]

I decided to date someone completely different and found the love of my life. He's 26 yrs older than me but age isn't nothing but a number.

[@sophien5416]

Real talk - all my girls (who I know are great catches) have this perspective and are still single, borderline spinsters now. You got to think of it logically, not just emotionally. The thing about the AirBnB analogy is the options you will get is dependent on how many men you actually have to filter through. If you want to sort and sift, then girl you have to be meeting men at rapid rates. When I realized that and actually put in effort, my dating life blossomed like nobody's business. And maybe some of my gfs wanted to judge me but truth is, if you are not willing to put in effort meet people, how are you gonna be in a relationship? And if you are not going to give people chances, how can you be surprised? Moreover expect others to give you a chance. That's a key characteristic I notice in my friends ithat are in happy relationships versus my friends who are single & in unhappy relationships as well.

[@trutj22]

hate or love Adrienne..you have to admit , she did make sense today

[@yaclilly]

I think Adrienne takes WAY too long to make the simplest point 😟😟😟

[@africanqueen2200]

I'm reposting a comment I saw on Facebook & I think it's 100% true: It's funny how us women are supposed to settle for less and go easy when it comes to choosing a man. Some women get with a man who is struggling, come up with them from being broke, ride or die then.....he leaves that woman for a better woman "upgrading" himself to what he felt he deserved all along (Jesse Williams). When it comes to men they have their whole check list laid out, they won't settle for less. If a man wants to set his standards high & then so should we as women.

[@mpop2108]

Adriennes advice: Find a man with a bunch of kids and side kids and one who cheated on his spouse after 20 years of marriage. Girl please.

[@moneyguy118]

LOL I think her point went right over your head!

[@ambersmith7708]

M Pop u said it best!

[@sandyboo2]

lmao I want a man with no babies and no baby mama...sorry I do have some standard lol

[@njustal14]

M Pop leave her alone dang, if thats who she wants to be with then let her be.🙄

[@nikiracarter]

T.E. V. 😂😂😂😂😂 the fact her and Lenny dated 6yrs and no marriage and her and Israel dated 6months and got married is hillarious