Girl Chat: Eavesdropping and Breakup Blues

[@bukolavictoria8830]

I think I'm like Addriene... When I'm really hurt, I don't tell people. I only tell people after I've healed.

[@miriamhernandez2205]

Me too I thought I was the only one like this, cause all my friends love talking about there heart break right away

[@aspirallingmess8319]

Definitely me

[@howjasmi7165]

Same

[@8prettykitty6]

I do that too.

[@LexCATL]

i think i've developed into doing this, but i don't really like it. I more so feel like no one really cares what i'm going through because we all have our problems. Who am I to tell someone to help me with my problem first if they're going through their own thing? It sucks feeling like I'd just be a damper on other people, even though talking it out really helps. **shrugs**

[@fifinanti80]

I had a former coworker said to me "Always look your best, when you're at your worst". I live by this motto.

[@PHlophe]

fernanda what is your ig

[@DaniTheAlchemist33]

Yup...words to live by.

[@AahyiSam]

Me too - for years.

[@mamekeememnenw4316]

That’s literally me 💀

[@melissaestrella3242]

My momma always tells me this!!!

[@tiffylovelove288]

When Jeannie said when you open your eyes after sleeping and that breakup is the first thing that hits you when you wake..Damn.. I've been there Jeannie 😢 #theblues

[@miimonalisa]

Brooklyn Elliman I’m so sorry you’re going through a hard time. Hopefully each day gets a bit better, and congratulations on your new baby!!

[@tiffylovelove288]

Brooklyn Elliman congratulations on your precious bundle of joy and also so sorry for what you're going through. you got this tho❤ You're a Mom❤ Stay Strong❤ Things will get better❤

[@_zina9054]

Happened to me this morning I was holding it together last night then boom the morning feels came in but Im good now ❤

[@_zina9054]

Brooklyn Elliman Im sorry love just be happy with ur baby and love yourself this here is going to make you so much stronger I promise you are going to look back one day and wish you didnt shed a tear Im going threw a break up its not easy I know 100% but we got that mama Lion power lets use it

[@CarolsVideos]

It's almost like you want to believe the breakup was just a dream, kind of like how you think of your dream first thing when you wake up.

[@arlette3700]

Adrienne is an introvert, thats why she deals with her problems alone. Some people need time to themselves, some don't. Knowing how and when to properly heal yourself is the real answer.

[@truthinlove-podcast3506]

Chloe yes everyone is different, there is no right or wrong way..as long as no one is hurting another person

[@kellie5026]

Great point friends ruin ur head more for me anyway I need hibernation to heal alone for while.

[@christylouis2611]

@M Muss How the hell do you know her personality type lmao. Did you take the quiz for her? Or did she reveal it?

[@melisacaceres8740]

Oh that's why i could relate to her so much. I also don't talk about the things that make me sad because i feel that i'm the one that understands it. As a fellow introvert, this makes so much sense.

[@rachelg6289]

@@christylouis2611 she literally said she is an introvert in other videos

[@andeng9614]

Jeannie always has the best stories. She knows how to story tell.

[@tricejackson2917]

I kind feel like they are made up stories just to stay in the conversation.

[@Strawberryfearsforever]

Jeannie gone be an inspirational speaker one day.

[@XDeCoDeX13]

Right! she's already preaching to me in every one of these videos.

[@NellieKAdaba]

I agree MsFears.

[@Franskie266]

She ain't getting any younger

[@FriendshipIsMagic1998]

@@Franskie266 What does her age have to with anything?

[@lilmims8383]

I had the exact same thought, she commands attention.

[@nahlamariposa]

I'm like Adrienne. When I am dealing with heartbreak, don't coddle me, and I like my own space. And when I am really hurt, I do not talk about it. I prefer to process it on my own. I heal myself. I am very private.

[@시린-d4i]

Alma Mariposa she is a Scorpio and so am I, I am a private person too and although I never had relationships I am still like that when I am mad or upset

[@itsnonnie505]

Team scorpio here💪🏻.we sooo private thou...

[@servantJerubbaalgodSlayer]

My misery does not like company.

[@brownskinbeauty4]

Estrella Millonaria I thought I was the only one.

[@temiakintayo9215]

a vibe

[@adxures]

I know these are old clips but it makes me happy they are reposting a bunch of long girl chats (;

[@LIZZyNIqUZZ10]

For real.

[@LIZZyNIqUZZ10]

@Melanie X Tamar would make a scene. It's best if they won't.

[@sarasounds2389]

Goosebumps Tamera!! "You are the princess of the Most High" Some of us never had anyone tell us that.

[@kimskommunity5947]

That is so sweet! .... and @Sara Sounds - you are too!! (whether anybody has told you or not) - Keep Rockin it!!

[@Selena100100]

“Do you know who YOU ARE? - You are the princess of the MOST high.” I felttt That! That woke me up so much I’ve been cured automatically for all my future breakups💯 So powerful!

[@trinialvarado3408]

You are a precious beautiful and important person much love.

[@jefferygrays8800]

When Adrienne said " you not that heartbroken if you on Instagram" had me weak😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@franciscobastidasdiaz4014]

No se quien es Adriana Gonzales como siempre e dicho no me gustan las mentiras y para los que les gusta mentir y andar cambiando de nombre esos son ellos y para los que me conoces mi nombre es francisco Bastidas y ese es mi nombre verdadero odios las injusticia y las mentira y el cambio de identidad así que es mejor que busquen por hotro lado

[@Liz-qs6gw]

Francisco Bastidas Diaz que?

[@kimskommunity5947]

😆🤣😂😅😁

[@tyqueishahoward2792]

My name is Bennett and I aint in it...My name is Paul thats between yall! -Tamar lol shes still with Tam Tam on the inside.

[@monilolalove9361]

I looked through the comments to see if anyone else remembered lol

[@HannahEstherRuth]

It’s from the Jefferson’s. The maid used to say that. It’s an old sitcom.

[@ladysinger84]

My name is Les, and I ain't in this mess lol

[@rachelr3230]

I'ma have to use that Paul one lol Neva heard thatone b4!

[@Demifan39]

Im using this from now on lmaoooo

[@pourladentelle]

Introverts need to be alone to regain strength. Extroverts need to express themselves to the world. Ambiverts will do both things...

[@anewno6240]

I do both. I am private person and I like to deal with things by myself but after I am on the process of healing, I talk it out

[@squidwardtentacles7144]

I will do both

[@Porcelynnn]

I do both! I express myself to close friends and do a lot of work on my own.

[@camilaruizvalenzuela4433]

I'm an ambivert as well :)

[@teetawn9454]

@@squidwardtentacles7144 same

[@ivy456]

Hearing Jeannie talk about Freddie morning his father reminds me a bit of Freddie's girlfriend's rant. It seems like Freddie and Jeannie didn't connect for a long time and instead of coming to Jeannie he went to this girl. Their marriage was broken for such a long time. I'm happy Jeannie is taking care of herself right now and having fun.

[@giancarlagiannoni6777]

ivy lala ooo

[@reginatakyi5610]

john smith haters r gonna hate.. He left her so let her live her life. Y’all just create accounts just to defame her. I see y’all.. it isn’t worth it.

[@janeryan2709]

@john smith Want love happiness and a family? They were a family. They were married...

[@janeryan2709]

@john smith Except they agreed to not have kids before they got married? It was Freddy who changed his mind, not Jeannie...

[@debbiekerubo4975]

@john smith until you give birth.... Stfu abt having kids....

[@kartert.jefferson6759]

I could listen to Jeannie tell her stories all day.

[@kirajd8467]

My mum has always said if you look good, you feel good. So when I lived at home and whenever I was down, she would tell me to wash my hair. Because there is something about washing your hair that just makes you feel like a fresh new person. Love you girls so much! I grew up watching Tam and Adrienne on Disney, Twitches was my childhood along with Cheetah girls. I love you guys!!

[@annevaughn6345]

Right when your hair is freshly shampooed and curled or combed you head feels really lightweight and clean. then you feel really good about yourself and what goes with new hairdo "wait for it "shopping" yes yes yes. Just being silly blessings

[@jask7615]

My mum used to say the same thing :) These mums and their wisdom eh!

[@actualwakandangirl7121]

That’s why many women get a new haircut or style after a break up, makes you feel completely new, speaking from experience.

[@teap.9045]

Washing my hair is therapy for me as well, especially something with aloe vera or eucalyptus in it; so soothing😍

[@justme1106]

This is actually true

[@Suziee_Suee]

I’m like addriene, I like to cope and heal all by myself, ppl don’t really understand what you go thru. So why rather just criticize and uplift myself.

[@jassiesami09]

I agree with Adrienne, you have to be about your own happiness and move on.

[@itsshevyb]

@M Muss umm no it's called self-efficacy, the ability to care for oneself and fix your own issues. Most people that are mentally strong and resilient have high self-efficacy. Next time be like Tam and be Bennett and stay out of it lol.

[@itsshevyb]

@M Muss I wasn't clapping back I was educating you. If you do not understand or dont agree with how someone addresses their own issue the best course of action is to mind your business. You called her preferred method sad (hella rude) so I also educated you on the benefits of such method. Sensitive much.? Be blessed sis

[@NashvilleBraids]

itsshevyb whoa I think you misread M Muss’s message completely! They said it s kind of sad and they hope they’re okay. It wasn’t mean or rude at all......

[@itsshevyb]

@@NashvilleBraids sighhhh I read and understood her perfectly again my point was there is nothing sad about it therefore there was no need to be worried about them. Self reflection is 100% healthy. I'm done though yall win.

[@leticiadavila3305]

I like long vids like this, instead of the choppy 1 or 2 min ones

[@CalyMichigan]

“PURPLE!” 😂😂😂

[@KP-dt9ol]

Jeannie’s stories are always so great haha, she’s so good at her job.

[@brittanydawson5761]

I don’t like to call it eavesdropping. More like aware of my surroundings lol. BUT definitely mind ya business. Do not butt in. You’d be surprised how things will turn on you when you being nosy.

[@brittanydawson5761]

ObeyYourMommieNowPlease ***** All Grandma’s are inherently nosy. It’s apart of the job description 😂

[@marshajackson84]

ObeyYourMommieNowPlease ***** mine too 😂 I can’t take my grandma anywhere!!

[@chasitypowell3963]

Yessss Tamera!!! The WORD OF GOD!!! Yes the Princess of the MOST HIGH!!!! 👏 Everybody deals with a broken heart differently!

[@Blemished_Babe]

"The princess of the most high!" I know that's right, Tamera! 💕🙏

[@bailey7792]

My mom always asks me why I get ready, and do my hair, and put on eyelashes.. when I don't have anywhere to go. And I always tell her because getting ready makes me feel better. And then if I have somewhere to go later I'm already ready. It doesn't feel good to sit in your house all day unshowered and gross.

[@nai-lahkristasimone5161]

I used to do this when I was younger. I'm 29 now. I'm going to start doing this again

[@thatleogirl7277]

@@nai-lahkristasimone5161 same almost 29 I’m starting to get myself together again even post more pics

[@jessig9970]

Yes. I use to not understand why bother fixing yourself up if you're just going to be home. After having a baby, I understand wanting to feel back like yourself. I do my hair and makeup whether I'm home or going out bc it makes me feel better and it's true when you look good, you feel good and your smile and laugh is genuine.

[@ladybug4499]

That's very true, plus when i wake up late and haven't showered or dressed up nice then i feel less inclined to go anywhere or do much of anything useful

[@AsToldByKeisha]

Jeannie’s story was ENTERTAINING AF she should act lol 😂😂😂

[@savvyc2182]

Adrienne looks so damn good here. She lookssss soooo 😍😍 with darker hair, especially when her hair is up too.

[@leishkarodriguez6691]

Yes

[@kiaradanielle8631]

i feel adrienne. when I'm truly heart broken, I'm not talking about it to anyone cause i dont even wanna think about it. i just wanna be alone.

[@MercyP88]

"When you're dreaming w a broken heart, waking up is the hardest part." 😪

[@queenkayyy577]

I completely feel Adrienne. When I’m going through a heart break which I am now I stay clear from social media but for some reason watching these girl chats are really therapeutic for me. But other than that I rather not be bothered with other media sites, phone calls/ texts, company. I drown myself in the word of God and prayer and alone time until I’m strong enough to face the world again

[@christabelquartey4048]

kkr

[@teetawn9454]

Amen

[@tionnajohnson8430]

If your going through a breakup adele or beyonce is always there 😂😂

[@simphiwehlatshwayo5007]

Brah am currently going through one I listened to alllll and I mean allllllllll of Adele's albums

[@hc2159]

I'm like Adrienne. I feel through my emotions but when I'm really going through something I can't talk about it to people. Once I'm on the other side then I'll open up. I don't need someone to give me their two cents when they aren't going through what I am. Being comfortable alone and knowing how to heal yourself is def a positive trait to me

[@cian2898]

I’m like Adrienne if I’m going through something I keep my mouth shut and mourn til later. After I’ll tell whatever I was going through.

[@akintadeomotolani2680]

I’m with Adrienne on this one. When I am really hurt I don’t say anything. I just think about it , pray and cry then try to move on by myself

[@DoriDior]

Not telling people when your hurt sounds like a true SCORPIO traits. My sister is just like this, love you guys!

[@natalieh8023]

It is. My mom is a Scorpio

[@analiperalta5615]

i agree with adrienne, sometimes talking about it with someone gets me even more sad. i rather deal with it by myself & reflect with myself.

[@AC-87]

I love Jeannie's impression of her mom. I always get a kick out that. 😆

[@therodfamily3482]

I’m with Adrienne here. I disappear from the face of the earth.

[@ashelydiaz2083]

Jeanne's innocent little stories give me life 😂

[@dlo3955]

Jeannie has evolved so much. In every way. I'm so happy she found true love.

[@flash12319]

Yea…. This comment didn’t age well 😅

[@fuzzygrippers]

I like Adrienne in this one bcuz she rly is sticking with her opinion. Usually (and no malicious intentions here) she changes her opinions so easily whenever one of the other girls has an opposing opinion. I just like the way she stood her ground towards the end of this girl chat.

[@oppnow]

Loni lookn like the fourth member of TLC

[@crazy_old_bat]

Yesss! 🤣

[@leticiamilan3575]

We need more cousins like Tamera's..."you are the princess of the MOST HIGH!" Thank you cuz! ♥

[@MultiMelable]

Sometimes a breakup can feel as intense as if you're grieving because at the end of the day you're still suffering a loss. I've even heard that grieving someone is hardest when they're still alive...

[@unicaparis1810]

This show has brought me through my lowest of lows and I am so grateful to see / hear women who I can relate to. Your different perspectives open my minds and keeps me thinking. Thank your for helping me though postpartum, separation from my husband, depression, the loss of one of my closest friends, etc. Thank you bringing me to a place where I can find happiness within

[@heyheyhey40]

I love how Jeannie has a whole introduction before she answers the question.

[@daysinnightsoutBias]

The fact Jeannie knew that scandal story word for word is crazy, she’s super smart

[@sheillyjanice3514]

When I used to work on retail, I was sitting in some bench at the mall during my lunch break. A girl and a boy sat right behind me and she started talking about a girl she doesn't like and how annoying she is, etc. Turned out the girl she was talking about was a close friend of mine.

[@crystalm9632]

I 100% agree with Adrienne, I hate telling people whats going on if I'm really upset. And i hate how people be puttin their drama all over social media just to post the next day about how happy they are, omg soooooooo annoying!!!

[@YasminYoruba]

I’m with Adrienne!! I deleted all my social media when I broke up with my ex and took 4 months off before coming back. People that attention seek get on MY NERVES!!!!!

[@stephanieanderson5819]

I'm absolutely like Adrienne.... when I'm hurt I don't tell people I self sooth and I tell people when I'm healed and feel better 💗💙❤️💗

[@avamarcano7808]

It’s the middle of the night I busted out laughing at Jeannie’s story about eavesdropping 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@andreamoss2322]

When Jeannie said “To wake up and before your eyes even open you remember your heart is broken” I will never forget it bc its the realest way to explain heart ache

[@TheRealThickiminaj]

Im 100% with Adrienne. People be hella extra on insta and fb to the point where its annoying and im not here for it.

[@desertliving]

I'm just like Adrienne I keep to myself and don't talk to no one when I'm hurt . Time to your self is sometimes the best remedy.

[@Franskie266]

Jeannie's eavesdropping story was so good I almost believed it.😒😒

[@alizamzamm4551]

That was a big ass lie

[@angieclaudine685]

Franskie Salif better believe it!

[@howjasmi7165]

Right!!

[@dashealynnez7015]

i could of sworn that i heard that story before. Like the part about falling over on her...

[@pinkcherryworld7073]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MagnoliaPoppy]

I love that you guys always wind up talking about your faith, how it inspires you, and motivates you. Thank you for being fearless and letting God's glory shine through you. Love you ladies!

[@dalidzucheredi2495]

I never had breakup blues. Usually by the time we breakup I have been crying about the dying relationship for some time. The breakup is the last thing ...like a confirmation of my sad thoughts.

[@christinawaxer21]

Wow so true. Like relived in a way to not have to cry anymore actually

[@trinialvarado3408]

I love Tamera's way of dealing with a break up. Rember who you really are

[@MasonPerry7]

Even eves dropping on a conversation between loved ones, I think cutting into any conversation is bad news, unless someone in the conversation looks at you and asks "What do you think?" I stay out of other people's business, because I want people to stay out of mine.

[@thehoneydeev]

Now Tamera, your hair/makeup artist is on fire 🔥- you look your best💯

[@virgeleyp.4040]

I don’t get why it says “it’s better to look good than feel good” when you are looking good to feel good, doesn’t that make feeling good better than looking good. It should say “look good to feel good”

[@0o0_27]

confusion

[@liana7529]

exactly girl i see u

[@dashealynnez7015]

i think that she miss spoke

[@MajesticMyronn]

VIRGELEY P. I think it ties into it... because once you look good and yourself again , you’ll start to feel good and yourself again

[@emmainhiding]

the second half of this video changed my life, thank you.

[@LondonLamarr]

Adrienne I think it's a scorpio thing cause I like to be alone too, like you said in gonna take this time to renew myself

[@mishakellie5549]

Im the same

[@nashalyvelez2939]

Same ♏️

[@daisyr.8457]

I think she is lol

[@flykashykid12]

Scorpio same

[@usmlegirl6823]

Same here♏♏♏

[@Momma_AL]

Mama Mai is an intelligent woman. Her personality is so funny I think a lot of people don’t see how smart she really is.

[@Sotica1324]

I’m exactly like Adrienne I get what she means🌸

[@jmladygodsgrace2788]

Thanks for the reminder, today I was having a day of not looking good because of the feelings I keep sorting through, in cycles. When u look good you do feel better....

[@kawaiisrs07]

I feel like jeannie is the only one that can see outside her own

[@RB-gg8tv]

I am currently going through a break up and I’m trying to figure out what’s working for me. I do like talking about it because it helps me see why it happened or how can I move on. I need to figure out how to be alone with this. It’s hard right now because he just left me and I think being alone will reinforce that sadness and loneliness. After watching this, y’all have helped me find some light and a path out of my sadness even just a little. So thank you!

[@SleepMeditationandAffirmations]

Im with Adrienne on this one.

[@vanessamallard1111]

My biggest advice for the breakup blues is to focus on YOU. Don’t get caught up in thinking about who your ex is dating, how to get back with them, or trying to get a reaction out of them by dating someone else. They don’t care and neither should you. Live through the pain and no matter how hard it is, always preserve your self respect. It’ll eventually get better and you’ll be happy that you didn’t make a fool of yourself.

[@MajesticMyronn]

Breakup Blues : for me actually I’m going through this right now , my friend is in a really bad breakup right now and it hurts for me to see them like this but I keep talking and trying to encourage them to do something that gets their mind off of it ! I’m making sure they feel better and to keep things in good spirits... they’re starting to get better but geez going through breakups can be rough

[@overjoyced]

Yes, just give them time and don't force conversations. Just be there when you are needed.

[@reecepiranha]

Jeannie is so under appreciated. Always dropping gems.

[@VRDennis]

It's amazing what you over hear sitting in a Starbucks with ear buds in and or laptop open. People expect that you are like Jeannie and not listening. Truth I just don't want to small talk. I've over heard some of the most scandals awful conversations just sitting there sipping my coffee

[@SleepMeditationandAffirmations]

Do telllllll

[@noteanoshade7788]

Spill that tea Victor

[@PHlophe]

vick you are nosey but now we wanna know

[@miimonalisa]

Lechiffresix six lol right

[@nblvblbavery]

Gurl, YAHS.

[@Badbinch]

Jeannie is the real fan favorite she’s the most transparent and the most genuine and confident. I think Loni is outgrowing the show she’d be really good on The View.

[@shaitupua6781]

2019 and watching this I love y’all talks I promise it helps out so much with my life situations

[@kaylavonn2749]

Me and Adrienne are true Scorpios, it’s the independence on us. I don’t broadcast all that I’m going through or need to be coddled. I can heal myself on my own.

[@41yearoldnewdriver]

I agree with Adrienne you need time alone to get to know and love yourself.

[@nyakhanchap2094]

All good points with many areas of life. it almost destroyed me not giving myself the right to be sad, keeping everything to myself, so I do grieve now over rough times and I’m a much happier person, and I stand up for myself in some way no matter who it is. I’m not the kind to post things but I talk to friends about it 😊

[@aquariangypsy8892]

I deal with things on my own but I think it’s important to be a supportive friend if they need you. What kind of friend are you if you can’t be supportive and compassionate to the people you love?! I have been supportive to strangers. Don’t coddle, there are limits, but be compassionate. That’s your way of being, Adrienne, but different people need different things. And you look needy as hell. So even if it’s not in a breakup I’m sure you need your loved ones in other ways.

[@queenkayyy577]

I also feel Jeannie. You know you really hurt when before you even open your eyes good enough you feel everything. Heart and mind just flood with emotion 💔

[@actualwakandangirl7121]

I agree with Adrienne, I like my alone time, it’s the best therapy.

[@lovejoy6710]

It’s best to go through breakups by yourself because most people don’t understand and people get tired of hearing people cry and complain but it feels good to vent when you’re hurt & it makes you feel better sometimes

[@mgeijho]

I have never been that devastated over a man!honestly i alwys go buy something new after a break-up and all is good again! Or i clean my house and rearrange the furniture...the pain may be there,but not to a point where i dont wanna wake up in the morning!

[@sierrajay6512]

Gee Gee how old are you?

[@mgeijho]

@@sierrajay6512 😂😂😂😂😂 32!

[@sierrajay6512]

wow well that's good you've haven't experienced that before.

[@wendy10tv]

Well honey u ain’t never been in deep love than

[@wendy10tv]

It seems like u don’t even care about anyone but your self.

[@crazyafrobaby2013]

I personally feel like social media is one of the things that helps after a heartbreak. Coz it lets u forget stuff.

[@MajesticMyronn]

I do admit I do like to ease drop especially when neighbors argue under me... I be having my ear to the floor and listening to the argument ! I should feel bad but I didn’t... I was like oooh this is juicy

[@NellieKAdaba]

lol

[@eneiceastephens1892]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Angie-nb4pg]

Eavesdrop

[@xuxushushu]

Dead

[@alishal.9566]

*Eavesdrop

[@jasminewilliams6399]

Adrienne said “I be all in the conversations”🤣🤣🤣 facts

[@anewloveofficial9137]

I love this topic it's very entertaining and I like each reaction especially on Jeannie she's so brutally honest and I like it.

[@elainiealexandra6550]

ADRIENNE, our here preaching!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@goldenfleecewarren]

Not my business to 'butt in'...but IF you chose to make your decibel public, I am listening. And if someone is asking for help, I am calling 911.

[@zuvarashe289]

adrienne i completely agree, you can tell whoever you want to tell after youve given yourself time to heal...

[@shilpakannappa5771]

Yes adrienne you are bad support friend. But you are great fun time friend.

[@wackybrattyx]

Lol, she is. Some people are just like that. She's not that deep and said deep convos make her uncomfortable. 🤣 Plus, she's not emotional.

[@ebonih7138]

Same for me. I'm the worst with bad news 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@JaysWife]

We all have our different strengths 😂

[@brendacontreras2341]

People take it wayyyy too far with social media now. I fully agree with Adrienne.

[@jamaicamecrazy1872]

Tamera wanted to ask “How did you get over Rob” but she thought “let me not”

[@justsaying8]

I never sat and cried for a week over a guy. I give myself 1 or 2 days of being sad but after that I say that's it I love myself more and no guy or person in general is allowed to break my heart. My heart is precious to me so that's it I say he's gone coz I deserve better and better is coming on the way

[@TheSweetForever]

Repression leads to depression Adrienne. We are humans who need interaction with others. It's okay to communicate in a time of need.

[@natalieh8023]

Some people will throw it back in your face one way or the other. I also like to assess things myself and think it through then I get better. Not everything has to be shared with others.

[@boyandcatmum]

I binge watch you tube videos so I am listening and learning it is super helpful

[@mbalimamba5729]

I agree with Adrienne! I like being on my own when I am sad..

[@desireelbeniquez2571]

I'm sorry guys , I needed to vent. I was left alone too long. I decided that ppl do care but family gets tired of the sulking, mine does, so when your alone. Your alone because their trying to cope. I cope by thinking goal oriented and learning about self. Never been alone ever. So now I'm learning. God's my best friend. Thank for your positive msg's and deep concern. This has been crazy. But hopefully it's almost over and Covid families and everyone your always in my prayers. God bless, stay safe, and healthy.

[@dayZburns]

I have to disagree with Adrienne on grieving over a loss and going on social media. don't EVER let anyone tell u what's the right or wrong way to mourn someone passing, we all hurt differently and that's ok! I personally went on social media to distract myself a bit from a loved one's death, it didn't mean I was hurting any less though...

[@namiahajarah3473]

Daisy Avalos death is not heartbreak!

[@Ambereigh]

Namia Hajarah your heart definitely breaks from a loved ones death. Except is worse

[@TJ_Eats]

Heartbreak is different 👀

[@bunnykins52]

I’m with Jeanie and Adrienne about guarding your heart and you can’t big a wall that you can’t take down. I also don’t go straight to social media although some people don’t have people to talk to in real life so they try to reach out that way