Dating Unhappy People

[@Cressfromhell]

Corey is right. Un happy people take the soul out of you. Then they blame you for there issues.

[@medusa301]

•itz •pochay Leon• that’s why I am happy my miserable ex left me. She literally took my soul out of me, yet she blamed me for everything 24/7/12/365

[@dominicbarsi1169]

*their

[@lionelt7882]

Facts. Their unhappiness could stem from something that long proceeded you, but since you’re around them more, you’ll start getting blamed just because of proximity. Even if you do everything well with this person, it will never be enough

[@dennisrobinson8008]

You shouldn't argue or communicate with them

[@IacopoCutino00]

Wrong. We are all unhappy. We all have bad circumstances sometimes. Trashing someone when he s in a bad situation in his life is not a solution imho.

[@Chuck145e]

"Don't associate with the Unhappy & the Unlucky." -Robert Greene, The 48 Laws of Power.

[@btjones874]

dating unhappy people is the worst. they constantly embed their unhappiness into your relationship and make you think theres other issues going on. When in reality, the girl just doesnt not have her shit straight.

[@totalrobot]

Yep. Like single moms. They're usually in tremendous debt, understandably. Their financial stresses and poor financial prioritization get projected on the guy trying to give her a chance.

[@therealflamelit]

tremendous debt with another mans kids..not a package I would want

[@bobloblaw9505]

5 tips for dating a depressed person 1) Don't 2) Really, don't 3) You'll be sorry if you do 4) You life will change, not for the better 5) Just don't

[@geraldallen8230]

Wow that means there is 15% that actually are worth it!!

[@bobloblaw9505]

@@geraldallen8230 Too right! If you get one of the 15%, marrry her immediately

[@fabolousninenine30]

boom. There you have it. Dated a depressed chick 2 times and never plan to do it again. It's a rollercoaster. And not a good one. You won't get out of it unless you crash

[@rhynosouris710]

@@fabolousninenine30 And you will crash!

[@thataintnomoonsucka]

I'm starting to believe the majority of middle age single women are borderline. Ugh.

[@TheBadgerFactor]

I just dated a girl for 6 months. She broke up with me 3 times and contacted me again saying she missed me. Each time we broke up I thought I was doing something wrong but It turns out she has depression and a bit of a severe past with it. I saw her yesterday for a final goodbye and it broke my heart. As much as I want it to work I know that she has to get 100% better to even attempt anything.

[@Happy-Me.]

spawnjg I did 2 years too. I think she is a Borderline. I've had to walk away and not look back.

[@carziyah4192]

My husband is always unhappy know matter how much I kiss his ass it’s draining but I love him and been with him ten years 😢

[@Zaysoto]

What’s the update?

[@TheBadgerFactor]

@@Zaysoto Wow... totally forgot I posted this. Update is I cut this person out my life entirely. It was a very back and forth relationship that in the end brought me down to depression. Also - when it comes to those kind of people just fuckin toss them to the curb. Care clouds judgement. Remember though that this can go both ways. You also need to be happy yourself.

[@bennyanthro4891]

@matt stokes thanks for updating. Going through the exact same thing rn. It’s comforting to know it will be okay. It’s wild bc I’m a catch w a great career, athletic, and was there all the time, but it was never enough... it’s been 3 wks since the breakup of a short 4 month relationship and have not contacted her bc i need the healing myself. It started great- but in reality was just draining me and in the end I wasn’t happy anymore and was kinda glad it’s over. At any rate, cheers and have a happy new year! God bless.

[@odettebernabeu2702]

I learned In my younger years," You never lose, you always gain an experience".

[@flower_7890]

I've been there, it's sooooo painful knowing you can't halp them and very hard to move on...but there's no other way . Me, always optimistic person turned to be a miserable one...painful experience but much needed, I've learnt a lot and afterwards I'm grateful I had this person in my life . Now when I meet someone new who tells me " I'm not in a right place" I'm out straight away, they must sort their life themselves, it's not my job, I want someone on my page, having themselves together etc, no more waisting time :)

[@f.lashby8298]

It's a pain in the ass. They eventually pull you down too.

[@jammies6228]

This is me rn. After the pandemic, I lost my job and struggled financially for well over a year. I sabotaged my relationship cuz I lost the love for myself and in turn for her. She is completely disappointed in me and it kills me that I let it get to that level. Now I’m finally working on all those key areas, it’s a struggle, but it’s for the best. Sometimes it takes a breakdown to build yourself up stronger. I have faith in myself little by little growing more and more confident as time goes by. I’m excited for my long awaited transformation and who know what the future holds.

[@Hanzo_theodd]

Facts. All facts. Unhappy people are also energy vampires who sap your energy overtime through a facade.

[@sbee8372]

Every guy I date, no matter how professionally successful, interesting, or handsome, is insecure. It will come out that he thinks he's ugly, unhappy with his job, or doesn't value himself (doesn't understand why I, an attractive and well adjusted woman, would date him). One handsome guy who had a career on fire and seemed super confident on our first few dates openly worried about his penis and asked me if it was good enough. He also didn't believe that I enjoyed his company and ended up ghosting me. I can't chalk this up to the law of attraction because I have built a full life I love and have no problem with myself. I don't pursue these insecure guys or try to fix them. I feel like there's an epidemic of men who see themselves like that girl in the movie 8th grade, and I'm like the dad who sees their good aspects, but unlike the dad it's not my job to parent them and so I move on.

[@scorpiocurse7969]

Ever read Masterson? He was a pioneer in the psychoanalityc treatment of the disorders of the self/personality disorders. Many of his patients were CEOs, lawyers, successfull business owners, writers, artists...he even treated a Nobel prize! No matter how much they earned, how succesfull they were, how smart, how cultured, they all experienced the same kind of emotional, and sometines physichal abuse during childhood. They were scared, broken children beyond masks of competent adults.

[@andnowyouknow3363]

Stay away from unhappy people. More specifically, chronically depressed people. If you want to keep your sanity and health that is and not end up in a depression yourself like so many others have.

[@patriciamaree5817]

Thanks! I've encouraged 2 guys I know to check your work/book out. They both came up with excuses as to why they didn't/wouldn't. Whatever! Their loss.... egos in the way.....

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Most people are like that with self-help, self-improvement. When they hit the wall is when they become open to changing their belief system.

[@priley817]

Dam coach you just spoke the dam truth . “The smart thing to assume is that it’s not going to happen” . These words spoke so true to me

[@johnfidley8853]

No matter who they are, I stay away from negative people. Don't have time for nonsense in my life as well as toxic people. It's not anyone's job to be their emotional tampon or their therapist and they need to work on themselves.

[@LukeBCtown]

"People hide who they are for the first 90 days" this explains the 2 month curse i thought i had with women

[@thoomm]

Corey dude thank you again m8. I keep listening to your videos time and time again, they make my life decisions and past outcomes so much clearer, helping me define my future outcomes for the better. Really can't thank you enough Corey, you are the man!

[@thatsawrap8]

You spoke directly to me and this video really really helped. I just went through the exact same thing this person did and it is so disappointing to discover this person isn't who they presented themselves to be at the beginning. Dating an unhappy man was extremely draining. He was hypercritical of me and put himself down for everything and it showed. I tried to fight for the relationship and wanted to support him through any rough time but it just wasn't enough for him and he was so negative about himself me and everything and everyone. It goes to the point I needed to protect my peace and energy. If you are dating a depressed and generally unhappy person it honestly isn't worth your peace of mind. The sad thing is they will probably never change and I truly hope he is happy in the future within himself it is hard because we can't change people they can only change themselves. Hurt people hurt people.

[@niallcurran7894]

Great video, I've been both on the giving and receiving end of this. Thankfully I'm on the up and up thanks to your insights.

[@carrnil]

THIS!! TAKE HEED YOU FOOLS, LEST YOU FALL.

[@michaelramirez4162]

Corey. Thanks for all the wisdom you share. You've changed the way I look at women and relationships.

[@olyprospecting6419]

Great video from a females perspective fighting for a man she loves. Awesome points by Coach. No wonder why people copy and profit off of his work.

[@greatabyss4831]

I was dating a gorgeous woman who is very successful. I asked her if she was happy with herself, and she said yes, but with a sad look on her face. She doesn't even have time for herself, and I can't have a partner like that. Haven't been in contact since then(about over half a month), but she's more than welcome to come back when she sorts everything out. Funny enough, I didn't see this until about 62 days of knowing her.

[@ayokerv1972]

+death24314 loll

[@greatabyss4831]

Hahaha. I see where you're coming from, but I couldn't do that to a genuine woman like her. If it was someone else, then I might have done that lol.

[@btjones874]

+GreatAbyss I know what its like to date a girl with no time and a large social circle. when she does have time, she wants to see her friends and i would never restrict that. so after a while, I felt like I was dating her AND her buds. They always had to be at her house when shes home because otherwise she claims she could never see them.

[@scorpiocurse7969]

In my experience different kinds of women will react differently to something like this. Sane women, with a secure attachment style and no childhood trauma will leave you if you don't have your shit together and are unable to help yourself, while they will support you if you decide to better yourself. On the other hand, women with bpd, an anxious attachment style, daddy issues, etc. will stay with you even if you are a disaster, as long as you provide supplies/attention/validation, while they will leave the moment you start to focus on bettering yourself.

[@daze507]

Wish I knew that before. I ignored all the red flags, been fooled by her idealisation and mirroring of me. Paid the emotional price. Well, it's the way we learn I guess.

[@o.s.911]

Same here... didn’t know about bpd. Really painful lesson.

[@daze507]

@@o.s.911 None of us knew. We're wiser now, when it looks to good to be true, most of the time it is, especially nowadays.

[@TheMctye]

Your email newsletter came at the right time , thank you

[@jjkqazolp]

I learned this the hard way from my first real Gf. That high school puppy love.

[@TheEmilynazario]

omg I feel like this was my life you were talking about. every thing that the guy said was exactly what my ex said to me. is this common in men to behave this way? anyhow ty for your advice and this video it was nice being the one looking in. Gave me a clearer perspective.

[@spiderdog23]

Can my first question on the first date be “so how was your relationship with your dad?“

[@ciccnick]

No

[@takforce06]

Yes. This should be in the back of your head. Can she trust men? Does she demonstrate that she knows the difference between a good man and a dirt bag?

[@guitarman0365]

Sorry old comment I know but I'm just watching now.....Yes but not so direct. Work it in naturally over time. Be the first to bring your family up. I like to do the quick pause and stare then laugh while reminiscing trick. Making her think hey what's so funny. Use this moment to reveal you thought about a funny moment with your father and share the story try and relate it obviously to something happening or happened on the date though to make it seem natural and not that you were zoning out from her. Then you can casually work in the question about what is something funny that she remembers with her father. If she has one you are mostly good. If she can't think of one then that immediately tells you the relationship isn't strong. Doesn't mean it is bad and toxic yet but it's not really good either. Gets you on the right track without having to be so blunt and be like hey so any daddy issues I should know about? Lol

[@scorpiocurse7969]

The problem is that often the father is idealized, he could be the worst piece of shit on the planet, the most disturbed motherfucker, the most negligent of parents, but she will deny it, because it's too painful to see the truth...and years of therapy are needed.

[@everardoreyes1411]

super important, ignore this fact at your own peril.... trust me, women with daddy issues may try to hide their problems, and all that stuff, but eventually it all unravels, and sometimes its really nasty.

[@menumlor9365]

Don’t date unhappy people. Hell I don’t even like working with unhappy people. I always go to work with a positive attitude.

[@tamarav3903]

I'm one of those "unhappy" girlfriends. This video made me worry.. I hope my boyfriend won't break up with me in the near future

[@snakedogman]

What you fear you attract...

[@Jasmian]

nočna pravljica :)

[@mackaready1]

What happened then 😮

[@diervonsaton6]

Thanks mate! THIS IS AMAZING!

[@phoenixankaa]

omg you have a fan here! Wow just ran across your videos. Love how down to earth you are.

[@peternorthrup6274]

I'm sure your a smart guy like me. I got fixed at 26. Then I still put protection on. No bugs for me. I'm proud of you. You were smart enough to never get a girl pregnant. Paying CS would make you stupid. We are proud of you. Thanks for all the advice you give to people. The young guys listen to you. Tell them all to never have kids like you. That's a big mistake. Keep up the great work. The whole key is no kids. Like you. Life can be great. We all strive to have a life like yours. Keep up the great work. Keep these young men on the right track. They listen to you. No kids for you. Life can be good. Tell them only fools get sucked into that game. Keep up the great work. We are proud of you. Finally a guy that figured it out. No kids= no CS.

[@Ace7of7Cups]

😢 i lost my man this way. and now he has a space holder too. and perhaps still depressed.

[@drs175]

Thank you Corey! I so needed to hear this today! ❤

[@sirrantsalott]

You’re the best man. This is what I needed to hear.

[@Happy-Me.]

I tried it and failed. Factor in BPD. Too much work and there is never going to be a happy ending.

[@bradjbourgeois73]

Going through it now. I'm happy go lucky all the time and my wife actually gets pissed off because of it!

[@mahnitov7675]

@@bradjbourgeois73 Dunno what you ar etalking about ... was dating my girl for 6 years she had GAD - Generalized Anxiety Disorder with Depression that came because of Anxiety she had it before me and the time we dated and a year ago she has my last time we are waiting for kid and she doesnt have GAD or Depression anymore ;) Its all about how you talk to people who have GAD and Depression , yes there is hard times , but i loved her from the moment i saw her and i even didnt know she had depresion until 1 year into our relationship but i wasnt even scared i saw it as oportunity to try to fight that devil with her and here we are 7years together. Btw depression and anxiety we all have it , tho people with GAD cant control anxiety and thats the only difference between us. Imagine if u had stressful time in your life and u felt anxiety for about 2 weeks and your better half just said : Fuck this guy im out. How would you feel ? ;) There is people with GAD and Dep that are rlly deep in problems , they need help , but its hard and if u cant commit then just pass her or him. Dont give them fals hope thats the worst shit you can do.

[@bradjbourgeois73]

@@mahnitov7675 Huh? Who says I've given up? Still with her almost 10 years now.

[@xavierx1583]

Yea ex seemed like that and because of it after like a year she never wanted to have sex , went from job to job in and out of school and said this wasnt gonna work cuz she doesnt care for sex after 3 years of being there for her , crazy bruhs

[@FrozenMammothMusic]

Ignore my username and picture haha. I've been depressed for so long and your videos are truly waking me up. I need to find my purpose but I can't find enthusiasm in anything. At least now I know that I have to take responsibility and not be a victim. I've been wanting to find someone to make me happy. Ugh I need a call with you. Thanks for all you do sir.

[@smokeonit2322]

LOCK YOUR DOOR, I know you posted this a long time ago. I hope you found your answers but just in case, I wanted to share something with you. You said you wanted to find someone to make you happy. Well, that's messed up thinking. Others can't MAKE us happy. They can make us happier! But first we must be a complete person and content to be alone until we meet someone who lives up to our standards. I hope you kept watching Corey Wayne videos and read his first book. His new book would be great for you also. I wish you the best.

[@aclark3525]

I really like your channel. You seem more real then other sites I've visited.

[@DM-jm2cx]

Sad but true thanks coach 🙏

[@gerryvandepol8666]

Great story... the writer seems like a pretty cool chick and I see similarities in my path and past relationships.i lost it all several times and had the woman in my life check out when I wasn’t centred successful or focused. It is disappointing but not their problem .When a guy is stuck or struggling that’s when his girl will test him the most.This idea of a supportive woman is an illusion and you must grow and build yourself and take unrelenting action to be successful.Top shelf woman will fall by the wayside every time and who doesn’t want a top shelf chick?Funny thing in this story that the couple have love for each other and it’s obvious that love is never enough.Moral of the story is that if your going backwards guys your girl will usually dump you. When your not on the ball or your best,what’s there for your chick to love and chase .?Fact is she will check out when you lose your edge and take the next warm body that comes along and facts do not care about your feelings..... and the cool part is that when she dumps you she is doing you a favour..

[@TroyMountain]

"90 days"?! TWO. YEARS. Two years, man.

[@TroyMountain]

@Marshy 19 >Ouch< Better stronger version of your Self now, though-- right?

[@brentgist9322]

Hey it took me 9 years and 2 kids..5 years of counseling

[@donstofiel5454]

Love💝 your whole message my friend.

[@luisville9050]

Corey the real answer to this issue is to suggest her to get him your book and have him read it 2 dozen times.

[@kellikakes81]

Great video! ! All women need to hear-- and take heed--to this.

[@gimmefunny]

Needed to hear this. Thank you

[@EASYDC]

@Coach Corey Wayne You look great buddy ! i have a question, i am doing my best to do eye contact with random people specially girls, pretty girls in fact but sometimes doest work with a girl if i keep doing it to her frequently like 3 times a week for example and sometimes she reject the eye contact as i assume, or maybe she is too afraid ? and another part about the same topic, in public places like bus station or mini market at my university, i see a lot of familiar faces of other students and one of those students is a girl who took my breath away and it has been two times that i have done the eye contact for like 2 seconds with her and every time she turn away first, is that she is shy or she is not interested ? By the way every time i look at her, i caught her looking at me first ! Thank you so much coach Corey :)

[@unclefester9265]

I would say that there is a great chance that she is just shy, but interested. If it's the case, then the best way would be to start conversation with her, so you can pick some more signs while talking to her. There is no other way to find out if she's that kind of person. :-)

[@EASYDC]

***** & Ozren Milanov thank you fro your advice bro, i appreciate it, i guess corey is busy ;) lol well, regarding to your advice im totally agree with ya, it just confuse me we know each other by faces (that both of us attending uni ) u know that feeling right ? and after following Coach Corey i started slowly to try be more social so, pretty girls kinda scare me, so i started with the pretty one so i kill the scare off, and boom i noticed she is looking at me and when i do catch her looking she look away, the confusing part to me, i know she is well know in uni and alot of guys approaching her, so she should be not shy of doing an eye contact with stranger since she is dealing with it everyday make sense bro ? :D shitmandood well bro you caught what im worrying about, if its pretty normal, why she does it for the second time, next time i see her i will approach her for coffee and cake guys here are very well dump, they turn off girls by a click friends of mine they laugh at me when i tell them i ask girls for dinner or ice cream or even cake and coffee but on the other side, they are single and im having fun :) thx for corey to open up our eyes to the real picture of ourselves as men :)

[@values26]

This is me currently...When i met her.. I was geniunly a happy dude...had my routine and comfortable in my own skin...I was sorta sheltred/reserved dude when we met and she is extroverted..so i met all her friends who had all these experiences that i didnt....i feel ike a loser and not worthy of her...currently im depressed to be around her...it makes me questiom myself/worth to be around her...I really wanna break up and just do my own thing but my family has been close to hers...her parents like me and i feel the relationship is being pushed closer..her male friends bug me too..Im just trying to get out and break up.and im not sure how??

[@BlessingMakwera]

You're better off just running as if a lion was chasing you. Your life depends on the decision to not get entangled with possibly toxic people.

[@PradyumnaHazarikafazer]

Help!! There's this girl I dated for nearly 3 months, everything was fine initially, but she had family problems (parents are divorced) and she spiralled into depression and decided to break up( totally understandable). The next day while speaking I said she needs professional help. She took it the wrong sense and thought I was calling her a psychopath, and she said she never wants to speak to me again. What do I do??

[@theeternalslayer]

She basically took what you said out of context but that's the best thing you could have said. People like that will convince themselves it's not their fault make excuses about it and point the finger at otherpeople, just walk away dont worry about it her problems arent your problems

[@thewaxandgreaseremover6182]

Run

[@ApostleThe344]

Best video this works for guys dating unhappy women also

[@sundancems]

Corey, you are such an intelligent man

[@silastea]

This guy was me. I even had to change city leaving my 5-year-old rl behind because she didn t want to come along. It was and is painful. She said she felt I was abandoning her but not exactly, I was in search of greener pastures. I found them but after a while in my previous city...

[@dennisrobinson8008]

happiness is important

[@NightShift_EDC]

Wow... this video really hit.

[@atteindresiempredad]

first woman with whom I started practicing these technique was inattractive and unhappy, while I use to go out with happy stunning women before I found this material.. what a chance

[@shaolinsecrets]

Lovin this vid!

[@johnpauljacob4596]

In my current situation, I can relate to the guy in her email.

[@kameli123]

How is your life now?

[@hypnotherapistgurudebraann6013]

4.0 good job for standing up 👍

[@peternorthrup6274]

I think a man can figure out real quick if they have kids or not. Your an older guy like me. We spot that fast. As old as we are. Run fast. Kids? Are you crazy? Not in a million years. Tell all your listeners. No kids. They will distroy a good relationship.

[@mbrdc6321]

coach corey wayne, can you make a video on what if she found out your video and the 3% man book?^

[@berineayala4767]

Good shit man

[@christianc.5774]

thats what happened to me, the first 3 months where awesome but then she changed. You talk about drama, flakey behavior. I stayed for 3 more months bad move on my part.

[@haleygipson7984]

WOW!!! YOU ARE 100,000^♾ CORRECT ABOUT THE MONEY!!!!!👏👏👏 #REPLAY

[@hasheralawi1977]

I born in Middle East culture so it is common and we let borrowing families and friends money to support. What you think of that culture.

[@yarikpetrash939]

Hey Corey Ive been following and seeing your videos for sometime now. My girl broke up with me so i was wondering, what can do do to get her to reconsider her decision. So I researched, and found out that the best thing would be no contact for 30 days. Ive did my 30 days of no contact, started communicating with my ex through text messages, except she is dropping them from time to time and just doesn’t respond. Ive seen your videos about getting a personal encounter with a girl, and working on it, however I just can’t seem to get her to hang out with me. Ive asked twice now. First she said yes, coming to the day, she texted me she was busy and can’t do it, and asked if we can reschedule. I said okay, let me get my schedule from work and ill txt you, i did that then as soon as i scheduled another day wth her she just stopped replying to me. Where should i go with this? Also, how do i stay persistent with out being annoying? thanks in advance to Corey or whoever answers this.

[@triethylborane777f7]

+Yarik Petrash Dont contact her unless she contacts you first. Your behavior is needy, timid, annoying and completely unmasculine; she is basically running away from you at this point. Your next move is to get Coach Corey's e-book (its less than $10), read it 15 times, lose yourself in your life's purpose (work, school), and meet new and awesome women that you deserve. Sucks, Ive been there with several women that I could never see being without, but that is a possessive-bullshit-weak attitude that contributed to unhappiness for over 7 years and an eventual divorce. Unhinge yourself from the myths and lies you have been telling yourself about a woman that isn't attracted to you . . . she dumped you. Once you figure out what Corey teaches, you will never look back.

[@jackbravo2172]

+Yarik Petrash You wouldn't be asking these questions if you have really been following his video's. Corey say's this in almost all video's. " The strongest negotiating position is to walk away and mean it" and no contact means NO CONTACT, not 30 days, not 60 days, not any days. She has to be the one to reach out to you period! If you go contacting her with your pushy neediness, you will fuck everything up. How do you "stay persistent without being annoying?" Are you kidding me? You haven't watched any video where Corey teaches that. Wait to hear from her, that's it. When she contacts you, if ever. see what she wants, be cool and try and make a date, until then, you have no power to do anything.

[@mauiswift6391]

Brilliant!

[@linccnil]

to anyone here who is already really good with this stuff: i asked a girl out for the 3rd date last week on monday, when i asked when she is free she said next week. She said she is going to check her schedule and write me back. It has been over 1.5 weeks now and no message from her. My plan is to not write her at all if she doesnt do it, since she said she would get back to me. Correct plan or should I reach out to her at some point?

[@EASYDC]

+linccnil Bro, my advice to you is to move on to another girl, she is not hurting you by being nice to u in that way she is not interested for sure, because if she is even though a little let say 4-5 out of 10 she wont throw your meeting till next week, based on personal experience i could tell you she is not interested what you need to do is to forget about her and move on to other girls and leave the door open to her to come back if she wants to and that by texting or calling you and when that happen you can ask her to set a date :D i hope its helplfull

[@linccnil]

+Al-Nasir Al-Baldawi thanks yep that was the plan anyways, just wanted to see if im not too strict with that here

[@linccnil]

+Al-Nasir Al-Baldawi already did set up a date with another girl. This is something i learned from corey i have never done before, could have saved me so much pain lol. Just move on as you say too, makes things easy if you can focus on other women

[@EASYDC]

linccnil exactly, and it would be better if u have multi girls dating and not be focus on only one ! otherwise you wont figure out "the one" easily !

[@chriscostlow4210]

"literally"? When a girl says literally just reminds you that there's 2 sides to every story.

[@losgryfog]

it sounds like he wanted to get back to work and she didn't give a fuck about his work and just wanted to party and bullshit.

[@jericho7899]

Oddly enough, was in an 8 year engagement w 2 children. My ex fiance is this exact way as this guy. She left me and texted me the same things the guy said to the woman in this story... I think her self worth/value,self esteem & her projected vision of life and goals arent as ambitious as mine...

[@justjade289]

This literally is my life situation right now. But the only difference is that we have a 2 year old girl together. So as much as I want to go on with my life and give him the time and space that he needs to be a better version of himself that's time I'm taking his daughter away from him because she loves with me and him and I don't live together or even in the same town, so what do you Reccommend when there's children involved?

[@btjones874]

dont stay togethor for the children. it will only lead to unhappiness.

[@Cool_Ace]

like foreal coach for president

[@lcbryant78]

I think this is my ex’s letter. I drained her bank account and emotions. However she’s depressed and stressed by her job, so this pertains to the pair of us.

[@bostjantrancar9605]

Great word's

[@imkcortez7156]

No amount of you feeling bad will make you feel good - Wayne Dyer Depression is a choice.

[@specimen717]

It isnt a choice for most, you dont choose mental illnesses. You can however choose to not date a person with depression. People who really do have depression and dont fake it, didnt decide to have it.

[@SAMBITTARAI96]

It's an aftereffect, a series of consequences. It never is a choice . It's something to be faced and conquered , in order to succeed.

[@BekiMcD]

Woo-hoo you go Corey @ 5:28 !!!!

[@austinnguyen9107]

14:33 15:57 22:50 24:13 24:22

[@s.jfrankson39]

Facts !

[@patrickfivefive3747]

Do you have advice where the Woman is Unhappy? I'm not dating a man!

[@kristenmoonrise]

I'm sure the advice he gave is advice you can also use. You may not be dating a man but there's plenty of depressed dudes that can benefit from watching his video.

[@patrickfivefive3747]

Yes, it's all helpful info.

[@mylandscapermanny]

💯 facts

[@Ice6462]

I think there more to this than what the girl is saying. She is putting all the blame on her ex.

[@VeryStupid4547]

Depression is nowhere near as black & white as it is portrayed in this video: Depression & codependency are not synonymous.

[@lolaispure4296]

They mostly are. Codependancy can be a sign of depresssio

[@IacopoCutino00]

I disagree. Everyone has problems, you can say that you will date someone when you will be happy. And trash your partner that for adverse circumstances is depressed. Guess what? It might never happen and have problems anyways. Also this idea of masculine center as all men should be centered, calm and successful is more of an ideal than reality. Many men are broke most of the time is not their fault, they will never have a spouse or a partner if you follow wayne theory because men should be always fine... And no one is always fine.

[@hypnotherapistgurudebraann6013]

Explains my life right now :(

[@CryptoKernels]

Tenacious Deb It’s my life now.

[@panjitimor8823]

Nice suit mister wayne

[@Caesar-nx9uv]

❤️❤️

[@shinons]

Ab 23:00

[@keithlaham7593]

Maybe she's not the same girl as she claimed to be when they met. Then sucked the life force out of the poor bastard . Leaving him a sad pile of shit that just never thought he'd be good enough. So he gave up. Someone constantly criticizing you can beat the shit out of you . When you don't deserve it.. maybe some women are succubus Its possible........

[@relaxingsounds1386]

Don't. 😆

[@michelegiaimeserra1128]

14:35

[@alezandradavila2581]

Lol

[@philipburdick8160]

Blowing a bunch of sunshine up low information voters... Donald Trump to a tee....

[@johnsalchichon4822]

Philip Burdick MAGA

[@philipburdick8160]

@Jayce Pedro I pay for my healthcare, fortunately affordable due to Massachusetts Health, the model for the "Affordable" Health Care Act (signed by then Governor Mit Romney), I paid (personally) for my college education (and fully repaid my government loan for a portion of my graduate degree)... although those of my fully employed (of 5) kids are currently struggling to repay their college debts. Perhaps you are aware of what in life comes "free" because my parents didn't teach me that... Perhaps you mean "Mexico is going to pay for it"????

[@dogmgfuckshitmcgee4656]

Lol nah sanders