Dating Younger Guys | ZULA ChickChats | EP 62

[@felllyfongg5402]

Can talk about 'insecurities in relationship?' Like a girl is fatter than a guy, or a girl is taller than a guy. I really need opinions regarding this matter.

[@chakomai6541]

You're just being insecure, stop it

[@HQR000]

I couldnt date a younger guy... unless he's really out of the norm & actually thinks and acts much much more mature than his age.. which obviously in guys that doesnt happen alot. Many guys in their early 20s and younger are just dating for the fun of it/test waters/"try try" here and there. I could never do a relationship where theres no real end goal in mind. Plus from my own experience I've always been more attracted to older guys (2-5 years older) because they give off a vibe that I can depend on them.. no not financially - more like on the emotional aspect and life advice ish wise. I ever went out with a guy who was only a few months younger than me but it felt like I was being his mum. I couldnt depend on him and most of the time I felt like he was the one depending on me both emotionally and financially. It was the biggest turnoff.

[@gooddreams8495]

so it's ok for girls to depend on a guy but not ok for a guy to depend for a girl? I think guys who date older women are attracted to women that are equally mature or more mature then them. But the girl in turn want the same thing, someone more mature. It seems to be socially accpetable for the girl to want someone to reply one but if it is a guy he would be seens as very unmanly

[@limjiarui8765]

Please consider talking about emotional baggage and/or being emotionally unavailable :')

[@boomboom1258]

If their maturity and values, personality, character are alright with me, if that guy is 2 or 3 years younger than me, and I find them attractive enough to get to know them better and possibly date/be in a relationship, why not? I've had younger guys pursuing me and I actually prefer guys who are more stable and mature and generally older than me. So far I've dealt with guys from as young as 19 to 30 years old. However, as you guys said, age is just a number, and your age doesn't have to necessarily mean you're mature at that age *refers to life experience*. If you vibe with them and enjoy spending time with them, liking them as they are, f the norm.

[@ilyjanelle4362]

moral of the story : age is just a number

[@shin9256]

And jail is just a room

[@flashfsk]

Shin Been a while since a youtube comment made me laugh, well played good Sir/Ma’am

[@mitochondrion97]

Idk I feel that if a woman at her age can get a younger man, she has got to have some amazing factors about her because wouldn’t like it be better for a young guy to date younger fresher sexier young ppl? Look at Jennifer Anniston, Victoria Beckham, Julia Roberts, Courtney Cox etc these woman all get to date younger guys. Idk not speaking from experience just saying

[@LeeW-i4t]

some guys actually find older women more attractive

[@NANA-jh8gs]

Well women prefer dating younger fresher sexier men compared to dating guys her age. Everyone loves young looking ppl not only men

[@terrenceescarda8951]

I like this one.

[@ashh3884]

So what the fk. None of them have experience and then what are they speaking from? Just how they feel? Can this get anymore boring.

[@ProjectElf]

I like it when jon is here

[@midnightat3am]

It’s so weird for me when it comes to large age gaps because all I can think about is how a 20 year old dating a 30 year old now were 10 and 20 at one point of time and how messed up that would be.

[@gummyypeach]

Where does Shanice shop most of her dresses? so pretty ^^

[@9cowbell9]

richard kanna Seems like someone’s small weiner, self esteem and ego got hurt deeply by a woman in the past resulting in everlasting trauma aww :(

[@9cowbell9]

richard kanna Yo mate I’m a dude and I’ve never seen such a salty man filled with so much hatred to the point of calling a woman that you don’t even know a slut. Whatever you’re struggling with or whatever is hurting you, I hope you find peace within. Adios.

[@mangopeachy394]

Hedwigtheowl MDS too

[@charlenehoryan5695]

Hey there zula actually it is : Illegal to be dating a minor

[@q.a.2875]

What about the biological clock ⏰... especially if there are consideration of it leading to a family in future

[@suanne9880]

lmao joke 14 divide by 2 plus 7 is still 14

[@laylac]

su anne ʕっ•ᴥ•ʔっ lmao joke because how do 14 year olds even date

[@charlenehoryan5695]

Hey there zula don’t mind me asking how old is Lena

[@YasminYoruba]

Yea age is just a number tbh.

[@mslittlestarry]

Can we talk about should girls be domesticated (must know how to cook, clean the house etc.)

[@winifredliang5683]

can we also talk about how guys should have the 5C's before thinking about getting a girl :)

[@bigmattwheel]

domestic*

[@genyeo4418]

It’ll be good to have some subtitles :)

[@Keslynbright5]

there are! just click the CC button