Dax - "Narcissist" (Feat. Phix) [Official Music Video]

[LYRICS BELOW] "Narcissist" is an extremely personal song to me. Share this with anyone and everyone and let's HEAL. Praying this reaches those who need it. Love y'all...
Click here to listen on REPEAT:
dax.lnk.to/Narcissist
Follow DAX: @thatsdax
Directed by: Logan Meis
Produced by: Backnine Z & Tk Run It Up
#narcissist #Dax #Phix #npd #nocontact #lovesong #relationships #narcissism
LYRICS:
The key to your heart
Opens up a place I’m not safe in
I got locked away in its vacance
Waking up to all to all of your faces
Trapped inside this cage
Narcissistic bouts of rage
Accusations everyday
Arguments that you’d create to break the soul inside of me
Trapped inside your cage
it was a crazy place to be
The constant roller coaster
made me sick I couldn’t see
the beauty in your lies had made the truth so ugly the man inside the mirror wasn’t recognizing me
A puppet master, pulling strings
and playing with my head
manipulating everything
and twisting what I said
projecting all your malice
then attacking me and
claiming my defense was
starting all the arguments.
As time goes on, and I embrace
the situation I just faced
I forgive myself for letting faith,
you’d change distorted reality.
The key to your heart
Opens up a place I’m not safe in
I got locked away in its vacance
Waking up to all to all of your faces
Trapped inside this cage
Narcissistic bouts of rage
Accusations everyday
Arguments that you’d create to break the soul inside of me
Every night we argue
I feel more and more abused
I give you what you want
but you’re still mad and I’m confused
you tell me that you’re leaving
she’s a villain on the loose
but even after everything
I still come after you
You told me this was forever
it’s me and you together
come to find out it never is oh
cause those were lies lies lies
she’s a snake in the disguise
as bad as I would want you to
I know you’ll never change
Crazy you and I were
talking bout’ our wedding day
And I’m glad that we didn’t go through
with it, but I’m feeling so bad
for the next one you ruin with
The key to your heart
Opens up a place I’m not safe in
I got locked away in its vacance
Waking up to all to all of your faces
Trapped inside this cage
Narcissistic bouts of rage
Accusations everyday
Arguments that you’d create to break the soul inside of me
I still sort of miss it
your toxic ambition,
your evil intention
you’re wrong intuition
I wasn’t complicit to our demise
I got locked away
and didn’t even do the crime
What do I do now? Where do I go?
How do I tell the next girl I am a broken soul?
it’s getting hard for me to breathe
The pain has brought me to my knees
I’m broken inside
I cannot describe
the thoughts that I get when I think of those times I saw all of the signs I ignored them now I will be damaged this way for the rest of my life.
The key to your heart
Opens up a place I’m not safe in
I got locked away in its vacance
Waking up to all to all of your faces
Trapped inside this cage
Narcissistic bouts of rage
Accusations everyday
Arguments that you’d create to break the soul inside of me
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If you made it this deep you are a real one. Thank you all for continuing to allow me to use my platform to make an IMPACT! All the support is appreciated and not taken for granted. I'm excited to go to war with this one and truly shed light on this topic that is misunderstood. It is very personal to me. Watch it spread and create healthy conversation and let's HEAL. 2024 IS JUST GETTING STARTED! SO MUCH MORE IS ON THE WAY!!! I promise to continue to put my all into creating pieces of work we can all be proud of and carry throughout life. LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE and let's continue to spark minds and be the change we wish to see in the world. Much love! This is MUSIC FOR THE PEOPLE, spread BY THE PEOPLE!!!

[@Thatsdax]

This one is extremely personal to me. I pray you don’t relate but if you do let’s HEAL…Like, comment, and lets share this everywhere. Somebody we all know needs to hear this. Love you all. Click here to stream on REPEAT: dax.lnk.to/Narcissist

[@4PHIXATED2LETTE0PHAN]

YESSSS...LETS FUCKIN GOOOO!!!!

[@dlnrlrosemary7777]

I do, but it’s good to know someone else can understand. 🫶🎶

[@TheWaken]

Legendary song, Dax. You and Phix go hard together. Keep making an impact❤

[@englewoodmusic]

🙏

[@artmduslexia6441]

Happily happily wrong it's a heartbreak song here I thought you and Tech N9ne were going to hop on s*** bulshit fascinatingly interesting how wrong I was😂🎉😢😅😅😊

[@williamrobinson3664]

I'm sitting here, tears have filled my eyes. This has been my life for the last 19 years and I couldn't even see it. Our daughters helped me to see with clear eyes how their mom is with us all. I'm a broken soul that God had lifted up and am now on my journey with my 4 children and God leading the way. Thank you so much, Dax, for all you have done and continue to do, brother. May God bless you and anyone reading this. Much love.

[@stephanieLynne-sd3lk]

I cried when I heard the title it's sad bc only someone who has lived this type of existence really truly gets it ..

[@djkaputski]

Here as well! ❤❤❤❤

[@KK-Dubb]

Through conversation comes understanding which ultimately leads to healing 😢❤ keep your head up YOU are Worth EVERYTHING.

[@JES0484]

12 years in the storm. I'm glad you're seeing the sunshine. God's got me.

[@rogerthehonestman9936]

My soul has been on healing journey for the past two years but this time DAX AKA the Angel , made rhythm for my journey … #thankyou #DAX

[@jazallen13]

I'm glad to see a song for men who are victims of narcissistic abuse. All to often women, like myself, have been victim to narcissistic abuse, but I really feel for the men who have also been through it and don't get that recognition. The "man up" mentality is the stupidest thing because when men heal, the world heals with them. Keep on keeping on fellas. 💖✨️

[@kubel83]

Thank you. You are so right. No one deserves to be abused by narcissists.

[@jazallen13]

@kubel83 absolutely 💯

[@Peteyzee98]

i love female narcissists

[@jazallen13]

@Peteyzee98 I'd explore why that is, if I were you. No one deserves that sort of treatment, so wanting that shows there's some deeper issues that probably need exploring. Best of luck man ✌️

[@DC-Instrumentalz]

Well Said!

[@FieryVelvetBloom]

The power of Dopamine, people. Alcohol, drugs, gambling, shopping, porn, etc etc, alot of addictions so many of us struggle with daily. But it doesn't seem to be recognized that being addicted to a PERSON - the feelings you got, the love you shared - is a very real thing. And when it turns, it's too late and we end up "chasing the dragon", desperate for anything resembling what we had together at the beginning, the feelings of invincibility they gave us before slowly and maniacally taking it away from us. Then they have the power while we feen until we're destroyed. But where I do disagree with this powerful song is where it we can choose to not be damaged for the rest of our lives. If we learn from it and CHOOSE to do what it takes to get healthy, like any addiction, we can get and stay free. Be strong, good people. (One Luv!)

[@Tuuurtle19]

THAT. It's not a brokenness forever - even if it feels like it in the moment or years after. There's a choice to heal and learn to do better. ❤

[@Priforce]

Bout time someone created art depicting narcissism and how it hurts everyone, but this is the first that shows how men can be victims of narcissistic abuse too. Thank you for this video. It will lead a lot of people, including me, through the process of healing and recovery.

[@majixxhart8824]

That's the truth ❤❤

[@bobburton5314]

This was felt... hard💯😢

[@misstlc3]

Absolutely needs to be shown and imo these days are bigger victims of it . Not trying to throw shade on other women but with the way social media, MSM and especially OF/ Instagram have depicted what females “deserve” , man it’s creating a lot of narcissistic behaviours. “My man better make $200,000 plus my engagement ring better be like $500,000…he better do this, he better do that if he wants to get with this.” Beauty fades sweetheart and then what do you have to bring to the table. The theres all this crap everywhere about toxic masculinity and misogyny. If men keep getting tore down, we create a weak society. Anyways now I’m rambling and making the topic bigger than your comment. Sorry you went through that and I hope you have or will find someone that builds you up not tears you down. 💕

[@preston3698]

Yep its about time been dealing with this shit

[@lindsaykolarik8036]

It does happen however narcissism is more dominant in men than it is Women. The numbers for female narcissists are growing. However, girls are not usually raised to avoid emotions. In the same way that men are. Young boys are more often emotionally Dismissed And ridiculed for having emotions, Treated as though they are weak for having them. So therefore it emotionally stunts them for life. @misstlc3

[@smokey4299]

He knew what he was doing dropping this around valentine

[@32HUNTER]

I make fire music

[@jonathanmayberrydesigns]

@@32HUNTER SO DOES THE LORD. JUST LOOK TO SKY AND GOD WILL SING TO YOU/

[@Spider2083]

EXACTLY 💯

[@bone6366]

Yes this is the good guy anthem of the year !!!🎉❤❤🔥 🔥 🔥 🚀

[@CrossBoneThaDarKnightMirror187]

​@jonathanmayberrydesigns stop using your beliefs to harass people.thats not how us true Christians testify

[@ThatCrazedNinersFan]

I need you to know this song is a work of art, in countless different ways.

[@user-hr8ey3bj2q]

I definitely agree... Dax Went hard on this one .. As Did Phix...

[@zach.french]

Yo Dax and Phix. This right here is unbelievable. No one talks about the struggles on the other side. All society does is want to make the man out to be the problem, the abuser, the one with the issues. No one wants to talk about the man who got trapped in a situation and because he has values that no one sees, he never made a move but never had the heart to move away. This song hits so hard. All love. And to any man or woman whos had to be trapped in this cage, I pray you recover and heal, like I am trying to.

[@michaelmarinchak2402]

Still trapped going on 8 Years now and 5 and 6 year old boys. I want to leave so bad since I found out who she truly is but she knew what she was doing and made it 100%impossible for me to leave her in this debt hole she dug me into. I dunno if I can take another day pretending. She still denies whole heartedly and calls me delusional and crazy but I cought her in her lies and I cought her little boyfriend's in their lies. Can't with these people. I work with one if them fo charts sake

[@zach.french]

@michaelmarinchak2402 I've been in that exact position with a daughter and a 10 year life built. All I gotta say is I was scared to make a move with the debt, with the thoughts of what it would do to my family with the change. However that debt and those changes will also be there when she up and decides it's over. Just a matter of if your willing to make the changes for yourself or let life decide for you. I chose the latter and got tortured far longer then ever should have been allowed. Take care of yourself and do what's best for you and yours ! Much love

[@michaeldancurtis]

"The key to your heart Opens up a place I’m not safe in" Damn that is good line!

[@madskvalsundlken4625]

Accurate aswell

[@jodea2017]

Poetic ❤

[@enriquececilwolfenden9733]

A rock hard bat!🔥💯🥺

[@elthe3rd]

90% of these lyrics described what I have gone through.

[@KatieChandler-oj8ze]

Yea it hit me hard

[@hassanelachkar7636]

Depression , Dear alcohol , To Be A Man , Narcissist All Bangers! Dax is truly a blessing in our lives we need to hear everyday. 🤲🏻🙏🏼

[@Neddicus]

Give self proclaimed 3 a listen if you want to add another to that list

[@hassanelachkar7636]

@@Neddicus already have brother

[@mr.syn0074]

God's eyes, Life , those are another 2 to add to the list

[@Neddicus]

@mr.syn0074 Honestly, almost all of his music hits right to the core. Love to see those that God has blessed moving and sowing seeds.

[@rydersmith4738]

I can't stay alive without dax's music and Tom McDonald it's just the best music ever

[@Scoopthemoopoop]

Songs like this close the gap between Hip Hop & Rock

[@monwas2015]

Bro, you truly are a gift of God in this earth. Hope we find eachother in the afterlife

[@victorialynn3602]

“Claiming my defense was starting all the arguments” just wow! How accurate that line is.

[@Interdacted]

Can't be wrong, if you only argue with yourself. :)

[@vidard9863]

​@@Interdactedreally? That's the whole point of thinking, to argue with the parts of yourself which are wrong, prove yourself wrong, and bring yourself closer to the truth.

[@Interdacted]

@@vidard9863 ngl I just end up lost in thought and still wrong, then again I'm also just told that my thoughts are a mental disorder. So either way can't trust myself. Everyone else is right though and I hope they live a life that makes them happies.

[@vidard9863]

@@Interdacted did you ever try getting into classical logic? Part of the problem for most people seems to be that they never structure thoughts, separate thoughts from feelings, and have no objective ways to evaluate thoughts.

[@Interdacted]

@@vidard9863 I didn't know that was a thing, I be stuck in one thought pattern and it be a bit bad. Thank you.

[@jharris7838]

These lyrics sent chills up my spine with flash backs of the endless nightmare I endured years ago. Constantly trying to suppress these horrid memories with the mother of my child. Not wanting to be a deadbeat father or the parent that threw in the towel disregarding the family and relationship. You feel trapped and as a man you have no real outlet to seek guidance. I am happy to see people are speaking up and can relate with similar stories. Still currently picking up the pieces of my shattered soul. I come to terms it’s ok to be alone. Even after 4 years going on 5. I still haven’t dated a women and have not seen my son since he was taken across the country by his mother in a blink of an eye with no hesitation, remorse, or acknowledgment. Sure since then I’ve tried to have some fun here and there, but still have zero interest in a relationships and most definitely not marriage this day in age.

[@livenotbylies]

Try to find your way back to that boy. It happened to me as a kid and now as an adult. I know it from both sides. Try to find a way. Stay strong. I'm so sorry

[@jharris7838]

I really appreciate that! 🙏🏽

[@skeelatheskink8724]

So many cheaters these days. I don’t envy people in the dating pool who haven’t found someone they can trust.

[@tiklytahir]

This comment is exactly what is going on with me ,minus one or 2 things

[@nattyogli9317]

Hugs to you bro... Felt like you were telling my story... It's a pain that is hard bare... I pray the universe sends your way peace abs comfort somehow 🫂

[@Dorian__________]

I ain’t been through this but for the people who have yall soldiers keep ya head up. To Dax and phix amazing song❤🔥

[@BATCHOPPA]

DAX NEVER DISAPPOINT US 👀🔥🐐

[@RicardoSpeed-ro9cv]

That's true He never disappoints

[@Itsmerveille125]

Fr 🔥

[@djkaputski]

True!

[@djkaputski]

My Song bro!!

[@djkaputski]

Share this please everybody!!!

[@realtalkron7667]

Independent artists doing the most. Much much better than the mainstream. Thank you Dax

[@realpdiddy]

hes not independent hes signed to columbia

[@32HUNTER]

I make fire music

[@samuelmunoz1464]

Joyner lucas

[@Young_Ronin]

@@realpdiddyjust boutta say that. Like people hating for dax for signing but bro. Dax been killing it independently for 4 years, he got his following his soldiers, and the early 2000s dream was to get signed to a major label but a good label. He even said he might sign. But look at what he was able to do WITH the machine behind him. Dear alcohol BLEW up. His music videos have always been fire BUTTT they are like full on productions. @thatsdax Don’t listen to em

[@user-lg6xw6cz8n]

The fights started before bed. The lies. The distortions of the truth. The accusations. The name calling..the gaslighting the nonsense. Thanks man needed 2 hear this.

[@Cagetagium]

I can relate. Thank God I was able to escape that relationship and find someone who actually LIVES for me. Hope you find that someone too!

[@GG-ud1ib]

I hope that you and everyone that has ever felt this way, learns what love and how love really works is. When 2 people really love, each only lifts the other, not to reside on a pedestal, but to reside in their heart, which is far higher than any pedestal. It's a place that doesn't require constant pressure, or any chains, just trust and faith, that if one's feelings change, than before any steps are taken, the other will be released first. However, working with the one you already have this type of connection with, is normally the best approach, because if you just seek the excitement of new love, you can never find true love.

[@EliteReacts]

I’m glad he made the Narcissist a woman. Society and even literature many times make the Narcissist the male in the relationship. I’m a survivor of a female Narcissist and it changed me forever.

[@shannonwilkerson]

Same here, brother. Got out after 20 years.

[@oldirishdm3475]

Same - Got out after 14 years.

[@shadownekomor3]

14 for me first one tried to kill me second was hella controlling

[@Roninbuilt]

Ditto, 12yrs. Free now.

[@ThatZero]

The narc statistically is usually a male, but female narcs are real indeed.

[@angiew7407]

I know this is about a relationship, but this also hits hard to those that were raised in narcissistic households. I still can't believe how long it took me to realize how much emotional abuse i actually endured and how abnormal it actually was. I still struggle with it at times, but I'm determined to break the cycle and do better for my own children.

[@adrianypereira5340]

Break those curses!🎉

[@hopenicole0438]

Sending hugs your way ❤

[@victoriacampbell8157]

I feel this comment 😢 I’m breaking the cycle for my twins ❤

[@hannaeskridgeeskridge7749]

Sounds like you are 🥰❤️

[@infernogaming7923]

So did I, then I ended up in a narcissistic relationship.

[@OlaviAkaye]

Dear God: send an Angel to tell the world about Dax because I won't make them understand... your people are hard to deal with,they can't choose what's right.long live Dax❤

[@IfollowGod24_7]

You don’t have to accept the damage they’ve done! Overcome by siding with God and realize that it was NEVER YOU🙏🏼❤️

[@kidsfuntime9151]

This song makes me think of my friend Brenda. She was trapped in a relationship with a narcissist. It was a toxic relationship for both of them. We tried so hard to get her out of it. Unfortunately she didn't make it out and passed away December 20th 2023. she was 31 years old. She was a huge fan of your music. I hope anyone stuck in a toxic relationship finds their way out before it's too late. There is Hope. You can heal. Never give up.

[@danielaspitz3052]

I feel we shouldn't say it's toxic for both of them If one is a Narcissist and their victim traumabonded, it's only ONE toxic person.

[@vidard9863]

​@@danielaspitz3052yeah, but we also don't know who that particular narcissist was trapped in a relationship with, or even if they were really the narcissist, or even how many narcissists there were in the relationship.

[@vidard9863]

That's the weird thing. When I was younger I did remove some abusive guys from certain women's lives. Oddly enough they all found someone as or more abusive. The only thing that ever worked was when she herself decided to avoid that sort of man. Even many of my male friends keep having the same relationships with various, for lack of a better term, abusive women. I don't really get it, I have had that strong lust/attraction to crazy women myself, but it doesn't last, and even in the moment I always knew that she could only ever be a temporary part of my life...

[@davidstastyideas342]

If You Don't Heal From What Hurt You, You'll End Up Bleeding On People Who Didn't Cut You .... Dax ✍️ Thank you so much my man

[@dlnrlrosemary7777]

Hurt people, hurt people basically but I like his better.

[@midknightraptor3650]

Thats a fire analogy

[@dee.honorable]

Definitely

[@donnellcoleman7784]

Its was by Tamara Kulish who said it

[@donnellcoleman7784]

​@@midknightraptor3650Tamara Kulish said it in 2021

[@aimeebyrd3823]

I lived through this for twelve years. This song hits hard for me. I pray we all find peace and heal.

[@GhostFac303]

The worst is being in love with the woman. That's no good for you 😢, thank you dax your music, mends my soul keep it coming.

[@brendakennedy1975]

You heal before you find another partner. That's a big mistake people make. Heal first, if not, you bring hurt and hate with you, to the next person. This song is amazing ❤

[@chamillitary8707]

Exactly ‼️

[@AlecPure]

Sometimes you can't heal until you find someone. Were it not for my wife who found me at my most broken and became my light in the dark.. I wouldn't be here

[@MiGite92]

Sometimes the only thing that heals it is the actual thing you needed the first time... Healthy... 😢

[@user-yi9ko1lg9l]

Dax is a genius! Why aren’t we hearing all his songs on the radio? Dax writes his own lyrics and his To Be A Man went right to the top of the charts. Come on people. He’s brilliant!

[@schmeelkie075_gaming]

They don’t wanna hear a real artist

[@alexreynoso3654]

His real fans will find him. He is the only artist I feel an emotion connection with. A family member died of alcoholism dear alcoholic made me realize what was going on with my family member.

[@Ephesians514]

Cuz he didn't sell his soul ❤

[@143ldn]

They Oppress people who use their right to freedom of speech cause if you use your brain you can break free from the system

[@Spazout15]

Those who don’t worship murder, selling drugs and demonetize women won’t get the recognition they deserve but we keeping artists like Dax alive by supporting his music because Real Recognize Real

[@harrydude101]

dax didn't have one bad song last year,and this here is a great start to 2024 for Dax,found him in 2022 and here till the end,god bless Dax

[@Ace22]

As someone who dealt with 27 yrs of abuse from family and even a roommate. This is one of your best imo. Thanks Dax.

[@raymondtendau2749]

Life with a Narcissist(deep Narcissist) is terrible beyond imagination. May God heal every victim. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@valdorobantu290]

God bless brother

[@raewynurwin4256]

Deep narcissist is a psychopath according to my therapist, narcs believe their own lies, called conflabulations. Psychopaths know they are lying and usually don't even try to fake empathy. Peace be near on recovery, amen.

[@d4rksydecaff]

Its crazy how people sleep differently. Like I sleep on my side. My ex sleeps with everyone And some people sleep on DAX. Greatness 🔥

[@Dr_suter]

This comment is so underrated 😂

[@philsavala276]

I swear it’s like you’ve looked deep inside my head & wrote down what you saw. This has been my life for the last 18 years. I didn’t realize what she was doing & how she was using me. The last couple of years are when she changed because I started seeing the gas lighting & standing up for myself. I used to feel so guilty & ashamed for things I didn’t remember doing. She had isolated me from all of my friends. She didn’t have any friends but she had a big tight knit family that became my family & has been for the last 18 years. Both of my parents died young & they were the only close family I had… so I always had a lot of friends & spent the holidays with their families. I always wanted a tight family & now I had one. They welcomed me in with open arms & being a licensed plumbing contractor didn’t hurt. She had my stepson when she was 16 so we were the youngest grandparents around, in our 30’s (I’m 2 yrs younger). When I started my own business she stopped working, against my wishes (benefits are easily taken for granted). The hardest part of her secretly filing for divorce (in August) wasn’t the way I found out when the bank’s fraud prevention called me when she transferred what was left of my parents life insurance & tried to “bill-pay” herself thru my company acct, it wasn’t the fact that she emptied my life savings & drained my checking acct, it wasn’t the fact that she opened up credit cards in my name & out me $169,000 in debt, & it wasn’t when she cheated on me. It was when she alienated me from her entire family starting with my 1.5 & 3.5 yr old grandsons. Pretty soon her whole family started ghosting me & blocking me on social media. She made up this story that I was an abusive alcoholic & that I had been beating her for the last several years, even though our 13 yr old daughter never witnessed this, no police calls, no bruises that had to be explained to friends or family. It never happened. I would never put my hands in ANY woman, let alone my wife of 16.5 yrs. But one night my house lit up & I heard my name on a loudspeaker telling me to come out with my hands up. It was the SWAT team. I came out to assault rifles pointed at me. I told her I was going to press charges because she wouldn’t stop putting me further in debt when AmEx called about suspicious charges in my acct. So she beat me to the punch & told the police I threatened to kill her by putting “a bullet thru her head”. That’s all it took for them to arrest me & DCFS to take my daughter from me. So now I’m fighting in 3 different courts for my freedom, to get my now 14 yr old daughter back, & whatever hell I’m going to have to face in divorce court. So far that court keeps getting pushed back until my criminal & child dependency courts are done, & that lawyer somehow already ate thru my $6k retainer & we haven’t even had a meeting yet. I haven’t seen or spoken to my daughter in months. Her school blocked me from seeing her grades online, which concerns me because I’ve always been the parent that does all the homework with her. She had straight A’s. I don’t even know how she’s doing now.

[@jamesprather1723]

Dax is a blessing to the world keep sharing your gift with us brother the lord needs more like you on his battlefield amen dax keep it real Playa

[@TheOtherGuy01]

Dax and Phix wow, yall nailed it. Seven years of my life was taken because of her. I see it this way though. the Righteous will fall for seven years and rise again. God bless everyone that's ever been through this ✝️✝️✝️

[@ShAdoWVeRsE8]

"and claiming my defense was starting all the arguments" ...is such a real line here it's insane...

[@Thatsdax]

Frfr everyone’s missing that one fam

[@ShAdoWVeRsE8]

@@Thatsdax Sadly I relate and those words hit hard...Godbless you Dax!

[@icarusjumped2719]

And its an accusation that has been used so much on the political and cultural landscape too. Deep man.

[@josephlee5654]

Bro was that Stoya?

[@32HUNTER]

I make fire music

[@annubissl]

every line hit like a brick to the face. no lies spoken here. From all us who survived this, all of us who are living through this, from those of us who escaped, those of us still fighting to get out, from those of us who healed, and those of us still healing, ..... THANK YOU DAX as a mental health professional i'm not ashamed to say your music has been the most effective form of therapy I have ever undergone.

[@lifeofmmm2444]

💯

[@brettsons]

💯🙌🏼❤️

[@masterkokoro7039]

💯🙏

[@StrongerThanOceans21]

After still not feeling my old self that I knew before a narcissistic, this song def hits home.

[@samgraham4608]

Preach

[@William_Kyle-Yuki_Yuuki]

As a Scotsman hearing an American say Vacance was very unexpected but appreciated.

[@larrystorey1964]

Stevie Knight, Knox Hill, No Life Shaq.......do THIS!!!! You guys LOVE Dax, let it OUT!!

[@larrystorey1964]

The POWER 3, is what is seen. You fans NEED your response!!

[@XXXTENTACIONTHEGOAT]

Dax deserves to be more known, his music is underrated ❤❗️🗣

[@jessvachon1043]

Fax

[@bfg216]

Fr

[@kylejohnson1387]

Same with phix he's dope AF to.. I found phix and dax around the same time maybe a year ago it's insane they making music together now.. probably the greatest collaboration in the 20th century

[@Daeton21]

1.7 Million views isnt well known?

[@DC-Instrumentalz]

He's gonna get there though. he's determined, persistent, constant, and full of talent! His career is just beginning to expand, i have a feeling he's not even close to being done

[@benwendel108]

Reading these comments shows just how impactful these people are. 1 person can affect dozens of lives...

[@YTubeScandalScrambledMyHandle]

Dozens 😂. 1 person can affect hundreds of millions. Look at the president 🥴. At least I can relate to Dax. 😇✌️

[@ChrisSmith-ew9fp]

Umm, we forgot about hilter "effecting" people? That's 1 person...

[@YTubeScandalScrambledMyHandle]

@@ChrisSmith-ew9fp Touché. 😇✌️

[@alexandrasamuel5290]

This is such a powerful and moving song. I’ve never burst out into tears and been so moved before in music. Thank you, I don’t feel so alone

[@a.r.t.makesbeats777]

I CANNOT STOP LISTENING TO THIS SONG!! It's a healing phase I've been going through... constantly remembering all the shit I went through. For more and more pain? Locking myself away to avoid more hurt. Trying to love again and getting burnt over and over. By friends, family, relationships, etc. A person can only handle so much. I am thankful for God and music. 🖤

[@mccantrell3676]

Listened 19 times

[@Linnidoo2]

Never give up! Forgive yourself for being fooled. Forgive your abuser because they don't realize how wrong they are. But also they don't feel pain the way we do. You still need to forgive-- for your own healing.

[@anthonyreese444]

Yes!!! ❤

[@valdorobantu290]

Id like to point out that sometimes music can be counter productive, because it forces you to reminisce over a poisoned part of your life, and will keep you in a loop. I speak from experience. If your eyes won't stop pouring, turn the tunes off.

[@valdorobantu290]

And remember brother, your lifes purpose is to find GOD, and seek the truth till the day you die. Society teaches us to have a family and all sorts of things to also keep us in a loop and away from GOD. GOD isolates his chosen for a reason brother. Gives us time to repent, and to obey his commandments!!! His arm won't be stretched out forever!!

[@lgrello1214]

Someone’s inability to see your worth doesn’t mean you’re not valuable. 👑

[@PumpkinJack31]

What if it’s not someone, but everybody?

[@loickgeoffreyhodonou7317]

Keep pushing, brother. Make it worth your while.

[@lgrello1214]

@PumpkinJack31 can't be everybody I see u as valuable an family

[@helenbicknell6659]

Love this so much.. ❤

[@devotheambivert9875]

💯

[@jonnytexans8661]

Dax and Phix just gave a voice to millions of men who dealt with mental abuse from the women and had to just suck up cause no one heard our side….thanks

[@TheJonnySkitzz]

14 years later and I'm STILL damaged, because of a covert narcissist. This song makes me cry no matter how high I am when I listen to it. Thank you DAX. You're a poet and nobody can ever take that from you❤

[@Varacer]

Dax was sent by God to help us all heal through music.

[@earnestinecole4030]

"Absolutely, that's it. "

[@sarahjane8943]

Have you peeped his latest pod cast w/ snow tha product? We ALL need healing and healthy self awareness

[@Cagetagium]

TRUTH!!!!

[@shelly6139]

Thank you ❤️

[@amyleanhart8234]

🙌👏🫶

[@SpoopyWitch]

I just got out of a marriage with a narcissist... I'm in tears. The visuals are perfect. Thanks, Dax!

[@tysonerwin607]

I’m on my way out of one myself. Take care of yourself. Go find you! I’m just starting to find me.

[@amandasmith7212]

Stay strong! I’m trying to get out. It’s so hard.

[@SpoopyWitch]

I hope the best for you both! It’s not easy whatsoever, but stick with what your gut is telling you! 🖤

[@asly5840]

@@tysonerwin607same, feel like im the worst person for leaving. My heart hurts in the worst possible way.

[@tysonerwin607]

@@asly5840 The hardest part for me is not wanting to hurt the other person. It is devastating for both people just in different ways I agree. But sometimes we have to do what we feel is right and not do it for what the other person will think. So hard. Keep your head up. I try to think about things that will make me happy rather than trying to think about what hurts

[@WailfulSeeker82]

This describes my last relationship terrifyingly accurately. The line "As bad as I want you to, I know you'll never change. Crazy you and I were talking about our wedding day" hits the hardest for me... we always talked about being together forever and what we wanted to do together. I had an engagement ring and was planning a proposal. She dumped me out of the blue and told me she never loved me and i found out later she was cheating... it's been 2 years and I still miss her alot and idk why

[@casp3r557]

Time heals all wounds my friend. You will push through it. Stay strong 💪

[@carlamerriam900]

I'm an 80's rock lady but my daughter just showed this to me and I'm crying. WOW! This couldn't be more accurate. Beautiful.

[@Ampx-xw9jl]

Thank you for creating this song, I'm sure it will open the eyes of many. Most will say men are the majority of the narcissist, I disagree it only appears this way because most men are overt narcissists, which is the easiest to identify. Women, however, typically suffer from covert narcissism, which is the hardest to diagnose. Due to their ability to empathize and reflect, sometimes it may seem like they change their behavior, but it is only for a short period of time, then the cycle repeats. Covert narcissism is usually caused by early childhood trauma. Took 10 years of marriage and 6 years of research to discover I was married to a covert narcissist. Thank you for shining a light on this. God bless you.

[@Caramel.Latte80]

Thank you for sharing❤. Sorry you went through that and hoping things are much better for you today.

[@jackistauff2107]

I ❤ u Dax!!

[@JustMe618IL]

1000% correct!

[@MrShadow-qz9xj]

You nailed it, and I feel you on that one man. Most of the time they get away with it too, cause if you try to point it out, they will just play the innocent victim.

[@kiddcloud]

❤ I went through a similar journey 💪🏾

[@nickhildebrandt4032]

This song is spot on. Escape is the only option. Do not stay! There are evil people, fools, and wise people. Lord May this song find the people that need to hear this!

[@32HUNTER]

I make fire music

[@JuneBenogang]

I wish I could explain my side of the story I don't know how

[@stephanieLynne-sd3lk]

Amen

[@jaycarl1562]

Married 25 yrs, I know nothing about this. Raised to pick weeds till I found a Flower. Flowers are fragile so make sure your delicate enough to care for it.

[@tarahunter5498]

Speaking truth and facts, my abuser never saw me for me and so much so, I started questioning myself because of all the accusations, constant disrespect, no regard for boundaries. God is working in me, helping me heal and remember who I am, by His grace I am forgiven and healing.

[@OfficialJacksonGrimes]

The "Talking about our wedding day" bar hit me deep inside the heart. Dax and Phix you are to freaking legends!. Fix your self problems or else you are gonna ruin the next relationship you are in and then the next.

[@OfficialPhix]

much love

[@OfficialJacksonGrimes]

@@OfficialPhix Shout out to main man Phix!. Who is eventually gonna take over the world in the future one step at a time!.

[@amasthetic9748]

This dude seriously never misses holy. Found him 2-3 years ago, and his lyrics and flow are seriously unmatched.

[@desensitized]

He missed when he scammed his fans out of verses, and stole lil peeps lyrics.

[@jessiejaygranali4041]

​@@desensitizedwhat lyrics?

[@insertgenericusername__]

This explains my last relationship perfectly and yet we're still addicted to each other's chaos....😢😢

[@bigtrue_yt]

As a musician in my prime and the fact that I was a huge narcissist..... Open verse accepted

[@tammyarmstrong7230]

How can something so beautiful be so tragic. A heart that has never been broken is a heart that is never used. Beautiful song. Love the combination of you and Phix.

[@Flameoffire133]

Well said

[@OfficialPhix]

much love

[@Nuggetmonk]

"ill be damaged for the rest of my life" i hate to say i can relate. i have trust issues ever since and prefer to be alone while at the same time yearning for connection....its a weird feeling

[@lindahebb9690]

Agree so much damage done, no healing. Alone is better, see others who seem to have a good relationship but then I wonder what happens when they are alone.

[@travismclean7041]

I relate as well. I'm at the point where the emotional toxicity has actually manifest into physical ailments.

[@Dr_suter]

Pretty sure it’s called quiet-presence loneliness. It’s a completely understandable feeling but it’s a harsh one. I’ll pray for ya man

[@ThetaRealms]

Thx for making this

[@sophie3138]

You are helping so many people God bless you you're so deep and intellectual ❤

[@elementalgolem5498]

the type of relatability you never hope to have, hits too damn accurately

[@abrahamlincoln6619]

Right

[@commonsenseisdeadin2024]

That's a good way to say it!

[@TTGKobe]

From open verses, to being on tour together, to now dropping an official song together🙌🏾💯🙏🏾

[@infernogaming7923]

It's been a long time coming but they sound phenomenal together

[@austinepperly33]

Wow… this song made me almost brake down hearing it the first time. I felt this most of my childhood. Your songs always help me. I appreciate you making music for people who have been through so much! Much Love 💪🏼

[@SoulLevelJivan]

Exactly my last relationship.. Especially the part near the end where you said something about the “toxic traits I miss” …justifying going back to her but it’s just your ego… felt that.

[@Team_Cooney]

The pain and feelings are felt during this song. You can tell he didn’t just make this up. Anyone who is having a bad time in life, just remember GOD is always watching you and protecting you in some way. Thank you DAX for speaking to me and many many others

[@updailylofi]

“The key to your heart opens up a place I’m not safe in.” Children of narcissistic parents who grew up and went straight into narcissistic relationships - find your way out by healing. Narcissistic personalities will never allow you to see value in yourself. Set boundaries or they’ll suck the life out of you until you’re depleted. When there is nothing left they’ll casually discard you. Much love and light to all those recovering from the wounds these relationship create. You are love and you are loved! ❤️❤️❤️

[@G00gLe_was_my_idea989]

Me: opens the door to her heart The 12 mfs already sitting inside: 😃 sup, she loves you too huh? cmon in buddy

[@32HUNTER]

I make fire music

[@Astruko]

Dax is one of the greatest to ever do it in the industry! 🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯

[@kelvinsmith7257]

been there nearly destroyed me, taken so many years and fasle dawns from the depression to get to where i'm at now but still day by day. i pray to god and hopefully he'll find me soon. thank you from the bottom of my heart for the music you have given us with hope from a uk veteran

[@SinisterOutKasT]

I love that Dax just does what he wants. He's not held by expectations, truly an artist .

[@obdghere386]

Few more songs they'll have a 🔥 mixtape fr

[@truth4460]

You can tell Dax is doing vocal training, his vocals just keep getting better and better

[@jacobmuir9848]

Technology

[@truth4460]

@@jacobmuir9848technology? You clearly don’t know how vocals work I literally study vocals, you can have all the auto tune in the world, you still need a decent foundation, you can sing like shit and use auto tune and it’ll sound like shit, you still need a foundation, plus I’ve heard every song of his, his vocals are getting better, you can hear the difference in his voice between this and old music

[@wittle5788]

I just watched my son , go through this, he isnt the same person ,the relationship the abuse really messed his mind up, and i dont know how to help him, how to get him to understand he isnt any of things she said he was , she changed my boy so much i pray everyday that he will stay away this time amd he will heal, he will stop trying to drink his pain, as a away , as a mother all i wanna do is take away everything he is feeling i would rather go through it amd feel it. He has healed a little but its a long rd , i just want to help him. I sent him this song because i know he can relate.

[@brockbrosious1002]

I've been dealing with this for 7 years and finally had the courage to get out. This song has been my anthem for getting through. Thank you. Never again

[@vadox1419]

W

[@phoenixrises1477]

Being a survivor of a narcissistic marriage of over 20 years, this song hits home. It took me a couple of years seeing a therapist once a week to even begin to find myself again. Narcissistic abuse is a form of domestic abuse. It was never talked about before and it’s the breath of fresh air that the unspoken secret is now being spoken out loud to educate people. Thank you for putting this out. God bless and make good fortune and happiness forever come your way

[@2edg]

Same but I had Jesus The King James Bible and Christian ✝️ music to figure out how his mind worked. Evil. I would play Christian music and I see the demonic disgusting things make him nervous and he would run away.

[@jstinemire]

I went through the same thing. Years of therapy trying to fix what I finally discovered were HER issues! But the upside is that I can recognize that personality type now, and I know what I need to do to deal with them. Narcissists hate when you expose them for who and what they are!

[@2edg]

Same but Thank God Jesus and The Holy Spirit set me Free AMEN 🙏

[@lonewolf8997]

When did your husband get diagnosed to be a narcissist? Also what medical support did he recieve from professionals and yourself as his wife? (As a psychologist I am curious)

[@phoenixrises1477]

@@lonewolf8997 I asked him to seek therapy. As his now ex wife, I left for the safety of myself and my children. Sadly, much like an addict, they have to be willing to get help

[@JustMe618IL]

Wow. I have no idea how Dax knows my life so well.

[@stephanieLynne-sd3lk]

Same

[@user-fk2is1bf3e]

This song literally describes 10 years of my life ! Wow ! Took a while but it’s behind me now …. Powerful lyrics

[@DanielSpivey-mw3ec]

You never miss brother! This one hits hard, married for 15 years to one…… finally free from the abuse

[@twistedsparkz9909]

5 years….5 years of narcissism. Mental, verbal and eventually physical abuse. Accusations to try and ruin my name…manipulation. I dealt with 5 years of it and wish it upon no one for even 5 minutes. That put me in one of the darkest spots of my life and she was never held accountable. Till this day I always worry about the next guy even though I’ll never know.this song hits me hard. Thank you Dax for this song. And for everyone hearing you aren’t alone. I hope and pray we just hold eachother a little tighter and fight for the love we deserve. We may be broken but no one is perfect. People love you

[@cenciqt6045]

love brother

[@40yearoldgamer25]

Same! 🙄

[@jimb8923]

I wish this song would’ve came out 15 years ago because I was in that relationship. God bless you Dax you’re doing God‘s work.

[@McBandycars]

Facts.

[@renaegulley4777]

Im still in the situation cause I have no one my family doesn't care about me

[@beccymorris6754]

We're all healing together 🙏🏻💚

[@jankycitycomedy6467]

Thank you, my eyes have been opened to a harsh reality

[@davidkelly4269]

dax must be goin through it. nothin but slow sad songs. cheer up G we here with you.

[@robertluvisia]

I love his songs even more now, the emotions, the inspiration, the message, the love.... everything. He's taken a different path now, and we are here to walk with him.

[@nikgosser3035]

Sometimes that's part of the healing

[@SnakeSkinz]

Man bro, your music is therapy for me. You talk about real shit and use your platform to be a voice for the rest of us men who can't say anything. I appreciate what you're doing as an artist

[@goddesshathor7313]

I just got rid of my narcissist and I don't know if I will ever be the same but I know I am better off.

[@nishawest7855]

Thank you Dax!! In tears bc it’s been my last 7 years!! I just dint no how to get away b4!it’s year 8!! My soul is but a shell of its self

[@EndlngAnthem]

You guys need to do an album together. It’s very rare to see two people who compliment each others tonality so well.

[@daleincisions]

I'm a product of Narc Mom abused , now my childhood pain became Trauma . Even in my married life pain still hunts me . Thank you for being relatable always Dax. Stay Strong guys and Educate yourself, They're everywhere ...

[@tiffanyscarberry6974]

Amen and they wear many masks sometimes you don't even see it until you're trapped

[@StellaLuv-xt3np]

DAX, you've done it again! You are a genius! ❤"I forgive myself for letting faith change your distorted reality"...Amen!🙏 ❤"As bad as want you to i know you'll never change"... ❤"How do I tell the next girl I'm a broken soul?"...right!? It goes on and I just LoVE IT!! ❤ You seriously ALWAYS Get it right!! Thank you, you help me, and millions of others cope with this "LiFe", and the cards we've been dealt...Thank YOU!!❤

[@BusyBeez321]

😢 heartbreaking 💔🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I feel so sick , pregnant, and heartbroken but your music helps me move forward and stay strong and lets me know that I can get through this this. Thank you 🙏🏽.

[@breonaleeann2586]

I was 16 when I got with a narcissist..it took me 11 years to realize and officially leave. So much trauma left behind...ptsd..trust issues..it follows you even when you want nothing more than to heal and be better. Thank you both for this song. It hits right where it should....much love to you Dax & Phix 🖤

[@OfficialPhix]

and to you!

[@iykeaneke8983]

Comments here tell how much people long to be genuinely loved. Everyone’s scared of something so don’t give all while loving. Thank you Dax! 🇳🇬

[@joaquinpipinich2042]

thats not quite the point of the song, it is about those narcisistic individuals that take advantage of people willing to give all to be loved

[@iykeaneke8983]

@@joaquinpipinich2042 I didn’t comment on the song. Thanked Dax for it. My comment was on the comments. Read again.

[@AlecPure]

I keep coming back to this. Its healing for me.. thank you dax😊

[@BeckieSunflower]

Reminds me of my last relationship. Narcissistic personality is no joke, they literally drain your soul.

[@msjenneh1736]

"Claiming my defense was starting all the arguments" Damn. I've said this very thing. That hit hard.

[@Com-231]

"Arguments that you'd create to break the soul inside of me". What a deep bar. Been playing this for hours now. Dax coming through again!

[@MagmaTheRagnarok]

It's good song. But hours? Damn bro you got hurt.... Read the Bible FR

[@mccantrell3676]

Amen

[@jasonbayless4820]

Hell yeah! Thank you for doing a song about a MAN going through a narcissit relationship. There's way to may about "females". I really appreciate you and this song!!

[@dustykistlerfloyd4987]

My life. 😢 Thank you for saying what most of us can't or just don't know how. 💔

[@wanderbred]

I spent 10 years in an abusive relationship. This song is a perfect example. Thank you for touching souls with your music.

[@32HUNTER]

I make fire music