DAY IN MY LIFE AS A BREASTFEEDING/PUMPING MOM | raw and real, this hurts, is all this worth it?

[@robinsom-oeur8396]

Hi I just came across your videos, and I really feel for you. I just had my baby right around the same time you did! I’m having a lot of pain breastfeeding as well, but when I pump it doesn’t hurt. I was told by many people that you’re not supposed to pump more than 15-20 minutes at a time or you will cause nipple damage. So I have never went past 20. (Which is also why “power pumping” includes the breaks if you heard of it) But you have an amazing supply. So if anything I’d say making sure the nipple is centered in the flange, not rubbing, and not going past 20 minutes. I hope you get better❤😢

[@leahlovee]

@@robinsom-oeur8396 hey! Wow that would make sense because I pump for at least 30 min every time and sometimes 1 hour. Probably why I am having all these issues 😭 I will definitely stop pumping for an hour lol

[@cupofchi_]

I second this. I was told to only do 15 mins, which is what I used to do as well. Sending you so much healing chick! ✨

[@Yassmoi]

Have you tried protecting your nippels with silver shield? Place the silver shields in the freezer (zip-loc bags) and put them on your nippels with a nursing bra. It will protect your nippels from rubbing against shirts, especially if you applied nipple cream/coconut oil and gives you relief by cooling. Put it back in the freezer after every use. I would do that in addition to what you're currently doing to heal right now.

[@leahlovee]

@@Yassmoi I’ve been reading about those. I may need to try it. Thank you so much❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@claud1aYeats]

Hi normally i dont comment but as mum four little girls and having the same issue, I have identified several key factors that have significantly improved my pumping experience. The use of pump spray to reduce friction, applying my own breast milk to my nipples before and after pumping, and utilizing silicone flanges have all contributed to enhanced comfort. Ensuring a proper fit with the flange is also vital to avoid complications. Some mothers have reported positive experiences with silverettes, which may be worth considering for additional relief.

[@leahlovee]

@@claud1aYeats hey, I didn’t know there was pump spray? So you spray it on before pumping? And someone else mentioned the silicone flanges I will have to look into that too. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@claud1aYeats]

@leahlovee Yeah, it's amazing. i put my in the fridge for a more soothing effect some with my nipple balm, just spray each nipple or the inside of your flange and that's it , also silverettes are meant to be amazing just a little expensive for me Your doing an amazing job x

[@itzyourgirl_natural6973]

Hey hun try the earth mama nipple butter or aquaphor. I breastfed both of my daughters for 6 months. It really helps.

[@leahlovee]

@@itzyourgirl_natural6973 hey! Yeah a few people have told me Aquaphor will help. I use it on my son for his eczema so that probably would help me

[@LynnGeorge-yb5ss]

Did u ever try lanolin cream put it on after ur done pumping. I hope u get sum relief soon. Kenny is so handsome. And hes grown fast. Ur such a great mom. Keep up the good work ❤❤

[@leahlovee]

I actually just got some a few days ago and it’s sooo much better than the nipple cream I was using before. And thank you so much for your support.❤️❤️❤️🥰🫶🏼

[@sheia3428]

You’re doing well. Great. Breast feeding is always a journey. Have you consulted with the lactation doctor. If u use the wrong size on the breast pump it can hurt. But try the silver cups

[@leahlovee]

@@sheia3428 thank you so much and yes it’s definitely a journey. I actually just realized I have been using the wrong flange size. Hopefully this will give me some relief now.

[@binawarren]

You are doing an excellent job! Keep going ❤

[@leahlovee]

@@binawarren thank you so much. I’m trying to hang in there but it’s been hard. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Lovable_meee]

Have yu tried the silvereette cups??

[@leahlovee]

@@Lovable_meee hey, I have not tried those but I seen online that they work pretty well!

[@sherlandep4842]

Have you tried a nipple cream or the clear aquifer rash cream? My son is 4 and I still have the big tub and I use it for everything! It could also be your flanges are too small. Have you also tried the haaka? I used that when my nipples were super sore in between pumps when my breast were full to give the nipples a break.

[@sherlandep4842]

Wow embarrassing how I commented before watching the whole video lol. I hope those things help!

[@leahlovee]

@@sherlandep4842 I never thought about using aquifer I bet that would help because I use that on Kai’s skin when he has a flare up. Thank you so much for the advice ❤️

[@ShaReezyX]

Maybe the weather can play a part in it bc it’s colder out

[@leahlovee]

@@ShaReezyX I was thinking that. Especially since I walk around without a shirt on half of the time 😭😭

[@sheia3428]

Your breast pump machine didn’t come with a few different sizes? Mines came with 3 different sizes I could choose.

[@leahlovee]

@@sheia3428 I don’t think it did. Unless I threw the other parts away from thinking I didn’t need them 🤦🏽‍♀️ I ended up ordering some from Amazon though so I think that will help

[@funmilolaajayi8196]

Name of your pump machine please

[@sheia3428]

@ mine was called zomee

[@funmilolaajayi8196]

@@sheia3428 thank you very much 😊

[@nadiatourinho]

Try hand expressing until your nipples heal. My lactation consultant also recommended that I put my own milk around my nipple to help it heal. That worked like magic! I was also told that me pumping for 30 minutes was what was causing my nipples to get bad. I was told to only pump for 15-20 minutes. I still didn’t listen lol and it got BAD! But when I finally starting pumping for 15-20 minutes my nipples got better and I was still able to get what my baby needed.

[@leahlovee]

@@nadiatourinho yeah it seems like my own milk helps my nipples heal more than the nipple cream lol and yeah I will probably start pumping for 20 minutes instead. Thank you❤️

[@tarynaliyah]

You should try to soak the nipps in ice then putting actual raw shea butter on them and letting it sit for a while . Also use the shea butter as a lubricant around the pump . It may stink , but it could possibly heal them .Or you can try putting real aloe from the aloe Vera leaf on them

[@leahlovee]

@@tarynaliyah that definitely sounds like it will help. I will try that tonight!! Thank you❤️

[@tarynaliyah]

@ you’re welcome 🥰

[@valenciaing.4316]

Love your channel! You have such an oversupply of milk already. How come you’re worried about being an oversupplier again? I thought the goal was to make what was necessary. Just curious because a lot of moms can’t make anything for their baby, let alone have multiple stashes

[@leahlovee]

@@valenciaing.4316 thank you ❤️ and I think I have a fear of running out of milk. At this point as long as I make enough for him to eat everyday without going into my stash, I’ll be satisfied

[@binawarren]

Try organic coconut oil

[@brilliantlyonah8619]

Coconut oil helped me too

[@louiedd18]

I preferred silicone flanges over the plastic ones as they are more comfortable, gentler on nipples. Maybe you can look into those?

[@leahlovee]

I just looked up silicone flanges and it says those are softer and create less friction. I will need to get some! Thank you❤️❤️❤️

[@pinkysmith6903]

Put some nursing pads on your breast maybe you choose call the doctor and just ask what you can put on your nippers..I breastfeed my Children at the beginning my nippers hurted but it gets better after a while..I know a hot shower helps .

[@pinkysmith6903]

Aw please hold his little head for support, try putting some coconut oil on your nippers❤

[@ItzRheaSapphiya]

You shouldn’t have got lavender Epsom salt it should’ve been the raw one

[@leahlovee]

@@ItzRheaSapphiya definitely 😭

[@ItzRheaSapphiya]

@ trial and error. But yes even raw sea salt will help and try rubbing she’s butter when it is sore and if that doesn’t help then maybe petroleum jelly or raw aloe Vera hope it gets better soon ❤️ Love your channel

[@sheia3428]

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[@leahlovee]

Thank you!!❤️❤️❤️

[@pinkysmith6903]

A hot shower will help just release some milk.

[@kourtneywade1426]

Random your doctor has not say anything it seems to be getting worse . I hope soaking works for you.

[@leahlovee]

@@kourtneywade1426 I have an appointment on Tuesday so I will definitely tell my doctor about all of this bs. lol thank you❤️

[@kourtneywade1426]

@leahlovee Girl i was worried I know sometimes we are not heard when we have concerns. You had me making my list on what to ask my doctor next week at my appointment. I couldn't imagine the pain and still trying to push through. You definitely a Super Hero I hope they can give you real answers on what can help.