O my goodness i love you! 😂 Ive been struggling with boundaries
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
I hope that this video is helpful. I hope I don’t come off as harsh or rude or anything negative because that is not how I want to come off . I just like to be realistic and tell you how it is and not sugar coat anything. As I work in this field , I learn different things and make policies to avoid certain obstacles I normally face . If you have any questions please leave me a comment . You know I will reply 🙂
@sarahferreira13334 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything you mention,I am the same way, we learn as we go what works and what doesn't. Thank you
@rukhsanaesaf4 жыл бұрын
Rukhsana Q,Hi Ashley,great job!! Very useful video.I intent to start a daycare very soon I m just collecting all information.could you please suggest me some classes or courses related to In-home child care providers.Thanks
@chantellesimmons10645 жыл бұрын
I came over from Learn to Play. I love that you include that you don't accept children after 9:30, it is genius! ☺️
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
Welcome ! Yes I have to include that. I can’t have parents dropping off whenever they want . It makes things more hectic and kids never get into a routine . It’s disruptive and once their child is in ‘real’ school they can’t drop off whenever ! They need to be there at a certain time or they’re tardy . If they’re tardy enough times they can get into trouble . So let’s start getting these parents into a routine as of now .
@free2bme8214 жыл бұрын
I love that free week of vacation in the handbook.
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I feel it’s fair .
@chantalmore32575 жыл бұрын
Ashley I have just opened up my daycare and I had such a hard time putting my handbook together. Thank you so much for sharing this helped me out a lot! You are awesome keep doing what you’re doing! You are inspirational girl 👏🏽
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
Oh that is awesome !!!!! Glad to have helped you .
@kerryhuslin37772 жыл бұрын
Hi Ashley, I absolutely love your video. It was very informative and I will definitely be coping your handbook as I intend to startup my daycare. Thanks for being so detailed.
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome !!! Thank you for watching.
@Joe-xu6pe4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love how much details you put in your handbook and videos! I have just started watching your videos and have learned soo soo much!
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome ! Glad you are learning something from my videos . It’s always better to have a lot of detail in your handbook , than not enough . Thanks for watching .
@ELl_e..34 жыл бұрын
This is excellent. Within my policies I go over each one with parents before they enroll and I have them initial next to each policy specifically stating that they agree and understand. That way if in the future they have a problem with something I remind them that we've gone over this policy, the reason why and they agreed to it. I have BOTH parents sign as well.
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
I just had the parents do this for the 2020 handbook. I feel more confident with this . Thank you for watching 🙂
@ELl_e..34 жыл бұрын
@@totstothetop 💚💚 thanks for posting your content. In home daycare can be very lonely. It's nice to have a few people that relate. 😉
@DG86-2 Жыл бұрын
This was very much helpful! Thank you ❤
@Kaztronomical4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!! I've worked in a daycare and I run an after school program under a company, but I'm moving soon and I want to have my own in home daycare! This is sooo helpful!
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
That is so awesome !!! You can do it. If you ever need anything feel free to message me.
@biernestine210710 ай бұрын
Wow! Nice
@audreyrenee2 жыл бұрын
Omg, I love it! I just found your channel. You are teaching me so much. I especially love how clean and organized you are.
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support ❤️
@yazwilson1667 Жыл бұрын
Hey Ashley what is your sick leave policy doe yourself? Do you still charge the parents if your out sick ?
@carolinalopezbaena29295 жыл бұрын
I love this channel because in addition to being inspired by what I want to do it helps me learn English! Thanks 🌈
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
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@esme-om7om Жыл бұрын
I love how detailed you are about your policy. Thank you for sharing with us. It gives me an idea of how i should construct my policy when I apply for a home day care
@totstothetop Жыл бұрын
Awesome ! Thanks for watching !
@priscillaplasencia95805 жыл бұрын
I am in the process of making a handbook for parents. This video is super informative on how to make one! It helps a bunch!! Thank you ❤️
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
Yayyyy ! Glad to help.
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
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@Texasboyy4 жыл бұрын
Hey! I am helping my wife with her daycare! how much for handbook?
@TheOnofren4 жыл бұрын
How much is it ? How many pages ?
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
@@TheOnofren Could you send me an email ? ashley.rey1317@outlook.com
@TheOnofren4 жыл бұрын
I just emailed you :)
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
@@TheOnofren Check your inbox for my reply .
@perlamagallanes32735 жыл бұрын
Very helpful video! 😊 thanks for not sugar coating anything!!!
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome . Thank you for watching 🙂
@charlottedelamor78124 жыл бұрын
For someone who is looking to open a daycare like myself this information is really insightful. You're awesome. Love your channel. Thank you!
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad it was helpful in some way ! Thanks for watching and supporting ❤️
@mimimaeg67075 жыл бұрын
Omg!!! I’ve been waiting for this vid Ashley😍 thank you so much for granting my request for sharing your parent handbook🙏🏼☺️ I remember I requested this vid couple weeks ago I think and now here it is.😍
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
I try to film everyone’s request 🙂 hope this was helpful .
@lupepadilla39734 жыл бұрын
Thank you some much this is helping me on how to start Of with my parent handbook. Been stressing, but after this options Iam getting a better perspective. Iam in the proccess Of getting my licensed and i want to get going on.
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
Glad this video was helpful ❤️
@BrandeeMusiala5 жыл бұрын
The sick policy was especially helpful for me! You specified severe coughing - thank you! Was curious how everyone else handled colds. I agree runny noses are so common. It’s going to be a looong winter
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
Yesss we have had a few runny noses these past few weeks, but there are no fevers or any other symptoms associated with the runny nose so we just keep sanitizer and tissue on hand 🙂
@limwilliams712 жыл бұрын
Great guideline to follow
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@carlitamiller69495 жыл бұрын
Such a great and informative video! Thanks for sharing!
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
No problem 🙂
@loe31752 жыл бұрын
Such great information! Thank you!
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@heidiholom80864 жыл бұрын
Your handbook is so good!
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I hope this was helpful.
@tanmillar87232 жыл бұрын
I loved your video it’s so informative.After doing home daycare for almost 20 years it’s easy to have parents take advantage of you the more you give.I’ve never charged late fees and for new parents it will be in my handbook for sure.Or parents that do early drop off simply because they were ready early.So I have a minimum of 3 days pay per week no matter what.You have 5 days,no matter what? I was always concerned with sick kids coming when they shouldn’t be here if parents are paying anyhow.What about if you take a weeks vacation do they still pay.I’ve always struggled with this one. Your correct about it being surprising of the parents that are late with paying.I find it’s usually the more well off parents that are late,my guess is because they have no idea about being paycheque to paycheque.
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Yes Tan , I agree . The more you give , the more they ask for / take / expect you to take on . My late fees aren’t limited per week . They can have all 5 days because at the end of the day I’m getting paid BUT , if they are treating it as the ‘hours of operation’ I have a issue with that. What I mean by that’s is if a parent accepts a new job and they get off at 5pm (I close at 5pm) and they are 5 min away from me and they arrive every day after 5pm because they have a new job , I will not accept that because they are treating it as if I close after 5pm . I hope that makes sense . They do not pay when I’m on vacation .
@maricruzmartinez84895 жыл бұрын
Love your video, very detail and honestly you are correct. Bc sine parents takes advantages if you are not clear or let them know
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
Yes ! Thanks for watching .
@GemiDiaries4 жыл бұрын
Very informative. I love your policies☺️
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
Thank you .
@metrini5 жыл бұрын
Very long and detailed video!! Im sure all this information will be helpful to many!!
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙂
@monashamsan3096 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@totstothetop Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome 💗
@RafaelDuhh4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, your video was a huge help!
@totstothetop3 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome .
@carolinericardo37254 жыл бұрын
I’m very curious as to how maternity leave went. How did you go about that? Did the parents respect it? Did you feel like you took enough time? How was it going back to opening with a newborn?
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
I took 2 weeks off and I do not think it was enough time . I wish I could’ve taken more time , but it wasn’t possible at the time . I take 2 weeks of vacation a year and I used it as my maternity leave , unpaid . I was physically ready to work again just not emotionally ready. I am not having anymore kids , but if I did , I would adjust a few things the next time around .
@ttm11722 жыл бұрын
I am opening my own day care and wanted to use some of your polices in your handbook do you have a link?
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Shoot me an email Totstothetop@outlook.com
@dlopez17183 жыл бұрын
This video was very helpful. I’m planning on starting my home daycare soon, and wanted to see if I left anything out of my handbook. Do you charge differently for kids that are not full time?
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
I do charge differently for kids that aren’t full time , but currently , I don’t accept children that aren’t full time .
@embracethepuzzle64925 жыл бұрын
VERY INFORMATIVE! ❣️
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
Thank You . Glad you gathers some information.
@sabrinachantille5 жыл бұрын
Ashley, I absolutely love your channel! I am in the process of opening my home daycare after working over 11 years of working in child care centres. I have a question regarding your handbook. Do you go threw every bit of it with each family upon interview? How do you go about having the parent know exactly what is in the handbook? Thanks in advance!
@sabrinachantille5 жыл бұрын
I should add, I’ve heard some parents are given the handbook to take home and read themselves and others will sit and read word for word with the families.
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
I do not . I mention what is important to me because my handbook is long and some families don’t have lots of time on their hands .
@sabrinachantille5 жыл бұрын
The Coello Family Vlogs thank you so much for your response!
@tee83343 жыл бұрын
Awesome 👏
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching .
@ulb55614 жыл бұрын
Hi I love your channel and it's helped me so much I did email you about getting a copy of your hand book. Looking for more stuff. Be safe and have blessed day.
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
Did I respond to your email? I don’t remember seeing your name . If not , shoot me another email.
@ulb55614 жыл бұрын
@@totstothetop it may be from my daycare email Zion's Playground
@SmallSpaceHomeSchooling Жыл бұрын
Ashley i did NOT realize you are the same person. I bought your handbook for my child development admin class lol
@totstothetop Жыл бұрын
Haha that’s so funny ! How did the class go ? I hope the handbook helped lol
@SmallSpaceHomeSchooling Жыл бұрын
@@totstothetop I got an A. I added some other stuff that I need to add such as: philosophy, mission statement, administrator greeting, staff background, qualification introduction, ratio group size, emergency preparation (where our emergency location will be and drills), I also addressed custody order needs to be on file I also added the DRDP and ASQ. Did you know there's a website to send to parents and they fill it out? All you do is ask parent to email you the results? I didn't know that until this class. My lesson plans I add the scope and sequence, according to the DRDP measures for the class but I don't think I'll do that in my program if I get licensed. I used to do it when I was a teacher in a child care facility. It did help me I was so lost. I was stumped on an employee handbook that sucked up most of my time. Your handbook was a lifesaver!
@linaskidmore67693 жыл бұрын
I'm a child care provider in AZ serving many families for 31 years. I charge $30 per each day if parents don't pay on time, $3 per minute after 10 hours of care as late fee. And guess what? No body is ever late!
@tanmillar87232 жыл бұрын
I run into this problem and now have no problem telling them.It would be unacceptable for them to not get paid on payday it’s no different with me.I rely on my paycheque as much as they do.
@lillywilliams248 Жыл бұрын
Hey @linaskidmore6769 I’ll be moving to AZ soon and want to open a home daycare. Do you live in your own home or do you rent? I have been calling around AZ and it seems no one allows home daycares in this state. Do you have any recommendations, because I’m really excited! Thanks for your help!
@maryloumoreno63353 ай бұрын
Omg!!!! Is there any way you have this policy in Spanish? Please let me know. Thank you in advance. This video is very helpful.
@totstothetop3 ай бұрын
I do have it in Spanish. Send me an email to: totstothetop@outlook.com
@andreagranielortega72902 жыл бұрын
Hi! I was wondering if I have to apply somewhere in order to open my at home center? How am I able to get started? I’ve worked at preschools for about 3 years and feel I’m ready to open my own center
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Hello Andrea , I am pretty sure you have to apply. I don’t know what state you’re in , but each state does have somewhere where you can get the process started . I am in Florida , and we have to go through the Department of Children and Families .
@callmeangelic65253 жыл бұрын
What do you do for emergency medications like epipens or asthma pumps?
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
I administer those . That’s totally different .
@jonteraadams28784 жыл бұрын
Hey love your vids!!! Can i get more info about the evaluations. Are you saying Age Ques? Can you give more detail into how you do this.
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry . I speak too fast lol it’s ASQs .
@valentinaaleksandrov17732 жыл бұрын
@@totstothetop Do you have to purchase it? I didnt find a free printable form.
@garc904510 ай бұрын
Can your school age kids bring tablet or Nintendo on vacation days?
@juliavelez93442 жыл бұрын
Ashley R, I love the policy how can I get it
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Send me an email . Ashley.rey1317@outlook.com
@angelamarie69679 ай бұрын
can we download for our policies.
@fabiuschillens67058 ай бұрын
So you make them sign the handbook?
@totstothetop8 ай бұрын
Yes I do!
@karinabanegas67293 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on childcare vouchers? I’m not sure how those work and how to accept them when running a in home child care center.
@totstothetop3 жыл бұрын
If I had more knowledge on this topic I would completely love to do a video on this . I don’t want to do a video on something I’m not fully educated on . I wish I was able to help .
@PaangX5 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on how to deal with upset parents or parents who chooses to not cooperate?
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
Yes I can !!!!! Thank you for the request 🙂
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
Give me an example of something so I know what direction to take this ❤️
@PaangX5 жыл бұрын
I have had parents who refuses to pay or would try to dodge it. And when they get confronted it becomes a whole mess. I had parents who wouldn’t want to follow policies like bringing in a child while they are clearly sick but the child don’t have a fever or symptom because it’s obvious the parent administered medicine to them before dropping them off. How do you go about confronting them and handling the situation. And, how do you go about handling a parent who is screaming at you or giving you attitude.
@PaangX5 жыл бұрын
Also thank you! I recently just found your channel and I love it! I’m currently working as a daycare teacher and one day looking forward to opening up my own daycare and your videos been so helpful and informative! 💕💕
@StephanieMT4 жыл бұрын
If a person is being disrespectful to you and your rules they should have a verbal warning and then terminated. I think I heard that in another daycare provider video
@tiffanytaylor52722 жыл бұрын
Do you sell your handbook? I need this !
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
I do . Send me an email to Totstothetop@outlook.com
@SandraRodriguez-vv4cw5 жыл бұрын
I love your video. I'm opening my own daycare and was looking for a good policy. Is there any way you can send this to me please? Thanks in advance
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
I am in the process of getting this added into my teachers pay teacher store , but I’m doing a lot of research along the way. If you’d like the handbook now without having to wait until I get it up, send me an email and we can discuss pricing and I can send it to you ASAP. My email is : ashley.rey1317@outlook.com
@skkitles694 жыл бұрын
How can I get a copy of this handbook I’m in the process of opening up my own home child care
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
Send me an email : ashley.rey1317@outlook.com
@ernestokwutu38174 жыл бұрын
Hi Ashley, nice video. Can fees be paid daily as parents come drop their child instead of weekly?
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
Is this child full time or drop in care?
@ernestokwutu38174 жыл бұрын
Can I run only drop in services. I have not started the business yet but I am planning to
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
That is completely up to you. Drop in care isn't a steady income . People may come and go faster and only use you when its convenient for them. If this is just something you are doing on the side , then maybe you can solely do drop in , but if you want this long term and if you want to build a stable business, I wouldn't do drop in. I'd focus on getting long term clients.
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
I’m selling my handbook if you’d like to purchase it , you can edit it to suit your program. If your interested shoot me an email 🙂
@marlenecaballero2792 жыл бұрын
Do you charge during the trial hours ?
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
I don’t .
@sandibelc954 жыл бұрын
Ashley, what would you suggest for the grand opening a home daycare? Would you still do trial days or no?
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
For your first children you’d enroll ever into your program?
@jasminesmith5300 Жыл бұрын
I know this video is older but How do I download your handbook ?
@totstothetop Жыл бұрын
Shoot me an email Totstothetop@outlook.com
@cstarlee3 жыл бұрын
do you have a copy of your handbook available for download?
@totstothetop3 жыл бұрын
I am currently selling my handbook and a few other items . Send an email to Ashley.rey1317@outlook.com for more information.
@limwilliams712 жыл бұрын
Hiw do I access your handbook
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Hello, send an email to Ashley.rey1317@outlook.com inquiring about the Handbook.
@shaninasmith2782 жыл бұрын
Can you share your handbook or do you charge a fee?
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Send me an email to : totstothetop@outlook.com and I can get you more information .
@ladylildizzy14 жыл бұрын
I would like a copy of your handbook
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
Go ahead and send me an email , and I will help you obtain a copy . My email is ashley.rey1317@outlook.com
@frequecnydcfrequencydc61774 жыл бұрын
@@totstothetop I would like a copy of your handbook just starting and having a hard time with making the policies ( health, parent handbook, emergency preparedness plan) I live in Washington state will this handbook apply to the WAC rules?
@jonathanisaac30182 жыл бұрын
Did you write all of this?
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
I had help with this handbook .
@dinavillena7692 жыл бұрын
hello mam i want to have a copy of that hand book How ca have that copy mam
@dinavillena7692 жыл бұрын
mam good day I am a day Care Worker and I want to have a copy of that hand book How can I have to get the copy of that Thank You A may God Bless You
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Send me an email Ashley.rey1317@outlook.com
@hildalamos70325 жыл бұрын
Hi Ashley it’s nice handbook and I want to know if you can email me your handbook please. Because I’m starting my home daycare and I need an example Thank you
@totstothetop5 жыл бұрын
Let me see what I can do 💗
@hildalamos70325 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@margaretrenovat4 жыл бұрын
Me too if you can I am working on opening my home door daycare need example of handbook! Marakabura2323@gmail.com
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
I just sent you an email on how you can have access to my handbook.
@bintabayo59284 жыл бұрын
Hi, Is this handbook still available?
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
Hello , yes it is . Send me an email ashley.rey1317@outlook.com
@jessesworld27472 жыл бұрын
Julie’s KZbin no longer is available 😩😩
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
Omg why !!!!!!!!!
@elizabethbenson98013 жыл бұрын
😁
@StephanieMT4 жыл бұрын
I heard you are paying for your sport in daycare so if you arent there you still have to pay so you dont give their spot away.
@totstothetop4 жыл бұрын
Yes ! Tuition is due with or without attendance . If they don’t pay , they can not return until their balance is cleared .
@sarahferreira13334 жыл бұрын
@@totstothetop This is a must,parents will just take advantage.
@simonewilliams8412 жыл бұрын
Hi Ashley I am interested in your policy handbook. Could you send me your IG name so I can DM you? Thanks.
@totstothetop2 жыл бұрын
_ashley.rey is my Instagram username
@simonewilliams8412 жыл бұрын
@@totstothetop I have sent you a friend request from lexw.2019 can you accept it please
@precieuseexception72972 жыл бұрын
Hi Ashley! Thank you for the information you shared! I am in the the process of opening my own so I was looking and fell on you video. I will send you a request so you can send me a handbook please?
@cherylgocrazy2231 Жыл бұрын
I'm also interested in you handbook can you send it to me as well