LOSING FRIENDS OVER LUXURY 😢 - PART 1 Q&A

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LOSING FRIENDS OVER LUXURY 😢 - PART 1 Q&A
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[@user-wq1os7kf5r]

My best friend for the past 25 years is not into luxury. She could care less about fashion or bags but she has been along my journey and has been my biggest supporter. I think she gets as excited as I do when I’m looking for a new bag. I like wise support all her interest. It’s such an unconditional love and friendship. If you loose a friendship over luxury than there were conditions placed on the friendship. That’s really sad.

[@deborahcurtis1385]

She couldn't care less, that means it's not possible to care any less. That's a much more powerful statement. It's not 'could care less'. People get this wrong a lot and it's misunderstanding the language.

[@DaylesAddiction]

It’s nice not to have competitiveness in a friendship, I was blind to it until it was spelt out as it didn’t enter my mind.

[@deborahcurtis1385]

@@DaylesAddiction I have a very strong memory of looking into the mirror side by side with a frenemy who I hadn't yet identified as such. And I asked her: "Why are you so nasty to me?" It was bewildering to me that she would suddenly say or do something nasty. And she said: "Don't you know? I'm jealous of you!" I always thought friends were by definition wanting the best for you, looking out for you, caring about you. This is so not the case. Even now I get surprised. It must be the Sagittarius thing too (I've got it rising) because I expect the best but when it doesn't happen, just cannot hang onto bs. (at least she was honest!)

[@DaylesAddiction]

@@deborahcurtis1385 that’s hard, I can’t remember ever being jealous of anyone, it’s either just different or inspiring

[@deborahcurtis1385]

@@DaylesAddiction Yep. I had a choice early on when it became very clear that my sisters and elder brother were definitely favoured.To an extreme. I could take it out on them and be miserable, or I could just not blame them and move on. It's stood me in good stead and I can't understand people who resent or lash out about something outside their control. It's primary school stuff. IMO.

[@pattywilliams788]

I once had a close friendship end and it was very hard to deal with for a time. Then, I sat down and examined the relationship and how we interacted. It became apparent to me that it was for the best in the long run; also, just like you, Dayle, I realized that dwelling on something I couldn’t control was not worth it. It started stealing joy out of my life and taking away my other relationships that were dear to me.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thanks for sharing lovely, I think if you don’t grow swim these challenging times they can really affect you negatively.

[@Joleenzy]

I had a „best friend“ that always trash talked my new luxury purchases. A few weeks later she would pop up with the same thing I bought. The „friendship“ was toxic in many areas but one thing I can’t stand is when I truly get excited about something and someone puts me down. Bye bye 👋 😅 Amazing video as usual ❤

[@DaylesAddiction]

Bye bye indeed!

[@sqwekity2]

I’ve had a similar situation of losing a childhood friend due to differences in life situations. It still hurts to think about the loss of that bond. ❤

[@DaylesAddiction]

Yes, it’s so true what they say about reasons, seasons and lifetimes.

[@MelissaAdams-Wade]

Confidence Do the things that scare you. As soon as you accomplish it (and you will!) your confidence in yourself will grow. Do the things that you say “gosh I wish I were that type of person” you are that type of person, you just have to create the habit.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Well said!!! Absolutely!

[@Lynwen10]

I have a dear friend, who recently died, and she had no interest in handbags, but because she was a good friend she would always listen to me when I prattled on about bags. In return I would listen to her talking about things she liked and I didn’t have an interest in. A good friend will be accepting of your interests, even if they don’t share that interest.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Absolutely- you had a lovely friendship

[@jo_xiaojie]

Having seen you and your amazing style and handbags in real life I can confirm you are just as stunning! I channel my inner Dayle when I need to be a boss babe!

[@DaylesAddiction]

🥰 aw thanks Jo, you’re a sweetheart!

[@AutumnBeckman]

Great answer to the confidence question. :) So funny what you said about dogs changing their personality when they become the pack elder. Baron did the same thing. He was Sebastian's little brother but when we lost Bat and got Roxie then Baron was suddenly the older brother he became much more mature.

[@DaylesAddiction]

I cried the night before we got Lulu as I knew we’d lose our baby Edwina 🙈🥹

[@AutumnBeckman]

@@DaylesAddiction Aww.

[@Flowcasso]

Thank you for rescuing Tuxie-Loo. It’s never easy to say goodbye, but I believe one day we will be reunited with those very special friends who are not given enough time on earth. We are their guardians when they are here. When they have to leave they are our guardians from beyond. ❤

[@DaylesAddiction]

That’s so beautiful- she grew up with me, gosh it was hard to say goodbye.

[@ChatsWithChris]

Part two was brilliant as was this!

[@harboraz]

♐️ i loved your sharing about your puppers and your joy and love of them radiant! Then i had to LOL about the question of what you would re-name Connor...too funny the notion of renaming him. Hmmm, Claus...not bad. I enjoyed this part 1 Q&A. 😊

[@DaylesAddiction]

🫶🏻🐶💜 i just adore the light these little furrs bright into my world - and Klaus of course!

[@cap4life1]

Great Q&A! And thanks for sharing that serotonin | dopamine | endorphins | oxytocin chart ❤

[@DaylesAddiction]

It’s really interesting isn’t it?!

[@nmernst]

Hugs Dayle. Being Stateside, Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday as an adult because it had nothing to do with gifts. As much of my family is not exactly all on good terms, it is rather difficult. But I will continue to offer to host as I am able.

[@DaylesAddiction]

I hope it fills your cup lovely!

[@paulinematejczuk1037]

So much to unpack! Firstly, thanks so much for answering question in relation to the blazers. I live on the coast in NSW but struggle to keep cool although I love a good blazer! And I love men’s with internal pockets Thanks so much for the Q & A…love them. Also thanks for the vulnerability in relation to Christmas, I share your circumstances so appreciate you sharing your situation As for the puppies…my heart was singing.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Oh my pleasure, thanks for the question, it’s an eternal struggle to do a 3 piece look in the warmer months.

[@janmauro282]

Hi Dayle!☺️ Love when you do Q & A, so much fun, but also very interesting! Absolutely loved the pics of your puppies. Thanks Dayle.💕☺️🇨🇦

[@DaylesAddiction]

Aww thanks Jan 🐶🐶🐶

[@stellahulott210]

Such a great video, thanks for sharing and being so open. Absolutely love hearing about your puppers and their personalities. You are such a sweetie ❤

[@DaylesAddiction]

Aw thank you lovely 🥰

[@birkinboy3976]

Dayle I just love and adore you I love these Q/A videos I feel I can actually see your heart 😘💚💚💚

[@DaylesAddiction]

🙈🫶🏻🥰

[@lindathompson5099]

Such a great vlog! Very interesting. Fur babies are fabulous. Love the sweater think Clair had that one too. Steph is rocking it! Fun to watch her.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thanks Linda! Yes Claire does have a similar style, so fun!

[@LuxPurselove]

Thanks for sharing so much Dayle. I totally understand what you mean about Christmas. Family is so complicated, it is so delicate and so difficult and so fragile. I hope you get your trip to Paris and do your Grinch videos again! Xoxo

[@DaylesAddiction]

🥰 we work the hands we are dealt the best we can, but a Paris can do magical things so maybe it’s the cure!

[@LuxPurselove]

@@DaylesAddiction Yes I agree! :)

[@livingluxwithmeredith]

Always love a Q&A.

[@DaylesAddiction]

More to come…. Soooo many questions!

[@nickjsne]

I love your openness and honesty in your Q&As - so entertaining and massively appreciate your transparency 😃😃

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thanks Nick, I figure keeping it real is the best policy 🙌🏼

[@StyledByGwenny]

I felt very much the same about getting Lily & Daisy after losing Izzy Cat. Such a void. Lily is a stunner, no question, elegance down to her tiny little socks, but Daisy has ALL the character, and I'd be lying if i said she wasn't my fave. They both have my heart, though. Furry little buggers! 🐈🐈‍⬛

[@DaylesAddiction]

They are master manipulators 🥰🥰

[@marinads-]

Love the random bits of wisdom! ❤

[@DaylesAddiction]

🥰🥰🥰

[@myraparis]

I love this. Thank you. ❤

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thank you!

[@judeallan268]

Loved this, as always. Don't ever feel conscious of how you look in mod shots. You always look amazing, and you're our Dayle 💕🥰

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thank you 🥰

[@5Heliotrope]

Very pure, raw and honest Part 1! Loved it. Looking forward to watching Part 2. 😘

[@DaylesAddiction]

🥰 there are three parts so plenty more to come lovely!

[@altacostura3512]

Wonderful Q & A, as always.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thank you 🫶🏻

[@suziebegg3416]

Great video Dayle. I just don’t understand how random people online comment on peoples looks or size or whatever. If you have nothing good to say, say nothing at all. I commend you for starting your channel and putting yourself out there. I have wanted to start one to showcase my bags and shopping etc but at 61yo I don’t want to put myself out there to all of the haters who will pick apart all of my failings.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Suzie there are waaay more nice people than trolls but it’s true they do exist and they can throw you for six when you least expect it.

[@lv_lover3393]

Great q&a ❤

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thanks babe 🥰

[@Wildunfiltered]

Loved this Dayle. I def resonate with filming myself and not liking what I see. It’s actually very freeing to let the insecurities go. Also resonate with the Pups! 💔

[@DaylesAddiction]

The more we do it the less affect it has on us!

[@Wildunfiltered]

@@DaylesAddiction I’m less critical of how I look when I’m editing and more concerned about lighting and quality of the filming etc so I guess that’s progress x

[@YadiraStyle]

Yes to blazers! Loved hearing you talk about your fur babies. ❤ Made my way around; backwards but here! 🐊Also, didn’t know I wasn’t subbed! Hit that button so quick!

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thanks for joining up and supporting my channel!

[@Alisha-hs8xj]

I’m with you! I love visiting Sydney , Melbourne and Perth but my very favorite visits to Oz were to Karratha and Lake Eyre. Hope I get the opportunity to go back again.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Karratha hey? Wow I used to live in Port Hedland!

[@JenniGower-eb9dx]

A wonderful Q & A lovely Dayle. My favourite part was you talking about and showing us your pups. They are all so gorgeous. It brought some tears to my eyes thinking about our pups we have had and lost over the years. We don't have one at the moment but we do baby sit our fur grandbaby. I'm a bit emotional at the moment as I am not doing well at the moment, well worse than usual, and I fear I might have to have more brain surgery as I am in so much pain. The last one hasn't worked out how we thought it would. No fear i will get there in the end. I am a tough old bird but it does get to me at times. Sorry if I am a debbie downer. 😢Much love. Jenni. XX💞💜

[@DaylesAddiction]

Aw Jenni, it makes me so sad to hear you are still suffering so much, it’s been a long, long road for you with little relief. You’re not a Debbie downer, you’re doing a brilliant job!

[@JenniGower-eb9dx]

@@DaylesAddiction Thank you lovely Dayle. Your kind words mean so much to me. XX

[@miradonfbd]

Two things to say. First, Lulu is gorgeous! So happy you found the perfect dog. Second, the longer I know you, the more beautiful you are in my eyes.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Aw Paula, you’re so sweet. Lulu was really a perfect gift after losing our Alfie 🐶🫶🏻

[@somuchdesignwithhanne]

Of course you have to take Gary 💕 - lovely Q&A 💕

[@inae4545]

I agree with you on the big hauls and constant unboxings - I don’t find them interesting either. It’s much more fun to follow the planning, the search, the happiness of finding the right piece and then styling and using it. It’s the joy that draws me in and keeps me interested and not the mindless consumption.

[@DaylesAddiction]

We love a journey! 🤣🤣

[@inae4545]

Yes, but only the fun journeys! Not the ones that goes via a tourist trap with lots of mugs and blankets 😉😜

[@DaylesAddiction]

@@inae4545 🤣🤣🙌🏼

[@bitsnbags]

Single life definitely makes some things more difficult. So I find I'm putting a lot of things on the back burner, like little renovations, in favour of some more travel or spendy moments! 😊

[@DaylesAddiction]

Yep, I can definitely appreciate that and hats off to you gals for doing it yourselves!

[@fionacrispin-jennings4919]

Loved your comments about your dogs and the photo's ❤

[@DaylesAddiction]

🐶🫶🏻

[@michellesteffie9462]

Love watching your videos! I don't always comment as I watch on the tele. I would suggest to look into the brand JENNI KAYNE, they have a lightweight blazer (Jones Blazer)....I bought both colors. Very comfy and lightweight. They are a little oversized so would size down. Highly recommend it.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Oh great thanks so much for sharing!

[@NaomiJones-pc3bz]

Your comment truly strikes a chord regarding the complexities of friendship and growth. A 25-year-long friendship envelops countless shared memories and experiences, which is no small feat. Your words remind us that even as friends may diverge due to different life choices, it doesn't mean that our mutual respect and understanding must end. True friendship indeed transcends material possessions and is built on mutual understanding and resonance. When friends undergo changes in identity and roles, the ability to pause, understand, and wait for one another is a precious quality. It reflects a deep appreciation for the friendship and respect for each other's growth process. Of course, maintaining any relationship requires effort from both sides, especially when life presents us with challenges and pressures. Our life paths might cause our relationships with some friends to evolve, and some may only accompany us for a portion of our journey. At such times, the best thing we can do is to cherish the good times we've had and, when our paths diverge, to part with gratitude. Thank you for sharing; it not only reminds us to cherish those around us but also teaches us how to gracefully handle the inevitable changes and goodbyes in life. This mature attitude towards life also respects the wonderful memories we've made.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Very thought provoking comment Naomi, thank you 😊

[@genellenugent9994]

Klaus is a German name not French! BTW I watch your videos because I like watching you and your personality. Yes I like the unboxing but I don't have your style but I like and appreciate your choice. Like these Q &A's. thank you. BTW I told you I was after a Neverfull. Well I purchased from second hand shops at Central near Sydney. A monogram one no wear, subtle patina $1,500. So much better than $4000 retail! xxxxx

[@DaylesAddiction]

Yes yes I know…. It’s a border name 🤣🤣🙈 Congratulations on your Neverfull! Perfect price for a perfect bag!

[@helsdels9324]

Hi Dale, I thought what you said about being more confident in yourself on screen after being on KZbin for a few years was very interesting. When I first started watching your channel I like you videos but I wasn't that engaged. Now you are much more relaxed and it's a pleasure to watch, especially when you shared your holiday. It's wonderful to see lovely bags but it's better when you can see somebody's personality and see why they enjoy them ❤

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thank you, yes I’ve definitely evolved over the years!

[@helsdels9324]

❤

[@kaylheecarroll3186]

Great q and a video 💜😊

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thanks lovely 💜

[@kaylheecarroll3186]

@DaylesAddiction your welcome

[@kaylheecarroll3186]

@DaylesAddiction I know you save my questions for last, cuz I'm your favorite 😁💜💜!

[@BDG162]

The advertisement that popped up was YSL. The irony! :)

[@DaylesAddiction]

No way 🤣🙈🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

[@brendaadams2421]

29:46 spot on regarding confidence!!! Dayle your response was great! Very inspiring and insightful. For me I also gain more confidence with each birthday.

[@DaylesAddiction]

The birthdays definitely help!

[@ameliarosescloset]

The D.O.S.E. Is really interesting!

[@DaylesAddiction]

Oh the science is pretty enlightening around our chemistry.

[@suereynolds2980]

Crying over your beautiful dogs Dayle. It’s all about the dog heart

[@DaylesAddiction]

Aw I love the pooches

[@nealanderson7475]

You have the best smile, that is definitely your charm.

[@DaylesAddiction]

🙈☺️ thank you

[@JennyInBarbieland]

Not me watching this video wearing my YSL LouLou 😀😀 But I agree, they tend to be neutral and not necessarily the most exciting designs 😅 I use other bags when I want to be more fun ☺️

[@DaylesAddiction]

There is a bag for every occasion lovely!

[@deborahcurtis1385]

Polyester lining is a killer! Linen breathes, while polyester is hot in summer and cold in winter. Polyester 's a horrible material but it has creeped into luxury jackets, pants and skirts. Just like we get gold-tone and silver-tone as a euphemism for fake gold and fake silver. Gold plated used to be the lesser choice now it's almost unheard of except with vintage, or Hermès.

[@DaylesAddiction]

You’re so right, we are ripped off on the faux luxuries

[@neebieslittleluxuries]

I have a close friend and it feels like she judges me for my love of luxury because she wasn’t dealt the same cards as me. I’m relatively young (23) and we’ve been friends since childhood, I grew up pretty spoiled. Even before my parents bought me big designer names, I was always given coach and I adored it! I still do. I’ve kept every single piece of coach my parents ever got me. It’s sentimental. My very first high luxury bag was when I was 11-12. My dad actually purchased it when I was about 5 but kept it safe for me until they thought I was mature enough. I’ve always been so grateful for my parents and she even told me when I was younger that I never made her feel less than and I never was a snob. But somehow in our adulthood, it seems that something has festered inside of her. She doesn’t support it and whenever we’ve been out shopping together, when I would want to visit a luxury store all she would do is purposefully embarrass me by being so loud about how she would never buy anything at those price points in the store and how “I don’t need that.” Doesn’t feel good anymore. It’s hard to even think about letting go of the friendship but we’re not children anymore and there’s no reason for an adult to behave in that manner. Even with starting my KZbin channel, there was zero support. I’m still a very very small creator, but it would feel nice to have the support of one of your closest friends. Thankfully she isn’t my ONLY friend, but it does hurt knowing she’s one of my longest friendships. Losing friends over something we enjoy that doesn’t hurt anyone, really sucks! I enjoyed this video a lot Dayle. Thanks for the great watch always! 💕

[@neebieslittleluxuries]

@@HauteGemsDallas that is the way it’s been feeling. Feels like she’s developed some sort of envy of multiple aspects of my life. Horrible feeling

[@DaylesAddiction]

Oh that’s a really tough one, sometimes the blessings come with baggage that we never asked for. Can you talk to your friend about what you’ve noticed?

[@DoYouLikeLuxury]

why not shop at stores you can both afford to shop at together and do the luxury shopping with your parents or other friends that can afford it? it doesn’t sound very thoughtful on either end, to be honest. I would never ask a friend to accompany me to do something outside of her budget on purpose unless I planned to buy her something as a gift. just like I wouldn’t ask a friend to go on an expensive vacation I knew they couldn’t realistically go on. 🤔

[@DaylesAddiction]

@@DoYouLikeLuxury i think this is fair assuming she was dragged along. But if it was more like, would you like to come along and she has the ability to say ‘it’s not for me’ but doesn’t…. It’s a bit tough without a conversation

[@neebieslittleluxuries]

@@DoYouLikeLuxury it was never ones sided. She would want to go into these stores as well, but then would go into the stores and act out. I always go into wherever she wants. You kinda assumed I dragged her in. I never did. I’ve always been thoughtful of her, almost too much. I can’t even share with her things I’m excited about because I know how she will react. Even when she can afford it, she expresses how much she hates the price points and how “ugly” she thinks it all is.

[@orattik]

I saw a bunch of Burberry trenches in stone (or similar, didn't check the name) at the Burberry La Vallee outlet! It was a lighter material, not the thick and structured gabardine type. Maybe it's possible to reach out to that store or get a personal shopper in Paris to get it for you ;)

[@DaylesAddiction]

Thanks for the heads up, I might just have to go myself! 😜

[@aleciacarter9315]

I love that you live in a queenslander style home 🏡

[@DaylesAddiction]

She has character ☺️

[@jeanmoore3804]

Looking gorgeous Dayle , sorry I’m not a fan of these type of videos they’re either full of AL or NB xx

[@DaylesAddiction]

🤣🤦🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️

[@jeanmoore3804]

@@DaylesAddiction 🤣🩷😘

[@susannem3526]

I think actually using your bags is a good thing!😅 I mean most of us spend more time at work than anywhere else so if you want your expensive bags to be used - take them to the office! I don’t really understand the” don’t use luxury at work” for that reason. And most people won’t get that you’re wearing a luxury bag if you don’t tell them.

[@DaylesAddiction]

I’ve actually found it’s connected me with more people than it’s disconnected me from!

[@ItsOnlyWarPaint]

Your eyes are popping and shining bright 👀 When will you put Barbie in your background ? 💃

[@DaylesAddiction]

Barbie may no longer be with us 😬

[@ItsOnlyWarPaint]

@@DaylesAddiction OMG !!!!!!! Nooooooooooooooooo 😱

[@valeriiarenas92]

👀👂💜

[@Jploveslv]

Did your friend of 25 years ever reach out to you? I love your wicker Cappucines and your white dog was adorable ! 🤍

[@DaylesAddiction]

Once soon after to invite me to birthday drinks… I was rather confused!

[@silkbuttons]

I disagree, a cool toned pastel yellow or lemon would definitely work for you

[@DaylesAddiction]

It might… but I have wicker for that babe!

[@melissa3929]

ah you didn't keep your special order in your top five. The green beaded and pink one.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Oops 🙈🤣

[@lolipena8051]

me eww ysl. currently, ysl with their 5 a 7 in patent dark cherry has a choke hold on me.

[@DaylesAddiction]

Ha ha, they gotcha!!

[@lolipena8051]

@@DaylesAddiction patiently waiting to see if can muster the courage to go downtown.