Dealing with Difficult People: Doing Our Part

Difficult People: Doing Our Part
🔸We will never be done with attracting challenging people without learning to see our part
🔸Labeling people will not guarantee our safety from such people
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Please watch: "Empathy, Sympathy, and Apathy"
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[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Hello friends! We hope you enjoy this video presentation featuring Michael Mirdad. Please remember that if you decide to post comments, they must not be too lengthy. Also, they need to be positive and constructive. If you enjoy these programs, we invite you to also join Michael’s private Facebook group: "Michael Mirdad's Circle of Friends." Lastly, you can learn more about Michael, his books and DVDs, his private sessions, and his live (and his previously recorded) workshops and courses. See links in the description box for more information. ~ Staff

[@Hephalump15]

I love the saying “when the student is ready, the teacher will appear” and I was certainly ready to find you! Thanks Michael!! 🙏🏼😁

[@MikeJackson690]

Unfortunately, I was the difficult person for my ex. She was so forgiving, but I pushed her too far and she left me. And rightly so. She deserves better.

[@miodragradosavljevic8517]

What lesson I learned: In this world there are persons which are seriously disordered, not all people are inherently good, there are people which enjoy using and hurting normal empathetic people, dont give your empathy to personality disordered people.

[@tnt01]

Very true. Best to avoid malignant narcissits. No contact, they do a lot of harm on purpose and they never change.

[@charitychic3171]

I like to imagine hugging the higher self of that person. I love to forgive as it brings so much peace. It actually makes you feel strong and compassionate. I have high standards now while also allowing people to be where they are. Love with really good health boundaries. 🦋

[@doctorandwizard]

I do this too 😍

[@pixie8361]

I love this message so much! It has given me the encouragement to continue doing exactly what I've been doing with regard to a very hurtful person in my life (my ex). I REFUSE to give up on him, even though he hates me now for leaving him (after 31 years of emotional abuse) and is really trying to make my life as difficult as possible to get back at me (e.g., by alienating my children, my brother, and many of our acquaintances, from me by telling lies about me). I am so thankful that, somehow, regardless of what has been done to me, I can still see his light, and I won't allow myself to be blind to it. Underneath it all, he is still a Child of God. I just don't have to be married to him anymore.

[@racheldolan6209]

I love that…”how can I bring light to this?”. That’s beautiful! And taking advantage and responsibility of using what you’ve learned. Love that! This is a beautiful story! Thank you thank you thank you!!! ❤❤❤

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Wonderful! ~MM

[@FreedomLightForce]

I feel like your videos have helped me to level up! You never know who is going to give you a key! My husband is a borderline and its good to know that but now I look at my own actions before I blame him..The best thing is Ive done enough inner work and research I can now respond instead of react ..When he is in a episode he gets mean and unstable but now rather than get triggered by what he says or does I can help him through it..He put up with 16 yrs of my drug addiction and helped me get clean ( 10 yrs sober) and now its my turn to step up.. Love and blessings to you

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Great job cleaning up. Recovery is a path of courage. ~MM

[@galinagreiffenstein4677]

Facing the same dilemma right now - how to exit the relationship and still see the divine soul in my soon to be ex-husband. Michael, you’ve mentioned narcs, which is what I think my partner is. After some time spent in denial, then anger, then self pity, then sadness, then just feeling empty, I realized that I learned a lot about my new self. My ego shrunk in size which was painful but I see positive changes in me. Setting boundaries, saying/expressing what I actually feel and not been afraid of the consequences of it, trying to listen more and say less, not making decisions/ judgements / while being emotional etc. It looks to me that this relationship was a soul contract. I am done being his wife but I do not give up on him. I wish him all the best. Blessings and love

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Wow! It sounds like you are experiencing major personal shifts. Nice job. And now . . . just stay on course as best you can. ~MM

[@galinagreiffenstein4677]

@@MichaelMirdadTeacher thank you . You have no idea how much your teachings helped me. I guess when the student is ready teacher just shows up. Peace and light.

[@guidedbysunshine333]

I went through this a few years back. It took deep heavy heart filled meditation and lots of tears lol but with all the inner work I was able to become my own advocate for peace and now thankfully we have better and I know even if my trust for my ex partner isn’t there my trust in God is 💜

[@OrbAttraction]

How Beauuuutiful ☺️ Boundaries are a must with these kind of people. Thank you for showing such Grace towards the souls that needed your guidance and love. I so adore you Michael, thank you so much for being you. Light and love ✌️💜🌈

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Absolutely!! ~MM

[@samanthaking1530]

Another wonderful message. Thank you Michael and God Bless You. ✨🙏✨

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

You are so welcome. ~MM

[@m4ri5a8]

Inspirational talk. Thank you for sharing such wisdom.

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

My pleasure! ~MM

[@DawnDelVecchio]

🙏🏼 thank you ❤️ perfect timing to receive this gift of your message!

[@Iamawesomelovedandblessed444]

Thank you Michael I really appreciate you sharing this wisdom ❤️🙏❤️

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

You are so welcome. ~MM

[@HappyLife-wj4ur]

I'm new subscriber thanks for your wisdom my God bless you and your family lots regards from Australia

[@michaeljmasseri973]

Talk about synchronicity! I needed this couple days ago had a falling out with my boss. And I want to do the right thing and I need to know my part so I can work on my part and be humble. Michael like you said, what would Jesus do or how would he feel or look at the situation?

[@racheldolan6209]

Beautiful ending story! And thank you for all you do and all you are!!! ❤❤❤

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Thank you too! ~MM

[@akashajoti6456]

I have tried to integrate some of the teachings about elevating the communication, and my part. I think of the times when Divine Mother was patient with me and try to do the same. (While I’m writing this, you just brought up doing “My part”) The way I treat people is in my control, and I can be kind even while maintaining careful boundaries with those whom I know may try to exploit my loving communications.

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Exactly! ~MM

[@samanthamariah7625]

The story about God sending people to help you practice spiritual essence is powerful. Can we still keep love in our hearts when we don’t get our way? Especially when our way seems to be the more spiritual way ☀️😊☀️I will definitely take this story into my life ☀️😊☀️ I do hold out an exception for when extending a hand more than once is met with someone intentionally setting out to cause harm in a manipulative and underhanded way. With them, I send them love in healing while I stay away. Also appreciated the story about being yelled at and saying no to that. So grateful I found you!!!

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Yes. Those are good boundaries to set for a while. And so glad this is helping you. ~MM

[@elle39]

i've been a covert narcissist magnet! twice -hurt to the core. Thanks for letting me see the truth of this!

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

You're so welcome. Hope it makes a difference. ~MM

[@elle39]

@@MichaelMirdadTeacher every day makes a difference... Thank you so much!

[@deloriskornya6725]

Thank you, for your time and sharing this important message. Blessings to you 😇🙏💚🕊❤🕯

[@jzhz5269]

I learned today that I must keep trying to heal my past. Thx micheal

[@biancasuarezphillips4551]

Just by watching your videos you are healing me. :)

[@ginaedmonds]

WOW BLESS YOU HEAPS AZZ xxx💝💝💝

[@oliverrojas7117]

I agree where possible the best approach for humanity is not to give up on people. Essentially, i am trying to incorporate the concept of knowing our lot, or what we co-created prior to our heightened enlightened consciousnesses that now allows us to regard the person we know as bad. If we take ownership of our lot, and then try to proceed and fulfill our goals while not simultaneously shunning another human being, or victimizing ourselves, it's beneficial to ourselves and the community. This all gets harder to do when your someone abused you, never loved you and used you and continues to try to even as you acknowledge your pain and ask for validation. Thanks for sharing so many insights.

[@petrabandulet]

Thank you 😌

[@nylaclancy2655]

Michael..this helped me so much in trying to break thru to my Mom whos ill and im taking care of her..being 89 shes got her way all of her life..and i can see shes acting ojt of fear of dying as she just cant seem to get well..so the fear is relayed in anger at me..its the atrongest ones that take it the hardest..i truly want to thankyou for these videos as they are real encouragement to me rt now..may God bless you greatly for spending your time helping us out here..you are a beautuful soul..Namaste 💝🌈

[@oliverrojas7117]

Best of luck to you. I am currently separated from a mother who is challenging and may find myself either in patronage to her at some point or having to acknowledge her death as she is already reached 70. I don't know anything more painful then taking explicative abuse from someone you love and want to validate you.

[@TerrieJohnson731]

This is where I am awake to the point, that atm is a struggle. I expressed it rather rawly in commenting on your post. I can be that raw, yes

[@bethknight4436]

Beautiful 💕

[@miag8429]

Thank you Michael. For me was an excellent video. God bless you.

[@livingsuccesstrategy1497]

This is so beautiful 🙏❣ Will come back to your videos. Stay great🌺

[@jaishgheyandaw5446]

❤️

[@NycShee]

“If you spot it, you’ve got it!” -Zen Master

[@sherriann1971]

SO GOOD! I'm on my 4th Watch!

[@veronicaw1996]

Whenever I point a finger at someone, there's 3 pointing right back at ME. It is then that I ask my self, is that what I do or say?

[@1yoginiheart]

Thank you for another beautiful talk.

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Any time! ~MM

[@karensmith1820]

Not givng up .Micheal .

[@doylewells6102]

I have an issue with a certain individual. Whenever I'm around this person; I get really upset and angry by what they say and their attitude. I don't hate theem. I know that the light and love of God is in them. I just can't be around them. Now my question is; that fear or not enabling them to get me to feel that way?

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Sorry . . . you'll have to explain your question a bit more. ~MM

[@noubaddi8567]

You're going too soft around clinical narcisism. They are very damaging and do not respect other people's limits. Sometimes leaving them out of your life is the way of keeping them on the other side of the fence. Narcissistic people (depending on the relationship) are revengeful to those who show them strong boundaries.

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Being tactful is not only an act of love and patience but it also allows for the chance no group of people are ALL exactly the same. And most of your comments are exactly what was said in the video. ~MM

[@veronicaw1996]

Is that a sword of Archangel Michael in the background?

[@sharonsass1941]

💙🙏🏽💙💞