The only way to be at peace with some people is to redefine boundaries! Now that’s a word from on high!! Thank you sir!
@PinkYellowGreen2023 Жыл бұрын
That's true!
@NostalgiaVibes4206 жыл бұрын
The best way to deal with difficult people is to try not to be in their presence if possible...
@crystalgrose6 жыл бұрын
"Some people have never seen an example of kindness and fairness, and you become their teacher."
@crystalgrose6 жыл бұрын
"Never treat an evil man the way he treats you because you become what he is, and you end up hating yourself."
@sanyuable6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Pastor, I am not christian , but u r dealing with real life issues. And you are saying the things as you honestly see them. Thanks for the advice , it saves lives.
@RCBlakesJr.6 жыл бұрын
sanyuable 😊 Thank You.
@misslewkingdom63906 жыл бұрын
Great Information for life, home , community , business, church, school , relationships, friendships, politics, etc....
@tiffanyd.86607 жыл бұрын
Greetings Pastor Blakes. Great topic in this video. What I find most difficult about "difficult" people are the ones in our very own families. They use forms of manipulation against us to bind us, oppress us, condemn us, and guilt-rid us into doing what they want us to do, or how they feel we should behave. Some family members try to sabatatoge us by throwing in our face that we are "family," therefore we are indebted to appeasing them in life. Learning to deal with these family members is a developed art form because they are always looking for ways to use our words and actions against us. They sit on the sidelines and speculate about how they can trip us up. We really need the Holy Spirit to help us deal with these energy-sapping family members that steal the energy that God has given us to do the effective work on earth that He has called us to do.
@queenesther41426 жыл бұрын
Tiffany W. Amen! current situation. everything you said is so true!🙏
@cynthiarice51476 жыл бұрын
Tiffany W. , you are so right!
@latristegraham54865 жыл бұрын
Amen, so true Queen
@diva555sg5 жыл бұрын
Some ppl just say all they want to say & won't give you a chance to speak; Some ppl offend you then block you; Never argue or try to justify with a narcissist; Don't throw pearl at swine.
@jody8022027 жыл бұрын
you hit the nail on the head with me. i had the whole bad life with a lot of abuse and abandonment and it has affected my whole life. even the way people look at me effects my mood, its a known problem for me but its been so long i find it hard to rise above. thank you so much for your teachings
@mrs.bernard54156 жыл бұрын
Blessings to you pastor RC blakes Jr! Love love love your channel, I have personally sent soooooooooooooo many sisters here to find you! have a wonderful day!
@aquariusbeauty2106 жыл бұрын
Mrs. N B. I've shared his videos also People need to hear this message and many of his others.
@2000jez7 жыл бұрын
A natural, honest delivery by God's Spirit,much needed!
@donnajeffreys8252 Жыл бұрын
I am very much an apologizer. That's one thing I really don't like but so often find people who never apologize when they do ugly stuff so I do not want to be what I know I really don't like...
@OlubunmiOjo-jb9mu16 сағат бұрын
Wow….I also think like this and practice this👍🏽👌 It feels lonely sometimes but you know you are doing the right thing even if you have to stand alone sometimes.
@donnajeffreys825215 сағат бұрын
@OlubunmiOjo-jb9mu ANEN
@sunflowermoon4136 жыл бұрын
Good morning! I love learning from you. I grew up in a single parent house and your wisdom is changing the way I think and move. Thank you for sharing with the world.
@np10546 жыл бұрын
I've learned so much and laughed a lot too!!!You crack me up pastor lol you are awesome!!!May God Bless You!!!
@crystalgrose6 жыл бұрын
"Difficult people are a part of greatness." AMEN!!!!
@lyndreal.mcneill27746 жыл бұрын
Pastor, thank you for being REAL!!!!
@joaneryan99624 жыл бұрын
You are such a good Pastor so inspiring and live by the Truth and Love of God our Father. I love listening to your talks feeling blessed with your encouraging words. May God Bless you everyday every minute and your family. You are a light in our world for Jesus our Saviour and King our Most High Priest 🙏🙏🙏 hallelujah
@2000jez7 жыл бұрын
Sir,your sermons,comments are so helpful to me in relationships and life's situations😆
@reality_design5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@velvetsimmons95137 жыл бұрын
PEOPLE ARE CAZZZY!! LOL REAL TALK
@lf51638 жыл бұрын
Sir, thank you. For being honest, transparent, real man, funny, humble, conscious, wise, and light. For the past few years I am working in an organization that is the opposite of all that I said that you are. It is so refreshing to see a man truly seeking to enlighten others if they accept it. I knew the world was wicked and cold but I didn't know that people hate truth and light. Thank you for letting GOD use you to bless us.
@lf51638 жыл бұрын
I had unrealistic expectations that if I were nice they would be nice. I realized I just wanted to be liked, but now I keeps it moving and pray for them.
@lf51638 жыл бұрын
That why I do my own feet. My toes are very sensitive.
@ladileelee15 жыл бұрын
I needed this message so much
@wendybarbosawb4 жыл бұрын
Amen Sr..
@fizzo9715 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I watched this today because the mother of my boyfriend is always offending me and it’s getting under my skin I grew to be bitter and even not being able to see how it could work between us with that woman being his mother. It doesn’t matter anymore I won’t give up my power anymore thank you
@MeTraD_Blk_Swn6 жыл бұрын
Your right pastor that’s what I need to do, remember not to get offended. I have to say I am doing better than I use to with this. But I CAN DO BETTER AND I WILL DO BETTER 🌹
@kjbrocky2 жыл бұрын
Such wisdom and truth is only God given. Many thanks for all of your wonderful messages.
@goodthewizard2 жыл бұрын
A blessing. TY Bishop Blakes
@velvetsimmons95136 жыл бұрын
SMART INTRO SONG, LOVE IT
@tennescahowell85694 жыл бұрын
You have to wisen up to figure out in Life who you actually need . You very Right!!!!!
@edricprim2005 жыл бұрын
This is so powerful!
@bellefluer67117 жыл бұрын
Good teaching Bishop
@sheilapendley17163 жыл бұрын
Sooooooooooo. Powerful!!!!!!!!!
@cynthiarice51477 жыл бұрын
Thanks pastor b/c I do have problems with difficult people, the lies and everything else. It seems like I cannot live my life comfortable with these people. O do feel that people are out to get me, don't even know me. I stay to my self a lot. My world to me only consist of me, my grown children, /grandchildren. I try to keep others out of my life. Am I wrong?
@queenesther41426 жыл бұрын
Cynthia Rice I feel the same way too. Family members are my enemies, and are out to get me. That's why i stay to myself. I don't think you are wrong though, you have to gaurd your space, and be dicerning of people before you let them into your life. Acces not easily granted
@cynthiarice51476 жыл бұрын
Natalie Sinclair , thanks for responding to me. Im so glad that you know how I feel. I've even stayed away from my church members, they are deceiving too!
@velvetsimmons95136 жыл бұрын
Cynthia Rice CYNTHIA, PEOPLE HURT US AND THERE'S ALWAYS STUPIDITY, IGNORANCE, AND MAYBE NARCISSISISUM BY THOSE WE EXPECT JUST ALITTLE UNDERSTANDING FROM HOWEVER, KNOW THEY SEE YOU AND KNOW YOU'RE PROBABLY A GENTLE, GOOD PERSON, THOSE ARE WHO THEY ARE. PLEASE, BE IN GOOD COURAGE, BE STRONG, DON'T ISOLATE, PERHAPS MINGLE OUTSIDE THE BOX, YOU MAY MEET PEOPLE YOU LIKE. GROW FROM IT
@cynthiarice51476 жыл бұрын
Velvet Simmons , That was sweet..Thank You, and I'll do just that. Thanks for caring!
@j.d.93788 жыл бұрын
Good word Pastor Blakes
@bridgettetraveler6584 жыл бұрын
My brother u keep being u! U are doing an awesome job helping us who have been broken & grew up in craziness! I have not reached where u are spiritually! I just try not to be around my haters! I've gone no contact with most relatives! This Pandemic has showed me a lot of ppl's intentions! I use the Pandemic ad a reason not to be around some ppl! The pandemic hasn't been all bad for me & for some other ppl! I do hope to come to a Queenology meeting & meet u! Your wife is beautiful! Thank u for embracing & taking care of her!!!
@teresagitonga87493 жыл бұрын
This is of great help to me!! May God bless you 🙏 for sharing this knowledge.
@yvonnesamuels55825 жыл бұрын
Lord I needed this message TODAY 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@shermickamiller11586 жыл бұрын
Amen, I treat people way God would treat me .
@KrstLight8887 жыл бұрын
Thank God for you ❣️🙏
@godpropertybarry3354 жыл бұрын
Needed to hear this. Thanks for this word.
@davise267 жыл бұрын
I thank u brother. This was an eye opener
@danettepeterkin61993 жыл бұрын
Bishop You are Such A Joy to Listen to. Praise God. You are ministering to me.. EVERY VIDEO OF YOURS. SPEAKS THE TRUTH.. THANK YOU. WHERE ARE YOU FROM?
@augustayarteh75246 жыл бұрын
Amen and Amen pastor is very true like me nothing bothers me in life. Pastor the way. I am seeing people are behaving this day i don't get offended in life of any thing Thank you pastor.
@LisaRenee353 жыл бұрын
I wish your church was located in Dallas! Thank GOD for KZbin! 🙏🙏🙏
@faithfulone39516 жыл бұрын
praise God for guiding me to your videos, they are all Truth...keep shinning for Jesus!!!!
@winddragonmma7 жыл бұрын
Applicable. Practical and true.
@tamikanacolegore11483 жыл бұрын
Yes sir indeed!!!!
@nbkg4876 жыл бұрын
I needed this. People will provoke you if they know how to.
@tammywebb87687 жыл бұрын
Regardless of how the President is, we still need to pray for that man; and he is in authority.
@jamiewilliams8546 жыл бұрын
I just love your teaching u keep it real ! And your funny 2 and so are the people comments on periscope I was cracking up thanks for the great video
@quietwaters11135 жыл бұрын
AMEN ❣
@natoshiastallworth13955 жыл бұрын
I am going through this now and got myself discharged from my job. A really good job
@winddragonmma7 жыл бұрын
Predators prey on fear and the weak. Makes sense about offenses!
@angeliquep83916 жыл бұрын
Yup...Me too! People who I don't know and I don't know them are being very difficult!
@alphaandomega13326 жыл бұрын
Great lesson. Heyyyy my toe hurt, don’t do that no mo 😂😂😂😂😂😂.
@laquashiawhite56976 жыл бұрын
Told evils and gave it to God! Ignorance can't win or control anything God has for me!
@jewishbride50103 жыл бұрын
Father God, praise you for you are the calmth himself, in you we find rest! In accordance with this word and hebrews 12:14, psalm 119:165, luke 6:31-32, matthew 5:43-44, luke 17:3-4 I pray that even with difficult people we learn to navigate our way and have the grace to do what is best for ourselves but also for them by not taking easy offense, knowing how to communicate even in difficult situations. In the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
@foxykat86 жыл бұрын
Hi Pastor Robert Blakes 😇 I really appreciate your videos God bless you
@ethansanders51797 жыл бұрын
Lol I wanted to speak in Tongues and not the ones from HEAVEN Lol!😁😁
@latristegraham54865 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@LovelyPeach406 жыл бұрын
Lol this was good
@goldiepatton45516 жыл бұрын
Right ..... she said I was good toward er but then she started ignoring me acting ignorant toward me .....then got offended n got smart with me over a text .....ppl so petty n lie too ! Lol !!!!
@lalastaywoke6 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯👌👌👌👏👏👏✌✌✌❤
@cynthiarice51477 жыл бұрын
Thanks pastir b/c
@QIKWIA2 жыл бұрын
True pastor Blakes, but this strategy doesn't work if the unreasonable difficult person is a narcissist.
@ajr79405 жыл бұрын
I have a question for R C Blake's ... A friend of mine had a coworker accuse him of making an inappropriate, sexual statement to her & making her feel uncomfortable. The statement was not sexual. He said "I like working w/you. Your really cool." Do u think he should tell her that what she did offended him? & apologize for offending her? Or do you think this is a more sensitive & serious situation that would be better served by silence? His bosses took him into the office & informed him & human resources will be investigating it. He's very troubled by this. If you could help it would be greatly appreciated
@cherylmcleod73577 жыл бұрын
IUr funny
@likethecolorgreen7 жыл бұрын
This is me everything you are saying applys to me. I mostly try to not be affended but when people keep coming to me with issuse after issuse i get mad. I they can keep coming to me beacuse of somthing with them or me. I can say i got work to do. This thing you talked about is called pride and selfisness.
@aquariusbeauty2106 жыл бұрын
Jamesha Wooten Thanks gor being honest. I'm easily offended also and it has gotten me nowhere. I'm so happy to be getting this teaching from Father Blakes.
@oldskoolgypsy92046 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@janicaleflore Жыл бұрын
To be used of God is to abused by Men! ❤️
@belladonna21044 жыл бұрын
Ecc 7:9 - The taking of offense is what rests in the bosom of the stupid ones..
@patsyjohnson52957 жыл бұрын
what if you work with them....
@buffhotchkiss74006 жыл бұрын
Is this referred to the spirit of offense which is considered a sin
@wslybwls28087 жыл бұрын
thank you lord
@MeTraD_Blk_Swn6 жыл бұрын
WHAT U SAY DADDY BLAKESSSS!!!! MY GOD WHAAAATTTT? DIFFICULT PEOPLE ARE APART IF GREATNESS 😱 ooo and I was JUST wanting to slap ole gurl at the theater cuz she in the H group I dare not give energy to. So all this time ALL THAT PAIN I WENT THROUGH DEALING WITH THESE PEOPLE IS APART OF GREATNESS? Well I’m sure glad about it because it had been very painful for me 😢Thank you GOD for this video 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@velvetsimmons95136 жыл бұрын
DEAR PASTOR, WHEN A PERSON IS ALWAYS COMPLAINING, MY BACK MY BUTT, MY LEGS AT EVERY TURN, ITS TIME TO BREAK AWAY. IN MY OPINION, SOME PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS HURT BY ANY AND EVERYTHING, MY GOODNESS, WHEN YOU'RE ALWAYS APOLOGIZING....
@tiffanyhebrew11656 жыл бұрын
This is confirmation of what I have always told my family. But me speaking it never brings resolve. Perhaps they'll listen to you. I'm also known to most as the pushover. People can say, and will say what they want, how they want, when they want towards me, and I usually just smile. Only, it does hurt when it's my Husband does it. Do you do you and your Wife do marriage counseling?
@Kingkoopvh6 жыл бұрын
When people are speaking ill will and evil words against you, reject it in the name of Jesus. Divorce your spirit woman from the negative covenants that come with those words that are seeking your agreement, arrest them spiritually and come against them. That is not your portion. Do not come in accordance to the spirit of lameness , that "pushover" spirit must be sent back to the abyss, tormented before their time, never to find rest! Apply the Luke 10:19 to your life, Galatians 6:17 as well and psalm 37:29, God bless you!
@WhatAJhas2say6 жыл бұрын
Ecclesiastes 7:21-22
@PinkYellowGreen2023 Жыл бұрын
No disrespect but life, time, and resources are wasted on difficult people. I should be extra great if difficulty is a measurement of greatness...the last 14 years of my life have been DANGEROUSLY DIFFICULT BECAUSE OF PEOPLE'S UNREASONABLE DIFFICULTY and their desire to be all up in my mix. I can't, take that mess elsewhere. Im peaceful and keep the peace by avoiding these type of people.
@donnajeffreys8252 Жыл бұрын
I drive buses for a living. I could never be stuck up in a building ALL day every day with the ignorant racist butt kissers on my job. I'm cordial and I keeps to myself up in my bus until it's time to start moving 🚌
@donnajeffreys8252 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes I honestly believe demonic spirits are on my job passing from one person to the next.
@steffiebeffie34685 жыл бұрын
Pastor some of these men you cant talk to they just get verbally abusive.
@goldiepatton45516 жыл бұрын
Me .......ient never been in a friendship with dem ....at all ....so she must be talk n bout me to him cus shes da middle man. lol .....I could careless cus he's not my maker nor my breaker.
@dennahelm72333 жыл бұрын
I no of a paster. an every. thing you say or i say afens or hurt his feelings this is a hole grown man .i believe that if your in the lord. Reading his word That every word some one says hurt them your in thee wrong feld . its way to much for me. And sad.
@goldiepatton45516 жыл бұрын
Dey do all of dat ......whispering chating but don't n won't say nothn to u to ur face ???? Yeah u need help. Lol ....Ient saying nothn but I see u !
@MC.9927 жыл бұрын
Dear pastor, You lost me when you spoke about Donald trump. As you know he is the president of our nation, so I think he has a social responsibility of the things it comes out of his mouth. Things that he says may have a positive and a huge negative in others life’s. Specially the ones in law enforcement dealing with our communities. Still, thank you for part of your thoughts. I still appreciate you.
@lovelight43886 жыл бұрын
Some of you Subs & teaching admirers actually voted for Trump and never for Obama! Not offended by failed diplomacy attempt
@goldiepatton45516 жыл бұрын
Now I will confront n I have but ppl hang up on me don't talk to me block me laugh or ignore me .....dats cool too. Dey will start acting salty or start talk n bout me .....😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😴😴😴😴😴😴😴