Dealing with Low Self Esteem Women

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[@JDTR1900]

I've dealt with low self-esteem women twice. Never again. They're an emotional drain. They aren't trying to improve themselves and they don't love themselves. The chick I'm seeing right now wears her hair naturally, is feminine, intelligent and beautiful. She's confident, but not arrogant. I've never met someone like her before that's in my age-range.

[@RomWills]

That's good bruh.

[@khambrady110]

This sounds great my brother… I’m dealing with a Woman with low self esteem now 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@RASTAGOOB]

They got the low self esteem because they deal with the loser men. Great vid uncle rom

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@lorellbrown9171]

That's what makes it so bad because it has a effect on society.

[@supremevision631]

They’ll use you as a emotional crutch and try to bring you down to their level.

[@RomWills]

Yes.

[@sagetscippio8878]

That part!!

[@Kunal24fit]

Truth!

[@sherisetodd9281]

@@RomWills Sometimes males dogging their looks causes the low self esteem.

[@sherisetodd9281]

@@RomWills You are right that she should not being him down to her level.

[@AtlantaAngel84]

Those women need healing. They can’t be an asset to a man when they don’t even value themselves and unfortunately so many women are subconsciously dealing with this. Great video.

[@RomWills]

Many do heeling.

[@donnelladams6284]

Yes dealing with low self-esteem women is crazy because they will draw you into her low self-esteem ways

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@khambrady110]

🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

[@itstayaaa8280]

Man you are so right . No matter how strong you are a weak person brings you down , Thanks Unc ROM . I thought I was weak when I’m around low frequency people and my frequency down . Thanks for clarifying it for me.

[@TheMohaChannel]

Law of Power Number 10 is “Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky”. It suggests that you should steer clear of people who are chronically unhappy or unlucky, as their negative attitude can be contagious and may hinder your own success and well-being. Surrounding yourself with positive, successful people can instead elevate your own prospects and mood.

[@livingabundantly362]

A real woman who values herself will show you better than she can tell you. Gentleman just watch those actions. Low self-esteem will show its ugly face right away. It cannot hide for long. Stay clear and do not tie your soul to it! It will be hard to love a lady if she does not love herself. Just saying!

[@RomWills]

Real talk sis.

[@josephBC3652]

S. Hanan Willis Hello my beautiful black queen thank you for the advice have a wonderful evening

[@livingabundantly362]

Joseph Hughes you're welcome.

[@donnelladams6284]

+Rom Wills Great job Uncle Rom

[@BallerDre]

Reallest thing on the whole youtube.

[@henryholden6072]

Self improvement forever men. Hard work and dedication that’s the only way to reach your dreams.

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@supremevision631]

If she doesn’t think highly of herself she won’t think highly of you.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

depends

[@supremevision631]

bronzed curls in essence

[@RomWills]

True.

[@thespadestable]

@SupremeVison - Many woman think highly of themselves, the problem is it's based off of material possessions, body figure/body parts, perceived admiration by others, or accomplishments. You take those away from them, they are lost and feel valueless.

[@AbaitheyBeauty]

That’s not true

[@The_Equalizer23]

🙌🏾💯👏🏾😎 Energy is real and transferable...

[@RomWills]

Yes.

[@sagetscippio8878]

That part!!

[@mandia469]

There's nothing more worse than a low self esteem woman who thinks she can use you. It's one thing to be a little insecure but are a respectable person, but when your insecure, and have a nasty attitude, or will use and try to get over on people to disguise how low you feel about yourself, those type of people just need their feelings hurt with the truth about themselves! I work in an industry with a lot of snakes in the grass. And I see a lot of shitty things people, particularly women with low self esteem do to keep themselves relevant! The low self esteem really speaks for itself.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

i feel like there's different levels of low self-esteem​. there's occasional ones and the ones who are suffering from it chronically.

[@christinabernat9681]

bronzed curls he discussed that.

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@MrCasinoChips]

You may have to walk away permanently. If you love her, pray for her.

[@kinkyandfree796]

Phenomenal video. Men with low self esteem is catastrophic, too.

[@A_JoshOfAllTrades]

What I've found is that an alarming amount of women I've dated/met and women in general in my generation (between 23-30) have dealt with rape and things of that nature and those experiences really seep into their self-esteem for life. It's just really tough to find women on the other side of the spectrum. My mother always said "Wait and Let them come around" but there has to be a line drawn somewhere... I ain't tryna be 70 before a secure woman comes around. Lol

[@AaronJohnsonART]

exactly this JB. it's a real drought out here and bad men are messing it up for everyone, men and women alike.

[@RomWills]

TheJBshow30, You're right about that rape part. Many women simply need healing.

[@thespadestable]

@AaronJohnsonART - The bad part is you don't know who's telling the truth about their past, and those who are using it as an excuse for their known history and consequences they've had to suffer. Women love to practice autonomy, and anything is at their arsenal to create a world that will operate under their individual rules. How many men after being confided by a woman that she experienced rape or molestation will then turn around and question her family members as a means to determine whether she is telling the truth or not? Advantage.....Autonomy.

[@thespadestable]

@King Sigma - Mental health treatment can only do but so much. Those professionals can only provide the tools, it's up to the individual to apply those tools. And it's the application, not to exclude consistency of those applications, that is the hardest thing to do.

[@josegardia4491]

Preach uncle rom, this is one of your best videos. Everything you said in this video is absolutely true

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@motorcitykid2837]

I learned this lesson the hard way. Those type of women are messy AF!

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@henrygarner4649]

Real talk Bro Rom! I learned that lesson the hard way. But as you said listen to everything they say and MOVE ON! Thanks!👏👏

[@RomWills]

Thanks.

[@tonybulley5764]

Damn. Powerful video! If you never made another video on this subject again, this would be enough... This is everything 👍🏽

[@RomWills]

Thank you brotha.

[@greendelano]

My ex, my ex, damn, Rom. You nailed it this time! When dealing with this chick it was low self-esteem, complicated by a severe case of the hive mind set, and a unwillingness to think for herself. Once again you cut deep. Thanks, ouch! For those of us in the know...beware low hanging fruit.

[@RomWills]

Exactly. If a woman is too easy that can be red flag.

[@RobsterCWell]

Can't do it. I'm to drama free for that.

[@RomWills]

I understand.

[@ALFREDTHOMAS2169]

They will stick to you like gum on the bottom of your shoe too, you can't get rid of them. I tried and this woman tried to get me arrested, threatened to tell my sister about my vices and told me she was going to reduce me to nothing. I don't doubt she would poison my food

[@jacksmith694]

man you spoke ALL FACTS this whole video after thinking about my past relationship

[@MrCgerm00]

Crazy thing is they tend to bring out the worst in you. It is contagious. If you feel her be prepared for drama. Hamster wheel

[@MrCgerm00]

Energy is something

[@TheMohaChannel]

I totally get you. Some of them need you to treat them like shit in order to behave fine around you. And if you are a person who has been raised right now you must train yourself to be one mean asshole in order to maintain her attraction. This is when you say the lemon is not worth the squeeze.

[@AaronJohnsonART]

thanks for this vid Uncle!

[@moetmoet5176]

This arguably has to be the most genuine video you ever made. It's all about the energy the subconscious mind picks up that determines your fate....

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@AaronJohnsonART]

he went deep in this one. can't ask for more than this.

[@TheMohaChannel]

A good woman doesn’t enter your life just by luck, or when your worst. She notices you when you are at your best, because you match her healthy standards. And when I say “at your best” I don’t mean your “financial best” I mean your “mental and physical best”. When you are going through some confusing hard times you are exuding negative energy and negative energy is tolerated only by negative people not healthy people.

[@dudewat212]

How to deal with low self esteem women? Answer: Don't

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@greendelano]

dudewat212 HELL TO THE NO!

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Uhu. Yes.

[@SmallsGang_773]

Only if your manipulation game is strong, then you can deal with them. Controll, lead and manage her.

[@TheMohaChannel]

Yeah but you will feel alone all the way. I know a guy who has this strong manipulation game and he stayed with this woman for 20 years, after 20 years he left her. During those years he basically had her just for sex, nothing else, he kept her in a state where she believed she can give only sex and nothing else. They lived together, had two kids together, but their situation were like two roommates who have sex with each other. Each cooked their own food, and did their own laundry, no love, no random kind words or gestures, no trips, no dates, no kisses, no random touches, no intimacy, just sex. When he wanted her he just grabbed her. This guy understood that this was the kind of treatment this woman needed and mastered it. I think if you treat someone like this for 20 years after that you won’t be the same person.

[@cche4658]

Too bad men and women can't just uplift one another and themselves. Insecurity, ego and mental illness can cause alot of deatruction in relationships. Some people are not taught how to love themselves or others. Very unfortunate.

[@socaluv64]

Rom, you know I got them stories too lol. I know a female like this man, she thinks everything about her is ugly except her legs. She decent, but the low self esteem drops her to a 4. Nobody wants a negative Nancy in their corner. Good one. 👍

[@RomWills]

You're right about that.

[@JTu8925]

I remember you did another vid in the past mentioning that if a woman is not on your mission; let her go. I evaluated the long distance situation I was in, then finally called it off after a year and a half. The first few months sucked, but the clarity of learning to love and RESPECT myself outweighs any comforting/controlling woman. Then I really started seeing me for me. Took off the sheep's clothing...kept the fro though lol.

[@RomWills]

You did what was necessary.

[@Djjohnreed]

First rate advise! Wish I knew this in my 20s. Thank you Rom.

[@hgfw9295]

I want to say the same applies to men. Sometimes women are strong and want to find love to grow old with. The man enters her world, soften her guards, awakens love just to then make her realize "we lovers yes but its nothing serious baby". Its actually hard to spot who Has a low asteem. Lots of times it doesn't go along with looks.

[@jermaineanderson5829]

Always deep brother Ron 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@bassiewors45t]

Yes ! I needed that... she took me 2 her level.... thx bro

[@GrandMark215]

You dropped nothing but jewels in this one!

[@msqueenlyminded7579]

As a woman i totally agree!

[@kelvinrice7872]

Exceptional video fam! You couldnt've said it any better seriously. I never dealt with low self esteem women, I don't deal with them period! Their energy is not going to be compatible with mines none whatsoever. Those kind of women are like flees, I'm allergic to them, they make me scratch! Women like that are bitter, mad at the world, they most definitely has some personal as well as mental issues and the chances of them addressing them are slim to none. I pay attention to womens character how they carry themselves even, I can tell when a woman have those qualities in her even though no one is perfect, I know a snobbish shitty attitude woman when I see one. That's why that connection from a woman along with her personality is do important to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@RomWills]

Being allergic to those types of women is good.

[@mimia8388]

Great message as usual.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mimia8388]

Rom Wills you are welcome sir.

[@mimia8388]

Rom Wills You are welcome ☺

[@kayfuego5598]

Low self esteem women dont practice what they preach. My generation (1998) age range they'll say things to encourage you to be better, but the emotional drain is still there.

[@sagetscippio8878]

It's very difficult once you've married one...😡

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@kevinsanders1571]

Great video! I agree with you. I experienced this in a woman but she was able to mask it. She has a great body and most men would over look it just to get at her.

[@RomWills]

Watch out for a big butt and a smile.

[@ACTIONJACKSON-rq3vx]

I APPRECIATE YOUR WISDOM

[@JonathanB258]

This is exactly what happen to me ROM...I tell you my ex wife almost destroyed me in just a year of marriage.! 15 years of work gone just like that. lost my house in 18 months..

[@RomWills]

Sound like a Demon Lover.

[@BurninVinyl]

Most 40s years old women are low self-esteem. I conseil to check immediately that shit, cause they look for a shoulder to cry on but if you do so, that couchy will dry. If they say it's not you it's me, agree with that and check her.

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@monogee]

I'm embarrassed to say, I was dealing with a woman for years and did not know this is what I was dealing with. As I say, she broke me. Everything I did to please her was never good enough. Even in arguments with her, I would conform and tell her she was right and she would still find an issue in me agreeing with her. SMH.

[@jesseb2011]

Now that I’m older I learn how to peep game before I make a decision rather or not I should deal with certain people..good video!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@missbcritiques9209]

Got to learn to love your self and Accept your flaws regardless...If you don’t who will ladies?

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@ThePerfectLegend_]

It’s like being with a low self esteem women is living in a false reality. She would do anything to make you happy that a normal wouldn’t would do . But it brings you down mentally as well and doesn’t raise you in other women’s eyes . But it’s like it’s better than having nothing . I know it sounds bad to say . But after while you feel bad for that person and just don’t want to leave them

[@renegade595]

Hard disagree on feeling sorry for them and dont want to leave. Billions of apples out there and you want to stay with the bad one? Nah

[@bobbylewisjr5250]

Dating sites are full of em' ...I simply unmatch em' from the get go.......hey, I know my worth.

[@virginiaharvey]

Self honour,self truth.many thanks

[@finale10mill21]

I was playing the macking game sometime back and I could say for a fact that the emotional distress that comes from taking money from these women can lead you to suicide #smh.i like the way you brought up the fact that no matter how strong you are they know how to break you lol.thats absolutely true.#itsnotworthit

[@RomWills]

It is what it is.

[@jment34]

Some people are very good at hiding their true feelings. What are ways in wich we can know if she has a self esteem that is too low ?

[@RomWills]

Watch how they treat themselves.

[@edwardmayfield9394]

They always have some drama going on

[@americanbrazilian]

Wow!!!! This needs to go viral!!!!

[@RomWills]

We'll see.

[@TheLastRunners]

Glad I finally found the answer at age 19.

[@stocks4bt]

Listen to WISDOM & the voice of your teachers Prov 5:13 & 13:14

[@MrDawg122]

I knew you had something dealing with this glad I searched this

[@quintonmaldonado8368]

Thanks for the video, just cut off a situation like that about half a year ago and was thinking on it recently. You think they just have one little insecurity when you first meet and the next thing you know, everything becomes your fault. Insecure women can guilt trip you like that and rob you of your time and energy before you even know it. Don't do it.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@SIRLAVO4excellence]

Rom...Uncle Rom. This is good game. I had a five year run of intermingling low self esteem women with decent women for sexual gratification. They are easy but they do pull and tug on you to come to their level. Then it hits ur subconscious and you begin to seek it out. Chubby chasing and the like. But you have to detox off of them because their inner dialogue of insecurity will become yours. And it will affect your life. They are too needy. Trust this is good game. 100

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@jouelc.4070]

A Pretty face doesn't mean a pretty heart - unbelievable even showing her affection, interest, everything what validates herself, she is lead by the Jezabel spirit makes become peaceful ma demonic, once you become apart in her reality, time to run.. she will push the bottons untill you freak out, how to handle this call for abusement?

[@jus3278]

With social media these days, I find that nearly all women have self esteem issues....especially if she's attractive

[@richarddarling8418]

Well looks like I gotta let 1 go

[@RomWills]

Do what you gotta do.

[@christinabernat9681]

AH I spy that Porsche at your right shoulder! Used to be my fav "someday I want to own that" car, til I realized I would never be able to drive responsibly in it cause my head would always be on cloud 9 while in it!! So my 2001 Kia Sportage SUV with 4 wheel drive is my true perfect car - I feel hot to trot in it yet my feet remain on the ground. They don't make that model anymore so we will be keeping this one forever cause we just LOVE its shape, its mileage, its everything. Oh, and standing ovation on this vid. Low self esteem = cancer gone wild. We all have some cancer cells in us all the time but our health keeps them in check. If it is full blown it is not in check so the cancer is running rampant. Run the other way, period. Now I will be checking for "where is that Porsche" in your images😝😅.

[@RomWills]

Well said. Low self esteem is a cancer gone wild.

[@khrisstphaeugenesalih9234]

True words...Good Post...

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@focusedallday5620]

Well said Rom this highlights my last relationship. If I wasn’t kissing her ass or on her 24/7 then she wouldn’t feel loved. I had to end it.

[@AffyisAffy]

Ask yourself how much you like building sandcastles

[@NateTheNoble]

Would love to speak to you and learn more from you. Love your work

[@RomWills]

You can hit me up here, www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html

[@Bigcdt80]

You right brother having sex with someone especially a woman with low self esteem only makes the situation worse trust me I've been there before it's almost like you signed a contract.... good call brother

[@RomWills]

Thank you brotha.

[@vickgeneral7549]

Shout out to Brother Wells, Brother Ammi, Brother Goggins

[@astetic_vibezz319]

This is a breath of fresh air for me. I’m a woman and I needed to here how a man thinks on this topic. Not my female friends but a man’s view, his thoughts. Lots of my female friends (those ex friends now) are dating looser men because they are so desperate just to have a man, any man it seems. One is the ‘other woman’ another being ‘controlled and manipulated’ the other being used to gain a British passport as he’s from abroad, but it’s all blatant using the woman for their needs. The thing is I have no sympathy for these women. They are 40 somethings, desperate and stupid women, they make out they are confident and healed from their abusive marriages or other traumas that happened in their lives. But they haven’t. They make the same mistakes, not learning anything. No growth. They are stuck where they are. I as a woman have no respect for these women, how are men going to respect them? I have had to distance myself and get rid of these woman as friends, too much drama. In fact they were holding me back. And I ain’t desperate. No one is going to disturb my peace.

[@AroundLA]

I unfortunately got caught all the way up in a situation like this. I'm not too proud to admit it. Fucked my head up pretty good. Didn't know any thing about you then Rom. Focused on the future now though. LEAVE THEM ALONE!

[@lilhaxxor]

Yoh, this is too harsh.If they are already aware of the problem and already addressing it, for example through therapy and stuff, it's not that bad. Especially if they are smart, good communicators and supportive. I am highly driven, and I have been with a narcissist, that's what you don't want (narcissist have low self esteem). However, an honest caring woman with confidence issues might still be worth it, depending on the other qualities she possesses.😉

[@TrinaTheStyleConsultant]

Real talk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@tevinheath3997]

Uncle Rom what about the women with high esteem but on antidepressants (depressive and anxiety) yet supportive, caring and thoughtful and happy around me? Is it worth pursuing?

[@RomWills]

Her positive traits would have to outweigh her negative traits. Even then the man would have to have the capacity to be a healer.

[@tevinheath3997]

@@RomWills Thank you, you are absolutely right!

[@MrCgerm00]

Jewel....constant validation will wear you out. Always accusing you of bad motives in whatever you do or say

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@Josco31]

Had to say "preach" in less than a minute!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@bestmann5259]

Dropping jewels

[@jenniferhaynes8625]

You just described my guy friends significant other.She runs the house.

[@citybusmuzik7558]

Just found you brother. You know your shit peace

[@killakangz5317]

aye mane... 9:35-10:01 is me ALL THE WAY. wish i could get away but i cant. i have children so thier are strings attached. and because i give a damn, theer will be pain tryna let go. any advice???

[@RomWills]

When kids are involved it's a different situation. You just gotta be firm with her for the kids' sake until they grow up.

[@killakangz5317]

Rom Wills "patience" is all i have left. thanx 4 replying back.

[@deannabarnes3771]

Now see Rom, you in this winter white gear, make me wanna cook you a candle light dinner.

[@RomWills]

Thanks luv.

[@deannabarnes3771]

@@RomWills Anytime, enjoy your day

[@loveincorporated9658]

Great video! Well said, low self esteem women are toxic.

[@RomWills]

They can be. Some are nice BUT they all can drag a man down.

[@MAYDAYSERIOUS]

This is real talk you will lose yourself

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@marj8884]

imma try that out...I use to think the opposite because it seems like they would be more easier to deal with but Idk.. like I said Imma have to try that out bro

[@RomWills]

The low self esteem ones can bring you down.

[@ianconor9988]

what if its within the family members mother sisters

[@RomWills]

Sometimes you might have to keep them at a distance if it could harm you.

[@jabbzcross2880]

Another one 👍🏾

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@edwardmayfield9394]

Can you do video on wishy washy /bipolar individuals

[@santanapage5044]

Thanks for excluding BUMS, appreciate it 🙏

[@duhh4641]

This was my ex girlfriend in a nut shell...

[@darrickbrisco5016]

Real talk leave the trash in the garbage where it belongs got to be with someone on same wavelength esp mentally

[@RomWills]

Yes.

[@ericthered1140]

Yes...💯🔥

[@alanfreeman7374]

Thanks U R.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@lorellbrown9171]

Low self esteem women is not worth the time. Apply the knowledge from the resources avoid it because a women that has interest is better and is out there when you are out there campaigning.

[@southdekalbmall]

Rom I had a low self esteem woman I dated for about 5 months no arguments disagreements just good dates and sex and she left my ass. I was like damn Rom I try to build the sister than she ghost me

[@RomWills]

That's one of the things they do.

[@mandia469]

She's the low self esteem chick that's weak that thrives off the weakness of other people! That's how her weak ass survives.

[@Natepillradio]

Uncle Rom can you do a video about women who are needy?

[@RomWills]

Yeah I can do one about needy women

[@lsporter88]

That's the God's honest truth, (I have yet to disagree with Uncle Rom). Great Video.

[@RomWills]

Thank you Bro. Leslie.

[@edwardmayfield9394]

They're are very wishy washy and fickle,you never know what bag they're going to come out of ,seasonal women are not dependable ,they only reason that they resurface is to distract you and pour they baggage on,it's downfall waiting to happen,a complete waste of time

[@alton7889]

Wish I saw this 10 years ago. Smh.