The Importance of Eye Contact

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[@RobsterCWell]

Guys are looked as weak when they look away. But if a female looks down then peak up at you, she is being submissive. Especially if she gives you her neck too, that's game. You got her.

[@RomWills]

Boom there it is.

[@colinogorman8279]

💯

[@theemperor2017]

👊🏿

[@northstarbright6456]

"Look 'em dead in the eye, and tell 'em why."

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Eyes can make a women go running because she's afraid but on the same night from being comfortable to going naked in a second. Trust me people have no clue. Blessed.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Of course men.

[@nakiyacooke8840]

😂

[@cooldizzle93]

If you're handsome, strong eye contact = sexy. If you're ugly = creepy.

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@Rawyalty220]

Looks are subjective

[@FlowPaigeRyan]

You’re right eye contact is so important. There is just something about a man who can look a woman straight in her eyes, especially if she finds him attractive. Her body language will tell it all. Whether she’s looking away, whether she’s smiling. Is her breathing changing, what are her hands doing, is she crossing her legs. He’ll definitely know if she’s into him and vice versa.

[@RomWills]

That's real game.

[@AntonioWolfpack]

True. Eye contact is fun. It's special. It's dangerous. It's seductive. It's useful

[@depy2762]

Paige Ryan The eyes are the windows to the soul if his mind is strong enough he could read her thoughts.

[@colinogorman8279]

👀

[@samchrome1292]

⁰

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Women love that. Sometimes i don't look at them just to test them. And they keep on looking for my attention. Eyes don't lie.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@mimia8388]

Eye contact is a form of confidence. When a person look you in the eye ,they are communicating non verbally with you. It's up to the person on the receiving end to figure out the message depending on the type of eye contact. Is the person eyeing you with a smile or with disdain? It's not just the eyes one have to read, but the ultimate expression of the face.

[@RomWills]

Thanks for your perspective.

[@mimia8388]

Rom Wills You are welcome. Happy to participate.

[@AntonioWolfpack]

Diana A and the emotion behind the eyes.

[@depy2762]

Diana A facial expression is the state of mind.

[@theemperor2017]

@@mimia8388 Eye also increase dopamine. That euphoria feeling which makes vvomen get in the mood.

[@insuchaway]

1. Women- I look em right in the eye, all the time. I think I've even been hired in the past due to this lol. 2. Men- Unless we are directly communicating, I tend to ignore dudes. Some used to take my eye contact as a challenge; I don't have time for the emo shit lollll.

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@Narquis444]

Facts 😂😂

[@AntonioWolfpack]

Wildwood I feel ya. My ego sometimes tells me to stare back it's a challenge. But that's some young boy shit.

[@colinogorman8279]

Emo shit 🤣🤣🤣

[@oliverchizz8148]

@Khalid facts...thats trash to steady eye ball another man....

[@letsbserious95]

Especially if you have nice eyes. Use your gift dam it.

[@RomWills]

Yes.

[@TBMandisodza]

shiiiiiiit tts deep

[@dantef4399]

Yes that look of love? Lust? That look they give you when they really feeling you is crazy..it's like Dracula ..you got em ..they'll do anything now

[@AuthorAlanRogerCurrie]

LOLOL @ 5:47 !! Mode Zero!! I think you know Brother Wills, even though I place heavy emphasis on *verbal* communication skills with my male clients, probably the #1 form of *non-verbal* communication I tend to emphasis is strong, confident, direct *eye contact* with women. That is why *MY EYES* are on the cover of my Mode One book. Great video #kudos

[@NateTheNoble]

Author Alan Roger Currie Most def

[@RomWills]

Author Alan Roger Currie, Yep Mode Zero! He was *extremely* motivated. Eye contact is everything. If a man can't do that with a woman he doesn't need to deal with women at all.

[@AuthorAlanRogerCurrie]

*Eye contact is everything. If a man can't do that with a woman he doesn't need to deal with women at all* 100% agree

[@kjonezey43]

Eye Contact without looking like a psycho ! Lol

[@signatureoflove6091]

Rom Wills Can you plz make a pt 2 video to this on a metaphysics level..I met 2 guys who looked me in tge eyes...1st one, Had me and Didnt know it..He was charming but his energy said Im No joke, So dont try me....The 2nd guy! Im dark....I cut him off bc I sense he was full of shit..

[@mikensu06]

Great video Mr. Rom! I started taking salsa lesson classes years ago, I had all the moves and everything lol. Then, one of the teachers a brotha taught me a valuable lesson. He told me look a girl in the eyes while you dancing with her. It was hard at first but then I gradually got better with it. He told me that asserts your confidence and does more than any sweet words can do to a woman. It was like we was dancing, but it was just me and her in the room. A confident woman who knows what she wants would get turned on when we danced. Shy women would often look away. That was the icing on the cake. I didn't have to say too much and she knew who she was leaving with at the end of that night lol.

[@RomWills]

The real game is non-verbal.

[@dudewat212]

Even outside of dating, it is often said that a boxing match is won at the staredown before the players touch gloves.

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@pizzatime9797]

It’s not true tho in boxing terms

[@moonbasemonkmode441]

Charles Oliveira be taking souls in the UFC

[@dfredankey]

@@moonbasemonkmode441Islam

[@datboycdot]

Eye contact is like the truest most natural game. It doesn't matter if the woman doesn't speak a word of English you can communicate what you want with your eyes. Once you've flicked the switch she knows where the situations going! Even on a date you're sending messages back and forth with your eyes. Great video Rom this is the edge a lot of men dont have. I think this is even what separates a lot of non self and select guys. If you can't look a woman in the eye right she's not really gonna feel like she's connected with you. Once again great video Rom!

[@RomWills]

The connection piece is best.

[@jermonowens6117]

I like that Rom because I was shy in my younger days but now I would look anybody in the eye without blinking I guess it's something I had to grow out of

[@deuce6689]

This is something my parents made me do when I was a kid and I never knew why they made a big deal about it, but when I got older that's when I realized how important eye contact was, and you said it Rom, it's a sign of respect. By the way I think I know the look you're talking about when you say a woman gives you a certain look when she's attracted to you. Are you talking about the look where their eyes get kind of big, their pupils are dilated, and it's like a warm, sensual, sexy, and romantic stare rolled into one? I've had a few women stare at me like that and it feels real good lol and one thing I learned so far about Tantra is that when you stare or look at a woman in her eyes, you're staring into her soul, which brings that intense and strong connection between the two. But when you first meet a woman and give her that eye contact and she gives you that sexy and romantic look, it's like you get a glimpse of her soul

[@RomWills]

You're right about a woman's look. Also looking into a woman's eyes are a big tantra thing.

[@kelvinrice7872]

Real talk fam! Eye contact is everything because it solidifies the genuineness in people. It says a lot, like you've said, eye contact is not just important with women but life in general itself! You're going to come into contact with people from all facts of life and you're going to have to be able to read through those people, light of the body is always in the eyes and which indicates what people is really thinking intentionally without them having to say anything. No matter what comes out a person's mouth, it's the energy and the eye contact that's going to tell you what you need to know! I love looking people in the eyes when I'm talking to them, I live for that shit. When you're talking to people looking them in the eyes and they can't look you back in the eye, then that tells you a lot about them period! As far as women, when you both make eye contact with each other, you'll know where she's coming from and vice versa, she'll know where you're coming from, that tells it all. Making eye contact with people is simply in my nature!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@RomWills]

Wel lsaid.

[@grandoldsoul4691]

amen brotha

[@mar-cs7lx]

When I hold eye contact with a woman, they'll say I give them this sexual "look" when I don't really be trying to sometimes

[@RomWills]

They are sensing your energy.

[@achievinggreatness83]

To those that find it difficult to make eye contact. A trick is to focus right between the eye brows as practice, until your confident enough to do so.

[@RomWills]

Good advice.

[@tghamilton1079]

...or look at the top of their heads.

[@sosadesigner8813]

Uncle Ron! I tried this today and it worked. I did it to my masculine female teacher during the break and after the class. She was all feminine the second time (after the class). She prolonged the conversation for no reason.

[@sudarshangs4235]

facts

[@floydland3509]

This is very important for other areas in life as well. Could make or break getting a job sometimes.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@jackf.clarke8167]

GREAT VIDEO,Eye contact is how u connect with people in general. The eyes tell everything period

[@kingnarrative9455]

Eyes are the gateway to the soul, you can see much of a persons character in their eyes.

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@Sapientia-in-senectute]

Unless the persons eyes are dead then you won’t see nothing

[@colinogorman8279]

💯

[@Saiyanryu]

Damn, I'm suppose to be studying for a biochemistry exam, but this is the biochem I really need to be learning. Thanks for the lesson, Uncle Rom!

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@zafiruzoma6234]

Did you graduate?

[@LoveCantWait]

Rom I call it "the look of lust." Your absolutely right its hard to describe.

[@RomWills]

You can only experience it.

[@BurninVinyl]

One of my favourite videos. I try to look into their eyes but they look at my lips when I talk. LoL

[@RomWills]

Kissing is very important to women.

[@SAMack-xd2fn]

A+ level manhood info ...thanks Uncle Rom

[@RomWills]

Thanks. I'm seeing more and more dudes need info on manhood.

[@dudewat212]

You even have a book called "Those Eyes". Eye contact is important.

[@RomWills]

Eyes are very important.

[@raiders48gates5]

The eyes do says A lot.

[@boneysouthwest]

When I was on my beta male shit I would always avoid eye contact, male and female. I FORCED myself to look women in the eye seductively. Boy when I tell you even the sex was different...I mean I can't explain the difference between regular sex and passionate rough sex.

[@hillz405]

Eye contact is a way of communication you can tell if someone is feeling you if she smile boom look back or show you the neck play with lips damn you got her I do it everyday it’s lil game I play with woman everyday

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

The right eye contact will give you 100% success in approaching women. What you say is the truth Rom. Its even getting scary. LOL! When I finish work in the evening on weekends, I see how the party girls look at me when Iam going home. I dont think I'll be going to night clubs. I sense there'd be drama with bossy women and female jealousy.

[@RomWills]

I understand.

[@sterlingbroadnax9477]

I'm very glad that I ran in to your channel bruh. Thank you for what you do.

[@papabatsy]

Teachin my son all the rules bro. God bless.

[@letroid360]

Uncle Rom you should speak on this subject more. Eye contact is serious when it comes to attracting a woman. I have seduced women at their jobs and in other public settings by looking them straight in the eyes. When a man has good eye contact women know what's up. Good game as always uncle!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@greendelano]

It's been my experience that before a conflict become physical. If the dude standing in front of me can't look me in the eye. But talking out of the side of mouth like he is going to do something. That tells me this cat is wetting himself and looking for a way out.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@jumpman366]

Delano Green who the hell does that anyway? Thats weird 😂

[@SasukeUchiha-rb1rs]

Action Potential nah. I don’t care how good of a fighter you are, your pussy if you can’t look a man in the eyes when shit gets serious.

[@grandoldsoul4691]

@@SasukeUchiha-rb1rs true. i had a dude standing way to close to me . he tought since hes bigger he could just invade my space. i held eye contact and said your kinda close man. he broke the eye contact and said " shit nigga i'll back up then" and he did.

[@billybrooks4956]

Great work brother Rom ! Respect from Bermuda via Boston.

[@BoLuke]

I've been waiting for this video for a minute 🙏

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@TimeToRiseAndConquerLife]

Eye contact is DEFINITELY important, it shows you acknowledge people. It's how we connect but unfortunately most people nowadays are walking around with their head down, eyes down and staring at their phones, it's sad when you think about it. What's happening to us.

[@mmafan3]

Real talk. Eye contact is so Important not only with potential mates but employers and yes, opponents. The face off prior to a boxing match isn't simply to get the fighters riled up but it's a subliminal message and teat. If you saw the movie valkrye tom cruises character told his comrade about to be executed to look the shooter in the eye. The message was you killed me but didn't defeat me.

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@NRLJAY]

Thank you for this my brother.

[@prayermadepatna8439]

I needed this Rom.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@dondadaofficial205]

If the eyes could talk what will they say man man man

[@mxpchannel1221]

Meditation helped me calm down and make eye contact

[@arccway]

Thanks Unc!

[@RASTAGOOB]

Something to add to the notes uncle rom. Loving this video.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@jdominian9504]

Man I'm big on that. This is extremely essential, especially with woman. Honestly this is my strong point

[@Jxo901]

I had a girl tell me she’s not a attracted to me but one day she gave me the look...so I’m like uh...what does she want. It can’t be me.

[@RomWills]

Women try to deny their attraction sometimes.

[@grandoldsoul4691]

i remember hearing from ccw "never pay attention to what women say , pay attention to what she does" she may say " oh you arent getting any tonight". but her actions say otherwise. " she's smiling and laughing while saying noo don't kiss me "

[@victorscott7982]

yeap. i hear from older women " I love your eyes"

[@connie4872]

Great Video! My Monday motivation.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@ryannorwood7961]

Thanks bro we needed this one!

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@AntonioWolfpack]

I like the part about reading her eyes as well. So you can tell what she thinking. It is communication.

[@americanbrazilian]

The more I listen to you, the less that I realize I know about the art of dealing with women!! You say things that I only notice after the fact ! Don’t get me wrong , I’ve heard and seen many things but the understanding of the subject you provide is eye opening!!!

[@RomWills]

Years of experience.

[@jont5981]

Love story time! Uncle Rom!

[@RomWills]

LOL

[@mikediamond1801]

You know what rom i do that all the time because like you I was told.by my father thats was a sign lf strength and confidence to look someone in the eye.. But I've had a lot of females say i look intimdating so some look down or look in my face for a second then look away but some will hold eye contact and some act really shy and look down..

[@RomWills]

That's on them. I was told to never look away.

[@joyfulartist5254]

Great Advice

[@SkinoGreeneVu]

I have no problem giving eye contact when listening or speaking when I have an actual point ... but if I'm looking for the next point or if there's a break in the convo, that's when my eye contact diverts what do you suggest

[@jdominian9504]

Had to watch it again, just to give myself a thumbs up. Lol.

[@NateTheNoble]

Thanks for responding to my request! People say the eyes are the window to the soul, but I say they are the PROJECTORS. Growing up I was quiet, but never shy. I used to look at people straight in the eye with a serious face and somehow that created intrigue without me saying much. I Was on a date last night with a girl I knew and the same thing happened. I gazed at her and then we just ended up kissing. It’s hard for me to have direct eye contact with men though. When I look at them they tend to look away or they “feel” offended that I’m looking at them. I believe it comes from an inferiority complex men tend to have. The eyes expose you and most men with fragile egos hate being seen through..

[@jumpman366]

Solid compa lmfao

[@NateTheNoble]

Yo Yo you don’t get it

[@NateTheNoble]

Solid compa Whether you’re walking down the street, talking, or just observing. You should always look at people in their eye. That’s how my dad raised me. It shows acknowledgement which is a ruling factor in communication. If you feel some type of way about another man looking at you directly In the eye then that means you can’t handle the pressure. I never said anything about “starting” or ice grilling. But even that doesn’t bother me. I just acknowledge them as I look back then they stop..

[@NateTheNoble]

Solid compa not once In my comment did I say mean mug. I said LOOK. Most dudes can’t even take that from my experience.

[@RomWills]

TheDeLaKore, You're welcome.

[@honestthedon9283]

Thanks Uncle Rom

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@BurninVinyl]

Oh yeeesss!! especially if she and you are not near.

[@jabbzcross2880]

Another classic 👍🏾

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@supremevision631]

You said what I was about to post while I was getting ready to type it. .....,,A woman told me she felt like I was looking through her.

[@RomWills]

It does something to women.

[@supremevision631]

Omar Henry Howard tell her I said hello

[@j.rmeadows1689]

DMV we in the building 💯 LaNDOVER

[@RomWills]

I've had a few women in Landover.

[@j.rmeadows1689]

Rom Wills I'm sure it use to be what's happening ouch here

[@jholliday3]

Mode 1 Hard Core is that raw style.

[@mindfraim5721]

I prepare the eyes sometimes before I look

[@RomWills]

Interesting.

[@grandoldsoul4691]

untold secret

[@rashido8444]

Thanks Rom. You right about eye contact. Man, lost my virginity with that lol

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@cory2logical144]

Sounds like the brother you were speaking of was “mode one hardcore” lol shout out to Alan Roger Currie 👍🏾

[@darman210]

In some Asian cultures maintaining eye contact is considered disrespectful. Do you think the eye contact thing is true for women/People from all cultures or does it only work on women from western cultures?

[@RomWills]

In a sexual sense it seems to work universally. This is based on personal experience.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

Eye contact makes me nervous lolll. I don't engage in that, i just glance.

[@RomWills]

I understand.

[@shirelle5931]

I'm the same way. Sometimes eye contact can be a little too intimate and can be uncomfortable if in the wrong setting.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

shirelle+ yaya i'm not alone!!! LOL

[@tibahkhan5397]

Would you say it's better to look women straight in the eye throughout the full conversation, or look away every now and again. Because it sounds like it might get a little awkward if I just look them in the eye without looking away.

[@RomWills]

You don't want stare like a serial killer. Just flow with it.

[@skinfanjay]

Powerful

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@selectorjahoutofjahfarisound]

Hey Rom, great video. Still waiting on that video on how a man can tell for sure when a woman finds you attractive or handsome.

[@RomWills]

That's because I really don't know. I don't know for myself. Women rarely tell me.

[@grandoldsoul4691]

@@Blahblahblah-w5g haha. men are just not wired to read a women's green light signal at first glance. unless they are really perceptive like me lol. or they have learnt to know what to look for.

[@grindmode258]

No Lies Being Told. Because Of This Alone, its Had/Have Women develop Crushes on Me To Me Having My First Run-In With A Stalker😭😭. Y’all Boyz Be Careful Out Here & Stay Dangerous. They Are On The Prowl.

[@walterbassiv7170]

RW do a part 2 of eye contact please sir 👍👍

[@RomWills]

If I think of more to add.

[@victorscott7982]

Got these 2 co-workers right?...I am going ones house soon.we stay down the street from e/o. She saw me before I saw her.

[@kyserjose4183]

Head on a Swivel! lol

[@RomWills]

I have to be.

[@0neup1]

Shit man I've been having trouble looking ppl in the eyes lately

[@RomWills]

That's something to work on.

[@KK-wf9ev]

Uncle Rom, What does it mean when a woman looks back and forth between both of your eyes?

[@RomWills]

She's looking for signs of your energy.

[@signatureoflove6091]

LOVE YOUR LOOK ON THIS VIDEO...VERY HANDSOME MAN

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@rodneywilliams6000]

Mr. Rom Wills, 1 of my eyes is crossed, and the other 1 is Lazy. Does this rule apply to me as well?😀😀

[@RomWills]

Yes.

[@Robert-hk2jm]

Hilarious😂

[@dudewat212]

Mode ZERO? ... Wow, haha!

[@RomWills]

This dude was at another level that day. He HAD to get laid.

[@lynell3566]

👍👍

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@victorscott7982]

But, how can you "Look Through" someone though?

[@RomWills]

See them without having any bias.

[@victorscott7982]

Rom Wills Got it. Gonna apply this today.

[@christopherduffy1703]

Lol! Mode 4 is the worst of then Rom.

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@rahkeemthegreat360]

great video

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@tevinheath3997]

I agree eye contact is essential. But what makes it even stronger is knowing when you use it effectively/strategic to maximize the sexual and woman's aura. For example, when walking on a trail eye contact is hard so I use my ears to listen first and I consume what she is saying and make mental notes, occasionally make eye contact. But when I walk to her or my car - the eye contact becomes stronger. Also, eye contact can be used to show intention and make her work. I have had women make more eye contact to me because they really liked me and were more concerned why I wasn't giving them attention through my eyes, or the other is they were concerned that they were not beautiful enough....but I was strategic about it...made them wait. And when I did use my eye presence it was a done deal. So eye contact can also be used to to create an aura of mystery until you are ready to unleash your fullest potential. The orgasm with the eyes is a real thing, but usually I noticed doesn't happen immediately, although I does happen (as The Eagle shoutout to Master Yao) it is when the women is complete feeling the me and on the edge of mystery. Such that when I uses eye contact deeply, it releases a new world to her that she could not even imagine. So I use it well, but strategically if I am truly feeling a women and I noticed she is feeling me even more, kind of like a tease with my eye contact - because I need to ensure that she is someone that I truly interested in because the power of eye contact is heavy...(especially with dimes if the conversation is fire initial or she really likes you). I had a date with someone this week, and use eye contact strategically and now when I see her again. All I have to do is stop anywhere and give her deep eye contact and she will melt, but I listen and first and connection emotionally such that the eye contact became even deeper for her. apologies for the length - I had yesterday and I noticed after my eye contact was steering everything

[@0to220]

How would you strategically use it on a date?

[@carlyellison8498]

Eye contact is fine IF consensual. Otherwise...

[@RomWills]

I don't ask anyone permission to look them in the eye. A strong person expects someone to look them in the eye as a sign of respect.

[@AntonioWolfpack]

Carly Ellison do you mean during conversation or just gazing without speaking?

[@nicekix3038]

@Action Potential How do you expect to earn respect, if you can't look someone in the eye?

[@Isee333]

If you are betta

[@jawara.d.king-authorof7books]

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