Dealing with People Speaking Negatively

[@rayebrooks2906]

Thank you Michael ❤

[@hick6871]

I left a very negative work environment where someone else quit today and yes, I was ready to go to work tomorrow and GOSSIP with everyone else. I really needed to hear this. Much love to you and thank you Michael!

[@smo8545]

I love and really appreciate your honest insights. There's so many spiritual teachers and healers talking so obscure unclear and gray... I know they just trying to be kind and nice but that's not what I need for my soul growth. Really appreciate your lectures. Unlimited blessings on you, Michael. Thank you

[@MarkTitus420]

I relate to this. There are people out there who will bash others in order for you to like them. They will talk crap about others in order to attempt gain popularity. I work with a person like that on a daily basis and it's a struggle.

[@OrbAttraction]

I love this michael! Thank you for such a good teaching once again, I just adore you. A few months back I disown a couple of people cuz they weren't my people you know what I mean, anyways I reached out to collect the rest of my belongings and obviously this one male ex friend of mine is very hurt that I didn't play into the game they were trying to play with me. Anyways he took most of the day to reply back the other day, but when he did, oh boy did he spew out quite a bit of evilness... can't believe it took him all day to come up with what he said 🤣 I know what he was saying had nothing to do with me, but I did say.. God sees all and I haven't heard back.. even this ex friend of mine knows the truth. Beinging one of the truth seekers in this lifetime I'm not making money friends, and that's okay the few friends I do have Are My People My Tribe. Light and Love ✌🏼 💜🌈

[@silviagibbons3419]

Thank you for the depth of all your sharing Michael ! Your words really resonate with me and inspire me to show up differently. One of the things that will stay with me out of this is the fact that people gossip about others to feel better about themselves because the feel low ... understanding that helps me to stop gossiping at work and to put the light out to other coworkers-:) Thanks 🙏

[@dayondastribling5080]

Good for you! Where I live I have a character assassin anxuously engaged in trying to shred me. Nobody's listening and eventually the adrenalin won't be so much fun and eveeything will settle down. Meanwhile I get jumped when U least expect it: This assassin doesn't hide behind anything. It STINKS! You've done everyone a great service by giving up gossip. . . Thanks from all of us!

[@bellabuenavidaescobar6602]

So simple and Perfect, if it is God.. thankgoodness for it All 💙🙏

[@castaspell7]

All i can say is : true words . i walked the path on both sides and i woke up real fast . your words , Michael , just confirmed what i have learned and lived . it does not matter what your beliefe system is , as long as you get it . thank you for your time , thoughts and knowledge .even wisdom .blessed be .

[@susangunther2870]

Awesome friday night message. Thank you

[@ta_nimal2023]

"They'll believe it because they want to believe it. And they want to believe it because this was too good." I love this quote. I feel hurt by their harmful negative assumptions about me. But so often, like them, I too have been afraid to recognize good situations available to me... Their gossip is simply fear based. I can forgive without being their doormat.

[@elemenachiel-rashoma44]

because if we get to fiery toward those who are speaking negatively toward us we then become in the negativity do not steal do not kill these relate to gossip because gossiping is stealing someone's good reputation and killing their good name do not have false gods relates to judgmentalism and seeing the person for who they really are rather than a false image projected onto them We get devastated when people say that we have social problems or that we are not in the right in our way of communicating . we used to get devastated when people called us stupid or weird or just when people were mean to us and not light being love kin with us.

[@allrightallrightallright1919]

“Let’s not pretend we’re always bright lights…” isn’t that the truth! 😅 It’s a shame to hear about the small town gossip nature around Sedona. I’ve experienced that in a similar type of town. Great advice on gossip.

[@kimberlywills7219]

1 - All this applies to gossip that is true, too, not just lies. I was so proud of myself once when I stood up to a gossiper. It can be hard, but it feels so good! Someone was going on about a couple's past marital problems, which were getting very personal. I was feeling uncomfortable, and I finally got the courage to say, "So.... hold on a sec.... I just wonder if this is stuff that 'Ann and Jeff' would want all of us knowing, ya know?". The Gossiper stammered and said, "well, everyone knows about it, and it was so long ago..." and luckily someone else changed the topic and she stayed off the gossip for the rest of that night. Sounds silly but I felt like I deserved a trophy for standing up to that particular person, lol! Gossipers can be strong personalities! 💪Just be brave and do it! 2 - I once had 2 Muslim young women approach me at a place we both took classes, around Ramadan, and tell me that part of their tradition is to apologize to people at that time of year. So they apologized to me, and when I asked what for, they said, "well, we apologize for anything, even just thoughts." I didn't press them for what un-godly thoughts they had about me (yikes!), and I was a little weirded-out, but I think I just gave a little, "oh, well, thank you", not knowing what else to say, and they scurried off. 😅

[@mikelobrien]

Thank you for this video. I used to not say anything to gossips and (for social reasons) tolerate it from some people. Not any more! Gossip comes in all kinds of shapes and flavors, including media. I have learned to be discerning and am not okay with those who listen to and/or share gossip any longer.

[@tpriestess]

Is it true? Is it loving? Is it necessary?

[@scarletsummer3526]

❤️❤️❤️ Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@tnt01]

Excellent. Thank you.

[@Cr8ive453]

I've discovered you last week and been listening to you everyday, you arrived at a time when I recognised the ego was attempting to send me back into what I call the dark pit once again; I recognise it happened last year at around the same time, leading to a major relapse; it started with paranoia about people's actions, followed by judgement then the idea of 'Everyone is bad I need to hide'. The ego puts people's lives on hold... It stagnates. The dark pit is where I have been in and out of since entering an abusive relationship in 2014, in the beginning the man inflated my ego by making out I was perfect in every way, by the end he found fault in everything I did, was and looked like. Now I recognise his game worked because I was begging for validation, that instantly gave him power over me. I escaped in 2017 barely alive and it has been quite a process, I've learned from many people namely on this channel since then, and your wisdom is like the icing on the cake, things make perfect sense more than ever now, the ego is the illusion which conditions us into living in fear, it makes us act as if our lives depend on other people's opinions... not anymore. I feel the rising, thank you so much.

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Thank you so much for sharing and for allowing these changes to sink into your being. So sorry to hear of the struggles but glad to hear you are emerging from the Dark Night of the Soul. ~MM

[@dayondastribling5080]

Very useful, thanks Michael!

[@leonievervoort]

thank you dear soul.😘

[@user-tv6bv4ot1f]

I dont think co-workers or ppl actually realize they're slandering other ppl bc it becomes their normal way of communicating. 2 days out of my week i hear my co-workers totally complain and spread a poisonous negative attitude and get other weaker ppl to join in. So, i try to raise their consciousness to a higher dimension. I say positive reflections. " were all Spiritual Creations" having a human experiance, our attitude is just a reflection of our inner existance. I choose to be a Christ example to others and sometimes they follow and sonetimes they dont. Im just not gonna follow them.

[@angyt1070]

Great talk MM. Thanks ♥️

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Glad you enjoyed it! ~MM

[@TheUrsulaJune]

Good video. Practical tool both personally and professionally.

[@elle39]

all you need is LOVE... jl

[@ta_nimal2023]

I've been dating someone whose parents said negative things about me to him (never met the people) and he shared that with me because I sensed something odd & wanted to know. It's very painful but it also feels self-inflicted! I asked and now I choose to worry or take it to heart. Also, it is a dating situation Im choosing and those are very optional scenarios in life 🤦🏼‍♀️. Meanwhile this video brought back funny memories. A few years after high school I "heard" that someone I knew "pulled a gun" on me in high school. It never happened. It was hilarious to hear the gossip belatedly. Fortunately, I think that wound up being pretty harmless gossip. Thank you for the topic.

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

This is a tricky situation because there will eventually come a time when this kind of dynamic will come around in a big enough way that it has to be dealt with. You might have to speak up and tell him to choose between a healthy relationship with you or an unhealthy one with them OR he might have to tell his family to cease sick behaviors or else he'll walk away from them. But something will have to shift for the better or it will blow up. ~MM

[@brindusases6341]

In kabbalistic terms "loshana ra" means evil speach. Gossiping as well as making some one's blood to go to their cheeks (blushing with/because of embersament) is called committing a crime against that soul... Gossiping first it is like a plague spreading, then hits the heart and soul not only the mind. Negativity and evil eye kills us slowly but surely as well. Thank you Michael for your clarity of expression, for examples of how to do my internal work, our work when interacting with each other in relationships, in this realm of physicality, density of form and karmic dynamics here on earth where we are tested to the core of our being. I will call relationships "the soul's battle ground of transformation". A lot to process and integrate ❤ bringing things back into the Light of love, forgiveness and elevated states of consciousness. THANK YOU AGAIN! I DESERVE TO HEAR ALL THESE TEACHINGS BECAUSE I am responsible to be a beacon of Light in this world. It is my duty to correct myself and my deviated ways that takes me out of my CENTER OF MY BEING. You are the catalyst in this process of correction I need to daily apply...

[@mimmycal]

You are so cute..!! and yes ...you are very much on target. Your ability to be honest and free of the shield 😀 Is how those who choose to ....can allow themselves to do the same and increase healing. Thanks mucho.

[@bearifiablepau2095]

This came at a great time! :D

[@kathygross689]

How about speaking in a low class of word choices, meaning cures swears, Are those just words, or are those words cures words..??

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Yes. They are just words. It's the intention that makes them high or low in vibration. ~MM

[@kathygross689]

How about if there older , are they old souls?? Like on this planet those can be mean towards others, I experienced this, any helpful thoughts

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Sorry but not clear about question. And by the way, the term "old soul" does not necessarily mean old as in how long ago the person first incarnated here. So it's not old in age, it's old in experience--meaning old soul refers to someone who has incarnated MANY times and learned many things. ~MM

[@kathygross689]

@@MichaelMirdadTeacher ok, I get it about the old soul, so my question is about when the human being get old in age, I believe those go through something, yet some of them are mean in there conduct, there, attitude, character and so on, why would this happen?

[@rayebrooks2906]

If it's not God speaking, why do we take it on. That is so simple and yet profound at the same time

[@MichaelMirdadTeacher]

Thank you. I'm glad you could see/feel that. ~MM