Dealing with TOXIC PARENTS? How can parents know they are TOXIC to the kids? | The Mummy Logic #7

Hello everyone!
The Mummy Logic is an unfiltered and non-judgemental space for all families to hear and share their life stories through the viewpoint of ‪@sarahsarosh‬ and Mummy - Sylvia D’costa! 👩‍👧
Growing up, we all feel like our mother's logic doesn't make any sense - only to realise that their stories were all unheard of and how can you expect logic without reason?
so the Mummy Logic is going to allow that free space for all moms to bond with their children and feel comfortable accepting their mistakes, telling their stories and creating a safe, non judgemental community 💛
Disclaimer: All our view points are OURS alone and not influenced by any third person. We do not intend to hurt any feelings or sentiments via our content so Please keep the comments respectful even when opinionated! 💛
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💛Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction
01:19 - What is toxic parenting?
03:10 - Sarah's toxic parenting experience
07:44 - Why was a difference in parenting between two children?
11:43 - What is toxic from a child's point of view?
13:15 - How can parent's remove toxicity at home?
19:13 - How did Sylvia (Mummy) unlearn and relearned the methods of parenting?
24:22 - Parenting Evolution: Current Approach V/S Childhood Experience
27:14 - A child's point of view for Better Parenting practices
29:21 - What kind of parenting is required with today's generation?
34:09 - Conclusion
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See you next Friday!🎙️

[@Samirakarimvlogs]

I respect the way she accepts her past mistakes as a parent . I appreciate every conversation and points you guys made❤ blessings to you both ❤

[@safuraafreenali9175]

Aunty is just amazing and speaking exactly how the parents are … Sarah as a brilliant kid is god ‘s gift …

[@SeeratSN]

Love starting my day with these two! 🥰 This topic hit home! I’m sure a lot of us found this very relatable. The fact that you share your personal stories to portray the message is commendable. ❤ Love the honesty! I’m gonna miss this once season 1 comes to an end 🙁

[@preetkaursethi]

finallyyyyy Sarah said it no one understands the pain literally well said. parents ofc dont wish bad but there are boundaries for every type of relationship. the pressure is unreal

[@LifeLuxe-vibes]

Hi Sarah this one is one of the most raw and deeper ❤❤video between a mother and a daughter. Really loved this❤❤

[@mayuriprabhu6789]

Such a pleasure to see you can have such an amazing conversation with your mom on not so easy topics. Keep the baatein going 👏🏼👏🏼

[@SonuPandaGaming]

I don't think many people understand what toxic parenting actually means.. Aunty brought out so many good points.. Personally I've faced toxic behaviour from my mother and saying this as no one would curse their own kids however mine did.. She is not a part of my life but before she left she cursed me that i would never get married and never be happy coz I'm ugly.. This has impacted my life even now.. Listening to the podcast i feel Sarah you have been very lucky and blessed to have good parenting... Maybe mistakes made but love how aunty accepts and apologises for it ❤️ take care always

[@kavitanair9209]

Appreciate the fact that your mom does understand and accept the fact with whatever was done before may have not have been correct. There can be ifs and buts which should be talked out. Not everyone does it.. It is to understand the mental state of your child as well. Which does not happen these days. Open and good conversation Sarah ❤..totally relatable in every house hold. Once again ❤❤ to you MOM. She is ❤❤❤

[@maccieeeeeeee]

Extremely relatable! Loved this

[@utkalikasahani9914]

An epic discussion 😊 Slyvia ma'am, your thoughts are so insightful and you never fail to acknowledge and learn from the doings, which is very inspiring 😀 thank you for sharing 🎉

[@shruti7638]

Love you sara keep growing and hustling. You are such an inspiration to us ❤

[@jyotiy2964]

What a touching topic!!!

[@Vini_04]

This was a really good episode, one of my favourites episodes from season 1 ❤

[@jyotss2009]

Congratulations for discussing such a tough and sensitive topic. How do u both stay so strong while discussing such sensitive topics? I was choking and about to cry while listening to having faced the same pressure to get into MBBS and ultimately chose it to escape the "toxic" environment and not because I wanted to do MBBS. Though now I understand that pressure from parents was because they thought that was best for me. Thankfully God showed me to take a path what was ideal for me, and I went into clinical research and medical writing. More power to you, Sarah and Sylvia! Keep up this good work.

[@themummylogic]

Thank you for the love!💜

[@suhanaas723]

29:20 that was sooo true!!! One of the best episodes and soo relatable.. ❤🥺 this duo is amazing... just can't wait to have a season 2💫🤍

[@relate_with_dhanu676]

I have really toxic parents and relatives family members like everyone Is sooo toxic and Sarah I must say you are inspiring me be self dependent and strong lots of love❤

[@saniyasayra1890]

This is gonna be lit. So many people would relate

[@monikajogdand4781]

It is hard to stay with toxic parents actually, I've learnt one most imp thing that healthy communication, healthy environment and healthy boundaries should be there. Thank you so sarah for starting the mummy logic , today generation can learn both side like parents and child's and they will able to change their behaviour. Love you so much #SarahSquad ❤❤

[@amritanshukumar464]

I never comment on any of ur videos or podcasts but what was it I mean watched it in one shot so well portrayed the child and parents perspective ❤thank u so much for sharing this with us it was very emotional and touching at the same time I am sending it to my parents rn they need to watch it ❤️

[@shalughorpade]

I could relate with what Sylvia was talking. She was honest . She is a good mother

[@shilparani6050]

Great great discussion ❤

[@adityachaudhuri7803]

OMG, it's really a kahani ghar ghar ki.. I relate so much, the way Sarah you have expressed your feelings.. My son is 10 years old, he doesn't use the word Toxic but he reacts sometimes exactly the way you expressed yourself today. Definitely this episode is a good learning for parents ❤

[@ananyaislam7147]

When aunt said 1st kid is a experimental child😊i can feel it 💯 i'm 23, my siblings r 17 & 13.Both of my patents r now 1000times cooler with them.sometimes i really feel sad for myself😊 but trust me i personally learn so may parenting things by myself😺i'll never experiment on a kid inshaAllah. Love you aunt & Sarah❤️🧿

[@jyotiraj8959]

Love love loved it ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@anweshasureka801]

Very relatable ❤

[@kavitabhardwaj7849]

Excellent conversation ❤

[@isratnasrin8044]

Though I never commented but at the first half when you were describing your symptoms I felt like you were talking about me... And also I heard the term for first time... I cried listening to you... There are days even I want to die... I went to various doctors... No one recognized what is really wrong with ne

[@shreyaraval6426]

You and aunty are doing great job .. we can totally relate to it... somewhere the other points in our life.. ❤❤❤ thankyou Sarah..❤❤❤ totally loving all your podcast

[@anishasoreng9719]

So relatable episode ❤plzz bring season 2 🎉🎉

[@ashuchaudhary2281]

Love it ❤

[@livewithranjana608]

Sylvia maam is absolutely correct 👍 she is highly experienced or really moms logic ❤ireally enjoy your talk 😊very relative ❤

[@ritumakwana2455]

Hats off to you mommy, I appreciate you a lot

[@farhanaqureshi9078]

All parents do their best. Koodos to both of you.

[@vanshikavinodiya8670]

The episodes are so eye opening and relatble ..we would love to watch sabrina di on the podcast too ❤..lots of love 😘

[@the_cosmoholic_8]

Very relevant episode Sarah and Aunty ❤

[@Being.-.safiya]

Always lovee urr podcasts ❤❤ Gonna miss urr podcasts if thiss will be end 😢❤ Butt surely u will come with something nicee thiss timee forr auree❤❤

[@SwatiPandey]

this is so relatable sara, i just want this conversation with my mother and want the same understanding . this is so good nazar na lge blessuhh

[@humeraiqbal3409]

Sara it is so relatable ❤

[@eutopia107]

This episode is a gem 💎. Sylvia aunty can easily make any generation understand her point of view which is valid too of course.

[@monikaagarwal3394]

Such a bold podcast 🎉 superb and kudos to mother - daughter duo 👏 ❤️

[@_jahnavibaksi_]

Damn Sabrina takes the spotlight in every show and I would love to hear from her what was her experience so please bring Sabrina on the podcast too!!!!

[@Shinepanda1125]

Love you selvia aunty and Sarah ofcrse #sarahsquad... definitely I will share in my family group

[@jyotiraj8959]

My mom is very chilled she is like do what u want to do ❤❤❤❤

[@sangeetabansal8175]

Great communication..🎉🎉

[@nailakhan3139]

Soo soo soo relatable I'm of the same batch of MHCET changing to NEET giving that entrance exam that phase of life it was the most traumatic time of my life.

[@Sindhu731]

Sylvia aunty you are just amazing. Sarah once you get from your trip please give a big and a tight hug to aunty. ❤

[@pratikshasalvi6006]

Love you both so much 💗 ❤️ 😘 more power to you ❤️ keep it up 👍😘❤️

[@positivevibes4225]

Very nice topic u've chosen..I would only tell to all teenagers (genZ) one thing that u can never experience parents concerns , worries , expectations until u become parents urself.. a middle class women or men just give up on themselves as they become parents..and definitely it's their experience only which they didn't wanted their kids to suffer with... Either u call it toxicity or whatever but being a mother or a father can't leave their children on their own and learn... currently there is so much happening e.g. rapes , broken relationships , wrong friendship or didn't allow me to become model or anything..how parents can do that or let them wear whatever they want..No.. not possible... definitely they want their children to be safe ..

[@ambreenazad8873]

This woman is so secured as a person I want to be like you aunty when am your age and I wish my mother have a little bit of confidence like you (for her wellness) she is a cutiee but for herself I wanted to have that confidence like you she sees all her ambitions in me. I wish to meet you someday❤❤

[@tajmunkhatoon5192]

So so relatable and it is so true what u all talked about the bond of children and parents are so relatable and yes every episode is amazing and so relatable ❤❤loving how you and aunty are trying to change people perspective and thinking and putting across your views is amazing ❤❤love you Sarah and Aunty ❤

[@themummylogic]

Thank you for the love!💜

[@nidhicharate]

we want sabrina in mummy logic

[@TheLifestyledaires]

I can so relate to this made me cry fr😭😭

[@yaramuni1427]

mindsetter gang🙋‍♀️ can completely agree

[@sanahessa786]

I hope we bump into each other someday as we stay near by not too far I just love aunty’s way of talking always and today episode was quite relatable being a mom to 13 year old ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤u too are amazing Sarah 🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@kopaltripathi330]

Simply love this mom beti jodi ❤️❤️

[@niraliarvind]

Really addictive 🥺

[@Zabeena_]

Toooo good

[@dilshadmulani4540]

This topic I like similar like my daughter .Tku for knowledge

[@unsweetened_lemonade_]

33:59 definitely agree with aunty. Every parents want their child to be excellent. And I think there is nothing wrong with that because of course everyone wants their child to be happy and excellent in whatever they want to do. Every parent wants the best for their child. But yes one should never put pressure on the child to be the best

[@Mamata_]

love mummy logic. hehe

[@ashwinipatil9067]

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww..aunty full respect

[@sakshiiii970]

The entrance exams have toxic competition you are right, I am also preparing for NEET ! so relatable 😭👍

[@smritydwivedi352]

Awesome vlog and Aunty ji is such a motivation for us that we learn how to speak and put everything like feeling in front of others 👍👍you and Aunty ji both are my favorite ❤️ ❤️ both of you looking so beautiful 👰 👰 lots of love ❤️ ❤️ god bless you both 🙏 🙏

[@vrushaaadeshra3590]

Awaiting for Your next video

[@nirupama28]

I like you guys....you Mom is cool...my Mom is very old but she is as cool as she is.

[@Livya84]

This needs to be heard by every parent. Please try to translate/ subtitle in Hindi

[@suhanabhattacharyya758]

I know it must have been hard for both of you guys, Sarah and aunty to talk on this topic. But the fact that you talked about it openly is really appreciate. Thank you.

[@Sabari862]

Ur dad should also make a guest appearance in mummy logic

[@priyankakaul]

Already waiting for next episode ❤

[@sangeetabansal8175]

Your mom is ideal mom

[@sandilimahale3676]

Silviya mam is great ❤

[@poojasirari]

Hindi version too for this podcast my mother too need to listen this Sarah❤

[@themummylogic]

Thank you for your feedback!💜 We will surely work on this for the next season! Thank you for the love💛

[@poojamalhotra7592]

never saw sarah content here because of Sylvia JI

[@tahseenahmad4891]

Someone please dub this in Hindi.. North Indian parents need to watch this.. ITS A MUST!!✨

[@shivangimishra2560]

Love your podcast love you sara di and auntie 💕💕💕💕💕😊😊😊😊😊😊😊💕💕💕💕 stay happy forever 💕💕💕💕😊😊😊😊😊💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@manindra5382]

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[@nikitashah5135]

Hi... ❤❤❤❤❤ mummy logic If possible can we try to hv more of hindi conversations so I can share ur videos to those parents who do not understand much of English

[@themummylogic]

Thank you for your feedback!💜 We will surely work on this for the next season! Thank you for the love💛

[@keshvikeraliya9378]

Hii Sarah merko to apka podcast best lagta he

[@bhavikapatel1818]

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[@sangeetabansal8175]

Your Mom doesn't look like a mother. She is looking very young ❤

[@prajnapradhan07]

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[@njrl0909]

@themummylogic is Sylvia Anju and Sophies sister?

[@shruti7638]

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[@prernajainn]

Beautiful podcast for parents .. but Sarah just a small suggestion mostly pls do it in Hindi too as I want my mom to listen she can understand English bt nt this fluent .. many Indian moms dads still nt comfortable with complete English podcast

[@themummylogic]

Thank you for your feedback!💜 We will surely work on this for the next season! Thank you for the love💛

[@seharrehman8152]

I mother is churail

[@pravingamer5048]

Sara please do not stop this show... It's so insightful... Your mum is such a wise woman so much to learn from❤❤🤌🤌#sarahsqad

[@sonal20999]

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[@vrundadesai112]

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[@kalpanapatel6162]

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[@vrundadesai112]

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