Dear co-wife: Am sorry i ruined your marriage. I brought a curse on myself, please bless my kids

This is my plea to my co-wife,
I came to your marriage and ruined it. I took your husband and lived with him for years. We even got children. From the day we started co-habiting, he stopped from coming to your home and to his children.
I thought i had won over you. Now look at me. I can’t even count the number of times my kids have been admitted to hospital. I know i brought a curse on myself…may God have mercy on me
But i plead with you, please bless my kids. Only you can free them. For it is God who says’whatever we bind on earth will be bound in heaven and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven
Please…

[@MethayaKagoni]

​My Dear viewer, I know this story is very emotive. I know we would be tempted to call Victoria names and even rub it on her face that Karma is a b*****but please let's be respectful in our comments. Let's remember that we follow a God of second chance. Let's remember that some of the greatest saints like St Paul, St Mary Magdalene, St Augustine, were once great sinners. Let us bless Victoria with the same words of Jesus 'Go and do not sin again.' Let us pray and hope that the woman whose this message is intended for will soften her heart. That the Holy Spirit may give her the resolve and the power to forgive her and bless Victoria's kids. And for those of us who may be in such destructive relationships, may we; in this period of lent, call to mind our sins and change our ways. AMEN This my plea to you my faithful follower. Yours Monica

[@bethwambui99]

Amen

[@zipporahkibe7480]

She's so mature,owning up to mistakes she did is the best thing ever.May she find peace.

[@emmahmuchami540]

May God see you thru,and heal your soul

[@mageembarikiwa2991]

Victoria don't worry..wanaume dio wabaya cos hawatocheki.

[@mickeymedia4583]

Women should stop blaming themselves

[@rachaelkinyua7453]

My beautiful neighbor ..happy to see you ..there's nothing nice like a sincere confessing heart God hears🙏

[@vickytash2849]

Well done Victoria for coming out clean and owning your mistakes. You've opened many our hearts and eyes. It's time to do the right thing before kids suffers. No one is perfect in the eyes of the Lord and he has surely forgiven you. Lots of love girl

[@lucykiiru5211]

A broken spirit and a contrite heart, the Lord will not despise. The Lord has already forgiven her. This is the heart that David had, a repentant heart. May the Lord bless you Veronica.

[@keziahnduta2740]

Exactly 💯

[@ruthkinyanjui4700]

David never sinned, he took a divorced wife🙏🏼

[@tabbiemwas7478]

@@ruthkinyanjui4700 David killed Uriah in order to sleep with the wife isn't that sin to u?

[@WakarimaWaKariri]

@@tabbiemwas7478 the problem is that our society has normalised male infidelity.

[@ishiwawaim]

@ruthkinyanjui read your Bible baby girl the book of Psalms is mostly David repenting and crying to God for forgiveness and partially him praising and honoring God. @LucyKiiru I echo you 💯

[@skinnyzebra8626]

Great job Monica as usual, it’s wonderful to see someone taking full accountability, may God hear your repentant heart & heal your spirit,my hope is that in our country or rather African culture we are going to start distributing the shame evenly, it all started with this man who knew very well he was married when he began chasing after her

[@denniszackmanvibes.4259]

Monica your parting shot words are so beautiful and encouraging. Thanks for such educative interview

[@keziahnduta2740]

She is a very wise lady. Knowing you are wrong and admitting it, n asking for forgiveness is wisdom from above GOD will bless you my sister

[@wairimusimiyu7899]

Asking for forgiveness when the first wife and kids were crying alikua ana Raha tu..weee reke nemwo

[@betty541]

@@wairimusimiyu7899 So far I feel like most people are disregarding the feelings of the first wife. She is entitled to her feelings too and while the guest is remorseful, the first wife should not be forced or rushed into forgiving. Also, why is the husband being let off the hook here? He was as much in the wrong as she was.

[@sarahwambui5287]

No she is not

[@keziahnduta2740]

@@betty541 a wise person will just forgive without being forced that's why many of us are not really bothered whether she will forgive or not. If she is human, and also makes mistakes,she will forgive. Bcoz she can't receive forgiveness from GOD if she doesn't forgive others We are just rejoicing n celebrating this woman whose eyes,GOD HIMSELF has opened. That's all

[@betty541]

Keziah, I hear you..but let's agree to disagree here. I am uncomfortable with people telling the aggrieved party how to feel and what to do and yet she alone is in those shoes. There is nothing unwise about taking things at her own pace and doing what she pleases...it is her life we are talking about here..not anyone else's. Plus not all of us are necessarily religious, so the whole God won't forgive you if you don't forgive others does not fly. Shw should do as she sees fit..let's allow her the grace to do so. Thank you.

[@nellyspodcast]

This is an eye opener for me... Needed to hear this

[@pharisnganga2012]

What a woman who humbles herself this much. Thank you Monica for asking questions and in a tone that is very compassionate... God bless you always make me come back for wonderful content.

[@margaretwanjeri3817]

May God make all sidechicks leave married men we are suffering taking care the kids alone.

[@susangititia3067]

Amen and Amen

[@hannahnganga5094]

Amen

[@yahchildg7283]

That is why is is key to stop engaging in premarital sex n wait till marriage....to avoid having kids outside wedlock,ladies should also stop day dreaming for a tall handsome rich man and give sailor a chance that avail themselves in their peak times,not waiting till 30s and then say there are no men...to marry. N start dating married men,wen maybe they rejected a man who would have bin a good husband all to herself

[@maryk8801]

I like the way Monica ask questions, very effective and efficient. Monica,you are full of wisdom, may God help you always.

[@Shiku355]

Thanks you for being brave and sharing your story and accepting your mistakes.

[@TabithaM44]

Wise lady and that the Start of healing,God is God of mercies and they start after knowing your mistake.

[@annenjenga9080]

First wives pesa zote zinapelekewa slayqueens,but there is God in heaven ,what goes round comes round

[@liznyambu7909]

That's a lie every man who respects his wife and kids will never do that

[@belindakangai4]

Madam Jesus....mwanaume mgani anaedeangwa kwake?

[@steveykimson3158]

, I'm man with his young family 👪 and I thank God but I vividly remember how my own mother suffered n the hands of ths core wives, I remember one day, side chick approached my mum and told her that she's surprised to know she's not dead since my dad told her mum died few year's ago, battle never ends there and I remember another side chick made my mother life miserable to an extent of running 🏃‍♀️ 😢 to every pastor's to seek for help which she couldn't get. , instead they drained her financially, my mum had a lot of bitterness and it affected me so much being her last born, close friend and confidant. Sadly my mum could not cope so well with grief and she died peacefully and my entire life wrecked 💔 😔 I have never recovered but it's well with my soul. After the burial dad would bring different ladies at our matrimonial home 🏡 and it crashed my spirit, even during the burial any person could tell he was not there mentally only busy body when me, my brother and sister's overwhelmed by the grief which shook 💔 the entire village..to cut the story short my dad life has never be the same again after few year's and I hate him so much..I always confess to my wife even though I'm man things can happen, I will never let her go through what my lovely mum went through and may the lord help me I pray...may she continue resting peacefully n God hands and may dad pay the heavy price.

[@eunicedallas4508]

This is sad enough, 🥲🥲, I won’t say much, My mom has been and still is in those shoes though she’s still alive, but her health has deteriorated a lot

[@steveykimson3158]

@@eunicedallas4508 very sad to hear that, through my own experience please advice your mama to run 🏃‍♀️ for her dear life, but mostly they don't want to go always justification that I'm here because of you as my children and I always wonder is it better to move on and enjoy the rest of your life with your children or u stay, die and your lovely children left struggling like I do?? I always blame my mum too bcz my agreement was when I left for greener pastures she will move away but she didn't now look how I struggle with her loss...anyways God knows better btw I wish you well together with your loved one's.

[@susankaburu4527]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@judymburu8898]

Very heartbreaking Stevey. God be with you and your siblings

[@steveykimson3158]

@@judymburu8898 Amen 🙏 🙌 👏

[@annebaker8518]

Monica I have gone through hell with my.girls bcoz of one woman who broke my home it hurts so much.bcoz watoto hawakufika kwenye walikua wafike kimasomo vitu mingi ziliharibika may they stop breaking marriages aki watoto wanaumia but machozi tumelia.Mungu atatulipishia

[@preetyfavor2222]

Very true mungu atakulipishia hio machozi na ya watoto wako pia

[@waridim9249]

@erick ngenye Usipatikane. Hakuheshimu hata kidogo. Na watoto wako walikosa masomo.

[@lynetoto2616]

Mimi nalea wangu watatu peke yangu na baba yao ana enjoy tu maisha na mwanamke mwingine na watoto wao but Mungu atatulipizia tu

[@mercymwihia4782]

Pole dia take heart vengeance belongs to God may their be bright in jesus name ..he got our backs whatsoever the hardship of traitors and dark moments in the name of marriage

[@purityleah525]

It's very true

[@faitharisson7002]

This is the best show ever monica kagoni many marriages will heal God bless you and extend your territories

[@wanjirukariuki1]

This lady is bold enough and genuine. You are already forgiven and the man too is to blame because he had all the time to make her a second wife officially .

[@Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes]

She is such a strong woman, and accepting her mistakes! May the goat wife find in her heart to forgive you💖💕. May God heal your babies, nothing is impossible with Him🙏🙌

[@ediththuo406]

Victoria 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You are a brave woman May God bless you and your children Don't worry God does not look for the perfect ones,He perfects us. Thanks Monica for the interview.

[@rosendunge4217]

Waa i don't know even what to..the humbleness of this lady is in another level..even she didn't let it go far, only 7yrs and here she is asking for forgiveness..what a precious lady..u open my eyes in another way and thank you Victoria

[@sarahmuresh8665]

First wife is always blessed as the founder of home

[@waruth3142]

Hapo kwa "founder" pana key

[@kmipos]

You have done the right thing and your courage is in another level, forgiving yourself is the most important thing even God has forgiven you

[@lucywambui7306]

Thank you for sharing your story. This is a huge lesson to we young ladies who are about to make such irrational relationship decisions.

[@janenjoroge7507]

"if you've never sinned stone this lady" Let's not judge. I believe the Lord has forgiven her,she has repented and requested for forgiven.

[@mageembarikiwa2991]

Bt yur not the first one to do so huyu mzee angeongea na first wife amwabie so take heart Victoria.....may GOD heal yur kids watapona tu.

[@margaretmaina4254]

I believe the same thing but people who don’t believe in forgiveness they can’t forgive.May God bless Victoria. She’s already forgiven

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

I wish you are the cheated wife then we shall accept your words. Otherwise ni moshi

[@marynjeri1979]

God doesn't judge us but every choice we make in our life good or bad it has consequences

[@blessedmama5367]

Only those in her shoes that can side with her ! A sincere forgiveness is asked to the person that one has offended period !

[@moniwawarikuo2253]

She's very eloquent n understands the meaning of real confession, repentance and forgiveness 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@kateleenwanjiko3188]

Beautiful soul, heart after God, broken spirit in our days there is this kind of girls we thank God Victoria thank you for brave act, May Almighty God bless you

[@tabbymwaura6577]

Ooooh what a testimony Victoria God will bless and place you in space

[@thepathfindermedia4228]

This woman deserves forgiveness from God and the cowife.She is one in a million.Victoria may God intervine and wipe your tears

[@lucykamunya7649]

Baby gal, don't be too hard on yourself, children do get sick, even those that belong to the goat wives get admitted over and over ....pray for your children,God is a loving and compassionate,full of mercy and a million more chances.... complete healing to your babies,Amen

[@milkah8425]

I agree polygamy has been there since kitambo

[@itsgigy]

Never make someone cry coz of selfishness...put yourself in the shoes of that woman umepata kwa hiyo nyumba.

[@ruthwangari3403]

It is because of people like you that my family is never stable to date 40 years of tears in marriage. May the Lord have mercy on our homes and the tears that we shed everyday.If you have truly left that family.May the Lord forgive you to even give you eternal life coz He died to save us all.

[@lucykamunya7649]

@@ruthwangari3403 ,my comment got nothing to do with families, cheating partners or what nots, it's about her and her children...the pain of a mother seeing her kids suffer,Point is, she should dedicate her children to God ,He is a God of mercy and full of second chances I'm sorry about your 40 years of tears,my comment was just about the sickly kids,God hears and heals...after all this woman has already left the man and the goatwife already forgave her and they met

[@tsoniejohn4718]

Wow that heart is genuine and the request for forgiveness is deeply true.. my classmate Vicky God has heard your request. you're forgiven🙏

[@ahasu]

Courageous and religiously principled, wish yu luck in all your future endeavors.

[@waithirakibunja7179]

The first wife must be very prayerful.She is a wise woman hakuna mahali alitusiana or fought a physical fight .He fought on her knees and she has won

[@njeri_waruiru7694]

I remember I prayed to God and told Him to let His will be done! Then boom vitu zikawa poa

[@annwangombe3628]

I hope Betty wamaitha will listen to this coz Ruth wa mum has seen it all..

[@marionnjoroge441]

Na Tabby kamotho even after loosing her son and another epileptic hakuachana na bwana ya wenyewe

[@lucymuhoro2194]

And Mary Lincoln. I guess the 1st wife of njogu wa Njoroge keeps crying.

[@janenjoroge7507]

I pray that God may grant you peace, peace to the 1st wife and heal your children. You are a strong woman it's not easy to share such a story.

[@lizzysnest3913]

Victoria God will heal your heart. Thankyou for being soo courageous and inspiring young ladies to live right.

[@gracewangare5027]

Watu wa kusoma comments tuko wapi?

[@purityshiku2099]

she is a beautiful girl in heart. There is not sin that is unforgivable. God will never reject the prodigal son

[@josphinewambui6563]

Huyu ni wife material

[@shikohmuriithi5216]

These are what we call genuine mistakes....She never knew anakosea mtu.The good thing about her story is that she is apologetic..I hope the 1st wife will forgive her.

[@betty541]

I think she knew exactly what she was doing. She says as much in her confession and apology.

[@jasintamutua3302]

She has repeatedly repented so whether the first wife has forgiven her or not before God she has confessed her sins . Am am a victim of this my husband married a second wife took him to our matrimonial home slept on my bed and was left confused 13 years now .The wife is so proud she abused me with the support of the family and my husband .But I hold no bitterness on them have sincerely forgiven them and moved on with my kids all are grown up now and I thank God .

[@susannzuki3324]

I like ur courage Victoria, I hope and pray that woman will find a place in her heart and forgive you..

[@margaretkariuki509]

The tears I cried in 2019 and the tears my son cried in 2020 are about to be answered...God of vengeance hurry for us please 🙏🙏

[@itsjuliam]

May God answer you speedily! I saw my mom cry those tears and I cried alongside her. But God heard us and acted. May He do the same for you.

[@jenpherwairimu449]

She deserves forgiveness,how I wish my stepmother see this,she been hell on earth putting a barrier between us and our dad

[@catherinekamera4275]

Someone did that to my children, put a barrier between them and their dad, for many years they have not seen each other, even if they meet on the way, they cannot recognize each other

[@salomemueni100]

Metha ya kagoni I agree with you.. May the healing power of God reach Victoria's children in jesus Big name. AMEN AMEN AMEN

[@georgenjau8069]

One of the best show emotional and am looking forward to first wife respond

[@mercyfaith3021]

Me too coz am wondering wat will she say

[@steveykimson3158]

Atii aroigireee endiee mbereeee🤭🤭🤭🤫🤫🤫🤔🙉🙊

[@georginamakena1660]

Aki first wife mungu awape nguvu,mtu akikamuuuua akimaliza anarudishia first wife 😭

[@serahamennjeri2080]

Weeee

[@graxekary9847]

Na Ana apologize with crocodile tears🤣🤣

[@rachelmaina2680]

@@graxekary9847 akwende huko jangili

[@paulinewahome2562]

Love it that Monica gives people right of reply

[@joyjoy623]

Wonderful realizing and repenting may GOD hear your prayers

[@emmahmuchami540]

Do you have to go through all this stress to consider your ways?

[@christinekamau9122]

Monica you have done a good job here! The first wife and children have lived with the pain of absence of a father and husband in their lives. I greatly commend the kind of restraint that the first wife and daughter show when around the second wife. The first wife and her children must be given time to work through the process of forgiveness without being rushed, it will not be easy and it may never happen all the way. They do have very painful wounds.

[@wairegijulius9587]

To be honest, i don't blame this lady. She went in as a second wife, and there is nothing wrong with that. If the blame was to come, then am blaming the MAN

[@Rachel-db2xo]

Tru

[@The_Clinic]

Seems like everyone overlooks the role of the man in creating such messes.

[@MamaNjesh]

And it is the man who pursued Victoria.

[@annenjenga3413]

True

[@NJOKIYULEMMOJA]

Yes and muigai wa njoroge and de john demethew are examples

[@estherwahome9889]

Thanks for being brave enough to come out

[@veronicamuzulu2939]

Vicky God bless you !!!! You and your children are in my prayers!!!!

[@sabinawanjirumugucia9391]

What a story, worth listening, Victoria has a good heart, has known her mistake and ready to ask for forgiveness. May God intervene into her life. May the co wife forgive her people make mistake.

[@evalynewanjiku5467]

She's so brave to come out coz some women will start dropping comments n they r sidechiqs n have the audacity to point fingers. As the Bible says, confess ua sins and you will be forgiven.....

[@hellenkasyoka6745]

True

[@esperanzawanjiru2435]

it seems your mpango wenu is here too au

[@lucynjuguna9653]

Power of prayer.may she be forgiven and become a lesson to other destroyers

[@hodiakennedy2515]

You are a strong woman Victoria ,blessed and forgiven. God be with you always

[@essiemofficial1002]

Me and my children we have gone through hell since 2007 he has never help even a penny but I blame my ex husband because I don’t know what he told her, but those who do it knowingly may God punish them because I can’t be able to explain the pain I have gone through and still going through May God vindicate us, I know you are God of vengeance

[@hannahnganga5094]

Very true may they never now peace those who do it intentionally

[@agnesmaizah3834]

@Essie M Official hugs dear that pain cannot be compared with anything karma will be served them well

[@keddisnjeri3565]

Gal pray n God will judge those who pass you through pain

[@teresiandegwa6698]

Please call a spade a spade,alikosea because even after knowing Yuko na family,she continued staying.,.woi muka mukoro ethagwo gwa thokana.... it's indeed painful... when you break a home,you start battles with God!!!! and that's a fact!

[@wambuibwaweru6920]

having kids with the man unafaa uelewe mtoto si mkate ataenda kuuza, kids come with responsibilities

[@gracenzomo9386]

You left him when he fell sick and money got scarce.

[@gracenzomo9386]

Your pastor never told you that having someone's husband is a sin?....

[@amorwanjiru275]

A story that is very close to home... without mentioning names and relationships am gonna briefly tell a story here ....so this one woman that got married as a second wife put the first wife through so much hell till she left, this second wife now settled there completely and got kids ...first child a bit disabled second child celebral palsy third child shida za akili so she thought ati ni karma or maybe she is paying for the hell she put the first wife but truly the first wife left na akawaachia Mungu and went on to raise her children....alikua mtu anajua Mungu na kumpenda so aliwaachia Mungu na kueka watoto wake na maisha ya watoto wake kwa mikono ya Mungu.....first forward to second wife's third child she started regretting and apologizing to the first wife...the husband left her akisema halei differently abled children till now huyo mama analia yet the first wife other than ile machungu ya what she went through before leaving hananga shida na wao...this is a message for anyone that wants to put another woman through such pain, any gachugwa intending to come destroy a family and such please think twice

[@irenembugua7817]

You have done well Victoria. The Lord forgives and forgets. May he make a way for you to get the forgiveness you need from the other lady.

[@phyliswakio9460]

"As far is East is from West, so has He separates us from our sins".. God is pleased with such a heart, may He restore your peace and life. And if it His will, may He bless you with a husband of your own.

[@shikufm9690]

Thumbsup Mrs Kagoni for a job well done, yu're such a darling may our almighty God bless you. Victoria,kutenda kosa si kosa but kosa nikurudia, yu've known and repented your sins and hakuna dhambi ambayo our God hawezi samehe and we hope that your co-wife will also forgive you. We are all sinners it's just that we sin differently,so i can't judge you. All the best Victoria,it is well ❤️❤️❤️

[@Faymbuina]

It's good to seek forgiveness but you made somebody suffer alot

[@janewainaina6292]

VICTORIA YOUR. For given be blessed

[@rosierosita.7235]

Kiumbani ni kiumbani, I had a relationship with an married man but alikua njangiri, I caught him with other younger girls than me. Don't beat yourself so much, mistakes are there to be made. Gods Grace is unlimited.

[@bernadettendungu9858]

That is the man. What about you. The lady is not referring to the man but herself.

[@stellangoka7032]

Victoria your my hero, God bless you for tough decision you made. May God reward you abundantly with your kids and bless and heal them. God will use you heal many families. I salute you 👏

[@lydiahmuigai]

Monica you are the best and you are so wise and humble ❤️

[@fridahnkatha9589]

My sister thank you for your confession and accepting your mistake! God has already forgiven you! Am Sure the goat 🐐 wife will forgive you, then you don't have to take the blame alone even the man made a mistake I hope he comes to the show too! Victoria God will see you through because of the decision you have made but don't deny the father of your children an opportunity to take responsibility of his kids they have a right 👍 to be with their dad! Otherwise I wish you well!

[@hannahkuria3645]

Victoria l thank God for His grace upon your life. I am a victim of the other woman but no matter how painful it is God honour those who turn around and realize and accept their wrong doing. May the family you are seeking forgiveness from find it in their heart to forgive you and release you. Remember this there is another woman in my life right now.

[@patriciamwaura5859]

For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God..... Every Saint is a sinner who fell down and got up.... What Victoria did may be wrong but finding the courage to stand up and own her mistakes matters.... Our God is Mighty to save.... May you find peace and forgiveness.

[@lucywambui604]

God love's you ... asking for forgiveness is a great sign of humility,may your co wife forgive and Bless you and your kids🙏

[@naomiwangari4794]

He who pleases God he makes his enemies b at peace with him. Shalom sister

[@christthykingdomcome2776]

A free woman she is..Whoever does not forgive her its on you….(including co-wife)Far as God is concerned she is free like a bird

[@blessedmama5367]

How sure are you !? Mathew 16:19 …. whatever is loosed here on earth is loosed in heaven and what’s bound here on earth is bound in heaven . If the wife has bound her she is bound !

[@marymutavi5446]

Amen,

[@agnesmaizah3834]

@Blessed mama very true👍✅

[@jennifermcwhortet7934]

I wonder what Gospel many Christians know or understand. Forgiveness is from God. No human being really forgives another. Ask Forgiveness from God. Then forgive yourself. Forgive yourself.God forgave you 2000 Years ago. Period.

[@blessedmama5367]

@@jennifermcwhortet7934 Good backed up by a scripture or scriptures ….thats what “ Golpel” is ….

[@annetnyambura2089]

another woman did the same to me and even went to a point ya kuniambia...."usifikirie huku utarudi tafuta mbaba akuoe"those words burnt my heart so much ..i cried to God na for sure he answered me Ngai gutiri thoome atoooe ..This woman deserves forgiveness...lakini mimi huyu wangu i will never forgive her ever ..and she will continue to suffer forever

[@franciscataiti5301]

What I have heard from Victoria is strange. Thank you God for what you have done and what you haven't done. This is a divine prove that our God is always making new today. Thro faith Victoria is a rank above her own.Being God's instrument is a privilege and also in future to come.

[@mikegathonjia7049]

My sister you have done the best. Healing starts with self forgiveness. I like the way she has expressed herself. May Lord's mercy be upon you Victoria. God has already forgive n you

[@annebaker8518]

Athuri makamaguo mbeca ciathira agatiguo acoke kwa mutumia wake Atari kindu kana ee muruaru

[@stephennjoroge7259]

This lady is genuine. May God forgive her!

[@margaretmaina4254]

Very genuine,God has already forgiven her it’s my prayers.

[@janiimutugi3942]

If she has repented she is already forgiven

[@lucasmwangi2504]

Thanks Monica for your good job Victoria your soo beautiful and humble may the Lord forgive and heal your children's future your blessed

[@selfefficacywithdrsabinamu5769]

Thanks Monica. You are great and the work that you do is Godly. It is surely a ministry. God bless Victoria. May God give her all she needs. May God give the other woman grace to forgive Victoria. Please ladies be quick to forgive especially if you are a mother because you don't know what your descendants will do in the future. Pray for them as you forgive others

[@nimuhsteve1079]

Waaaaaaah this story made me flow in tears because it's reminds me of my elder sister marriage which was so good until other woman came across , my siz went through hell the woman abused my sister so much but when God is on your side always you remain a Víctor today my siz doing well n her kids too ....but it took her a lot.

[@ruthkinyanjui4700]

It’s sad but believe me Karma is real, good to hear she is okay🙏🏼

[@faitharisson7002]

Ngai amaruturure oothe aria mathukitie micii yene nginya uria waiyire wakwa tondu nindamukanitie ngimwira muthuri ucio ena mutumia na ndaiguire may God deal with her and others good job monica kagoni im praying for families because hii mipango ya kando needs to go God made Eve for Adam only mariage is for one man one wife

[@naominyambura6274]

Aki kube akuna mwanaume hana side chick mungu akubuke wa mama

[@annnjeri674]

😅😅wangu nilimwambia siku Mungu atashuka kunilipishia hataamini,Sasa pia yeye amejua hajui

[@wanjiramwihia2455]

Waah pia mm nilipigia co wife wangu then akaambia my ex ati nilimtusi 🙆good thing my ex knew matusi haiezi toka kwa mdomo yangu 🤔this mipango aki

[@ruthmbuthia685]

Might you were not his wife.If you keep holding that bitterness God will never come through for you.

[@cathykiarie6383]

No one is perfect..may God heal your heart and grant you his peace ..may the co wife find somewhere in her to forgive victoria

[@dkarunga]

Veronica you have done so so good to open up yourself & asking for forgiveness you are very blessed I like your confidence

[@timothyprincemusir2044]

Realizing mistakes makes us human

[@Dee_the_blessed1]

Sababu dunia imemfunza akalazimika,👍

[@RK-xv1si]

True!

[@angie..n9065]

@@Dee_the_blessed1 my dear the more una grow the more unajua what's wrong n right..ask corazon

[@purityshiku2099]

This is the true revival. confession and repentance. Almighty God we thank you for this one beautiful heart, Victoria you are a victor and today things has turn around for you. God will bless you in a very special way. you are not condemned you are a true disciple of Christ. Jesus is saying to you I will not judge you go and sin no more. Once again thank you Victoria many will learn a lesson from you and God will use you to rescue many others who have found themselves in such an in sidence. REVIVAL is here with us. Thank you Monicah your platform is such a blessing God bless you too

[@hellenwaithera7372]

Just forgive yourself and don't accuse yourself harshly God is God of forgiveness and of another chance your children are blessing in Jesus might name

[@ruirwathika]

Victoria is a class act. Full of wisdom, humbleness and above all, ability to self correct. She loves God and his creation. She is not just seeking God’s mercy, she cries for the healing of his creation-the hurt first wife. You can’t find a better human being than Victoria. Victory unto her.

[@hannahnyambura991]

It's well with her,cz she has taken the bold step to ask for forgiveness,.. God has already forgiven her.. I love her boldness. thanks Monica

[@tabbymwaura6577]

Wow this is one lady in a million

[@janetshiku186]

I salute her for this, I wish my mother confessed like this woman after ruining a home making the first wife to be driven out of her home.They said she was insane but i am sure she was suffering from depression. Being her firstborn I've really paid for their sins but I thank God He recently delivered me after repenting on their behalf when I realised it could be the reason i was leading a miserable life.I was a bright student but I never advanced my education to my desired level and ended up doing odd jobs for survival.I thank the neighbours and certain aunties who dared to tell me the truth after observing my predicaments, God bless them. Our God is Faithful,I am in a better position now and i swore never to wreck anyone's home either by marriage or being a side chick. I am in my tenth year since i divorced and I am happily single. Can someone advise me whether there is something else i am supposed to do kindly.

[@isabellanjeri6940]

Thank you for making a good decision

[@salomenewsome4188]

You never did anything wrong stop beating yourself you are fine. Shida zako ni fate

[@janetshiku186]

@@salomenewsome4188 Really, I may not be sure but the Bible says that God shall apply vengeance for your sins up to the fourth generation.

[@salomenewsome4188]

@@janetshiku186 please relax utakuwa na blood pressure Old Testament was written to suite those old days. We are going with the New Testament you are forgiven because of the blood spilled at the Calvary. Period. Ma shida zako saa hii ni fate na poverty.

[@janetshiku186]

@@salomenewsome4188 I am at peace now, thanks for ua advice

[@benardettendunda1345]

You are forgiven Victoria 💗💗💗💗 I love your boldness and decision to repent.... May God release healing and blessings to you and your Children

[@peshnjeri3966]

Victoria.. I love this woman.. Just like her name she is a victor. She has overcome her fear by opening n accepting her mistakes.. May the goat wife find it in her heart to forgive her.. @kagoni may God enlarge your channel ♥️♥️❤️🙏

[@rayyanjulliet4694]

I just love this woman..atleast shès open her burweins and eyes na akajua alikosea kuharibu boma ya mwanamke mwingine...forgiven she is since ame accept her mistake and trust me u God will bless her & her kids...this gives me hope that the woman whom also ruined my marriage of 13yrs will soon apologise also though siwezi rudiana na huyo mtu but if she comes for apology am gonna forgive her

[@wanguinancy8157]

I love that lady to realize her mastake may God remember her through

[@annmakoba7012]

Vickie God has forgiven you you're a blessing to many girls i like the way you've open up Blessings mamaa.

[@sarahbotha435]

This is so touching, someone coming out to confess such confession. Victoria you're a free woman. Wish you luck n may God bless you. I don't see any problem with the other woman coz she has never called her names or fought her.I guess she is a mature and a peaceful woman.

[@lucygithongo.3061]

She has spoken up, regardless whether the co wife doesn't forgive her, the heaven has forgiven,so no big issue she has spoken out and repented, she entered into the relationship innocent unknowingly,may peace be upon her,never guilty again.

[@carolinekariu4822]

Ici ndeto ma irutúhaga but God restores. Victoria, God be with you. May you be forgiven.

[@susanwachira3606]

Who are we to judge this lady?! I love this lady. She's very genuine and God fearing and that's enough for me.

[@janewanjiru2410]

You will not like her if you know what happened after the demise of the man he is talking about. Ask her to come here again and explain some very serious and ugly scenarios upon his death. The wife is so born again and I think she's so mature.

[@coachdaisyndege]

This is one of the most moving stories you have aired.A controversy in itself but listening without bias,this girl also needs to know that when you confess and repent the Lord is faithful and just to forgive us.I like the fact she is pursuing a conflict resolution intervention but bear in mind the generation gap and you might need someone with capacity to facilitate otherwise you are both walking on eggshells. Do consult to have a mediation outcome that at least will bring peace in the hearts of this women.I hope the adulterous man has seen the magnitude of jeopardy he brings to two women and their set of offspring and how it can go south . As for the side chiqs ,I hope you have learnt how peaceless it is to ruin a marriage.Thank you for airing this piece rationally @monicah kagoni

[@janehinga9074]

Such brave & beautiful woman... God bless you Victoria...as Monica said God has already forgiven you.... Your co-wife will forgive you as well

[@florencemwende8832]

God loves a repentant heart. may others be touched to do the same. Thanks Victoria for comming out. God has a good plan on you and other people

[@kiambu_Finnest]

I just love the ending, kagoni umemalizia vizuri saana,kudos

[@The_Clinic]

Monica is wiser than her age. No wonder she's so blessed

[@wamsufitness3217]

Good job Monicah I love your show and you look very beautiful 🤗😍

[@franciscataiti5301]

I have pitied her. Forward ever backward never. Let's wait and see what is about to happen. God is the final judge. Ngorp hehenjeku Ngai ndangiaga kumuigwa.