Dear John: Savannah got engaged (HD CLIP)

[@lukealsup8123]

The other Soldier was very sweet and comforting towards John, that's a great man right there

[@Ghost.187.]

Lol it’s just a movie 🤣🤣

[@daudtuah7064]

They're both GI Joes

[@ELIOOOON]

Yeah, they should have kissed in this scene.

[@lukealsup8123]

@@ELIOOOON breaks my heart that they didn't have the Good Ole "Gay Butt Man Sex" together

[@jd0879]

Lmao what. He did what any normal human being would do. People make such a big deal out of nothing

[@davidmayers4015]

“From the streets did she emerge, and to the streets she will return. And I say unto you, she is for the streets. So be not weary, when she must return from whence she came.”

[@Illmatic25]

Where is that from?

[@jarodarevalo7986]

LMAOOO

[@garlic6969]

From the book of Niggalations chapter 420, verse 69

[@iaf010]

😂😂😂 👍

[@damianlipinki161]

Amen

[@josesaenz7757]

This is why if you’re gonna join the military make sure you’re single first

[@rawinpinkoh5823]

Damn it Jody

[@thanosmaster-abel559]

@@rawinpinkoh5823 Jody always gets her

[@JundamRX782]

Jody got her begging when he clapping her in the back

[@genny1814]

If uncle same wanted you to have a girl, he would’ve issued you one

[@luwamalem9537]

Lol, i mean if you trust the person your with then that shouldn't be a problem!

[@austingleason]

If this is happening to Channing Tatum there’s no hope for the rest of us.

[@awesomeguy2736]

We wont even receive the letter.

[@unkomicah]

Facts

[@ansaksa]

😂

[@hesh.hesh.2051]

Definitely

[@dani23dani85]

@@awesomeguy2736😂😂

[@mickerzsnickerz]

"Dear John" "...my name's Jeff."

[@joseph4500]

😂 😂 😂 😂

[@ambukfx7348]

shiyttt mannn

[@marcopolo9622]

Hahahahja

[@richardyang94]

🤣🤣🤣

[@alexanderguevara3673]

I read that in that terrible accent he made up 😂😂

[@unusualusualdailysceneswep8405]

He could've slayed the role of Captain America man looks so comic accurate plus great agility & gymnastic skillset.

[@jaclynsanture6643]

I would have like to have him as Captian

[@glorgau]

They left out the part of the letter where she says "I hope we can always be friends""

[@simonjack9699]

Ikr

[@thecowboy9698]

That almost never happens. And you know what? It's okay. They've got to do what's best for them, and you've got to do what's best for you, when everything is said and done. They have to live their life, and you have to live yours. Every guy, or girl, at some point goes through this. It's a part of life, an unpleasant part, but then most of what happens to you in life is unpleasant. The late John Lennon once said: "Life is what happens to you, while you make other plans." What you do, when the unpleasantries of life find you? Well, you take stock of what you do still have, be grateful for those things, and the work with what you have the best you can. As far as girls, well there is ALWAYS someone better out there.

[@okikuma324]

@@thecowboy9698 yo I think I misunderstood that last part, my bad

[@deemahal3411]

I never understand how could someone cheat on their husband/bf/partner and be like “let’s be friends”! Such an as*hole she is 🚮

[@deemahal3411]

@@thecowboy9698 what’s best for them?!!!! Breaking her man’s heart and marrying someone older with a kid out of pity wasn’t best for her. She could’ve just helped him without the need to get married to him that’s BS

[@geraldburke5147]

I was in love once. The girl of my dreams and she loved me. We dated while I was in service and overseas, she was patient, kind and loving. She wrote me my dear john letter when she realized I wasn't ready to commit to her the way she was willing to for me. I broke her heart, and she moved on,(We stopped speaking and I didnt know) that after a time she met someone who didnt take her for granted. The day I got out of the service I called her (oblivious)to see if we could talk. That was when her grandmother told me she was a week away from marrying a wonderful man, with wonderful prospects that wanted to make a life with her. I lost her because I didnt deserve her. I wasn't willing to put her first and eventually she met someone who did deserve her, and 26years later he has certainly proved himself as loving husband and father. I'm happy for her and her family. That how I learned that love is just an word without merit unless your willing to show it through actions. Words alone are just wasted breathe.

[@liltasty2572]

I had something like this right about the time I joined, I didn't want to hurt her by being so far away. She said she would have stayed with me still, but I cut it off, it was dumb of me. She's with someone now and looks happy, that's all I ever wanted for her.

[@sn350channel]

Both of you are being weak men. There are so many other beautiful women you can meet and you’re crying about that one girl who you don’t even know if she was even that good for you.

[@thephantompenance]

@@sn350channel There’s a love that’s quickly satisfied by beautiful women, and then there’s a love that can never be eclipsed by another woman no matter how beautiful she is. You’ve shown us your more versed with the former than the latter.

[@tomatonator22]

@@sn350channel 😂

[@shivam_nagar69]

@@thephantompenance i don't believe in this shit, there are billion woman in this world, and you are telling me that you cannot find a woman with the same personality of the former one? that's real bullshit right there, i think there are many other men with the same personality as mine and vice versa for women.

[@aaronfromwesternmass4293]

"My life has no meaning without you, so im engaged to another man"

[@tomatonator22]

😂

[@GameBoyyearsago]

😂😂😂😂

[@ryanjoe6845]

Meaningful uh?😅

[@deborahblessed8541]

😂😂😂😂

[@Foodlover-s8b]

😂😂😂it doesn’t make sense at all

[@dfmrcv862]

I remember reading the book while I was in middle school. It was in my school's library and for some reason, it kept pulling me back even though romance really isn't my thing, let alone the amount of depressing bits in the book. Hey, at least in the film he has a chance to get the girl, in the book he basically accepts that he'll always be alone and in the Army.

[@mebeb6399]

That’s what he wanted, he broke his promise and stayed in the arm. If he couldn’t stay true to his initial promise then he should have been honest and not lied

[@hecc7906]

I will never understand the "I love you a lot but breaking up with you anyway lol", it makes no sense

[@alexkace7992]

make u feel special before the blow

[@Danieljoe98]

Yeah same dude

[@mememinaa7052]

It does you're just emotional unintellgient.

[@JVMIESON]

easy fix bro, it's like someone breaking up with you but like, they love you a lot but like break up with you because they love you....... yeah nah doesn't make sense for me either.

[@hecc7906]

@@mememinaa7052 *emotionally 😶

[@jesteralfonso8409]

These can really happpen in real life of a soldier! And it's nice your fellow soldier support you in your step in your life.

[@codynoth4183]

"This was the hardest thing I've ever had to do." I mean really? I imagine the hardest thing for this woman to do was "stay loyal" because she sure as hell took the easy way out.

[@thehistoryteen9323]

I hear ya. So hard to tell the guy you're ditching him. Not too hard to ditch him.

[@Oddbisket]

He couldn't stay loyal. He promised he would be with her and she waited for him as she promised. He signed up again and therefore chose the military. He should have kept his promise

[@thehistoryteen9323]

@@Oddbisket I disagree. If she truly loved him, it wouldn't matter that he reenlisted. She would've supported him anyway and stayed with him through it all. It's this thing called unconditional love. Try it sometime.

[@Oddbisket]

@@thehistoryteen9323 so the test is always on her? If he truely loved her he would have told her what happened with his team and how he felt. A smart girl doesn't invest her life in a man who doesn't put her first

[@thehistoryteen9323]

@@Oddbisket I do suppose you have a decent point there. It should have been a mutual love. Though, people won't always immediately put their relationships first. If you are in college and have to choose immediately between academics and a relationship, logically, the academics come first. Sometimes, we have to make certain priorities and set aside time in the future. Perhaps, they could have come together later. If they separated, they would never know. So, loyalty should be mutual.

[@joshuafisette7255]

Got an I’m pregnant letter while I deployed. Then I see this title and it was enough for me not to watch it. Seriously what better way to remind Iraq war vets of one of the worst things that could happen on deployment

[@CPhero82]

Who asked hall to go overseas a war that has nothing to do with yall...

[@keytrononit3]

@@CPhero82 exactly LMAO definitely not protecting this countries freedom because nobody is threatening it

[@sim8289]

@@CPhero82 well sometimes all people really have as an option for decent employment is the military. You should have an open mind and try to see the bigger picture.

[@CPhero82]

@@sim8289 recruiters finessed yall because yall couldn't think for yourself. I attended a military academy high school, I know. They target people who dont have a plan and is unsure of themselves. Promise yall all this good stuff and BS on being a hero. Yall are not heroes, yall are slaves doing the dirty work of the wealthy

[@alexdoty6101]

@@CPhero82 bit extreme but I cant help but to agree

[@vitoabeleda2445]

can’t help but remember House M.D. “bros before ho’s” bit haha

[@Yoboi_3lchino]

Facts

[@woodyjunior8681]

No

[@MrGrenade121]

yep

[@redmarx5370]

And then society calls you a gay. 🥲😭

[@sagnikdebnath321]

Man ur the comment I was looking for HOuse MD for life bro

[@214thestar]

Not even Channing Tatum can escape “Jody”

[@danielbaltzell2837]

The amount of guys I saw break down overseas on deployment from their girlfriends/wives doing this to them completely destroyed my image of women…. It’s disgusting how they just jump to the next best thing and most of them don’t even have the nerve to write the letter and tell you… and it was always the “ my wife would never do that” guy that got the letter next…or worst case you show up back home and all your stuff is gone Stay single for ever and take care of yourself

[@Numizard]

a friend of mine knew a guy that came back home only to find it practically empty, with a letter and the ring in it. She had ran off with another guy. Man ended up sleeping in a sleeping bag on the bare floor of his empty house drinking himself to sleep, his buddies went there to get him out cause he was starving himself to death, this really stuck to me during my service as i had a girlfriend at that time, but I was lucky enough to live in an era with smartphones and the internet and whatnot. Couldnt imagine what it'd been with letters

[@alexkace7992]

marry a good women maybe?

[@chandijere9688]

@@alexkace7992 it’s all a facade

[@izuanwahab2096]

@@alexkace7992 non existent

[@alexkace7992]

@@izuanwahab2096 hypergamy is strong in america. and maybe date a diffrent culture girl

[@emil2321]

She found someone better than Channing Tatum? yeah right lol...

[@richardyang94]

She chooses her first celebrity crush - Elliott from E.T 🤣

[@Dondingdingding]

She likes someone with beard

[@votefraudjoe997]

A simp deluxe😆😆

[@jujujewel2172]

Same thoughts when watching the movie, big AS IF!! No one could leave him, it's implausible. But of course this is fiction, but a sad fiction & by the sounds of things a common thing in real life sadly... I just wish I knew what a dear John letter meant before watching it, so I would at least be somewhat prepared... So heartbreaking

[@josephinevera9966]

Personally I never found him that attractive 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@jhedatitan4228]

So moral of the story is…she cheated on bro while he was deployed.

[@jhedatitan4228]

@Jeff Johnson The suicide rate is high in the military because they kill them selves after finding out their partners cheat.

[@zackfozzy7506]

@@jhedatitan4228 yeah I got a close friend who committed suicide. Bitch got the nerve even come to his funeral.

[@gabrielfranco9786]

@@zackfozzy7506 I hope someone kicked her out, because I would have wanted someone to do it at my funeral if it had been me she cheated on.

[@jhedatitan4228]

@@zackfozzy7506 smh RIP to your homie he didn’t deserve that shit.

[@13Gangland]

@@zackfozzy7506 Did they at least kick her out, stare at her, something? That's grimey.

[@charlesdc1233]

Happened to me 3 months ago, still hurts... not in army, but pain is the same...

[@CheckMate-g9u]

One thing in life I've found to be true, what goes around comes around and now it's her turn for the heart break.

[@quinnw6795]

This scene is heartbreaking 💔 how could somebody do this to someone especially someone who service overseas. I imagine the pain he feels.

[@wetzel1628]

“How could somebody do this to someone?” Welcome to women man

[@AutumnHaunts]

@@wetzel1628🤦🏻‍♀️ Military men do it too. I was loyal to the marine I dated when he was overseas and then he sent me photos and video of him cheating on me. This was thirteen years ago and it still hurts to think about to this day.

[@All_that_glitters_]

@@AutumnHauntswow I'm so sorry...

[@SeaFalcon]

She can't wait to fill her hole. He doesn't matter because it's all about her. That's how most women are.

[@SeaFalcon]

​@@AutumnHauntsTo be fair, yes. But it's mostly women.

[@Nelson11Bravo]

I got a dear John letter , it hurt at the time, but later realized it was the best thing to happen to me ..

[@joshjohnson5649]

That was crazy because it only took a couple years to forget and move on. Yet atleast she had a good boyfriend she got with.

[@bugskybugs8210]

Same here, i was on duty off shore for a couple of months. Met her once or twice a month in those months. Broke up 2 months ago, and 4 days ago i heard she got engaged with someone i heard shes been hanging with.

[@deemahal3411]

@Shadow Of Wiggin wow gotta love how men are here playing innocent and loyal 😭 the audacity!!! “like most women?!” Just bc two or three women around you are tra-shy doesn’t mean all women are the same. Also men cheat more than women y’all can’t stick to one woman forever you tend to cheat and move from a woman to another like it’s nothing and that’s a fact

[@DavefromCA2023]

“You’ll get her back….” Worst advice ever

[@yahudigahba]

unfortunately many men have no self respect.

[@JC-uq2uc]

You sacrifice so much when you give up your time. People just dont care anymore about anything

[@danielbaltzell4163]

Saw this so much when I was overseas…what these women did to guys in my unit used to tear me up

[@josecarranza7555]

Bros before hoes

[@jaclynsanture6643]

Im so sorry, i would wait for a guy as john(channing tatum), my mom is loyly to my dad, a prertied Lut Col of the 8th Air Force and he was( he still alive) Captian when my older sister and i were little

[@matthewramirez2484]

Getting shit like this plus with dark humor of your unit won’t ever help, it’ll turn to be a joke against you

[@notapplicable4567]

Did that happen to u

[@thewanderingheartsclub]

In retrospect she did him a favor. When someone says I will love you no matter what they should mean it. He found out who she really is.

[@patrickmcguinness109]

So you're telling me...that in a movie called Dear John....the titular character named John.....gets a dear John letter??? Fascinating

[@terrinsibley7670]

Now that is a true friend.

[@SeaFalcon]

Dear John, I know you are out there risking life and limb, seeing your friends die to defend our freedom, but I have that itch down there and can't wait anymore so someone else is scratching it. To feel good about myself and not selfish, here is a bullshait letter making excuses for not waiting for you.

[@yahudigahba]

This, also he has no self respect.

[@Guitar157]

He’s a freeman now 👍

[@memesouls8653]

Better for him to

[@BEEFCAKEGAMER96]

Plenty of fish in the sea 👍

[@electroeel148]

When I saw that this was a romance film and the guy was going to the military, I looked at my sister and said "The woman's gonna find somebody else." She tried to say no, that's not gonna happen. I didn't even bother saying I told you so when this scene came up

[@simonjack9699]

That's why I tell people it's always good to start a relationship long distance because then you can really test the loyalty and love of the relationship. If Savannah truly loved John she would have waited for him no matter how long it takes. Also she never should have told him she got engaged until after he got out of the military find something out like that would make you emotionally compromised on the battlefield because that's all you're going to be thinking about how hurt you got from the one person that matter to you in the world

[@mountaindew3201]

Long distance relationship doesn’t and has never really worked my friend. Your living in a delusional theory. It’s not just about having trust issues, what is the purpose of being in a relationship if your not going to see eye to eye on a regular basis. You can’t just ask someone out and then leave them hanging around. That ms what was happening in here.

[@mountaindew3201]

@Brooks Hadlin it won’t work buddy. Try doing it yourself and comeback to me and see how you like it. Online friends aren’t real friends either. Get out of your room and set the controller down and go outside and make some new real life friends. Even if y’all wanted to work, it’ll be a waste of time knowing that the person is miles away making their own life and your just in delusion thinking everything is going to workout in the end, and all you’ll find is disappointment. Stop trying to look at videos for stupid comfort and from others who are living in a delusion making content for losers like you to make themselves feel like it’s okay when your profoundly in the wrong.

[@samuelarth7845]

like bruh? my own LDR worked so what you want from that man? no need to get toxic bc yours didnt work get over your heartbreak brother, much love!

[@chevyrock883]

@@mountaindew3201 not sure what you mean. I met my wife before she had to go back to her home country. We did long distance for almost 4 years and we got married and have been happily for 5 years and have 3 kids. So not sure what you're trying to declare.

[@mountaindew3201]

@@chevyrock883 hey bro. Can you come up with a better lie next time? God man all you fake compassioners on KZbin here. I’m just giving this man some peace of advice about life. It’s can sure be applied to you,

[@angryGinger62]

If i got engaged to a woman and learned she cheated on her boyfriend who was deployed at the time, i'm breaking it off immediately. A woman without loyalty isn't worth regarding as an equal. And you can bet your ass she won't be around when things get difficult

[@raawb92]

💯

[@jaynehogue2459]

I completely agree but in this particular case the reason she married was because he as her friend had cancer and was dying and needed help with raising his son.

[@Ashpkfmdmdmdmd]

@@jaynehogue2459 dafuq

[@angryGinger62]

@@jaynehogue2459 so she needs to leech off of some other guy in order to raise *his* child and instead of contacting the real father and letting him know that she's pregnant, she instead jumps to the nearest guy avaliable because reasons. I know the movie tries its best to give the woman some sort of "redeemable reason" so they can get back together, cause its a stupid romance movie but the chick's a "Jenny" and is mean't for the streets.

[@URSoDead2Me]

@@angryGinger62 Exactly and in a lot of cases, the other guy fucking knew she had a man in the military deployed overseas, he just didn't care. But that's how women are. If you've ever seen M.I.2 kzbin.info/www/bejne/jYvGkpJ7otWehac this scene and what ol boy had to say about Maya is typical of the majority of women.

[@XactlyCeSe1]

He lied to her and broke his promise. What did he expect?

[@queenastar5314]

This was my favorite movie since childhood, but I can’t believe I forgot everything.

[@raularellano297]

Honestly this is the worst thing you can do to somebody in the military, besides sending them a video of you cheating on them with your neighbor, because you are really effecting them mentally and they could end up getting killed or their squad killed

[@JBLUE97]

She never loved him in the first place

[@txic_headsht1873]

She was never loyal to him. Loyalty and love is too very different things. She loves him but was never loyal/commited to him for the long run. Plus distance does a lot to people. You have to keep in mind that she was lonely too.

[@dunjaluk9698]

@@txic_headsht1873 if you love someone loyalty comes there as well so I think thatvshe never loved him.

[@Snowmaru128]

@@dunjaluk9698 You are correct. Love is the embodiment of loyalty, respect, and admiration.

[@txic_headsht1873]

@@dunjaluk9698 Again loyalty and love are two different things. I could love you and still leave you to die.

[@txic_headsht1873]

@@dunjaluk9698 The definition of love is "An intense feeling of deep affection" Affection has something to do with a "gentle fondness and liking". The definition of loyalty is "A strong feeling of support or allegiance". You see the difference between love and loyalty now?

[@joshuamartin2083]

And this is why I’m glad my girl broke up with me a month ago opposed to when I left for basic, yeah it sucks but I can respect it kinda.

[@jerryavalos9610]

During Desert Shield lots of guys got Dear John letters. We put up a board called the "wall of shame" and tacked the letters onto it.

[@MegaConmaster]

"Everything was great, until she gave me that "John Deer letter." -Harry (Dumb and Dumber)

[@elgusaniiiodeljuego6823]

Gotta give credit to the dude for sending the letters to hell on the spot. No inch of a simp 👊

[@remzydelacruz142]

My first bf he is a marine, im waiting him everytime they asign or they have a operation. But knowing my mind that he is a lot of woman everytime they asign in another place.. So sad and very painful now his gone..😭😥

[@jaclynsanture6643]

good for you, he will come home to you

[@jacktheripper5661]

Sleeping with her mom would be the greatest revenge

[@OSU2010]

Its simple most chicks... MOST NOT ALL cant be alone that long and want someone to be there for them. It sucks honestly but its the truth. If your gone to long they get lonely. Thats the reality of it.

[@mrdaddy6970]

Then they are chicks that don’t deserve a good man cuz if you can’t handle being alone while your man is fighting a fucking war to protect even if it isn’t to protect you then you never deserved that man that’s my point of view

[@DJ-uu9xx]

Facts, took my ex a week and she had another guy in her bed.

[@OSU2010]

@@DJ-uu9xx that probably means she never cared about you at all, or she also had already started talking to him while you were with her. Some chicks are brutal and fucked up.

[@kanieloutis5604]

She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.

[@mrdaddy6970]

@@kanieloutis5604 we never said they were ours but that don’t mean that our hearts are theirs to fuck with when your in a relationship with man who’s at war think about what your going to do and how is it going to affect him

[@simonjack9699]

It's ironic that the actress who played Savannah on Dear John she also played in a movie recently with Kevin Bacon where she was an actress and she cheated behind his back🤣🤣🤣 she got caught because she didn't hide her second phone very well

[@savagesfortruth]

This movie always made me cry for John I would never leave my partner if he was in the military he be my man forever

[@jaclynsanture6643]

me too i would do the same thing.

[@jaclynsanture6643]

i would Not cheat on a guy who looks as channing tatum does, im not heartless as most people are

[@andrewhodges1322]

I was in the Navy and a lot of times, husbands and wives can't even last a month. They'll cheat right on the boat. A lot of shit could happen in 6 months

[@useruser_notinuse]

So sad to hear. Is this happening even while they can keep contact with phone and internet?

[@marlohinesjr.1244]

Never join the military while in a relationship it never goes well.

[@lionkills1]

If you got to worry about your girl cheating then you got wrong kind of person.

[@DavidCastro-wf8cl]

honestly, stayed back In Ohio for a job with a couple of friends and they slept with military soon to be wifes.

[@JayLim-bn9fh]

@@DavidCastro-wf8cl shit

[@ellexo0988]

@Jeff Johnson that’s why you date men

[@ellexo0988]

@Jeff Johnson absolutely

[@eprofessio]

Never give the stripper a power of attorney.

[@MANOJ-pu8kb]

The Vow my favorite one of Tattum's ❤️🌠 Dear john 🌠 after

[@sniper9786]

It's the same for all grunts all over the world..... Even here in India 🇮🇳 ..... A lot of enlisted men suffer.

[@AutumnHaunts]

When he burned those letters…. I felt that.

[@itemtest1]

Never get a girlfriend before going somewhere far away for a long time. I'm surprised people make that same mistake over and over :)🤔🤔🤔

[@raularellano297]

This happened to me I’m not gonna lie and deny it. I prayed everyday that this wouldn’t happen to me, but it wasn’t enough. But I watch this everyday I wake up and every night I go to sleep as a reminder that this is a harsh reality of how people are, not just women. They will find someone they believe is better or more worthy, truth is they’re too weak and too cowardly to go thru a true hardship. And just check out.

[@verb5066]

ALL GIRLS ARE THE SAME. THEYRE ROTTING MY BRAIN, LOVE

[@kandikay5698]

I feel like a lot of people in the comments haven't actually seen the movie. This wasnt an easy decision as we find out later on she was not in love with tim and only married him because he was dying of cancer and his autistic son allen needed someone to look after. She sacrificed her relationship with john to raise a disabled child who had nobody. She always loved john.

[@Ptbf2002]

Bugs Bunny? Oh, i believe that He send a Dear John letter so he wanted to fix his microwave

[@simonjack9699]

Holyshit the soldier ask your John is everything's okay that's actually the TV show Seth Gecko from Dusk till Dawn the TV show. He looks so different without a beard.

[@JARVART94]

She was never his girl it was just his turn 😂

[@sais.3105]

This is why I have trust issues.

[@mereassassinates550]

2:28 Why would you want her back??? I’ll be like “Be gone demon 👋👋👋👋”

[@jocelynnino2524]

Best movie out there

[@scrambledsamples4318]

That’s a good mate right there tho

[@kayliemarwood1518]

Shame on her. Poor John💔😥

[@flipspearing]

My mrs saw me off at the airport, I landed in country the next day and I was blocked from everything. Didn’t hear from her for 9 months. Laugh about it now but fuck me that was cold.

[@Amero2323]

Damn bro that's cold even for a chick

[@flipspearing]

@@Amero2323 😂yea was fucked up. Had no access to comms for about 4 months so was just sending letters and getting nothing back, while patrolling though shit areas every day. 🤷‍♂️

[@yahudigahba]

@@flipspearing And probably killing Iraqi civilians aswell, what a good woman u had, maybe she doesnt like terrorists from US army?

[@flipspearing]

@@yahudigahba well I wasn’t in Iraq, and I’m not American. And I never put a finger on innocent civilians my friend, try not to assume you know what happened and what ex soldiers think about certain conflicts.

[@yahudigahba]

@@flipspearing Fair enough.

[@serbonkers4130]

Man.. this brings me back. We have one who shot himself coz his wife left him. Girlfriends leaving them it really sucks.

[@GameBoyyearsago]

Hey cheems i hope you are ok : )

[@viz3956]

This one of the saddest stories ive read

[@scottyi88]

Jody's at it again

[@captainnero8632]

This part hurt so bad

[@secretagentrandybeans2203]

The worst thing you can do is get married or have a girlfriend when you're in the military because sooner or later your significant other is getting her cheeks clapped back home

[@Ghost.187.]

Jodi Jodi Jodi

[@Harris_Ali_]

When my very serious gf wrote me the 'dear John' letter she didn't even say she was sorry or anything... would have been nice to hear she felt some empathy. Although I wasnt a soldier on deployment or anything, but for sure a soldier for her...

[@egoralexandrowich]

Live for yourself first man

[@ChiefCedricJohnson]

Matthew 5:14 Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.

[@ajreyes5626]

Amen

[@ChiefCedricJohnson]

@@ajreyes5626 Amen

[@doejohn7548]

Amen

[@andrewjohnson9014]

Amen

[@TheAmoscokkie]

hmmm what has the verse gotta to do with Dear John ?

[@almighty5839]

It’s honestly heartbreaking that some of the woman who date our soldiers treat them like shit and cheat on them for everything they’ve done they can’t give the little amount of loyalty.

[@ssammyt]

another reason too never have a relationship.

[@theunknown4570]

But, we can still be friends.

[@specfei9895]

Bout to get enlisted, I think the universe plan it all out for me. I left my girl months before I even knew that my passion is to serve my country

[@briankhan6845]

More like to serve old rich men interests

[@Hotshotscott]

These days, these letters come in txt, AND you don’t even gotta be in the military to get them!

[@blin1776]

Hey!!! Both of them were in GI Joe 2 lol

[@CheckMate-g9u]

Love is nothing but a temporary loss of insanity then one day you wake up and stand in front of a mirror and say to yourself, what the hell was that all about.

[@SD_91]

This was the reason on of my soldier friend not been in relationship. Fear of getting dumped and rejection.

[@i_nvade8098]

If I was Channing Tatum, I would have laughed 🤣 😂

[@emmettredding1]

These chick flicks are all cut from the same mold. Dear John, The Notebook, Sweet Home Alabama, etc etc. Always one girl, two guys, she's torn between the two...not knowing who to love yet somehow the screenplay makes her out to be the victim in this love triangle. One dude has money, the other is a working stiff....sometimes the working stiff has money but keeps it under wraps or some sort of special talent that sets him apart from the other. In the end the one that got his heart ripped out (most of the time it's the working stiff) and stomped on the floor wins her back after many cycles of embarrassingly repeated effort though often ridiculed by his peers for doing so and the target audience of said film is coddled if not enabled to believe that their knight in shining armor does indeed exist out there in the real world and they'll romantically travel off into the sunset together in each other's arms living happily ever after because true love does indeed conquer all. The heart wants what the heart wants...blah blah blah. In the mean (pun intended) yet real time the working stiff would've had a restraining order placed on him the first time he stood in the chicks driveway holding a boom box over his head playing "their song" trying to win her back while she chose the "other guy" and they proceed to live out their miserable lives spending his trust fund!!!

[@jujujewel2172]

LoL, too funny but kind of an accurate review summarizing the plots of some of these movies probably including some Nicholas Sparks ones based on his books. (I think the screenplays are also written by him too?) I haven't actually read any yet but I'm just gonna guess the movies are slightly different from the books to cater to the drama and romance of cinema and make it more like that, for artistic and other considerations than what they are as novels, cause not all of the stories actually had two guys, like being torn between two, & having to decide between them, (the two diff typical types, as you described... humorously but well put!) But a couple were similar that way, the Notebook and the one with Teresa Palmer and the puppies with the vet and she met him while still with the doctor... I forgot the name of it but loved that one. Actually that was kind of similar to another Channing Tatum movie with Rachel McAdams which wasnt by Nicholas Sparks but I thought it could have been. But based on a true story. And also title forgotten... brain is on vacation, or something but if you know movies & like those actors you'll know... except that one had no divided love interest, or did it? Oh I think it did!! She went back to her old life before meeting the husband... yes and back to school and met up with her former bf... same mother as in the notebook... Well there was just an accident and amnesia with one where the other was she was in a coma but still, loyalty of a good man, that is my take on these, & most of them I've seen so far anyway... which yes you are right caters to the knight in shining armour syndrome for us hopeless romantics. I will emphasise the hopeless too cause its too hard to find in reality. Thats the appeal of the movies I guess, (requires or allows suspension of belief...) Also a man who is inspired by a woman. Some which break their heart a bit first. And in the NS ones, sometimes a rich family influencing the girls decisions I think maybe the man had some relatives or something he saw grandparents or parents some couple he knew in his life which inspired his themes, which is possibly why some follow a similar pattern - I'm guessing. Or else it follows a formula like some TV shows tend to, with what they think appeals and what people want. But in the end movies and reality are different. Sometimes reality can be good though, some people are lucky although I know I never will be one of them

[@4ktyoungboy382]

Damm John got a dear John letter

[@hu4ngming]

Finished national service single. Smart choice

[@andrewshepherd5249]

I've seen way to many people deployed get these letters

[@headphonic8]

she made it sound like she committed suicide at first lmao

[@inspiredme7030]

If I was him, I won't back home

[@GAL149]

This is what you need to see before invading others home

[@CreamyYogurt2234]

Yea well the military has the highest break up/ divorce rate compared to anything else

[@kelvinkaw5460]

This is the time he completed his training as a elite soldier

[@staceyjackson8426]

Poor John,he loved Savannah,until she wrote to him and told him she got engaged 🥺

[@jaclynsanture6643]

Yes, you just want to hug him

[@staceyjackson8426]

@@jaclynsanture6643 yep👍🏻

[@khamismohamedjr5666]

Thats totaly me😪i was left also

[@MrCharlieSeo]

Very few stay loyal in my experience.

[@Affectionate-gas]

Military personnel call themself by their last name

[@SamA-xu9gy]

He is my MAN, , yeah , well done

[@Sku11Ski11]

Just remember that guy who was deployed and his gf recorded porn right after he left.

[@waynec.c.5231]

Time to sing deployment love