Debra Fileta: How Facing Your Triggers Brings Healing | FULL EPISODE | Better Together on TBN

[@MalchevaIrina]

I felt so normal hearing that these women also have been dealing with their emotions and unprocessed traumas in their 30s and 40s while being in the ministry ♥️

[@ChildofGod98765]

l find strength through Jesus even as I’m struggling to support my children. I’m constantly faced with financial hardships. Both of my sons are special needs. I’m a single mom. I’m working ,but I’m not making nearly enough especially now that I’m home schooling them. Lord Hear My Prayers. I’m overwhelmed and tired. Struggling to buy groceries. Struggling to pay rent. BUT I’m keeping FAITH i. the name of JESUS.

[@Ntuthu28_M]

It is well 🙏

[@vintagebeliever5023]

I come in agreement with you in Jesus Name. I am very proud of you 😊

[@HTB.5784]

please share this with Kevin Zadia ministries out of Louisiana. They have set up ministry for both helping single moms and homeschooling.

[@annzamore6910]

My suster there us help. If you are in a church, talk to your Pastor. Your community has resources. Take advantage of it. God bless you. I will keep you in my prayers.

[@joycebutterworth5335]

Lord, please meet this woman’s needs in every day.🙏✝️☝️

[@maryrakes4379]

“Emotions a signal not a sin” They are for our benefit to draw us closer to God our father, so He can comfort us, heal us and make us whole. 🙌❤️

[@marylouhixson2423]

I love you beautiful, vulnerable women! ❤ What healing ❤️‍🩹 is taking place in myself just listening to you all! Bless you and thank you for doing this! 🤗

[@banthony620]

“Grace allows the mess to unravel” 😮 That’s a word right there 🙌🏽

[@Gloria-b8g]

So true

[@Eng4555]

powerful

[@Gloria-b8g]

Amen

[@suzannesmith249]

Thank you for putting programs like this on the show. These conversations and knowledge is so lacking and most churches and so many of us need to hear these kinds of discussions from a Christian perspective perspective. THANK YOU!!!

[@lakeylaford23]

Emotional intelligence is what I'm trying to teach my child. However, I am not truly there yet. I pray soon to have more control over my emotions.

[@lynnefetsko3562]

This is SO accurate! I had a lifetime of these emotions. And then when I got married in between 39 and 59 thinking you my husband would make it all better, I lost him too. I'm 63 now, getting stronger but now I feel more alone still trying to overcome life long abandonment. Some days are better than others. Ty ladies 😊🎉

[@motheowalerato701]

❤️❤️❤️

[@vintagebeliever5023]

Thank you. This was very encouraging for my life right now. 63 years young and still trying to figure out why I react the way i do. This was very helpful.

[@BetterTogetherTV]

Thank you for your comment! We are so glad that you found this conversation helpful!

[@anniebobb7068]

I am 49 and feeling ashamed that I still dealing with these emotional stuff. And asking God why so no I am happy others are other so I don't feel alone.

[@jmkalinzuki4849]

This was so good to my soul! Like cold water on a very hot day. Thank you ladies

[@lysleis7545]

Absolutely love this “Better Together “ thank you ladies

[@WRXMomma31]

This was exactly what I needed tonight! I was triggered tonight with feelings of rejection from someone on my husbands side of the family, and I love where in this video it says triggers are a blessing because they reveal to us where we need healing ❤️🙏🏼

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We are so sorry for your feelings of rejection. We are happy though that this conversation uplifted you!

[@lwanelemathebula461]

"coming as you are with nothing hidden"...this has changed my life. Thank you so much Sheilla

[@lwanelemathebula461]

@@sheilatitus-ln2om amen♥️

[@michellejerkovich5732]

Thank you Shelia😢

[@lindataylor937]

😅​

[@jeannovulu-kendi9571]

Ephesians 6:16 Speaks alot about how to spiritually deal with emotions. Just read about this awhile ago. Thank you Jesus, thank you Holy Spirit thank you father.

[@rowchellgreen8030]

So many great gems were dropped! Side note, the diversity of this panel is incredible and makes all the difference!🙌🏾💕

[@herewegrow9317]

Please pray for me. I'm struggling a bit. I'm a bit shut down myself emotionally. I'm struggling a bit with u forgiveness. I'm a single mom of 5 and I'm stuck in survival mode and too exhausted to deal (heal) I pray the Lord heals my heart, mind, body and soul. I'm tired

[@anitabarbara9005]

Hugs mama, prayed for you.💜

[@TinahAtuheire]

Standing in prayer with you. Somebody shared this with me, read 1Chronicles 4:9-10

[@lakeylaford23]

God bless you

[@motheowalerato701]

❤❤❤

[@kanetaalexander2668]

This message is totally needed. “You just don’t mute pain, you meet Joy” sooooo profound

[@bukola-i2t]

I think she said 'You don't just mute pain, you mute joy....'?

[@kanetaalexander2668]

@@bukola-i2t mute Joy? That’s the fruit of the spirit. I’ll relisten

[@kanetaalexander2668]

@@bukola-i2t 👍🏾

[@BrennonOne]

This conversation is GOLD.

[@creativetechconcierge]

When it feels like all of my hope is gone, I am clinging to the half of a mustard seed of faith. God… You said your strength is perfect. I am your daughter. I need You now. I am learning to trust You. In this season of my life so many wounds are being opened. Being a strong woman is overrated. I am tired and worn Lord. Please help me.

[@sarahh7254]

You are whole through Christ 💖

[@getfitwithliv]

God is with you even when you can’t feel it.

[@jeaninerichardson7179]

I definitely really appreciate this... LORD JESUS CHRIST 🤔🧐🥺😪🥲

[@modupeoladeinde8995]

I am so glad that God somehow made me run into this conversation today! Just last week I named my emotions and I didn't even realize that what I was doing was a spiritual process to healing, now I feel affirmation that I can go to God with what I named and He will help me and heal me, amen!😢

[@iraidamichellearvelo1620]

Wow… just earlier I spoke about this. Oftentimes as Christian we over spiritualize our feelings. I get it… our goal is to always seek God in all things… but what a relief it was to hear you say to tune in and identify/label your feelings. Wow! Thank you

[@JMarieTaylor]

Every time I let God know I need to hear from him he sends a word/teaching. This hit home! I can relate to all of what these women have spoken but especially Irene. God knows who to use to get us to that place in Him and most often it is our spouses.

[@madamemakeupmonologuematur7023]

Tears rolled down my eyes throughout ur sharing like I was watching a sad movie. Yes realized it's a signal of my own sad movie and thanks for this share bc I am in my healing w e lord this week of my inner child. All of u guys watching I urge u to bring ur inner child trauma to jesus asap so healing and self understanding w God's love, forgiveness and acceptance can begin to take place. I am excited for my this week going forward in jesus.

[@betty1hope]

This is amazing. The Christian culture has in the past frowned upon emotions and most of us who grew up in church were conditioned to numb instead of dealing with emotions. And I just want to highlight none of our emotions are ugly. We have just been conditioned to feel uncomfortable about them and so we think they are ugly. I hope in the future we can allow space for anger and frustration without judging ourselves or others, so that we can really process such feelings with the Holy Spirit when it's us and help others feel seen and loved even through challenging emotions.

[@sylviamyers-brooks7085]

Listening for the second time. Had a trigger recently and your words came back right through the Holy Spirit.

[@anapadilla7133]

I relate to this so so much!

[@rayna599]

This is such a rich conversation!! I can relate to so much of what was discussed. Thank you Pastors 💗

[@reyneharris1136]

This was truly a word from God for me. Thank you ladies for sharing your stories, emotions and truths. It means so much to me on this journey of healing and relationship with God. God wants the real me.. Amen

[@deborah460]

Thank you ladies. You really inspire me. I am a 29 year old Chaplaincy student. I look forward to influencing women in Africa after my graduation. I learn a lot from you. God bless you ❤️

[@kamilleaustinmusic]

I love this. It's all about spreading the Gospel. May God bless your journey.

[@OABlogging]

This video is POWERFUL!! It's something about our 30s yall 😆 God shakes you unveils our issues.

[@kaylynnfarley]

Amen! Thank you for this message. God started me on this healing journey 3 years ago and there is TRUTH in these words. These stories are my story. When I allowed myself to feel emotions and when I was willing to give every hurt to the LORD, to TRUST Him with them, then I began to feel whole. I began to find who God created me to be. He truly is waiting for you to step into His arms. ❤

[@nicolemathis6155]

Praise God for this word. I’m crying as I finger type this 😊bc I just this morning asked God to show me thru His Angels which habits of mind and emotions to bring to Him to improve and heal me in a healthy loving way. And lo and behold this show appears on my queue. Lack of self awareness and emotional illiteracy-powerful concepts! This videoed discussion is authentic and transformative! Right where God has me is exactly the spot where this has met me today. Thank you! Emotional intelligence! I can take care of me? Wowowow!!!! You ladies have been rightly and heavenly placed right here and now-Emotional Literacy! Get it Ladies! God is Good!

[@angelacoleman7198]

Thank God for this video. So much we deal with and we suppress and will not give our emotions to God. Thanking God for my complete healing.

[@DebLavern]

This video shined a bright light into my heart today. I am so very grateful for these women and their transparency. I am grateful to learn about why I'm triggered hysterically from something historically and need to meet with the Lord about it. I am so very thankful for God's mercy and grace that walks me through healing and getting to the other side of these triggers. Blessings!!

[@michellejerkovich5732]

Yes, Amen

[@vanessacopland]

God really loves me to comes across this discussion whilst i am experiencing emotional difficulties.. wow timely tjank you God for not leaving me the same

[@TinahAtuheire]

Wow thank you for teaching me how to handle my emotions, as a christian i always thought we are not supposed to feel angry and struggled with it.

[@alicemusukwa1288]

such a blessed conversation.

[@BetterTogetherTV]

Amen!

[@nedraford5461]

Such a good word! I am right where you ladies are. Moving forward to healing and wholeness

[@nonameyay2570]

Wow....this is exactly me. Im the youngest in a very messy emotional family. I grew up unheard, invisible and expected to fix everything in our family. I also grew up aChristian but people say im cold and emotionless.

[@rlbnd1]

Cold and emotionless =protective walls that I don’t invite others to get through. ❤

[@lisaphillipo413]

thank God for treatment centers. God uses that to educate us

[@brittanyb9292]

I was just reading Psalms 145 this morning; this was a needed conversation regarding emotions. I had to be honest with God with my emotions.

[@mathembibhengu9751]

I can relate, it took me over 25 years, my early thirties for God to open up my eyes and brought me to a place where I was 6 years old and was sexually molested. My mind had shut that memory. But this one day it's came flooding and I broke down so hard

[@motheowalerato701]

❤️❤️❤️

[@victoriaaidonmiyi]

Blessed to have found this today because lord…….

[@marjorymsuku9312]

Thank you, Ladies. Emotions do need healing. My main lesson last year was to realise that I had been significantly hurt in my emotions, and God was starting me in the process of healing, and it is still continuing even in this year. While it was not fun to be hurt, and is not fun to process it so that I can heal (how can people hurt each other like this?!...); I appreciate the closer walk with God and ever increasing peace and freedom.🙏❤

[@kamillejames7213]

Thanking God and you ladies for this session. Just what I needed!!

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We are so happy that you have been encouraged!

[@jacquelinemcneil1046]

Ladies, this setting, the conversation was a blessing to me. Thank you so much for sharing this honestly giving me a better perspective of what I'm enduring in my marriage. My heart is overjoyed by what has been invested in me. I'm empowered to pray compassionately and strategically as I have been armed with knowledge and understanding of what I've been witnessing for years. Breakthrough!!!

[@sophiaduarte745]

Amen what a wonderful message..The Holy Spirit Was talking through You All.♥️♥️♥️🗣️🌎🙏💌♥️

[@tmarie0929]

This has been such a blessing being I just had a semi melt down feeling misunderstood and rejection. I prayed about it yesterday but God definitely answered the prayer today. I needed this. ❤

[@sonjainez]

Me too

[@motheowalerato701]

❤️❤️❤️

[@bettywright4338]

Awesome illustrations from each lady, I enjoyed it so much, praise God 🙏

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We're very happy that you enjoyed the conversation!

[@cindyrobinson3882]

Love this!!! ❤ Beautiful and timely. Thank you ladies for sharing. Jesus is working through us all to give us life more abundantly. 🙏 😊

[@robinjackson2828]

Alexander Hoover, your closing statement is powerful. Thank you.

[@agnestabi1087]

Thanks for ministering to us ,❤

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We our so glad you were ministered to!

[@sj9339]

This conversation on emotional healing is edifying my soul ❤

[@k.p.9988]

I can so relate to what Sheila said. I was 13 when my dad committed suicide.

[@motheowalerato701]

❤️❤️❤️

[@shirleywhite9365]

This is so good. I now understand how to deal with my emotions. Thanks ladies ❤

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We are so happy this helped you!

[@melissabromley4600]

“Hello Lord… it’s me! I’m just praying for Sheila!” I believe the childlike simplicity of a prayer like this touches God’s heart. He just wants us to come.

[@elmosjgsfriend]

Wow, thanks for this, it helped me process so much pain.

[@ryanneyoshimura126]

Oh my this conversation was PURE GOLD 🥹

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We are so grateful you found this conversation helpful. We agree!

[@claudellej9438]

Thank you all so much. I now realize why I feel the way I do about some of the scars of my past. This includes the death of my father from cancer at age 9, etc.

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We are so sorry about the loss of your mother, but are happy you felt encouraged by the conversation.

[@marcelastacey890]

Thank you - so very much - you all touched my heart and helped me to understand feelings I hadn’t been able to make sense of. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. 🙏🏻❤️

[@oyeolasunkanmi]

OMG!!! This puts into words exactly what I've been feeling and experiencing but haven't been able to articulate

[@mariangoma718]

I am listening my God🙏🙏

[@buzzybeeT]

Love this conversation! This is exactly what I've been going through. They have taught me a lot in this episode. Need more with this group.

[@praisenuwasiima1119]

This is exactly what I needed to hear. It spoke volumes to my soul 🙏🧡

[@avisienitcuevas]

Thank you for sharing your testimonies and for sharing your stories. Thank you for being such blessing.

[@dgm3033]

Oh, only God knows how much i needed this discussion. Just now i have been reflecting all the way back to my childhood how i cope by muting emotions and thats why i often feel overwhelmed and helpless/tired because of those unacknoledged and muted emotions. The thing with emotions they have a way of popping up in other areas. And i do this thing of drowning the thoughts and emotions with external noise ie music, podcasts, watching something. Thats my way of deflecting/confronting those emotions. Thank you Jesus! Thank you that i have just managed to word this and if theres anything im taking from this discussion that i will use in practice besides sitting with God, is to conciously sit in silence, quiet the external noise and allow God in. 🥹

[@alanagolmei4248]

What an amazing and powerful women of faith. I was shocked and broken when I lost my mom suddenly two months back. I’m legal practitioner, have been working with survivors of sexual assault, broken marriages and relationships. Only through God I get the strength to keep going. Learning and so inspired listening to all these stories. I need to do more for the people who needs help. Would love to connect with women who share the same thoughts and passion.

[@testerzone2579]

Thank you for making me realize my emotions are valid.

[@agnesbekoe7539]

All I can say is Thank You and God bless you

[@bridgeegibson2790]

Thankyou. For your honesty and vulnerability. This has been very helpful. I’m off to study those 39 emotions of Jesus. Bridget in New Zealand

[@bried3274]

This was such a powerful episode. Thank you!

[@christinastoudemire4100]

God thank you for all your help. I Pray for my job to prosper and know christ Jesus. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@martinanagasha3665]

Would love to see Nicole Crank here.❤❤❤ You will all love her

[@summerp7527]

This is so healing for me. Thank you ❤

[@valerieanne225]

Elder sister responsibility. Yes Lord help please

[@Eng4555]

yes sheila that is a great point the presence of the Lord removes fear and that is being said because christian gathering in Scotland is good

[@felicitygrace5113]

Saving this one. So good! Thank you Debra ❤

[@nanaserwaa619]

Thank you for this Video!! I really needed this.

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We are so glad you were inspired!

[@candacejones1375]

Thank you for this.

[@BetterTogetherTV]

You are welcome!

[@miaramona6257]

I'm dealing with this a lot in this season. so hard ❤

[@maryrakes4379]

Great message. ❤️❤️❤️

[@olgasalinas2208]

Thank you ladies for the message (

[@VansVibes]

Great message!!!❤

[@bballeverules]

Needed this today! Thank you ❤

[@JanineMacMillan]

Also needed this message today. Thank you ❤

[@izabelakurzeja7445]

This is incredible! Thank you so much for sharing so honestly about your experience ❤🥹❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@lillianmcgrew217]

I love how you are bringing some new ways to look at this

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We are so happy you enjoyed this talk!

[@gracefabola9984]

Love you better together Ladies ❤❤❤❤

[@oluwadunsinadebayo2276]

Thank you for this episode.

[@HTB.5784]

thank you Ms. Hoover for sharing in a very real way...

[@helena-z5x]

This is awesome; a lot of us deal with long gone trauma with negative responses, if we can all only be open to what God wants to do via therapy and church / psychology to heal us, science rules , Jesus rules, Jesus created science and psychology and works through counselors , doctors etc

[@preciousrushwaya4640]

Beautiful sharing there ladies. You are awesome ❤

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We are so happy you were encouraged!

[@Erupt212007]

Thank You Ladies!

[@lovefelix1566]

Wow! Let the little children come to me (childhood wounds ❤😢)

[@ebonysanders3368]

Literally crying while I’m typing this. This was so needed, thank you ladies. New sub 🤍

[@Gloria-b8g]

I wonder if someone can pray me to pray how to deal with my emotions. My husband called for a separation period. And smee to be able to get through it. I'm going through a lot of emotions. Please someone pray for me. to this season. And to give him the space he needs.please the strength to cope with this. I need healing with my marriage and for God to bridge the gap and bring us back to together.

[@deborah460]

I am praying for you

[@Gloria-b8g]

Thanks

[@suzabella2769]

Read psalms

[@Gloria-b8g]

@@suzabella2769 hi which chapter and what verses

[@tainarimorales1361]

I agree Psalms is Truly refreshing and I Trust The Lord Will minister to you in this difficult and painful time. Even minister to your husband as u worship the Lord. He will allow you to see areas that need to be healed clearly. In the silence and stillness before Him. Praying for u

[@miaramona6257]

I grew up in a home where emotions weren't allowed... we had to "take captive " the emotions... super unhealthy....as a mid 30 yr old...now I'm dealing w the real emotions...so hard

[@SarahiBela]

Same here, talking to a therapist is a good way to get to know your emotions and naming them helps a lot..as humans God gave us those emotions for a reason suppressing them won’t help we have to face them and heal in the areas where healing is necessary

[@ablessedmama4life]

This was a great convo but please respect and understand that trigger warnings can help prepare people for something painful ahead. It gives them the power to proceed, or take a different path, shut it off, etc which they didn't have when the original event or situation happened

[@roearcher7384]

This was sooo good!! Cheers to #growth24

[@BetterTogetherTV]

We love this!