Debra Fileta: How to Heal Your Soul | Soul Care & Mental Health | Women of Faith on TBN

[@AlNezare]

Debra your jazz hands bring me so much joy. When I see you speaking with passion and counseling the less fortunates, it’s like someone placed a huge plate of spaghetti in front of me. Mountains of meatballs and even oysters . I eat everything and become so happy 🎉 congratulations Debrah fileta

[@marianegron5536]

Some people think that self care is selfish. But it isn't selfish. We have to take care of ourselves especially when we take care of others.

[@JeanieEdmonds]

Love thy neighbor AS YOUR SELF

[@brightpage1020]

So true: recently I didn’t realize how much my anxiety was effecting my children or even leaking out of me… but when my special needs little guy acted out in a way out of control way… I got the message it’s time for me to change.

[@nikkismith5782]

As a single mom with no family around and no financial support, this is a slippery slope. I don't care how many times I cast my cares,pray, praise, when everything is on your shoulders to get done (or bills don't get paid, household doesn't run well), it feels like I've been in survival mode (esp financially) in the entirety of my son's life (he'll be 18 in 3 months). Very little time to savor life and rest.

[@bluejeepmama]

Praying for you this morning! ❤ I can't imagine how hard it has been to raise a child alone! I hope you have a great day!

[@Blizerton]

This is exactly what I have been experiencing! I thought it was just anxiety, I thought I was beginning to lose my mind. Meanwhile, I just have been denying true rest and surrender in Christ. I will definitely take the time and practice SOUL care, so that I can be filled and actually love and serve others well. 🥺

[@jpope1981]

I so needed to hear this and I know I'm not the only one, thank you!

[@brightpage1020]

Protect. Connect. Savor, Nourish, & tune in 🎶 🎵 tune 🆙 are the ones I need the to pay attention to most. Protecting my kids: from themselves, each other… idleness, the world’s threats (3 school threats in 1 week just at their school alone - that seem contagious) … my nerves get so fried I can’t even sleep. I avoid my bed trying to get more done while everyone else in the household sleeps while listening on Bluetooth headphones to news or pastors’ messages… Thank you for this check in! Thank you for this work! Can’t wait to read or listen to this book!

[@Alohe2024]

My My My This is really very helpful Debra .God Bless you richly 😊❤❤❤❤

[@carmenmarquez1812]

Great message

[@ML-rh7lv]

We are here to serve others not to serve our self God will look after our needs when we are happy to obey him and serve others in need by looking after through rest pray and spending time with God Amen

[@brightpage1020]

Thank God for my overwhelming chores that keep me out of trouble! And keep my nose to the grindstone of honoring these blessing He has 💝 gifted me with that I prayed for my whole life. Thank you, God for the focus on a family that needs me. That requires the work only a mother can do. Thank God!

[@brightpage1020]

Kirk! With the quote about “to save the world or savor it” 🤩 😻

[@whenyourgone1994]

Wow this interview was awesome 👏🙏 if I could afford it this would be a great book for my Bible study!! Great words and practical application to stay full physically, emotionally, and spiritually 🙏 God Bless you and your families 🙏🫶

[@TamaraPearson-c9h]

So rich! Thanks so much!

[@brightpage1020]

SOUL CARE! Where have you been the past decade I’ve been mothering!?! 😅😂 Self care includes basics like showering, sleeping, trimming our toenails. It doesn’t even have to be luxe spa treatments or expensive cosmetic procedures. For those in abusive or narcissistic relationships, self care can mean speaking up for one self, getting help, or moving to shift the dynamic and attain distance from a potentially dangerous situation. So many seem to be these days in a self-preservation mode. Not just like spa massage luxury version. Most folks I know are struggling with trying to afford enough fruits, vegetables, and healthy food sources rather than food products. Or housing! For their families. And the amount of work necessary to like afford health care / insurance takes more than most of us have to give: hours wise and energy wise. In the ‘80’s and ‘90’s when America had a stronger economy, we could focus on such luxuries as our soul’s calling - even take church and God for granted. But these days, survival is the name of the game and that is a daily battle that steals our attention from that of our soul or its connection with the Divine. Thank you! 🙏Thank you! For this much needed decision!

[@Pathway-xh2qx]

Thank you *Very much Debra & Kirk. This is years in need of Clarity about being Good stewards and plowmen. Genesis I: 26, 28 *subdue All things Take dominion Over All things On earth. II Peter chpt 1- to Faith Add Virtue like Proverbs 31: 10-31, temperance, patience...Clear for us our Responsibility as Instructed by God's Real heart. James 1:25-27, be A *Doer who is blessed in Doing.

[@miamibeachmermaids]

Ok KZbin enough with the ad commercials I’m trying to listen to this video and I’m constantly interrupted uhh 🙄

[@loidarosario3194]

What do you say for us single moms who are also caregivers to our disabled adult child? How can we break away from putting them first?

[@brightpage1020]

Please put a link to how to buy this book or audiobook version in the description, please! 🙏 thank you!

[@jackiegroden416]

Love this but way to many commercials

[@jilllingenfelter4682]

I’m a ISFJA Defender Woman of God. And I’m a Type C personality 100%And I’m also extremely Sarcastic/ and I’m also a Perfectionist:) And I also thank you Jesus for indefinite Permanent Divorce/No Reconciliation ever ever ever ever ever ever!!!! And thank you Jesus for giving me your Amazing Divine Peace/ And indefinite/Permanent Closure. And looking to Jesus always He is the amazing Divine Healer. And He has always been my Everything. And that will never ever Change!!! :)@Women Of Faith On TBN

[@conniemoravec713]

Unfortunately, the answer to “how do we know whether we are choosing to do self-care for selfish reasons” was not a sufficiently complete response and could actually (in many cases) cause more harm to those that are dangerously depleted by using that response as a measuring stick. When you are so depleted, you may not even have the capacity to be thinking how you can fill yourself up so you can serve more. It’s entirely possible, that you could be so depleted at points that you can’t even think of serving anyone or anything

[@vickihope-n2w]

So true !! I took care of everyone but myself . People do take advantage of me. I pray for people that have taken advantage of me but it hurts so much. I stayed quiet to much because I didn’t know what to say. I’ll just keep praying for everyone that has left me. People tell so many lies just to make themselves look good.

[@kolaolewe5457]

And fasting

[@MawkMccuaig]

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[@ggsvgs-t5n]

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[@BockelmanRenton]

I've always wanted to be involved for a long time but the volatility in the price has been very confusing to me. Although I have watched a lot of KZbin videos about it but I still find it hard to understand

[@stephaniejones7015]

The host seems very condescending about the need to care for self. A hot bath could change your entire world for a moment.

[@DivineUwera]

How it came, right when I needed it🥹 God bless you so much