December 19, 2024

[@tyghanvandergaag6155]

I know this is a skit but your ability to set boundaries and stand your ground no matter who it is is astounding and an inspiration 💖💖💖💖

[@NijyaeS-v4t]

That’s their house if he don’t like it he don’t have to come duh 😒

[@gracieg7601]

Don’t come in my house if your husband isn’t comfortable around my girls.

[@NijyaeS-v4t]

@ fr

[@akusaamodel]

As someone who's been told by family men in their 30s! To cover up, i realized immediately they sexualized me. And it wasn't safe to be around men like that.

[@gloriaoluwatosin315]

What does it mean for/when someone sexualizes you???

[@latiii-23]

@@gloriaoluwatosin315 Basically when ur not doing anything in a sexy way or tying to, sb see's it in a sexual way. It happens ALOT in the black community and im soooooo sick of it

[@elizaberto9083]

Yes! I'm in my 30s but I developed overnight at age 10, and immediately my mother became extremely protective. I'm glad she did but women are sexualized from an earlier age than they'd like. Id like to see girls wear a cute belly shirt in the summer, without an entire lecture on her, for the simple fact to keep her safe.

[@Dakarai_Knight]

​@@gloriaoluwatosin315 To turn things or scenarios that are otherwise not sexual into something sexual. If I'm just wearing a pair of jeans I like and go out and go about my day but someone makes it about how it shows my figure or things along those lines that make it about my body in a sexual context that is sexualization. When it's an adult it can be seen as possibly flirtatious or playful (in the right and safe context) but a child should never be sexualized by adults.

[@latiii-23]

@@elizaberto9083 Rs im tired of ppl sexualizing girl to "protect" them. Making the girl feel so ashamed when rlly she not even the problem happy i aint the only one to feel this way.

[@debbiethomas2622]

Him being uncomfortable is a 'his' problem, especially if we're in MY HOUSE!

[@faith6575]

“You can meet your husband outside,” is sending me. 😂😂😂😂

[@BookJedi84]

Cover up what? They're ALREADY covered up. That hubby is gross 🤢

[@vickingsley537]

So is the wife . She sounds jealous

[@EmalizArriaga-v1k]

Mhmm

[@TheBritishCigarette]

I was so confused cause like.... they're clothed?

[@EmalizArriaga-v1k]

@@TheBritishCigarette frr

[@baileyainsworth9248]

Y’all know it’s her doing the voice over, right?..😂

[@makartbro]

I appreciate this. It always made me feel weird when I was told to change when male company would come over. I get my mom was trying to be protective but it would’ve been more protective to not bring someone around who isn’t able to let young girls dress how they want without commenting

[@tianamariee6287]

Maybe she didn't know who would or wouldn't look at u that way and she was just being overly cautious. Not saying it's right, just offering a different way to look at it.

[@peytonclark4063]

This!!!!!! 👏 yes!!!!!! 🙌

[@fantasea114]

Just be glad you had a mom that protected you? Would you have preferred she not care at all and something horrible happened?

[@makartbro]

@@tianamariee6287 she knew but chose to keep that company. We’ve talked about it since then and still see it differently. But even in risk management the best way to prevent something is to remove the problem instead of telling people to behave differently to protect themselves.

[@makartbro]

@@fantasea114I get what you’re saying and I’m grateful for my mom overall but in this situation she’s the one introducing the risk to begin with.

[@princessmoni75]

Such good advice!!! Thank you!!! You are an amazing girl Mom!!! ❤❤

[@carolynturman8441]

That's right Danni ❤ meet him outside and you won't be back here 💯

[@BellaPoche]

Those girls skins are beautiful❤

[@henriettaparks4266]

SHES RIGHT!! AND IT GOES BOTH WAYS!! ✔ FAMILY GATHERINGS DRESS APPROPIATELY!!❤❤❤!!🎉🎉🎉!!✔😮😮!

[@catstreat9434]

Stop sexualizing family members. It isn't women's job to stop men from being disgusting.

[@WhoSentYou-555]

"thanks for letting me know ur husband isnt safe around my girls and neither are you." A MOTHERRR❤😂 i love danni sm

[@jayb1854]

I wish more parents had this type of sense and boundaries with everyone. It blows my mind looking back on my child hood and seeing how gross some adults were to me. These videos are lowkey healing for me because it shows to always respect urself and ur kids first.

[@monaw6484]

Amen

[@mjoselle4978]

….and to protect them by giving them knowledge!

[@LondonWilliams-le9tf]

If your husband is oh idk JEALOUS or maybe OVERWHELMED BY HOW GOOD THEY LOOK then he can leave. No one girl should have to cover up for some guy.

[@user-zc7zz3xg1b]

Inappropriate is inappropriate. Are these girls covered up? Yes. If one of them wears booty shorts and a tank top with no bra, then we can pull the conversation back out. Same for guys hanging out and one of them wants to bring their girlfriend over- you think she should Not be covered, letting cheeks, pussy prints, and nipples pop out her clothes? She shouldn't have to cover up? She immediately becomes for the streets

[@lornalewis7262]

So they should be naked

[@gordshorde]

"my husband isn't comfortable with the people who live in this home" girl then he shouldn't be coming to this home

[@emmanueladuperme170]

That catch at the beginning was smooth!

[@sistervlogs7965]

We saw Thyri and Danielle in Walmart today!! They're so nice!! 😁

[@elizaberto9083]

Im enjoying you giving the new generation of girls a voice, we've been taught from birth to accommodate men in every way, my younger girl Inside wishes she had you growing up

[@CookingWithFatt]

Cleared that lady! Yeah, meet your husband outside ✌🏽

[@CamboCheese]

I think it depends on what type of discomfort, but i wish more people protected their family like this

[@thataussiegirlyouknow]

what other kind of discomfort do you mean?

[@CamboCheese]

@thataussiegirlyouknow like if there was some sort of trauma related discomfort or if it was an OCD related thing (OCD may not be the correct term) Then I could understand why the request would be made, but at that point I wouldn't even go over yk?

[@thataussiegirlyouknow]

@ oh yesss okay i understand now

[@MizDBMe]

I LOVE these skits!! REALNESS!! 🫶🏻 💯 🙌🏻

[@azurebrown3756]

If a man mentions that a woman of any age should cover up, that does not automatically make him a creep. Its is a possibility, but not a greater one than someone who doesn't say anything.

[@thatgirl634]

Exactly

[@thataussiegirlyouknow]

yes you are completely right, but it is the wife that asked the underage girls to cover up because of her husband being uncomfortable, so it doesn't apply to this video

[@eTreeBranch]

@thataussiegirlyouknow he's embarrassed for them, maybe

[@ZainaSady]

​@@eTreeBranch yes prob

[@veronicaviiphillips]

Its not about being a creep its about shifting the burden of responsibility of changing personal behavior to those who are perpetuating unhealthy behavior Its about transforming who we hold accountable, instead of blaming the little girls, its all about holding individuals responsible to their unhealthy tendencies, whether they are creeps or not doesn't matter I literally would be wearing sweats and baggiest every thing to hide myself as best I could and regardless it was still always made my fault that men of all ages could still perceive my booty no matter how well i hid and i was the one still made responsible that grown ass men couldnt be accountable to exhibit self control and restraint to interact with females at any age/development without sexualizing them

[@dimple412]

Only can imagine how life would be if someone were to stick up for me like that.

[@veronicaviiphillips]

I used to be that same way! Until I started stepping into my own empowerment and finding my voice to stand up for me, doesnt matter that nobody did when I needed them, what matters is that I am here now for myself when I need me :]

[@dimple412]

@veronicaviiphillips ok I will try. I've been trying to get out my bed for a week now I know need wash clothes I know I need clean I am such in a dark place I don't even know how I can do it. Honestly it has nothing to do with money you would think I would be happy cause I have money no I'm alone and sad. Even guys that I think like me really don't just use. Now I am sitting here crying again cause I let the laundry mat close again I can't wash clothes so now I'm under the cover in the dark

[@kaylahanson7798]

I wish my mom protected me like this so bad.

[@tianamariee6287]

Sadly I feel u Baby, mine didn't protect me either. I healed myself by giving my daughter what I was denied. Praying for u 🙏🏽

[@veronicaviiphillips]

Many of us experience CSA due to our mothers negligence or complicity Its a tough inner emotional journey to embark on healing, I send the best energies your way as you learn how to cultivate new neural pathways and learn different emotional associations to those traumatic physical components I had shit therapy experiences before but this year I found someone great who is also EMDR certified, if your not comfortable with talk therapy you can still do edmr therapy; however you do need to build some emotional resources and healthier tools for coping mechanisms Its tough work but is so worthwhile, i have so much further to go but the work ive been doing is empowering me to feel safer in my body and not hate myself for any sense of physical pleasure (7 year old me internalized blame and hate onto my body as the reason why I was drugged and raped before I even knew I had a hole there, my momma sold me and she still has to live with that) It takes a whole lot to begin working through all that now at 32 trying to be able to live my life healthly, but seriously it is the best gift you can give yourself, even though it hurts beyond measure Listen to Brother Ali's song "Baby Girl" it might help you :]

[@Makenna_millers]

I love your videos ❤your such a good mom 😊

[@Marilee-z1m]

If her husband is uncomfortable with those girls. He can leave the house because there is noway that he’s coming back 😊

[@tianamariee6287]

And THAT is the ONLY acceptable response to a statement like that. Possibly with the interjection of, "Thank u for letting me know ur husband is an undercover predator and that ur a predator apologist."

[@RorandBri]

Firstly, this is GLORIOUS! Definitely the appropriate reaction. 🥰 And Secondly, i need that hoodie So Bad!!! 🤩😍😅 It's Perfection!!! 😂

[@katherinetorrence1502]

Great reaction. Meet him outside.

[@GoodessLotts]

Yes God knows I respect boundaries

[@IamMuziq3]

Totally understandable... here's another perspective tho: Let's say that somebody is of another faith. It's not necessarily that that person is "not safe" around young girls but would rather be given the same tolerance and respect that he would give. For example: by averting his gaze, he's showing respect for the young ladies, and in return they cover themselves up to give the same respect back. It's not always a matter of perversion but sometimes it's a simple courtesy for those around you who follow different ideologies. ❤️

[@reign3070]

And what religion says that in others people homes they should follow the guests beliefs? I’ll tell you, NONE! In all religions even judaism, islam, and hinduism they all talk about respecting the hosts’s property, rules, traditions, and spaces.

[@han_dsom.e]

​@@reign3070 sure, but you should still have courtesy. adding on to what op said, it's not JUST men who think this way. even I, as a woman, will judge someone because of the clothes they wear. I'm not proud of it, but it's human nature to make quick judgements. you're welcome to dress how you want to dress, but you can't expect not to get judged. it's also just a matter of having self respect, as well as respecting people around you. if I came over for dinner (as a woman) and saw my friends children half naked, obviously I'm going to feel uncomfortable. it's not always that the man is perverted, but rather the guest is uncomfortable. but that's just my take 🤷‍♀️

[@IamMuziq3]

@reign3070 I agree. This is not a requirement. Just simply offering a different perspective. Obviously if the person is "uncomfortable" that's they're own personal issue and shouldn't be looking at young girls in the first place

[@sheenabigblue1829]

Thank you for being a positive mother that is so inspiring! My daughter is 17..... She is allowed to have a undisturbed life of freedom.

[@cassundraherring6515]

Back in the day, they would just say cover up we have someone coming over

[@Trinityyy.yapsss]

I love this. I wish my parents would have been like this growing up ‼️

[@soloed1988]

Let’s all pray for women like this who truly don’t understand nor realize that their husband is the issue. 😞😔🥺😢

[@BlackDiamond-qb9pc]

Exactly!

[@pinkyhotmessx69]

Its not always the husband.

[@Leileiedits_8]

That catch was cleannn

[@TazmeenOsman-u5x]

This skit is amazing as you are protecting your kids in their on home and I love how you gave that this is me and my kids house don’t tell me what to do

[@peytonclark4063]

AMEN!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 yes exactly how this should go! I’ve had to say this to family members about my breastfeeding in my own place!!!

[@melaniewestunfiltered]

I read my husband your comment and he said, "oh thank God himself you weren't there. You hurt that last woman's feelings about breastfeeding. And by the time everyone processed that yes, you really did say that, outloud, they couldn't say anything back because too much time had passed so they just ate more cake." (Baby came early, shower came after)

[@FreeSpiritInGod]

Yeah a very similar disgusting comment was made to me when I was 16 by my aunt in the peak of battling sexual abuse reasons why I will never speak to her again. And the fact she’s a whole nurse who acts like she knows everything and so classy she didnt even care when I told her how she made me feel. Left her ass right there its been years, always asking my mom about me pretty soon ima tell my mom to respect the fact that I dont even want them talking about me anymore. Find something else to do. Or someone’s else’s daughter to accuse of heinous things.

[@merinopowersi8250]

It’s not someone being sexualized it’s basic respect for yourself and those around you. we all have parts. after a certain maturity of the body respect yourself and keep them covered up unless you want something to complain about. people will stare regardless if you’re covered head to toe or have every part popping out but it’s only common sense to know that if someone walks in a room practically naked it doesn’t matter what gender you are someone is going to check out your curves etc. it’s just comes to respecting yourself main point. however you feel comfortable to present yourself in your own body. There’s nothing wrong with someone expressing that they’re uncomfortable. but it’s also ok to tell people not to come around anymore if they feel that way.

[@pinkclouds6512]

They are children so if a grown man is getting distracted over a belly and not even her chest out just her neck he needs help

[@merinopowersi8250]

@ they are children but facts of life and nature are that our bodies mature way before our minds do. someone can be a child in age and mentally but physically our bodies are “adult” before the rest of things catch up. it’s knowing this. For someone to express they are uncomfortable can even be uncomfortable. It’s actually polite in my opinion if someone is able to muster up the courage to do so so there’s no beef with anyone over the matter. but most of the time the only option there is is to walk away and not say a word and have someone wonder why you don’t come around anymore. it’s just how I see it.

[@reign3070]

“It’s not someone being sexualized” Proceeds to sexualize the human body and explain how they sexualize them. If you aren’t the DUMBEST in the room. The lights are on but nobody’s home head a$&, a deer in front of headlights head as$, the house is empty though the door is empty head a$$, on autopilot head a$$, not the sharpest tool in the shed head a$$, out to lunch head a$$, a few sandwiches short of a picnic head a$$.

[@cathyduggar6545]

Are you calling these girls practically naked? Or are you talking about in reality? Cuz yeah we know how sexual a tank top that makes us comfortable heatwise, makes us look.

[@cathyduggar6545]

I wish the skit had the girls in tank tops or something skimpy because it's just so absurd.....it's definitely giving predatory vibes of that other woman's husband.

[@ebonyalexis32]

I love how thyrii always be looking right at u for the reaction , feels so real I love it

[@dawnbeltz]

Wtf do they need burkas? If my husband said that to me we'd be taking a trip to my friends farm.

[@susangloag4401]

Mommas got the best response ❤

[@sherrylynn-j5g]

Amen to that as a mother of two ..I have had this conversation wit a Stanger at the beach ..some just crazy like this 4r

[@RobertPaulk-w6j]

JEALOUSY 😊😊IM ALREADY KNOWING

[@AshleyKyer-sc2rc]

Yea girl preach....if they dont like something my kids are doing they can leave this is my kids home and safe place ❤❤❤❤

[@jdelrie2922]

This is why there's a 304 problem

[@monaw6484]

THAT IS HOW THAT SITUATION GETS HANDLED CORRECTLY❤

[@thepropheticscribe1]

Whoever’s house it is their rules must be respected. If you don’t like the rules or culture of the household, wait in the car.

[@Paris_Jayy]

I’m my opinion does not matter but here are some I feel statements. (What the girls were wearing in this video was ok ) I feel like if your girls are in booty shorts and a sports bra or just maybe a sports bra and sum pants and ppl are coming over no matter if it’s a female or male I would cover up a little not bc the female or male is suspicious or whatever but simply because it’s respectful and good etiquette,who wouldn’t feel uncomfortable if someone was half dressed just walking around … it’s not that most are dangerous (some are) but it is uncomfortable

[@chelseayarborough7042]

That is a amazing mom

[@JessicaPernell]

good for you mom cause it ain’t your problem that her husband can’t control his inappropriate thoughts you a real 1❤

[@JustMeJayE73]

Kudos to you, mama!!

[@Cassiopia_Swan]

Wish my parents would have stood up for me like this 😭

[@mmabathomoremong]

Hey do you mind hiding the steak ..my dog is out the leash😅

[@avalowery5185]

Jesus loves you and your family ❤

[@RyleiJones-i2z]

PERIOD and don’t you ever forget it

[@TylerKing-l8n]

Period CUZ HUSBAN SHOULDNT EVEN BE WORRIED OR PAYING ANY ATTENTION TO THE GURLS ❤

[@Abby-t8d5v]

Fr he has a wife he should only be looking at her like that

[@whatreallyhappened8307]

No the girls are trying to show off on purpose.

[@pinkyhotmessx69]

They aren't 4 and 5

[@JveonaWindom]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@robinswampangel]

Normalize holding men accountable for the actions,

[@Butterflybooks_3]

EXACTLY. FINALLY, SOMEONE SAYS IT

[@jaredmccary8571]

You're a good mom

[@Nava-mo9pz]

Well, take your husband and yourself and go to your home. My sister and her husband came to visit. My sister asked my dad to make me put on some different shorts because my shorts were too shirt. My dad said, "No, because she lives here, and your husband needs to stop looking."

[@serenity_rose_17]

They do need to coverup its inappropriate to have your body showing like that. Thier body is meant for their husband and them to see not the world.

[@thataussiegirlyouknow]

while i see your point, considering they are both young and one of the girls is underage, and the man is a grown adult, does that change anything?

[@serenity_rose_17]

@thataussiegirlyouknow it doesn't rly change anything even a grown adult should be covering up no one should really be showing their bodies, and if he's uncomfortable that may nit be him being a orrv but feeling uncomfortable that he's seeing a minor half baked bc that can be oretty uncomfortable.

[@thataussiegirlyouknow]

@@serenity_rose_17 yesss i see your point now

[@SelenaLopez-p5r]

You guys posted on my birthday

[@audriecogswell3504]

She husband should be able to control himself around other peoples kids

[@marieefarrell5009]

Ur my fav girls ❤❤❤

[@FeliciaHamilton-fi9tg]

Right 😅🤦🏾🤷🏾 that's crazy 😅 like really 🤔✋🏾👩🏾

[@cathyfb]

You go girl!!!😅

[@TrinityAmbriz]

They have literally zero skin showing. My guy needs to learn self control.

[@JveonaWindom]

Call kids❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@sharandhillon7833]

She is such a sweet precious mom she does not care about her husband that is the best thing i have saw

[@JennaBorrero]

Loved this!!!! Yes ma'am 😂😂😂😂

[@thecatechronic_ills]

This is their home. ❤

[@aylinnkaye]

jesus loves you

[@VictoriaMcclary]

Good mom❤

[@Joeyweatherwax]

Why is no one talking about how that apple catch was so smooth

[@rebajohnson8035]

Nice flip of the bird by your youngest lol😊

[@aryuscrisp7001]

They dont need to cover up the clothes are ok but as a farher with a daughter it doesn't matter who the man is or if he is or isn't looking at you in a sexual way you should tell them to cover up if theyre showing cleavage boobs or ass and if theyre saying theyre feeling uncomfortable it doesnt mean that they are sexualizing you it could be a they want to be respectful to you or maybe they just genuinely dont feel comfortable around people dress like that. This is ridiculous you shouldnt be pushing this out. If a woman or girl tells me hey i dont feel comfortable with you having your shirt off than ima put it on. Its called decency and the fact that she just called a man a pedophile because he doesnt feel comfortable around teenage girls showing skin is crazy. Theres nothing wrong with wearing crop tops or v necks but to push this out and still make it a man's fault for feeling uncomfortable is stupid and isnt teaching anything good to girls and

[@avelasquez1521]

Is the husband a pervert? Cause why the hell he looking there when he shouldn't be, and also the end is a slay "you can meet your husband outside" slayyyy

[@tracyrieonhall7434]

Oh hell no this is my house and my children will feel comfortable in their own home as this moment you and your husband are no longer welcomed in our home good day!!!

[@Zebra_ashes]

You are an amazing mom!!!!!! I got one belly shirt at 12 years old and it wasn't a major cut off or anything, it sat directly above the belly button and my mom told me that i can only wear it inside and when we don't have people over, obviously I was a rebellious kid but if I wore shorts my mom would tell me I had to sit like a lady like..... Ma'am I'm 9 years old if anyone's attracted to that I don't think you want them in your house

[@faithmundia7023]

Here in Zambia,it's a Norm❤😂.

[@itakemylifeback]

Way to go mama ❤

[@toomuch8931]

Wow the audacity of ppl… that’s right the door is to the left!!!

[@MaddieVaughan-r6u]

I wish my mom was like that. i can't even wear a crop top because she said men are gorss and will look at me

[@veronicaviiphillips]

Its because of the good work Thyri and Danielle do that we are finally just beginning the task of shifting the burden of responsibility to the individuals perpetuating the bad behavior, instead of excusing their unhealthy patterns with victim blaming. Unfortunately for all older generations we come from a different societal framework that is underworks to be broken down and transformed, so we carry alot of the inner work it takes to be accountable to our own personal emotional regulation despite uncontrolled external circumstance

[@mattiejones6869]

If you are a grown man and you are around a teenage girl or young woman for that matter and you are looking at them in any way shape or form that you should not be looking at them then you do not need to be around them whatsoever that is wrong and very perverted a young lady should feel comfortable in her home home to dress as she feels not uncomfortable when company comes around certain people come around it's their home their privacy their comfort if you don't like it then you can leave not them respect their home and respect their boundaries if you can't do that then don't go to somebody's house

[@TeresaWaterman-bull]

Good mum and step back lady and tour hubby needs help

[@jacquelinehutchinson2256]

Facts ❤

[@Hiscountrywife91]

I am the same way. If my girls are in shorts and shirt they are fine. If your husband has a problem then he isn’t coming into my house anymore

[@NebulaKat345]

Went through this as a kid. I didnt go through puberty yet, but I couldnt wear night gowns, tank tops, or shorts when my uncle or boy cousins came over. Looking back at it, I can understand my why my mom did it. But they were regular pajamas for a kid to wear 😭 They werent those lingerie shorts or tiny night gowns. And the tank top? I didnt even have breasts yet lol

[@Terri-e7u]

I am so sorry. My parents never allowed pervy type people in their home, to begin with. HOW FKN RIDICULOUS! These girls are dressed casually, not provocatively. Trying to shame females is unacceptable, Jfc!🤬

[@rishabarnes2936]

Yes he's uncomfortable because he's looking at them in a lustful way and I wish I'd recognized this as a sign of being a creep cuz my cuzin was like that with me my whole life and I took it as him being overprotective up until he date raped me a yr after my father passed away perfect example of setting safe boundaries for ur children (yes I'm aware it's a skit)

[@wangxian4]

Omg I remember I was like 8 and I was living with another family member and her husband said that he’s uncomfortable around me like bro

[@neicielove]

It's not alway A man looking at girls. It's the point of being respectful. Now what these girls actually have on in this skit is not as bad as how aome of these girls dress today.

[@claudiaorellana8195]

As someone who grew up conservative in a very VERY CONSERVATIVE CHURCH AND FAMILY, I can tell you actually that is how we dress to look "a little bit more attractive" just saying...

[@raehaheardrh]

❣️❣️❣️

[@LaLana-hb4dk]

Exit stage left❤

[@AllThings_Bookish]

I wish my mom acted like this. My stepdad told my mom he was uncomfortable with me wearing a sport bra (that covered absolutely everything) around the house when I js wake up, and so now, I have to get fully dressed before I can even use the restroom in the morning…kinda makes me uncomfortable that me wearing something makes him uncomfortable…

[@tanikacox5455]

I woulda gave her the boot after the "Hey, uhm, do you mind if you tell your girls to like ...cover up" 😂

[@Lost_Again_]

Is someone is conservative and is uncomfortable socially in a particular home, DON’T VISIT! I know this is a skit but it is very accurate. Why are people so self important that they insist that everyone think and behave just like them? And actually have the balls to expect other acquaintances or strangers to change for them and are offended when they don’t?

[@NicoleMalkin]

Nice