CONFIDENT BLACK MEN Make Women UNCOMFORTABLE!

[@DeCurtaRican]

They love to call “confident” men “conceited” or “arrogant.”

[@maomobile]

Yea it can be a problem sometimes. When I was single it reduced my selection. It just teaches resilience, especially for men who are family oriented

[@raygreenfinger]

Or sassy

[@Retired_Life_1]

FACTS!!! That's because confident men are not desperate or easily manipulated and trigger women's insecurities.

[@lionheartisrael249]

They can call me whatever they want their words hold no weight with me..🤷🏾‍♂️🥱

[@DOUBLEUPENTERTAINMENT9]

Now they calling us sassy and toxic 😂smdh 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@IamamessKeith]

A lot of women need to remember they’re created for us not us for them !!

[@louburgunde9719]

I just said this on another channel. The same thing, but I said women are our help mates Not our GOD, that title is for God in Jesus Christ Amen and Hallelujah!!! 🎉🙌🙏

[@KtotheG]

They're trying to flip it. That's why they're angry.

[@Skyrizi55]

@@KtotheGThey’ve tried this before!!!,…look at Jezebel!,…you see what happened to her!,…

[@TheZeroDestroyer]

He's right. Look at all the women who hated on Simone Biles husband because he was a confident black man.

[@Philadelphia_Jamal]

"Happy man is God's plan." Biblically correct!

[@johnq4520]

It ain't just black women who become uncomfortable around confident black men, all groups of women become uncomfortable around confident black men.

[@coachc125]

This young man is speaking on a level that most people can't understand, it's more than physical, he's speaking in meta-physical terms.

[@Davon-sx4zm]

He’s not a young man dude is like 40. Facts he has a lot of wisdom.

[@vincentspivey8047]

Say it again! Meta-physics, Quantum Physics, Consciousness 😈💪🏾

[@Rolling8687]

💯....

[@coachc125]

@@Davon-sx4zm I'm older than him. So he's a young man to me and 40 isn't that old 🤣

[@jamonburse8537]

@@Davon-sx4zmthat’s something these insecure woman would say nit picking at his age instead of just taking g in the information chick traits

[@dylanhill1640]

My father taught me self confidence as a teenager, and I prefer to let my actions speak for themselves. This can be challenging for those hyenas who are used to controlling son husbands, simps, and others. I fired a hyena before Christmas due to her toxic attitude and failure to meet standards.

[@dieudonnemcful]

Well done

[@cjack202003]

I don't care if my chick is happy. As long as I'm happy, I'm good. Not going to spend my life trying to make her happy or any woman happy. Either she's happy with me or she not. She can exit the relationship at any time.

[@thembanitshabangu2919]

If every man thinks like you the world would be a better place. We can never make this gender happy especially the modern day women.

[@elx2482]

"Happiness" is an "inside" job.

[@kenyattathompson6685]

Amen!

[@LordofLaughs]

​@@elx2482 brilliant stuff 👏 👌

[@thricegreat6018]

She gone get happy or she gone get gone... I'll be damned if you gone bring that bad energy around me

[@SavvyOneH]

I always felt black women feared confident and masculine men who don't give a shit about their negative opinions, etc

[@Retired_Life_1]

FACTS!!!

[@charlescoles6650]

This is something which all black men need to hear.

[@jbthatsfire]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@blackdynamite4174]

FACTS!!

[@gradieroberson4697]

I'm definitely listening bro

[@DoctrineForensics]

This young man is speaking truth. As a black man I purposely bring my energy level down in the work place because is see my co workers cannot handle me at 100 every day. Just testifying to back up what he is saying.

[@kenyattathompson6685]

Not alone

[@A_of_Diamonds]

2025 please don't do this, go to 110% we all have to vibrate High

[@IAMMOVIN4WARD]

Been there. I'm just now getting an understanding of how to balance that "at 100" and keep the peace amongst all coworkers.

[@nathanielrichardson9817]

GET OUT OF THERE AND TURN UP✔️

[@melanin_gyrl2469]

I admire him. His confidence is so appealing.

[@FireBomberBassist]

Some of us have a constant chip on our shoulder then wonder why men are annoyed with us.

[@darnellrhodes6174]

Its true many modern American black women are intimidated by confident, resourceful, smart, strong 💪 tough, masculine men!!

[@nathanielhaynes555]

All people are. That is why everyone is trying so hard to destroy us

[@ruffinc1783]

If he was in Mississippi, many Sistas would turn the opposite direction, fast 😅

[@Tchalla-jp5tz]

That's why they ALWAYS attack him by saying he's "ARROGANT!"

[@Nysdaddy]

@nathanielhaynes555… But there’s levels to it.

[@KtotheG]

This includes blk mothers, as well... which is why so many BM are soft today.. Their mothers broke them down because they can't allow two men in the house.

[@pos2402]

I experience this everyday. Hating sistas.

[@iononharris]

💯😔

[@regbandz4208]

I'm a black man and I can't stand the evil black woman!

[@contextmatters8243]

Ma used to say "Books smart doesn't mean you have common sense...". 🤔 Words of wisdom.

[@dionmclaughlin3669]

Yup

[@gradieroberson4697]

Very true

[@brucetopey8071]

What book smarts? I hear PhD females say things lije: "i had went" or "we was conversatin"

[@rhammond1963]

A lot of people don't have common sense........unfortunately.

[@claykendall7681]

Now that's what you call dropping Scientific knowledge since a lot of our people don't believe in The Most High anymore 👀

[@byronparker4088]

Real talk

[@PatrickBatticeKN]

I respect the way the brother speaks... And DeeDee am feeling you. I'm listening to you more.

[@sirpream.clientele]

"Self-Reflection" is the 🔑...

[@reemosama1]

They don't wanna see confident brothers really seeing now it now

[@byronparker4088]

Facts

[@TheRealJPhillips]

Facts. I Was chilling at a get-together with some friends and a woman comes in and starts talking sht to me out of all the dudes there and I was sitting at the card table playing spades minding my business. I knew what it was tho. I did my best to ignore her before I got up and left

[@jaha777jaha6]

Had something similar happen to me, they're usually sisterhood, lez, possessed or interested but so immature and insecure they can't have a decent conversation submit and tell you so they are combative not wanting to be feminine, most times traps, they know they don't qualify for a real one and get mad💯

[@reemosama1]

@TheRealJPhillips That happened to me she was jealous of her friend cause she wanted me to get her name and number, and the friend messed it up

[@nathanielrichardson9817]

​@@reemosama1FISH LICKIN, SARDINE SUCKERS, ?

[@skssuccess75]

100% on clear mirrors.. Years ago I figured out what do I have to change about myself to get better outcomes

[@Xilent1]

Smart literally living up to his name. Love and Respect this Brotha

[@hewhothinks6223]

I see some men in here have a problem with what the Smart Guy is saying. For a lot of men with simpish ways its out of the question to reject a woman outright. The confident man is always the prize. When these types of men have a mission, and the woman submits to it (submission) then you will see things turn around in regard to male/female relationships.

[@TheNujabes24]

Thank you 🙏🏿

[@JWFitness1]

These weak men are the reason why women are outbid control. They let them run over them.

[@okthen5566]

You're not a prise as a man, if you ain't living in God's will then you just in your ego

[@derrick7542]

Dee Dee this episode was one of the best that you have produced. Your work embodies the true personification of what a good grounded wife and mentor to our African American women should be. Keep tracking this young brother in your content because because the two of you magnify and compliment the message our young women need to recieve. You are walking in your divine purpose. Keep up the good work ❤❤❤

[@thespeakersoftruth7187]

Sister Dee Dee for the win! Great video. Thank you Sister!

[@PrinceoftheLightSkins]

He explained my life to a tee

[@contextmatters8243]

To paraphrase: Energy follows thought..💪

[@rhammond1963]

She (DeeDee) ain't lying.

[@dexterscarbrough3142]

Smart Guy…….PREACH!!!!!

[@iononharris]

My Guy💯🤝🏾

[@ccol009]

I know. I don’t need a woman to tell me who I know I am.

[@brucetopey8071]

Brother with intellect & gravitas! A new breed!

[@JG-jz3wh]

? They do exist and always, quite frankly there’s plenty of them, its just they’re silenced.

[@wendellhemmingway3535]

He knows how to put what he has learned together. He is very helpful. For example, "As a man thinketh, so is he." Kudos to that young man.

[@Specialcot77]

When men know your worth and they will not tolerate any disrespectful or BS

[@welcome1809]

well said Deedee, and thank you.

[@JusTheKing.]

They hate us because we are the Israelites of the Bible. God's chosen people and the ones prophesied to rule forever VERY soon. If you are an Israelite reading this, repent and keep God's commandments. Time is short.

[@OmaAlkebulan-grace]

OK young man this is how I talk and show people 👏

[@iceman_2360]

I saw a clip where a woman said she's turned off by a confident man because she knows she has to do more to win him over as opposed to a man who's not confident. A man can really tell when a woman really appreciates him for who he is instead of what he provides starting with how he carries himself.

[@vincentmartin3337]

The man speaking is a prodigy!

[@pgb6517]

“For man did not come from woman, but woman came from man. And what is more, man was not created for the sake of the woman, but woman for the sake of the man.” - 1 Corinthians 11:8, 9

[@shedricjarrett3636]

I LOVE THIS SISTA!!! Great content, as always!!!

[@daviddarden1915]

Totally in agreement. Even a Black Man who is a son, grandpa, uncle, big brother who has confidence scare 😱 Black women that these women would make false accusations that he is disrespectful or have some type mental stability problems. When none of that is true. The only thing that a Black Man is expressing his life interactions and opinions. GOD BLESS 🇺🇸 AMERICA. Thank you for this great incite of information.

[@TheGeekSurgeon]

In so many words what the brothers were saying. As I have learned over the years. "You continue to think like you've always thought. You will continue to get what you always got. If you want things in your life to change. You gonna have to change things in your life."

[@Elements4Nature]

The brother was right about the vibration part. ! DeeDee you make an excellent point also.

[@kenlawrence6716]

Damn, this felt like the Blackman's Masterclass...This guy is cooking 🍳🔪🔥

[@TheFirstTEE1]

They practice "Hyper-Gammy".

[@nathanielrichardson9817]

U MEAN GHETTO GAGGN? DNA DUMPSTERS FOR MASSA AND ALL NON BLACKS, STD TRAPS 🤡 Z

[@omarallen4768]

As a divine masculine, I had to heal my past childhood trauma, traditional conditioning, ego death, shadow work, inner self-reflection, change of perception, self-care, love of self and learn to set boundaries.

[@maxwellbrisk5622]

I always wondered why some blk women/girls would make little slick comments without me even acknowledging their presence. Why are you so stuck on someone that you dont "like" and that is minding their business? What he said makes sense now.

[@KingKing-kw2yv]

i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everything-confidence boosters, social tips, you name it-but nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.

[@mrjasonsamuel23]

Know your worth kings

[@anthonyanderson9784]

Has a PHD, has $300k in student loan debt, and makes $45k per year. But she has a winning???

[@0207khenry]

She a liability!!!😂😂

[@Benjaminlili]

Lovely, Enlightening and Sharp

[@latouchethewriter2180]

Spot on 💯

[@jaydee3555]

I knew it was something special about you! I just subscribed!!!

[@user-of7pj7sx4r]

College doesn't promote intelligence. Being smart 🤓 and intelligence is not the same... growing and learning everyday should be a blessing.. always learning and knowledge is positive

[@thesbg92]

This is a great message. Thank you for sharing this video.

[@LadyDee0404]

Facts! That young man dropped so much knowledge! I love to see & hear it!!

[@andrewpouncil8411]

keep up the good work Dee Dee facts

[@Dee-tb6gt]

This is universal, if you a black man with confidence All EVERYONE except the few who are for you are against your CONFIDENCE as a black man. This is the biggest reason WE are hated, Stereotyped, but STAY DOWN TIL U COME UP

[@breonemcnill1466]

Talk your talk, bro!!!!!

[@FindYah]

"Happy man is Yah's plan" Bars!!

[@rhammond1963]

The man in the mirror 🪞 (Michael Jackson)

[@DaleA.Darlington]

Reason some people enter a room and everyone turns too look at him. And some people enter a room and no one notices. Some enter a room and for no reason you luke or dislike that person first time meeting them.

[@geoffreyjoseph514]

"the factory that builds the red flags is in your subconscious mind"

[@dlion4723]

Want to see what Bro. Smart is talking about???..... Go watch Django Unchained. When Jamie Fox( Django) walks in while the two blackmen are wrestling. Watch the blackwoman's face.

[@ronaldcollier1761]

There are so many hidden gems in that movie ,but I do agree with you on that particular scene.

[@matthewstephens8634]

We say facts they get mad most of the time

[@ruffinc1783]

In Mississippi mainly the men with d bad boy, swagged out, and macho persona are valued 😊

[@boblawblaw6185]

PREACH SISTER , INFORM THESE WOMEN. We need more black women's voices like yours. Black men been trying to do this for decades and look how they treated Kevin Samuels. It wasn't that he was wrong about some of the stuff he said, we now understand MOST black women don't like to hear it coming from a black man for exactly the reason you discuss in this video. most black women that have been brainwashed by white society Hate 2 things: a confident black man and a confident black man that is right or speaks truth from logic. They hate it because they are TAUGHT to hate it by people who know that disrupts the fake meritocracy and class system for themselves they have based on race.

[@nathanielrichardson9817]

THEY HATE U BUT DO A WATERED DOWN IMITATION OF EVERYTHING I CREATE, IN INVENTIONS, MUSIC, STYLE, SLANG FASHION, MANNERISMS, MORE JEALOUSY AND ENVY EFFIMINANT TRAITS, CAN'T BEAT THE ORIGINAL MELANTED NATIVES WARRIORS WITH A BORING,STIFF,CORNY,BLAND, COPY✔️ ITS ALL LIES AND FAKE, BW IN AMERIKKA GO ALONG WITH IT BECAUSE THEY CHOSE THE FAKE LIES OVER THE MELANTED NATIVES WARRIORS, KARMA IS HERE✔️ 👿Z FLOCK TOGETHER ✔️ THEY BOTH WILL SOON BE DESTROYED ✔️

[@uriandropov8039]

No lies detected here 😅

[@LoadedL]

Interesting fella...

[@williamdorgu3334]

Fantastic concept

[@MWW-p3b]

My man is on point, explaining how energy exposes feelings, thoughts and behaviour...Personally, I would say loyalty is the reason why most of these educated women have a problem with a confident black man...Being the natural mate, loyalty demands truth quality standards commitment...The mirror that he talks about, is frightening to anyone, especially to a person s who is not a friend of any kind.

[@KingsMen-RUS]

A happy man is gods plan 🙏🏼 🙌🏽 🤯🤫💯

[@LAlex7]

When I was doing art shows on the regular, the main ones tearing me down and harshly criticizing were…black women. Trying to ruin the mood. And I paint mostly black women. Maybe mad that the BM that I’m painting don’t look like them. It’s the ugly one ones from the inside. It’s like they hate for you to have a good day.

[@southsideschooloffinancial4059]

Well, when anybody starts saying, “genetically superior” they begin to lose me. However, I agree that a lot of women are uncomfortable around a confident man, In college, I noticed how my female classmates always seem to have boyfriends who were less “intelligent” than they were-their boyfriends grades were lower. I realized this when my female classmate asked me to help her correct some assignments. I thought it was her assignment, so, I said “ sure”, but I soon realized that it was her boyfriend’s assignment. Of course I immediately stopped helping her. “Why am I helping this fine lady help out her dummy boyfriend?” I have a lot of degrees and I know how many women I helped in college so I am never impressed with a woman’s education.

[@kvthegameaddict8404]

I read you first sentence and I don’t understand how someone could “lose you” by saying that because us black folks are genetically superior, that doesn’t mean we gotta walk around thinking that we are better than everyone else but are genes are very strong because mixed race people are black as well and we’re the original human beings that gave life to other races. When we say “genetically superior” that doesn’t mean we think we’re better but we are the chosen ones

[@nathanielrichardson9817]

THE MELANTED NATIVES WARRIORS FIRST CIVIILSED MAN IN THIS UNIVERSE AND BROUGHT KNOWLEDGE,SCIENCE TO THE NEANDERTHAL RHESES MONKEY NON BLACK OTHERS ON THIS PLANET ,THATS IN OUR SOLAR SYSTEM 🛑🤡

[@southsideschooloffinancial4059]

@ You sound retarded. I am Black, and damn proud of it. I don’t think any human genetics are superior to any other human genetics. Different, but NOT superior. Putting Black before the word superior instead of white just proves that many Black people see the world in the same way as white people.

[@JG-jz3wh]

@@kvthegameaddict8404💯💯

[@Namekiankingpi]

The more you read the bible... the more confident you become

[@Spacedust1911]

Man shut that crap up. That’s one of the reasons why we don’t think for ourselves now. Religious people are the least confident. You have to seek something outside of yourself.

[@nathanielrichardson9817]

BIBLE? PINK JESUS THEIR SAVIOR LET THEM HAVE IT LITERALLY 👿 Z FLOCK TOGETHER ✔️

[@fredpayne1581]

Peace to the Goddess This is nothing but the Gospel Truth !!!! Can I get an Amen !!!!!

[@jamesharper3140]

🎯 Excellent commentary DeeDee! 🥇🫡 This dude is on point! Women claim they love an intelligent man until one shows up 😉

[@elliotthogan8773]

Very good video.

[@lacywm]

When I was younger, I would try and use basic logic in an effort to understand why she was feeling some type of way when I KNEW for a fact I did not do anything to her...if I even knew her at all. It was mindboggling. But I never thought beyond the first tier of logic as to why. Now it all makes sense. There's ALWAYS a reason for something...and I was just too dumb to know, LOL.

[@marioharris3752]

😳😳🙈🙈Jailhouse education 😂😂😂😂

[@markhill5874]

Great video....💯

[@Wolfflybynature]

I can confirm that some women literally panic around confident men it’s like their energy is paralysing even worse if they think less of him 😅

[@jordanglasper1064]

Perfect Video Message

[@theknightspalace]

This happens to me for well over 20 yrs with bw..

[@Iyanla_bandzant]

I loveeeeee him!! 😍💙

[@Blackie6063]

People will believe anything if sounds good

[@INFAMOUSLSG]

I think that was the guy who was on another podcast talking about the sleazy rituals that go on in hip-hop. Even in that video he was dropping knowledge.

[@IDonGivAvok]

That's him...

[@syedmubarak825]

i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.

[@larryhoskins1553]

I think a lot of men confidence is based on how much money he has cause society makes them feel like that's the only thing that's important to women

[@AubreySawyer-hi3zx]

Thank u

[@FleXxTheFuture]

Yes even from the time that they are a child

[@Tyrone-n2k]

Yep

[@permafrost2893]

"Modern-day Wife, lifetime of Strife!"

[@Joey_Lance]

“Happy man is God’s plan”

[@vincentmartin3337]

"Consensus" tells you that women like "confidence" in men the most. That would make sense in an ideal environment and society however the real world isn't ideal. "Confidence" has become entirely subjective and is VALUE based and ultimately is defined and accepted differently from person to person. So what makes intuitive sense like a half-way decent person with decent virtues and confidence should be respected. Furthermore, the confident person is still highly likely to be refused of any respect by other people. Counterintuitive.

[@jstreets1983]

They want to humble you.

[@HereIGooooo]

You should experience a man with options and a solid mindset….stay safe

[@bryanthardaway2935]

Talking to me and they will to guilt you into being what they want you to be in control of you