Women CHOOSE WRONG & Complaiin About Not Having GOOD Men!

[@J.D.Journey]

These topics are getting old. Choosing a man based on physical, swag, sex game, and the ability to keep up a emotional Rollercoaster will never work.

[@eddiejohnson4434]

That’s why society used to choose for them

[@asdfxcvbn746]

not really. bashing on women for having poor decision making skills & watching them face the consequences & hit the wall afterward, NEVER gets old lol smh

[@shorts26]

Women don't choose wrong they pick and choose exactly who they want so don't complain about the outcome or expect more when you need help

[@perfectibilist]

Exactly

[@sickofguysnamedtodd2293]

Exactly. Like Medium man said, they don’t choose wrong they choose their type. They knew exactly what they were getting into and they’re mad that the outcomes they received in reality didn’t match the fantasy in their heads.

[@mikhailabdurrachman2443]

Imagine insisting on buying a Lion for a pet but you get surprised WHEN that lion bite you in the rear end

[@eugenedantzler4485]

Facts

[@MrCletus1968]

These women are going to continue to choose men on how they feel. Good men are boring while the woman is young. When she reaches her mid thirties then she wants a husband only after a bunch of kids or a bunch of trauma has happened. Then they act like they still have the choice they had in their twenties. They forget the man has the choice now instead of the woman.

[@Rexderaptor113]

Facts!!

[@briandiggs3508]

​@@Rexderaptor113 These women are in their 40's now thinking they have options and still playing games

[@emperorcesar8208]

I remember a black female college professor at 27 told me then I was age 35 psychiatrist working at Syracuse university medical hospital told me she likes me but she wasn’t ready for a stable successful black man like me. TODAY I still see her single, but I am 38 now married with two boys 18months 3 months to my 23 yr old wife

[@danconiaf]

Great for you 🎉

[@ViperBOSS74]

Excellent!

[@waltersimmons946]

@@emperorcesar8208 You avoided a headache.

[@rodmoore_]

Lack of accountability and responsibility

[@terryc.1115]

Women keep listening to other women, i told my ex-wife 20 yrs ago, right before we split up, I said them single females you starting to hang out with, wants what you have, & if they can't have it, they'll destroy yours, she wouldn't listen, we separated, when i went to pick up my son at her apartment, several of her girlfriends there drinking, smoking, enjoying themselves, & when she lost her job, she called me, wanting to come back, I said "NO WAY", I don't want a weak minded wife who allowed her friends to break up her marriage..It was a WRAP FOR ME 👈🏾.

[@Itsnotmenfault]

Amen women always listen to other women but not their husbands

[@Kiddvinn]

Stood on business like a Boss, RESPECT‼️🤝🏾

[@patrickmccane3708]

Kudos

[@Thereisnomole-di7rt]

That's always the case. Show me your friends, you show me yourself. You are what you attract. Men never give other men bad advice. Women on the other hand will give you advice based on bias and expectations.

[@tyronelrydermetraflyerchri765]

Women it's time for y'all to wake up and take full accountability.

[@Blackgrimreaper2024]

That takes common sense

[@waltersimmons946]

Wrong women need to get over it and get a pet. The pet wont argue with them. They'll just run away. 😂😂😂😂😂 2:21

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

lol. los of cat shelters.

[@waltersimmons946]

@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Definitely lol 😆

[@Omega86641]

Shame and accountability need to comeback!!!

[@tallwaltjohnson9278]

Yeah shaming & accountability always been there it just wasn’t there for women but always there for men so now we new day of men not dealing with society b.s anymore if it collapse so be it yall thank the modern day women for it lol 😂

[@joemomma3208]

He who finds a wife finds a good thing! Anything else is out of order! 💯

[@vincewill11]

The person who said that also said if men 1 in 10,000 are good, among women I found NONE.

[@vincewill11]

Why does female intuition only work to catch a cheater but not a good man🤔

[@joemomma3208]

well stay celibate or invest in lotion

[@joemomma3208]

ask a woman

[@tallwaltjohnson9278]

You can keep thinking this old way of doing things b.s actually a thing because I’ll rather stay single unmarried & childless for the rest of my life than to deal with modern delusional toxic women of today society & having a wife being in a marriage with children in today era is unreal all it brings is stress & life ruining you & the old cats can have it we new day of age men not dealing with it 😂

[@theflyent7106]

They choose wrong and then play victim

[@Mental_Alchemist]

Bad advice imo. Women would feel like shes settling for that guy if she doesn't want him. It doesn't matter if he's a good man or not. She wants what she wants. She's likely to cheat on him or at the very least, he's always just one mistake away from her leaving him. I wouldn't even want to wife a woman who felt like she was settling for me because she couldn't get her first choice. I could be her stand in for a bit, scratxh the itch or what have u, but i ain't trying to be her man fr. Those women are temporary....at best....and its probably better to not even deal with her in the 1st place. That's how u end up throwing up, ugly crying, and punching the air bcuz u found out she's out here cheating on you.

[@gingerhoney4031]

I agree with you. I would say these same women need to figure out why they don't want a good man. What is it about a man who wants to be good to them that turns them off?

[@gordonallen9095]

Real talk. I don't want to be your "alternative." It won't work in the "long run."

[@Bearme73]

No one is saying they have to settled or choose otherwise. We are saying STFU about men, you got what you want and now you have buyers remorse. F'kk those 304s.

[@RealG23__]

Ms Dee uno these woman ain’t gonna listen

[@sangxiong2241]

You can't sugar coat the harsh truth an the woman are just not ganna understand. People have selective hearing. They would rather listen to a lie then to accept the truth about real issues.

[@iam_ALEXWHAT_]

The whole loving #BAD_BOYS is getting old & men aren't always gonna be their by: 2030! 101st✈️💯🏃🏿🤣🌄

[@markbrown1255]

Ironic because the godfather KS try to tell them that they got mad at him and Hated him for it 🤣 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@gordonallen9095]

The truth HURTS......

[@eddiejohnson4434]

We can tell women the truth but it needs to be coated in making them feel better. They can’t hear the truth if they feel bad about it, feelings will always take priority

[@markbrown1255]

@eddiejohnson4434 Disagree you make them feel bad to Teach them a Lesson so they do not do it again and to make better decisions this is the fucking problem with Modern day women they don't want to be hold Accountable

[@markbrown1255]

@gordonallen9095 that's the problem with Modern day women you try to tell them they be Ready to insult people

[@Mike_M.]

Most modern black women have hybristophilia due to Hip-Hop culture and hood glorification.

[@briandiggs3508]

Meg the Stallion, Cardi B, Sexy Redd, Nikki Minaj are their Role Models now

[@ShawnC.T.]

That's their overwhelming unaccountability, it's why they'll remain insane...🤨

[@theeagleslairchannelwithcoacht]

My husband has told me this for years. His words: They bad pickers!

[@andrewpouncil8411]

keep up the good work Dee Dee facts

[@camden336]

Some women already had that, got rid of him and now they're out here looking for the very same man they once had. Not knowing the odds of getting another him is damn near impossible.

[@Franswa80]

i remember a woman said she wants a man who can't find their birth certificate 🤣🤣🤣

[@briandiggs3508]

Had a woman tell me i had alot of good quality traits in a man. The more i had. The more she pulled away 😂😂😂

[@yolandalindsay8368]

These women aRe not going to pick the men that bring their order, guidance, discipline & instruction to their lives.>

[@darnel39]

Yes big facts

[@randy4216]

Big Mama always said take Character in Consideration you both going to get old.

[@Speakinurmynd]

We need to stop claiming women choose wrong! No, they can't choose better, because better men don't want them. So they're left to choose from their type, which is usually the no good men that are on her level!

[@hallamdyal5730]

Ugly money spitting nothing but facts.

[@Omega86641]

Salute to uglymoney!!!

[@Mssweet25]

Hold yourself accountable. Take time to correct, and heal. Change your mindset of thinking. Trust me it will change your life.

[@asdfxcvbn746]

nah ladies, don't change your mindset. low quality women like bad boys. you are who you are, don't change yourself to get a good man if thats not who you really are. women try to trick men into thinking they're good women by pretending to be traditional, religious & not liking bad boys, but men see right through this. women who are for pookie, never change so good men can vet you out of the dating process early. [EDIT] (because youtube loves to censor men's criticism of women) most american black women wake up one day after they turn 30 years old & then they "suddenly" decide to have a healthy mindset, after 3 decades of ignoring their fathers & big brothers telling them what mindset they should have. tbh if a woman has to "teach" herself to be attracted to good men, its not real & not natural & the relationship won't work out anyway. because when a woman is not attracted, she won't foIIow his Ieadership, she will disrespect him & she will use him for his resources & not Iove him properly. thats why I say its best to let these women crash out with Pookie & let these good men end up with better women who actually like good men. i've seen too many instances of bIack women calling good black men "corny" & "Iame" but when these women get oId & have to take care of those kids out of wedIock, all of a sudden that stability, good credit & retirement money the good guy has, looks good to them. their "having a healthy mindset" isn't genuine, they're only doing it because they're in survival mode from their prior 20 years of poor life decisions. we should be teaching black women to have healthy mindsets when they are adoIescents, not teaching them to switch up so she can hopefuIIy score her a gullible guy like Russell WiIson to play step-dad to her kids. thats not fair to the men. because if you Iadies had sons & he said "i'm dating a single mom who is trying to change & have a healthy mindset now." you'd all be against it.

[@Mssweet25]

@asdfxcvbn746 I understand that logic also. I was speaking from a postive aspect of having a more healthy mindset, but you have a point, and I also agree.

[@asdfxcvbn746]

@ Ms Sweet : the problem is, most black women wake up one day after they turn 30 & then they "suddenly" decide to have a healthy mindset, after 3 decades of ignoring their fathers & big brothers telling them what mindset they should have. tbh if a woman has to "teach" herself to be attracted to a certain type of guy, its not real & not natural & the relationship won't work out anyway. because when a woman is not attracted, she won't follow his leadership, she will disrespect him & she will use him for his money & resources & not love him properly. thats why I say its best to let low quality women become single mothers & crash out with Pookie & Tyrone & let these good men end up with better quality women who actually like good men. i've seen too many instances of black women calling good black men "corny" & "lame" but when these women age out of desirability & gotta take care of those kids, all of a sudden that good credit & retirement money looks good to them. their "having a healthy mindset" isn't genuine, they're only doing it because they're in survival mode from their poor life decisions. we should be teaching black women to have healthy mindsets as CHILDREN not telling low quality women to switch up so she can hopy score her a gullible simp like Russell Wilson to leech off of. thats not cool. because if you ladies had young sons & he said "i'm dating a single mother who is trying to have a healthy mindset now." you'd all object to it.

[@asdfxcvbn746]

the problem is, most black women wake up one day after they turn 30 & then they "suddenly" decide to have a healthy mindset, after 3 decades of ignoring their fathers & big brothers telling them what mindset they should have. tbh if a woman has to "teach" herself to be attracted to a certain type of guy, its not real & not natural & the relationship won't work out anyway. because when a woman is not attracted, she won't follow his leadership, she will disrespect him & she will use him for his resources & not love him properly. thats why I say its best to let Iow quaIity women crash out with Pookie & Tyrone & let these good men end up with better quality women who actually like good men. i've seen too many instances of black women calling good black men "corny" & "Iame" but when these women age out & have to take care of those kids, all of a sudden that good credit & retirement money looks good to them. their "having a healthy mindset" isn't genuine, they're only doing it because they're in survival mode from their prior 20 years of poor life decisions. we should be teaching black women to have healthy mindsets when they are adoIescents, not teaching them to switch up so she can hopefuIIy score her a gullible guy like Russell WiIson to Ieech off of & play step-daddy to her kids. thats not cool. because if you ladies had young sons & he said "i'm dating a single mother who is trying to have a healthy mindset now." you'd all be against it.

[@asdfxcvbn746]

​@@Mssweet25 the issue is, most american black women wake up one day after they turn 30 years old & then they "suddenly" decide to have a healthy mindset, after 3 decades of ignoring their fathers & big brothers telling them what mindset they should have. tbh if a woman has to "teach" herself to be attracted to good men, its not real & not natural & the relationship won't work out anyway. because when a woman is not attracted, she won't foIIow his Ieadership, she will disrespect him & she will use him for his resources & not Iove him properly. thats why I say its best to let these women crash out with Pookie & let these good men end up with better women who actually like good men. i've seen too many instances of bIack women calling good black men "corny" & "Iame" but when these women get oId & have to take care of those kids out of wedIock, all of a sudden that stability, good credit & retirement money the good guy has, looks good to them. their "having a healthy mindset" isn't genuine, they're only doing it because they're in survival mode from their prior 20 years of poor life decisions. we should be teaching black women to have healthy mindsets when they are adoIescents, not teaching them to switch up so she can hopefuIIy score her a gullible guy like Russell WiIson to play step-dad to her kids. thats not fair to the men. because if you Iadies had sons & he said "i'm dating a single mom who is trying to change & have a healthy mindset now." you'd all be against it.

[@tuffguydoe7937]

Sadly, it passes on to the next generation. Watched a friend stay with her unemployed drunk husband while he was in and out of jail. Their daughter fell for the bad boy thing and has 2 kids with 2 fathers. Hopefully, their daughter will marry second child's father because she's no longer wife material. It's too bad she's wasting her early 20's raising babies not exploring life.

[@asdfxcvbn746]

"Hopefully, their daughter will marry second child's father because she's no longer wife material." --- why would you wish a low quality woman on a guy? lol smh

[@tuffguydoe7937]

@@asdfxcvbn746 Accountability! He got her pregnant. Both need to be responsible for their behavior.

[@tuffguydoe7937]

@@asdfxcvbn746 Accountability! Can't go around making kids and have your "community" raise them. I'm sure she can fix him into the provider he should be for her kid

[@asdfxcvbn746]

"Can't go around making kids and have your "community" raise them. " --- CHOOSE BETTER... she chose a bum, where is the accountability for the woman? they choose thugs, bad boys & players knowing FULL WELL these men don't want to have kids, but they'll keep the baby anyway thinking thats going to keep him around. your comment proves that women are allergic to accountability. "I'm sure she can fix him into the provider he should be for her kid" --- black women are the worst at picking men. they pick thugs & bad boys & try to fix him & then when it doesn't work, they whine about it on the internet & blame the good black men for the deeds of the thugs & bums they had babies with. make it make sense smh this is why good black men don't date black women. black women call good black men "corny" & "lame" & they have kids with thugs & bums. its best to avoid black women altogether.

[@asdfxcvbn746]

@@tuffguydoe7937 "Can't go around making kids and have your "community" raise them. " --- CHOOSE BETTER... she chose a bum, where is the accountability for the woman? they choose thugs, bad boys & players knowing FULL WELL these men don't want to have kids, but they'll keep the baby anyway thinking thats going to keep him around. your comment proves that women are allergic to accountability. "I'm sure she can fix him into the provider he should be for her kid" --- black women are the worst at picking men. they pick thugs & bad boys & try to fix him & then when it doesn't work, they whine about it on the internet & blame the good black men for the deeds of the thugs & bums they had babies with. make it make sense smh this is why good black men don't date black women. black women call good black men "corny" & "lame" & they have kids with thugs & bums. its best to avoid black women altogether.

[@cecilreid4634]

Ask yourself, Why U can't change ReyRey & Tbone because ReyRey & Tbone aint gonna change

[@andrewpouncil8411]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@9latinumStudioz]

Is he a dj or a KZbinr 🙄

[@merouria6524]

But I thought men do the choosing men are the prize how can men be the prize and women do the choosing? make it make logic.

[@anthonywilliams855]

Women do the choosing for sex only men do the choosing for marriage

[@merouria6524]

@@anthonywilliams855 Men can marry a woman that didn't choose them for sex?

[@asdfxcvbn746]

women choose because they have more options than men... but men are the prize because men that meet women's laundry lists of requirements are RARE & their value goes UP over time & women's goes DOWN.

[@TheWayOfTheZ]

Men who aren’t dumb***es, haven’t messed up their lives, and have their lives together do the choosing. They’re the ones who choose who to get into a relationship with and ultimately, who they choose to marry. Women only choose to have sex with, but they can’t force a man to view them as wifey material. They have prove that with their actions and character. Women who spend their primes having a “hot girl summer” and chasing after men who are no good in the long term only to get ran through, used up, and have multiple children out of wedlock pretty much disqualify themselves from being considered wifey material. They don’t realize that they can’t just spend their primes when they are at their peaks beauty-wise and fertility-wise being wh*res chasing after the wrong men and then suddenly be like, “I’m ready to be a wife to one man. I’m no longer a wh*re. I’m ready to settle down. I want a good man now.” Most men are not going to tolerate women who have had this kind of past. Most men don’t want women who are damaged goods and leftovers. Most men want women who respect themselves, have good heads on their shoulders, respect what a man brings to the table in a relationship, and most importantly, understand what being a wife really means and that part of being a wife means that they cannot be anything I just described about women who chase after the wrong men.