Forever Alone Woman Is Preaching - Aba & Preach | Reaction

[@terrellroberts_08]

The reason why I’ve liked Dee and her channel for so long now is cuz she doesn’t sugarcoat

[@pacifictoatlantic7247]

She keeps it real😂 I love her for dat

[@fackery8438]

Her OF is definitely real

[@SlasherwaveVideo]

Same, and plus she’s funny and has a laugh that’s just contagious lol 😂❤

[@dark3rthanshadows]

she aba and peach went easy on her lool

[@jailyn5085]

You don’t have to choose the busted life🤣🤣😭😭

[@mekareactsandreviews3026]

The fastest path to misery and unhappiness is comparing ur life to others, especially online... Perfect timing is different for everyone...and no ones path is supposed to be exactly the same.. Aka live in the present and stop worrying about the future.

[@deondrex18k]

But have goals to set for your future and where u wanna see yourself in the future and work for that future if it's possible and realistic

[@mekareactsandreviews3026]

@deondrex17k35 of course...But panicking, worrying or being overly attached to a future that u mostly have no control over...Like u wanna get married and u can do all the right things...but u can't control another human being...u can't control a job you work at from going out of buiness...Attachment of expectations over what u want the future to look like also leads to suffering...it's a stoic/Buddhist practice...Yes have goals...do ur best..put the work in..and know that's all u can do... Only what's in ur control

[@aceshouse3389]

What you are saying makes sense if socials dont exist

[@ValenciaGamble]

4:04 Dee was giving that Beyonce clip : “you’re unattractive, overweight, untalented” 😂

[@maliyah_tink27]

Ikr🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂😂🤣

[@SomajDaGoat]

Dee: Shades tf outta her Also Dee: “ I’m not tryna be rude” Also Dee: Continues to shade tf outta her. 😂😂😂😂

[@Blair16]

It’s very rare to actually come across these kind of people you see online in person. Like most of these guys who listen to the Red Pill podcasts, don’t talk to women the way the Red Pill people tell them to. Most of the Red Pill guys are with the women they tell their listeners not to date. OF girls, IG models, and Single Mothers💯. And the women who tell you that all men are trash and stay away from certain men, those chicks are with the guys they told us not to be with or they are unhappily single and hate everybody and everything. You can’t listen to nobody online and take them seriously. Focus on yourself and love yourself and let people learn how to love you and be open to learning how to love them.💛

[@phantomzxro1]

You are spitting facts! What you said is so true.

[@dd123387]

it's rare because people lie and hide...

[@goncalodias6402]

Dee just read this girl whole existence in the first five minutes 💀😂😂

[@pookie717]

Dee, I love you for being honest and not being like girl you good keep slaying! Makes no sense to me that if you actually care about someone that you'd lie to them about any topic. Whether it's appearance/health, spending habits, significant others or whatever. Believe me when I say that I've pissed off a lot of my close friends when I was honest and blunt with them about certain things because they got defensive but you know what? Most of them eventually listened and saw I wasn't being an asshole but trying to help. Not saying I have all the answers or know everything but I wish I had more friends like me when I'm bogged down by life. Honesty only helps us make the right changes and to better self evaluate. There's not one person in this world who couldn't be doing better in some aspect of their life.

[@S6Ryujin]

“You dont have to choose the busted life”…….I’m going to the gym today💀

[@vd1445]

People spend way too much time online they need to go a live the real world. I don't see problems like this in rl.

[@Lauren_12695]

That’s exactly what I’m saying!

[@Blair16]

Right, I don’t come across these people. Even if I do talk to someone who listens to the red pill, or manosphere people they don’t come at you in a disrespectful way. At the end of the day most of us just want to be with normal people.💛

[@looleas]

Right like they want the online people to tell her yes and no GET OFF THE INTERNET

[@bigsiah.]

Man if you stay on the net you'll think women hate men vice versa

[@princessce1914]

Its the fact that plus size women are in relationships as well so for some ppl weight don't mean anything but they take pride in their appearance and how they dress,smell and handle themselves as ppl. Dee is right, you want a man? Dress up nicely, it could just be a cute sweater and black tights and go to places like parks, libraries and socialize, join a club 😭 something. Sitting on the Internet complaining is not gonna help. She can't loo at other ppl lives and relationships because that could something she need to stay away from anyways

[@piratekingreviews8493]

I’m over men and women at this point. This gender war shit draining. Like just find somebody you like plz

[@Theresnotenough]

I say this shit all the time. Lol this gender war is some irrational language. Something our previous generations depended on. We're better than that. Or at least we should be.

[@PattieCakeeee]

She’s overthinking and then taking everything personal .. the mindset of “I don’t have anybody” usually leads to dating anyone and it’s typically losers . 😂

[@mekareactsandreviews3026]

Now, self-love is a bad thing 😅😅 what world am I living in...Self love is what stops u from dating a-holes who are going to abuse u. She just sounds jealous that other women actually love themselves.

[@JReece3000]

The “they just wanna shove self-love down your fvkking throat” comment really blew me. No one who has self-love would talk about self-love that way. Like it’s narcissism or something.

[@Blair16]

Right, most of the time you gotta show people how to love you. So if you don’t love yourself then you are going to get what you get 🤷🏽‍♀️. She knows what to do she just doesn’t want to do it. She’s almost ready to put that work in 💛

[@Gman1998]

Exactly. And she's lowkey being shady towards the women she's talking about because she implied they're only valued by their partner because they're skinny

[@Ajjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj]

I took it as her addressing how the term "self love" can be overwhelming. Especially with the hypocrisy that body positivity can be. One moment it's "love yourself, you're perfect the way you are" then next they're met with the whole stigma of body types in society. She's just hurt because those two things are contradicting each other and she doesn't seem to actually know how to love her self and doesn't seem to be putting in the actual work.

[@suuchi6309]

This was all over the place 😵‍💫 everything Dee described in the beginning (doing your hair, working out, etc) are LITERALLY a form of self love regardless if you’re doing it to attract a “visual” partner or not. Idk what kinda content she’s engaging in. My for you pages are mainly doggy voice overs & young thug trial memes 😭😭 I learned what self love was in real life from a real therapist not TikTok. So I’m hella confused

[@quinnhayes3046]

she will crack her brain when she finds authentic love. she will learn a lot of things and change this whole mindset and personality

[@ariz347]

See this is what I be trying to tell people. I grew up overweight due to not having a healthy diet and lifestyle from my parents, and now I’m actively trying to loose weight. But until I reach my goal weight, my interactions with men will be very slim and selective. Every time I tell people that they’re always like “No, you’re beautiful!” “Some guys like bigger girls”. But I personally understand that the type of man I want will not be attracted to me because of my weight. It sucks, but it’s true. Now I’m not morbidly obese or super fat, but it stands even for chunky girls. And I feel at peace accepting that within myself.

[@wildsidetv313]

Hopefully you want to lose weight for yourself and not to get a man

[@VladimirTod242]

"and I get the leftovers" Dee wanted to say something so bad LMAO I'll say it for you. girrllllllll we know you do xD

[@roddo1955]

😂😂😂 me in my head: 'But you usually eat everything? You don't have leftovers; you have second, third and fourth helpings.'

[@MegaBloodrain]

I see both sides. I want you to take care of yourself we must be constantly improving as a couple, but if the sole purpose of you talking care of yourself is so you can be "f*ckable" then you're going to attract people who only want to do so and when the time comes that you no longer have that sex appeal, they will leave you for a younger person. Dont ever base your relationship on sex alone.

[@PulsatingHXgasm]

Women are just as visual if not more. I barely got as much box when I was 40lb overweight😂

[@bunnyrabi]

As they should be. I don't know why guys think having a dad bod in their 20's and they don't even have kids is ok lol. Too many guys I see on dating app that never want to show a shirtless pic is because they either got dad bod or they clearly don't exercise so they are very soft. So it's good you lost weight and worked on your body, more people in America need to get off this idea of people being only or mostly attracted to your personality when just starting to date someone. Since the personality stuff comes slowly(unless the person is weird as hell), it's most of the time physical attractiveness first.

[@shanellmiller-c2t]

😂😂😂 “the busted life choose them ,you don’t have to choose the busted life “ put that ish on a shirt ,on a mug ASAP! I’ll buy it ! … as someone who have choosen the busted life ( I think ,we’ll see when I lose weight ) ,this is the kind of motivation I neeeed

[@JReece3000]

I’m not saying she can’t get a man with how she is now because you see women with her aesthetic wife’d up all the damn time, but the problem is usually the men they’re with are giving the same aesthetic. She either needs to start gettin herself right or lower her damn expectations cuz it’s definitely giving “I know I’m about 2 pennies but I still deserve a dime just because that’s what I want”

[@NuNudelarenta]

What's crazy is that even if she's bigger she pretty asf in the face and if her confidence was higher she would most likely meet guys who fw her, men are visual, but confidence is just as important. And I will say being bigger didn't mean you aren't taking care of yourself, weight is affected by EVERYTHING you got goin on, and ofc she should WANT to lose a few pounds, as long as she's healthy it doesn't matter, and yes fat people can be fat and healthy.

[@easymodebabe]

Yeah her weight is probably her least concern. She is clearly not confident. Everyone will feel that energy. She immediately felt like she didn't value herself because she hasn't had a relationship. If we can feel that online people in her life absolutely do too.

[@sammyjones8882]

“Overweight” people can be healthy, obese/fat people cannot. Even if they presently are, the consequences of their weight will catch up to them sooner or later, especially if they keep the same habits. For example, my bmi measures a bit higher than average with my height and weight, so I am “overweight”, but not unhealthy, even more so since I eat relatively healthy and have an active lifestyle. If you’re exceedingly out of range that’s when health complications can occur.

[@NuNudelarenta]

@@sammyjones8882 everyone's bodies are different, your obese can be someone's overweight, and ofc it's a health concern but we aren't physicians they employed so our opinions are irrelevant to them, I think as long as they are comfortable with who they are good on them and if they aren't they have my full support to change💯

[@aceshouse3389]

​@aja2660 thats 🧢🧢🧢 confidence has nothing to do with that if no one is attracted thats just it

[@NuNudelarenta]

@@aceshouse3389 so your telling me you wouldn't find someone who has confidence more or less attractive to someone who doesn't or does

[@NoFace_MkEdits]

I feel like Loving yourself is different for everybody just because you work out and have a good diet does not mean you love yourself if you already don't have confidence it's just going to make you have body dysmorphia

[@lovely_manubian2981]

I'm just sitting here at work listening to this but when the "or" a moment came and I hit that or right after Dee's "or" while just typing away at my computer 👀😂😂😂 I laughed so loud!

[@BonnieBunny883]

She needs to go outside. There’s literally someone for everyone. People are out here looking unhygienic and still married. The spaces you occupy are more important than what you look like. People are dating within their vicinity so she needs to go outside ASAP!

[@jessieis]

8:20 Preach was preaching. I had a few people in the past I regret letting in my inner circle. If someone's on some bullshit, turn them away.

[@jnightmare0]

There’s quite a lot of philosophical ideas that speak to what preach said “it’s who you let in” unfortunately a lot of people who are gd for you won’t ever get the chance because unfortunately everyone is brainwashed into thinking what their partner should look like and act like. They want them to be perfect, a lot of people fall in lust instead of love

[@Shadow2pointO]

The first thing I said after hearing her was “you gotta put effort into your physical appearance”. That’s the first thing then do the inner work!

[@ren_lightfoot]

that's backwards, but otherwise solid advice.

[@wildsidetv313]

No she has to do the inner work first

[@Shadow2pointO]

That works too, I was just answering her shallow questions first.

[@sadiedixson6116]

I feel like not enough people realize you're not magically a good person because you're big. There are so many subfactors that go into why someone doesn’t like you in the way.

[@LamarAlreadyTaken]

14:08 Dee is hell bruh 😂😂😂😂

[@spartan8696]

I agree with what you said dee. However i totally understand what the girl was saying, i feel bad for her though. Sometimes i feel like you really need the right people in your corner! Also real self love is realizing you dont deserve to weight 300lbs...no shade foreal.

[@Pgschool37]

She acts like an incel minus the male bashing. Stay offline until you can focus on what's important for your well-being & mental health.

[@magnadelusor4249]

14:06 bro I’m cryin😂😂

[@amaraw9893]

I wanna know what video she watched that made her snap💀💀💀. Also, I find it funny she chocked it all up to her just being fat but girlie I aint big and got the same problem. Im not hetero, but still. A lack of social appearances is one of the biggest reasons nobody wanna be with you/us. They literally don't know you. I have a hard time breaking the ice with people. I hate small talk. I just wanna be myself...but it's a bit too much when you gettin to know someone. Hence the reason I've been alone for 21 almost 22 years😀

[@jwyzebeatz]

Yeah, a lot of people (including myself) need to learn how to take breaks from social media from time to time...

[@Lemlemlvslemons]

Straight and heterosexual is the same thing is it not?

[@heironjhofmeester4401]

right? I caught that,she was just yapping

[@roddo1955]

When I used to live in an English speaking country, people sometimes asked me if I'm gay. i'd put on a fake southern drawl and say: "I am a hell-bound gaaaaay homosexual."

[@stephanie9463]

This is interesting, I really think she should be off social media and doing things more with herself including learning a hobby she enjoys, etc, which will allow her to meet people who share her values. Also, that will allow her to be more open-minded to learn and try different things. Will learn a lot more about herself and what she looking for on this earth. With the physical aspects, weight fluctuates due to our headspace not to the point of obesity (you won't be able to do a lot at that point especially physically and mentally, at that point a serious reflection is needed). Good luck to her, hope she figures life out. Too much to do in this world with little time. No time to waste, live it well everyone.

[@Gman1998]

This really shows that the internet doesn't reflect reality. Because when it comes to fat acceptance online people will say "you look great don't change anything!" but in real life when it comes to relationships people don't have that same energy. Your perception of the world shouldn't come from what you see in the comment section it should come from real life experiences.

[@princessce1914]

All my friends was for fat acceptance and I'm not into the whole online thing, I don't care about weight but I'm not making it a huge thing that I don't care about it. When I dated multiple women and men who were overweight, they looked at me like I was crazy. Majority of the time these fat acceptance ppl only don't care if the fat is "in the right places".

[@dd123387]

there's plenty of overweight/obese people in relationships.

[@candykane6480]

It's not just people with no dating experience who experience this envy/insecurity. It's people craving/obsessing over a healthy relationship because I've heard this from friends who have been in at least 3-4 real relationships. It's okay to get lonely at times in singlehood, but to get to the point where you're bothered about other couples posting about their happiest/affectionate moments is not healthy. At that point, get off social media or scroll past couple posts - it ain't hard. Guard your peace lol

[@tracysills257]

The grass isnt greener on the other side. Sometimes its dead and brown

[@hailreezy]

Dee going IIIIIIIIIINNNNNN😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️🔥

[@christinechrist2890]

Also People will handle you however you handle and feel about yourself. How you feel about yourself reflects off of how people treat you. She obviously doesn’t love herself and has low self esteem and that’s clear as day. Men will see that from a mile away in return she won’t attract any man but the ones who don’t like her.

[@JReece3000]

It’s giving incel less than 2 minutes in 🫤 women can be incels too

[@blakesilvermark1]

The first incel was a women but she never thought that it would get this bad.

[@dblaze9107]

Atleast women incels don’t shoot places up🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Lauren_12695]

@@blakesilvermark1true

[@looleas]

She talking out her ahh cuss what she talking about

[@Busybee304]

So much to say in such a small comment box to say it in so to keep it brief I’ll just say I respectfully disagree with just about everything you’ve said in this video. Still love you tho Dee.

[@roddo1955]

You've added no value to your statement. But I think Dee loves you too, I'm sure.

[@Busybee304]

@@roddo1955 If you say so man

[@AlexisLopez-pb8ms]

That girl talking about her confidence has bought into the body positive narrative. That’s her problem.

[@krd2331]

She needs Dee to be her life coach. 😂

[@Gnd_Dafi]

When I first saw this thumbnail I thought it was pear😂

[@bigduckenergyb.d.e.2710]

SHE AIN’T NO DIVAAAA !!! 🗣️🗣️🗣️👉👉👉

[@jessieis]

All I see is a girl coping.

[@PattieCakeeee]

She’s too old to be influenced by her tik tok that easily .. 😅

[@user-lp3jm4gj7b]

Dee up here sounding like Kevin Samuels 😂

[@today8488]

She needs to get off line and heal because as we can see there is no point expressing yourself to people who will just invalidate you but I hope she sees these comments and it lights a fire under her ass to stop her feeling sorry for herself and learn to live for herself. Life is too short.

[@Tthaking]

She got the same talking points that incels have

[@TerriJoe4638]

You in a way play a big part in how the world views you based on what you choose to represent to us. If you think you are busted and down bad then we will all agree with you. But if you think you are the ish and that girl, then we would all agree with you. People generally speaking are more so negative so they will give you more pushback if you view yourself in a positive lighting. But you must pay no mind to that because at the age of 25 I have learned as a young women that majority of people are suffering and just find it easier to want to make other people suffer with them rather than getting a mirror and improving their character. Most people are hurt people and wounded inner child’s that they never healed from. I have compassion for them but I no longer take what they say to heart anymore. Because they are simply reacting off emotional stimuli that stems from their childhood. After you have learned that then you are left with just you to focus on. That’s when you can work on your inner child and have a good cry about how you thought life was. It’s apart of growing but compassion is needed to heal your heart so you can ultimately reach a level of awareness. Which is that you were always in control of your image, you create your life in the way you would like, let go of others people ideas (negative thoughts) and work on replacing them with your ideas (positive thoughts) for yourself. 💡

[@ValentinClaudiu7]

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[@hiiiiiiiiii4081]

Not the busted life chose them😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love Dee

[@Blizque]

4:23 u tell her Kevin samuels 😂

[@a1sawse939]

1:45 facts Dee it’s a real unfortunately

[@loweryboys6873]

Can you react to the Jordan Peterson gender pay gap debat?

[@ajat3202]

It would be hilarious if boondocks still was a thing & aba & preach were in it

[@consumethemilkchalice6120]

I stop listening to that girl talk 5 minutes in…like girl stand up 😁😒

[@poemsbykeya5306]

Even if they throw it out, she still won't get much. The marriage was less than 3 years

[@Ceemaxo]

The internet is fake 😂

[@munambah4337]

Bbbbbut!

[@Dgreen4154]

Why are you angry at that girl? She is just screwed up.

[@LiseAsmrCake]

We really only know what is shown nothing is perfect. Most only show the highlights. She should stop watching it.

[@Ty-yx8vr]

Not constructive criticism and yall spent the entire video absolutely dragging this girl, big yikes on both sides tbh.

[@thephilosopher5799]

Lmao for saying the truth

[@blklightning21]

What they did was tell her the truth. If she was "dragged" by the truth. Thats on her. Im sure she can find an obese boyfriend with off features but i am also certain she doesnt want that.

[@juscallmevell]

But when she loses weight that skin will still be there have you not seen family guy when Stewie Griffin lost that weight hell when Peter did what she gone do with all that skin

[@EricSmith-zm8do]

That typically happens when people rush to lose a ton of weight in an insanely short amount of time to the point of your skin not being able to keep up. This is why you typically see that in people who had gastric bypasses. However, if she were to consistently lose weight over a longer period of time like 6 months you would most likely be fine ie Adele.

[@EricSmith-zm8do]

@imshkth It was over a long period of time because she hadn't been doing anything music related for years lol. Therefore we had not seen her for a while which gave her plenty of time to lose weight.