What's The Most Offensive Fat Character In Media That You Have Ever Seen? | Reaction

[@Coco-ei9cs]

The point is a lot of these characters lead to bullying and stereotypes. If you are a heavy set black women for example people are so quick to call you rasputia or precious.

[@incubus8610]

Exactly

[@userp67qjsbanwi]

CHILE😂 They call fat black women lovely peaches too

[@SoloHero]

The thing is, ya'll don't have to agree, but everyone is entitled to thier feelings and having thier own point of view.

[@goshdarndenim]

This is the comment

[@goshdarndenim]

@@vipergameplay7613 It's not ironic because that's exactly what SoloHero said. Everyone is entitled to it, those who agree and those who don't. It's a good reminder because many people act like their opinion is fact and are rude to those they disagree with, but I'm sure you already knew that. 😁

[@notthefather3919]

@@goshdarndenim it is ironic bc the people who disagree are being told this. Not the ones stating their original opinions.

[@goshdarndenim]

@@notthefather3919 Nope, that's not what the original comment said. It said EVERYONE is entitled to their opinion. The message was to those who disagreed AND could not disagree respectfully.

[@musicexplosionx4575]

Cool cool. But be ready for what’s coming back at you when you say these things.

[@mosesjay3862]

Raspucia? She literally abused norbit in every way possible 🤣

[@edgarordaz4798]

Rite!!!

[@katfury6611]

How you doin’ 😂😂😂💔good times man

[@eliana8834]

So they are literally portraying a fat black woman as abusive.

[@awsomedude23456]

@@eliana8834 well an obese woman. But being that it’s really just a guy in a fat suit it’s not meant to be taken seriously

[@amekgomo5250]

@@eliana8834 can a fat black woman not be abusive?

[@jasmine2607]

I think it's fine to have gripes about media and representation, but at the same time, it shouldn't be taken too seriously when it's literally for entertainment purposes only. If it offends that badly to you just don't watch it.

[@kplayzxp2376]

Fax

[@trerio6815]

I think that's the point tho...how they are being portrayed

[@kilisloe3474]

Notice how almost all of them is comedy. Come on it's comedy. they make fun of literally everyone.

[@GreenGeeky]

I bet if they had an Asian woman talking about "I do yo nai prittaaay" yall would be worried about representation

[@mickaelabaker9422]

Same, although keep in mind that body acceptance was way less popular in the past. The media reflects that in almost every fat person character beingthe butt of the joke, the nerd, the undesirable. I'm glad people are calling it out now. Even though these characters still have their place (Norbit will never not be hilarious), I hope future films have more fat characters being fat..because they're just fat.

[@a.gvlogs959]

Dee's logic: it's the reality so we shouldn't do anything about it and because it is what it is we shouldn't try to change it, The part where I was so irked by is the part where she says "If they portray a fat person getting drooled at, people will say its fake" but thats not what the people in there want they don't necessarily want to be portrayed as "desirable" but rather a normal person and not the center of jokes and be made fun off

[@naomifoy4758]

I agree with you, it just gives that’s not my problem sooooo too bad so sad.

[@chattzay]

And they are normal just fat and obese so they get jokes their way it’s just how the world works 😂

[@dylanmijer2890]

Why did you just lie like that?🧐🤨, you just twisted her words up to try and validate yourself’s selective offensiveness, she never said that first part, she said that’s how Society treats overweight people and we can’t change how the world view people who are overweight🙄😒, and that second part you just took out of context.

[@a.gvlogs959]

@@dylanmijer2890 the first part isn't a word per word quote its what she's implying and the second one doesn't have any other contexts plus she didn't said what you're saying either I'm not the one who's twisting her words, you're the one who's twisting her intensions to her benefit And about what you said "She said it's how the world works and we can't chage it" only proves my point, for her just because its REALITY WE CAN'T BE MAD ABOUT IT AND DO SOMETHING WITH IT. That's literally what I said

[@a.gvlogs959]

@@chattzay So media stomping on people's (specially young people) self esteem that usually causes eating disorders and both physical and emotion distress is how the world works and we shouldn't do something about it, people tend to overlook the magnitude of how damaging it actually is because the "jokes" are not on you and because it serves you temporary fun

[@__Oku__]

I hear what you're saying, but what you said would kinda also apply to black stereotypes and blackface😂, which I don't actually disagree with. I grew up in a country where white people do blackface every year on the 6th of December as a tradition to represent "black pete"; the funny, goofy and stupid black servant of Saint Nicolas (Saint Nicolas is kinda like Santa). Men, women and children literally parade around the country in blackface for saint Nicolas day. So I grew up being called "black pete" by other kids during my childhood. Basically, "a stupid black slave clown". Representing fat or even black people in a stereotypical way isn't inheritantly bad, it just depends on the audience that will be affected by it. Kids are gonna run with it and bully others (even though I beat a lot of their asses, me and my brother were the only black people in my school, so I was the one to get into trouble a lot).

[@tjross1424]

“Yeah she stalks him” she said that so casually bruh. Nikki was a crazy ass stalker who ruined his relationships. Their whole arc was a mess

[@patr1ckk3ll3y]

That one was a little off to me cause from my memory Professor was always calling Nikki crazy,I don't remember him ever making fun of her weight it was always about her overbearing personality.. but I get that if Nikki was a thin woman he probably would've loved how into him she was

[@edgarordaz4798]

Best line "Nobody knows you " 2 relevant to many situation thanks D

[@rubybrown1676]

I think some people ruin a joke by taking it too seriously, but not in the way you'd expect. I think most wouldn't complain about these characters if people would let them stay characters and not compare them to real people or believe that all people act like these exaggerated versions. Like the one girl said, the characters are funny til you're constantly being compared to them. It's not really a situation where you can just stop watching if you don't like it because it's the people that are the problem, not the show

[@JeremiahWalton]

Do we pick and choose what not to take serious or should we not take everything serious? playing devils advocate but if a producer heavily depicted stereotypes of different races, most wouldnt give the same comment.

[@rubybrown1676]

@@JeremiahWalton No doubt that there's a problem with people depicting stereotypes, but it takes an ignorant mindset to believe in them when there's so many people to prove otherwise

[@JeremiahWalton]

@@rubybrown1676 true, unfortunately media influences many of us. So as much as we think people will make their own judgment they don’t and they take what media shows them

[@rubybrown1676]

@@JeremiahWalton @Jeremiah Walton I get where you're coming from, I just wanted to speak on another side of the issue. Sometimes character writing and casting is a reflection of their biases. But sometimes a black actor will be a ditzy character or an overweight actor will be casted as someone who's over the top and it wont always be because of stereotypes. Not every character will always be an upstanding person, especially in comedies so it's bound to happen. Yet ignorant, prejudiced people will make it into something ugly by cherry picking these characters to use as insults and justification for their ways. Looking at the bigger picture, we can't carry all the burden for another's ignorance and completely restrict our behavior so that no one looks bad in front of the bigots. They have to share that blame or we'll always move in shame, trying to make sure our our behavior doesn't look stereotypical

[@destinymcgowan5328]

It's not enough equal representation which is the problem

[@charmishing]

I do think it depends on the depiction and the tone of the depiction. I think being offended by a trashy portrayal in a raunchy comedy is a bit silly but it could be different if you see a bad portrayal in a more serious show where most characters are given more thought and nuance. I don’t think most of the portrayals on here were that offensive but I do think there need to be more characters where being fat and the comedic relief isn’t their only personality trait.

[@awsomedude23456]

There are already characters like that

[@patr1ckk3ll3y]

Facts Tou shouldn't even go see a movie like Shallow Hall, Norbit or The DUFF. Everything about those movies is telling you what they are before you even see it. But I get watching a regular movie or show where every character is well written and then you get to the fat character and they're all stereotypes. Just like you can get away with edgy humor about race, sexuality etc in an edgy movie but it hits different when you aren't expecting it.

[@awsomedude23456]

@@patr1ckk3ll3y well tbh if it’s in a comedy or something like that it’s even funnier when u aren’t expecting it. Bc jokes almost always hit harder when u don’t expect them

[@patr1ckk3ll3y]

@@awsomedude23456 For sure when it's done well, but if the writing isn't good it an feel like the character is just there to be the butt of a joke. You can poke fun at a character without completely dehumanizing them.

[@notthefather3919]

And that girl is lying about Nikki Parker. 90% of the jokes were not about her weight. But Nikki was just a reflection of Kim from Moesha, because Kim chased Hakeem around on there until she went to the Parkers.

[@tyannawilliams4722]

I know this isn’t a joking matter but in the second clip I couldn’t help but think of Meg from family guy🤷‍♀️😅😅

[@KayM1021]

I’ll say “The Parkers” but more so how the Professor treated and trashed Nikki Parker. That show was funny asf back then and still is 😂😂 But he was just rude.

[@azuben413]

How would you feel if someone constantly stalked you and chased you… not trying to be sexist cause eventually he grew to love her but at the same time let’s not act like she didn’t harass him during the show.

[@KayM1021]

@@azuben413 I mean yeah. But had it been a skinnier and more “attractive” woman that did that to him, he would’ve found it sexy

[@rlouis215]

Look I used to weight 380lbs and I’m down to 216lb today I spent 15 months of intermittent fasting and diet changing never did I feel that the fat people on tv or shows were representing me, instead on focusing on the media focus on the person in the mirror trust me that will be the best investments ever

[@amanfinally20]

Man losing about 164 pounds in 15 months is legit congrats. Well idk if you’re a guy or woman lol. But congrats on yo journey I’m on the same thing. And I feel the same as you.

[@Daveyvj36]

That's seriously impressive weight loss! Congrats 👍

[@coreywigent7693]

Everyone gets so offended by EVERYTHING nowadays

[@abnormpsych17]

This is a lazy take. People BEEN had problems with this stuff it's just the first time YOU head about it. If the fat jokes were actually funny or the characters actually had point then people wouldn't care. Everything about this is so lazy and shallow.

[@TrueAce2146]

@@abnormpsych17 true I believe people were always offended by a lot of things but now more people are starting to speak there mind so we can actually see who is offended

[@blackyoung2134]

DUFF doesn’t mean you have to be fat. You can be the sober one, ugly one, fat one, nerdy one.

[@blakan1478]

no but to be a duff ugly is a requirement and she is a pretty woman

[@awsomedude23456]

@@blakan1478 actually duff is relative. In the movie they even say you don’t actually need to be ugly or fat, it’s just that in comparison to who your with you are

[@blakan1478]

@@awsomedude23456 DUFF stands for Designated Ugly Fat Friend so you cant say its relative the requirements are ugly andfat

[@tnlkb6115]

@@blakan1478 bruh it obvious you didn't watch the movie so why are you offended

[@awsomedude23456]

@@blakan1478 literally watch the movie, they say IN THE MOVIE the duff doesn’t always have to be unattractive

[@lianotleah_]

The content is not offensive in itself but because its done so much people start to put the stereotypes of the people they see in TV to people in real life and that's when the problem starts. And this applies with anything from racism to homophobia, it just cultivates prejudice.

[@jddivine6159]

Dee: *pauses video* girl they don’t know you 🤣🤣

[@justmike1753]

Not Dee loving all of the fat people movies🤣

[@itsdaija]

most of these movies are comedies/satire and shouldn’t be taken seriously. half of these tik toks blow the movie out of proportion and it seems like they just want to be heard

[@imaniluvsu1]

I think that for every stereotype there are people who FIT the stereotype. The issue with stereotypes are people who take them and judge others based on these stereotypes. I definitely can understand not appreciating these stereotypes because they can affect you negatively if you appear to fit that stereotype. But it goes for EVERY stereotype. They CAN be harmful because people are assholes. I think that in alot of cases you just have to take the stupidity with a grain of salt. If people are being abusive and oppressive with these stereotypes then THAT is when it becomes harmful. Not all humor is for every person. Just don't watch it.

[@danielquinzel9641]

I LOVE NORBIT WHAT YALL MEAN hahahahaahhaha its been part of most brazillians childhood hahahahaha

[@mielissa100ify]

That sleepover one was half the damn video.

[@LEGNDARY_MIST]

I know this is a big issue to some but I Fing love Norbit🤭 Everyone in FRIENDS was there for comedic relief.

[@kilisloe3474]

Most of the stuff on the videos are from comedies.

[@imaniluvsu1]

I started gaining weight after I had my oldest daughter. I did lose quite a bit of that. Then I gained weight again and lost it again. I had to learn how to love my body for where it is. Or at least accept it so that I wouldn't hate to look in the mirror. Now that I'm 50 it's so much harder to get this damn weight off but I'm going to have to do it because I'm sick of how my weight has affected my physical health. And that's what these people need to do. If they're so bothered by the characters then that means they don't like how they look. And that's a personal problem.

[@moppetmaker]

Binge Eating Disorder is a genuine eating disorder that needs to be addressed more openly so people can start seeking help for it. It's sad that instead of honestly confronting their BED, many fat people are choosing to confront the people around them who don't find obesity appealing as if that's so absurd. The fact is, even if the entire world thought being fat was attractive, it would NEVER change the physical consequences of obesity. Obesity almost always causes discomfort at best, and serious illness at worst. You may feel fine for a while being obese, but at some point the damage will hit and it hits HARD. Being obese is terrible on joints, bones, your cardiovascular system, your respiratory system, and your digestive system. This is precisely WHY obesity is not, and never will be naturally attractive to people. Biologically, animals are usually drawn to healthy mates first and obesity is a physical indicator of poor health or at least a future of poor health. Obviously, being human beings we can look BEYOND someone's health and love them anyway, but no one's ever going to find the poor health alone attractive unless it's a fetishist.

[@sixteenthousandollars]

when chandler said “oh…ok” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@dark3rthanshadows]

sometimes people don't need to take it that deep. Like Norbit. Isn't supossed to be ALL BLACK FAT woman . Sometimes it's just the character.

[@edgarordaz4798]

I don't know about you guys but I feel like there's a lot of projecting and alot of projected insecurities in this video

[@awsomedude23456]

Absolutely

[@chimchimbiasedwreckedbyjin4056]

No not really I understand want king to see someone your size on the tv and not see them people your size portrayed as desperate or insecure or and outcast just like anyone else

[@markybrickenmort8142]

it's just mad fat people mad that they're fat lol

[@incubus8610]

It could be because a lot of the fat characters discussed in the video were also used as insults to bully actual plus sized people.

[@awsomedude23456]

@@incubus8610 sure but that’s not exactly their fault, anyone can do anything and get bullied. Plus fat people being bullied really isn’t as common as they say

[@isokenobasogie7074]

I'm pretty sure the point was to point out that people Children, and honestly anyone can see stuff like this on tv and see people get degraded for not being the Eurocentric "normal" size, and see it as something wrong with themselves. Like for example fat Monica, isn't really even that big.. She's just not as small as the people portrayed as "Pretty" in the show are. Basically tv loves associating the topic of 'fat' people with being dirty, ugly, and unsophisticated

[@meep1869]

As a fat person the only thing that bothers me is when people try and lecture you about your own life/body acting like they're a doctor or something. Like if I wanted medical advice I'd go to the doctor. Y'all don't actually care, why would you we're strangers, you just want to bully fat people and give yourself a pat on the back for it. And this is obvious to me cuz if you really cared about health issues you would have this same energy when people post themselves basically being alcoholics and partying and shit all the time. That's not good for your health but nobody cares cuz that doesn't automatically make you ugly. Am I fat? Yes. Am I unhealthy? Yes!! And I'm working on it! I've lost 23 lbs and I'm still going! But just because I'm fat does that mean I also have to hate myself? I'm not trying to spread any toxic body positivity, I've literally never said that people should look or live like me but I can't even post normal shit without getting stupid comments putting me down cuz of how I look. Mind your business

[@conspire941]

Not this being a list of all the movies Dee loves 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ahkidamoonlight140]

I don't care what anyone says fat Monica is hilarious I love this girl I'm fat myself and I'm not offended whatsoever.

[@marshinz5696]

I am not Fat-phobic. I’m a “Weightcist”.

[@glennisndang448]

Lol

[@notthefather3919]

😆😆

[@lakrystalsingletary]

Dee checking out and singing "Wait for love" in the middle of that ladies Nikki Parker rant is so me! 😂😂😂

[@jz23gaming17]

Although some of those are offensive to some, these movies & shows we’re all about entertainment. Society now wants to make every single form of entertainment offensive

[@mellowedeye]

you'd find it offensive too if the only form of media where you have representation in is you always being the butt of the jokes, ugly etc; yeah some are funny but y'all sure as hell overdo it, and the point exactly entertainment,, like huh

[@jz23gaming17]

I find it offensive that the media portrays us black men as gangsters, murders, theives, stupid, baby makers, drug dealers, rappers & are black women as hoes. So we’ve been offended & portrayed since we’ve been in this country.

[@thestreets2817]

R.I.P Young Dolph

[@vidsuals9987]

D ridin over here 👈

[@ruhshhaud]

@@vidsuals9987 Huh?

[@thestreets2817]

@@vidsuals9987 We don't need to know what you like to ride on but do you clout chaser

[@thestreets2817]

@@vidsuals9987 Someone I used to listen to as a teen just died and I'm saying R.I.P How is that " D ridin"? I hope niggas DO call you a D rider when your mama passes and you start crying like a Bih LMFAO

[@Rio_Monique]

There just needs to be a balance in representation and an understanding that fat people are still people.

[@mahzie2x468]

Why did ole girl try and make it seem like Monica was the only one getting made fun of chandler was made fun of for being gay Ross was made fun of for being a nerd and there’s others too

[@swagkura]

The merch advertisement as that girl is trying to talk is sending me. 😂

[@lightningx2656]

Who remembers when body positivity was for burn victims and amputees and not a place for people to victimize themselves and attack everything that doesn't glorify eating yourself to the hospital.

[@chimchimbiasedwreckedbyjin4056]

Are we talking about body positivity in this video no the subject was fat people wanting to be portrayed in a realistic way it only as desperate for men or comedic relief

[@humblegrind8]

Norbit was a funny ass movie and The Parkers was had a fucked up storyline (that finale threw away most of the what made the show good). Some of these were dumb af tho but I personally wouldn't take it seriously. Depends on the person.

[@CoachKev0731]

Yes they definitely depict us in a way that sometimes makes us look crazy but that's just how they operate. There's something scary about black people being on one accord and they don't ever want that to happen. Love your thoughts Dee

[@sydneyc100]

The fact I was on the same page as Dee with the Luther "Wait for Love" lol

[@asvpxmi6uel]

No one can take a joke anymore

[@jailyn5085]

When people say some overweight people have health conditions, are they talking about things that make it so their bodies have a hard time losing weight? Or are they talking about like binge eating disorder? Because BED is very common, but I don’t think other physical conditions are all that common. Although many people say it’s just someone choosing to eat themselves to obesity, I think more times than naught, it’s BED and some sort of trauma (i.e., the people on My 600lbs Life). What are the conditions that make it difficult to lose weight? If anyone knows

[@biggrimdog8825]

Being overweight increases heart disease, risk of diabetes, risk of strokes, high blood pressure, sleep apnea, and more.

[@jailyn5085]

@@biggrimdog8825 what I meant was what are the conditions that people say cause you to have difficulty losing weight? Like hyperthyroidism is said to keep people from gaining weight. Hypothyroidism can cause weight gain among many other things, but what are other conditions that could prevent people from losing weight?

[@philipdelagarza8039]

@ 09:55 "And I will ALWAYS be light skinded, just for YOU..." - The Boondocks

[@JohnnyHandsometm]

The Parkers is a CLASSIC CRAZY HILARIOUS COMEDY! You just can’t hate on that show at all.

[@chimchimbiasedwreckedbyjin4056]

People in the comments these people in these videos weren’t about being fat. Fat people know they are fat we aren’t saying it good or healthy they are saying that just because of there weight they are protracted as comedic related, desperate for men, outcast, sloppy, mean like why can’t they have a show where a fat girl or boy is just regular they aren’t desperate or dirty or just funny or the butt of the joke.

[@tai3934]

As a fat person these people just seem miserable

[@biggdelta3662]

I for sure thought The Nutty Professor would be on this

[@OnlyAl3x]

Dee - “awe, I looove this” 😂

[@KissAthenaa]

I just watched a whole hour long ad that ad was good asf😭

[@hwasainthecasa6671]

Back then society was skinnier. Fat Monica was big for most women during that time and now we have women that are bigger than her. This is a fact, not a feeling. Maybe if you're so offended you should do something about it.

[@brian_Austin27]

I mean weight can change with proper work, but being a bisexual Male, compared to this... I was called man crazy, pedophile, people looked at me like disease spreader etc. All of this was in high school, women who knew thought I was just gay, and men were wary and terrified to be around me with people thinking that they are gay, so very little interactions from my Male companions, desperate for Male attention even when I didn't want it, couldn't even use the mens bathrooms because of this. Weight loss with stop the fat jokes,but sexuality.....I dont think so, I still get this to the point I don't even mention my sexuality unless asked,

[@JohnnyHandsometm]

People need to lighten up and enjoy comedy and not take things so seriously as well all should know the stereotypes in these movies are 10000 times more crazy than real life.

[@reggiewolfpac7711]

People cry about everything now jeez my sista is plus size do she cry about this no & some people probably gonna hate my comment but I'm just being honest.

[@kplayzxp2376]

Fax

[@ambrosiaroman1563]

Bruh not everyone mental state is the same just because YOUR sister doesn’t cry does not mean other people shouldn’t that’s a weird mindset to have your not being honest just tone deaf

[@thamizzladi]

Yess nicki Parker first thing came to mind no disrespect but in some countries thicker bigger means richer and better especially and some African and Indian Hawaiians Samoans a lot of those countries prefer a bigger at least in their women no offense to anyone but that’s slim thing is really a European standard of beauty honestly I’m just saying

[@BoosGaming1]

Some people just need to not draw eyebrows on themselves

[@thomasfriday1]

Nicki Parker 👍 Precious's Mother 👎

[@Realtalk24625]

The problem they are truly having is because they are considering their weight when watching their movies so they’re taking it personal.

[@mirza2975]

Damn was not expecting these comments lmao

[@hallooos7585]

Fat people aren’t undesirable in every country like in Mauritius where moms force there kids to be fat because it’s there beauty standards there

[@greatman5885]

but it's changing tho...

[@demitriussmith741]

You love Friends? I didn't see this development coming lmao

[@MRVV7717]

Dee with the random Brian McKnight song😂😂

[@Lauren_3000]

I don't get how she's annoyed at Fat Monica being used for comedy. The entire episode is literally Ross, Chandler, Monica and Rachel all being mocked for what they used to look like.

[@naeemhartley6813]

i think ppl are too sensitive and need to grow a back bone it’s not that deep if you’re fat you’re fat if youre skinny youre skinny it is what is as long as you love yourself and are happy with yourself you shouldn’t care about anything lmfaooo like ppl spend too much time concerned with ppl opinions etc. like dee said its not that far fetched because its real life its fucked up but it is what is and as far as comedy movies and tv shows go again its not that deep its comedy its satire its meant to be funny

[@hbic7367]

1:30 dees lashes couldnt take this woman any longer

[@jadaricks859]

Clearly, that lady who is talking about the "Duff" movie hasn’t even watched it?! Just complaining about anything.

[@PichpoGUA]

Black Mariah from the Luke Cage comics, especially the first version from the 70s

[@Johvonna]

They do always use this same light dude lol.

[@JS-bc4bc]

The reason why people make fun of fat women is because 42 percent of women in this country are obese. Getting mad at tv shows and movies is there excuse to why the have a unhealthy lifestyle. Unless your 6'2 or above there is no reason a woman should be over 200 pounds. Woman get told by others woman it's ok and be who you are and that BS.

[@Awkwardly-Weird]

Ralphie May made a joke about this. Yall can make funny of fat people in movies but if they start making funny of black or latino people yall get offended right away. So if you're gonna make fun of one group of people don't get mad when they make fun of your group.

[@tyrikababy9725]

I take certain things personally, I can say that , but not every single thing cuz I wasn’t even thinkin bout all of this til they mentioned bout it , smh🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️it’s just entertainment for the most part

[@kilisloe3474]

Notice how almost all of them is comedic. Come on it's comedy they make fun of literally everyone. I mean everyone. There's not a group of people that haven't been made fun of.

[@theeblackrose1324]

They should do most offensive blqck character in Anime

[@dontfall2476]

There is none.

[@katmossa3503]

I mean i undertand that ur upset that theh called you rapsutia but they can literally happen to anyone. Ppl get called steve urkel, jason samoa, ugly betty, dexter, skeletor etc so again its was never about you. U could be called any characters. Are we supposed eliminate any character that might hurt ur feelings

[@itsdaija]

exactly, you can be called a character just based on personality alone. it’s not always about appearance

[@destinymcgowan5328]

I hated the movie Just Wright. Why did Queen Latifah get to have Common he's all washed up. She was literally his second choice as opposed to the gold digger.

[@phocian]

I think the representations hit home sometimes, and that is a reason people get upset. I get shook when I see anything about a mother having cancer, losing her hair, and going through all because I dealt with it with my mom. I think some people get shook when they see a fat character being comic relief and not having a relationship because they deal with that. Obviously, I am not saying this is accurate for everyone. You know you tend to get more upset when someone is talking sht, but the sht be true. The problem with our society is it's a fad right not to be delusional about the truth. You got a penis, you got X and Y chromosome, but you confused and mad wondering why everyone calls you a boy. You fat and hang all over the arm rest touching other people, but get mad you must buy 2 plane tickets. Too many delusions in society right now. I don't think we should be mean or unkind to people, but sometimes they ask for it with the fantasy they living in in their head because they want us all to live in there.

[@marcusdilworth6661]

See here’s the thing, yes some people are fat by choice and other are not like my grandmother was fat but then she had surgery and lost tons of weight(it wasn’t liposuction btw) as a couple of months went by and after being told for years and years to lose weight now the doctors want her to gain some weight back but she is struggling with that too!😐 The only reason I felt obligated to write all that was the fact that I don’t think a lot of people in the comments are understanding weight loss and health, sure it’s easy to say avoid these movies and stop getting offended but that feels unavoidable for some moments because entertainment pretty much throw out of pocket jokes and characters into every damn thing like even the show Insecure would randomly(other than Kelli) have a fat joke or character here and there. Plus believe it or not but everyone get offended by something, it’s just the fact that some people are more loud and obvious than others, hell some of y’all in the comments staring to get a little more offended by the video itself than the actual people into. Don’t matter if it’s a white joke, black joke, fat joke, or gay joke, if it don’t hit then the joke just don’t hit and if you like it then fine because that’s all that matters and we need to be okay with the fact that not everyone have the same sense of humor.

[@fi6424]

"you're too sensitive" people can take a joke, but realistically what you see in media growing up, it truly does affect how you view yourself, and when representation for you is constantly getting shamed for your weight and being on the end of the joke every single time or getting called ugly, do you really think it's funny? some people saying you're too sensitive, you're just insensitive because i know for a fact most of you would be whining if you experienced it... yeah i love some of these characters and it's funny, but do you not see the issue with this being the only ones... and then when a character is finally someone who's overweight people always have some shit to say... and making it into a "well skinny people" in the comments is just so flat out weird, anyone can be body shamed but they're two very drastic things and you're trying to justify your body shaming because you've experienced it before, i couldn't tell you i was heavier and lost weight and when i tell you there was an extremely noticeable difference in how i was treated, it made me feel gross as hell. and y'all act like people would choose to be overweight if given the choice, it's an extremely hard thing to lose weight especially with how common eating disorders are sometimes actual health problems or mental health in general can all affect it. but the people saying it's ok or to get over it 9/10 times aren't overweight, and it's extremely harder when some of your mental health issues are because of your weight, trust me i love all these shows/movies too but doesn't mean i never felt like absolute shit about myself watching them, sorry for some long ass rant.. LMFAO yeah i do agree people exaggerate and sometimes pick an issue out of nowhere, but most if not all times they aren't even wrong, i can't tell you the amount of times on tik tok or something people will literally make up rumors about someone overweight and say they're racist, homophobic with no proof to back it and then see the entire comment section make jokes about their weight and body shame them, skinny shaming is equally disgusting but don't sit here and say they're anywhere close to being the same, it's not even a matter of making it a competition it just simply is what it is.. did any of this make sense? i'm half asleep and annoyed lmao

[@JohnnyHandsometm]

Dee, don’t let the body positivity SJW’s get ahold on you! Haha!

[@TheReCar1]

I love Norbit too that shit was funny asf. People be reaching. The only fat Movie I didn’t like was Precious, Because of her abusive mother.

[@tishaw.8254]

All ima say is A HIT DOG WILL HOLLER!!!🗣

[@NOBLEPAIGEPATRICK]

friends is a classic show

[@myaphillip1321]

Hey love your videos so much keep up the great work boo 🙃🙂

[@quitnn]

Tell me why these women look exactly like the movie they dont like. Thats why they dont like it. I'm sure they get called the main character.

[@jaydenmaragh4110]

Yooo THEY WANNA BE OPPRESSED SO BAD ESPECIALLY FIRST GIRL

[@dozieenworom7900]

Anyone who looks up to Nikki Parker needs to get their shit together.

[@miraclesnowden4423]

It’s offensive because people who are ignorant take what they see in media and use that as an excuse to mistreat people I was made the butt of those jokes and mental health plays a huge role in self image and how you treat your body I see your point of view but from what you said you seem to not have actually been affected by it so I guess that’s either cause you’re self image and how you see your self but if you never had the chance to build your confidence or self image and you never felt worthy of being around then that’s how you treat your body and your self and it makes the cycle of mistreatment continue which is sad but true . I hope that you use your platform to make more controversial topics like this into q n a and allow other point of view and discussions forward in your videos but if you don’t then that’s your choice

[@aceshouse3389]

Honestly some of these are reaching

[@Sophie-cb3nf]

People seriously need to learn to take a joke...like seriously mate, get over yourselves

[@KBacon-bu3jm]

Most times it be just your own friends cracking the jokes. I can’t speak for everyone tho

[@gabe3082]

Look if you have actual friends and family that have helped you and not encourage you to that point then it's your fault don't blame anybody else but the same time y'all just hurt at the fact that it is true.

[@lejla4418]

This whole video is hilarious she understand where they coming from but at the same since she just don't give a f*** and she's just laughing at these people's pain but I can definitely understand where they're coming from the dark skin girl in movies fat or skinny was always perceived to be desperate begging for man's attention and no one liked her and then she always had a light skin skinny best friend just like The proud family and me as the dark skin friend in the group I always thought I was less than around my light skin friends never was jealous of them or anything but I just knew my place when boys came up to us I know they wanted to talk to them and not me it's not that way now but it sure was a few years ago it's just all about representation if you always see yourself as less than or cruel and nasty on TV shows or everything that's around you you're going to end up starting to feel that way

[@Ramvilles316]

Oh course it's going to played up for TV/movies. People need to get out their feelings and do better (if you can).

[@latinoprophet]

Thing is there will always be a less desirable characteristics in people in general to society. The “villains” in movies and the “funny” dude or whatever have these less wanted features. Bruh I have a big nose and I’m short. The short guy always has to be funny or insecure or have little man syndrome. And I don’t care LMAO like if someone said that directly to me then we fighting LMAO but it’s in tv it’s that character. And the main thing is like i cant change my height or nose naturally LMAO. Unlike weight and blah blah blah I know there’s exceptions but there’s EXCEPTIONS FOR EVERYTHING so I think that video was just people projecting. Like that AINT u in the movie so relax.

[@zu3015]

honestly if someone that looked like yall was misrepresented in the media as undesirable and the butt of the joke yall would be pissed too stop saying "yall can't take a joke" when u wouldn't either

[@DeeShanell10]

Pretty sure everyone has seen themselves get misrepresented though...for example, black women are constantly negatively portrayed as overly sassy, rude, ghetto, etc. lmao but I’m not about to victimize myself and make it a big deal, especially when it’s comedic. Literally every group gets made fun of

[@itsmem3]

Also, there's literally a character for everyone in film.. You know there's fat characters that do great things and there's fat characters that's mean as hell.. There's skinny bad guys and skinny good guys in all these movies.. Which one should I go with? 🧐

[@kyos85]

@@DeeShanell10 prime example is A character literally named "twink" from Netflix's Q-Force, he is a stereotypical flamboyant gay guy, that does drag, and feels like one of the main sources of comedy in the show. Yet the majority of people dont get offended, because he was written to be comedic and an exaggerated stereotype

[@Starcrossedslv]

If they’re offended then just lose weight bigggie 🥵

[@xenozero]

My generation gonna end up blowing up the earth , my goodness..... im ashamed to be here....