Delirious Ex-Crush Is Trying To DESTROY My Relationship Because I Moved On r/Relationships

[@LilFeralGangrel]

Story 1: so when the guy loses interests in her she gets frustrated? I think she was happy with his puppy love following her around, now she can't have him so she's angry. what a pathetic little narcissist.

[@elizabethescalante8114]

They certainly are. After all, the Narcissists Prayer is "That never happened! If it did, it wasn't my fault! If it was, I didn't mean it! If I did, then you deserved it!"

[@dionysus_adores]

She might've been leading him on without op realizing it during school. When he got away from her his feelings finally faded.

[@PinkMarshmallows]

Story 1: Lol ohhhhh, that ex-crush is so butt hurt and jealous from OP moving on.

[@jimdob6528]

“She needs some time to heal”?… from what? Sounds like she was told a lie one time and blew it way out of proportion. She sounds pathetic.

[@GLoLChibs]

Yeah OP needs to wisen up and run from that hot mess.

[@robertx8020]

Sam thoughts here ..she was told that OP loved someone else and she didn't even ASK! No she just believed the 'other woman'' The next time someone tells her lies she will believe them AGIAN!

[@Callimo]

She's also 20, so still babybrained in some ways while an adult.

[@Ayimii]

Thank you. I was going to say exactly this.

[@Ayimii]

@@Callimo I was never like this. She's just being sad.

[@Enderslegend]

Story 1: OP needs to ditch the girlfriend as well. She’s freaking out because he had interest in another girl before he even met her. Psycho.

[@ryderkreutzer8859]

Story 1: wow how insecure is op gf she heard an ex crush not even someone he dated no just someone who he had a boyhood crush on to op I hope you read this dude RUN this gf is absolutely not mature enough for a relationship she pushed you away without hearing you out she then waited for you to block your ex crush you did absolutely nothing wrong you are allowed to have crushes in the past hells you can even have celebrity crushes it's fine because here's the truth you're with your gf not said crush. In all honesty my dude your gf has shown you who she is she'll ditch you any time her insecurities pop their ugly heads up. Run don't walk away.

[@pippo17173]

Ya I'm sorry but the current gf is so immature doing this. Op I'm sorry but it's not gonna last. Can't wait for a post about her bs.

[@alissaroberts2545]

on a one hour notice, it was probably take his kid with, or don't take sister's kids to party.

[@michaelwoods3651]

Story 2- if he lets her stay he will regret if. They are no longer married. She basically abandoned her child. She must return from whence she came, the streets. Her mental health issues are her own. Go to court and keep her away from the child!

[@ultraviolet2447]

The gf sound really annoying and likes the drama too because she blew this way out proportion. The gf is the one that needs to apologize.

[@aduckwithanumbrella]

I do feel for her only because the ex crush implied that OP was only dating gf to ger over her. But, OP did his best to reassure the girlfriend, it was her own insecurities that helped blossom the ex crushes seeds of doubt.

[@AndreNDP]

@@aduckwithanumbrellaI can't say I feel bad for her. She believed some random over her boyfriend, that's unacceptable.

[@cyrillechristophe9731]

​@@aduckwithanumbrella She can feel disturbed by it, but if she felt hurt it means that she trusts a stranger over her boyfriend. Anybody can come and mess their relationship up just by talking and not providing any sort of evidence. It is completely unfair to him and not healthy at all.

[@YellaBellaReno]

Last story OP got one hour notice to get herself ready, get her own kid ready, drive to her sister’s, pick up the twins and get them loaded up, and drive to the party. But people in the comments are still like, “Why didn’t you pick up a gift too?” Ummm, because she didn’t have time and would have to take 3 kids into a store. Have you ever had to get three kids in and out of a store to browse the toy section quickly to buy another kid a present? Yeah, that pretty much never goes smoothly. “Why didn’t you drop off the twins and leave with your daughter?” Ummm, because it is rude to bring little kids to a party and bounce. Parties are high energy, kids can act up, and it is not fair to leave other adults in charge of things like disciplining kids that aren’t theirs, or making sure other peoples’ kids don’t eat something they are allergic to, or having to stick around after the party to contact someone and coordinate pick up and supervision. I think it is pretty fair to expect others to be as understanding and charitable as you would be in the same situation if the roles were reversed. I think it was fair to assume that the host would get why a mom who just woke up from a coma couldn’t chaperone her twins, and why OP wasn’t able to make arrangements for her own daughter with such short notice. Like, who wouldn’t be sympathetic to that situation? Even if you didn’t have enough cupcakes, or an extra party favor, or chairs? Those are all things that can figured out or worked around on the spot. OP was apologetic for any inconvenience her and her daughter’s attendance might cause, AND she tried to make herself useful at the party and proactively helped out. The party was at a public fricken park, so it’s not like she even intruded in someone else’s home. The host was gracious, the kids had fun, and everything worked out. OP’s sister is probably only feeling upset and misplacing her concerns because she is tired, stressed, unwell, overwhelmed, and worried about becoming a burden; completely understandable given her situation. OP is NTA. Sometimes is actually is better to ask forgiveness and not permission.

[@ameixsell]

Speaking truth! 💯💯💯

[@zerobolt9506]

I can agree with this

[@MargaritaOnTheRox]

I totally don't get all the YTA responses. With all the considerations, it totally makes sense that OP would take her kid, and the host would be understanding.

[@jamesverone1244]

Well the majority if reddit response is children that are sitting on a computer all day with no life experience so

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

op is an asshole. What if the hosts didn’t have enough food, cake or whatnot for another kid? What if there were party favors but not enough for the uninvited child. It’s unfair on whoever threw the party to just drop another kid there. She wouldn’t have been the asshole if she went and asked if it was ok BEFORE bringing her child out and using the kid to force in cause people won’t turn an 8 year old away. Using people’s good will is an asshole move. And after dropping kids off she could’ve went and got more presents and returned. Some parents the money is very tight and they can’t afford an extra person. She didn’t take any consideration of anyone else except her daughter had fun

[@Allmightyimortal]

Story 1. Op's ex-crush is just mad the good guy she left as her backup for when she wanted to settle down moved on and found someone new.

[@RobertCampsall]

Last story: from the info given, OP was asked last minute (one hour notice) to take her nieces to a party and stay with them there. It is perfectly reasonable for her to take her daughter under those circumstances as it's unreasonable to expect someone to find child care last minute. It would have been better to call the hosts first to explain the situation - it's hard to imagine most parents being upset by this. Harsh judgments for a reasonable action.

[@only1one1me]

Story 2: That 'Starseed' stuff....Lol. Some guy tried to convince me, once, that I was an 'Indigo child' (basically the same thing) because I am autistic. No, dude. I'm not a chosen one. I'm not a divine being. I have no great destiny. Am I special? Sure, I'm special...just like everybody else.

[@pudintatter7196]

The last story: NTA don’t ask someone with a kid to take other children to a birthday party and assume they aren’t going to bring their child

[@yadealone]

You know what to do please do not let her move in. She can stay with her parents or family members or friends only let her see your son if she is stable enough to not damage your son. What’s important here is your son. His stability upbringing and the love you have for him. Do not let her damage your son or your well-being.

[@autumn557]

I like how everyone is jumping on the entitle parent bandwagon on the party story but not taking note that his sister MIGHT BE DIEING and he’s trying his best to help her and not stress her. Thanks Reddit. I hate it.

[@mythogenesis4788]

This is absolutely a situation in which grace is warranted. When there is an illness or death in the family, one extra little kid to help look after among a few others (with their own parents present) for a couple hours is no big deal. Especially if they are a relative to the invitees there on extenuating circumstances. It doesn’t sound like it was a party where they had a strict number of participants such as a reserved arcade or play place. At most, you’re losing out on one slice of cake. A small concession.

[@absolutelyridiculous6743]

@mythogenesis4788 Agreed. It's one extra kid, and circumstances called for last minute planning. It sounds like OP is exhausted helping, and doesn't want to burden his poor sister with pointless things in the grand scheme of things. As a mom myself, I'd judge others for NOT welcoming OP and his daughter as attracted guests.

[@mogulmade]

It's interesting to me that Gma is calling him an AH but didn't offer to supervise the daughter while op took the twins or take the twins herself. Smh

[@pippo17173]

Ya like what did reddit expect? They jump on him knowing he did it intentionally when there is a good reason why.

[@csarzeli]

​@@mogulmadethis exactly this, Gma didn't offer to watch the daughter which would've made it a smooth transition from dropping off the kids.

[@FinnishLapphund]

Last story: OP only had 1 hours notice. The YTA commenters expects OP to be a time magician, stop whatever they where doing, call the sister just recovering from a coma that still affects her brain function for more info, contact the birthday kid's parent in the middle of their last preparation for the party to ask for permission, if no permission find a babysitter for their own daughter, pick up the nieces possibly from x distance away since OP's daughter of the exact same age as the nieces didn't know the birthday kid, and take the nieces to the birthday party in the, presumably public, park. All that in 1 hour. Talk about a no win situation for OP. Tried to help out with too short notice to follow the normal polite protocol, and now gets accused of being rude, but if OP had said "No, this is too short notice", which would've made the nieces miss the birthday party, I bet OP wouldn't hear the end about how OP let down both ill sister, and the nieces when they really needed something nice to take their mind off their mother's/OP's sister's illness for a few hours...

[@xelectrix]

I dont understand why OP couldn't have gotten the friend's phone number when he got all the other information about the party. He had to get a time and address, and I'd assume name of the people. Why didn't a phone number come along with that?

[@ameixsell]

What good would a phone number do with all the other things op had to do like listed above?

[@FinnishLapphund]

@@xelectrix Whoever asked OP for this last minute favour was perhaps a bit stressed, since the party was only 1 hour away, which maybe made neither them, nor OP think about such sensible things.

[@xelectrix]

@ameixsell my question was why OP didn't get a phone number come along with all the other info about the party? Time, place, and contact info seems like the most important info to have even on short notice. What if OP had gotten lost? For example, if it was a big park and they needed to figure out where in the park the birthday party was happening. They would have needed to contact someone.

[@xelectrix]

@FinnishLapphund that's fair. Honestly, the more I think about it, the more I'm wondering if this is just a post out of stress. Like, nothing particular bad happened out of this. Mom and sister may have called OP rude, but unless the host said something, it should all be fine. Apparently, OP mentioned in the comments about their sister having bad anxiety, so that could be a factor. I also have a bit of anxiety about doing the wrong thing and being seen as rude or inconsiderate, so maybe that's the sister was feeling.

[@colleens1107]

The commenter who said ex crush will contact OPs gf again is spot on. OP needs to warn his gf to make sure she also blocks the jealous AH

[@MusicGirl881]

S1: The ex crush is butt hurt cause she no longer has control over OP to have him pine over her like a forever lap dog and her ego is bruised. I hope the best for OP during his first dating relationship.

[@katwitanruna]

Ummmm who was going to watch her daughter whilst she took her nephews to the party? But I do think they should have texted the birthday mom.

[@Qwerty95ish]

Story 2. Do not let her in for any reason, at all.

[@LisaApril]

Story two: if he really wants to know he should talk to his lawyer. But it's each adult parents job to support themselves and provide child support for their child. If she's homeless that just shows how unstable she is and she wouldn't even get visitation because where would that occur? The father is not really obligated to support the ex-wife at all including taking her into his home because she is unstable mentally. The logical answer is no. This is not an amicable divorce where that would be possible. // oh, I'm glad this comment was included in the post from someone else.

[@Nikephorus]

Story 1: OP was the backup plan and the ex-crush didn't like that he finally managed to move on. She wanted that attention, but would never give him a real chance.

[@KashyaCharsi]

Not even that, he was the ego-boost.

[@4myzelf]

"oh no, my saftey net is gone, i might die alone"

[@boneymeroney2674]

I laughed out loud at the Lori V reference. I'm in Idaho... that shit isn't crazy haha, it's criminally insane. 😢

[@nicknitro86]

Sounds like his ex blindly believing her and breaking up is a good thing. Because this will happen again. ..time to heal from what?

[@dammymurphy3964]

Story 1 i can not even stress enough how many times this happened to me. When i was single and ask a girl out and she says no or playing games soon as i get in a relationship, they all want me all of a sudden. I don't know whats wrong with women smh

[@GLoLChibs]

OP was her back-up plan. I will never understand these people who think they can put a friend on layaway, then act possessive and off their rocker when their back up plan starts to move on and get into relationships. Don't even get me started on the gf...she's a ball of red flags. She majorly overreacted to a *former crush*..like how dare OP have had interests before her, but she also believed the lie and acted on it, and is continuing to punishment OP for her problem. There is no 'needing time to heal'

[@wierdgamer3067]

The gf in s1 needs to apologize too. Her insecurity was shining brifht

[@stellamccoy5259]

OMG, people. NTA OP. What were you supposed to do? Leave your daughter home alone? You had one hour, ONE HOUR. People are so damn sinicle today.

[@dustyrose192]

which story?

[@Npyne]

​@@dustyrose192last story

[@YellaBellaReno]

Right?!? OP got one hour notice to get herself ready, get her own kid ready, drive to her sister’s, pick up the twins and get them loaded up, and drive to the party. But people in the comments are still like, “Why didn’t you pick up a gift too?” Ummm, because she didn’t have time and would have to take 3 kids into a store. Have you ever had to get three kids in and out of a store to browse the toy section quickly to buy another kid a present? Yeah, that pretty much never goes smoothly. “Why didn’t you drop off the twins and leave with your daughter?” Ummm, because it is rude to bring little kids to a party and bounce. Parties are high energy, kids can act up, and it is not fair to leave other adults in charge of things like disciplining kids that aren’t theirs, or making sure other peoples’ kids don’t eat something they are allergic to, or having to stick around after the party to contact someone and coordinate pick up and supervision. I think it is pretty fair to expect others to be as understanding and charitable as you would be in the same situation if the roles were reversed. I think it was fair to assume that the host would get why a mom who just woke up from a coma couldn’t chaperone her twins, and why OP wasn’t able to make arrangements for her own daughter with such short notice. Like, who wouldn’t be sympathetic to that situation? Even if you didn’t have enough cupcakes, or an extra party favor, or chairs? Those are all things that can figured out or worked around on the spot. OP was apologetic for any inconvenience her and her daughter’s attendance might cause, AND she tried to make herself useful at the party and proactively helped out. The host was gracious, the kids had fun, and everything worked out. OP’s sister is probably only feeling upset and misplacing her concerns because she is tired, stressed, unwell, overwhelmed, and worried about becoming a burden; completely understandable given her situation. OP is NTA. Sometimes is actually is better to ask forgiveness and not permission.

[@sharontalladira]

Nta stuff happens and I'm pretty sure the hostess understands. And you don't drop off kids and leave. Not till they are teenagers at least. I always made sure there were extra goodie bags and food even for parents. Heck even the kids would ask my kids if the sibling or cousins could come I always said yes!!! And yes when I threw birthday parties for my kids their friends always wanted to know if they could come next year. I always said of course. I was the parent that had themed birthday parties ie fiesta, treasure hunts, Pokémon, princess and such I always saved up for the parties just some my kids parties were special. The parents always thanked me for wearing out their kids lol the dollar stores are your friend. 😊

[@jlyo1991]

Time to heal from what?! Dude run. She’s too immature.

[@lcoq19]

For the last one- my son is 3 and has a speech delay. He absolutely LOVES other kids and when he's around them he cannot stop giggling! And maybe it's just a mom thing in my case, but I think he has the best, sweetest, most infectious laugh that you can't help but laugh along with when you hear it. I could easily see him wandering up to a birthday party in a public place if one of us didn't have a close eye on him. I would take him away, even though I know he doesn't understand why he can't participate. Even if I were dropping off his cousin(s), I wouldn't let him barge in without strict invitation from the host parent (and probably not even then since he wouldn't know the people there). If I were the hosting parent, and the relative of another guest showed up, as in the post, I would almost certainly welcome additional polite, well-behaved guests. Then again, what I would do doesn't matter when I'm not the host. Unless expressly invited, the OP should've left with their child. I think the host mom's best bet would've been to ask if they were dropping off their niece/nephew; ask what time they would be back; thank them for dropping them off and telling them what time the party ends- like hintedy fucking hint, hello!! I mean, you don't have to announce it in front of everyone but you can certainly take them to the side and express you only have enough party items for the children you invited or just say your child's guest list was specific and since they weren't on it, they should go ahead and go. No need to be ugly about it, but people will take advantage of others ingrained politeness.

[@ameixsell]

Story three. Moral of the story, next time your sister calls asking you to take her kids on short notice, and you have your daughter, the answer is NO

[@forestcrow5491]

You mean…the story where ops sister just got out of a coma?? That story 3?? I personally think it was a dick move to drop an extra kid on the host without warning, but it honestly sounds like it was a very delicate situation and the short notice is honestly excused here.

[@dk9619]

Right? What was he supposed to do with his daughter? NTA

[@sharontalladira]

If you have thrown a birthday party for a kid you always make extra goody bags and plenty of food. All through my kids childhood I always had extra just for these type of situations and never minded if an extra kid or two had come. Things happen get over it Nta

[@hvymax]

OP was pressed into helping sister at the last minute. Could have called ahead out of courtesy.

[@juliearmfield2634]

It wasn't a secret that Opie had a daughter when the sick sister called to ask her to take her twins to a birthday party with an hour's notice. If anyone is its the sister and mom (softly). The sister was doing her a very last minute favor. What was o.p. supposed to do with her kid while she was chauffeuring and taking care of the twins.

[@MizzShortai]

Story one she just wanted him as a safe back up option. She doesn't like that she's not the center of his attention anymore.

[@cyrillechristophe9731]

Story two. He should take her back in the house.... If he's not afraid to have his a$$ back in court in a few month trying not to give her some sort of custody arrangement and child support bc she had time to bond with her son and repair their relationship has hiS primary caregiver while his father was working... It might not happen for sure. But let's not forget the cheating, the false child abuse accusations, what looks like stealing money, the abandonement of her son and crossing of the atlantic for her new man... At best she'll only be digging in his pockets, at worst she'll f* their kid's mind up

[@untiedshoelaces2588]

Story 2: There ain't enough muscle relaxants to stop the aches that occurred from the number of times my eyes rolled at all of the shenanigans this woman has perpetrated.

[@frazzledhaloz3184]

No don’t let her move in!

[@kausha7135]

Story 2: "Will the courts not like that?" ASK YOUR LAWYER, NOT REDDIT!!!!

[@josephmckee3605]

Story 1 just move on, she got one txt from someone and dumped you, block them both and move on with your life

[@jayzepickle6637]

I will say, all my life I have rejected or not been into people who confessed their crushes on me but when I was younger even after rejecting them, I'd perhaps subconsciously detect when they'd start moving on and swoop in and be more active and friendly in their lives to draw them back into liking me. I have always had rotten self esteem and an internal desire and need to be absolutely loved and validated by others. But I matured a lot and realized what I was doing and how wrong it was. I mean even now I have those thoughts, I just don't act on them because I respect people enough to realize that my own self hatred and insecurity should never affect them in a negative way. Recently someone who had a crush on me for a long period got his first girlfriend and I have been supportive as a friend from the sidelines. Not trying to get super close to him again or tell his girlfriend anything. Because that's just common sense and decency.

[@jessiejeanne9717]

If "Petunia" is in the states, it's called a "5150"!

[@tashantimothy6180]

Story 1: you could link her KZbin channel and help boost her career lol and also let us laugh at her

[@twiggygrl84]

Omg not a Starseed! I cannot even to begin to touch on the insanity of that group. Husbands ex best friend of decades got taken by them... hes a leader now. Run far far far and fast!

[@twiggygrl84]

I bet the guy she moved to europe with was from Romania... seems to be a pattern... and also a money grab/ green card marriages cover up. From the multitude of shady crap happening in our research of the former friend's situation.

[@johnathangreay987]

When you moved on they always come back. Always. My crush made me think I had a chance. But when I saw her all over the guy who cheated on her. I ghosted her. But she actually weaponized the cops against me. Glad I knew their lieutenant before she could lie to them more. Life's been much better.

[@lauragarza7585]

That last story is so bullshit. They asked you for a favor an hour before the party. And then gotten mad that you had to take your own kid.!?!?!. NTA

[@dmb25108]

Exactly and WTF is with the comments, Reddit is so f***ing ridiculous at times. This is definitely a NTA due to extenuating circumstance.

[@pragatisingh8467]

@@dmb25108 fr where were they supposed to take their kid? Like wth do these people even think people do all day? Have everything planned out in case they receive a phone call asking for help?

[@yamairad1]

​@@dmb25108I'm honestly convinced that many of these redditors don't have children, an SO or any sign of a healthy social life. I watch these videos because I don't have time to read essays about a random person's life and then the comments about it. I can, listen to them while cleaning, cooking and living life.

[@wheelsndealz]

Sorry but story one op should also be questioning the gf. If she's willing to take the word of that ex crush over him she doesn't love or trust him.

[@BriannaWeldon]

NTA. It would be different if it was a trampoline park instead of a public park.

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Hey Markee 👋 Have a wonderful day tomorrow 👍 Have a great day/night everyone 👋🤗

[@jakeking3859]

What are with all these responses for the last post? Like, okay, all the kids involved are 8, no one misbehaved, everyone seemed to have fun, he mentioned that the mother of the kid having the party was chill about it, his sister is really sick, he had only an hour's notice....what else could he have done? If I asked a friend who has a child, especially if they're around the same age, to take my children to a kid's birthday party, I would 100% expect them to take their own child. Unless it's a 'we have reservations' situation, I think most people would be cool with another person attending, especially in these types of circumstances.

[@csarzeli]

Story 3 nta don't ask me to drop kids off to a party without offering to watch my kids, kids barely understand being left out of things I'm not going to set my children up for disappointment by dragging them with me to drop other kids off to a celebration they're not invited to.

[@indyfmw]

I didnt know who lori vallow was... but omg... thats crazy

[@scottholdcomb1500]

Google Morning from the Old Farts car club

[@jas6940]

She wanted OP to be hooked on her for the rest of her life because it makes her feel better about herself and because it seems she peeked in high school she can understand that that LOSER with the crush would stop liking her How could he not like her it’s me the popular girl from high school

[@telinhajp]

Good night, Markee! Wishing you an awesome Friday!おやすみ！ ❤️🤗

[@rclark8688]

Story 1: giving the girlfriend time and grace to process the shocking thing someone told them is understandable. But for the relationship to worn for me I would need an apology for he trusting a stranger or me. Last story: Based off the information in the vidoe I have to disagree with the YTA comments. Under normal circumstances OP would be but this was a last minute request that's what happens when you request things last minute, you get inconvenience. It's mot the sister's fault, but she asked OP a favor without ample time to find child care, especially if much of that hour had to be spent picking up the nieces and transporting to the park. And since she didn't complain about OP being there, it doesn't seem like she wanted them to leave her kids there unattended. She put OP in a bad situation and complained when things didn't go smoothly. It's like asking someone to pick them up in 5 min knowing the live 30 min away.

[@samssams666]

Last story, ESH, I agree with both YTA and NTA comments and if I was the uninvited kid with my mom in the hospital and she might die, I'd be more depressed if I couldn't go to a bday party like my cousins were. OP was the ahole for not calling in advance or asking, but at the same time, he didn't have to do that, what about his mom or any inlaws? They couldn't take the kids to the birthday party?

[@manxeable]

I read "delicious" It's breakfast hour

[@silverwurm]

Yeah, ex in story one did op a favor: showed him what kind of person his current gf is. Seems he’s still chasing women that won’t stick with him when it matters.

[@nightdweller6446]

S1 classic "I don't want him but you can't have him" behaviour. Sabotage b queen is a mean girl. The current gf has trust issues S2. Oh, hell no ,no, nope, no way let this woman into the home. OP needs to lawyer up again. Keep her the hell away from the house, op'll never get her out. She's gone full on froot loops. Go with OP gut feeling. She needs to sort herself out S3. Yta. It's rude to show up with extras. Manners still matter.

[@renaeodonnell4558]

Anyone see a fake pregnancy coming in story 1 OP’s future?

[@KE-hr4sb]

S1: Ah, the age-old story of “I don’t want my old toy, but I don’t want anyone else playing with him, either.” She liked the attention you gave her, it stroked her ego. She might want you back, you might be her fallback plan, or she might just not want you to move on and be over her; either way it doesn’t matter. Go no contact with her. As for your gf, if she’s willing to believe someone she doesn’t even know over you, her bf, and break up over this? Good riddance to bad trash. Find someone that a) trusts you, their partner and b) isn’t so insecure that she’s worried you’ll break up with her when you’re right there assuring her you’re not! Last story: “Is this an etiquette that needs to survive after 2023??” What, you mean common courtesy and not showing up somewhere uninvited? YES, that’s an etiquette that needs to survive. You also purposely did not give the mother a heads up, OR buy enough gifts per person you brought. YTA OP, and an entitled one at that. But since I know *you* wouldn’t mind uninvited guests, I’m sure your friends and family will be happy to hear that so they can start sending their kids to your house so they can get a break.

[@BlondeEyes7]

I'm confused. This party was at a park, right? A public park? Presumably with a playground? Why couldn't OP's kid just go play and leave the party guests alone? OP could probably sit on a bench in view of both the party area and the play equipment.

[@ameixsell]

Pnutbuttercup i. The comments of the 3rd story is insane, yes drop off the children your family asked them to watch, leave them at a party without a guardian and take your kid elsewhere. Screw the nephews if something happens right? Except you could get cps called on you and child endagerment charges if something happens at the party, also loosing any respect from your family. Even Markee is wrong on this one imo

[@randalhill6283]

Story 3. Nta. She had an hour's notice to get the kids to the party. If the host really didn't want them there she would have asked them politely to not be there. It's not like she showed up and just sat on her butt and let everybody do the childcare, she did help clean which is a big help no matter how you look at it.

[@toomanyhungrycats0554]

Lady from the 1st story sounds like a scientologist

[@dakotasan8719]

I heard story 2 over on SSM’s channel. Same thing I said over there Her: I’m about to be homeless! Me: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mmWrmX-HesiSaNE

[@ninyattitude1798]

Not Dua Lipa in the thumbnail.

[@vampire9545]

I don't understand, why is op there if the kid isnt invited?

[@katwiltz1134]

They go to different schools op had to jump and get three people ready within an hour and most of the time was taken up just going to get the twins this was done because sister was not long out of a coma her brain still very foggy and if Opie wouldn't have brought the twins they wouldn't have been able to go to the party at all she brought her own child didn't call first but she was in a hurry and she didn't have the time to do it she just didn't want the sister to worry about it or he don't know if this is it here she but that's the gist of it their parent was deathly ill and the Opie stepped in so the kids wouldn't miss a birthday party they really wanted to go to this was done at the last minute with less than an hour fo 21:06 r op2 do but these idiots on Reddit including Marquis today I'll say what she did was rude know it wasn't ruined if people can't be understanding about somebody's mom in a coma then they don't deserve to be at a birthday party or on Reddit this particular day. everything

[@EnDB]

One hour notice?? What was she supposed to do with that 8 yo?

[@jrod1591]

Women can’t handle rejection.

[@3ratsinatrenchcoat]

Markee, didnt you know? you instantly gain mental illness when you become a KZbinr /j

[@jamesverone1244]

He literally said for the reasons listed below not because of yputube. Youd think youd be able to read since you do these all day

[@kiraalexandraruizburgos1236]

🦐

[@willow8186]

I don’t see it as a grey area to bring a not invited guest to a party, especially a *birthday* party. Just don’t do it, it’s rude, you ask first, conmen curtesy. Also, since it’s a birthday party the birthday kid might not have wanted someone there they hadn’t invited. And had this happened in my childhood home that surprise guest would have been without a candy bag because we made them for each kid in advance to take home and we didn’t make extra 🤷‍♀️

[@MargaritaOnTheRox]

OP had an hour notice that she had to pick up and take her nieces to a birthday party. What else was OP to do? Just leave the kids there? Find a sitter last minute, with time to pick up the nieces and get them to the party? If I was the host, under the circumstances, I would totally understand. And not getting a goody bag is such a non issue with all considered.

[@hdeodh]

S1: OP was the ego boost... she does not like him but like the ego boost she gets from him. S2: The court system are against fathers and men..

[@brandygiovinazzi3460]

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[@auri3003]

First!

[@ronbeyak9886]

Your ex is delusional.Do not let her in under any circumstances, because if she comes into your house, you will not get her out.

[@ronbeyak9886]

Do not I repeat, do not let her move in with you. She needs to figure this out for herself. If you move her in, you’ll never get rid of her and you will be the loser in the long run.