Delusional Selfish Wife Decided Her 5-Year-Old Son Is Gay Just Because He Played Dress-Up With Hi...

[@mr.halfright]

Aside from the 11 year age gap, the thing that sticks out to me about the 1st story is that she openly admits she can pay back all the child support she owes, and there's absolutely no consequences for her. If the crazy ex were a guy and the OP were a woman, the ex would have been taken to jail long, long ago for failing to pay child support

[@phionella7]

That's really not true my sister hasn't gotten a dime of child support for her two children from her ex. The oldest is now 21 and the youngest is 14. The man gets works and as soon as his pay gets garnished he quits his job, he hasn't spent a second in jail.

[@ScubaX29]

Someone could describe the healthiest relationship, but then say there's an 11 age gap and people will say "well one has to be a creep!" I understand the concerns, but people need to start understanding that age gap relationships sometimes work.

[@AnActualCadaver]

S3: I’m glad OP is seemingly learning his lesson but it also seems like he completely glossed over the fact that he didn’t want his daughter, Lena, to marry her husband, Ethan, because he is of a different race and culture. Yes, one of his problems is the controlling aspect but I feel like the racism aspect is just as important to address

[@LovelyCinccino]

@@AnActualCadaver And the fact he ordered her to abort her baby. He’s not even mentioning that he wanted this child dead.

[@balarion539]

Glad I'm not the only one that was frustrated by his refusal to address his racism

[@anq4274]

I'm gay and 2S make's my blood boil, 1, LEAVE CHILDREN OUT OF THE INTERNET, 2. if any case the child was indeed gay...like we are not social tokens, we are people.

[@Vipershadow1]

I know many people who are gay and are cool about it, they don’t push they’re ideology onto me and are really good people this person instead of talking to the kid about how they feel she just forced the ideology for internet likes and validation of being a supportive progressive mother. If they kid was gay it is what it is let them come to that realization on their own through life experience doing this is how you lose your kid emotionally. This was a brother enjoying playing with his sister innocently taken outta context and dragged to the internet for a stupid need of dopamine from validation.

[@AmaryInkawult]

​@@Vipershadow1the amount of narcissistic dope addicts really did skyrocket when they found out they don't have to pay for dope on the internet

[@Spectacular769]

Pretty sure the narrative wife was going with was that her son was trans. Being gay is getting to be a perfectly normal thing that nobody bats an eye at anymore, so obviously, merely having a gay son doesn't earn you social media clout. Women (and especially transwomen) are both much higher value in the oppression hierarchy than men (gay or otherwise), and thus abusively forcing her non-dysphoric son to become a transgirl would earn her the most virtue points among the unhinged identity politics echo chamber crowd.

[@stephanienoblet8503]

I wish there was another update for this story

[@Nicho_Ldn]

S2: 15-20 years ago, would this sort of parental behaviour/abuse even have been a thing? The mother is manipulating and projecting a vision on her son for the sake of Likes, Followers and external gratification. It’s harming her daughter also. One day, she’ll regret all of this.

[@juliearmfield2634]

This is a woman that should have nothing but supervised visitation and a strict mental health evaluation and schedule

[@vaseline69]

I'm a gay man and even I think this woman is a loony

[@liebling4069]

15-20 years ago the parents would've been beating the kid for wearing the dress in the first place.

[@madmohawk6560]

This is what social media has done to our society honestly I thing sites like Facebook and tik tok have destroyed specific generations

[@boblee7998]

Still happens today

[@Chadicus-Guardsmanicus]

S2: I hope OP gets full custody with supervised visitation and doesn't let her out of his sight for a second. His wife sounds like the delusional type who would try to force her son to do procedures so he can "be brave and better conform to his identity"

[@erickaennis2738]

Story 2. It's parents like the mom in this story that drive me crazy. Leave these kids alone. Let them be kids. Stop pushing your sh*t on them. They play with each other's toys. It's normal. It doesnt mean anything. They are innocent kids. We've all seen parents like this the past few years. Always posting online. Making public statements. Looking for pats on the back. They shouldn't be parents. Poor kid. I see years of therapy in his future.

[@AmaryInkawult]

Yeah, I remember playing Commando with my brother's GI Joes using Polly pocket as a war nurse. She did a lot of amputations. Doesn't mean he's gay cuz he tolerated a girl toy and doesn't make me a trans man cuz I wasn't traditionally girly. These types are the true Militant Traditionalists by essentially enforcing the idea of gender norms!

[@AmaryInkawult]

Shit I'm STILL not the traditional girly girl. Dieselpunk tomboy all the way~

[@MikeSVZ]

Therapy is the least of their issues, a lot of these kids will end up sterile and in deformed bodies due to the drugs they were pumped with as young children. I once got in to a fight with a father like this (not because of the kid, but because he was drinking in a child playground) and he tried to sue claiming some ridiculous story about me attacking him because I’m a bigot that hates trans people, my lawyer tore him a new asshole and as far as I know the child is now with her uncles who are working very hard and I reverse the demage . Poor child is so confused and messed up mentally and physically… I sometimes regret not taking the fight further

[@Vipershadow1]

S2: I pray this man gets full custody cause this sh*t makes no sense some people just do stupid things for internet attention. The boy just wanted to have fun with his sister dads do that with they’re daughters too sometimes like come on that was just stupid and all for internet likes and validation. she’s doesn’t care about the kid’s well being at all but op you shouldn’t have ignored it either. that was the only mistake you made she was doing way too much and you should have stopped her cause it only elevated from where it started.

[@danacarter9147]

Same here, but if he doesn’t, placement in foster care will the kids’ only alternative.

[@momolol3724]

S2 : OP's wife is just doing it for Internet points.

[@Soothar]

S2: She may love her son very much but her mind and actions tell a different story. Sounds to me like she wants a Trans kid or wanted another daughter from the start. She is going to screw this kid up unless she gets some serious counseling

[@hexmaniacciaran]

As a gay man, story 2 is utter insanity * The internet is forever, to all of the parents - your kids can't consent to you sharing every detail of their lives and that's before we get into safeguarding issues around predators accessing your social media (yes even people you accepted as a friend on your private pages) - it's not 30 years ago where seeing a photo of your kid involved digging out a photo album for a guest in your home * I know many queer people who know they're different at that age - it's great that his mother is open to that but holy shit, listen to him when he says he doesn't feel different, stop projecting onto him for social media validation * Dad is a total green flag here - doesn't react negatively to his son innocently playing, doesn't see it as shameful or something to abuse him over, and prioritises protecting his son above his wife's vanity

[@LovelyCinccino]

Third Story: I wonder when OP is finally going to confront the fact that he wanted that granddaughter he wants to meet so much dead all those years ago when he ordered Lena to abort her.

[@matthewt.6976]

“Confronting facts” isn’t really his thing.

[@LovelyCinccino]

@ Considering he hasn’t admitted that he knows that he told Lena to abort Ellie, no it is not.

[@warnesia5276]

"I told her Liam wasn't on any journey.- he was 6." Summed it up perfectly.

[@cameron765]

Story 2: Op is getting on my nerves bro took forever to grow a back bone like bro this is your son dont let your wife turn your son into a weirdo

[@Emmanuel-ws3qo]

interesting how in story 3 they neglect to go in detail as to what the racial dynamic was. As well as OP's specific "reasoning" and prejudice against this racial group.

[@jsalves88]

Story 3. Não foi orgulho, foi racismo

[@DGT964]

BR aqui ?

[@remeokits]

Second story the mom is abusive and forced the son to dress in ways he didnt like.

[@summerstorytrue]

It's important to approach topics like gender identity and sexual orientation with sensitivity and an open mind. Children, especially as young as 5, are exploring the world around them in various ways, and playing dress-up is just one of many forms of creative expression. Labeling a child’s behavior based on limited understanding can be harmful and doesn't allow them to develop naturally in their own time. Instead of jumping to conclusions, it’s crucial to foster a supportive and accepting environment where children feel free to express themselves without fear of judgment or pressure to fit into specific roles. Let's remember that each child's journey is unique, and we should focus on understanding and love rather than making assumptions.

[@Icykaleidescope]

My family forced me to be christian after being outed as gay that was horrible but doing hhe other eay around forcing a kid to be who he not is? That's just as cruel!

[@sarahloveless1726]

S1: tbf, the OFs thing is more him looking for more reasons to hate her

[@kuromibadass]

19 and 30? Yikes.

[@Aj-mn4pv]

At least he respects her unlike some men that takes advantage of young women

[@kuromibadass]

@@Aj-mn4pv she is barely legal

[@cameron765]

I'm not understanding what's the problem she's a consenting adult who understands how relationships work

[@knightrider9876]

It's weird, she's the one approaching him, it seems like he didn't encourage it, and gave her time to really understand whether she wanted it. Sure it may not work out in a hypothetical future but as an educated adult she makes her decisions, we can only pass opinions

[@devhxh1558]

Ik she is barely an adult and mature...but OP did spend 4yrs together and get to know her family. She would be 23-24 when she gets married 23-34 still looks okay

[@savannahhague4989]

Or only hopefully next year, things like this will stop and anyone who’d out their kids as something they’re not, or force them to be trans will be facing jail time.

[@markanthony1004]

The military can’t teach you discipline. You either have from home like me being raised by my grandparents or you don’t and I saw the entire spectrum

[@TheyCallMeJay]

Funny how 19 is 'barely an adult' when it comes to relationships, but when it comes to voting and other way more serious things, yeah thats fine, american logic😅

[@Crippled_Cacus]

You’re a little slow aren’t you? People wouldn’t have a problem if it’s like a 19-year-old dating a 21-year-old, do you wanna know why? Because they’re basically at the same maturity, and they’re literally just starting off in life as a legal adult but this is an 11 year age gap, bro. 30 and 19 is weird.

[@dr.wiggler]

S2: insane entitlement

[@MimosaRose]

Stop sexualizing kids! A five year old child has NO COMPREHENSION of gay or straight. Just let them be a kid. OP did the right thing.

[@mouldysushi]

Lmao they absolutely do have comprehension of gay or straight. Kids have crushes at that age & kids with queer parents exist 🤯 Straight people do that as soon as they’re born with those weird “ladies’ man” onesies and saying their baby who doesn’t even have object permanence is a flirt.

[@wallgorn]

S2 reminds me of James Younger.

[@remeokits]

Third story, why does color and culture have anything to do with live? I dont say having a different color makes you a different race like in dnd uts the human race.

[@ScubaX29]

Story 2: This story will make some people very angry, yet those same people will also be angry at parents for letting a kid who wants to wear opposite gender clothing. Hypocrisy much?

[@sinbadwilliams7186]

Day 135 of telling secretvoices to have a good day

[@SecretVoices25]

Day 135 of telling you to have a great day and a speedy recovery

[@eshaytoastie9790]

Our heart chooses our life partner, you don't see color.....

[@patsypersaud]

Story 2, women only see men as props, even their own family only exist to make them look better

[@samuelebincoletto637]

You know not ALL women are like this, right?

[@patsypersaud]

@@samuelebincoletto637I’m aware, but I’ve never met one who’s not like this in-person

[@victormontes7007]

@@samuelebincoletto637 How does a woman see two happy children playing together having fun and go how destory my sons happiness and abuse him in countless ways for my entertainment

[@05bastille]

@@patsypersaud “i have never met a man who doesn’t treat women like property to use and do with as he wishes.” Thats a ridiculous sentence to make. You think you are making a point on women, but truly all you’re showing is how few women you have met in your life. Time to talk to people- and no, not through the internet, real people who talk in real time.

[@samuelebincoletto637]

@@patsypersaud Trust me, there are still good women out there, I can tell you this from experience.

[@BeenNoticing]

S2: Emma is gonna trans Liam. Dad has no say in the matter. The State will tell him to pay for the surgery and love his new daughter Lia.

[@ladyv5655]

2nd OP doesn't sound much better than his when he gets all smug and self righteous about his ex's unstable family background. And dating the much younger help? Please. He sucks, too.