Denzel Washington Motivation

[@jacquih8804]

TWO KEY words..."MATURE MAN!"

[@smerk429]

Single momma ?

[@LIK64]

Yep, not MAN CHILD

[@GoddessShekmet444]

Key!!!!!

[@JC-tx3gh]

Three words? CHRIST FILLED MAN! ✝️

[@barackthecomposer6642]

Yes, looking for a mature, Non-feminist woman.

[@lindahughes9207]

Found mine 22 years ago, wasn't even looking, he treats me like a queen, I''m very blessed.

[@Charmainecharmainecharmaine]

How old are you now?

[@monotoshmondal9185]

Is it your son

[@Brenda-t7w]

Yes you are very lucky wish I could say the same I've been married for 40 years and well the love really never was there for me that is oh well one beautiful thing well person came outta it is my beautiful son that is almost 40 years old and that man I love my beautiful son so yes your very lucky just thought I'd let someone know anywayyy🎉

[@cr5580]

And continued blessings to you! What we need often shows up when we least expect it 💫💫💫

[@lilithsantillan9950]

That is so beautiful, I am soo HAPPY for Y♥️U both🎶♥️🌍🙏🏽🎊

[@kimberlykelly6110]

I am truly Blessed, my husband found me working in a doctor's office exactly 39 years ago. I can still hear the office manager saying to him, "Why are you so nice to us?" It must be something you want, and I walked around the corner, and he said I want her. My God, I smiled, and the rest is history. We have been married 37 1/2 years and we are so grateful to God for allowing us to meet, marry, raise a family, and now serve each other and the Lord ❤ We are Blessed

[@Mendyshahan]

That is beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

[@encyclopaedia641]

Awww

[@sable24367]

Happy tears 💦💦Here’s to love🥂and here’s to the both of you🥂

[@repa49]

How Beautiful‼️I truly ‚envy‘ you… that‘s Exactly what I always was looking for… all the best for both of you…

[@chinyerennodi1831]

May Almighty God continue to bless your union 🙏

[@KineshaBolton]

Ladies always remember…Actions speak louder than words!

[@Sal-ub2hm]

@@KineshaBolton ladies remember maybe you're just not the one so stop asking for something that isn't for you

[@VerleanHurd]

​@@Sal-ub2hm A word.

[@carlettecannon8716]

I AGREE WITH YOU FAM 100% ALL THE WAY FROM BATON ROUGE LOUISIANA 2024

[@MissShele]

🎯​@@Sal-ub2hm

[@alanericksen7102]

This guy is so wrong. Ask God. Read his word.

[@peaceandquiet62]

A lot of women need to hear this message to save their time, energy and heartbreak. Stop chasing men that don't want you! Stop having children for men that don't love or commit to you! Thank you God for this word. Amen.

[@briana14333]

Agreed💯🎯‼️

[@joyceboone8206]

Amen

[@juliearuna9021]

😔😔😔😔😔😔😔

[@azmasalman9396]

Well said !

[@sarisatravis7479]

@@peaceandquiet62 well said👍

[@Pamela-zy7vc]

*in other words, you can't make a man love you😌*

[@marjorjorietillman856]

Women listen. Because giving him GREAT sex won’t make him marry you! Some men will promise you the moon to have you, but after it’s over! He’ll say, and you believed me??😂😂

[@shreyatr8059]

So is it the man choosing a woman? Then what about women

[@Wesenskern]

Or anyone for that matter. It's not just men.

[@Wesenskern]

Or anyone for that matter. It's not just men.

[@elizabethbrown5215]

​@@shreyatr8059I was thinking the same thing. So the man knows the one and only woman he wants and will move mountains for her, BUT, what if this woman he wants doesn't love or want him. Denzel said there's only one woman he wants, so poor guy's going to have to settle for second best. Women know exactly what kind of man they want also. Like myself, I want a Christ loving man with virtue. Hopefully I'll find him. 👍 Good luck to all the ladies and men out there. You are all special and beautiful!

[@thehoneypot174]

This is not Denzel talking but the message is as real as it gets.

[@mereese1]

I'm glad you heard the AI voice, too!

[@Arlando4.0]

@@mereese1 You guys are sharp sharp...lmao

[@beatricemccoy2288]

It also the other way around

[@bkman0978]

This message is half bs. Sorry for this comment on your post but YT won't let me post normally

[@TonyaTaylor-b9m]

AI

[@BrendaRiffe-c7p]

Do not settle because your lonely. You may miss the right man!!

[@sandyjuntunen4088]

My husband was like that. He loved me so much, I had to love him back. He was so gentle, humble & kind, but strong and protective. All the corny stuff written in books? That's what we had, he was my hero, prayer partner, father of our children, my best friend. He looked at me with such love in his eyes my heart melted. My nickname for him was Treasure, bc he was. Every woman should be loved like that. We had 43 years, then God took him. I can't wait to go, I'm ready to be with him again.

[@spencerwhitsett9350]

😱🙏🏾

[@Mreyna310]

May God bless you.

[@youareworthalot1228]

😭

[@youareworthalot1228]

Thank you. Love it.

[@Lovelife-f8s]

Omg 😭😭😭

[@namgenuineclothingwear919]

Nothing can keep a man that doesn’t wanna be kept.

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@purplelove3666]

You don't keep a man,he stays on his own accord,

[@teresaratliff8614]

💯

[@nancymckernan2160]

You can not make a man want you...period!!!

[@thekbarn7932]

Finally some common sense

[@RichCraw]

Men speak with actions, ignore the words

[@SemekiIzuio]

Wrong, dont ignore the words. If they say they are bad then believe them when they are. Only believe them when their actions are good.

[@lindajustice2014]

Women are not an extension of her boyfriend, she is her own person and must be treated as such for her to stay

[@camillesofina3461]

Yis 🙏🙏💃💃🦋🦋

[@Sew-Ronica]

That's true

[@susanagarcia9646]

@@SemekiIzuioI came here for this comment! 💯% correct

[@gofgan]

Sadly it doesn't matter how loyal or faithful u r, if he doesn't see u as a wife, he will only waste your tym!!!

[@teresawrites]

I was that ONE woman for my husband. What a blessing!!! He loved me even when I was far from loveable. I lost him in 2022. Thank you God for the amazing 32 years we had. Wish i could have 32 more. Women, don't give up on finding that ONE man. No one else is worth it.

[@halleyae2]

Thank you for sharing. Sorry for your loss. This was and is beautiful

[@ditris69]

You never lost him my dear 🥲 he's there with you in your heart 💞🫂

[@princessbelle502]

You were so blessed. Thank you for sharing your love story. ❤

[@wasabe591]

❤❤❤❤

[@HamzaM-jx2pt]

God bless him,may he rest in beautiful peace. Thank you for sharing this x

[@MarthaWoodworth-f9s]

My baby just claimed me. He said “I’ll be at your house at 10 tomorrow morning.” And there he was, a beautiful, brilliant man, coming up the stairs and into my arms, and never left for 25 blessed years. It was fate and faith that did it. I always knew I would meet him and I was right. To get love, there are two immutable laws: give it to get it; believe it will happen. Stay open to receive the miracle! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Jennifer-xl5fh]

Thanks for the vote of faith trust and patience 🙏 in God's perfect timing and Holy will... I was talking about in confidence today with my future man,he said I could wish it I quipped I will make it happen because I believe in God's hands are molding us now and before we met when we met and I am praying for this so units more than wish ... it's my / our dream coming true .. .well I didn't say all this but this but I made it clear about prayer and faith in God

[@andreabrigitteprohaska3281]

I do!

[@user-lz9dc5rr1f]

Well, guess I better get to moving on.😅

[@yumnom69420]

That was beautiful, better than the vid! lol 💙🙏 thank you

[@DaVeanNash]

🙏🏾 AMEN... AND THEN SOME! 🙏🏾

[@hestergreen2031]

So true. Either he wants you, or he doesn’t.,

[@mariongoodjoint9384]

AMEN!!! THERE R NO IN BETWEEN🎉

[@275MsParis]

So very true

[@CrystalJennings-q5m]

Good to know. Zero effort… while I’m over here killing myself! Thank u Denzel BUT Deja Vu Listen to urself. World keeps telling us to discard so easily. Do what makes you happy. Who fucking cares what anyone else thinks!!

[@sylviacollins652]

DAMN!! That's putting it out there!!

[@eveFlower101]

Love isn’t a static state, it fluctuates. Speaking in absolute terms negates the fact that half of marriages fail. Even if a man thinks he’s found that person that still isn’t a guarantee he won’t change his mind later. And that applies to the woman as well.

[@plzsavethebeez743]

Some Men never reach the level of maturity!

[@StephTellnTruth]

A man told me that one time. He said men either want every woman, or they want only 1 woman, the one that they love.

[@greentree730]

I married someone who wanted every woman. The way I would phrase it is that he was never really committed to me. He broke my heart during and after a 25 year marriage. Know who you marry...really know them.

[@naruto7034]

​@@greentree730hmm the thing is I am not sure abt these things as I am only 17 but the thing is the first women I will love will be my last either we marry or I stay virgin till I die simple Because this is the feeling I get like the first love is the last for guys at least Btw my dad used to be that way cheating on my mama left and right now he is a man of God at least trying to be no alcohol no women nothing

[@hummingbird08]

They are worst than any animals or any insects,,,,,,just keep them away

[@jasmineabdulla5719]

Oh I didn't understand that logic being a Psychology its hard for me to understand that ..explain please

[@misst3016]

​@@naruto7034.

[@sbella6719]

Women concern yourself with not losing yourself to a man rather than if he wants to be kept. Keep yourself always and you can't lose!

[@Kisa-l5g]

So true

[@SharonKBM]

Excellent advice

[@darkthrone7201]

Thank you.

[@pamelasmith1599]

So true. Mine just found me and he is settled about it. I finally got it settled within myself and stopped trying to run from him. He just kept saying, "I am not going anywhere. I will be right here when you stop running away." It's wonderful and peaceful.😊

[@Sasha-vn9qw]

Aww I love that ❤

[@rhodabaxter9687]

That's almost exactly what mine said. He looked at me and said I ain't going no where and will always be here

[@TL-ml8jz]

My also said this and got married meanwhile. 😂

[@catherinepowell4149]

My boyfriend has said this to me. He has the patience of Job. He's a keeper.

[@sachinifernando6081]

It takes two hearts to fall in love but it takes god to keep it going on 😊. Fire will keep on burning but to make sure it's not destructive it takes the one who created it.

[@worldwidevictoryteam]

Let's understand that GOD IS LOVE. Love GOD first and GOD will send you the "Right One".

[@margaritakleinman5701]

Great message! ❤

[@krystalmccoy3066]

Amen

[@evelinehenry7028]

So it is....❤

[@tiffanyjordan2386]

Amen ❤ God's love =God's plan

[@williambrion2011]

Way wiser/smater than Denzel!

[@PrettyMamaPatchwork]

When a Man mistreat you, he is saying you are NOT THE ONE. Leave NOW.

[@TashaHarris-j2l]

True!

[@gregattanasio3185]

Working as a correctional officer for 32 years and doing overtime in court- I can say you are 100% correct. All of the men in jail or in trouble for domestic violence/abuse had one thing in common - they did not love the woman they hurt. No matter what anyone says- their actions say it loudly. Ladies, there are men who would love and cherish you and treat you how you deserve. Never stay with a man who doesn’t love you.

[@townstunsltd6727]

In an age of "misinformation" stronger critical analytical skills are needed! But "mistreatment" is the word on the above post. So what qualifies as mistreatment? (And my question excludes all issues of narcissistic domestic abuse and violence.)

[@Rue100]

FACTSSSSSSS

[@sarisatravis7479]

Agreed🤔

[@marisarubio6523]

A MATURE MAN will put in the effort REGARDLESS! 💯

[@reborngreatnesss5712]

Yes he will put the effort but he isn’t gonna put the effort for some woman she gotta put some things that makes her Unique that no woman got. The woman gotta show effort as well to some degree if a mature man HAS to put the effort with extra mile She isn’t the one. Because both men and women know what they want I’ve seen it. A woman knows what she wants and she selected that man and that man knows he has been selected the rest is history.

[@Sal-ub2hm]

Not if you're not the one he loves

[@Maxx-mw2zt]

Yes, not if he doesn't deem you are worthy.

[@Sal-ub2hm]

@@marisarubio6523 why can a woman tell a man how to be a man but a man can't tell a woman how to be a woman??? Isn't that sexist? Ask your grandmother how a woman is supposed to be in a relationship

[@emyf9197]

​@@Sal-ub2hmbcuz most of the time the woman knows how to have their shit together. It's also scientific that women mature faster with a brain than men do.. Also the sperm chases the egg not the other way around! A lot of times we women deal with bunch of manchilds!

[@Jamie-t2c]

Love is God. God is love. No man can love without God. Period

[@thatgurunia]

What is God? Til you realize that your man made concept of god which was thought to you and society at large is just a unfounded concept

[@ginahindman2190]

Amen🙏

[@SkilledByLife]

yes everything else is lust

[@kingmeek-wv2gu]

Amen

[@Jamie-t2c]

@@thatgurunia rhetorical question.

[@emilyjordan.mentor]

I waited for 10 years. Spent that time working on myself and didn’t date anyone. I grew closer to God. I always believed God would send him to me. He did! And he is everything I dreamed of! Wait for the one friends! It will be worth it!

[@ingrid5944]

Thank you! I believe this will happen to me as well. I'm working on myself. There's so much I need to do to myself. I think I'm not ready enough. I'm not the best I can be right now, but I'm building that. I know it will work

[@emilyjordan.mentor]

Just fyi God brought him when I wasn’t fully ready even after 10 years.. but this was because I needed to heal the rest of what was broken. My sweet guy always protects my heart. He isn’t perfect. But he listens and always tries to make things right. It’s a real love. A love that heals me! What an amazing God! You are worth rubies and one day God will bring you the right one to love and cherish you this way!

[@ingrid5944]

@@emilyjordan.mentor This is awesome! Indeed, God is good! I hope you guys live a happy relationship for years and years and years on!!! ❤️ And thank you for your words. I got tears in my eyes actually haha 😅❤️✨

[@emilyjordan.mentor]

@@ingrid5944 You’re so welcome! Thank you for your kind words! If God can do it for me… he can do it for you!

[@Arizona_lilly]

Well I’m right there 10 year mark working on my self… now almost 38

[@workinprogress3085]

Once when i was 17, years ago, I was on the bus an I had been crying over a boyfriend at the time. An older man who was sitting next to me saw me and said "Make sure that when you are in love and find a man who loves you, make sure he loves you more than you love him " I asked him why. He said bcoz "A woman that loves a man more will do anything for him, but a man that love the woman more will do everything for her." I have never forgotten these words and it is absolute truth 💯. Love your man ladies, but make sure he is a fool in love with you 💖😊

[@wellwellmymichelle]

Your comment got cut off what is the rest of it? What did the man on the bus say to you?

[@workinprogress3085]

@@wellwellmymichelle push where it says "read more" it will show the rest of my comment 🤗

[@ncl2580]

If a man really wants you he will do everything for you. If he doesn't text, makes time for you or whatever. Don't make excuses for him because if he wanted to be there he would. It doesn't matter how hard you try, how much love/presents/time you give him and it doesn't matter how much you do for him. If he doesn't want you he doesn't want you.

[@richardturner7664]

Exactly

[@dalilamartinez-sn1nt]

Absolutely right !

[@nanerosemary]

If he does at least something (of course, if he is secular) it means he is not indifferent. And by the time the feelings can grow. This is my version.

[@jaymitaylor9937]

Not always the case love can grow overtime but i don’t believe in a man changing for the one he wants if they are a liar and manipulator they’ll continue that …… behavior no one can change anyone but god so no woman is that “special” that she can just change a man overnight he might put on his best behavior to get her but once he get comftorable she’ll be dealing with the same stuff so no one really wins anything in my opinion that’s why i hate when other women try to say stuff like this to down the other women like as if they’ve won some sort of prize …. Like just stop lol

[@dalilamartinez-sn1nt]

@@jaymitaylor9937 That’s your opinion , if it happen to you , too bad .

[@markwade225]

PEOPLE WASTE WAY TOO MUCH TIME ON SUPERFICIAL APPEARANCES !!!! LOOK FOR INTEGRITY AND SUBSTANCE !!! WELL SAID DENZEL !!!! GATSBY

[@charlenegandy9315]

That's so true. I pray some day I'll meet that true kind of man.

[@eddyvarlan7428]

I am here 😊

[@eddyvarlan7428]

True man ,lost in the dark life😢

[@markagnor6111]

@@charlenegandy9315 Just remember, no matter the man, there will be trouble. You know how it is, no matter the relationship, in time there will be trouble of some sort or another. I just think having an idealized view of things is hard on the soul. Be easy with yourself and this life.

[@jeffhaynes8848]

Hello

[@maryannkeenan851]

I wish and pray the same❤

[@ThinkingJames]

As a 35 married man. I say he is absolutely right.

[@reneehaynes8289]

😂

[@reneehaynes8289]

Keep us posted 😂 It's not going to last.

[@StraightShootinSonofaGun]

​@reneehaynes8289 just because your miserable and alone doesn't mean you need to throw hater salt on someone else's relationship.........probably explains why ur alone..........maybe if you change your attitude than you'd be better off

[@vodkavuitton]

@@StraightShootinSonofaGunlol they don’t care

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

35 married years? Or 35 years old? Lol. Which?

[@northernbettygirl]

I saw what TRUE LOVE was in my parents. Through thick or thin, good or bad times, health or illness....in 64 years together, they never left each other's side. They're together even now, in Heaven🙏🏼 How blessed I was to have them!

[@RonPaul-x1v]

I’m so thankful for the beautiful woman I have been with for 44 years, we have kids, grandkids, and great grandkids and I tell her every day she is beautiful and amazing because she is. She is a beautiful strong amazing brave woman.

[@kimlogan1278]

Everything he has said is ABSOLUTELY TRUE. Men are simple, they know what they want and fo not want. And also, NEVER be with or chase a man that clearly shows he does not want you.

[@TL-ml8jz]

Most of women don't do it. They chasing men who want them, but don't ready to take them into their life

[@janetoliver7119]

Love starts with self love and self respect.

[@patriciapeeters7]

True! 🙏

[@GRITS115]

That part

[@lorrainelaforest8403]

That's true. And it's the same thing for woman

[@Laoriginal718]

Facts.

[@louiearroyo1277]

Amen

[@BG-zz7eu]

I am a women and I approve this message!

[@kathleenpayne384]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@sharoncharles1473]

Same 💯 correct

[@MagicalBambii]

Woman not women

[@MaryObi-v5d]

​@@MagicalBambii🥱

[@carpenterbluechicken]

Then I don't blame myself for the downfall of my marriage

[@t.l.holmes6733]

Teach Mr. Washington!!! I'm sitting here thinking about for better or worse, richer or poorer, just blessed and grateful. 😭. I wasn't looking for him. He came out of nowhere. Married for 36 years to my man who is a man of God, loving, a gentleman, kind, protector, strong, provider, best friend, my hero.

[@jeanaustin8849]

I'm a strong women. I walk away. Wether it hurts. I don't allow myself to be subjected. Because l value me.

[@deborabertaco]

I used to think I was strong woman, a exigent woman that always walks away. I was just a hurted women with a wounded heart. Don't be strong, fall... Let yourself be vulnerable and THE ONE who cares, will be there for you or will be in his way to you. You need to let your guard down first to receive love... And it's ok to receive help... It's ok to change the place... It was what happened with me.

[@003faze]

You value negativity

[@jeanaustin8849]

@@deborabertaco thank you. For that. I was hurt so much as a child. I have loved and let my guard down. But then to get hurt again. I no it's life and we get hurt. I've been hurt many times. But thank you for what u. Said.

[@Whatever-t9s]

​@@jeanaustin8849I knew that was the reason. THANKYOU VERY MUCH for being so honest. I'm no doctor but inside I KNEW. You must love yourself SO MUCH okay no matter what. Look After yourself from NOW on. Hair skin nails body, I have a GOOD feeling.

[@Whatever-t9s]

​@@jeanaustin8849perhaps this was the the reason WHY I got my dream Man. I sorted out my abusers at childhood and I stopped my sibling abuse aswell. Then later on I prevented suicides and marraiges from happening. Then i discovered I I have abilities later on after the vac i discovered my other abilities. I reversed the vac side effects. From Woman to Woman * YOU have many abilities aswell. * YOU have the POWER to achieve anything GREAT NOW...

[@Phoenix24vlogs]

Not every Men is simple When they want to leave you they don't say, directly, "it's over" or that they wanna leave you, but they just betray you, let you down and make you vulnerable until you get tired and you yourself want to leave them.

[@AshleighJane-nd2qx]

Say thank you. 😉

[@Beela2020]

Because he have no courage to face 😂 he IS a boy not a man 😅

[@janetmalcolm6191]

It makes you glad you left.

[@mzdianna]

True. There are lots of cowards out there. Pathetic. Makes you appreciate a good one that much more, though!

[@jaymitaylor9937]

Exactly

[@michaelstokley6796]

26 yrs had to refocus my feelings and attention to my wife change my whole mindset in which changed my life to the happiest I've ever been in my life, thank you my angel!

[@MilkyWayGalaxyy]

Women are unbelievably selfish, spoiled, entitled and high maintenance. They feel entitled to a man chasing them, planning, providing, paying, protecting, fixing, doing all of the physical labor, teaching, making them laugh, helping them with their career/business etc....but what does a man get for all of that?? We dont have kids and live together with 99% of the people we date in life....we just date for most of our lives so what does a woman that we are just dating do for a man to earn princess treatment???? Absolutely nothing. Women feel entitled to princess treatment hust for being a woman and shaving her body hair and getting ready. This is why there are so many single people. Men are tired of not getting anything for their hard work. Men rather be single than be USED!!!💯✌️

[@gloriafuentes955]

A man loves God first then only can he love you like he's supposed to love you.

[@MalikJohnson-ys5tr]

This is why I'm putting my life together the right way. It's not just for me, it's for my kids and the woman I really love.

[@gracedoherty8781]

I hope I meet a man that will move mountains for me before I die

[@BO4T3N9]

you must also do same. 😅

[@Beela2020]

Only u u Can move mountains for u ❤

[@melissarizo6469]

True, the only thing that will keep a man is a man that wants to be kept 😅

[@p.stephen5032]

I dont want to be that person that says vice versa so Ill just agree with you 💯😜

[@justafriend3408]

That's not what he said

[@beautyskindeep1]

That's true, but ultimately, a man can't even keep himself... The only one who can keep a man is the One & True Living God.

[@justafriend3408]

​@@beautyskindeep1When he is with the woman he actually love, he will look after her. If he doesn't look after her, it's not because he doesn't know or can't learn how to, it's simply because he doesn't really love her; he is just with her for temporary pleasure.

[@claudiaramirez203]

❤❤❤

[@MichaelBell-x9n]

I Choose u sis.sara for my destination in life 🙏🧬👑🦁

[@nenenpiezasingente4760]

I don’t wanna seek for a man’s love anymore because it is uncertain & it’s conditional. I have a big, huge kind of Love now. It lasts forever & it’s unconditional. It’s God’s love! 🙏❤🙏❤🙏

[@northernbettygirl]

AMEN AND AMEN!!! Jesus Christ loved us enough to be put to death for us so that we could have our sins paid in full by asking forgiveness and giving our life to Him. I am a child of God!

[@annca]

Amen! Same.

[@Dj_jon]

Your god isn’t here to protect you or you’ll we good man are and if we real man stop to protect and civilize the world females like yourself are in big trouble, people like self always put so much energy into god and waiting for god to bring you’ll wealth and happiness get a rude awakening

[@charlottebruce979]

Yes and it won't ever let you down xxx❤

[@annacaiazza8869]

I agree, me too , I can wait for Gods blessings ❤

[@deborahfortin4032]

I believe . I’m looking forward to meeting my true love in this lifetime. I am 55 years young and ready❤

[@gigi4life423]

The only earthly man that loved me unconditionally was my father!!! RIP DADDY.

[@umculosume2625]

There's a heavenly father who can ❤ u more than Ur earthly father. His name is Jesus . He loves us unconditionally. You can count on Him.

[@sherrybarnhart5435]

AMEN!!

[@desert4seat]

And the only woman I love is my daughter

[@annacaiazza8869]

Same

[@SachelleCambria]

When my dad died, I was dating this guy who was sitting next to me, I said, I just lost the only man that will ever truly love me. It was the truth.

[@gigigarcia612]

I am very blessed I met my now husband on a job interview. We ended up having lunch. I did not get the job but I got the man. He rocks my world and so kind and loving. We now have two adult children and two grandchildren. My husband and I will celebrate our 38th wedding anniversary this year. It does happen finding your true love when you least suspect it. Thank you Lord.

[@TonyTone1]

Wow, you got more than job. How is that possible. he interviewed you and you didn’t get job or you meet while waiting for an interview

[@roshellelewis5902]

Happy Anniversary🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@gailbell6692]

Praise God, A man can only love one woman and that is from God. Only God can turn the man's heart to Love and cherish his wife. Amen

[@kathleenhutchings3854]

Amen, that is beyond true. It’s God’s will, not ours.

[@Hankyjane]

Yes. Remember Sarah? In the Bible. Her husband loved her above all.

[@elisageorge2261]

@@gailbell6692 Now that's a true SOUL mate..

[@Yaya-lu8bs]

A decent man will keep and be kept by the Love of God. Thats true love😮😮😮😮❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Repcitykickz]

Why does religion always come into it? Religion is the root of all evil

[@LoveAndLightForEveryone]

🤝Totally agree with you 💯 Miracles are happening when a man is following God’s path. Some people will approve it, others won’t but it doesn’t really matter because Father has his back!🕊️

[@levrailouloupfit]

True ❤🙏🏼

[@allanatolbert768]

And That my friend...is called TRUTH

[@acalhoun7272]

You better say that Denzel 👏💪👍🙏❤️

[@marilyncalvert4143]

It’s the same for woman. My husband was unique he was a diamond. He was like no other man I ever came across. He was talented beyond others. He could have been someone. His personality was unique. I never met a man like him. We were friends above all and couldn’t be without each other. He was kind and giving. He loved kids. He was like no other. I was until death do us part. Twenty years and I still cry and carry his ashes.

[@tristanirby6272]

He speaks the truth. No man can be kept unless he wants to be kept

[@barbarawilliamson136]

That's why I'm not chasing. This is a good message.

[@My3Sunzs]

You’re not alone.☮️

[@Pam-xs2lx]

My parents was married 64 yrs. God has always been in our home. Our dad was a fine man, loved God and his family. I'm so happy that God let dad and mom be able to celebrate their anniversary 3/8 before he passed with cancer on 3/30/20 Thank God I had time to say goodbye on 3/29-2020. He was and is my hero. RIP daddy!!❤❤

[@nittabell5453]

Wooow

[@johndiraimo1444]

My parents were married for 57 years. My dad, my hero... WAS a man that Denzel describes.

[@starrystarrynight6281]

My husband and I have been married 49 years and it never ceased to amaze my that my husband always stood by me, always loved me, and put up with me. I wish that I had appreciated him more!

[@24JJ821]

In those days they just stayed together because of social culture.

[@sandrastumpf7177]

Mine 52 when Dad passed. Wonderful, great man.

[@doll.ov.poetrii4682]

​@@24JJ821 And some stayed together because they wanted too.

[@JayMich29]

​@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 okay! This described my parents

[@hikariruby4311]

God is love❤❤❤ when God is the center of your life and in your relationship with someone, there's no impossible to God. God will give you the right one.♥️🙏♥️

[@Bumbita]

He's effort is either there or it isn't. Simple facts. 😢

[@nanerosemary]

Don't despair. Listen to other phycologists who say about the balance of the relationship. The energies change during the time, if you do efforts, you see the sprouts that you sowed.

[@michellesweightlossjourney6599]

TRUTH!! The problem is some of them aren't true to themselves so they can't be to anyone else.

[@MariaAmazony]

Both of you should ask the Lord to clean your love from selfishness and only that is true love that everybody needs.

[@Butterfly828-x8e]

Very very good advice.

[@janice7378]

Amen

[@jacquelynhorton7563]

Facts: Either you are the one he wants, or you aren't. I don't agree it is only once in a lifetime. But when he finds you and you are his, he is a true blessing. I am grateful.

[@PenniesMakeDollars]

Wow, what a timely message! Divorced in 2022 after a 22 year marriage, he was never happy and difficult to please. I sometimes replay things back in my mind, but it just simply comes back to this message! I will trust the Lord for my next person!

[@TL-ml8jz]

People don't get married without hoping be happy. He also hoped for something.

[@demi5378]

I have a good man who loves me & me him but when I had to have surgery & he was there for me 1000%....the love I have for him deepened. When your down, you see who is there for you. Can't tell you how grateful & blessed I feel to have him & for our wedding vows to mean more than words.❤

[@MilkyWayGalaxyy]

But what do you do for him to earn that?

[@huimackinlay882]

That’s the love

[@lisabradford8180]

You find out who's a real one in times of sickness/health issues💕

[@Blessed591]

Good you have clarified that A MATURE , GOOD MAN . . .

[@shashamarie4760]

Mature is the key word..

[@sweetbeauty2153]

​@@shashamarie4760Amen!😉

[@cheburrell3989]

That part!

[@GailGreen-tq8jd]

Exactly!!!! Amen. ❤😊❤😊

[@TeenaArtis]

Amen! I have been blessed for over 46 years. Had I been taught this reality, it could have dramatically saved me from heartaches. Let's teach our daughters this message.

[@dianabalan2919]

Those men are 1 in a billion. Good and mature

[@breezybrown36]

Same for women too

[@justafriend3408]

They are there, the problem is probably this belief of yours. What you believe is what you will get

[@dianabalan2919]

@@justafriend3408 yes, they are, but extremely scarce. And pretty much all women can confirm. It wasn't like this. But nowadays everything has gone crazy.

[@dianabalan2919]

@breezybrown36 not really. Good women are in abundance. It also depends on the country and age. If it's US and generation Z, yeah, I guess the risk of meeting all the wrong ones is big.

[@justafriend3408]

​@@dianabalan2919 the biggest problem we face is extremism. We like to either guard ourselves or let ourselves loose too much such that we can't meet the right people.

[@Mrs.DanielsIRL]

This is so true. I used to think like this until I worked on my own flaws and insecurities. This advice will save a lot of women heartache. He is dropping gems I wish I knew as a child.

[@TL-ml8jz]

Women are not so stupid not to understand it. It is almost impossible to meet a man who loves you . And no one want to live life alone.

[@donalisasantos7610]

Good man or woman only comes ounce in a life time!!! Grass is not greener on the other side. Do your best to keep your awesome relationship. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@lalaichyblessed3560]

You told no lie! I messed up but i believe in miracles. I learned the hard way and ready for a second chance 😊

[@emilysantos33]

this is so true! i'm learning this now

[@HG-le5tj]

Love can come around more than once! Multiple times if we allow it🙏

[@9jalicious]

There's no formula but the gift of God. When He gives You the right person you know. He makes it work He makes you stay 😊With the right person I believe You just know

[@gilliangiles7589]

A GODLY man n a Virtuous woman. ❤🙏

[@useless0ful]

what kinds of behaviors and qualities make a woman virtuous? please explain. Genuinely asking to know.

[@AuntieKia_4real]

If you read the book of Proverbs in the Bible it will tell you the qualities of a virtuous woman. Just Google the chapter for virtuous woman, Proverbs.

[@gilliangiles7589]

Thanks for ur likes. ❤🙏

[@carolro6673]

Nah…”Godly” men are not what’s this YT is about. Plenty of Godly men have been unfaithful. Over and over.

[@vcab6875]

Brilliant, funny, loving, spiritual good hearted woman is PRICELESS.

[@AnahitaAzar-m3x]

There are many

[@TheBenBenitaShow]

Effort is ALWAYS a direct reflection of interest…

[@alanericksen7102]

Marriage is not just effort. Sorry. This is dead as divorce wrong.

[@quriousowens9368]

Yes, I'm worth keeping

[@lallmahomedgeeta1953]

I think it's the same for women, too. We love to be with the one we love and loved back. It's simple

[@a.wilkins1708]

I agree!

[@opzvg]

Maybe you 😢 but not all 🌝

[@ilikepancakes2368]

No you don’t. You want the men who don’t care about you. This is a lie lol.

[@pinkifloyd7867]

It takes 2 to tango🕴💃

[@faa1412]

Yeah but this is about men. It's not the same for women. A man who doesn't see you're for him will not jump through hoops for you. Women will though.

[@deemccurry8080]

So profoundly true. I know this feeling and when you are loved in this kind of way, all else pales in comparison. Maturity is key. Loyalty and faithfulness come easy when you are loved in a wholesome way. It's a beautiful thing to behold. Watch to see when he goes out of his way to show you how much you mean to him, TRUTH, HONESTY, and FIDELITY will be part of his character. Deceit is never an option for him. He will deal with you honestly and his intentions are pure. He will safely guard your heart. Love endures all things...no matter what it looks like, his love for you will be unbreakable. He will profess his love for you and announce it to the whole entire world. He will love you out loud. You won't be kept a secret and hidden from everyone. True love is transparent and honorable. He will see your inner beauty. There will be nothing done superficially. There is depth to this kind of love.

[@fouseklh]

Been with mine for 38 years and he still tells me this. He is my one and only for sure.

[@linda9014]

Amen. Pay attention ladies action speaks louder than words for any potential mate.

[@ribaker822]

Finally a man says the truth. Not these lies that these new age relationship coaches preach about keeping a man. A man is kept who wants to be kept. A human is a creature of will. End of!

[@latarrotraylor7329]

This is AI

[@hddwd8006]

Yeah there's a lot of video on " how to get him back , how to make him fall in love with you, how to get in his mind" and so on ! This is all BS!

[@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz]

So true..I realized all of this now No matter what you do for a man if he doesn't love you he doesn't and won't choose you😢😢😢

[@godwinchris9787]

SEEING MY WIFE THROUGH ALL THESE LINES... I WILL GO D WHOLE LENGTH FOR HER... SHE IS MY WIFE...MY LIFE... MY GODSENT SUPPORT... I LOVE U ALWAYS MY WIFE...❤❤❤

[@useless0ful]

Can you please explain what are the qualities your wife has that you admire, respect and love? What does she do that makes your life better? I am trying to understand and learn these kinds of things from others who have experience.

[@AuntieKia_4real]

Awwwwww, that is so sweet! 💜🥰💞

[@CharypCherry-ix8vc]

@@useless0fulsame. I want to be better. I want to be the best for my future partner❤️

[@ms.w.9214]

Some men don't know what they want.

[@cmbi0462]

Wow. This makes SO much sense. And it also explains to me why I have seen in movies and real life situations that the woman waits for the man to propose, because HE has to want that. And if he does, that’s it. I spent 20 years with a man who didn’t love me or want me the way I loved and wanted him. Not much fun, and I finally got it, and then gave up and left.

[@TheSunflower777]

Found mine - Jesus Christ my only hope, answer and love.❤❤❤

[@annalisefelix6154]

💯 at the end of the day, after all is said and done, He is the ONLY Man who i felt safe with, loved by and protected from.♥️👑 all the others were just users!

[@JillChristyGroup]

I was honored to see my dad fully and wholly devoted to my mother for 58 years before he passed away. Repeatedly, prior to his death, he insisted that my brother and I take good care o her. He always remembered her b'day. Never forgot their anniversary. Gave her what she wanted: pearls, unique jewelry, and TONS of work around the house because he knew how to do a little bit of everything! When he retired, they had three meals together every day. They went to church together. They traveled and visited friends together. They did everything together. And he would still be doing it if he could. He knew best how to take care of her and she knows she's been loved by the BEST

[@camilleorr7029]

You have a wonderful example

[@Paula.A333]

Never ever hate end hate, only love ends hate ❤ .. Love is the answer

[@mikeyg6631]

Ive been with the same woman since 1994 we've been married for 24 years. I fell in love with her at first sight and we have been through it all together. God put her on this earth for me and im truly truly thankful Amen! My advice......if you really love a person and find yourself in a fuss. Leave the room and come back later when calmed tongues have prevailed. Never go to bed angry with one another just in case something happens while you sleep. Always say i love you!

[@lisabradford8180]

this is lovely💖😊

[@RisingSun-x8r]

Just a question.... Now a days I have seen lots of pics/posts on Social media about love that there is nothing called Love at first sight it's just all about attraction and lust. True love grows gradually with time and makes the relationship stronger. Do you think such posts are nothing but frustration venting out from people who never experienced true love or their love at first sight wear off easily because the partner found it boring after sometime and left them heartbroken??? Since you have said you had love at first sight with your wife then what were her traits/characteristics attracted you to commit your life forever or just your wife had angelic beauty face/body???

[@annacaiazza8869]

@@RisingSun-x8r I am not the guy who made the original comment and that you are asking, but I can’t help but say that love at first sight does exist!!! There are so many people who have experienced it . I know because I have experienced it. It’s life . The only thing is there are alot of people that are very blessed and lucky and get to marry that person and it really works out! Love at first sight is a feeling that is an instant connection and feeling of energy and electricity and emotions and just something that I can’t explain. But you just know it when it happens! But sometimes you may not end of with the person also. But the only way to find out is to take that chance and let yourself get to know them and let both of yourselves fall in love and see where it goes and if you are meant to be together. If it is a healthy relationship then you you’ll both know and you both will take it from there. But if it’s toxic and nothing but pain then you know that it’s time to cut it off. No one knows what the future holds but you have to try to find out and yes it happens love at first sight! My grandparents did ! Many people have! Love is a great feeling and blessing but it’s the choice you make and chance and it’s well worth it if you both feel the same way about each other ❤ Good luck ❤God bless you

[@llthesudden9924]

A Nightmare 😂

[@susefink6099]

Whenever we had a disagreement,i decided to leave the room. I didn't want to say anything wrong and i also didn't want to get hurt... but then that man said to me it was typical for my family to leave the room when having disagreements. That hurt even more.

[@IbrahimaDiop-e8q]

Mr.Denzel is a legend,a good role model

[@reneehaynes8289]

That's not his voice 😂

[@TebohBoris-c6u]

@@reneehaynes8289 Seriously bro, many people did not notice it

[@cdickersonwhitfield]

​@@reneehaynes8289Definitely not his voice. Good message, but why the AI? 😂🤷🏾 Ugh #clickbait

[@AuntieKia_4real]

It’s very obvious. Especially the fact that the way the video cuts his face off after saying the first word bc they don’t have footage of him saying all of this bc it isn’t him! It’s AI! Sad that they are pimping his voice like that! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@misstunes1765]

Despite being an AI voice, yes, he is all of those things!

[@marimarxuach7180]

Amen! My husband tells me every day that I am his. He climbed that mountain to get to me.

[@johnwebb2442]

True words from the man himself.

[@TeddyKalali]

Good men are scarce coz this world has injustices that have broken many lives. So superwomen are facing the consequences of sustaining families of irresponsible or forsaken men. Ladies ... Empower yourselves to deal with such situations.

[@sandymcdonald5324]

This is so true

[@annette9409]

Oh my God! I grew up not having a Father or Father figure in my life. I really needed to learn this early in my life.

[@pixi2209]

Father God is always your father. The best and forever.

[@elvia3068]

I also grew up with out a father I only new he would send a child support chk, I had 2 uncles 'pretended to be father figures' they never gaved me a word of incouragemnt, one uncle would say 'only try your best to grad H.S. wrk and don't get a lazy pennyless men like your mother does, the other uncle advised me to look for an elder male with money, and that the reason I did not have any sutters was due to being a 'sucker'....for flattering myself to highly....I don't know how that is for anyone to show me they are willing to cross mountains for me.....😏

[@sunguarmagan9535]

If you are open, allow God to be your Father for eternity. 🧡✝️

[@marthastevens1237]

I also grew up without a father but it was very beneficial for me. I have never felt the need for a man in my life. As a matter of fact, co-habituating with a man seems ridiculous to me in most cases. My mother was completely independent her whole life. She lived free and by her own choices. If my father had been in the picture I fear I may not have been so independent (or even worse, I may have felt a husband was necessary).

[@janetmalcolm6191]

My father said finding a really good man is like finding a needle in a haystack. Sometimes worse. I should have listened.

[@cathypurnell9331]

Pretty doesn’t last forever. You have to have much more to offer in a relationship.🌸

[@uturn511]

To quote Judge Judy, " Beauty fades Dumb is Forever".

[@NS-hb3wc]

Yes, a good mature man will do whatever it takes.

[@lindasmith7720]

I believe this! My mom used to tell me that a man feels the same way a woman does, so if you feel that the man you have loves you like you love him; you won’t have to guess you will know and so will he. If feelings are not mutual and God is not first in that man’s life, then you can start to worry. I’m just saying. Thank God that a mother and father teaches their child to love the Lord first and then let everything else follow. Amen 🙏🏾

[@Mariacorazon-p7d]

I truly truly believe that genuine true love comes naturally from his heart without begging and he loves to do things to make you happy without cheating, lying or adultery and he wants you to be near you always and won’t leave alone while he’s enjoying go to his province bowling because he’ll be sensitive to your feelings you’re his top priority

[@munchkin1236]

How true is this.!🙏 I met my GOOD MAN 31 years ago. He treats me GOOD! We were both born on August 7, 1964. Met on August 14, 1993. He asked me to marry him after a month. I didn't expect it but I was in Love. We married on August 13, 1994. Our 30th wedding anniversary is coming up Tuesday August 13, 2024. 🙏 Thank You Jesus Christ!

[@NwankwoMary-jp1ol]

Wishing you a wonderful and glorious 30th married anniversary. Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@umculosume2625]

Happy anniversary 🎉in advance

[@munchkin1236]

@@NwankwoMary-jp1ol Thank You and God Bless Your Heart!🙏✝️❤️😊

[@munchkin1236]

@@umculosume2625 Thanks and God Bless Your Heart!🙏✝️❤️😊

[@irumjavaid5291]

Happy wedding anniversary “ May you have many more”

[@supernova8008]

I feel it holds good for both mature men and women..all time universal truth...🎉

[@shirleysmith8811]

So True when a man loves a woman he will move heaven and earth for her. He will turn his back on his very best friends if they try to put her down. That's how strong the feelings are.

[@zanm7407]

So true! My fiance (then boyfriend) cut his so-called friends off when they tried telling him that I wasn't suitable for him (apparently, I was the 'wrong' colour for him). He's SO glad he chose me!

[@janetmalcolm6191]

Yes the words of that song are true.

[@sophiachin1262]

Only God keeps a man to you. Let the rest go. Have peace with the one you love.

[@michellearaque9820]

Amen amen! God will allow the right one for both of you to find each other and both be in agreement to be with each other and love one another ❤❤

[@bradhenderson7921]

Amen 🙏

[@khalikat9471]

"Mature Man", enough said😊.

[@lisamarieclark6778]

He was the last man on earth to hurt me. It will take another lifetime to heal this woman's heart. I'm happy to have the love and joy of raising children.