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IFS for Therapists #4 Common Dynamics

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Derek IFSCA

Derek IFSCA

Күн бұрын

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@rhondasnow385
@rhondasnow385 7 жыл бұрын
I watch this over and over again. I truly connect with the reading at the end. Thank you for sharing.
@kalyanamitta8797
@kalyanamitta8797 Жыл бұрын
The story broke me. 😓 It was my own 8yo voice crying out for help. I always knew there was a Fairy guiding me as a child, protecting me. Wrenching pain as I hear you read those words out loud..sure sign that it touched my wounded exiled child, and now she is found again. And now the healing begins.
@IFSCA
@IFSCA 8 жыл бұрын
The text for "The Good Fairy" is here: www.derekscott.co/rs/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/Therapeutic-IFS-Stories-Jan-Mullen.pdf
@beacarrington5057
@beacarrington5057 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful, thank you for your reading of this. Sensitive and heartfelt.
@dustycatfish5658
@dustycatfish5658 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this!
@Aparajith_
@Aparajith_ 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot. I could so connect and relate with this. Thanks a lot for sharing. This acts as a Reaffirmation of the strength and resources I posses now to encounter, transform and integrate the exile and his protector 🙏
@TheAbergel
@TheAbergel 3 жыл бұрын
Very helpful and Derek your protectors really moved back to let us see your emotions even though you were being filmed. That says a lot for the work you have done with your own system! Thanks so much.
@deborahwebster3176
@deborahwebster3176 4 жыл бұрын
With each listening, I become more and more aware, and appreciative of you sharing your work. Gratefully, D
@jcepri
@jcepri 4 жыл бұрын
It was so great to meet Derek Scott at Rowe Labor Day Retreat this year. The IFS workshop was phenomenal! If you read this, Derek....ypu are amazing!
@magicalpatterns
@magicalpatterns 3 жыл бұрын
Wow I can’t wait to heal myself. I have been bedridden for 7 years and doing parts work now. I’m going to heal I can’t believe it. This letter was the most beautiful letter ever. Thank you 🙏🏼
@djVania08
@djVania08 Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now?
@malcolmsedaca
@malcolmsedaca 4 жыл бұрын
That reading at the end is beautiful. Thank you for sharing it with an open heart.
@JBa-xr1kw
@JBa-xr1kw 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for confirming that you have felt exactly as I have...amazing ! It's a comfort to know as I heal from my Complex Trauma. I thank God He put my therapist in my life....She uses this technique..!! lol.. And discovering the clarity of my 54 yrs...I cam so grateful for you posting this confirmation of my healing journey. It's so good !! :-) It connects my world to yours. :-)
@BK-fz2lv
@BK-fz2lv 4 жыл бұрын
Fair warning, reading 'the good fairy' is likely to leave you with tears in your eyes and a sore throat. Not just Derek, I just tried it and it happened to me too!
@shaktiveda7041
@shaktiveda7041 3 жыл бұрын
WoW, this is awesome, I think I just uncovered a treasure...thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom!
@livinghealth6495
@livinghealth6495 4 жыл бұрын
so so beautiful and touching. Thank you. I love this work and I love learning from you, Derek. Thank you.
@sionyevans
@sionyevans 6 жыл бұрын
Wow...! Just wow..!! My muscles are wanting release .my body shakes..as it yearns for release...I could of wrote that..it's my exact experience..since 13...mother earth helped me...waved her wand..!! But now it's time...gosh I felt your tears come Derek..as did mine...in support for you.
@kosuboudreau540
@kosuboudreau540 4 жыл бұрын
This is an absolutely beautiful and powerful presentation...thank you, Derek. I will share with others.
@ajaynangalia334
@ajaynangalia334 6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely brilliant presentation! Thank you for sharing the wealth of your knowledge and expertise 🙏
@FrauMatern
@FrauMatern 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot! I was so touched by the text and seeing you also touched! I love this whole series of videos.
@suejorgensen46
@suejorgensen46 3 жыл бұрын
That reading is so powerful I feel that the words could have been my gatekeeper's I remembered asking God in prayer as a little kid to make it stop, instead I developed the power to forget, to send someone else so it wasn't me that had this terrible thing happening.
@irenevandun-lucas1852
@irenevandun-lucas1852 Жыл бұрын
I believe people connect through Self as strong as Firefighters between themselves. When you love and enjoy the same that also connects. I love your video's and they are all very helpful. This was the only line I found too negative. Anyway..i want to thank you for sharing all your insights with us. It changed my life already and just starting to learn a whole different world i never knew existed. Thank you so much. Hope you Will continue your good work and please keep sharing ❤
@royce6485
@royce6485 2 жыл бұрын
Whoah! I really connected with the list maker. That’s exactly how I always describe my trauma. There’s so much of it that I’m exhausted trying to explain it all the time. So I just treat it casually.
@sodbaz4882
@sodbaz4882 4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful video, thank you so very much!!
@lynn5536
@lynn5536 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, that reading! 💜
@utevonwietersheim9649
@utevonwietersheim9649 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these videos. I am just starting to learn about IFS and they are so helpful!
@carolinepostlethwaite4861
@carolinepostlethwaite4861 2 жыл бұрын
Cried with you as so related to all of it esp the ending
@sarajohnson-cardona3725
@sarajohnson-cardona3725 3 жыл бұрын
such a fantastic video. Thank you!
@JanetLaird
@JanetLaird 3 жыл бұрын
This really articulates my experience. Especially the last 8 minutes of story. Thank you, Derek.
@royce6485
@royce6485 2 жыл бұрын
Cryin in the club rn. Blue fairy my belovéd. Thanks so much for sharing this
@cherylruhr6001
@cherylruhr6001 8 жыл бұрын
I have been doing some of this work on my own and I am so glad I listened to this today. Last night I met the shame exile and also a minimising protector as well as a protector that blanks out. Could depression be a firefighting technique my protector is using? I am using my curiousity to press on. Thank you, thank you.
@IFSCA
@IFSCA 8 жыл бұрын
Depression is complex and can certainly be a protective part. Stay curious, if it is a part then ask it how it is serving you; or what it belives might happen internally or externally if it did not do its job. I once worked with someone whose depressing protector informed her if it didn't do that then she would get clarity on how unsuitable her partner was and would have to leave him. Similarly parts with same-sex desire may be exiled because they often carry the burden of shame so the system becomes depressed. I addition if system is driven by productive managers, compelled to prove their worth and striving to ensure the part they are protecting - who may feel worthless - doesn't get triggered, depression can give the system a break. Depression is one of the few states where "I can't" is a legitimate response. Parts bringing migraine's may be similarly motivated. The golden rule? Just ask.
@maria-gorettimillard6253
@maria-gorettimillard6253 3 жыл бұрын
TYSMFS! Stunningly beautiful! Posted around the world! H E A R T Healing.Everything & Recovering, Together. 😁
@ruthclarke6965
@ruthclarke6965 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@jussmeet9179
@jussmeet9179 4 жыл бұрын
reading was beautiful ❤
@mariekesluijs567
@mariekesluijs567 2 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing!!
@Star-dj1kw
@Star-dj1kw Жыл бұрын
✅ good video
@paul8731
@paul8731 2 жыл бұрын
Theres no shame in shame
@adove5843
@adove5843 Жыл бұрын
That's helpful, thank you for articulating that
@willmurphy6663
@willmurphy6663 2 жыл бұрын
Great examples of defence.... story telling, minimizing, laughing about sad storys..
@hansy1305
@hansy1305 Жыл бұрын
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