I watch this over and over again. I truly connect with the reading at the end. Thank you for sharing.
@kalyanamitta8797 Жыл бұрын
The story broke me. 😓 It was my own 8yo voice crying out for help. I always knew there was a Fairy guiding me as a child, protecting me. Wrenching pain as I hear you read those words out loud..sure sign that it touched my wounded exiled child, and now she is found again. And now the healing begins.
@IFSCA8 жыл бұрын
The text for "The Good Fairy" is here: www.derekscott.co/rs/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/Therapeutic-IFS-Stories-Jan-Mullen.pdf
@beacarrington50574 жыл бұрын
Beautiful, thank you for your reading of this. Sensitive and heartfelt.
@dustycatfish56583 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this!
@Aparajith_3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot. I could so connect and relate with this. Thanks a lot for sharing. This acts as a Reaffirmation of the strength and resources I posses now to encounter, transform and integrate the exile and his protector 🙏
@TheAbergel3 жыл бұрын
Very helpful and Derek your protectors really moved back to let us see your emotions even though you were being filmed. That says a lot for the work you have done with your own system! Thanks so much.
@deborahwebster31764 жыл бұрын
With each listening, I become more and more aware, and appreciative of you sharing your work. Gratefully, D
@jcepri4 жыл бұрын
It was so great to meet Derek Scott at Rowe Labor Day Retreat this year. The IFS workshop was phenomenal! If you read this, Derek....ypu are amazing!
@magicalpatterns3 жыл бұрын
Wow I can’t wait to heal myself. I have been bedridden for 7 years and doing parts work now. I’m going to heal I can’t believe it. This letter was the most beautiful letter ever. Thank you 🙏🏼
@djVania08 Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now?
@malcolmsedaca4 жыл бұрын
That reading at the end is beautiful. Thank you for sharing it with an open heart.
@JBa-xr1kw6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for confirming that you have felt exactly as I have...amazing ! It's a comfort to know as I heal from my Complex Trauma. I thank God He put my therapist in my life....She uses this technique..!! lol.. And discovering the clarity of my 54 yrs...I cam so grateful for you posting this confirmation of my healing journey. It's so good !! :-) It connects my world to yours. :-)
@BK-fz2lv4 жыл бұрын
Fair warning, reading 'the good fairy' is likely to leave you with tears in your eyes and a sore throat. Not just Derek, I just tried it and it happened to me too!
@shaktiveda70413 жыл бұрын
WoW, this is awesome, I think I just uncovered a treasure...thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom!
@livinghealth64954 жыл бұрын
so so beautiful and touching. Thank you. I love this work and I love learning from you, Derek. Thank you.
@sionyevans6 жыл бұрын
Wow...! Just wow..!! My muscles are wanting release .my body shakes..as it yearns for release...I could of wrote that..it's my exact experience..since 13...mother earth helped me...waved her wand..!! But now it's time...gosh I felt your tears come Derek..as did mine...in support for you.
@kosuboudreau5404 жыл бұрын
This is an absolutely beautiful and powerful presentation...thank you, Derek. I will share with others.
@ajaynangalia3346 жыл бұрын
Absolutely brilliant presentation! Thank you for sharing the wealth of your knowledge and expertise 🙏
@FrauMatern4 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot! I was so touched by the text and seeing you also touched! I love this whole series of videos.
@suejorgensen463 жыл бұрын
That reading is so powerful I feel that the words could have been my gatekeeper's I remembered asking God in prayer as a little kid to make it stop, instead I developed the power to forget, to send someone else so it wasn't me that had this terrible thing happening.
@irenevandun-lucas1852 Жыл бұрын
I believe people connect through Self as strong as Firefighters between themselves. When you love and enjoy the same that also connects. I love your video's and they are all very helpful. This was the only line I found too negative. Anyway..i want to thank you for sharing all your insights with us. It changed my life already and just starting to learn a whole different world i never knew existed. Thank you so much. Hope you Will continue your good work and please keep sharing ❤
@royce64852 жыл бұрын
Whoah! I really connected with the list maker. That’s exactly how I always describe my trauma. There’s so much of it that I’m exhausted trying to explain it all the time. So I just treat it casually.
@sodbaz48824 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful video, thank you so very much!!
@lynn55364 жыл бұрын
Wow, that reading! 💜
@utevonwietersheim96492 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these videos. I am just starting to learn about IFS and they are so helpful!
@carolinepostlethwaite48612 жыл бұрын
Cried with you as so related to all of it esp the ending
@sarajohnson-cardona37253 жыл бұрын
such a fantastic video. Thank you!
@JanetLaird3 жыл бұрын
This really articulates my experience. Especially the last 8 minutes of story. Thank you, Derek.
@royce64852 жыл бұрын
Cryin in the club rn. Blue fairy my belovéd. Thanks so much for sharing this
@cherylruhr60018 жыл бұрын
I have been doing some of this work on my own and I am so glad I listened to this today. Last night I met the shame exile and also a minimising protector as well as a protector that blanks out. Could depression be a firefighting technique my protector is using? I am using my curiousity to press on. Thank you, thank you.
@IFSCA8 жыл бұрын
Depression is complex and can certainly be a protective part. Stay curious, if it is a part then ask it how it is serving you; or what it belives might happen internally or externally if it did not do its job. I once worked with someone whose depressing protector informed her if it didn't do that then she would get clarity on how unsuitable her partner was and would have to leave him. Similarly parts with same-sex desire may be exiled because they often carry the burden of shame so the system becomes depressed. I addition if system is driven by productive managers, compelled to prove their worth and striving to ensure the part they are protecting - who may feel worthless - doesn't get triggered, depression can give the system a break. Depression is one of the few states where "I can't" is a legitimate response. Parts bringing migraine's may be similarly motivated. The golden rule? Just ask.
@maria-gorettimillard62533 жыл бұрын
TYSMFS! Stunningly beautiful! Posted around the world! H E A R T Healing.Everything & Recovering, Together. 😁
@ruthclarke69653 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@jussmeet91794 жыл бұрын
reading was beautiful ❤
@mariekesluijs5672 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing!!
@Star-dj1kw Жыл бұрын
✅ good video
@paul87312 жыл бұрын
Theres no shame in shame
@adove5843 Жыл бұрын
That's helpful, thank you for articulating that
@willmurphy66632 жыл бұрын
Great examples of defence.... story telling, minimizing, laughing about sad storys..