Derick Dillard On Leaving "Counting On" & Picking Up the Pieces with Jill Dillard

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Derick Dillard, husband of Jill Duggar Dillard, opened up about life, leaving "Counting On," cleared up misconceptions about his family, and discussed the ongoing separation between Jill Dillard & The Duggar Family.
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[@emilykern5523]

anyone else loving the dog snoozing away in the back lol

[@ElectricAngel181]

Emily Kern Yes Always.....can't resist those adorable animals 😍

[@trollhunter6421]

Me!!! I ALWAYS watch for animal fun and shenanigans!

[@worshiprocks4996]

It just melted my heart lol

[@michelelittlefielddesigns]

Yes! So cute!

[@paimon905]

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[@amandajohnson1641]

It’s so sad that she’s been isolated from her family. Go Derrick for sticking up for his wife!

[@natashaw401]

Yup

[@kayper54]

I’ve thought so, too. But maybe, once in a while, she doesn’t miss them as much we might think.... There’s a lot of pressure in being an active part of that family; she must have many moments in her “new” life where she breathes a sigh of relief and thinks, “At least I don’t have to do _______ anymore!”

[@gayeyount7948]

I still wonder about JB and if he molested those girls. Cult leaders usually do that. It's their right they claim. That could be one reason he has such a hold on them. Thank God Jill had Derrick to take up for her and help her move away from that cult life. I pray that the other girl do this also

[@laurenmay2098]

Honeysuckle Blossom they must to be chocked that they can be out in the world and live a decent life without compromising their beliefs. Some of them will break free, not all unfortunately.

[@ladyv5655]

It may not be a bad thing for Jill to not see her parents and her more brainwashed siblings for a time.

[@showmethescience2514]

Derek & Jill sound so grounded and well adjusted. Especially being a product of fame. Love and admiration for them.

[@Viewer92136]

It just seems like Derek is telling what Jill is "okay" instead of JB/M. He is going to law school. I guess Jill gets to drink booze and wear pants, but it isn't like she has gotten to pursue her dreams. It is all about what Derek wants to do.

[@karenwhinesmore9347]

Probably because she was the one who has been In Therapy the longest!! So she was able to get help to counter act the brainwashing!

[@cityvibegirl]

Who remembers when TLC stood for "The Learning Channel"?

[@victoriadeyot9321]

Invisible Pink I was saying this just the other day!

[@adriannehess1759]

OMG my step brother told me that today and I had no clue

[@MyCisa]

I miss those days!

[@matthew_natividad]

I thought it was travel n living?

[@dougrogillio2223]

And, MTV was Music Television?

[@lkmiller2010]

I don’t understand why/how Jim Bob is so powerful. Also, why didn’t TLC pay the kids via trusts instead of just paying Jim Bob? It seems so odd..

[@ecologist_to_be]

JB seems kind of manipulative so I'm not surprised

[@ednachristopher3750]

It was told that he found a loophole in their contract that gave him access to their money and he basically “pays” them and controls everything

[@ednachristopher3750]

A B I have no idea and it makes no sense. They may have had the same contract from 19 kids and just changed the name and removed josh.

[@briannemurdock4183]

As thier father, when they were children he was their legal guardian and was able to sign on their behalf.

[@kris6051]

TLC is all about manipulating the people on their shows and those who watch them.

[@user-ls4vb6dq7z]

I suspected that Derek was more worldly. His mother seems very grounded and her relationship with her sons is wonderful. I am so happy that Jill has someone who is looking out for her since her own parents seem to glorify their oldest son.

[@susanaalvarado-vignon5296]

I don’t think she meant worldly in that way. I think he’s a strong Christian and he just doesn’t interpret the Bible to his own benefit.

[@spants1058]

Yes. Jim Bob and Michelle really seem to worship Josh, for whatever reason. I guess because he’s the first born? He can do no wrong, in their eyes.

[@karriegress5969]

@@spants1058 I don't think that's a fair statement. He is their son, yes, but I've watched them all these years and I don't think they glorify Josh, they love all their kids. Christians aren't perfect, parents aren't perfect. I don't know how big of an area they live in, but I live in a small community I grew up in. We haven't had the same situation, but my son has been bullied. We don't have police in my small community, but my husband used to talk to this one police officer that worked for the county and he would drive up to our town once in a while to check on things. So I see where the parents handled it privately. Hind sight is 20/20. Should they have put locks on the girl's doors? yes. But you want to believe your child that he/she won't do it again. He went to some place to work on his issues. For those talking on the issue of Jim Bob's control over the family. He's done that for 20 years. It's a great responsibility to raise 19 kids, you have to be strict, precise. My daughter claimed she was an adult at 18 and I told her no. There is a reason they call kids 'teen' agers....because their age ends in 'teen'. Now she's 20, not that I controlled her, but it's hard to watch your kid just go off into the world and live their life. You just have to trust you did a good job as a parent, and pray a lot! haha. So I'm sure Jim Bob is like that. He's had control of the finances, etc that's it's hard for him to not have the control. BUT...19 kids and counting went to Counting on because of the parents in their decisions with Josh. So yeah, if his children are adults, married and with children of their own, they should be paid. Jim Bob needs to step back and say, the kids are grown, they should be paid for these shows and not Jim Bob, unless he's some kind of manager, but then I hope Derrick makes the bar and sues for their share of the money that is owed them. In finding a Christian church....find a church that goes with the word of God. (@ Ronnette). Charles Stanley is a great preacher. Joel Osteen, not so much. He's a fluffy preacher. I just discovered the 'Unashamed' podcast of Phil Robertson of Duck Dynasty. He doesn't mix a lot of words and speaks straight from the Bible. Since I've found the podcast, I watch one of his shows daily (he usually has 2 of his sons Al and Jase on). Both of those boys have been through seminary. Sorry for all the gabbing...been reading down the list and just replied all in one shot...haha. God Bless All!

[@avareezimmerman5978]

I’m very happy that Derrick is normal and speaking out, is well spoken, loves and protects his wife. You go!

[@msquared8438]

It's hard to concentrate on what she is saying when you can see the cute dog behind her on the couch sleeping with his head on the pillow!

[@jettsetgirl]

Haaà I know he is snoozing thru all the tea!!

[@sheilahart3943]

So cute

[@MandieTerrier]

I know right!

[@ps6474]

patty murdock...I know right, super cute dog sleeping so cozy.

[@laurenmay2098]

Yes, hahahahaha

[@briannemurdock4183]

His problematic comments aside, he seems like he loves her and really tries to take care of his family. Also pretty grounded for being a Fundie.

[@MindyMorningstar]

I applaud you Derrick for taking your wife's hand and making life your own terms. Obviously, that wasn't easy. You're A good man and you married a very beautiful, and talented woman! Thank you Katie!🤗 & i follow them on everything already 👀

[@janekemp55]

Thank you Katie.This was very enlightening. I loved the way you treated Derrick with respect. I’m extremely happy to hear that Jill is getting counseling and the two of them are getting counseling together. It wouldn’t surprise me if Jill has PTSD. I love your channel. I hope you and your family are all healthy and staying safe. ✌🏽

[@Emper0rH0rde]

If half the things people say about the Duggars are true, she, and many of her siblings, have PTSD. I come from a large family, where the values were similar to, but not the same as, the Duggars, and I have PTSD, as do at least two of my siblings.

[@helenahandbasket3016]

I hope Derrick and Jill write a book and GET PAID for it. Ii sincerely doubt Jim Bob would actually sue his own daughter because he wouldnt want the bad press.

[@lanaj5325]

S.A.B. I think he will. Jill has to ask permission come over and see her mom, and siblings and he must be there too. He will for sure sue his daughter if he has too.

[@laurenmay2098]

Nope, this kids were raised to honor their parents, no matter what, I doubt it she will ever go against that principle, I may be wrong, but I don’t think so.

[@shellyfox6280]

I think he would not actually try to sue as to be frank it would backfire on him in ways that would his wicked narcissist head spin. Hopefully the kids will realize soon that when it comes to lawsuits it is they who are in the righteous position here.

[@grumpyoldlady_rants]

Funny thing is, the Bible expressly forbids Christians from suing other Christians.

[@thatcattycat]

Lauren May I suspect so too. She may disagree with the parents but it would be some very “wild” for her to “dishonor” her parents.

[@seaside2001]

Your dog seen over your shoulder snoozing, with his head on your love pillow is killing me. So cute. I am listening, really I am. lol

[@whiplashed748]

Hugs and prayers to Derrick and Jill and your little ones! Please know that you have a lot of people rooting and praying for you! 🙏🏼💕 Thanks for covering this and clearing the air about Derrick. I had a feeling that a lot of the junk being said about him was being misconstrued. Great video! 💕

[@marissab4723]

Thank you Derrick for speaking out. Sending love and prayers. And thank you Katie for your work, research and great content.

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

Thanks for listening

[@sarahg1583]

Not only were the sister's "targets', they were collateral damage. My heart goes out to them. Thanks for sharing Katie.

[@francy4358]

Anna can stop having children with that sick SOB. The more kids she has, the harder it is to leave him.

[@victoriadeyot9321]

Summer sadly I think you’re right. I have no doubt they’ve placed blame on her and they’ve likely convinced her that should she leave she would be responsible for his demise. She She lives in a world where she has never been given the opportunity to put herself as a priority.

[@nancyfarkas3592]

@@francy4358 I think SHE will decide what is best for HER and HER children. Not you!

[@francy4358]

Nancy Farkas I said she CAN stop having babies, not she HAD to stop having babies. Sadly, I don’t think she knows any better.

[@nancyfarkas3592]

@@francy4358 she doesnt want to stop. Back off. Clearly you dont better then to be nosy nellie

[@clairefisher3132]

I don’t understand how or why Jim Bob is taking in all the money when his ADULT children are supposed to be the focus of the show, and JB and Michelle are barely on anymore. The Duggar kids could and should not only sue JB but TLC too. Adult Protective Services could get involved as well, because these are adults who are being financially exploited not only by their parents but by this network and the producers. I had no idea he was keeping all their money until now! I stopped watching a long time ago, but now I wish I had more ways to boycott or protest against this show until those kids (adults) are paid.

[@susanjoynes6395]

I agree

[@gerilynne1955]

The new show counting on pays the individuals. The other show the money should have been put in a trust fund. According to the law, a trust is made for each child. I really wonder how truthful this video is.

[@nancyfarkas3592]

@@gerilynne1955 Exactly,. Jim Bob did NOT control the money and anyone who believes that is stupid. I doubt this woman knows a thing. Anyone who mentions in Touch Weekly which is a GOSSIP rag is suspect.

[@nancyfarkas3592]

@lois miller And? They can twist his words to fit their agenda. Apparently you are too stupid to know that.

[@rachaelkopp3792]

Thanks for this video Katie! Derrick and Jill I hope you guys realize how much support you guys have! On this channel, life and in all yous do! It has been amazing to see Jill spread her wings and Derrick keep defending your lady! Wishing you's and your family nothing but the best! ❤

[@pacificblu9662]

Thank you so much, Katie, you did a great job. Thank you, Derek, you are a wonderful man and I am so happy that Jill has you as a loving husband like you in her life! Derek, you literally saved Jill's life!!! Bless you, both 🥰💖🥰 you have our support and we love you so much 💖🥰💖

[@dorisheck9351]

Love that Jill’s strength is showing so clearly these days!! And OMG she got her nose pierced!!!! Her and Derick are sooooo bohemian sunshine!!!

[@anunlimitedlife5050]

I'm glad that Jill and Jinger are living their own lives. I pray for them that they can help the younger children they truly need support too.

[@d.george]

I wish Derrick & Jill & their family all the love & happiness in the world. They seem like genuine, kind people.

[@avidfan47]

I never watched the show consistently.. I stopped for good once I found out about accusations against the brother. I am genuinely happy that the couple are doing well. TY for the update.

[@marilynmcphail9221]

Thanks, Katie. It was nice to hear Derrick’s side of things. I’m glad they are establishing their our rules for their family.

[@debishupe0530]

I really admire Derrick for being such an amazing loving husband to Jill . Her bright smile shows how happy her life has become..

[@edwina_3413]

Thanks Katie.... love to Derrick and Jill

[@TheAnnabel22]

I remember watching the Jill&Jessa interview. I just wanted to go hug them and tell them to stop lying. It was awkward. I felt so sorry for them.

[@kelligify]

Katie, you are really good at this. I love how your stories are so well researched. These last couple videos have been 🔥 🔥 🔥

[@crystaldavison3248]

This was an amazing video. Love Derrick. Will be following there blog!! Hate that they went thru this. Hope it gets better for them!!

[@kaykirby3208]

They need a really good lawyer to represent him and Jill after all they're raising children and college tuition down the road ....

[@msuew94]

I think he will be representing them in the future if they go the lawsuit route it would save a ton of money and if tlc is involved they are going to need money for that they are known for using their money to shut people down by filing continuations etc till the other person eventually gives up because they are in debt over it .... look at the Jon and Kate plus 8 situation for example

[@shellyfox6280]

I agree.

[@dawnwalter3892]

I think Jill and Derick are wonderful people and love them forever. And this was probably the best video you have ever done! Great job 👍

[@michelledekker7654]

Kudos to Derrick for telling his side. I have a lot of respect for them and at the same time I feel sorry for Jill being shunned by her family. However it's apparent Derrick cares for Jill.and supports her. Good interview!!

[@Jylart]

What a great video Katie!! It's good to learn the truth. Jim Bob and Michelle should be ashamed for treating them so bad! Derek and Jill are breaking the cycle and living by their own terms! Good for them.

[@85jjp]

I couldn’t be prouder of Jill she has come so far and it’s great to see her finding herself. It must have been and still be very hard for her to essentially re-learn so many things she was raised to believe as truth. I was raised no way near as strict and it’s taken a good 10 years to discover the real God and what I truely believe without all the religious fear aspects

[@knitthatpuppy]

That is so messed up! I do not understand how this is allowed! Can't wait to see JimBob go down along with all involved in his shady deals

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

I know - I don't understand this at all

[@SarahBent]

They must have signed. The only way this works is that Jim Bob somehow convinced them to sign off on it. Unfortunately you cant unsign a contract.

[@hannahwiita3524]

Thanks Katie so much for doing these. I grew up around some IBLP people and I found more as an adult. I appreciate your raising of awareness

[@reneeskinner2833]

I am proud of Derrick and Jill I am glad they are moving on and no longer part of the IBLP .

[@lorawathen137]

I have been following you for quite some time. I never subscribed until 2 days ago. I saw your post after A.D. was taken down and immediately googled what it means/how to subscribe to a KZbin channel. You are a tiny - but powerful stick of dynamite who sticks up for those who have no voice. Thanks for not being afraid!❤️

[@JennyRose1776]

It's so refreshing to see someone talking about the Duggars without dragging them through the mud &/or starting/pushing rumors. Very well done... Oh and "Sleeping Beauty" behind you made watching even more enjoyable.

[@jacklynhorston7730]

I have always loved Jill and her family. I commend Derrick for standing up for his wife. Taking her out from under that kind of control so she can be an individual. May God continue to bless this family. I knew something wasn't right about that Duggar family. It was just too perfect.

[@theshunnedBandersnatch]

My mom said the same thing. She had a gut feeling about the parents; turns out she was right.

[@lightningbug276]

Where are Michelle’s motherly instincts? She infuriates me by letting her daughter be treated this way. 😡

[@pathuff9511]

Katie, thank you for your in-depth reports.

[@donna9227]

Thank you so very much Katie ❤️

[@StyleMySweets]

Hi Katie, I came across your channel recently from a certain recent topic and I am now listening through your a bunch of your videos while I work! Honestly I had to come on though and actually comment on this one because I was beyond shocked to hear that Jill and Jessa did not receive the money for their show and that it all went to Jim Bob?! I remember thinking way back then that I was so happy for them that the TV show canceled the contract with Jim Bob and created a new contract with the girls for a new show after everything that had happened... I had no idea and am so surprised (and disappointed) to hear this. I wonder if the girls can create a new contract with the TV station when this one expires or perhaps they can create KZbin channels (if they don't already) to share their actual lives and story. Thanks for sharing the truth!

[@BattBenn]

A well conducted interview with Derick!

[@corrinacomia6399]

Best show yet!!! I always liked Jill the best and I am so happy she found Derick.❤️

[@marywarren8357]

I have a lot of respect for Derrick and Jill!!

[@MissyDcherrydaisypie25]

I’ve always been a huge supporter of the Duggar’s but my heart hurts and I just want to give Jill a hug. I love what he said about families.I have a feeling that more of the children will speak out and I have noticed that they are forming their own social media presence . A lot of them have KZbin channels

[@therealamariahnock]

So happy to hear that Jill is being given the chance to process everything she has been through with a liscenced counselor. I hope and pray her other sisters get the same one day ❤️

[@msalyssababy]

Wow, this has really opened my eyes on the Dillard’s! I’m going to be honest, I originally thought they were just as bad as JimBob & Michelle... I’m glad that they are more open & loving & doing things their own way. Much love & respect to them both!!

[@fredrika27]

One good thing that came about in the series was the family traveled all over the US and the Holy Land. I think seeing a bit of the world changes people and makes them more understanding.

[@carlypage5521]

One of my many favorite things about your vids is the pup sleeping soundly while you spill the tea

[@wigglewomyn1]

Woo Hoo, can't wait! Happy I got the notification!

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

Hope you enjoy!

[@j.vernamcgee3087]

I hope he is getting his law degree for some epic legal revenge against jb

[@debisjoy8017]

As a Christian, I do not listen to gossip but your coverage has been very respectful . Thank you. Also have you noticed that almost every reality show has ended in a marriage breakup, family break up? So it leads me to think that even watching them we are all playing a part in these disasters. I stopped watching them for this reason. Derrick and Jill, stay strong together! ♥️

[@ThatGirlJD]

I am glad that Mr. Dillard is smart enough to read the Bible for himself. I am glad he is trying to lead his family in the right way the best he can. Jill is blessed to have such a strong loving husband.

[@marian.jablonski54]

Yes - many of them end with a crash and burn. But then there's the question of if the show causes the issues, or does doing a reality show attract a certain type of person.

[@ThatGirlJD]

@robert jackson They got a long way to go, but at least they started.

[@seameology]

I personally think that compromised families decide to do these reality shows and are already crashing and burning. Josh Duggar was a problem way before the show. Being rich and famous doesn't cause their demise. It just spotlights it for all to see.

[@shellyp_va4047]

This is very interesting Katie! I have to say I’m amazed you got an interview! I’m really encouraged to hear that Jill and Derrick are getting counseling from a licensed counselor. I grew up very similar to Jill and counseling is viewed negatively unless it is “Christian” counseling. Also, I was going to reach out to you Katie to tell you that I remember several years ago Jill made a post that showed her reading a book about boundaries. So it was interesting to hear that Derrick mentioned that book. She was reading it around the time that you could see a slow change in her that was moving away from her family norms. Great job in getting this interview! Also, thank you for sharing several weeks ago your experience in the church you and your family attended. I can relate to a lot of that.

[@shellyp_va4047]

Jeaneane P Nothing is wrong with Christian counseling but it’s important to understand there are different forms of counseling. When I was exploring counseling several years ago and went to a Christian counselor the counselor who was not a trained and licensed therapist could not provide what I needed which was someone who was licensed and trained in methodology that would help me understand my unhealthy thought patterns and habits and give me tools to choose healthier patterns. The Christian counselor I had was only giving me what I was already getting in church and my own private devotion. She was just not equipped to help me go deep into understanding my patterns or underling trauma, and understanding where/how they originated and how they were affecting me. I think Christian counselors who are trained and licensed therapist can be very helpful but someone who is not trained and licensed and is solely a Christian counselor may not be the most effective if you’ve experienced trauma or have other deeply rooted issues.

[@sandradowd6732]

Wow !!! Great job Katie for explaining a lot of info.

[@debbieweahkee3820]

Thank you Derick for bringing healthy thinking into your family, keep protecting your wife!

[@lifeinmyemptynest]

Thank you for enlightening us.

[@dona62851]

Finally! Real first hand information rather than innuendos, speculations, and rumors. Good job!

[@susanbarton6492]

I have been watching a lot of these videos, and I love them. I love your honesty and how you break it down. I will be watching a lot more.

[@samanthakwait8782]

I just wonder why Jill and Derrick get shafted for living differently from Jill’s family but Jeremy and jinger don’t

[@kimberlymitchell7630]

More viewers

[@AmbyJeans]

They probably don't speak out like the Dillard's do.

[@biancacox8630]

Chalchiuhtlicue ....you got it!! Well they speak out but they are not in “your face” about it ...But I’m still shocked because it was evident that JB and Jingers husband clashed on several issues even before they got married ...And Jingers husband never backed down and I think it’s because he is so much older than the other girls husbands and thank the good Lord both Jeremy and Derrick HAD the experience of higher education and NOT being involved in the IBIL community prior to marrying those 2 girls!! In fact I’m really shocked that JB even allowed his girls to court young mean not tied to that denominational way of thinking ...

[@michelle3445]

We don’t know Jeremy and Jinger don’t. They may just not speak out about it.

[@sodapoplove95]

TLC likely views Jinger & Jeremy as much easier to control versions of Amy (if you watched Katie's video on amy youd know TLC wanted Amy on the show as the fun relative that contrasted to the Duggar's super strict life). So since TLC wants them, JimBob likely allows their shenanigans to an extent (notice Jinger but not Jill wore a skirt during the Duggar women's big Target outing). So I think as long as Jinger is profitable and obedient they are allowed to rebel a little for views and likeability sake. Jinger & Jessa carry the show now.

[@123rosebuds]

Hi Katie! I think you do terrific job. researching and reporting on your subjects. I enjoy catching your videos each day. My daily recreation while we're still inside,

[@cathykellen5790]

Great interview

[@mickeybell2633]

Derrick and his family seem so healthy. I wish the best for Jill, she has always been a favorite from the 19 kids counting show.

[@sdc223]

Jill is very lucky (as was I) to have ended up with a man who loves her and can support her and help her work through the brokenness that the IFB church leaves you with. There are some very bad stories of marriages in the churches. I agree with you Katie that these are adults, not Jim Bob's children but coming from a very similar religious background I know you're never allowed to think for yourself (just obey all the various rules and don't ask questions) so it does take a while for some to realize that what they have believed could possibly be wrong. Some never get there. Out of my family I am the only one who was able to start questioning and thankfully find truth. As Derrick said as well you have to come to a place where you can forgive your parents and realize (in my parents case) this is all they've ever know of religion and they've had people who abused spiritual authority over them and led them in a wrong way. That doesn't mean they're not responsible for choices made, it just helps me have compassion on them. These "churches" leave a lot of broken people in their wake, it's actually hard to understand unless you've seen the inner workings

[@Coconutoilcrazy]

The idea that he spoke with you speaks volumes about your channel. There are some channels out there that choose to attack other creators, little do they know, many viewers see through their agenda. I enjoy this channel, thanks!

[@LizzyMarieTina]

Derek has always been my favorite of the Duggars' spouses and even more now that I see him supporting his wife and family with everything he has. He is what a man should be. Not controlling like Jim is.

[@teamcougars]

I wouldn’t trust Josh with a pet roc what’s more around children girls or boys a predator is a predator!

[@kristys1829]

@JewTube - Censor Yourself. Or we'll do it for you. no he was a teenager and knew better. He's a disgusting person!

[@lindabishop7824]

@@kristys1829 I agree with you. Yes he was a teenager but he was touching Joy Anna and she was only 5 at the time that speaks to a real problem.

[@ps6474]

@JewTube - Censor Yourself. Or we'll do it for you. He was not a child, he was 15. At 15 a teen knows right from wrong, especially from molesting his sisters. It´s downrght sicking. Josh is very bizarre. He needs major help.

[@karenvincent5202]

I know. I worry about his young daughters. My mother used to say that people really don't change that much. He doesn't seem to have changed - he just found another source for his perversion.

[@karinaa36]

He was 15

[@mickeybell2633]

The interview with Jill and Jessa was uncomfortable. Jim Bob made them discount what happened to them.

[@SarahBent]

Family trauma is awful. Best wishes to the whole family. It breaks my heart to think back to those little girls from the first special.

[@SuzeeD4358]

That was awesome!

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

Glad you liked it!

[@debbiemeyer7666]

That was a great interciew. I've always loved Jill. Shenwas always the most talkative when younger and I loved when she met Derrick and think he's such a goood husband for her. I just subscribed to your channel today. I'm already following Jeremy Vuolo on IG, but will definitely follow the Dillard family, too! My 🙏🏻🙏🏻 go out to the Dillards that they'll get paid what they're owed (with interest!) and hopefully, can recoonect with her siblings...except Josh. Stay safe everyone! 😷✝️🇺🇸

[@quinoasongs2507]

That's what I thought all along. Bless Derick

[@kimberlymitchell7630]

Thanks Katie. Worth getting up very early for. Qld Aussie. The Dillard's are great. They still have great values through all of this.

[@Reesy2002]

Girl I love your video's. I just found you yesterday but I subscribed! Also, your dog is ADORABLE!

[@ErinMcBea]

Well done, super insightfull

[@Carla47156]

I enjoyed this video. You are a very good speaker. Thank you

[@robyndeddens6658]

Good for Jill and Derick! BTW I just noticed the puppy sleeping on the couch behind you.💗

[@emilyanne1311]

I’m a progressive Christian and Boundaries by Dr Cloud is an amazing book even for those not in abusive situations. Science based, I strongly recommend it and I thank you for shouting this out!

[@maryisdunn]

Please ask him about the questionnaire Jim Bob makes potential suitors fill out.

[@J5lover1]

Boundaries is the best book ever. I have some similar family issues like the Duggars and I can relate to Jill. It’s verrrrry difficult trying to break free of a religiously controlling family

[@margaretburr7975]

You can do public school, then they get home you do the Bible study part . All you need to do is go to a Christian bookstore.

[@ruthcrawford5897]

J5lover1 boundaries is such a good book! My counselor had me read it!

[@jdoyle7137]

I respect Derrick and Jill 10000000000% after watching this video.

[@samanthafierro6477]

I'm currently rewatching episode 1 of Counting On (on demand) and it's so devastatingly obvious that Jill and Derick don't want to be filming.

[@robingburchfield907]

Thanks!

[@DianaDenverRealEstate]

that sweet dog with his head on the pillow- my heart ❤️

[@stephanie12007]

Can’t wait!!

[@doreendaykin6693]

Love...love...love this couple. Wish them everything good in their lives. So happy that he has such a loving, emotionally & mentality healthy Mother & Brother.

[@cameronlincoln3361]

Stay golden Derrick and Jill!! You too Katie!! xoxo

[@debraladams9140]

"Boundaries" is a great book!

[@bradybenji9713]

I love that poochie sleeping on the sfa❤️

[@cindymonroe4928]

I am in no way sticking up for Josh, I do wonder if someone hurt him? I think there’s more being covered up that we know.

[@strawberrytea6823]

Cindy Monroe EXACTLY!

[@Smileyson58]

Cindy Monroe there is definitely repercussions from being so controlling and close minded.

[@Kaibigan39]

I've often wondered that @Cindy

[@karenvincent5202]

That's a thought. There is no telling what goes on at fundamentalist camp.

[@laurenmay2098]

We have no idea on what is really going on around this people and places, no idea. It is so sad that people abused their children like that. I doubt josh is the only one that did something inappropriate, no way with all this ruge families gathering and everything? Nope.

[@escardona3]

Good for them. I’m happy they are forging their own path.

[@dlcarriere]

My concern is for the younger girls still in the big house. When you see pictures of them, they never, ever smile. What can their lives be like that they cannot smile.

[@sarahalbright7864]

So true, No doubt those girls are being abused. My heart breaks for them.

[@vegasgirl3538]

I've noticed that too! They always look depressed, miserable and unkempt. I feel so bad for them.

[@mygirldarby]

I think there's a lot of physical punishment going on. The older children probably got it much worse. Older parents are more burned out, but when jimbob and Michelle were in their prime, I bet whippings were frequent and painful. Just a guess.

[@heathergustafson4237]

Very good reporting.

[@indigoblue4791]

I followed the Duggar family for many, many years!! This was very interesting to me because l haven't watched them as closely since the problems came to light with Joshua. I wish Jill and Derek all the very best as they move forward in their own way, with their own values! I think it's very normal to develop your own priorities and values as a young married couple and later as parents. Unfortunately for the Dullards this has happened very publicly and compounded by very personal details being revealed about Jill. My heartbreaks for her in this regard, she should be in charge of that narrative at all times. Jim Bob not wanting to relinquish his control of money generated by the family once his children were of an age to be financially dependent shouldn't surprise us, but it does. How those lovely adults, with new lives and little families could be still controlled by the the network without contracts and fees being paid directly is just ridiculous. I wonder how much pressure actually came from the Duggar parents too. Should a disfunctional way to do conduct a relationship with your adult children and a problem waiting to happen. I'm sorry this has caused so much heartache for Jill and Derek. Poor Derek was always going to have a hard time being the Man in his own family if deference wasn't shown to Jim Bob at all times. Jim Bob is very much King of the Castle and obviously has real problems with appropriate boundaries and respect for his adult daughters in particular. I'm happy the Dillard's have stood their ground and taken the steps they did to protect their own blossoming family. I feel like this journey with Jill's parents and siblings is far from over. So l would encourage them to nurture each other and have their families happiness and values uppermost in any dealings with the Duggars going forward in life!

[@BlazingLizard09]

I honestly don't think the girls received counseling following everything with Josh. Counselors are mandatory reporters, and child abuse, especially the type of abuse the girls were victims of, is required to be reported. I'm earning a Masters and am currently doing practicum at a counseling center. I know.its a different state, but there are still Nationwide laws around mandatory reporters.

[@grumpyoldlady_rants]

BlazingLizard09 - When the Duggar’s day “counseling” , I don’t believe the people are licensed therapists.

[@gracereece2097]

I think they did get counseling, but it was from the IBPL group.

[@dascho5385]

The Duggar boys/men, including the father, are so awkward and nervous around women and are so strict about their rules for not being tempted around them. I wonder if this is familial response to what Josh did. Maybe that is also why the Duggar’s tend to be more conservative about courting rules.

[@grumpyoldlady_rants]

Da scho - I think part of the “Duggar rules” are to protect the family name and image.

[@angeleyesdaurio6611]

Have you ever thought about the fact that Jill and Derek were banished to South America away from the family when they first started filming after everything aired with Josh? I think Jim Bob banished them to South America on their “fellowship”

[@jeanibeanibeach1177]

Love your merch!

[@elinomaz1748]

Stand strong Jill and way to go Derrick on the support and stand!