Despite Me Paying High Rent To My Parents, They Asked Me To Move Out To Make Room For My Sister

[@Velshard]

I agree on OP pressing charges. The people saying he shouldn't have are the same as Grover and Eliza, and refuse to take responsibility for their own mistakes.

[@KenzerCrochets]

Completely agree!

[@brianward7550]

Absolutely!

[@CaroleHarrison-r9m]

This!

[@Spartan3D213]

It was bound to happen as they already had criminal records And he did try to help them, with 2 decent jobs.

[@christarood6084]

Totally agree

[@stephaniehoyland4901]

Parents "why aren't you paying rent" Me " will this is going to be a really big surprise to you, if someone doesn't live with you that means they don't have to give you any money for rent"

[@robertx8020]

But but but familyyyyyy 🤣🤣

[@stephaniehoyland4901]

@@robertx8020 But but but, nothing family shouldn't treat you like something they find on the bottom of their shoe

[@robertx8020]

@@stephaniehoyland4901 Oh I have to explain sarcasme?? why didn't you tell me ... /s

[@erickaennis2738]

​😂😂😂 Good one.

[@alicedavis4847]

. parents should have been put in jail too

[@ceeceesmith5951]

Family or not if you put your hands on someone and ruin someone else's property you deserve to go to jail. If OP didn't press charges then his family would still be using him as a door mat.

[@BreezyDaBaddest]

I don’t care if you made $50,000 a month, you don’t live there so you don’t pay rent 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Nta. Sounds like my ex. He was paying 2k a month for their childhood bedroom. But his sister didn't have to pay a dime. In fact, they tried to raise his amount to give her an allowance

[@anonymous11599]

Hope he left after that

[@KenzerCrochets]

Holy cow, that is wild!

[@jamestalbot1647]

What was the update/outcome

[@nimisilverbird1239]

@@jamestalbot1647 we split. He was a little out there. Tried to claim that bc we had been together we were married in the eyes or the lord, but bc I wasnt religious it is wrong. Little did he know. Also he started flirting with every female he thought I didnt know. I knew

[@mystikmind2005]

@@nimisilverbird1239 He sounds like a person having difficulty reconciling reality with being under the boot of his family and their religion.... that's enough to make anyone 'a little out there'

[@daishawilliams8301]

So op your so called family kicked you out of the house but still expect you to pay rent they need to grow up 🤦.

[@robingibson6561]

AND GET REAL...

[@ShawnDeniseColey]

I'm happy for you OP! You went and did your thing. You don't owe no one anything! I truly respect you for that! OP's parents need to get off their lazy asses and work! OP's parents needs to stop enabling their spoiled brat daughter, she's a lazy ass girl and tell her to go work. She needs to get a life and grow up! Since OP is no longer living at the house then he shouldn't be paying for rent. Make his sister and her slouchy boyfriend pay rent. Karma is real!

[@lelelovesfood9620]

The nerve!!!!!! Wth?

[@Serena12253]

My parents did this to me. When I lived with them they charged me 100 a week to live there. When I moved out my rent was 600 a month and my parents still wanted me to pay them 100 a week cause they wouldn't have money threw out the month with out it. I finally had to tell them no.

[@phoenixindigo5383]

Kick me out, the money goes with me...

[@phihe5083]

1) the Restaurant should have been the one to press charges against dear Sister. 2) If my brother in-law sucker punched me in public, and gave me a concussion; of course I would press charges. 3) Show me an employer who will allow an employee to punch a supervisor.

[@AzraelThanatos]

Probably more of a joint filing thing there since the entire thing involved both of them,

[@thehawkseye3412]

Yep. Besides OP getting punched probably saved his job. He hired such lazy and misbehaving trash for the restaurant just because they were his relatives.

[@tamarasmith9060]

Yes, the company would in no way drop the destruction of property & loss of business charges even if OP went back & dropped the assault charges. OP phrasing it that he pressed the charges was only half correct.

[@TheKnightofAwesomeness]

If my BIL sucker punch me, forget charges, you best believe I'm going to get my pound of flesh back...

[@jessiejanson1528]

The fact the boss didn't fire them the first day makes me believe he was giving the op a chance to fire them in order to benefit the op since I'm sure the boss was fully aware he was a door mat. That, well he's maybe not a good boss for the company, but he's a good boss that did this to help op become a better manager and person and probably credited the customers for the problems. I still can't believe the op bought the excuse country boy accidentally put a cooking in the soup.

[@deplorableveteran6860]

OP's big screw up was... not telling them all to F off from the time they told him to leave onward and ignore further contact

[@antoinettebates244]

OP...They kicked you out and they can KICK ROCKS. Your entire family can sit and spin!! LEARN to walk away from toxic people..family INCLUDED!! KEEP your money and never loan more than you're willing to give away, ESPECIALLY TO FAMILY!!

[@MelaninCosplay]

So y'all kicked me out to make way for my sister and expect me to STILL pay rent?! Oh heeeeeeell NO. I can't wait to listen to this one. This is about to be some dumb foolishness. 🙄 Edit: Yep....fkn foolishness.

[@TamESQ]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@AutismTakesOn]

This was crazy. First of all, OP was right not to pay rent. If you buy, say, an airline ticket from Boston to Portland, you expect to get a plane trip from Boston to Portland. And if you don't get the trip from Boston to Portland, you expect to be compensated for it. Same at a grocery store. If you pay for milk, you expect to leave with milk. OP's parents were essentially wanting him to pay for rent without giving him the service of a roof over their heads. As for OP offering Eliza and Grover jobs... I honestly don't think he was wrong. As far as he knew, they only got fired from Home Depot for drinking. That's it. Not really smart, but not something you'd expect to be unfixable, especially since Eliza and Grover needed money. When Eliza and Grover worked.... Oh my, how do you mess up at work THAT BADLY!? It'd be comical if it wasn't hurting Panera Bread's profits and endangering customers. And insulting your boss!? That's basically ASKING to get fired!! Not OP's fault that Eliza and Grover lack common sense, let alone job skills! It's also funny that the parents try to get OP to pay rent. I mean.... What are they gonna do to OP? Kick him out?- Oh wait, they already did..... Not fund his education?- Oh wait, OP did that himself. Take his belongings away?- Oh wait, OP doesn't live with them... They have no way of punishing OP! OP's parents have ZERO leverage in this situation! They lost it after OP moved out! It was OP who had the power over the family, not them. And for hiring an expensive lawyer!? Yeah... Not the best idea to try to defend someone over a case where everything they did was caught on camera and witnessed by an army of people..... That court case was lost before it was even filed... As they say..... Don't bite the hand that feeds you......

[@Patty-ki1to]

I agree with OP 100%. He shouldn't have hired them to begin with.

[@hvymax]

OP should go NC and live happily ever after.

[@crezildabarker]

Stay away from toxic family. Love them from a distance.

[@mbstephens8034]

At the end of the day, they're "family"? They never once treated him like family even though he did them. Enough is enough sometimes

[@jessiejanson1528]

Anyone that defend the family is an idiot and likely abuser. One thing is for certain, blood doesn't mean anything. Sometimes relatives are just rotten and not worth having in your life. Anyone that disagrees is delusional like his family.

[@shawnbrooks5293]

Shout out to OP, rocking the tux at Ryan's buffet

[@jacksparrowismydaddy]

I never heard of a fancy buffet place. everyone I've ever seen is causal.

[@shawnbrooks5293]

@@jacksparrowismydaddy you've obviously never been to Ryan's, classiest place around

[@j_hi]

Ah yes, a fine eatery- may it rest in peace. No where else on earth could you have experienced wal-martians in their Sunday's best pouring ladle upon ladle of nacho cheese sauce and ranch dressing onto fried chicken, whilst children roamed around unsupervised eating nothing but gummi bears from the sundae bar. A truly classy place.

[@jacksparrowismydaddy]

@@shawnbrooks5293 it's hard to tell if you're being funny or if there really is a fancy buffet... **googles** okay a Ryans buffet does exist.... but if this story is real, he's a total clown for wearing a tux... lol

[@itsjustme7487]

I thought Ryan's went out if business.

[@KandNSmith]

Sounds like OP needs to move on and leave them behind. Do what makes you happy you happy man, you don’t need to deal with Entitled Hicks LOL🎉🎉😂

[@elizabethernst-mullin4731]

26:46 I was happy to see OP pressed charges against Grover. Since Eliza didn't assault him, I don't know what he pressed charges for. Grover is not blood, so he's not family. If you do consider him family, OP should be able to choose not to be family. I do think they should have been fired the first day!

[@evelynberrios8164]

Unbelievable the entitlement of the parents, WOW. They kicked you out to make place for your sister and delusional boyfriend!! Hell no, you don’t pay their rent!!! They should have thought of the repercussions before asking you to leave. 😂😂😂. Have a fantastic life. Congratulations 🎉🎊

[@ADR-xn6dg]

This dude is 39 and thinks he is still going to be a star??? The delusions….

[@notproductiveproductions3504]

If all else fails, he can always make himself wanted lmao

[@sheliawaymon9023]

Tell your parents to ask your sister and continue laughing 😂 .

[@Tamz60]

Wow, what a charming family. Thank you for doing such a good job on this story, Mr. Reddito. I would love to watch all three of your channels, but I really, really enjoy the animated channel. The people who put out these stories are amazing, I can not believe the stuff that they go through with their families. Over the years I've been watching your stories, I have to admit that my family isn't nearly as bad as I thought they were. Thank you so much for opening my eyes in such an entertaining way.

[@Zminator1986]

Parents, "Why aren't you paying rent?" OP, "I don't live there and I don't owe you anything." (Hang up and block)

[@NessaEllenesse]

The fact that OP even thought for 1 second that he was out of line bothers me. OP should have talked to a lawyer about extortion charges

[@kamiyatomomi1475]

It's funny how you are treated like crap by your family for most of your life and strangers like say, "By the end of the day, they're still family." My counter is, "You can choose your friends but you can't choose your family."

[@neil999ish]

But you can choose to 'walk away' and never look back!

[@SH-qs7ee]

What makes them family, just that you share the same DNA with them? People need to remember that there is a fundamental difference between genetics and family.

[@Imperfect_Stranger]

Actually you can choose your family. I had to go total NC with the bio family because they were so abusive I had PTSD and 2 other trauma induced illnesses. I now have 'chosen' family. These are people I have who have chosen to be family with me. I consider them my real family and they consider me real family.

[@rosietouse686]

You can absolutely choose your family.

[@IceJJFishArchive]

The same with how people minimize your mistreatment. “It’s just makeup” Ok why cant she wear it then? “It’s just a necklace” Yeah, and inheritance from his late grandmother. You can go into depth about how you were mistreated and people will get mad that you told them the disturbing extent of your story (after them minimizing it mind you) and STILL make excuses

[@happylistener4628]

Life is much too short to waste precious time and energy on B.S. Cut these toxic people from your life.

[@Darkspark06]

I actually love messing with these people, its a delice

[@lisadelgado228]

You did the right thing. Press the charges

[@Sunshine-wc2jp]

He did right! Don’t let anyone (even parents) walk all over you !

[@KenzerCrochets]

If you let them steamroll you once they will do it over and over again!

[@shadout]

I don't agree OP did right until the very end. After about seven minutes into this story OP was making mistake after mistake. Once they were made to leave that should have been it. The complaint of no rent being received should have received a simple "I pay my rent to a new landlord now" and a "not going to happen" for demand they pay on sister's behalf. After that, just disingage on the subject - hang up or leave whenever it is brought up. Don't listen to their arguments, or suggest alternatives. Don't second guess yourself. You can't reason with batsht crazy, so don't even try. The story would have been a lot more boring, but at less cost to the OP.

[@KenzerCrochets]

@@shadout I see your point. I feel bad for OP.

[@anthonymakley1530]

Op should ask his parents when are they going to pay rent to him and say it’s only fair because everyone knows life is fair 😂

[@aleksandarvil5718]

to OP’s bio - _"parents"_ ; Eliza & Grover : *Play Stupid Games; Win Stupid Prizes!!!*

[@LordGertz]

They never treated OP as family, why should he be the only one.

[@Parakeetfriend4215]

Might want to block all of your family, that is mom, dad, sister and her boyfriend from being able to reach you. I would.

[@skyironplow4158]

Of course OP should press charges. Family or not, assault and vandalizing the restaurant were both criminal issues.

[@jerrymiller8650]

NTA. Op was kicked out for golden sister. He said no to paying rent to a place he didn't live. He gave his sister a chance at job to earn money. She and her boyfriend failed miserably. They get jailed. Mom and Dad ask Op for rent? Heck no! Op is awesome for trying to help his pos sister.

[@anthonykoller4459]

He did the right thing to press charges against the both of them, being family does not give them the right to use him as a door mat and the trash the restaurant

[@mystikmind2005]

It takes allot of years of doormat training to wind up with parents so deluded that they expect you to keep paying rent after they kick you out of the house. And when i say doormat training, i mean the OP allowing the people around him to use him as a doormat - that's doormat user training.

[@kathrynbillinghurst188]

The really sad thing is parents named their son Grover!! 😢

[@beverlyarcher3744]

More likely made up doubt bfs real name

[@kathrynbillinghurst188]

@@beverlyarcher3744 😝…oh yes, I forgot!! My ‘doy’ !! 🤪😜🤣🫶👍😘

[@maryjoyspohrer256]

You don't live there, you don't owe them anything.

[@theplaintech]

Endure a concussion without filing charges because they're family? And by the way, OP was not in charge of filing charges -- don't blame him. Damage was done to the restaurant, which goes way beyond getting a concussion. Family? Don't be stupid. As for a career in country music? That chuckwagon has sailed. Pay rent to the parents? How about the parents paying for the hospital? Compared to his family, OP is a class act. Maybe he should write a country & western song about it. Everybody else does.

[@soco13466]

"Your cheatin" hawrt," "Mah dawg has fleas, and the hit, "The dog died, muh wife left me!" She can sing the old hit, "Pregnant, again!"

[@theplaintech]

@@soco13466 "Why aintcha payin rent for nuthin?" "Ah concussed my near' brother in law over your job and shuvit!" "Ah lost muh job over beer!"

[@julietesatchell103]

OP, the only way your sister would know this is about her is if everything you say is true. You never should have hired those fools. Everyone knows you don't hire foolish family members. Plus, why didn't you fire them. Glad you stood up at dinner to tell them off. It's great you filed charges against those fools. Your sister didn't get enough time. No contact with them is the best. If you need a family go get two dogs.

[@AutismTakesOn]

OP DID fire them on Day 2. I'm not gonna argue about him not firing them sooner, though 2 days is still considered a VERY short career, and both Grover and Eliza never got past Day 2. Some may have had a shorter patience, but still, short temper, not in a bad way. As for OP hiring them, Grover and Eliza were only recorded drinking at Home Depot. No other problems were recorded. I'll admit, it's still a silly way to get yourself fired, but it's still just ONE problem and nowhere NEAR the disaster at Panera. Even after the duo were fired from Home Depot, OP had no way of knowing exactly how insanely irresponsible those two were, and on Day 2, fired them accordingly.

[@markc7440]

OP gave the useless family and slimeball bf a lot more chances than they deserved. If it'd been me, I'd have blocked their numbers and social media as soon as I moved out.

[@johntillman1263]

This is one of the worst stories I’ve heard on the site and unfortunately the writer is the real problem in this read , accepting all the abuse from your family you should have dismissed them all a long time ago

[@hr_3m0_fk_rv5u2]

It's nice to see someone who actually reads these stories for their videos instead of making an AI voice do so. Even better, you have awesome animations to go with them.

[@sophiag785]

Wow this young man showed alot more grace than I would have with this delusional absolutely unreal family!!!

[@marcthomas1134]

Your family has lost their minds. For them to think you should pay rent while your not even living there is absolutely absurd!!

[@montelt7103]

He was punched in the face and the store was vandalized. They absolutely deserved to go to jail, family or not.

[@maryjoyspohrer256]

Definitely press charges!!!

[@abdulhanan8935]

Being asian, we are accustomed of giving weekly/monthly contribution in the form of allowance to our parents. But that is strictly according to amount that we could afford as a sign of love token to people who raised us. Paying an amount equivalent to rent is very demanding even to most asian people.

[@thomasdevine867]

Hiring E and G was a fatal mistake. 14:50 They understood what you said, they just didn't want to do a real job. 16:19 You need to run away from your family. 17:39 None of these people will ever help you or love you. 19:50 Save up your money and move to another town, preferably one with a real university. 24:15

[@Audiogeek-kf2ez]

You do not live there, so your parent do not get any of your money. It is a very morally poor household. Do not give them anymore money. It may be time to go NC, probably be safer for you.

[@itsjustme7487]

I have a very unusual idea. How about Mom and Dad getting extra jobs?

[@alicemacmaster2826]

So just because someone is 'Family', they can basically do WHATEVER they want? I don't think so

[@fairrahjackson6240]

Pressing charges is a no brainer.

[@rexbo29]

Screw that! They deserved to go to jail, family or not. Otherwise they'll never learn accountabllity and never change their ways.

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Please tell me you made them pay for the dinner. Eliza can get her head out of her a$$.

[@almarodriguez9721]

What OP did to his family was justified! I’m happy OP finally stopped being a doormat to those people, in time he will have so much more happiness and start living for himself BRAVO 👏🏻!!!!

[@anonmouse15]

Agreed, they saw him as nothing but a host, so he can treat them like parasites.

[@jmatlock1994]

Family can be worse than strangers

[@mflyn801]

I would have loved if OP had said,"I'm waiting for you to explain how this is my problem."

[@japanwithMaikin]

100 % press charges. what fam when they dont think you as part of the fam. enough is enough

[@susiemalphurs5212]

Yes he should have. Family isn't an excuse for abuse.

[@ask-128]

..you can not help someone who refuses to help themselves...sometimes you must keep toxic people away from you...especially if they feel entitled

[@redpeony464]

Block their phones and don’t let them know where U live.

[@TheDurid1]

Yeah, those parents are examples of why at least some self reflection on your own actions is necessary. Even if one isn't religious or going to therapy. 14:30 Yeah, hiring family as employees that don't respect you is lighting a bomb fuse. This isn't going to end well for anyone.

[@lynmar77]

Glad to hear to can deal with your crazy family with laughter! Block them😂 till they grow up.

[@johnacres4666]

Suggest op arrange to work for either a different office or even a different like company in a different state and move there and do not tell family where you moved to to get away from them! Also change all your passwords and all of your phone numbers!

[@NPRYRS]

I'm soooooo thankful and blessed BC my parents would NEVER💯‼️❗ 🤦🏽🤦🏽‍♀️ Even when we borrowed money, the effort to pay it back was all they wanted 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏽 they ALWAYS told us to keep it or take it, keep a portion and hand right back 🤯 I thought it was certain cultures/races but now that I'm sub'd 🤯 worst parents EVER in these stories 💯

[@playetful]

Op did the right thing his sister and boyfriend need to grow up. Also, his parents were enablers and expected the Op pay rent even after kicking him out. How wrong and pathetic of them.

[@peanutjones6600]

" it's not fair to the family if you don't pay rent" i would of said "i do pay rent" .

[@itsjustme7487]

My thought as well.

[@carsteinert132]

You did well. People even families have to learn to work and become good citizens and prosper on their own. You don't owe anything to parents who don't show you respect. WAY TO GO!!!!!!

[@debrabathurst7276]

OP was correct for pressing charges, regardless of family relationships because they never considered him nor included him other than an atm.

[@goaway3717]

"...at the end of the day they're family". I'll never understand anyone who thinks that means you should let someone abuse you without consequences just because you happen to share blood relations with them. They should treat family far better than the would anyone else. You need to hold them to the same high standards you hold yourself to and press charges. Remove from your life anyone who treats you like crap, especially 'family'. All they'll do is try to suck you dry and abandon you as soon as they believe you can't benefit them any longer.

[@Ninjasnail1926]

I’ve always had a good family. Loving family. My best friend, this is her family! They always milked her dry of every penny! She had finally cut off her parents! The money train is cut off and left the station! Woo woooo! 😂😂❤❤ I’m very proud of her! When you’re emotionally abused and manipulated like this, it takes a while to break free! But she is free!

[@stephaniestreeter7407]

I'm glad he press charges good for him finally got a back bone

[@MrJanglooos]

I am glad he pressed charges. He was assaulted and was the victim. This was the straw that broke the camel’s back and he went all out after that. This is how nice people who are being taken advantage of react. He tried everything that was practical to help his sis and her bf get back on their feet. Parents are enablers.

[@RobynneNardini]

Nice to see another of your stories Mr Reddito. Luv em ❤

[@BJ-pv4dp]

Op did everything right. Way to go op

[@evelynberrios8164]

NTA, you don’t owe them rent. You moved out!!! The police should have been called and charges pressed.

[@tc4504]

The reason your sister is like is like that is because no one has made her accountable for her actions. Well done o.p. live your life without those people. Trust me I've been there. They won't change.

[@maximus1811]

Simple answer...PRESS!

[@nathansheldahl]

I’m on team stupid OP for pressing charges and (finally) standing up for himself (and being an idiot). I would’ve cut these AHs a long ass time ago if I was OP with being kicked out and still expected to pay rent as the latest I would do it. I know this because I’ve been there and done it myself with my shitty and toxic family. At least didn’t have a mental breakdown like I did (bloody miracle right there), but OP needs serious therapy to work through the bullshit/trauma his “family” caused him. Oh I doubt this is the end of their crap with OP either.

[@lindacairney8475]

If you don’t want to do ‘time’ don’t do the ‘crime’, it’s just that simple.

[@faithwalker2287]

“But they’re family” is one of the most toxic things anyone can say to someone who is treated like shit. The people who say that are dumb AF.

[@jewellmayo5585]

OP can get a job teaching at a college

[@faithlesshound5621]

AFTER he gets at least an MA, and more likely a PhD plus a few publications. There's probably more competition for those jobs than there is at McDonalds.

[@whyask5461]

I laughed out loud at wearing a tuxedo to a buffet. 😂

[@JennieHolton-vq9gh]

I'm glad OP pressed charges on his Sister & her Boyfriend .... Family is no excuse

[@lillyp200810]

Feel bad for op having to deal with family like that. Ive had to completely cut ties with my mother bc of how bad it was and sounds like op may have to cut ties too. Its a sad feeling but much lighter not having them drag him down. Friends, close friends can be family. Family dosent just mean blood family is what you make it

[@frankgriffin6293]

They got taught a lesson and it was needed.

[@east-endjustice7883]

It even helped them move in after illegally evicting with no notice!!! Hahahahaha they sure did have them a great little tool to use and abuse!!!!

[@ask-128]

you can not help people who don't care, don't want to act fair...have no conscience...horrible work ethics....and those toxic parents are enablers to the daughter and her boyfriend....

[@jasonperkins2211]

Absolutely not paying rent for a place your don't live in is insane

[@TheDevilishDesires]

😂😂😂😂 I'd have laughed my ass off too... and then I would have changed my phone number!

[@tuzzday]

Hit me, family or not, buh bye I'm pressing charges. Then I'm going to sue you.

[@SandraNelson063]

OP is already paying rent at his NEW place. That's all he needs to do.

[@totallyunfettered]

Good on you for sending them to jail. Just where they need to be

[@jayshutman3101]

The family didn't treat him like he was part of the family. He should have never hired them at his job. It only made him look, to his boss, like he had poor judgement .

[@Danarchy3]

10:37 you should change your number, never talk to them again.

[@AutismTakesOn]

Why should OP change his number? There's a reason why block buttons are on phones nowadays......

[@Danarchy3]

@@AutismTakesOn and there's an incredibly easy way around them. Burner phones, Google number swaps to name a few

[@neil999ish]

Also no SOCIAL MEDIA! You read a lot of stories of people going no contact only to be tracked down by abusive family using S.M.

[@neil999ish]

​@@AutismTakesOnUnfortunately they will 'use' other phones to bypass the block.

[@bekf2240]

Not the asshole. I'm glad he pressed charges and stood up for himself.

[@acedelizo6430]

Hiring an incompetent relative is one of the worst decision you can do

[@annewilliams5527]

Do. Not. Pay . Them . Anything!!!! You DO NOT owe them anything in any way. Good Grief, are your parents lacking? To pay rent, you have to actually USE THE PLACE to pay for the use of it. Wake up, parents, and smell the coffee. ‘Nuff said.

[@brobles8888]

That “no-contact” decision was way late. Had op just initiated the “no-contact” after being told he had to pay rent for a place he wasn’t living in he would have never been attacked. Making the decision after the demand he pay rent for his sister was the ideal time.

[@IzzyPR2010]

You don't get to play the family card against a person that you didn't treat like a member of the family in the first place. Note to this OP and others in the same situation, if things don't change by the time you reach adulthood, get out and don't look back, don't fall for that family card nonsense from people who didn't treat you like family and don't expect them to change, most of the time they never do. Too many people in this kind of situation keep disappointing themselves by hoping that their parents will change and they never do.Also never allow them to guilt trip you no matter what.