COFFEH: Romance Real Talk

[@natisinvisible]

It's so nice to watch this now knowing that you are engaged to someone you love and you are truly happy. I'm glad you stayed positive, Dodger.

[@azenithisa232]

I was just thinking that! When she said that she knows she'll find the right person, I smiled cause of her engagement ^.^

[@TheVideolover45]

Watching this video and knowing she's happily engaged to Strippin is the most heartwarming thing! You go dodge!!

[@confused_gaymer1868]

Try watching when you know they have a beautiful baby together ❤️❤️

[@HeroBrine352]

Who'd cheat on her, seriously... she's like the total package

[@lololol924]

Payton Kilmer And also remeber cheating doesnt "always occur" becuase the person is bad and that the only reason. A lot of relationship problems on both sides can push the person to do that. Poor communication, lots of fighting, ect. Im not saying it makes it right nor is it justified, but too many people just assume people who cheat did it because...they are an asshole and because they could.

[@agustinmaldonado1227]

HeroBrine352 husky

[@misskaydie]

I'm on a dive into old COFFEHs, and I love watching this knowing that you're now married with Clarke and look so happy at home. Much love Dooger

[@Evan-vd1xk]

Watching this video back knowing that you’re married with a kid is so heartwarming. This relationship gives us all hope

[@sghost128]

No Dodger. You're not the problem. You're great.

[@LoveOrihime]

For all those people being mean, obnoxious and cruel to Dodger for no reason other than that they have found evidence that points out who she's with and want her to admit it because they feel entitled to, if you legitimately care for Dodger, watch this video again and please be considerate; she's got many reasons but Especially 1 that if you gone through it you know better than to behave the way you do. Then again I may be talking to the air and also some people just don't change. Dodger, I say this in probably all your videos and you may find it annoying but, you're a wonderful person, I love you as much as a burrito can possibly do and stay strong. You're the first person I ever subscribed to because you have a "enchanting" quality to you, like if you're a friend of mine that lives distances away but you think about that person and wonder how is she and hopes she's happy, but in reality, I have never met you personally or interacted with you other than by computer and you just have to be yourself to achieve these caring feelings I have; you must be someone really special and I love you for it ;)

[@xdaedonx]

respect.

[@CrimsonDragonStar]

Thank you so much for sharing something so personal with us. I know it must have taken a lot to do so. I wish you all the very best in finding someone with whom you mesh well and that you find all that you seek.

[@Alicechan3]

This actually soothed me- sometimes I feel like a dam breaks in my head and I just can't. Stop. Crying. Really badly. Even over small things like the fact that my train was a bit late or that I have to walk the dog because no one else will can break me at times like these and- hearing someone else talk about their problems actually seem to help, so thank you.

[@AXharoth]

Lunar Patrol i send you a hug

[@Alicechan3]

*hugs back*

[@AXharoth]

Lunar Patrol

[@Alicechan3]

(^w^)b

[@racdude01]

It's kinda fun to come back to this video now that she had an amazing boyfriend. Really shows anyone who may feel like she does in this video that things do get better

[@hel4259]

It's amazing coming back to this video after her announcing she's engaged

[@confused_gaymer1868]

@@hel4259 it's amazing coming back to this video when they have a beautiful daughter

[@360iris]

It’s so, so lovely watching this and knowing that she’s happily married (for about 4+ years now) and has one of the best daughters ever. I love Brooke so much and wish her the absolute best in life.

[@mirroughs7729]

I miss these, I love these coffee vlogs, it's nice to watch the current videos Dodger does and then come back to these and just nod. Because she came a long way, and she still gives good advice, she's still the same person. A true inspiration who you want to root for, and I'm not talking about an idol who you put on a pedestal, I'm talking about a real oxygen breathing, coffee drinking, sometimes to hyper for a girl her size person. That's who Dodger is to me, and I'm glad I found her videos to brighten my day.

[@shinodaa]

A girl who plays games and has a personality ... Who can cheat on u ???

[@joelad2815]

its amazing how far you two have come, congratulations on your engagement!

[@hellfully]

Why would a single person think about cheating on her

[@paytonkilmer282]

Brain damage. That's what I'm going with.

[@jayspark356]

My girl, you are a perfect woman and I sure there is more than a few ppl out there who can definitely understand where your coming from. Just take your time and im sure youll find the love of your life very soon. We are all supporting you so hold your head high and keep your pride in your heart and keep showing us that wonderful smile because you are just amazing

[@halfhigh]

Just hearing "cheated on" hurts

[@AXharoth]

halfhigh rly?

[@paytonkilmer282]

AXharoth Is that so surprising? It's pretty natural for many people, including myself where my friends are concerned.

[@AXharoth]

Payton Kilmer rly?

[@halfhigh]

AXharoth rly

[@AXharoth]

halfhigh wow

[@jacksonlefteye]

maybe it's the sad forever alone white knight in me, but who the hell would cheat on this girl? seems pretty insane to me, people are fuckin' weird man regardless, she landed the nerdy James Bond so she must be happy now...she needs to marry that dude and lock it down already

[@ScuddyGuitarsThings]

'lock it down' is now my favourite term for that, bahaha.

[@jacksonlefteye]

it's weird, isn't it? it actually kinda dehumanizes the whole idea behind marriage quite a bit

[@jeffoeo]

They got engaged today, I'm so emotional

[@jacksonlefteye]

jeffoeo emotional? do you know her or something?

[@Jorisvandijk]

+jacksonlefteye Who would ever cheat on anyone (in any reasonably good relationship) is the real question. There is no excuse for cheating on anyone, no matter who it is.

[@sam23696]

It makes sense, keeping it secret. I couldn't imagine the pressures of having a fan base like a popular youtuber, but I can easily imagine what happens if the break-ups and relationships are open to all viewers. It's not a pretty image. It's very ethical, and shows what kind of person you are by keeping the people that hurt you secret, even though you could "unleash the web" on them, or cause controversy. You are a good person.

[@digitalfootprint69]

Honestly Dodger, thank you for this video. It not only did help me or even us as the fans to understand you, but it helped me to realise that there are people out there who actually deal with their problems the same weird and hard way as me (or at least I presume it's that way). If it is, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you to find that person you're looking for.

[@vacatedsumo]

Don't know if you still read comments this far back, but man, I just wanna give you a hug. Keep doing what you're doing.

[@SøsterBlæk]

Oh, Dodger. You're such a darling. I'm so happy you've met someone who makes you happy :)

[@Ademis]

I wish you all the best Dodger somewhere there is love for us all!

[@TheNejinator]

Dodger, my respect for you just increased tenfold... Your optimism in the face of what seems like a significant amount of pretty shitty relationships will probably help a lot of people in similar situations feel better. I favourited it just in case I ever need it. Thank you and good luck!

[@Sophie-xh4zi]

Dodger+ Strippin4evr

[@TobiasTheGiant]

AND THE LOVE CONTINUES!!!!!!!! CONGRATS!!

[@TadRaunch]

Was it TotalBiscuit

[@TheCode52]

TadRaunch Jesus..

[@TheCode52]

TadRaunch ..Christ

[@wschmrdr]

He's married.

[@Ashallas]

TadRaunch fucking lol'd

[@Shazbot277]

1st thank you for sharing your personal life, i know it was not easy. 2nd as your viewers/fans have previously stated you are an awesome and beautiful person and watching your videos puts an elevated joy in our lives. 3rd I do pray that you do find someone who will love you for your inner beauty for we all know you are beautiful.

[@brandontaggart6386]

watching this now knowing your with sam is kinda weird but i cant belife someone would cheat on you because your such a beautiful and nice hearted person

[@hobeesy]

watching on Dec 30, 2015 : )

[@natisinvisible]

+hobeeorchid 2016!

[@hobeesy]

+natisinvisible Its crazy that now she's engaged :3

[@natisinvisible]

hobeeorchid I know right

[@jakenorwal7926]

Dodger... You have made me think and mull over every desicion i have previously made. and I thank you for that

[@Caladas]

I can't believe this is already 5 years ago. I remember feeling so sad that dudes had treated you like this; and I'm equally happy for you today for being married the coolest dude on the block and a little one to boot! So happy for you!! :D

[@rbwfighter]

Why the hell would someone cheat on her?!

[@weatherby1982]

I'm 100% loyal....but i'm also ugly.

[@joshbrown6562]

I feel you.

[@Mesjach]

It usually comes together :D

[@superdangofreq]

i get this, good luck with finding someone

[@alexroberson1098]

I just found your channel from your Tabletop appearance, and this was the first video that came up. I subscribed instantly after watching it because of it being a very genuine video. I think more and more that dating is extremely psychological. We pick people on a very subconscious level that we are unaware of. That's why so many of our relationships end the same way. I'd suggest going after someone you don't have that instant 'spark' or 'crush' feeling with.

[@xxGizmodioxx]

Thank you for this video

[@TobiasTheGiant]

STRIPPEN LAAAAAAAAAAAVE

[@xdaedonx]

Dodger+Strippin=happy

[@AvihuTurzion]

First off, no apologies regarding your personal life - that's why they're called personal. Even if you're having a personal vlog, nobody's entitled to them except you. Bad experience can be abrasive. It can lead you to think the path or the end goal isn't right for you. It can be misleading, but it reflects what you can't live without, and it will take you to a better place. It takes a lot of courage to have such a talk in the open. Thanks for sharing, and kudos.

[@christophewaters8641]

How could someone cheat on you your beautiful

[@Mesjach]

Cheated on? The world is even more fucked up place than I thought...

[@NikoTsangaris]

Dovahslayer

[@NikoTsangaris]

Dovahslayer

[@thephoenix134]

who would cheat on dodger? I find so many of my fellow males completely lose their logic when they get with a decent woman. smh

[@ibnuts778]

You break my heart! As difficult as this was to show to us, I feel as if opening up about your relationships, we get to see a bit more of the person and not just the persona that is Dodger. Thank you. All the best, brightest and beauty to you.

[@RavenAshe]

I hope Sam has seen this. You're awesome ladyface and Im glad it all worked out :)

[@zuzusuperfly8363]

I hope he watches this knowing he's the love asteroid that crashed into her life. FeelsGoodMan.

[@moonlightlunacy]

Before I start the video, I must say HOW THE HELL DID I MISS THIS VIDEO?!?!?! THIS MIGHT ANSWER SO MANY THINGS THAT I'VE BEEN WONDERING AND IT JUST SLIPPED ON PAST!?!?!?! HOOOOOW?!?!? Ok, rant over. Video time.

[@xdaedonx]

lol your username is just too good. thank you.

[@weatherby1982]

I fucking hate cheaters.

[@salmaanwalker3242]

What about pumpkin eaters?

[@weatherby1982]

DEADPOOL _ I like pumpcum eaters does that count?

[@salmaanwalker3242]

My Anus close enough

[@Cubeloon]

I've been a fan of yours for years now, and I've never been as much of a fan as after this video. You deserve all the love in the world, dearest Dodger.

[@CriticalEmpz]

I developed Social Anxiety due to cheating. I now suffer from insomnia and I can't view women like for romance or anything like that anymore. I'd rather be alone and die alone than be crushed again. Hope you all take care of you SO

[@EcceJack]

That sounds worrying enough that you may want to consider some sort of therapy, or at least consultation? I know some CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) definitely helped *me* out quite a lot with (a rather different kind of) anxiety, and I didn't feel that it was quite as bad as what you're saying sounds like.

[@lordgonzo6611]

Get help dude. Trust me, those aren't symptoms you ought to let dictate your life. Time is precious. Yesterday is gone. Not all partners are bad. Hang in there and keep your chin up.

[@SuPaSaSiN]

(Internet hug) :(

[@Trashley]

I still ship you with Danny.. #DanGer ? #Donny ? #DogerSexbang ?

[@thexlonexwulf]

PressHearttoSexbang!!!

[@Xercio]

Maheegan PressSextoBang

[@thexlonexwulf]

PressSexbangtoContinue

[@russman168]

One of the most sincere Dodger moments to date. Real talk is always cathartic if nothing else. Couldn't help but feel oddly inspired by this video...maybe it has something to do with knowing I'm not the only one with these kind of thoughts. Thanks Dodger for being you.

[@andrej13666]

oh god, i just want to give you a hug :

[@markkeng]

STRIPPEN!!!

[@johnwalker1119]

doog cheated on ;-;

[@BulletSponge55]

That video did make me sad a little, it's comforting to see someone who feels the same way as you do though. My problem was always meeting someone in the first place, it's difficult when you're painfully shy. If someone like you is having trouble though a guy like me is probably screwed! Hold you head up high though Dodger, you always come off as an amazing person and you'll find your someone and they'll be lucky to have you.

[@lablastaz]

You've been dating Jesse haven't you

[@F1reable]

Get on with jesse. :D

[@Theshockmaster5eva]

Dodger+Jesse 5eva

[@narisanerd]

this was beautiful, insightful and very brave. you're a genuine person and that is dope. it is hard to speak candidly about one's emotional experiences. being vulnerable is hard, but it is the best and scariest part of a relationship. your heart is cool...lots of luck in love!

[@balmungkai]

If dodger helped jessie lose a bit of weight that's your perfect man he makes you laugh and a nice guy with a good heart :)

[@michaelfrancistan]

YOU AND JESSE PLZZZZZZZ

[@avrilcadabra]

So you only date people who are popular on youtube, and you always get cheat on. and even after 3 months you don't think a relationship seriously. My advice, date nice people, who gives a crap if they are on youtube or not or even knows who you are. Be proud of who you are dating. There a millions of loyal people out there. Seems like so much drama over something everyone goes through.

[@megamage911]

+Avrilcadabra I feel like you majorly missed the point of everything she said xD

[@avrilcadabra]

Kefka Palazzo Shrugs

[@SocietyOfSensation]

Thanks for sharing this. It must be hard not ever mentioning relationships, since you talk about your day and the things that got you in a good or bad mood. It seems like relationship stuff would obviously affect this. I think its very wise of you to keep that part of your life private as a youtuber. It takes ALOT of character to keep that to yourself and be respectfull of the other persons privacy/anonimity even if you're in a bad spot. So keep on fighting the good fight! You're awsome.

[@BloodofaFool]

So Dodger is bisexual?! My tiny little heart of hope needs to know!

[@meesersuperman]

When you said you have been cheated on a LOT I started drawing tears down my face and saying "poor dooger". Thanks for the real talk though, and as you would always say, YOU'RE GORGEOUS

[@faitharooo]

this is really encouraging. When you said "somebody out there is as loyal as I am, and I'm going to keep looking for them" I felt that

[@CaptainCalibos]

As someone who has a bad luck at dating as well. I completely understand and agree with everything you said. As far as telling us if you're dating someone, I don't see why we need to know. It's cool of you tell us and I'm sure we would all be happy for you, but you should never feel like you have to tell anyone. You don't owe us anything. I wish you the best. And when you find the right one, you will look back on all this and it will make the moments you'll share that much better.

[@racdude01]

awe dodger I so just want to give u the biggest hug ever. I also kinda wish I could meet you to show you that there are perfect guys out there. although it seems you already know that, u actually haven't lost hope and r still happy while single and optimistic about finding the right guy, im very proud about that. I know a lot of friends who just give up. and lastly at the risk of sounding like most of your viewers I just want you to know dating a best friend can be the best decision ever, even if you dated once and it didn't work. I know this from experience as me and my current gf have been best friends for 7 years b4 we started dating. everyone always said we should date but we even tried going on a date once but always decided we were better off friends. this all changed 9 months ago (nothing to do with a child just a happens to be 9 months ago) with a single conversation (details are private) and we have been dating for the last 3 months (I made a choice, whether I chose wisely or poorly is really indeterminable as I cannot predict what would've happened had I made the other choice)

[@Mazra42]

Perfect and modest, right? Right?

[@xdaedonx]

Qaoz apparently modesty is an imperfection.... i think his comment is about insecurities. not sure tho.

[@MT-jr7wg]

I'm asian, I'm modest, nice, smart, etc. but...... Girls aren't interested in me simply cause..... I'm asian ;_;

[@xdaedonx]

Michael Tang how many girls did you try to pick up? being modest is a great service to society but its generally a liability for the individual practicing it. same in regards to being nice. to avoid the long explanation: - if shes a party girl, lie about everything and make advances really early. - if shes a geek, same. - anything else, same. - being modest, nice, and smart only matter when shes making a long term commitment to you. otherwise, you're just a well dressed piece of meat. - btw, interesting name. if youre smart, you should be able to adapt quickly. try it out. and remember. safety always comes first.

[@kh4eversdg]

doger if anything this just made you more real to your viewers as well as amazing because you have the courage and perseverance to walk through your previous heart breaking moments to look for your other half .. all the best for you doger :)

[@obiwan362]

I know the feeling, and I definitely understand not wanting to share all of that with everyone. Especially before you're sure. I've been in the relationship where 9 months along everything is perfect. I've been cheated on, and had it happen to friends. I can be both empathetic and sympathetic to this video, and I know those feelings you're talking about. I'm sure that I can say with all of your fans that if there is anything we could ever do to help during a hard time, we're here for you

[@GeekwithaJewfro]

Thanks for talking to us straight. I have never really concerned myself with your romantic relationships, but I just want to say thanks for giving us the low-down on yourself and how you feel about that stuff. Thank you.

[@eternalfoxx]

I know that feel girl..."what's wrong with me, why am I not good enough.." 100% you are!! Don't lose faith. When you have self-worth, that's all that matters. And TRUST ME when I say when you find someone who understands what you're worth, it is so fantastic.

[@Kplawy]

I've known of Dodger, ever since I started following Jesse & TB, yet never subscribed, for whatever reason. Seeing this video and this obvious honest declaration, made me subscribe! It might not help the problems you address here, but it sure moved me! I just cannot fathom anyone treating you the way they did... All the best Dodger! God knows you deserve a break...

[@reizendefee549]

You just keep doing your thing and keep waiting for the right person to come along, because they will. I have the same issues, 3 out of 5 of the relationships I have been in have ended because of cheating. And it annoys me when people treat ME like I'm being inflexible and up tight because I have zero tolerance for that stuff. "Cheating will happen, it's just a part of human nature." I've seen plenty of people manage to be 100% loyal, I can, and I know there's someone out there who be for me.

[@86Kba]

Dodger, never stop believing that there's someone out there as loyal as you are. I KNOW there is! It hurts to hear that such a sweet and lovely girl as you should meet guys who would cheat on you, and honestly it has nothing to do with you, but says everything about them i think. You are giving so much of yourself to us, who follow you, and absolutely love you for exactly who you are. If you ever doubt yourself, just think of us. Much love and RESPECT! -and a huge hug! You deserve the best! :)

[@Daetok]

Doogs, I'm so happy for you! And to be honest. This video kinda gets to me. Not in the way that I have been though the same as you, but in the more general way that it's gonna be fine in the end. Which, to be completely honest, is hard for me to actually believe right now.

[@phylomusic]

*HUG* Wonderful to hear honesty and sincerity. You will definitely find the right person, keep your heart open. Glad to hear you being truthful with yourself and understanding that the other people are the problem, not you. One suggestion: try to stray away from dating people from KZbin. :) Best of luck!

[@ChiefCast]

Oh Dodger! Based off your videos you are creative, energetic, interested in video games, gorgeous, well-spoken and have a lovely smile all the time! This is a collection of traits I haven't been able to find in a single relationship yet. It's a rare combination to find. And therefore you are precious. Just keep being who you are and it will be impossible for the right person to miss that fact!

[@simonvie]

this video make made me sad because that people can hurt a person so lovely as you. BUT also happy because you stayed strong and keep looking for the one :) i wish you all the best on that jorney because you brought me so much joy and cheered me up with you videoes, when i felt down, so i hope all the good in the world for you :)

[@hellscythe2002]

I applaud you for being such an awesome person! You are great to your fans and you are great to your kitties. Your personal life should be just yours. As a fan I appreciate the real talk. And I feel most of your fans agree that we support you no matter. Wish you luck on your dates in the future. My advice is simple, as cliche as it may be, just be happy. If you can be truly happy you'll know it and will crave it constantly. Keep your chin up

[@JazzyGaming]

Dodger youre amazing! I love that you had the strength and courage to post a video like this! You are such a genuine and nice person and I've always loved your vids! You keep it real and you have stayed grounded and i love that! You are loved by so many!!

[@MrDulankia]

i feel so much better when u share this with all of us. Have faith in urself dun give up!!!

[@StuartThompsonSTU]

An amazing and open expression. I want my daughter to watch this (when she's old enough to date). These insights are invaluable.

[@trushinogul]

Thank you for doing this video. It's nice to see this side of you. Just know that you've got a lot of fans that love you a great deal and want you to be happy, even if it's only to see you smile in your videos. Best of luck in your new(?) relationship.

[@elkhandler]

Dodger, you are the best and you deserve the very best and I admire you so much for your ability to stay strong in the spotlight after everything you've been through!

[@TheBoardGameGeek]

This was a good change of pace, down to something serious. This was a very nice video to watch, kudos to you letting it all out. All the best to you in the future.

[@ecostarr]

I kept wanting to give you a big bear hug and tell you everything will be alright. Eventually you will find the person that is right for you. Keep on Keepin' on.

[@PFBCmaster]

This is a really powerful video. You are a really strong person to pour your heart out on the internet like this.

[@TheNigelOfBraund]

Thank you for the talk Dodger. I completely agree with things of the sort private at least until you know the 'real-ness' of the situation. I've had similar issues with my dating experiences, especially in being the loyal type person hitting that brick wall. Just be as awesome as you are and find the happiness that is for you.

[@loganholman4056]

This video inspired me, Miss Strippin. Definitely brought me back from that wall you mentioned about feeling like how no one can love me for me. I got out of a relationship where I did not feel at all comfortable with how it was going...and now, a year out from it, I am watching Strippin and you walk through this path that I envision myself walking. So thank you, and may you enjoy your marriage with the God of Chicken Strips

[@erooney90]

Certain people decide not to see the bad in the person they have feelings for, relationships are hard and we learn from our mistakes, maybe your right not to tell anyone about your relationships, but the support you can get from simply talking about it in one of your videos can make a big difference, everyone deserves to be treated right even though we will spend the majority of our lives being mistreated, trust me when I say good things take time, you will find the person your looking.

[@kuroijoou]

really, you made me cry. I've been into a relationship with a guy for three years and last month he said to me that he knows not to love me, because maybe he was attracted to another girl for some stupid reasons and he always got confused about us for two years. And i felt like something was wrong with me, but you're right maybe it's not always about us but about them. Being abandoned is the worst feeling in the world but we'll find someone as loyal as we are, and we'll be happy somedays :) thx.

[@Kenzo_VII]

My heart goes out to you Dodger. I've been cheated on as well. Never think you are not good enough, you are an amazing person. When someone cheats it's most likely their own doing as a terrible bad person. People who cheat are the worst types of people because they break the trust in the relationship. Keep your head up and hang with friends when your down. You'll find an awesome fit the least you expect it.

[@Brandolupa]

i feel your pain Dodger, it sucks when this happens. i have recently gone through this, and it never feels better. good on you for never swearing off dating, it is a very dark place when you start feeling like that and it gets scary. i hate to say this, but ty for sharing dodger..after my last few weeks it helps me to know im not the only one that this shit happens to, i hope you find someone that treats you right and makes you happy :)

[@Kravemo]

The feels Dodger. I know where you're coming from. For every 10 that are bad, there is at least 1 who is the right one. Look on the bright side, you managed to talk about this and that's a big step. Best of luck in your dating adventures, I know that there are guys out there who would be lucky to be with you in a relationship. Keep your head up and smile.

[@Ignismiles]

From what I've seen you're a lovely person who deserves better. Don't give up, I'm sure it will all be worth it when you meet the right person.

[@nicholasyancy9095]

I've been waiting for this talk for years! Thank you!

[@kendro1200]

Thanks for the video Dodger. Sorry to hear about the poor turnout of your dating history thus far, I deeply sympathize with it. You certainly aren't alone, and there is also someone out there for you (most likely more than one). I also applaud you for your handling of relationships thus far, because for many people it's easy to just attempt to hunt for ways to hurt others during the anger stages/phases, and to me, at least, you've always seemed more up than down and stayed away from that.

[@animefan1412]

one of the best COFFEH times ever definitely love the Real Talk and that you would assume that your Dodgling Burritos would take up the father mantle of "so and so isnt good enough for you" love to hear you being personal with your audience!