Diane Langberg: Power in Trauma Healing: the Good, the Bad and the Ugly

Diane Langberg: Power in Trauma Healing: the Good, the Bad and the Ugly, Trauma Healing Institute, 2017 Annual Community of Practice, Philadelphia, PA USA. © 2017 American Bible Society ℗ 2017 Educational Media Corp.

[@sukran96]

Give someone power and see what she/he really is. Power is the best way to distinguish the good from the bad. God is very smart.

[@richardjones4368]

We need more people like Diane.

[@jodieelizabeth4905]

Amen 🙏

[@claudiabannister6414]

💜💔💜 ~ with heartfelt gratitude beyond measure

[@robynmedia]

SO MANY PROFOUND MOMENTS of truth in this amazing talk. Wow. The truth and godly judgement of what is spoken in grace (without bitterness) is so great to hear.

[@DCard-yw6ml]

Diane is my hero. Her compassion and courage inspire me. Thank you Diane for all your work for the abused community.

[@helenmcshane7261]

Diane you are a wonderful woman. God bless you and warm greetings from Ireland x

[@jonathanogrady4854]

I was adopted and given an English name the adopted family as a whole abused me in every way you can imagine. The parents sent me to there families while they went to work, and so they abused me. When I was 48 years old and the adopted parents passed I found my birth certificate and documents and changed my name back to the name my birth mother gave me, I've been back to Ireland and have fallen in love with it. I just wish the English adopted family told me when I was 18.

[@miguelchippsinteligente6072]

Jesus christ referenced living waters 💎👨‍🎓👩‍🎓science described water memory 🌊🎭psalms16:24 k,j proverbs27:19 existence psychologically god bless fight the good fight 💖👻💎💖👻💎👨‍🎓👩‍🎓🤍🗽💎⚖🚬🌪🌬

[@d.s.lpeiris6243]

God Bless you Dr. Diane.

[@consuelocerma4890]

Thank you Diane… I love 💕 my Lord and He is with me.

[@jackmetcalfe1964]

Great talk Dr. Langberg.. love the connections made between power and the words we do and do not speak. Adam's failure in the garden to shepard his wife through the use of his power of speech is clear based on this talk.

[@marjsusan4456]

You were chosen by God to tell the truth about trauma 🙏

[@sheilabest3652]

Profound!

[@mariamkinen8036]

Coerce= surrounding , so there's no out. I was shaking with fear as a child all the time. At home. Thx.

[@kimberleatha64]

I understand me too

[@jackmetcalfe1964]

This should be required study material for anyone going into helping occupations.

[@nikkigroep1869]

Agreed

[@sirenachantal471]

To Diane Langberg - Your videos are exceptional. Please reconsider giving lectures to those who upload video but do not allow for comments. Organizations that only give voice to those in power (men) are evil.

[@phattybacon931]

I agree that no comments are lame, but what is that conclusion? Grow up.

[@Dr.JulieJames]

Research how Women cause harm to people especially there own children..also terrible mean leaders of Evil is not a gender it is an attitude towards Gods Love

[@manuelag2128]

Thank You so much sister🌹your lectures Help me a lot. So much confirmation. GOD really works through you. PRAISE GOD ALMIGHTHY 🎶💃🙏🏻💃 I Love the Love you have For JESUS and HIS body❤

[@askyeshka726]

Excellent Lecture! Thank You!

[@thomasparrish429]

Lincoln said it best. If you want to see the true measure of a Man. Give him power! And see what he does with it!

[@mariamkinen8036]

Power needs a promise from the ppl around a person to be equal. No matter were these ppl the good , the bad , or the ugly. Sometimes deeds speak better than words.

[@mariamkinen8036]

Repeatedly my family is the pain. Staying grounded. I am only allowed to live by proving supply....

[@robertengland8769]

The good the bad and the ugly. Greatest spaghetti western ever made.

[@agnesmutai8410]

Very true!

[@mariamkinen8036]

I can still feel the medical sewing where my private personal anatomy should be... against my own will... Furthermore I will need a new identity to bring forth my situation in the right lighting.Croup etc. I have no voice! But this is a good presentation. Thanks, as always.🎯

[@khalidalzayani7072]

If I met someone like Diane Langberg in my younger years, I would be religious by now

[@sophieann8880]

If I met DL in my younger years I could have gone through the healing process and found a very different life.......Jesus is available anytime.....

[@manuelag2128]

Religion and faith are very different issues. Faith IS alive Religion ist dead. So believe in the Gospel and expect the hol Spirit to Touch your Heart and that His Word becomes alive🎉❤💃✝️🙌🏻🕎📖📖📖🕯️🕊️🗡️💃❤️

[@mariannedijkhuizen4925]

Really to the point. Hope many people will get it and use it. Getting milder and more lovable and understanding. But i do have a biblical question: What about free will??????? Is it even possible?????? I don't know how to place the free will into this storey. Sorry for my English it's not my first language.

[@jasonlichtwalt3776]

This is a test of your free will...

[@mariamkinen8036]

I don't know how to regain Power. The less so if I had to push all limits n endurance to have any. Ever. I want to be well again. In English . I am not deceptive to me or the others .

[@reg8297]

Finding it so hard to live with the emotional deep pain and consequences of childhood abuse I lost the ability to love and know who I am anymore don't know what else to do.to remove the deep emotional pain

[@TraumaHealing]

Sending love to you. We offer online Healing Groups for those who want to process through their grief and trauma. You can find upcoming Events at traumahealinginstitute.org/events.

[@Nikki-xx3gq]

Met too, I don’t know who I am and don’t really like myself. I have several issues self esteem etc. Idk I tried to heal on my own forgive with KZbin videos and things idk what to do the pain come back I didn’t forgive them really.

[@Nikki-xx3gq]

As a child I was witnessing domestic abuse and have burn on my hand. No memories of the abuse on my mom, but I started to get abused because of the pain she went through. I had a bit of sexual abuse I guess but idk. I went through neglect have dental issues etc and manipulated and kinda used I feel. Lied to by parents and used by the ones you think love use. They are not like parents. Abandonment as well. I have very good track record In school and work. But emotionally I’m stunted and have like acrophobia. Was diagnosed with ADHD separation anxiety. My Mother says I have possibly bipolar and anger issues, I feel like I can’t help it. And no memories of her abuse because of play therapy or something when I was really young. I can’t talk to my family because they both are toxic. So I’m pretty much alone with God and Jesus that’s it who I can talk to right now. I moved trying to change my life for the better peace, but it came back it’s hard to separate reality from paranoia and things I want to heal and meet people who are normal. Because Ive been attracting wrong people since I feel depressed or manic bipolar and self esteem issues or “broken” lol. So it’s attracted people to make it worse. It’s pretty hard I’m working with God on this now. I’m trying thank God for these types of videos.

[@TraumaHealing]

Thank you for sharing. I am so sorry for you pain. I hope you sense God's nearness and love and care for you.

[@deborasalano2542]

may God heal your heart from all this pain.

[@mariamkinen8036]

I never had a voice really. I got bulldozed. In my family... I had mum. N her kin

[@iulianariton9796]

Maria Makinen ❤️

[@mariamkinen8036]

Iulian Ariton thanks, friend.

[@TraumaHealing]

Sending love to you. We offer online Healing Groups for those who want to process through their grief and trauma. You can find upcoming Events at @t.

[@mariamkinen8036]

I can't comment on your Complex trauma, so I'll do it here. I just want to get well n become a feminine woman . I will try to get the op. Can we heal from CPTSD? I wish I could still talk to you. Thank you.

[@terriergal]

Excellent but i do have one question. You say that people who are weak and fragile are more likely to abuse their power. Yes I think so... but - abusers of power don't necessarily consciously *feel* weak and fragile when they are abusing and self justifying their behavior. They usually feel powerful and strong and somehow have convinced themselves they're within their rights to do stuff like this.

[@user-rt2bk9ii9x]

I tink it's the surface and fake. One who is really confident, strong, loving and mentally healthy does not need to abuse others.

[@ClaudetteFurrer]

It's "when," they feel weak/vulnerable, or are challenged

[@Dawn54811]

I really hope that this is not an inappropriate question. Dr. Langberg, I was saved at 8 years old in a Bible School. At age 9 my fathers began sexually abusing me. I begged God every night to make it stop. I begged and cried so hard I burst blood vessels in my eyes and face. I asked for forgiveness for anything that I might have done to cause the abuse, I hadn’t washed dishes, I had a bad attitude about having to clean the toilet…the list is long. I came to believe that if I couldn’t be perfect in God’s eyes, then the sexual abuse was my fault and God wouldn’t intervene as long as I was bad. Shame because I knew the sexual activity was sin. With praying every day and night, being good at school, minding the rules…trying to please God, why did God not help me? I can’t believe God loves me…I desperately want to, but I’m so afraid if I even try to believe God’s love, He will cause more harm. I’m a grandmother now, but still feel like that small and helpless child. How can I approach God,,how can I ask him to love me? I wish God would have led me to you 20 years ago.

[@garysweeten5196]

It is a wonderful question that many of us have asked. The abusive Sin of others is not your fault nor do you have guilt because of it. You are probably experiencing Shame not guilt. Shame causes fear and self-blame. God loves you and wants you healed. As Roman 8 says, “I am no longer a slave of fear, I am a child of God”. It is not too late to be free.

[@Nevermizzinzz]

God already loves you, and He is already with you.

[@jonathanogrady4854]

If you're trying to find yourself going through early childhood. Well myself nearly late childhood after gone through all the different types of abuse ( the worst kind) so I've been lost a early childhood, then told at the age of 14. When I reached 48 years old after the adopted parents passed I find my birth name my birth certificate and documents and they tell me that I'm not the person I thought I was growing up This name is my birth name that I have now. I was terrorised, made to go back to the abusers for many years.

[@TraumaHealing]

Sending love to you.

[@jonathanogrady4854]

@@TraumaHealing thankyou 👍

[@Izkapts]

The part about feeding on others rings so true. God's creatures feel pain and love too. Be it humans, dogs, sheep, cows, all feel pain and love. We can eat fruit, grains, vegetables, legumes, etc instead of feasting upon slaughtered living, feeling beings.

[@SergeC72]

If we (humans) meant to reflected the image of God, why we keep perpetrating the concept that God is only Goodness? God and Evil are faces of the same coin. Human experience.

[@miguelchippsinteligente6072]

Their isn't any scriptures contributes with abuse 🤨💎🗽🤍why would jesus christ have died

[@michaelglass9604]

A man in a room full of women is physically vulnerable. What's with the outrageous hyperablies. A woman in a room full of men is protected and safe.

[@phattybacon931]

I've enjoyed a different video of yours, but this one didn't resonate at all. I was curious and after perusing your twitter you speak like a communist, and there's an undercurrent of hatred towards the church & authority in general.

[@Special735]

lies lies lies

[@Special735]

how can you judge without hearing the other person side

[@mka1200]

Special Bass - What's your point??

[@facetiousbadger]

+Special Bass What are you talking about?

[@MsButterfly57]

People don't seem to understand surviving a childhood of horrific weird no word or excuse for what they did. Or the chronic pain physical emotional mental chronic nonstop pain. People don't get it will even take the psychopaths side cause its so unbelievable what they did. And their lies manipulation. This lady is awesome. I still wonder if my mom was human (past away a few yrs ago).

[@facetiousbadger]

MsButterfly57 I can't imagine growing up in that environment. I hope you've managed to find some peace.

[@sr2291]

If she is working with the general public as a Psychologist she needs to leave out her personal religious beliefs.

[@craigslist6630]

Not really. It is relevant. The side that did the traumatizing (Lucifer/Satan) also provides a New Age solution that makes people consent to worshipping what God calls idols to save them. Furthermore, we have a problem with people who were traumatized by Satan who give themselves over because they believe a lie that they have a choice not to worship Jesus in the end. If the Bible is true, they do not have a Luciferian choice, and they will be punished by God for disobeying Him. Matthew 10:28 Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Instead, fear the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell.

[@dotsyjmaher]

She is at the Bible Society.... AND.... as long as she reveals it...people have the choice... There are SO many DEMONIC "therapists" with agendas they do NOT reveal.

[@sukran96]

Give someone power and see what she/he really is. Power is the best way to distinguish the good from the bad. God is very smart.