Live SIMPLY! Weekly routines reset | Minimalist Lifestyle | Flylady hygge home

[@DianeinDenmark]

Happy Friday from "pouring with rain" Copenhagen! 👋🏼😍 You have a choice of four self-care options...what do you choose this week? 1, 2, 3 or 4? I'm doing 1 and 2!

[@ekirluh1073]

I choose self-care option 1

[@kittycuddler5973]

With elderly neighbours I do #4 every week. ❤

[@sallycroft2191]

Self care of elbows and feet. Also, on sunny days, I will have my morning coffee outdoors. Thank you for inspiration!

[@meredithrock]

Happy Friday to you as well. Just starting your video, and working on laundry.

[@LisaDupree-sf7fi]

1. I keep putting extra thick cream on my feet and putting socks on to soak it in better to soften my feet. 2. My son and I ate lunch at the dog park yesterday. 3. I have been listening to some old favorite music and singers. 4. My son and I give small bags of snacks and self care items to people without homes we see on the side of the road. Lisa Anne Dupree 🙂🌻🦋

[@jeannebowes2898]

Saturday night. I actually accomplished more than I thought I would. I am in widow’s fog state of malaise. But looking back , I did fairly well at managing this past week. Thank you for your support .

[@deliarealtor]

I thinking I’m in widows fog too. It’s been almost 6 months since my H died, I really don’t feel like doing anything. I hope yo are feeling better soon.

[@emmelia-6068]

My condolences, Jeanne and Delia 💜🙏💜🌷 Prayers for you both as you go through this hard time. Give yourselves plenty of space and grace ❤

[@missnavigation]

Tornado Warnings all around me here in Oklahoma, USA. While waiting to see which way storms go, I'm cleaning my kitchen. If we get blown away at least my kitchen will be clean!

[@emmelia-6068]

How did it go for you? I pray you and yours are safe. I saw some horrific videos and photos... 😮❤

[@cathyb6358]

I pray that you and many others in Oklahoma will be safe.

[@missnavigation]

​@@cathyb6358 storms went North of us. So all is well. Thank you.

[@missnavigation]

​@@emmelia-6068storms missed us. Some of the family lost power for few hours. But all safe and sound. Thank you.

[@maki90]

This has been a rough spring for us Okies, indeed. Glad it missed y’all! It missed us, too, though I got to see scud clouds feed in on the north side of town, that was something wild to see!

[@Louloufandancer]

One thing that has stuck from flylady for me is to keep a clean sink....well...this week I almost fell over when hubby was at the sink ...he said who is leaving things in this sink I like to see it clean! So, yes they are watching and learning.

[@cookiemon4614]

Yay Diane, inspiring us all even though she's got a cold. You're always amazing

[@marylinelliott611]

I learned a saying when I was in high school: The journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step. That's the way I see your ten minutes. Thanks for you videos.❤

[@bethanystarks9783]

Thank you, Diane, for giving of yourself and your time even though you are not feeling well. Each of your videos are an inspiration to me and I would miss you if you weren’t there. (Although I would totally understand!!! You have to take care of yourself first!!) I hope you enjoy your quiet weekend and I hope you are feeling much better soon. I’m praying that you feel better quickly! ❤

[@MsStingFan]

Overachiever this week, because every suggestion you have I already did this past week -- well, right now I am having a pedicure after a week long vacation in Maui, While I was there, I ate breakfast everyday outside; and now that I returned home, will pull out our porch furniture to eat outside whenever possible. I enjoy listening to the birds (sometimes eagles) and see the bugs, butterflies and blooms. As for volunteering, while I was on vacation I volunteered at a free donation center for the victims of the Lahaina wildfires (in August 2023). I sorted, merchandised and helped anyone who came into the store looking for items. The people who have been doing this since August are amazing and were so grateful I took 2 hours of my vacation to volunteer. My heart was full. I just bought tickets to see Harry Conick Jr. at an outdoor winery concert. I barely listen or know his music so I am hoping to enjoy something new.

[@barbaraimwold4352]

🙋‍♀️my hubby declutters his clothes and tools. For my soul, I mowed a traveler’s lawn one less things for them to do when they get home.

[@DianeinDenmark]

Great idea! So nice of you!

[@mybluecottage1]

I know what you mean by keeping my family private. In our time of life, my husband is 73 and I am 68. When I do my weekly vacuuming, my husband will take the vacuum cleaner "away from me" and does all the floors! What a dream boat! Hope you begin to feel better! CB

[@edelinprogress]

Diane, You said that you are not a family channel as your family don't feature in your videos. Some of the tips and advice you give gave made a big difference to my little family. The planning of family fun in particular❤.

[@juliekonigskind6434]

Dear Diane, My three year old and i went to the library today to pick up some new reads for the weekend. We both love it there and go every week. Regarding the subject of 10 minutes: Especially as a working mom with lots of volunteering tasks in church, kindergarten and beyond, the 10 minute chunks are soooo valuable. Progress over perfection. I would feel absolutely defeated, if i had to do it all and spend hours and hours. By the way: i made your over night bread-rolls again. This has become a beloved Friday night tradition. When the Little One is asleep, i clean up the kitchen, shine my sink and prepare the rolls for Saturday morning. I start the dishwasher and when i hear the water stream into the machine i know: the week-end is here :) pure self-care right there. See you Monday and feel better soon. Love from Germany, jule

[@SharonKBM]

This is lovely. You are creating a wonderful memory for your child ❤

[@JoannaMSMcCoy]

I got a pedicure, bought some new self tanner and made reservations for a mother's day tea!

[@rosiehoy4736]

I'm a physiotherapist. When my patients say anything along the lines of "it's so hard to find the time to do the exercises" and they clearly want to, I recommend you.

[@twiinslife9616]

Thanks for showing up even you are not really fit, I have been lying with a bad cold all week, but sticking to my minimal morning and evening routines ! It gave me hold! I will take small steps outside to get better. Get well, too!

[@africke744]

PS that blue cardigan suits you so well!

[@MargaretMoran-z5y]

Diane, thank you! Saturday a week ago, a family member was hospitalized and then sent to rehabilitation. Between visits to both places, running to the person’s house, and shopping for items, there was no time to clean my home. I didn’t worry because I’ve followed you for a while and knew my place was under control. Your inspirational videos made me feel confident. -M. M. ❤

[@weirysmissus]

🎉🎉🎉A mini-pedicure with a Nail Polish from my daughter - a present from Mothers Day!🎉🎉🎉

[@mariannehollien9181]

I love how you celebrate your friends. Sounds like Sue is a great person to have around.❤

[@patriciaclark7927]

Feel better soon! Thank you for spending time with us even when you are feeling down.

[@clarewoosley8376]

Thank you for doing this video. In spite of not feeling well. I hope you feel better very soon. I’m surprised to hear that you are afraid of water, as much as you swim. it’s great that you are facing up to your fear by taking swim lessons.

[@julieanne4727]

Going to bring out the patio furniture so we can have coffee in the morning in the sunshine. Thanks for the inspiration ❤

[@delphinehautefeuille]

Happy birthday Sue! Have a great weekend Diane!

[@pattik8335]

Apparently, I missed this video last week and thought I was watching today's video. LOL! Anyway, your comments about Sue brought tears to my eyes. Happy Birthday to Sue! What a lovely group of friends you all have. ❤

[@BC-fd8bf]

Diane, you made a comment which was really freeing for me in my cleaning/declutter journey. You said “I do these things for me.” And that’s exactly what it needs to be for me - focusing on the type of organized home environment I enjoy and not worrying too much if the rest of the household are “pulling their own weight” so to speak. Because really I quite enjoy cleaning when I get to it and am thankful my husband has a high tolerance when we dont. And when he is in the cleaning mood, he cleans sometimes too in his own way and style. So that is a good reminder that at the end of the day, I am really doing it for myself actually. :)

[@Marsolan]

Absolutely, removing unimportant items is very contagious. Many family members are picking up on that and slowly doing their part! ❤

[@moeskipalmer]

My job had a company wide volunteer day on Friday! It was so fun

[@debbieredhill]

I hope you get better soon 🤞🏽 For Camilla, for years in Spain it might have been women doing everything and men would be the ones working out. For quite a few years now it's different. In our home ( I'm 58, my husband is 65 now retired and empty nesters ) my husband usually cooks and does the shopping, we both do house chores some each of us always do, others we take in turns. When my daughter lived at home she had to take care of her room, hoover the house some days a week, not leave things everywhere, put her dirty clothes in the laundry basket, put her clothes away when they were clean, she also made and cleared up her breakfast and dinner ( the big meal is at midday here) hope that answered your question 😅. Talking about books I recommend Atomic Habits by James Clear. It reminded me of your 5 to 10 minutes timer. Happy birthday Sue! 🎉 Well done Diana!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Have a great weekend xx

[@camillafjallman6404]

Thank you for your answer. I`m just curious. I`m exactly your age, and my husband too. We also take turns in the house work. It`s just that when I watch videos in this category (I like them) I get the impression that the women does all the work in their home. Of course I respect that their family is not in the films, but I don`t often hear for example ”We take turns fixing the zink in the evening” or things like that. That is why I wonder. I hope I didn`t hurt anyones feelings, I didn`t mean to. I`m glad to hear about you and your husband. Thank you for taking time to answer!

[@debbieredhill]

@@camillafjallman6404 It certainly didn't hurt mine. So don't worry. I love knowing about people's customs and ways of living also out of curiosity and knowing other cultures and ways of life. You learn a lot. Have a great weekend xx

[@Carolyn-s6s]

Feeling poorly myself this week, not sure if it is allergies or a cold. Probably allergies as its been so windy here. Thursday evening I had an early bath and went to bed at 6:30 as I just couldn't function so I appreciate the effort it takes to make the videos when you aren't feeling well. Definitely # 1 this week, it is too cold to sit outside, maybe in June if we are lucky. Take care, hope you are feeling better soon. Enjoy the weekend.

[@pen5532]

Happy 60th, Sue!

[@susanmcdaniel9431]

❤ your constant encouragement!🎉

[@rmf4]

Finally decluttered the ensuite bathroom and powder room vanities! Another 20 mins in the garage with hubby to declutter. This has become a weekly task. Hubby is now on board as he sees the gains we make in a short time on a regular basis.

[@twizzbees]

Hi Diane! I really look forward to your videos. I always started my Saturday morning by watching your video about planning for the week. It just sets the tone for having a productive but also enjoyable weekend. And I have completely adopted the LOL method. Again, doing that first thing every morning makes me feel like I’ve started the day winning. I’d be doing self care 1,2 and hopefully 4. Everything except eating outside. I always appreciate the suggestions and have started adding them to my journal. Thank you for your encouragement and authenticity. I hope you realize all the good that you are putting out in the world. ❤

[@DennisKipp-p9f]

Hello Diane I was already doing flylady when I discovered you a few years ago. You brought it to a whole new level for me. I lost my husband of 42 + years , to a stroke suddenly on April 15 2024. I had relatives arriving within hours of his hospitalization and because of the flylady system every thing in my house, guest room etc… was company ready. He was in hospital for 5 days before he passed and I can’t tell you how much the routine helped me. I plan to use the system to go through his items as I’m up to it and I will just be kind to myself, as I navigate my new normal. Thank you. Lynette Kipp Royal Oak Michigan USA

[@Carolyn-s6s]

Sorry for your loss. Take care.

[@lynnrichards4306]

Hope you feel much better soon. Appreciate you making a video for us even when you’re not feeling well ❤

[@UpstateGrammy]

Music brings us so much joy. This past weekend I was able to travel to another state to see a bestie's grandson in Mama Mia. So much fun!🦋

[@glendaslanina9939]

Happy Friday! I always take my lunch and a book onto my patio to enjoy. I also always close my eyes for a quick nap. I love napping outside. For Mother’s Day, I always request my son to write a short letter highlighting a favorite memory of his childhood. I like this activity because he has to think a bit, write and also it increases his appreciation of his parents. And the letters make a nice collection for mom. My husband also did this activity the last few years of his mom’s life (and sadly, his own) and it’s now given us a short peek into family history that otherwise could have been lost. Enjoy your weekend.🌸

[@victoriaoliver9958]

I may have to borrow this wonderful idea! ❤

[@lynnec8509]

Hi Diane thanks so much for being there to help and support us even though your not feeling well hope your better soon sending hugs ❤

[@kristinabooker1021]

My local church does a Play and Stay, each Thursday and Friday. So I volunteer to help with one session on Friday. It's a chance to meet people (most are younger than me) have a cup of coffee and talk. There is also a bit of work to put this away and out for the next session. Really enjoy it and love Fridays because I know I will meet up with a great group of women.

[@marcemiss]

Happy birthday to Sue! You are also an inspiration for many people, Diane. Happy weekend for all!😃🥰

[@dekadhaness8987]

Hope you feel better Diane, try and get some rest. You are such an inspiration.

[@luciegallagher2710]

So this is exciting…. My son’s band are releasing their first single on Tuesday so I’ll be listening to that! The band is Purple Suns and the music is very dreamy and easy to listen to! So excited for them xxx

[@Cindys-bc1dp]

Thank you, Diane, for inspiring us even when you are not feeling well. I hope you are back “in the pink” soon. 🤗

[@Rachel-i8s]

Self tan in the hopes of warmer weather!

[@susanleadbetter8639]

I can certainly say that it is amazing what can be done in 10 minutes . I always do my 10 or 15 minutes then have a break. Can do my pamper time during my break. The timing gives me permission to not continually be doing housework and get overwhelmed. ❤

[@tarabartlett2184]

Mission #1: I took several hikes this weekend at Yosemite National Park! Good way to get my body excited for lots of movement this coming season. Mission #2: I ate some meals outside because we were camping! It was a wonderful weekend to take in nature. 🤗

[@deniseacheson1017]

I'm going to set up my deck furniture so I can start having meals and coffee outside! 🥰

[@melaniehoffman8512]

Feel better, Diane.

[@Karen-pe6oc]

I will enjoy coffee outside over the weekend. I have been listening to music that I have not heard for many years. It all comes back.

[@StacyLepert]

Feel better!❤

[@lintb6030]

Happy birthday 🎉Sue❤

[@stephaniecovey4216]

Happy birthday Sue!!

[@katsmeeooww]

I'm going to look up those books! 📚

[@snobunny406]

I did the kitchen while listening and I'm going to the orchestra tonight..alone but I'm going!

[@JudyFitch-g4f]

Hello Diane. My husband started decluttering his own clothes. I have been following you and doing Flylady. He sees that things are running more smoothly, and is now joining in on his own.

[@pamelafoster]

As always, I am truly grateful to end my work week with your Friday video. It’s such a treat ❤

[@carolcooper7128]

Thank you for the rah-rah-rags!

[@hilaryelworthy1464]

I’m in the U.K. and my husband does the cleaning with me. We share all household and gardening tasks, always have.

[@DianeinDenmark]

Thanks for sharing, Hilary!

[@brianlee1517]

Hi Diane, I’m a long time fan. I started watching to learn the Fly Lady system which I now enjoy. My photo is outdated, I’m in my 50’s. I’m loving your style and colors you’re wearing! Love T’s with blazers and cardigans. Thanks for the style inspiration! I love the balance of taking care of ourselves, our relationships and our homes that you are so talented at sharing!

[@saiburravocc]

I loved that “life savor” idea. An non-food and non-spending reward! Also planning on visiting a nursery and picking up a plant for someone who can’t get out and about for my self care. Thanks for the video Dianne!

[@ΔΕΣΠΟΙΝΑΠΑΠΑΪΩΑΝΝΟΥ-β5μ]

Good afternoon everyone!!! yes this can definitely work for me!!!!

[@Dublin1008]

Thank you Diane❤ have a nice weekend ❤

[@jodyd5786]

Hope you’re feeling better soon, Diane!

[@karena8333]

Thank you. Love your videos. ❤️

[@jacquelynkassa926]

Feel better soon Diane 💐

[@chrismckinnon878]

Fly lady REALLY does work!

[@ekirluh1073]

I love the 10 minutes , so I get started and things done. 🎉

[@emilyolsen7835]

Aiming for all 4!🎉🎉

[@SharonKBM]

I guess my husband the exception about family members starting to declutter from watching us do it. I have been decluttering and downsizing my own possessions for over 10 years and he steadfastly refuses to even consider getting rid of one thing. It is very frustrating. I choose self-care mission #1. Have a wonderful quiet weekend, Diane. Thanks for everything. ❤

[@beverlymartin1414]

Yes I understand completely- Not even a paper clip❤

[@SharonKBM]

@@beverlymartin1414I'm glad to know I'm not alone, but I'm sorry you have to deal with this, too.

[@mariehunter]

You are lovely and such a gift ❤

[@annekestaples2533]

from last week, combined 1 and 4 - went for a ramble on a local nature site (up for sale for housing - so wrong) to watch some animals in action (short-eared owls hunting; male adders 'dancing'; larks ascending; listen to the nightingales; and looking at/smelling the flowers. Mother's day has already gone over here. I not only use Flylady zones in the house but have divided my garden into 5 zones too which works well although I sometimes have to dodge the rain!!! This week will try to do all the challenges except #2, I loathe eating outdoors but if it stops raining long enough will definitely take my coffee out into the garden and listen to the sparrows squabbling. as always, thanks for the inspiration and the boot up the bahookie on occasions.

[@traceybaldwinson6095]

Feel better soon.2 & 3

[@s.r.8930]

Thank you, my LOL is done, my essentiell evening routine too. Now I have a bubble bath. Greetings Simone from Germany ❤

[@everystitchaprayer6268]

Yes to doing your own decluttering and the others may follow! After a huge closet declutter years ago I suddenly noticed my husband doing his own side with no prompting!

[@sabinek.6927]

Finished my afternoon routine and take a break now 😊 and who is here ... Diane ❤ Have a nice weekend

[@michelleh2934]

I am a beginner and have a very cluttered house. In just a few years we will be empty nesters and I want to get everything clean, organized and decluttered. I am very overwhelmed. Do you have suggestions about where to start?

[@patdennis2586]

Start by removing any trash/recycle from the most visible area seen by guests upon entering your home. Then remove any items that are obvious donations. Next return any items that belong elsewhere in your home.

[@deenathevegan5171]

Also, place like items together to make it easier to find things and determine what things to donate/recycle. Do small chunks at a time to prevent burnout.

[@MichelleShuttleworth]

Thank you for the book recommendation for a couple of weeks back. I've recently listened to the first two books of JM Hall and I really enjoyed the reader's voice. It lets me travel all the way back to the Lake District where my Nanna and Grandad used to live. They passed in 2007 and 2015 respectively. The characters remind me so much of my Nanna and her friends. It's so lovely to reminisce. Thank you for that.

[@virgierutledge3004]

I was overwhelmed and depressed until I watched Flylady who said put your shoes on and clean your sink. That was the beginning of a wonderful systematic way to live. And love your vids.

[@TinaKing1234]

I'm listening to you as I eat my lunch outside. Taking my meals outside is one of my favorite things when the weather allows.

[@14MellyJo]

Thank you Diane 😊 This week I’ll be doing self care mission 1 and also spreading some kindness 🥰

[@robrinaw8234]

I’ll plan my day to enjoy breakfast outside after my morning routine and lunch outside if I can swing it. Thank you for being you!

[@audreysutherland4739]

Hi Diane, I took my breakfast outside this morning. Sun is shining in Glasgow. Great blog as always x

[@Rachel-openmindsandsofthearts]

I’m with Jen on this self care of doing the morning wordle and sharing with family. Also ticking off number one in self care as I’m watching your video while at the gym ❤❤❤

[@mandyadams918]

Hi Diane. Have had a face pack on tonight and treated my hands to some nourishment - lovely hand cream. 14:46

[@sandyh8755]

Diane, I hope you know how much you motivate us. On Monday, I decluttered about a dozen items from my closet. Rah! Rah! Rah!

[@aud939]

Put on an lol, emptied the dishwasher and made the beds while listening to your video. Have been inspired by you to read more. On my 7th book so far this year. I haven’t read that many books in a year since university! Thank you for your inspiration not only with cleaning & decluttering but also taking the time to do things for myself!

[@heartquaked]

Thanks Diane!

[@zaramasterton2684]

Fabulous inspirational video Diane. Thank you.

[@alisongregson4740]

Pedicure is done as a spring treat! Enjoying Toronto with my son this week and went to see Niagara Falls for the first time! A cold water experience in a different way! So, a whole week of self care really! Back home on Sunday night with routines beginning again Monday morning. Finished "Of Manners and Murder" which I enjoyed! Have a great weekend!

[@wendiweberpal9741]

Happy Friday!

[@amandaparadis5069]

Have a wonderful quiet weekend

[@wendykoursaris8539]

Hope you’re feeling better soon Diane. I love taking my coffee outside of a morning even though it’s only around 5c if the sun is shining it’s wonderful. Have a lovely relaxing weekend. Cheers Wendy 🇦🇺🏡

[@janebradfield2373]

You are always an inspiration Diane, happy weekend ❤😊

[@marie.018]

I hope you feel better soon ❤

[@janetmcgee4525]

Option #2 sounds good to me...eating or drinking outside for at least one meal or break.

[@SuzanneSh1967]

It may be warm enough for sandles this week, so I will do some extra self care on my feet to get them ready. Hope you feel better soon. I appreciate you keeping your commitment to us even when you aren't feeling your best. Take care.

[@catherinelemaster3883]

Enjoyed your video! I had lunch today, outside in the sun and donated clothing yesterday to the church. ❤

[@sarahslan4548]

Coming back to comment. I decided to do an act of kindness: I went to the yoga centre I attend weekly and offered to care for the plants because they were looking a bit poorly. I also chose to focus on foot care, even though the weather here in 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 is far from springlike!

[@nancyelizabeth8364]

I love doing the zones as I love decluttering and organizing my hubby does the bigger daily blessing clean bathroom vacuum wash floors I never do I do laundry and dishwasher lol

[@andrea7332]

Thanks again Diane. ❤