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Simply Nikki

Simply Nikki

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@nikkithot
@nikkithot 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are the sweetest! I'm reading all your comments and your stories and I too am proud of YOU for choosing your happiness. It's not an easy thing to do at all, it takes so much courage and strength and you're amazing. That is all. Love you! x
@KQK...123
@KQK...123 4 жыл бұрын
Wishing everyone the best sending love from the USA.
@VictoriaAjadi
@VictoriaAjadi 4 жыл бұрын
💕💕
@millicent2232
@millicent2232 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Nikki, you are a strong elegant woman, you will rise above just like the Phoenix bird and soar high like a Eagle. You are enough and evoling with God's grace. Much love to you ❤!
@chocolatelover4970
@chocolatelover4970 4 жыл бұрын
Everything your Dad said is true and believe it . His so sweet . And I think you are his fave😄
@millicent2232
@millicent2232 4 жыл бұрын
Nikki .....I just want to share this inspirational song 🎵 with you by Tisha Campbell that helped me get through. as you will as well with time and self-love and support. It took Tisha 22 Summers to get through, it took me 23 Summers to get through. You will get through this time! 🙏🏽🦋 kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4jbnpyKr9yfhJI
@nikkithot
@nikkithot 4 жыл бұрын
Just a couple notes. 1. I'm not saying to not fight for your marriage. I absolutely say fight for your marriage IF you truly believe it can work. 2. I know God doesn't like divorce but I also know he loves us too much to leave us in unhappy situations. I don't see my dream/vision as a bad thing because it was in a 'dark room'. I think it was purposely brought to me in that way so I could see the bigger picture. You see, I thought I was alone and depressed in this room but really I was next to my babies and just reflecting. It gave me comfort that I was going to be okay and it was all part of the plan. I'm sure there's more to the vision...but find out on the next episode of Dragon Ball Z...lmao I'm tired. Goodnight lovelies! xx
@mimiadej5798
@mimiadej5798 4 жыл бұрын
Nikki you are absolutely amazing and strong🌸 happy mama raise happy children hun👏🏾👏🏾
@k.b.8994
@k.b.8994 4 жыл бұрын
Comfort...
@sashagalemcfarlane3320
@sashagalemcfarlane3320 4 жыл бұрын
I love you girl! God bless you
@luvmycaleb
@luvmycaleb 4 жыл бұрын
Goodnight Nikki.
@suvachatomar
@suvachatomar 4 жыл бұрын
I actually saw you, Jaime and Ava at a park once like 3 years ago. I didn’t want to go up to you and disturb you but there was definitely some tension or just not good energy that I remember feeling when I saw you guys and it really stuck with me because it was so different to how I saw you guys on the vlogs. But now as I’m watching you I genuinely think you look happy and I’m so glad to see your family supporting you too. 💕💕
@Msmabintistar
@Msmabintistar 4 жыл бұрын
The way how her dad SHOWERED her with compliments of love just warms my heart.
@scrubbingoffinternet5221
@scrubbingoffinternet5221 4 жыл бұрын
A loving and powerful father
@logitech235
@logitech235 4 жыл бұрын
Haja Mabinti yes! It was the sweetest moment! ❤️
@tequilasmith5510
@tequilasmith5510 4 жыл бұрын
She is telling the truth. Most of the time what we want isn’t what we need. And God knows what we need.
@ArtfullMotherhood
@ArtfullMotherhood 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@kingchelsea8
@kingchelsea8 4 жыл бұрын
I miss my ex so much. I loved him so deeply. This comment is hitting me
@user-mp8qn1kt5t
@user-mp8qn1kt5t 4 жыл бұрын
Yes very true an it’s hard to open our eyes
@hazzaboy001
@hazzaboy001 4 жыл бұрын
Truth👌🏼👌🏼
@lbee8247
@lbee8247 4 жыл бұрын
@@everythingjaci why do you assume her ex was abusive?
@jer1230
@jer1230 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I cried at the whole vlog part - Nikki in the car after her dad was praising/uplifting her (he’s so sweet and cute), and the way Zoe kept saying Happy Mother’s Day over and over... and Nikki being back in the house where Jamie is, and just seeing his feet .. knowing he’s no longer fully in the picture... all the feels! I love this, thanks for opening up Nikki, you are doing your best and your best is more than good enough. God bless
@familybills2908
@familybills2908 4 жыл бұрын
Heidi Flyest I thought the same thing.
@DanTemmy
@DanTemmy 4 жыл бұрын
Me too!😭😭
@twi2415
@twi2415 4 жыл бұрын
Yes true!! It was also emotional when Ava gave her the drawing she made and she said it’s dad , you and Zoe !!
@irenedavo3768
@irenedavo3768 4 жыл бұрын
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@brooklynforever1990
@brooklynforever1990 4 жыл бұрын
People are easily impressed by “marriage” but never seem to care about if the union is healthy or not. You did what was right for your emotional and mental health. Proud of you!
@aboutbusinessknowledge5675
@aboutbusinessknowledge5675 4 жыл бұрын
@Broiklynforever1990, very good observation and point.
@zen_mindset1
@zen_mindset1 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@everlynekitavi8131
@everlynekitavi8131 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@KM7661
@KM7661 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, very well said.
@romiche3207
@romiche3207 4 жыл бұрын
Well she was showing on KZbin that they were happy lol
@GRACEFS1
@GRACEFS1 4 жыл бұрын
I think her dad loving on her and blessing her so much was the added strength she needed to go through that day, because visiting the house must have been very hard on Nikki. So amazing, love and light to you and your family
@perfectlypauline
@perfectlypauline 4 жыл бұрын
“I know the plans I have for you”, declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. “X
@bloomingwithdee
@bloomingwithdee 4 жыл бұрын
Jeremiah 29:11 💓💓
@astheticlemon5312
@astheticlemon5312 4 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!!🙏🏽🤍✝️
@annmariewest9989
@annmariewest9989 4 жыл бұрын
Amen... Alleluia
@Freddylove23
@Freddylove23 4 жыл бұрын
Preach sis🙏🏾
@pjdoll3852
@pjdoll3852 4 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!! 🙏
@mthom1106
@mthom1106 4 жыл бұрын
“Chose yourself, and chose happiness” “it is not selfish to choose you” Man sooooo many words of wisdom!!!! Love you Nikki!!! 💞💞
@nikkithot
@nikkithot 4 жыл бұрын
Love you! xx
@yenzisibandze6879
@yenzisibandze6879 4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙌🏽❣💯
@larenalomen8852
@larenalomen8852 4 жыл бұрын
“Chose yourself, and chose happiness”
@mthom1106
@mthom1106 4 жыл бұрын
Simply Nikki 💞💞💞💞
@Sheisnyale
@Sheisnyale 4 жыл бұрын
True I I like it and I agree.
@raeniecethemakeupartist491
@raeniecethemakeupartist491 4 жыл бұрын
The part with her father was so TOUCHING! The way he welcomed and reasssured her was a blessing....It was almost as if He was used as God's voice to say what she needed to hear❤
@Xxmilkshake202xX
@Xxmilkshake202xX 4 жыл бұрын
I heard Sophia Bush say “I do not need to set myself on fire to keep other people warm” and that has always stuck with me.
@betselottiruneh2690
@betselottiruneh2690 4 жыл бұрын
🙌🙌🙌 now this is stuck with me
@ObaaYaaPapabaii
@ObaaYaaPapabaii 4 жыл бұрын
I love this 😍
@Tmaxr
@Tmaxr 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, that's a great one 👏🏼
@Vitaluv
@Vitaluv 4 жыл бұрын
One Tree Hill Sophia Bush? Oh, wow. She better drop that knowledge.
@NaturalisticCutie
@NaturalisticCutie 4 жыл бұрын
Love it 😍
@nathaliedupey3343
@nathaliedupey3343 4 жыл бұрын
You are incredibly strong. We as women tend to put our happiness last. I stayed in a bad relationship for 11 years and when I had enough I walked away. 2 of my 3 boys are his and his words to me was I would never find a man that wants me with 3 kids. 5 years later the right man cane into my life and married me with my 3 boys and he loves them as his own. We’ve been married for 1 year 6 months and going strong. Stay close to God, take great care of yourself and your girls and God will handle the rest.❤️❤️
@princess373357
@princess373357 3 жыл бұрын
Amen. I proud of you. I am happier being single from my past relationship. I am more at peace.
@thalia5558
@thalia5558 4 жыл бұрын
No one should ever tell a woman to go back to a relationship that they don’t want to be in anymore because you never know what happens behind closed doors, marriage is hard and there are situations that some women will never tolerate, please continue doing what’s best for you and your girls😍
@TheCupidoClan
@TheCupidoClan 4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@sonjadilan777
@sonjadilan777 4 жыл бұрын
Right! With all the respect, but she showed a perfect happy marriage and all of the sudden everything is gone! For me I was going through a very hard time and the Jamie and Nikki blog was giving me so much hope, so if there are others like me I get why ppl want to know more. Nikki was like a role model, her story breaked my heart and now, I feel a little bit trapped! I only excuse her, because she's a African sister!
@moniquemontgomery3335
@moniquemontgomery3335 4 жыл бұрын
sonjadilan777 it is still not your business. Neither her or Jamie owe us an explanation. She is evidently happier and has even blossomed and showed more of her personality which is all we should wish her which is happiness and accomplishing her dreams
@sonjadilan777
@sonjadilan777 4 жыл бұрын
@@moniquemontgomery3335 I get it and still support her, I just don't like liars!
@karenmcgee1869
@karenmcgee1869 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@Syddd_j
@Syddd_j 4 жыл бұрын
The way you address this situation is sooo mature, strong and powerful. You deserve so much happiness and peace in the season and I am glad you are finally able to fully feel that. Thank you for reminding me that Gods plans are always better
@SSRIs
@SSRIs 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. She’s so classy & mature. Her transparency, openness & honesty is so refreshing ✨ How can you not adore & admire her ❤️
@katshudson6398
@katshudson6398 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@TxHoneyBee
@TxHoneyBee 4 жыл бұрын
People never ask men those questions, like expecting them to sacrifice their peace and happiness for others or their families. These questions are always thrown at women.
@annholl1603
@annholl1603 4 жыл бұрын
Patriarchy is hell😰
@Danielle_4.
@Danielle_4. 4 жыл бұрын
Plus if he'd sacrifice for those he values and loves, you wouldn't have to ask him if we would. It would be made painfully clear by his actions and intentions.
@jesusisapisces
@jesusisapisces 4 жыл бұрын
The most frustrating thing is that this expectancy is often reinforced by other women. It's the ultimate betrayal.
@leewhitaker538
@leewhitaker538 4 жыл бұрын
~ Men definitely get dragged for leaving a woman.
@CR-ce5lf
@CR-ce5lf 4 жыл бұрын
HELLO!!!!!!!! So many people think women are supposed to stay with a person even though they’re unhappy, women are supposed to “do the right thing” and fight for their relationships even when the other person in the relationship isn’t! We have to choose our own happiness!! Life is too short to be stuck in a miserable situation
@esterjallow6787
@esterjallow6787 4 жыл бұрын
Did you guys notice the way nikki’s dad spoke to her?! That is pure love.❤️❤️ A woman like Nikki truly knows her worth.
@Certifiedhellfire
@Certifiedhellfire 4 жыл бұрын
I love how her dad was complimenting her the entire time. Thats a strong family
@elizabethletsoso2558
@elizabethletsoso2558 4 жыл бұрын
Love that too
@nonyenelson3898
@nonyenelson3898 4 жыл бұрын
He was trying to uplift her😔. For some reason it made me sad. That and Zoe saying happy Mother’s Day
@allbyhisgrace8925
@allbyhisgrace8925 Жыл бұрын
"HI JAMIE" - No response?seriously couldn't just say a hello? Anyway, the right time I know Nikki will meet the right man ,made for her ,with a marriage from heaven.I know her daddy and mommy are interceding for her, she will come out of this stronger, better and happier in Jesus name Amen.
@paulamajesty2627
@paulamajesty2627 4 жыл бұрын
"It is not selfish to chose you" - a word . So many women hide their abuse and when they finally find the courage to leave they are faced with such judgement and its a shame...
@nikipersia
@nikipersia 4 жыл бұрын
being a child of divorce my grandmother used to tell me "My dear remember no woman ever flees from hapiness and well being of herself and her child"
@alfonsinakay333
@alfonsinakay333 4 жыл бұрын
Wise grandma! Oh, I needed this word. Thank you.
@storytime.thatreallyhappen690
@storytime.thatreallyhappen690 4 жыл бұрын
I know right. That is something I always say. Women love security and affection. Even when there is no money, we still love if the guy is caring and makes us feel secure. That is how God made us. Thx. For sharing.
@irenedavo3768
@irenedavo3768 4 жыл бұрын
Foodz Recipes please watch videos of Jim Nduruchi
@nikipersia
@nikipersia 4 жыл бұрын
@@alfonsinakay333 💖
@nikipersia
@nikipersia 4 жыл бұрын
@@storytime.thatreallyhappen690 💖
@craftymom2356
@craftymom2356 4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree, I was married for 25 years and I thought about the same thing for my two sons and the choice I made was for the love of them, I refused to stay in a marriage for them so I chose happiness for me so I could continue to be the wonderful mom I know I am. they are now 24, and 28 and this month will be 11 yrs as a single mom and I am very happy I know they love me but they must really like me too because they are still both at home with me lol. Thanks for sharing your story Nikki!
@nikkiwilliam3973
@nikkiwilliam3973 2 жыл бұрын
25 years is a very long time. You made a great choice
@cj3726
@cj3726 2 жыл бұрын
The same here 23yrs my ex was not acting right. One daughter was college out of state and my other daughter was in college in the city . Doing much better . Now both daughters doing so good ( Both are married with children. One is a Teacher and the other is a Pharmacist
@riaramcharitar6818
@riaramcharitar6818 4 жыл бұрын
So emotional when Ava included her dad on the mother's day card. Definitely a tough day for both parents I'm sure.
@ktibers5776
@ktibers5776 4 жыл бұрын
that part made me tear up. 😭
@LifeJourneyful
@LifeJourneyful 4 жыл бұрын
i cried...that baby is holding out HOPE
@SSRIs
@SSRIs 4 жыл бұрын
No. Think positively & be optimistic. Nikki chose happiness therefore she, her children & family are happy & surrounded by love
@notdatwoo
@notdatwoo 4 жыл бұрын
@@SSRIs comments like these are so dismissive. delete this lol
@SSRIs
@SSRIs 4 жыл бұрын
8upernova girl shut up & dismiss yourself
@AnzaTshilidzi
@AnzaTshilidzi 4 жыл бұрын
The excitement on Nikki's dad face and his message of how Nikki is a great mom, that was the sweetest 💕
@trestarichardson406
@trestarichardson406 4 жыл бұрын
I don't get when people are telling her that maybe she should go back! What! Maybe SOME FOLKS should mind their business! Just sit back and LISTEN to what she has to say. I get where she is coming from. Twenty years for me, I have dealt with a relationship that has almost dimishished me.
@SO01j20
@SO01j20 4 жыл бұрын
Why would you stay were you are not happy ?
@Princess-sk6kc
@Princess-sk6kc 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in a relationship that drains my soul for 5 years 😪 I really wish I had Nikki’s strength and courage
@UXDA_Official
@UXDA_Official 4 жыл бұрын
Flower Basket Take this video as the sign you were waiting for
@beelarehman5992
@beelarehman5992 4 жыл бұрын
You wont stay diminished I promise you
@beelarehman5992
@beelarehman5992 4 жыл бұрын
@@Princess-sk6kc you do and you will when the time is right
@joyariffic4217
@joyariffic4217 4 жыл бұрын
Life hit different when you let go of a toxic relationship. I know that your spirit feels so free. I know that feeling from leaving relationships, jobs, etc
@nadine8764
@nadine8764 4 жыл бұрын
If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive and not worth it at all.
@nrsimmons178
@nrsimmons178 4 жыл бұрын
That part! ♡
@brooklynforever1990
@brooklynforever1990 4 жыл бұрын
New motto
@martinatoney5089
@martinatoney5089 4 жыл бұрын
You did very well
@ellebish1454
@ellebish1454 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@manisymone8622
@manisymone8622 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! Yes and Amen
@tildalordamanavailablevess6061
@tildalordamanavailablevess6061 4 жыл бұрын
The maturity about how you handle your divorce is on another level . I'm also in the space I will choose me over and over again.
@tastydeliciousbyyvonne8444
@tastydeliciousbyyvonne8444 4 жыл бұрын
My heart sunk when I saw Jamie’s feet in the background 🤦🏻‍♀️ I wish things could have been different...
@susantidwal8660
@susantidwal8660 4 жыл бұрын
@@tastydeliciousbyyvonne8444 like watchful hawk🙄.. The love is gone, he's still mad at her for shading him since the split, he has revealed his 2 personalitys, his spunkness toward everyone else but her
@207purple
@207purple 4 жыл бұрын
When a woman decides to go.. she’s gone! Nothing can bring her back.
@merciamiranda2839
@merciamiranda2839 4 жыл бұрын
207purple so true!
@Mygirllifestyle
@Mygirllifestyle 4 жыл бұрын
Yes girl, nothing.
@jessibuck98
@jessibuck98 4 жыл бұрын
I suppose I’m a man then because I can never stick to my decision 😢😭
@chiaraippoliti
@chiaraippoliti 4 жыл бұрын
jbucks Because you need to love yourself more and realize your worth. I did the same and wasted a total of 20 years in a span of 2 relationships. This is the only life you have. Learn how to be single, work on yourself, and heal before your next relationship. Consider getting counseling as well. May you heal and get stronger.🌺❤️
@hjohnson6346
@hjohnson6346 4 жыл бұрын
@@chiaraippoliti 💜 💯
@craftymalaika8167
@craftymalaika8167 4 жыл бұрын
zoé repeating Happy Mother's day and hugging her mom, just melted my heart...
@bmelamusic
@bmelamusic 4 жыл бұрын
KZbin will have people thinking they are the third person in your marriage. Society will have women thinking that living in misery is happiness. The real tea is that God has set a path for everyone and you have to be open to hearing it. What he will say is not always what man says, in fact what God says is usually the opposite of what man says. As individuals, we have to find peace within ourselves to know that we are making the right decisions for our very different paths. We are not monolithic.
@astrianarosario1958
@astrianarosario1958 4 жыл бұрын
Well said 👌👌
@brittanysbreakthrough9639
@brittanysbreakthrough9639 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏾
@thickbarbie8
@thickbarbie8 4 жыл бұрын
Very well said
@rsimon2088
@rsimon2088 4 жыл бұрын
You said it perfectly!
@VirgoRushTv
@VirgoRushTv 4 жыл бұрын
Word! Can't say it any better👌 God bless you 🙏
@Szzzzx
@Szzzzx 4 жыл бұрын
I would love to share this quote that touched me a lot: "Do you want to feel the pain of staying where you are, or do you want to feel the pain of growth?"
@annettekerubo6581
@annettekerubo6581 4 жыл бұрын
Growth sis
@Roseyyyyyyyyyyyyy
@Roseyyyyyyyyyyyyy 4 жыл бұрын
Wow 😳💕
@copykat514
@copykat514 4 жыл бұрын
🌿🕊✨🙌🏾
@Sami-davis
@Sami-davis 4 жыл бұрын
I know this was for Nikki but I'm also thanking you for this 🤗
@leam7018
@leam7018 4 жыл бұрын
Who else, besides me, shed a little tear when they saw Jamie in the background and when Ava gave Nikki her card with the drawing of the whole family that included Jamie? You're right Nikki, we as viewers have no idea what went on when the cameras went off. I'm one of those viewers that always wanted your family to stay together, but you have to do what is best for you and the girls. Only God knows where He is taking you on this journey we call life. We just have to obey, even if that means that what we had planned for our own lives doesn't match with what He has for us. Stay strong. You're gonna be fine 💖
@rachelnan6875
@rachelnan6875 4 жыл бұрын
I didn't shed a tear when Jamie was in the background. I shed a tear when Nikki was speaking about the vision she had and the comfort she has in knowing God is with her and she'll be alright. That was inspiring for me.
@hazelbrown1098
@hazelbrown1098 4 жыл бұрын
Me, I Felt the sadness as Jamie was standing back quietly looking, to much.
@sheyennemcghee662
@sheyennemcghee662 4 жыл бұрын
When she just said “Hi Jamie” it gave me chills
@Rchelle_YAHsdaughter
@Rchelle_YAHsdaughter 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss, I feel you. I was almost in tears listening to Nikki talk, because everything she was saying sounded so familiar....except the vision. Now, that is powerful. But also, it did hit me hard to see Jamie lurking in the back because it reminded me of ex. Looking in regret, wishing they could get one more chance and do the right thing. But, the problem is, when a woman is fed up, she is fed up and there's nothing that man can do about it- except maybe sincerely pray if he truly knows the Most High GOD. When a woman is fed up, that means she has tried and tried to do everything in her power to make it work. Men don't get it and they think she will always be there. They take us for granted. When we get to the point of leaving, then, it is already too late. That is the end. Sadly, that's just the way it is. So, for Nikki to be able to set foot back in there, that was a huge step in her healing. My heart hurts for Jamie.... One thing all of us who are believers know is that GOD does everything in His own timing, He is a healer and He resurrects the dead. Who knows? If we are not unevenly yoked, and our our spouse knows Him He can resurrect a dead marriage. He hates divorce. So, it could be possible in the future. Or not. And that sounds like where Nikki is now. Her peace and happiness is a gift from the Most High after all of that. So, no, I am definitely NOT telling Nikki to go back. I just know how our Abba Father works. I have seen so many testiminies. One woman had a very powerful story. For years she put up with womanizing, drinking, prison stints. When she accepted Yahshua as her Savior she began praying and asking GOD for a new husband. She wanted nothing to do with the one she had. She felt nothing for him. This is where I know GOD has a sense of humor. The whole time she was asking for a new husband the Most High had begun to work on her husband. He literally became a new man in Yahshua the Christ. That was not her prayer, but that was GOD's answer and plan for her. I always think about that story....it was amazing So, yes, GOD can raise dead marriages. But He can also bless us and lead us to where we are meant to be. Anyway, I pray nothing but the very best for Nikki, she deserves it., For Jamie as well, because we do not know their story. And for their beautiful, sweet, adorable children. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💕💕💕
@leam7018
@leam7018 4 жыл бұрын
@@Rchelle_YAHsdaughter Amen!!! 🙏
@gen_x_diva9869
@gen_x_diva9869 4 жыл бұрын
I love this video. I have a 27 year old daughter who is going through a divorce. She and my granddaughter moved into her first home on her own. I marvel and her strengths. I am so proud of her and I will mention your channel to her. She needs to hear from other young women beginning a new chapter.
@iamrachael4083
@iamrachael4083 4 жыл бұрын
Your Dad is everything. A Father’s love.
@PeachesCourage
@PeachesCourage 4 жыл бұрын
he is at least so human and seems so sweet you know wish my Dad were like that too
@Just-YOLANDA-T.C
@Just-YOLANDA-T.C 4 жыл бұрын
Daddy's always seem to know what to say and at the right time.
@ShebrewQueen
@ShebrewQueen 4 жыл бұрын
@Magdalia 🙄
@hanaayr
@hanaayr 4 жыл бұрын
Isn't he the best!!! So sweet!
@irenedavo3768
@irenedavo3768 4 жыл бұрын
IamRachael I have questions
@tsjam8751
@tsjam8751 4 жыл бұрын
the way her father showered her with so much love and praise is too die for omggg
@monicaturner02
@monicaturner02 4 жыл бұрын
“It’s not selfish to choose you. And it’s not selfish to choose happiness.”
@gislaineaugustin522
@gislaineaugustin522 4 жыл бұрын
Am getting goosebumbs listening to you and I really admire you.
@MissAki1
@MissAki1 4 жыл бұрын
I agree but when you're married we have to remember the word of God which says love is not selfish...
@MissAki1
@MissAki1 4 жыл бұрын
This comment is in general. We don't know her story and some relationships just aren't healthy.
@monicaturner02
@monicaturner02 4 жыл бұрын
MissAki1 the word of God intends for us to have JOY, something no one can take away from us; a different level of happiness that’s in us
@monicaturner02
@monicaturner02 4 жыл бұрын
MissAki1 that part ❣️
@msnisha2009
@msnisha2009 4 жыл бұрын
This is a message! God plants things in our hearts and reveals their meaning in his time. Beautiful testimony!
@noakagawar4273
@noakagawar4273 4 жыл бұрын
Can we talk about her dad THE CUTEST MAN 😩😩 he deserves the whole world!!!!! blesss himmmmmmmmmmmm
@nikkithot
@nikkithot 4 жыл бұрын
He's honestly the cutest!! love him so much 😩❤️
@TokunboLatonaTV
@TokunboLatonaTV 4 жыл бұрын
Simply Nikki Love you Nikki, so much ❤️
@anonnona6433
@anonnona6433 4 жыл бұрын
Father's love🥰❤❤❤
@1975pershing
@1975pershing 4 жыл бұрын
And l can see all of them, the brothers and sisters, nieces, nephews, all in him. It's awesome! Stay up Nikki. I'm just gonna say follow your heart, cause you have to be content also. I hope everything works out for you, and Jamie also. I can tell both of you are good people. God Bless You.
@isham-y7k
@isham-y7k 4 жыл бұрын
@@nikkithot awww man ..this line just makes me cry 😥♥️
@dogood6848
@dogood6848 4 жыл бұрын
A wife will never leave a happy home. Therefore when a woman takes her babies and leave trust me she was unhappy.
@debrajenkins5390
@debrajenkins5390 4 жыл бұрын
The Lord was saying you are not alone, I am always with you.
@itgirl7132
@itgirl7132 4 жыл бұрын
Zee Villa wisdom!
@twincherry4958
@twincherry4958 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Have to get past a woman's breaking point for her to leave.
@Miracle-ms9hu
@Miracle-ms9hu 4 жыл бұрын
So very true! As a mother, I understand completely. It would have taken her so much to leave, so much! I'm not saying Jamie is a bad person, he may have just not loved her the way she needed to be loved. They'll both find the right person to balance them out. 💛
@psalm57lady
@psalm57lady 4 жыл бұрын
I thought her husband had custodial custody and Nikki had visitation rights.
@TheWhizzle389
@TheWhizzle389 4 жыл бұрын
I don't usually comment, but I remember when all this first happened and seeing those comments under your pictures and videos and being furious at those people telling you to go back, when they had ZERO clue about the situation. As a child of divorce, I had a childhood where I witnessed a lot of unhappiness (and violence and abuse). When my parents finally divorced when I was 13 I could finally breathe again. I got to witness my mother being happy again. And that helped in my healing from my childhood. Kids are resilient, and they will always benefit from having happy single parents versus unhappy together parents. The right decision for you is the right decision for your children. Enjoy this journey and love your children. That will always be enough. Love from NYC!
@nikkithot
@nikkithot 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. Thanks for sharing! This gives me hope xx
@sammyj2428
@sammyj2428 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone encourages women to “stay for the kids” but fail to realize how much a toxic partnership can be so hurtful to children. I was a highly intuitive child and even when my parents tried to put on a front for us, I could always feel that something wasn’t right. I would pray for them to divorce so that they could both escape a sinking ship without drowning and when they did I was so grateful. Kids are way smarter than people think.
@ronneisemunoz7374
@ronneisemunoz7374 4 жыл бұрын
Sis same, sometimes getting out is best ♥️♥️♥️
@Acentra277
@Acentra277 4 жыл бұрын
@@sammyj2428 Divorce is also hard on the kids though. So it's about picking the lesser of two evils based on each couples personal situation. Sometimes it's divorce and sometimes it's staying together. It all depends on the individuals.
@zen_mindset1
@zen_mindset1 4 жыл бұрын
This was well said. 👌🏼
@nomzamomzamo1760
@nomzamomzamo1760 4 жыл бұрын
Your father's re-affirmations were my favourite thing (apart from the cute "Happy Mother's Day" wishes😍😭❤️). We certainly need more men like your father, he told you not just what HE wanted or thought you would like but WHAT HE KNEW YOU NEEDED TO HEAR. What a King, stay blessed ❤️
@totalwomanja9105
@totalwomanja9105 4 жыл бұрын
Nikki's dad with the priceless compliments. Dads like him make the world a better place.
@Rancifersisters
@Rancifersisters 4 жыл бұрын
Zoe saying Happy Mother’s Day over and over just melted my heart. The innocence of that age is the best.
@2petka22
@2petka22 4 жыл бұрын
It made me cry
@lachandashawna1003
@lachandashawna1003 4 жыл бұрын
A much needed overload of cuteness.
@rhodataylor67
@rhodataylor67 4 жыл бұрын
A Friend in God:As woman a time come in our marriiage we have we all have been tested & if we all walked away in that time there would be marriage,we can not all say who gona treat us better.our partner are till grownig &God bring us closer to him to strenghen out spouses to hsve that relationship he need to guide his family.Can we say is to had for with prayer.We have to all wa
@flowerarsh8983
@flowerarsh8983 4 жыл бұрын
That was so sweet!
@AshantiQueen
@AshantiQueen 4 жыл бұрын
It’s so good to hear an African parent shower you with love. Not only by action but with the word “Love” as well. That was so emotional. I miss my dad. Best dad of the year award goes to Nikki’s father🥇
@DanTemmy
@DanTemmy 4 жыл бұрын
I hear you...I don't think I remember when mine said anything nice...they pray for me sha...I guess that's part of it
@irenedavo3768
@irenedavo3768 4 жыл бұрын
AshantiQueen please Subscribe to Jim Nduruchi 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
@user-xw4dx6vm4x
@user-xw4dx6vm4x 4 жыл бұрын
sam
@rocketfaith1494
@rocketfaith1494 3 жыл бұрын
@@DanTemmy 0
@CoCoAdREam22
@CoCoAdREam22 3 жыл бұрын
For a newly divorced mom of 2 young children to say that she has never been happier and felt more at peace being in separation from her partner means that she was disturbed beyond what any of us could ever have imagined. REMEMBER, it takes just as much courage and GRIT to leave as it does to stay, so accept her life choice to pursue happiness, and continue to cheer her on. We love you. ❤️
@wolfemme430
@wolfemme430 3 жыл бұрын
This! No woman is going to leave her peaceful marriage for no reason
@eunicetawiah5672
@eunicetawiah5672 4 жыл бұрын
The safest place to be is in the will of God. No matter what that looks like!
@mabongiegc8410
@mabongiegc8410 4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@rsimon2088
@rsimon2088 4 жыл бұрын
Preach!
@sophiemtetwa8671
@sophiemtetwa8671 4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agreed with this comment
@AngelasTravelAdventures
@AngelasTravelAdventures 4 жыл бұрын
Yep!
@smileyrulesinthe818
@smileyrulesinthe818 4 жыл бұрын
Agree but God’s will will never be divorce. I think that vision was of the Devil not God!!!!
@nine110
@nine110 4 жыл бұрын
They say...”When you’re busy making plans, God laughs.” I’ve had these visions about things in my life and they come full circle when you truly open your eyes to the world around you. My motto. “It’s not a crime being single, it’s dangerous to be desperate.” I won’t settle. I raised the bar on my life and if it means I’m single, I’m good. Happiness looks good on you!!
@dencydanedelacruz4018
@dencydanedelacruz4018 4 жыл бұрын
Aside Nikki's Dad being the sweetest, my eyes welled up seeing how excited Louis was when they opened the door for her.. 💛
@angelpilot9081
@angelpilot9081 4 жыл бұрын
I had been wondering where he was didn't see him in ages. This is really a difficult situation but they'll all be fine with time. Life goes on and they're doing well being peaceful and kind to one another
@morganlucas9062
@morganlucas9062 4 жыл бұрын
Something about Zoe telling her mom 'Happy Mother's Day'...and hugging her....makes my heart just ache....
@amandacilo6598
@amandacilo6598 4 жыл бұрын
Urgh when Zoe kept saying “Happy mothers Day mommy” with that cute little voice my heart melted🥺❤️
@beckyrollins8966
@beckyrollins8966 4 жыл бұрын
I just had to pause. It was so sweet it Made me cry! And then to see Jamie in the background.... 😕
@amandacilo6598
@amandacilo6598 4 жыл бұрын
Becky Rollins I’m just glad the co-parenting is working out for them! I think we’re just the ones still feeling awkward on their behalf
@amandacilo6598
@amandacilo6598 4 жыл бұрын
RA I think you’re right cause I definitely didn’t hear a response 🙇🏽‍♀️
@TheCupidoClan
@TheCupidoClan 4 жыл бұрын
☺️☺️☺️
@nikkithot
@nikkithot 4 жыл бұрын
SAMEEEE 😩
@NJ-jj2hw
@NJ-jj2hw 4 жыл бұрын
They always tell the woman to go back, but never the man. Nikki you made the right choice. Growing up and seeing my parents fight and seeing the way my dad treated my mom was damaging. I used to pray for my mom to have the strength to leave and truly be happy.
@serenityjohnson7528
@serenityjohnson7528 4 жыл бұрын
Hey I just wanted to know if you or anyone knew what happened.I really wish she would just say what happened if there's no "bad guy" why is the story a secret they had millions of followers and they separated for her to sit down and do makeup? Is it that she didn't really want to be married?Or she didn't love him "like that" but said yes cause the proposal was so big? I don't think Jamie is "abusive." I mean whats the deal? No one just decides to divorce out of nowhere for "happiness" and I know we only saw a fraction of their lives but neither of them seemed like bad people and divorce is only and SHOULD only be for serious reasons. If you didn't want to marry them the proposal is your chance to say no.No hate, just can someone say what it was cus there lives were to publicized its to late to go back to a private life and maintain a KZbin channel career or whatever.
@chanelmorgan
@chanelmorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Serenity Johnson not confirmed but word on the street was Nikki went out of town and came back home early and another woman was I her house with Jamie. Now Jamie posted a video saying he never cheated on Nikki. Seem believable to me. I think she just woke up and realized that he wasn’t the one. She saw the next 40 years and thought WOW I can’t be like his parents. They are lovely people but she wants some excitement. She is only 30 and probably was bored AF. Her younger sister Duckie is living the supermodel life that should have been hers too. Nikki will find herself and at least Jamie is an awesome Dad so she has help from both sides. I wish them both well and I could be completely wrong. But I think something I say has little truth.
@serenityjohnson7528
@serenityjohnson7528 4 жыл бұрын
@@chanelmorgan I agree I think your right. I guess not everyone wants to be a full-time wife and mom like at home. Maybe it wasn't for her and she felt like she was going to watch her life flash before her eyes, so if she wants to model like her sister she sure can but she should've thought about that before she went to pregnancy #2 for the kids sake cus when they're older they'll probably wonder why did "mom want to model instead of be with them and their dad." It just looks like a dumb reason but Nikki is independent and beautiful so i think marriage wasn't for her. Thanks for the answer!
@aminaww3446
@aminaww3446 4 жыл бұрын
Serenity Johnson lmao. Wtfffffrr. Are you okay??? Making up reasons for peoples split. Incredibly WEIRD and offensive. What is wrong with you?
@serenityjohnson7528
@serenityjohnson7528 4 жыл бұрын
@@aminaww3446 its not making up reasons when their whole lives were plastered on KZbin and then there is some "ambiguous divorce" when no one did anything worth divorce, but she wasn't "happy. So that was the WEIRD reason i wondered why she wasn't happy
@GloryMK
@GloryMK 4 жыл бұрын
Usually visions and revelations come as warnings to us. God has given us the power to pray and avert what is wrong n when we don't, it eventually manifests . God is Love rest in His love.
@hourexodus5204
@hourexodus5204 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly my thought. She was disobedient. It happens to the best of us.
@nolubabalotantsi6182
@nolubabalotantsi6182 4 жыл бұрын
This is the truth.
@winstinalightfoot8434
@winstinalightfoot8434 4 жыл бұрын
@@hourexodus5204 How do you know she was disobedient? Are you God? Do you know his plans for her?
@redeemablesoul
@redeemablesoul 4 жыл бұрын
@@winstinalightfoot8434 You must test everything in the Light of Gods word..His word says he hates divorce.
@draechi5218
@draechi5218 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you.
@Inaesteeina
@Inaesteeina 4 жыл бұрын
This is the most I've ever heard your dad speak. He's happy that you're happy!!. Go dad!!👏🏾👏🏾
@Dauphne
@Dauphne 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh. Your dad is so sweet. He brought me tears of joy. The girls did also. I'm sitting here crying. Tears of joy. Your girls are beautiful. They are adjusting so well. Your a great mom and Jamie a great dad. It's good that you two get along well. Keep moving forward to the best interest of your kids. That's what you're doing.
@Patrice_D
@Patrice_D 4 жыл бұрын
I will always respect a woman for leaving an unhappy relationship because in this patriarchal world, nearly everything is telling us to stay. That is true strength 💕
@SamMKKK
@SamMKKK 4 жыл бұрын
The way you’ve spoken facts. Whew. 😯
@MrsMonique1983
@MrsMonique1983 4 жыл бұрын
Nikki "is this me you and zoe Ava "no its you zoe and dad" 😢😭. I really miss you guys as a family but I respect your decision love from Trinidad and Tobago 😊❤️
@LeAnnHenri
@LeAnnHenri 4 жыл бұрын
When God says no, 🗣 it's TIME TO GO! I was in a relationship for 5 years, and engaged for the last 9 months of it and called it off. I stayed in that relationship WAAAAAAAY longer than I was supposed to. God kept showing me OVER AND OVER how this wasn't what He wanted for me. But I was so used to the comfort of that relationship and the FEAR of the unknown. I thank GOD I had the strength to call it off and walk away. I chose happiness and ME, and it was the greatest decision I have ever made. I'm so proud of you, Nikki! I've been watching for YEARSSSSSS (since before Ava), and I was devastated at first, but then I thought about it and thought back to my OWN break up and realized people have to live their lives for THEM and no one else. I stand with women, I stand with you Nikki. 💛💛
@gillianbarth5927
@gillianbarth5927 4 жыл бұрын
What you're modeling for your girls is how to take the respect and happiness you deserve in life. Too many people settle. Your daughters will grow up knowing that they have the power to step away and make a change in order to grow. That's an incredible gift even if it doesn't feel like it now. Hang in there!
@SSRIs
@SSRIs 4 жыл бұрын
Well said! Amen 🙏🏾❤️
@kimberlysantos4085
@kimberlysantos4085 4 жыл бұрын
Preach Gillian👏🏾
@Lyricgrayce
@Lyricgrayce 4 жыл бұрын
Well said ❤
@latoyayinde3087
@latoyayinde3087 4 жыл бұрын
So true...some women stay in relationships that aren't good and there children grow up wondering why they stayed or thinking there weak. It's better for children to see a strong mom that might be struggling , yet provides a stable home(this example will leave a better lasting impression on the children ).
@BabeRuthuk
@BabeRuthuk 4 жыл бұрын
By the comments about Nikki’s interaction with her dad, I think it’s proof that every girl needs and desires validation from her father. So important.
@StormyJBlake
@StormyJBlake 4 жыл бұрын
Oh man! I teared up when she walked into the house and said "Hi" to Jamie. I cried but mostly because of the familiarity of their situation except my ex being unwilling to be civil. It was awkward, seemingly, for both of them but at least they are civil to one another and clearly love their children more than whatever discord led to their breakup. I would have given anything to have been able to give my son that gift; seeing his parents getting along for him. Unfortunately, my ex of 21 years passed away earlier this year. He was still bitter and angry about the divorce but in the end, I was there to hold his hand when he passed. My point is, I truly hope they can become more than just civil but perhaps become friends again or establish some sort of a non-marital/non-couple bond not just for Ava and Zoe but for themselves. Nikki, you've grown so much this last year. It's beautiful to see you finding your way back to yourself even if you stumble now and again and your girls are absolutely thriving!! (The excitement on their faces when you arrived was everything!!) I wish nothing but happiness for you and Jamie but, yeah, we should NEVER tell other women to stay in relationships that do not feed their souls.
@jerrymaggie8596
@jerrymaggie8596 4 жыл бұрын
Love you Nikki ...
@lola47022
@lola47022 4 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯 beautiful message. Kids are resilient and adapt better than us.
@Villanell4140
@Villanell4140 Жыл бұрын
It's not real you know
@meadowsol11
@meadowsol11 4 жыл бұрын
Your dad telling you you’re a wonderful mum made me cry 😢
@pinkiemitchell8296
@pinkiemitchell8296 4 жыл бұрын
Where were your mother
@dolphineakoth
@dolphineakoth 4 жыл бұрын
me too😭
@Hannah-sg4sr
@Hannah-sg4sr 4 жыл бұрын
@@pinkiemitchell8296 she went out to do something or maybe at work
@madames5517
@madames5517 4 жыл бұрын
It’s nice to hear your doing great from someone else. Heart warming 💓
@MoniqueBlairASMR
@MoniqueBlairASMR 4 жыл бұрын
I literally cried while Nikki’s Dad showered her with encouragement and compliments 😭
@tahteshanae
@tahteshanae 4 жыл бұрын
Girl, glad I wasn’t the only one!
@scorpio16000
@scorpio16000 4 жыл бұрын
The sweetest and handsomest Dad!
@sweetpeach3293
@sweetpeach3293 4 жыл бұрын
Same! He was so happy I could feel it through the screen. He is so precious 💜
@TheCupidoClan
@TheCupidoClan 4 жыл бұрын
She's a blessing
@mareshalite
@mareshalite 4 жыл бұрын
...me toooooo
@LeleMkhize
@LeleMkhize 4 жыл бұрын
The constant fear of “ending up alone” has us trapped in temporary places that were only meant to to grow us and birth better versions of ourselves. I am so happy for you and this actually made me cry. God planted that vision in your mind . I got teary eyed thinking of my own Godly moments. You hear God the loudest during your alone time. I wish they teach women not to fear this time but to embrace it. It’s upsetting how the world has women telling women what to do yet we are the same people who circle clothing isles 100 times trying to decide if the red or the blue shirt is better and when you think we’re done , we go back the following day with a friend or send pictures to a friend while in the fitting room to make sure we are really making the right decision about these stupid shirts. Imagine how much thought would have to go into a big decision like leaving a marriage that isn’t aligned with your purpose. I’d think it would take me years on end, going back and fourth with my thoughts and waking up some days trying to convince myself that I’m making the wrong decision and that staying would be best. I really wish people would let you be. Any women who chooses herself has wrestled with her thoughts for a while. There is no such a thing as an overnight decision. Refer back to what happens in the fitting room. Men wait outside for hours on end over stupid dresses and shirts. How much more goes into a decision such as yours. You are beaming with happiness and God has your back, you are blessed with such a loving family and never doubt where you are . You have traveled far enough to meet yourself and God and I can’t think of anything more beautiful. The way you described your vision gave me goosebumps . You are right where you should be.
@kathorusparliament
@kathorusparliament 4 жыл бұрын
Oh maan‼️ Oh maan Lele Mkhize‼️ 🤗 🌸 🎼
@nikkithot
@nikkithot 4 жыл бұрын
Wow. The wisdom in this comment, I hear you girl!
@mulalombulungeni443
@mulalombulungeni443 4 жыл бұрын
Nikki's dad😭😭😭😭😭😭💕💕💕💕💕
@LeleMkhize
@LeleMkhize 4 жыл бұрын
Simply Nikki Be encouraged Nikki , I hope you never get swallowed by the “what happens next” thoughts and fears (or external projections). I’m supposedly at an age of doom (29) where I should be “terrified about ending up alone” everyone around me is getting married and having kids but that’s such a far away idea from my mind and to be honest I feel as young and stable as can be and I can’t tell you how content I feel in my own company. You wouldn’t believe how many times I get asked if I really am as content as I claim to be . In my mind I’m like I need more of this stillness (daily talks with God). I constantly have to answer to these projections from people who have decided life can only be meaningful when it involves partners and everyone else outside of that norm (IS AN ALIEN). What I could never get my head around is why choosing stillness is shunned upon so much. The best moments are taking place right now and tomorrow will worry about itself. Enjoy the now that took place 7 years ago. Stay positive always and may you be encouraged each time you receive hate. ❤️❤️❤️
@racquelwitter6758
@racquelwitter6758 4 жыл бұрын
Damn girl. Nikki made me cry now you ❣
@kellacanb
@kellacanb 4 жыл бұрын
Nikki's dad is so precious. ☺☺☺ "Do you have a key for our house? Here!"
@masteroflanguages4572
@masteroflanguages4572 4 жыл бұрын
Unless you know her personally, you have no right to encourage anyone to go back to a relationship or an ex. In fact, even if you know her, if you don't know her relationship, don't go there, either.
@nessi601
@nessi601 4 жыл бұрын
Your daddy is such a compassionate man, he is so cute.. he almost made me cry too. I love the message you shared gal ❤️ thank you x
@blawson4254
@blawson4254 4 жыл бұрын
This is by far my favorite video you’ve ever done. So real, so honest...yet not dramatic or throwing anyone under the bus. You have kept your dignity and your children will appreciate that.
@yanikeonpurpose
@yanikeonpurpose 4 жыл бұрын
B Lawson I wish they would do more videos like this. They are more true to life & honest. Shit. WE went through a break-up! And to just carry on like nothing happened is just crazy to me. It’s good to hear them working through this trauma like actual humans.
@rosemariepickings384
@rosemariepickings384 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we run out before the Lord. And who we choose as a husband is NOT God’s will. God will never bring you out of a situation for you to turn around and go back into. Wait on the Lord and you can’t go wrong 🌹
@user-jv3cz6zx3q
@user-jv3cz6zx3q 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@sadraolaedo4733
@sadraolaedo4733 3 жыл бұрын
PERFECT.
@Cindy4ctv
@Cindy4ctv 4 жыл бұрын
My heart melted when your dad gave you a key to the home🙏meaning dont knock nx time this is still your home for life
@essencemariah1592
@essencemariah1592 4 жыл бұрын
When she said the “plasticky blinds like back back back in the day” I just slowly looked at my plasticky blinds in disgust.
@harvesterosei929
@harvesterosei929 4 жыл бұрын
Forreal like damn I’m living in “back in the days” 😂😂
@trinajay2202
@trinajay2202 4 жыл бұрын
For real !!!!! Lmfaoo
@roxanneholder7643
@roxanneholder7643 4 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂
@daydreamstar1707
@daydreamstar1707 4 жыл бұрын
Same! ... they are silver metal though, does that make them any better? 🤣
@tammyj4369
@tammyj4369 4 жыл бұрын
Me too 🤣
@kmills7453
@kmills7453 4 жыл бұрын
It's good to see you and Jamie civil even if you're not together. The girls will appreciate it. God help you both through this journey. That can't be easy.
@malhernebaptisma4771
@malhernebaptisma4771 4 жыл бұрын
I almost cry when i see Jamie stand up in the background.i feel so sad .life life oh my God
@olamidewilson606
@olamidewilson606 4 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this, “it is not selfish to choose you, it is not selfish to choose your happiness.” Thank you Nikki, God loves you. ❤️
@attangi
@attangi 4 жыл бұрын
Pls this is not true in all situations... pls dont choose u all the time... its selfish... choose u but life is built on sacrifices... so choose u sometimes
@jennivelez7777
@jennivelez7777 4 жыл бұрын
I am struggling with this. I'm hopelessly in love with my husband. Guys! I married this man TWICE! However....... It is one-sided. I get very little love or respect. Also, I accepted a SECOND plate of the same stale food. Guys, HELP! HELP ME!
@hinnies1
@hinnies1 4 жыл бұрын
Do your part as a good wife, play your part as a good steward. Your husband will answer to God for not loving or being supportive. Focus on your relationship with God and his kingdom
@akilahbrowne2623
@akilahbrowne2623 4 жыл бұрын
WHEN YOU MADE A VOW TO DEATH DO US PART, IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH, IN RICH OR POOR, IN GOOD OR BAD, THAT IS A REAL SERIOUS VOW UNTO GOD AND YOUR HUSBAND. ITS NOT ABOUT YOU ANYMORE, IT IS ABOUT TWO OF YOU AS ONE.
@SamsJourney
@SamsJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Aawh Zoe saying “Happy Mother’s Day” over and over again! She is definitely a mummas girl 🥺❤️
@michellegove
@michellegove 4 жыл бұрын
Seeing the house was so sad, not because of Jamie’s feet like everyone else. But just seeing the stairs you picked and the decor you did with your own hands in the kids playroom. It’s so sad. Don’t worry Nikki! Bigger and better to come
@irenedavo3768
@irenedavo3768 4 жыл бұрын
Michelle Gove please watch videos of Jim Nduruchi
@sumy4551
@sumy4551 4 жыл бұрын
Irene Davo who’s that?
@JustinaKelly
@JustinaKelly 4 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/mKrSdYyGbNWLeKM
@norarad8369
@norarad8369 4 жыл бұрын
This is what really came to my mind when I saw these videos,, And I know it means that Nikki you are the soul of that house
@michellegove
@michellegove 4 жыл бұрын
Nora Rad yes she definitely was, she put her all into that house it just looks like a shell without her, it didn’t come across as warm for the small clip, of course I could just be projecting and making things up and of course I’m not saying Jamie isn’t warm etc. It’s just a thought I had when watching the clip. Even when Nikki said “Hi Jamie” I could have burst out crying, she’s giving up so much for her freedom it must be commended. I wish I had the strength to go for a divorce. I started the paperwork online and just never finished and things have definitely gotten worst. But I don’t want my children to lose out 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩 and in a way it’s me, I’m petrified.
@jessicaborgogni9595
@jessicaborgogni9595 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve had something similar happen to me. Kept “knowing” that at a specific time in my life I would be living in this house (where I’m living now), without any actual chance that it could happen. I was (almost) married at the time and we were doing a completely different thing. Then we relocated HERE and my vision seemed to be that! Then I separated (I left the relationship as it was abusive), and got far from here. And now, series of event...I’m again here. On my own. I was watching your videos through it all, your pregnancy with Ava and everything. So, yes, sweet sister, God does have a plan, always 💕your Faith is strong and everything is going to be alright! You left, so you had very good reasons and your daughters will be grateful to you for modeling healthy relationships.
@khadidjacoulibaly3313
@khadidjacoulibaly3313 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know why but I cried when you went to your old house and you were with your girls while Jamie was standing there. My heart broke like for real. Life really throws lemons..
@adeolaawhe5055
@adeolaawhe5055 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@angelafrancis5348
@angelafrancis5348 4 жыл бұрын
That why men must not put there friends before there woman, that girl was a fabulous woman that wants her man to be there for her 💯 percent
@Venice_Vee
@Venice_Vee 4 жыл бұрын
I felt that too, it hit so hard:(
@angelafrancis5348
@angelafrancis5348 4 жыл бұрын
@@Venice_Vee look at most of the youtube's who is there best friend there woman,you can live with someone and you not get the attention you really wanted so it made you feel sad..
@amandal1450
@amandal1450 4 жыл бұрын
Zoe wishing her mommy Happy mothers day over n over again, avas drawing, Nikki there n jamies feet!!that was a painfull moment. Wishing them both the best,every genuin heart on this earth deserves HAPPINESS
@MojisolaObazuaye
@MojisolaObazuaye 4 жыл бұрын
Okay, your Dad made me cry big time..... Two things Fathers should do - embrace their daughters if they choose to return home if the marriage doesn't work and affirming them that they are doing well. He put the icing on the cake by handing you your own copy of his house key - incredible. I pray that he lives long in good health and peace to see all that you will become, because you will - from one mum of two to another :) Finally, God's plans for you are always good and not for evil to bring you hope and to bring you to an expected end. Trust in him 100% Lots of Love
@mzlilz800
@mzlilz800 4 жыл бұрын
Mojisola Obazuaye amennn, agreed Nikki’s dad seems precious and so uplifting! You’re deserve it Nikki 💕💕💕👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@lilzexo8429
@lilzexo8429 4 жыл бұрын
When she made the clip of her at Jamie's house I just started crying cos I remembered all the videos that they used to make together but sometimes people just need to carry on in life because the future could be better than you are thinking
@TaiwoNekan
@TaiwoNekan 4 жыл бұрын
I literally had to pause and shout out your Dad! His affirming words and love towards you is really sweet 💘💘💘
@adinakapelamawata9496
@adinakapelamawata9496 4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE the new Nikki without Jamie!! I love how your personality really shines through, how your side of the fam is now more in the vlogs and how you talk about God. Anyone who has something negative to say about her PLEASE come to me first. Keep being a QUEEN and the best version of yourself and the best mother, friend, sister and daughter.
@sammyj2428
@sammyj2428 4 жыл бұрын
She is blossoming into the best version of herself- so independent, strong yet vulnerable. God is doing his thing with her.
@celinenganga6524
@celinenganga6524 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. She's like a totally different person. I stan a queen.
@sammb1243
@sammb1243 4 жыл бұрын
💯🙏🏾
@sammyj2428
@sammyj2428 4 жыл бұрын
Steven Jones stay out of women’s business STEVEN.
@adinakapelamawata9496
@adinakapelamawata9496 4 жыл бұрын
@@stevenjones684 putting yourself first and being the best version of yourself makes you a narcis? She has been years living under Jamie's commands. Now she is a free bird and can do what ever she wants if you're not her to root her just GO. i dont think she is being insecure and shallow all I feel is power, love and security.
@Babyicanseeyourhalo
@Babyicanseeyourhalo 4 жыл бұрын
WARNING By Nikki -> Please before posting a comment, ask Yourself : " Do I know enough about this situation to encourage that woman to go back to where she was ? Do I know the facts ? Do I know the full story ?" THANKS FOR HER.
@ThespianNiki
@ThespianNiki 4 жыл бұрын
That part. 🙌🏾
@everythingnature7936
@everythingnature7936 4 жыл бұрын
So deep
@ShaunaKayKay
@ShaunaKayKay 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@abiola33
@abiola33 4 жыл бұрын
Seriously!
@empressd28
@empressd28 4 жыл бұрын
Emmia B you must be one of those “people” that told her to go back. Is it that difficult to just support someone’s decision regardless what you know or don’t know? At the end of the day it’s their life, right?
@YvannaBrooke
@YvannaBrooke 4 жыл бұрын
Your dad following you around telling you how amazing of a mom you are was such a beautiful moment. He's such a mood🥺😍
@afrochick9142
@afrochick9142 4 жыл бұрын
It’s so confusing because I don’t think of Jaime as a bad guy. Maybe they weren’t compatible. We’ll never know what happened.
@ms.bubs4fun506
@ms.bubs4fun506 3 жыл бұрын
Good men could be terrible husbands
@loly7039
@loly7039 3 жыл бұрын
It's not because of bad or good..I think is about comfortable...I think both of them are not comfortable anymore to doing anything in one house
@meep2605
@meep2605 3 жыл бұрын
It genuinely always sounds like he's a cheater or he was somehow abusive.
@denisedenise9725
@denisedenise9725 3 жыл бұрын
They were no comparable. TAURUS - ARIES
@kat-oe7gb
@kat-oe7gb 3 жыл бұрын
@@denisedenise9725 who is the Aries? 😱. Aries women keep everything in until the explode but Aries men are cray cray.
@Mummyfredia95
@Mummyfredia95 4 жыл бұрын
I’m literally crying, I’m a 25 year old mom with three kids just got divorced n I don’t really know what my life is but I know I made the best decision and God got me👏🏼 you are strong Nikki ❤️
@eraycelartey6951
@eraycelartey6951 4 жыл бұрын
I'm not trying to rude but in a situation like this you will never know the reason she divorced her husband and she will never know the reason you divorced yours either and I get that everyone deserves to be happy but with how the world is going on now most married couple forget the fact that marriage is a life time commitment between you and your spouse and most especially forget the vow they made to each other before God for better or for worse. Communication is the most important thing in marriage unless otherwise then we can understand. But now it looks like they refuse to work things out together and pray together as well. No one said marriage is easy never there will be ups and downs but it's up to you to make it work.
@eraycelartey6951
@eraycelartey6951 4 жыл бұрын
They only way I can approve to a divorce is when either one of the spouse cheats.
@genevievejbx
@genevievejbx 4 жыл бұрын
Erayce Lartey Everyone has their own “legitimate reasons” for divorce. Back in the days people were stuck on the idea that they have to make it work, no matter what. I get that some people nowadays tend to let go too easily, but we have to respect their decisions. As you said, nobody knows what they have been going through and what let to them getting divorced, so no one should judge their decision.
@Mummyfredia95
@Mummyfredia95 4 жыл бұрын
Erayce Lartey I don’t agree, there’s more than just cheating trust me, happiness is life and happiness is key...I would take almost anything “if “ I’m happy.
@stemmyrodriques5165
@stemmyrodriques5165 4 жыл бұрын
Lawd!
@starjackson7386
@starjackson7386 4 жыл бұрын
Awwww....When Ava included her dad on the Mother's Day card.😭 Kids are so innocent. Touching blog. Stay strong sister. #ThisTooShallPass ❤
@AnzaTshilidzi
@AnzaTshilidzi 4 жыл бұрын
He really got you: God, and may he give you strength to heal💕 we never understand the plans of God while we are hurting, but there is always light at the end of the tunnel
@charleneedwards9386
@charleneedwards9386 3 жыл бұрын
I love your dads energy! I need that energy in my life from a father😍
@TheAfricanQueen01
@TheAfricanQueen01 4 жыл бұрын
Zoe made me cry when she kept saying 'Happy Mothers Day' to you. Shes so cute. Nikki, we support u no matter ur decision. We want to see u happy
@jeanettenyatoro
@jeanettenyatoro 4 жыл бұрын
Your relationship with your father is so heartwarming 🥰
@lulamamokone2851
@lulamamokone2851 4 жыл бұрын
Nikki's dad is so cute. Literally been showering her with love since she walked in... I love this!!!!
@maudeneyarber9997
@maudeneyarber9997 4 жыл бұрын
Another Sidney Poitier tall and handsome hmm!!
@delightful5165
@delightful5165 4 жыл бұрын
And him giving her a key to his house is symbolic for saying she is always welcome in his house and that it's her house too
@reginanamupolo7429
@reginanamupolo7429 4 жыл бұрын
I love you Nikki " nothing last forever, you may not understand but one day you will release what God plans for you " the great is yet to come sissy , believe in your God he will never leave neither forsake you"
@pripriakua2341
@pripriakua2341 4 жыл бұрын
@@reginanamupolo7429 I do
@ashliejerome8371
@ashliejerome8371 4 жыл бұрын
I have been in your position and it was the best feeling. I loved it. Keep doing you and following God. I did and my life has turned out wonderful so far. Sending you loads of love and hugs from one strong woman/mom to another.
@samsworld2939
@samsworld2939 4 жыл бұрын
"It's not selfish to choose you" being happy is what matter
@wen-a8703
@wen-a8703 4 жыл бұрын
I Love that! "It's not selfish to choose you"! Those few words meant so much...
@thatnaledi
@thatnaledi 4 жыл бұрын
I agree 💟
@thixunamingcobo9820
@thixunamingcobo9820 4 жыл бұрын
“It is not selfish to choose you!”
@irenedavo3768
@irenedavo3768 4 жыл бұрын
Nami’s Nook I have questions
@hannaisgracious5962
@hannaisgracious5962 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@JustinaKelly
@JustinaKelly 4 жыл бұрын
Yes kzbin.info/www/bejne/mKrSdYyGbNWLeKM
@seofaz
@seofaz 4 жыл бұрын
Can’t even imagine the intense emotions of being in that house and seeing little changes and feeling like a visitor in what was your family home. You are so so strong and I have the upmost respect for how you have dealt with all the changes. The girls are so so loved and it shows 💗 they are such clever beautiful girlies and I get all emotional seeing how much they have grown over the years💗 sending so much love from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 x
@s.m6605
@s.m6605 4 жыл бұрын
When she said hi Jamie 😢😢😢 I just felt so sad, but I know you made the right choice for you.
@rushelllynch5083
@rushelllynch5083 4 жыл бұрын
Jamie was standing there so quiet like a stranger in his own house. Love is still there
@wandamcintosh1967
@wandamcintosh1967 4 жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you as a young wife mother to 2 young children. Be proud of yourself happiness is so important. Be strong for those 2 girls and continue to move forward with your life.
@ebbflow7526
@ebbflow7526 4 жыл бұрын
I learned that whenever you dream and you remember it, it is not a dream it is a MESSAGE!!! Be strong Nikki!! When you feel you're at the bottom you can only RISE!!! 💞💞💞
@mitziernest9882
@mitziernest9882 4 жыл бұрын
What if you remember like only half or a Little more than half and don’t remember the end?
@ebbflow7526
@ebbflow7526 4 жыл бұрын
@@mitziernest9882 if it's a message it will occur again. Could be in different forms open your eyes (third eye that is 😉) and keep looking for the signs
@TheCupidoClan
@TheCupidoClan 4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@yanikeonpurpose
@yanikeonpurpose 4 жыл бұрын
It wasn’t a dream. It kept recurring as a vision. It was a premonition. But she isn’t aware of her psychic abilities & how to prepare for it. Because just like Phoebe in Charmed or that chick in Twilight, the premonitions always comes through.
@Grandy_girl
@Grandy_girl 4 жыл бұрын
Zozo made me cry it's like she couldn't stop saying happy mother's day
@maltarpeddy
@maltarpeddy 4 жыл бұрын
“A wife never leaves a happy home”-Dinka proverb. Hugs and strength to you Nyar Sudan 🇸🇸❤️❤️❤️
@heretogetupdated6199
@heretogetupdated6199 4 жыл бұрын
Seeing Jamie and Nikki in the same room together was so weird because we haven’t seen them together for so long
@SarahsDalyLife
@SarahsDalyLife 4 жыл бұрын
Wow... Nikki is so strong. Walked away from the "ideal life" she thought she had built, the home she planned to make memories in, the well though out decor, the family unit... For a mother to make a decision to walk away choosing herself and her babies is COMMENDABLE. JUST SEEING HER CONFIDENTLY IN THAT SPACE THAT WAS ONCE HER HOME WAS POWERFUL!
@nilkaarcher5783
@nilkaarcher5783 4 жыл бұрын
What happened to you and your husband, he loves his girls and he loved you too. What the fucked happened, divorces are too fucking easy.
@SarahsDalyLife
@SarahsDalyLife 4 жыл бұрын
@@nilkaarcher5783 ummm?? Sorry wrong number. I'm jamaican and will cancel you in 2.5 seconds 🇯🇲 TRUST MI WEN A TELL YOU IM NOT THE ONE
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