The Real Reason Why Protective Styles Aren’t Growing Your Hair

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Seun Okimi

Seun Okimi

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@maryjflanagan1922
@maryjflanagan1922 4 жыл бұрын
Every time I let a "professional" do my hair, it comes out to be shorter or damaged. When I do my own hair, it grows.
@rihannadiamonds2504
@rihannadiamonds2504 4 жыл бұрын
Me too.... The same.
@GracefulKnots
@GracefulKnots 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Just what I said above. No one touches my hair anymore. My situation was bad. I honestly lost all my hair. I talk about it on my channel 🌸
@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 4 жыл бұрын
i feel that
@prettyboy8219
@prettyboy8219 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I stop going to salon and I fell the same
@mwakazulu3620
@mwakazulu3620 4 жыл бұрын
The truth in this👏👏👏
@janedoes5903
@janedoes5903 4 жыл бұрын
Whew that thumbnail had everybody in here with the quickness.
@TheBlackMadonna1
@TheBlackMadonna1 4 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂 yes
@kimmymarshall4257
@kimmymarshall4257 4 жыл бұрын
Me
@bridgettekenyi4309
@bridgettekenyi4309 4 жыл бұрын
Yup 😂
@helenahmbaye269
@helenahmbaye269 4 жыл бұрын
You damn right😂😂😂😂
@MsEricai
@MsEricai 4 жыл бұрын
Lool never subscribed so quickly to a channel😂
@calfuray6740
@calfuray6740 4 жыл бұрын
Remember when our mothers and grandmother used to tell us “keep your hand out of your hair “
@FineNaturalHairROCKS
@FineNaturalHairROCKS 4 жыл бұрын
This is soooo true! lol!
@iloveanime506
@iloveanime506 4 жыл бұрын
Me
@tammi67able
@tammi67able 4 жыл бұрын
Lol yes they knew
@FineNaturalHairROCKS
@FineNaturalHairROCKS 3 жыл бұрын
@Umbuko DaJuko 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I have brothers and many guy cousins and I remember this conversation ringing through our household as if it just happened today!😂😂😂
@tinabong4221
@tinabong4221 3 жыл бұрын
My mum always slapped my hand away 😅
@bunnywavyxx9524
@bunnywavyxx9524 3 жыл бұрын
This is it! And all black women need to hear it. There's a myth that natural 4c hair can't grow in the black community - but the secret to growth really is that simple. Moisturize, oil, and wash your hair just as normal, even with protective styles in. Otherwise LEAVE IT ALONE.
@luyandasikhakhane4413
@luyandasikhakhane4413 4 жыл бұрын
can we take a moment to emphasize how beautiful she is. gosh her face is so smooth
@brighteyes3445
@brighteyes3445 4 жыл бұрын
Right, I agree
@FinAl_houR
@FinAl_houR 3 жыл бұрын
Fr stunning 🤩
@dedicatedwife
@dedicatedwife 3 жыл бұрын
She reminds me of this girl from Empire.
@altheabeckford1026
@altheabeckford1026 3 жыл бұрын
She is stunning
@LifeUnfilteredWithTahira
@LifeUnfilteredWithTahira 3 жыл бұрын
Sis! Like okay, she's beautiful
@natashamatu9780
@natashamatu9780 4 жыл бұрын
That's why people with dreadlocks actually get longer hair because of low manipulation
@conversationswithadrianne
@conversationswithadrianne 4 жыл бұрын
Curlytash J exactly.
@royalgems5185
@royalgems5185 4 жыл бұрын
I comb my one ur olds hair once weekly no exceptions my sister says it’s a shame because I’m a cosmetologist n my baby shouldn’t be waking around like that. Her hair is now flourishing. Low manipulation reallllly grows hair. I put it in box braids now that it’s long enough and they say she looks like ms celie but j could care less. Oan of course I don’t add hair to her natural boxed braids. Try this in your little ones and keep the plaits moisturized n watch it grow...
@07ikkin
@07ikkin 4 жыл бұрын
@@x0xTHLover4Lifex0x I believe you. Relaxed hair just needs to be taken care of. It only damages the hair if one let's it damage it. I slap my perm on in under 20 minutes and wash it right off. I also protect my ends from relaxer run off. I do my own hair now and it's thicker and healthier than when I was going to a salon
@sinamiller2050
@sinamiller2050 4 жыл бұрын
@@gracefoundme3023 Just curious. What hair type do you have? My natural hair is so much work, im considering relaxing. My hair is 4C.
@TFESmiles
@TFESmiles 4 жыл бұрын
Very well said! This is so true sunshine!!!!👍🏾👏🏾
@zeppelin_7245
@zeppelin_7245 4 жыл бұрын
It's sad that black hairstylists don't know how to work with black hair without damaging it. If you want healthy hair, you have to do it yourself. Other races can go to salons without issue but it's a whole thing when it comes to black women.
@nightlongg4758
@nightlongg4758 4 жыл бұрын
Right!! Now a days these stylists want you to come in with half the work already done. You need to have your hair straightened otherwise they don’t know how to do it and when you don’t they want to change you crazy amount of money. I’ve never hear of needing to have your hair bone straight just to put it in braids??
@melodyleo4323
@melodyleo4323 4 жыл бұрын
Right!!! I went to make my hair some days ago, the stylist was ripping off my hair with rat tail comb. I had to speak out
@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you. It's really hard to find the good ones. Some are out there though!! But ya, it's easier for me to just do it myself as well
@elleslade3251
@elleslade3251 4 жыл бұрын
You are so right! The stylist that I used to go to would take my hair down and comb it directly after with a SMALL tooth comb. She would rake it while blow drying...when I would say something I would be told...it's okay, it won't damage your hair...🤔
@savitaram3975
@savitaram3975 4 жыл бұрын
That's because they are treating our hair like and trying to make our hair look like the hair of women of other races.
@batjgm23
@batjgm23 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with this completely. I lived in South America for almost 3 yrs, literally in the jungle. So I kept my hair braided up, just my own hair bcz no access to weave. anyway, when I straightened it for the first time years later, it was almost too my waist😩. Also I drank like a gallon of water a day and only ate natural food. No fast food, no processed food, again bcz there was no access to it lol.
@katherinekier
@katherinekier 3 жыл бұрын
Just moved to South America, about to do cornrows too, cause yeah I can’t do anything else 😅 but it’s nice I’m nearby a natural spring and I mostly wrap my hair in scarves anyway so it should be easy
@candygir87528
@candygir87528 3 жыл бұрын
What were you doing in south America? Im just curious
@katherinekier
@katherinekier 3 жыл бұрын
@@candygir87528 I live here now
@batjgm23
@batjgm23 3 жыл бұрын
@@candygir87528 I was a peace corps volunteer lol
@josephdavis2869
@josephdavis2869 3 жыл бұрын
What fo you mean by ‘natural foods’ ? Like what were you eating??
@ceyoncelazarusknowles2678
@ceyoncelazarusknowles2678 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly why Beyoncé left Blu Ivy hair alone.. So many people was telling her to comb it out and get it done the way they saw fit. Look at her daughter hair now, natural long, and full!!!
@millicentlopez3592
@millicentlopez3592 4 жыл бұрын
Blue wears a wig sometimes but i get your point
@бронза.вафля.конус
@бронза.вафля.конус 4 жыл бұрын
Millicent Lopez girl 🤡
@cindylee3495
@cindylee3495 4 жыл бұрын
Millicent Lopez she like under 10 unless you mean weave braids you wrong
@moni1952
@moni1952 4 жыл бұрын
Blue wears natural looking weaves and braids.
@lovelyrayy5492
@lovelyrayy5492 4 жыл бұрын
Millicent Lopez 😂🤦🏽‍♀️
@nayaschannel6067
@nayaschannel6067 4 жыл бұрын
My mom is a licensed natural hair stylist and Im a 2 time cancer survivor still battling for a 3rd time. She does protective styles on my hair and grows back faster and healthier than before . But everyone is different
@e.mlanlehin802
@e.mlanlehin802 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah i think some stylists are a bit heavy handed when they are braiding
@nayaschannel6067
@nayaschannel6067 4 жыл бұрын
@@e.mlanlehin802 yeah some are . Thats why my mom is the only one who does my hair
@TheeBratzDollxox
@TheeBratzDollxox 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! I’m Praying for your remission and recovery in Jesus name 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@yuebing7
@yuebing7 4 жыл бұрын
Which protective styles does she like to do on your hair? And I'm praying for a speedy recovery for you!
@nayaschannel6067
@nayaschannel6067 4 жыл бұрын
@@yuebing7 Crochets
@maryokonye4615
@maryokonye4615 4 жыл бұрын
Nigerian hairdressers left the chat. Taking out your braids takes them 5 minutes. 5 people working on your hair breaking everything away
@rebekahoj
@rebekahoj 4 жыл бұрын
I’m scared to go get my hair done.
@ruthsoki1033
@ruthsoki1033 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@ZhanaZee
@ZhanaZee 4 жыл бұрын
Mary Okonye 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏾
@Pgarc1a876
@Pgarc1a876 4 жыл бұрын
Haha yeah and they yank ur head front left and right
@milesgs
@milesgs 4 жыл бұрын
African hairdresser because they grab the braids and they pull out this is 🙀🙀 just the remember of that pain hurts me 💔💔💔 and after they asking why their hair don’t growth
@joyphoebe4410
@joyphoebe4410 2 жыл бұрын
This is the video that enabled me to realise my hair length has nothing to do with me being black (my race of tribe). I'm coming back here 1.5 years later to say thank you for helping me understand hair science and how my hair grows. Thanks so much. I do my hair all natural. I've been able to retain 3.5-4 inches and my hair is longer, healthier and makes me more confident. I was almost giving up on my hair. For anyone who still finds it hard to believe that black women can have long hair, think of a black friend who has dread locks (we at least know one). Then think about how their hair wasn't really growing before the locks but suddenly started growing after the locks. That's enough proof that black people can grow long hair. Thanks so much SEUN 🌻😍
@Gem7Angel
@Gem7Angel 2 жыл бұрын
This is the best example!! Ty fam ❤
@nerakami1
@nerakami1 2 жыл бұрын
that dread locks part is the clincher. pure common sense
@cairoharrell8604
@cairoharrell8604 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@elsiebayne7308
@elsiebayne7308 2 жыл бұрын
@@nerakami1 ĺ
@moore985
@moore985 2 жыл бұрын
This!
@ColtraneAndRain
@ColtraneAndRain 4 жыл бұрын
One thing I learned about removing weave: use brown thread if your hair is black. That way you never cut hair, only thread.
@tinawalker5335
@tinawalker5335 4 жыл бұрын
Why is this the first time I’ve heard this advice???!!!
@mercedes3111
@mercedes3111 4 жыл бұрын
Use nylon thread. It slides out no breakage
@e-angellepierre-james5328
@e-angellepierre-james5328 4 жыл бұрын
I do the same thing
@j.elixir6089
@j.elixir6089 4 жыл бұрын
And also just use the ends of the scissors to remove the thread, don't actually snip it
@sandysand284
@sandysand284 4 жыл бұрын
True
@anayahhreee8703
@anayahhreee8703 4 жыл бұрын
Yea I'm not the only one who's hair has never grown past shoulder length righttt
@chisommaria4674
@chisommaria4674 4 жыл бұрын
How long is your hair mine is 7 inches
@lynn.k9525
@lynn.k9525 4 жыл бұрын
Not even past my ear 💀
@aizenosaimafidon1119
@aizenosaimafidon1119 4 жыл бұрын
Depends on your genetics
@g0thgfwastaken
@g0thgfwastaken 4 жыл бұрын
My hair has only ever grown to shoulder length. 😭
@theinfamouswoodnypmh1367
@theinfamouswoodnypmh1367 4 жыл бұрын
Here an tip use super grow grease
@ero4ahair54
@ero4ahair54 4 жыл бұрын
Finally a KZbinr that got it right and did not promote some company miracle grow product. Thumbs up to you, I preach the same thing on my channel.
@nashadali6567
@nashadali6567 4 жыл бұрын
product and habit is definitely a thing though! once I stopped using straighteners I used unrefined almond oil everyday and it strengthened my hair to prevent breakage !
@Untwisted_hair
@Untwisted_hair 4 жыл бұрын
Not one specific product heavily promoted in this video. All about technique, I truly appreciate that.
@thewalkingmic5
@thewalkingmic5 2 жыл бұрын
“The best protective styles are the ones that cause the lowest manipulation to take down.” I don’t know why I didn’t realize this sooner. That’s why crotchets and mini braids work so well for me… thank you!
@monicaaidoo5559
@monicaaidoo5559 Жыл бұрын
I see
@lisagee3318
@lisagee3318 11 ай бұрын
I love what she said about putting a protective style in and just leaving it. As we get older we learn how to take care of ourselves better.
@kenneauque2444
@kenneauque2444 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone ask me all the time how I got my hair to my tailbone, I always say I leave my hair alone. I hardly ever comb my hair, my go to hairstyle is a bun or 2 braids. They look disappointed, I guess they wanted to hear some magical growth serum🤷🏽‍♀️
@awesome4781
@awesome4781 4 жыл бұрын
It's safe, not expensive and time saving. Go girl!
@dr.canary2617
@dr.canary2617 4 жыл бұрын
Kenne Auqué right! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I'm the same, I'm such a lazy natural. Lol
@nyah064
@nyah064 4 жыл бұрын
Not combining my hair isn’t a option it’s to course for that
@myishacherry7242
@myishacherry7242 4 жыл бұрын
💯❤💕
@mikochild2
@mikochild2 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Women like to say that men grow hair better. No, men leave their hair alone and wait for their next hair appointment. *edit* Manipulate infrequently, cover and moisturize. Don't be rough when you do manipulate.
@bmelamusic
@bmelamusic 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine if our parents had this energy. I really believe that a lot of the issues some black women face when it comes to length retention and hair maintenance, comes from the lack of knowledge our parents had. It’s like, the hair is tough so you gotta be tough with it. When in actuality our hair needs extra care and tact in order for it to flourish to its fullest potential. I really would love to leave my future children’s hair alone but there’s this irrational need for our of children’s hair to always look super neat all of the time. I think it’s because there’s this idea that you represent your parents in a good light when your hair is constantly fresh, laid and put together. As an adult you can throw a wig on top of your indistinguishable cornrows and call it a day, but as a child you obviously can’t do that. 🤷🏿‍♀️
@icedmatchalattegirl
@icedmatchalattegirl 4 жыл бұрын
So funny you said this.. I recently said the exact same thing to my one of my friends. That is literally how the stereotype about black people having a hard time growing long hair started. Lots of us just didn’t have the knowledge of how to care for our hair. I still see it, especially amongst older generations of black women. I had a woman in my job tell me a few weeks ago that she combs her hair DRY🤦🏾‍♀️ and had the nerve to try to explain to me why it is better for natural hair.... meanwhile her hair touches her ears and she’s 20 years my senior....
@PrincessYonna1
@PrincessYonna1 4 жыл бұрын
That’s why I don’t let my mom or grandma touch my hair even though they can do hair really good . They think u have to snatch and yank on kinky hair because the belief that it’s too tough , rough, and difficult to deal with . That’s why I tell bw to stop saying their hair is difficult and requires a lot because it doesn’t and they’re just saying their hair is difficult unlike others which is also not true .
@Therealvashneyy
@Therealvashneyy 4 жыл бұрын
Girllllll I don’t do my two girls hair every time. The way I do my girls hair mostly is a 3 column section and put 5 ruberbands parts in the middle section so that last a month. I re touch the front and back everything week and half or two.
@user-yb6ru5cw3d
@user-yb6ru5cw3d 4 жыл бұрын
Stop generalising black people i have hair lower than my ass and im full black
@ash_lee_12
@ash_lee_12 4 жыл бұрын
My mom always had my natural hair braided without using heat i would go like two months inbetween wash days sometimes 😬 lol it wasnt stinky or anything but now that I do my own hair it gets washed like every 2 weeks but anyway bc i hardly used heat and my mom always kept it moisturized and did not detangle regularly and when she did detangle she used lots of moisture and took her time oh also i never used weave in my braids just my own hair
@thembibaloi4246
@thembibaloi4246 4 жыл бұрын
I actually watch the entire 18 minutes without skipping and I enjoyed it. This is vital😂
@trawlins396
@trawlins396 4 жыл бұрын
So informative. Better than anything on Netflix 😂😂😂
@HarmonyArtist2222
@HarmonyArtist2222 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing! Her information is so interesting ☺️
@ameliajohnson4454
@ameliajohnson4454 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Layla-ph6xg
@Layla-ph6xg 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@CarissaJenkins
@CarissaJenkins 3 жыл бұрын
yes. this taught me so much haha
@Nay_77777
@Nay_77777 3 жыл бұрын
You came for my soul when you said “ I see people with new growth from protective styles but then when they take it down their hair is the same length “ my hair hair breaks so much this video is extremely helpful Bc everything you said we shouldn’t be doing is exactly what I was doing
@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 3 жыл бұрын
Ah, it makes me so so happy to be able to help!
@_flourysh
@_flourysh 2 жыл бұрын
@@SeunOkimi what are the right protective styles? And what causes itching when you don't have lice and your head always aching even when you don't make hair, and hair easily getting dirty?
@sugahoney89
@sugahoney89 Жыл бұрын
​@@_flourysh you need to wash your hair more.
@kmaben8985
@kmaben8985 6 ай бұрын
​@@_flouryshprobiotics. Eliminate sugar, minimize carbs.
@funart4everyone81
@funart4everyone81 4 жыл бұрын
If you are reading this just know that you are blessed. Amazing and beautiful don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I wish all your dreams would come true just as I want all my youtube dreams to come true thank you
@OMA.YESHUA
@OMA.YESHUA 4 жыл бұрын
Amen.thanks and God bless you
@marciedavis46
@marciedavis46 4 жыл бұрын
Amen .N may God continue to bless u
@shirlstarg4477
@shirlstarg4477 4 жыл бұрын
Thx you FunArt4. I needed to hear that. I just had a Big Chop. A huge one 💇🏾‍♀️. My hair now isnt even 1/2 inch in length now. I gotta start all over again but wanna do it (growth) right this time. Nice to hear still beautiful anyway 😊.
@beautifulgoddess8642
@beautifulgoddess8642 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@CloudPanther
@CloudPanther 4 жыл бұрын
💖
@TSVeronica
@TSVeronica 4 жыл бұрын
I was today years old when I realized that the shedding I experienced when taking down my braids is actually breakage 😩
@samkevilakazi5577
@samkevilakazi5577 4 жыл бұрын
It's bound to happen 😭
@samkevilakazi5577
@samkevilakazi5577 4 жыл бұрын
@nunya beezness because I have experienced it first hand
@mahekk1556
@mahekk1556 4 жыл бұрын
@nunya beezness breakage is when the hair that is falling out is not your hair's length. It is generally shorter. Shedding is when your hair falls out from your scalp, so it is generally longer. you can also see a little bulb on shed hair because it was attached to the scalp. Savvy?
@PatriceOnPurpose
@PatriceOnPurpose 4 жыл бұрын
We lose 100 hairs a day so understand that too
@jumpqueeen239
@jumpqueeen239 4 жыл бұрын
yeah i had breakage like crazy :(( the amount of hair i would take out was a whole handful... the growth was visible but my hair would break
@Rue100
@Rue100 4 жыл бұрын
Your transparency is refreshing just STRAIGHT to the point and your hair is DEFINITELY proof that what your sayin is FACTS...im definitely going to incorporate your advice on my hair thanks for sharing...
@therelaxedafro7539
@therelaxedafro7539 4 жыл бұрын
that's one reason I love to listen to her. I find it hard to take tips from someone whose hair is not doing well. but then we can always learn from each other 🤷
@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 4 жыл бұрын
So incredibly happy to be able to help
@therelaxedafro7539
@therelaxedafro7539 4 жыл бұрын
@@user-zx1ii7vf2z lool
@JustIndieee
@JustIndieee 4 жыл бұрын
Yus!!!^^^^^^
@chandrascorner8780
@chandrascorner8780 3 жыл бұрын
My mother had me at an older age. She had my sister and I's hair flowing down our backs natural. She took her time and we had hot oil treatments and deep conditioning days.
@lisagee3318
@lisagee3318 11 ай бұрын
That is major important.
@lavellans
@lavellans 4 жыл бұрын
Seun at 0:45 "Everything changed" Me, in bed, whispering: *when the fire nation attacked*
@Cas3PhD
@Cas3PhD 4 жыл бұрын
Love this 😍🥰
@gracen5260
@gracen5260 4 жыл бұрын
You watched the avatar tooo...... bruh water, earth, air,and fire the 4 nations.
@Mrs_Canary
@Mrs_Canary 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@tolusoji-oye7138
@tolusoji-oye7138 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@jasmineisekeije7006
@jasmineisekeije7006 4 жыл бұрын
Literally what I was thinking 😂
@madonnauchehara7755
@madonnauchehara7755 4 жыл бұрын
Seun, if I had ¾ of the length of your hair, I wouldn't know how to act. 😭
@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 4 жыл бұрын
lol!
@nelim
@nelim 4 жыл бұрын
Me too 😂😂😂😂
@hindrayyan
@hindrayyan 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao same I would be walking around throwing it in peoples face and be like yeah this is my natural hair and what about it
@madonnauchehara7755
@madonnauchehara7755 4 жыл бұрын
@@hindrayyan 🤣🤣🤣 I feel you! People around me will have to wear shades and protect their eyes, cuz imma be flinging my hair in their faces. Gurl, I'm gonna be a nuisance to the society. 😅
@mimitchana9824
@mimitchana9824 4 жыл бұрын
@@hindrayyan ong 😭
@EvolvingVintage
@EvolvingVintage 4 жыл бұрын
True..when we were younger, we hardly wore our hair out, especially to school. You always got your hair cornrowed or threaded, weekly or every 2 weeks.. That helped our hair grow, and prevent breakage especially the threading aka Kiko. I grew up in Nigeria btw For taking out old braids, I always moisturize the tangled roots with water and detangle gently, it helps prevent so much breakage. I never take out my braids in a salon, they don't have the patience.
@therelaxedafro7539
@therelaxedafro7539 4 жыл бұрын
You're right. No patience because they are focusing on the next client when you are in the chair 🙄
@chichikekeocha5264
@chichikekeocha5264 4 жыл бұрын
So true.
@hoddy1368
@hoddy1368 4 жыл бұрын
I grow up in Somalia I would always watch women use coconut oil or sesame oil Somali version and Braid the hair also the would give head massages to each other and the diet contains protein and Biotin , Collagen and vitamin D from the sun fresh fruits healthy diet basically
@misssherithaking
@misssherithaking 4 жыл бұрын
I hate when my clients take their hair down because they usually cut it. All my hard work down the drain 😞
@joannelindsay4977
@joannelindsay4977 4 жыл бұрын
Durning the take down of braids and twist, I use cholesterol conditioner to detangle. Let it sit with a bag for an hour or so, then shampoo and use a leave in conditioner.
@retshepilehopemosena578
@retshepilehopemosena578 2 жыл бұрын
hey girl... i actually agree with you on the topic of keeping your protective style for long periods of time because I also keep my protective styles for periods of 2 to 3 months and it works! I am soo happy for the validation you gave me, my friends and family legit thought I am mad. Thanks for your wonderful tips
@courtneykirk7671
@courtneykirk7671 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss this is why my daughter’s hair is down her back I leave her hair up for 2 and a half or 3 months. My friends does her daughter hair every week and wonder why it just won’t grow! I said girl leave that baby hair alone!! That’s why sis!
@cinderellafromtheblock6096
@cinderellafromtheblock6096 4 жыл бұрын
What sort of updo style do you do?
@buildinghealthyminds4063
@buildinghealthyminds4063 4 жыл бұрын
Yea what u mean by up
@courtneykirk7671
@courtneykirk7671 4 жыл бұрын
Any kind of braided hairstyles. braided into a ponytail, her hair is in box braids now, braided with beads it’s a lot of protective styles really just have to go look at different styles for ideas I have the Pinterest app it’s an app for almost anything you can think to type in but as far as hair, you can type in braid styles for little black girls and a bunch of pics will pop up and that should help you get an idea of styles for your little ones 💕
@y.e.9907
@y.e.9907 4 жыл бұрын
@@courtneykirk7671 and how do you take care of her hair while it is in braids? I am scared of doing things that might damage my hair :(
@courtneykirk7671
@courtneykirk7671 4 жыл бұрын
Y. E. That’s why it’s braided so u won’t have to do anything to it. Maybe spray some oil sheen in it to moisturize, I use the yellow bottle of Rasta Jamaican Mango and Lime No More Itch Gro Spray for our hair but as long as it’s braided just leave it be. Just like she said in the video too much manipulation to the scalp is not good so just braid it a nice size not too big so it’ll last and just leave it.
@theahurst3079
@theahurst3079 4 жыл бұрын
She's the first person on KZbin I have seen speaking all facts, this is some really good advice y'all. ❤
@FineNaturalHairROCKS
@FineNaturalHairROCKS 4 жыл бұрын
I was literally just thinking the same thing! 😍
@ayeodeleknights2651
@ayeodeleknights2651 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@peacehappyb237
@peacehappyb237 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@pulluptv2359
@pulluptv2359 4 жыл бұрын
Use water and conditioner when you take down or hair is like a flower when it’s dry it crumbles and breaks keep it wet and moisturized to retain your length
@SobrietyandSolace
@SobrietyandSolace 4 жыл бұрын
Unless you have porous, fine hair. In that case, water is the devil and oil is your friend.
@pulluptv2359
@pulluptv2359 4 жыл бұрын
Little Wolf Taima OIL IS NOT A MOISTURIZER ITS IS A A SEALANT! If water alone does not work use water mixed with a conditioner witch is what I use I should have said that and find the right product for your hair!
@nicolebuchanan3361
@nicolebuchanan3361 4 жыл бұрын
One thing I do I keep my hair oiled so when I take my hair down it’s easier to comb out.
@pulluptv2359
@pulluptv2359 4 жыл бұрын
Nicole Buchanan yes me to I keep my scalp oiled during protective styles
@j.elixir6089
@j.elixir6089 4 жыл бұрын
If oil isn't a moisturizer honestly, why do people with straighter hair types not have to use moisturizing products because sebum covers their hair, making it greasy?
@sbright5827
@sbright5827 3 жыл бұрын
This is hands down, the most informative video I've watched about growing natural hair and it's all FACTS! I'm a witness of doing EVERYTHING you mentioned for growth and my hair is thick, healthy and literally to the middle of my back, well below my bra line; the longest it's ever been 🙌🏾. Thanks for sharing your knowledge, your hair is beautiful and so are you ❤.
@divinefreedom143
@divinefreedom143 4 жыл бұрын
It’s sad to hear that people have bad experiences with black cosmetologists. My sister is a cosmetologist and she does her best to protect peoples hair. She even gives tips on how to take care of your hair/hairstyle after you leave the salon. The salon she works at won’t even do wigs or certain hairstyles because it’s damaging to the hair. Find a professional who actually cares about keeping your hair healthy and not just making money.
@joycej8052
@joycej8052 4 жыл бұрын
Can you tell me where does your sister live please say Maryland LOL
@kra2051
@kra2051 4 жыл бұрын
One of the reasons is because they went to European cosmetology schools. The curriculum does not specialize in how to care for our African hair.
@maronichalyles7515
@maronichalyles7515 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I think when we dont take care of our hair and then we go to the salon this seems to be the case. In my experience beautician love scissors but I understand why some do, it because cutting is needed, split ends and damage, but by all means yes get someone who cares. We just gotta take better care is all.
@triplea2443
@triplea2443 4 жыл бұрын
Last brown lDy i let touch my hair snuck perm in it....2014..present day 2021..im just making it back to my length
@hobabie777
@hobabie777 4 жыл бұрын
I know for a fact I'm not the only one watching this when my hair hasn't grown past my shoulders
@aaliyahbey8630
@aaliyahbey8630 3 жыл бұрын
Same lolz - it’s alittle past my shoulders
@stanaellee
@stanaellee 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@reneengozi8517
@reneengozi8517 3 жыл бұрын
Sameeeee
@weruleyoudrool
@weruleyoudrool 3 жыл бұрын
And I thought I was complaining because mine won’t go past my nipple lol
@hobabie777
@hobabie777 3 жыл бұрын
@@weruleyoudrool 😭😭😭
@genesiskravitz8621
@genesiskravitz8621 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been cornrowing my own hair for about two years now and wearing glueless wigs. I’d bond it down for only special events. My hair grew like weeds. I just had to wash and deep condition every 3-4 weeks and moisturize gently with Jamaican black castor oil (my holy grail). My hair went from a short fro to my mid-back. It’s so thick and healthy and I even got to focus on my problem areas like my edges. If you can’t always braid yourself, get a good braider who cares for the health of the hair to do it. Don’t let him/her braid it too tight and make sure they deep condition your hair and use a moisturizer.
@obichukwuonwubolu5879
@obichukwuonwubolu5879 4 жыл бұрын
When you washed and deep conditioned was the conrow still on?
@rosettamiller4362
@rosettamiller4362 4 жыл бұрын
Ok prayer really changes everything. I'am going to the beauty and cosmetics store tomorrow & I buying the Jam, castor oil and look for a good moisture for my coarse hair! My hair always get wavy after I wash it I don't understand! I am thinking about trimming my ends as well and leave it alone for 5 to 6 months. Pray for my Glory!💖🌈🙏🌹
@nokwandadubazana5216
@nokwandadubazana5216 4 жыл бұрын
@@obichukwuonwubolu5879 Yes that's what I want to know too
@toya1139
@toya1139 4 жыл бұрын
What brand of Jamaican Black Castro Oil do you use? I heard that all brands at not made equally.
@jaybae7315
@jaybae7315 4 жыл бұрын
How do you prevent the wig from destroying your edges?
@katgreer6113
@katgreer6113 Жыл бұрын
1. Low manipulation/ not too much tension in protective styles 2. It's ok to leave it in for 3 months 3. Detangle hair WET when taking down your protective styles. Be gentle. 4. Moisturise your hair in a protective style. You don't have to do it everyday. Maybe a spray bottle and some oil on scalp.
@wintersui
@wintersui Жыл бұрын
thank you!
@RadicalforGod
@RadicalforGod 4 жыл бұрын
That’s why I don’t like hair stylists at salons combing my hair. They are too rough causing more breakage
@mercymbandi9890
@mercymbandi9890 4 жыл бұрын
I am so gentle yet not a salonist :) come to Kenya In short, look for me haha
@mimzwferguson
@mimzwferguson 4 жыл бұрын
So annoying
@SheenaKnightATL
@SheenaKnightATL 4 жыл бұрын
Im a hairstylist and I treat the hair preciously.
@jojo.-2144
@jojo.-2144 4 жыл бұрын
Right. I got my ends clipped and the lady was literally scratching my scalp off and combing from the scalp to the ends instead of the other way around😒
@RadicalforGod
@RadicalforGod 4 жыл бұрын
Jojo.*-* it’s best to comb and prep your own hair.
@BeNothingg
@BeNothingg 4 жыл бұрын
After watching your videos, I've been putting my hair in cornrows. Its been 6 months now and my hair has grown 5 inches. So thank you 😭
@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 4 жыл бұрын
That's amazing!
@12345678956824
@12345678956824 3 жыл бұрын
How long do you leave your cornrows in?
@CringeFest..
@CringeFest.. 3 жыл бұрын
@@12345678956824 They said 3 months.
@reina-knasz
@reina-knasz 3 жыл бұрын
Please are you African ❓
@reina-knasz
@reina-knasz 3 жыл бұрын
@@SeunOkimi PLEASE DO YOU APPLY RELAXER TO YOUR HAIR❓💛
@GucciGirl78
@GucciGirl78 4 жыл бұрын
people talked about me for keeping my protective styles for three months, finally someone gets it! THANK YOU. I knew I wasnt crazy. ❤️
@Ovulations
@Ovulations 4 жыл бұрын
Same!!!
@niyab862
@niyab862 4 жыл бұрын
Idc wym talked about you and what protective styled did you use?
@niyab862
@niyab862 4 жыл бұрын
Idc also how long did you hair grow after?
@niyab862
@niyab862 4 жыл бұрын
Idc and did it just make it longer or grow it?
@Ovulations
@Ovulations 4 жыл бұрын
Niya B I been natural my whole life. I’ll use any braids or twists I can, no extensions (& that’s just me), never too tight and I’ve always had long hair (could it be a result of these methods? Maybe). However as I’ve gotten older, I’ve been in the habit of almost ripping out my hair when taking them down. Last time I checked, My hair is about down to my nipple, and I’ve got 3 month old corn rows in right now. So, I’ll come back to this comment and let you know what’s going on after I take them out this time around.
@empressathanasiadealgerobe3661
@empressathanasiadealgerobe3661 3 жыл бұрын
The start of my hair problems was when a professional braided my hair too tight, which caused my hair to fall out. The rest was me being lazy about my hair. Now, I'm focusing more on it to hopefully help it grow more. So, this video is very helpful, Thank you.
@Rose87
@Rose87 4 жыл бұрын
The key is literally leaving your hair alone!! My hair grew so long when I kept it in sew in weaves for like 2 months at a time! I didn’t even moisturise my hair 😕 I just avoided direct heat and high manipulation.
@celesteglow1356
@celesteglow1356 4 жыл бұрын
Sameeeeee!!! I had my weave in for a while during the pandemic and finally took it out to be amazed by the growth!! And not I am switching to wigs so I can continue my hair growth ^-^ and my broken edges have grown back a lottt so lesss handling is great news for my hair!!
@meghandoodles1439
@meghandoodles1439 4 жыл бұрын
So, you guys just use box braids, leave them in 2 months and it will grow!?
@chii6865
@chii6865 4 жыл бұрын
@@meghandoodles1439 I leave my braids in 3 months and through trail and error I finally was able to learn how to take them out without wripping. I also believe the person who does the braids aid in this too and my hair retained the growth and it's over my shoulders
@Ovulations
@Ovulations 4 жыл бұрын
Same. People get mad at me because I start looking pretty rough at the end but hey it works
@meghandoodles1439
@meghandoodles1439 4 жыл бұрын
@@chii6865 Thank you so much! You explained it so well! 🥺💕
@TaneahKelley
@TaneahKelley 4 жыл бұрын
the comment about box braids and them cutting the "fly hairs"!!!!! I always tell the lady not to. like that is MY HAIR
@CW-iz1tk
@CW-iz1tk 4 жыл бұрын
Well I just realized the chick has been cutting mine and I’m pissed 😔
@TaneahKelley
@TaneahKelley 4 жыл бұрын
C W girrrrrrl! You’re about to find all sorts of fly hairs
@ginabeans2125
@ginabeans2125 4 жыл бұрын
I just put something on them to smooth them and tie them down. You should not have too many fly hairs in the box braids anyway because they may become split ends. If too much of your ends are hanging out they are not being protected by the box braids
@TaneahKelley
@TaneahKelley 4 жыл бұрын
Gina Beans right, but when they go up the braid to start cutting the hair to make the braid look neater, that’s still your hair.
@michellebrown3519
@michellebrown3519 4 жыл бұрын
@taneah kelley they should not be cutting your hair at all. A good braider should be tucking the natural hair under the braid hair. That's how you keep the style neat and have longevity. The ends where the braid get smaller up to a couple inches above should be the areas getting trimmed. Trust those short spiky pieces will poke you and become irritating over time. No amount of product will hold it down either. Again they definitely should be cutting your natural hair though
@lynjohnson4695
@lynjohnson4695 4 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I've learned over the last year! My hair craves moisture and loves to be left alone! So as long as I do those two things it grows and has grown past my shoulders for the first time in my adult life! Thank you so much for all the great advice!
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@annnyamburamajesty.
@annnyamburamajesty. 2 жыл бұрын
How do you keep it mosturized
@cerealis_5432
@cerealis_5432 2 жыл бұрын
What do you do to keep it moisturized?
@juicieleo813
@juicieleo813 3 жыл бұрын
This is probably the first video I was able to watch from beginning to end. I love how she speaks and gets straight to the point. She is very articulate. Thank you. I will watch more videos.
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370
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@modernakasha
@modernakasha 4 жыл бұрын
I noticed growth when i put my natural hair in mini twists without extensions for 1 month. I still dusted my ends, moisturized, sealed my ends with grease, and deep conditioned while my hair is in the twists.
@ayojoy7358
@ayojoy7358 4 жыл бұрын
That’s my routine as well
@iiFallenWish
@iiFallenWish 4 жыл бұрын
How did you moisturize and seal your ends when they were in twists? Did you take down the twists every time?
@ayojoy7358
@ayojoy7358 4 жыл бұрын
iiFallenWish let me explain I do everything in twist I only detangle and moisture each twist one by one on wash day then every three to five days I moisture with leave in and oil . I wash every month and dc . My shampoo is mediana dc ,leave in and oil are from mega Growth those plus a scalp cream is only I used
@modernakasha
@modernakasha 4 жыл бұрын
@@iiFallenWish after wash day I moisturize by using : water, my leave in, oil and grease and then I'll put my twists up in a bun and leave it there for a week. Every day and night, I Spritz my leave in conditioner (water and leave in cream mix) on my whole head without taking out my bun or any twists. The grease does an amazing job of keeping my ends moisturize as I have them protected anyways in the bun! Hope that helps
@ModelingTabi
@ModelingTabi 4 жыл бұрын
@Saint Ai just retwists the front to make it look neat. thats what i do
@mstodd16
@mstodd16 4 жыл бұрын
She’s telling the truth. My has grown like crazy. I’ve been doing this for 3 years.
@ojfriends5430
@ojfriends5430 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah?? What did you do?
@kiiarax4685
@kiiarax4685 4 жыл бұрын
OJ & FRIENDS lol did you not watch the video..
@mstodd16
@mstodd16 4 жыл бұрын
OJ & FRIENDS Protective hairstyles, but first and for most you have to cut off any Strangling the hairs or anything that might be dead. In my case I cut my hair every time I took my hair down. That was the best decision I made within those three years. Also when your hair is in a protective style you need to grease it or oil your hair at least once a week so you’ll keep the hydration in the braids. when you take your hair down I typically use conditioner but you can use oil that’s another way you could break up the dirt when you detangle your hair to minimize breakage. In addition to that I get my hair treated 2 to 3 times a year. My hair is consistently grown for three years. Just always remember to be consistent when you dealing with your hair.
@ojfriends5430
@ojfriends5430 4 жыл бұрын
@@mstodd16 thank you
@GrimmAdventuress
@GrimmAdventuress 4 жыл бұрын
As a black stylists we know how to do hair without damage, ya’ll just going to the wrong ones. you have to find the ones who genuinely love and care about their jobs rather the ones who care about the money. But yes, that’s accurate leave your hair alone. Get your ends clipped, split ends will split all the way up your hair shaft and break halfway through. keep it moisturized , dryness can cause your ends to break as well. Remember , dont get discouraged if your hair is falling out after a protective style. your hair naturally sheds off but when its in protective style the hair has nowhere to go. so when you take your styles out, hair falling out is normal. its just when it’s excessive that you should worry. your hair shouldn’t be breaking off halfway up your hair shafts. Take care of your ends, do your conditioning treatments (and protein if you use heat or color hair), moisturize, and silk bonnets/pillow sheets are the way to go! Also dont sleep on sulfer 8, that stuff works miracles.
@fancytam5050
@fancytam5050 4 жыл бұрын
Good day, does the sulfer 8 help with dandruff and itchy scalp? Thanks.
@dominiquexo4772
@dominiquexo4772 4 жыл бұрын
What should I do with my 4c hair? I am getting fed up trying to take care of it 😩
@GrimmAdventuress
@GrimmAdventuress 4 жыл бұрын
No, it does matter that you trim your ends. When you leave your ends split , it will split all the way up the hair until it breaks. to prevent that, you get them clipped. Its best to clip your ends atleast once every 2-3 months. it also depends on your hair. if your ends look thin , cut them off. if your hair looks healthy but you still have a few split ends, its okay to keep them for a while but you definitely want to keep them conditioned and moisturized.
@GrimmAdventuress
@GrimmAdventuress 4 жыл бұрын
fancy tam Yes, sulfur 8 helps with itchy scalp. I originally started using it for that but i noticed a lot of hair growth along with it. I always told people Quick weaves grew my hair but i stopped using sulfur 8 and my hair stopped growing. I recently started using it again and i noticed my hair is growing back ALOT again. Ive gotten alot of family to use it and they have noticed a difference as well.
@GrimmAdventuress
@GrimmAdventuress 4 жыл бұрын
Jess Cruz If you leave it out, water should be your bestfriend. Get spray bottles, mix oils, leave in conditioners, and water together and you can use that as a daily moisturizer. Just when you use it make sure to follow up with a cream moisturizer as well. Keep it styled too. If you like braids, sew-ins, crochet and different types of twists try them! You can always look on pinterest for style inspo. I have 4c but i color it. My hair has been dry from the bleach so ive been using a lot of water. Cantu is my bestfriend. Cantu is water based so it works for dry brittle hair best. In the past i hater cantu because it never worked for my hair but my hair wasnt dry back then and now that its need to be hydrated all the time cantu is perfect. Its all about finding products that fit your hairs needs.
@g-love0704
@g-love0704 3 жыл бұрын
Just took out knotless braids it literally took me hours because after every braid I detangled my hair and it was the least amount of hair I ever had come out. Slow and steady was the key for me.
@AdaughterofEloheim
@AdaughterofEloheim 2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't watch this whole video because of all the many many edit cuts she has but that idea you said about detangling after each braid makes alot of sense!
@getreal4real169
@getreal4real169 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@yeahok9082
@yeahok9082 4 жыл бұрын
I just want to see her shake her hair and separate it in halves for about 20 minutes. Wow, this is unbelievably amazing to watch!!
@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 You can watch my wash day
@user-iu8gn4ep2m
@user-iu8gn4ep2m 4 жыл бұрын
FI just subscribed and I'm curious do you trim your hair, if so do you diy or get it done professionally and how often 🤗🤗
@yeahok9082
@yeahok9082 4 жыл бұрын
@@SeunOkimi 💯💯💯💯
@blessingkehinde6584
@blessingkehinde6584 4 жыл бұрын
You're so funny
@kx8031
@kx8031 4 жыл бұрын
Seun Okimi that was low key shade
@ia3056
@ia3056 4 жыл бұрын
We are living in the age of Afro- Hair scientist!! Love that for Us!!!!!
@trawlins396
@trawlins396 4 жыл бұрын
Yep! There's so much info out there. But even before youtube there was blk hair care forums online that were the truth! Longhaircare forum was one.
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@savagetothestreetsmovies9370 3 жыл бұрын
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@jasminewilliams3264
@jasminewilliams3264 4 жыл бұрын
I just started my natural hair journey about a month ago, I'm 16, and you have no idea how much this video had helped and inspired me.
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@sultanaibrahim531
@sultanaibrahim531 3 жыл бұрын
Please share your tips.🥺
@karlacristina777
@karlacristina777 3 жыл бұрын
Be strong, girl! 💕 Love from Brazil!
@Lily-ow5wm
@Lily-ow5wm 2 жыл бұрын
How’s it going
@jasminewilliams3264
@jasminewilliams3264 2 жыл бұрын
@@sultanaibrahim531 I have none. I started my locs 4 months ago 😅
@mojisoladeji
@mojisoladeji 3 жыл бұрын
I was reading the comments as I watched the video (useful tips, by the way, thank you) and I can say that you're the first KZbinr I have seen who has liked as many comments (if not all) from a video. That says something about your character. You are taking the time to interact with your audience. Well done, it's a nice trait.
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@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 3 жыл бұрын
Aw, thank you!!
@mrs.truth-seeker6874
@mrs.truth-seeker6874 2 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree with this comment
@JustCallMeDani
@JustCallMeDani 4 жыл бұрын
The build up in EVERY SINGLE BRAID is the most frustrating thing 😂😂 but that is a VERY good tip... TAKE YOUR TIME!
@solarlola5953
@solarlola5953 4 жыл бұрын
JustCallMe Dani if there was a way we could blow it out..maybe I’ll try air duster 😂
@JustCallMeDani
@JustCallMeDani 4 жыл бұрын
@@solarlola5953 😂😂😂😂
@katrinaharris7437
@katrinaharris7437 4 жыл бұрын
This is how I grow my hair! People would look at me in disgust when I would say I keep my hair in for 3months.. A past long term hair stylist taught me this (Annointed Too, Tallahassee, FL). After she treated my hair, I would get sew in & she would have me to go between my braids with Wild Growth Oil or Wild Growth oil mixed with Minoval. My hair would grow long down my back... everyone walking out her salon had BEAUTIFUL long hair! Her hands were definitely Annointed😇
@Sadity25
@Sadity25 4 жыл бұрын
I love wild growth oil but I never heard of minoval..... Which one you think works better or they both about the same?
@serginebeaubrun9868
@serginebeaubrun9868 4 жыл бұрын
Minovallllll? Cherie you Haitian? Lol..
@leemuhall9810
@leemuhall9810 4 жыл бұрын
Is there an alternative to minoval? Im in Greece at the moment and my natural hair is screaming for aome real tlc but I can’t get it from here.
@serginebeaubrun9868
@serginebeaubrun9868 4 жыл бұрын
@@leemuhall9810 get some biotin and MSM. Drink plenty of water as MSM can give u headaches
@leemuhall9810
@leemuhall9810 4 жыл бұрын
Sergine Beaubrun thank you💕
@lesegoyv
@lesegoyv 4 жыл бұрын
I tried leaving my braids for 2 months and my hair grew so much. 🙏🏽
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@Humblequeen-m5c
@Humblequeen-m5c 3 жыл бұрын
Did you wear a wig the whole time ? Am interested because I want to try this with wearing a wig. Thanks
@adamdashawn
@adamdashawn 3 жыл бұрын
So refreshing to have you speak facts instead of pushing products. Thanks, Queen.
@theanxoiushero800
@theanxoiushero800 4 жыл бұрын
Me watching this with 1 inch of hair: 👁👄👁
@K1llsh0tz
@K1llsh0tz 4 жыл бұрын
Lol me too 😂😂
@brownbeautii1908
@brownbeautii1908 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@ammaamma1717
@ammaamma1717 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@susandoyle1177
@susandoyle1177 4 жыл бұрын
Yup. Me too
@necolesettles1720
@necolesettles1720 4 жыл бұрын
Me sitting next to you with an extra 1/2 inch🧐🧐🧐
@Christain214
@Christain214 4 жыл бұрын
I am guilty of not taking my time when taking my hair down 😞
@lesimalek3153
@lesimalek3153 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@ruthsaintvil8077
@ruthsaintvil8077 4 жыл бұрын
I have a whole fight. Rip, tear, break. And do it again
@lenacheri7624
@lenacheri7624 4 жыл бұрын
This is true! I started 2 strand twisting and leaving it for a month. Spraying it with moisture and oiling. My hair is growing and healthy now
@lenacohen3897
@lenacohen3897 3 жыл бұрын
What are you spraying it with? When I leave a protective style too long, my scalp gets sooooo dry
@ruthngaruiya4808
@ruthngaruiya4808 3 жыл бұрын
What moisture?
@delsie8461
@delsie8461 3 жыл бұрын
@@lenacohen3897 I normally spray my hair with a mixture of my blue magic leave in conditioner (it doesn’t matter which leave in, that’s just my go to) diluted with water. That way I’m not weighing down my hair.
@xperted___pt234
@xperted___pt234 3 жыл бұрын
@@delsie8461 you put it in your hair or scalp!
@xperted___pt234
@xperted___pt234 3 жыл бұрын
@@delsie8461 do you put it in scalp or hair ?
@cheyannerockett8870
@cheyannerockett8870 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I found this video. My family does my hair and to put it short: they basically believe pain means it will last longer. I hated weaves because they irritate my scalp but nothing else lasts in my hair. Now that I have control over my hair and left it alone besides a good washing since it get very dry and is dandruff prone, my hair has done very well.
@Only_1_me_Ari.B
@Only_1_me_Ari.B 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a master cosmetologist of 7 + years and let me just say that I always treat hair like a plant. I’m gentle, careful, patient and loving. I will take all day to detangle if necessary BUT ☝🏾 time is money. Keep your hair hydrated. Keep your scalp hydrated. Make sure your split ends are managed. Split ends split upward in direction which will decrease length retention. Cut them off and you’ll retain more length. Stylist with “growing hands” are just stylist who take care of your hair delicately and focus on its health. Not all hair stylist are the same guys ♥️♥️♥️ all of my natural clients have looooong hair.
@yasminlucky7939
@yasminlucky7939 4 жыл бұрын
Do you live in Cali?
@Only_1_me_Ari.B
@Only_1_me_Ari.B 4 жыл бұрын
No. Sorry I’m in Atlanta
@dasiacollier530
@dasiacollier530 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, im looking for a stylist in Atlanta. If you dont mind, could I have your Instagram?
@1980SRobinson
@1980SRobinson 4 жыл бұрын
Mines too.... always been told I had a “growing hand” & this how I would reply: “I have the same hands as you, just a hair education on what NOT to do that I will HAPPILY share with you!”
@clarissaharris3908
@clarissaharris3908 4 жыл бұрын
Do you have a beauty shop in atlanta
@THOMAR624
@THOMAR624 4 жыл бұрын
Can we just talk about how you’re killing it in the thumbnail, girl !
@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 4 жыл бұрын
❤️
@rosangeliepolanco3937
@rosangeliepolanco3937 4 жыл бұрын
YESS the thumbnail itself is why i clicked on the video
@valgailjarrett
@valgailjarrett 3 жыл бұрын
Its genetic too
@cutflower36
@cutflower36 4 жыл бұрын
Your telling the Truth, when I went natural in 2011, I still had a cycle of growth and breakage. So in 2017 I started wearing twist, no heat and wigs, I've seen my hair retaining length. So yes leave your hair alone, it will grow.
@LitMusicYT
@LitMusicYT 3 жыл бұрын
Thank god, this video isn't a waste of time like other video, she tried her best to explain as much detail as possible. And everything that she is saying is in fact true. She as my sub, well done.
@Nonyah123
@Nonyah123 4 жыл бұрын
After 18 years of growing my locs I'm ready to apply the same principles to grow my natural hair to waist length too! I'm confident I can get it there in 4-5 years by just keeping it in protective styles till it has reached desired length
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfdaYyCa96hhpY
@nanahn.9192
@nanahn.9192 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, the only time I felt that my hair grew more than usual was when I left it alone and I was also using rice water. Once I saw growth I got excited and thought it was because of the rice water. Turns out it was doing protective style and leaving it alone. Thanks for the transparency cause most of the time I just see youtubers repeating what others said. Anyway have a good one and I really appreciate it.
@bookiea3918
@bookiea3918 4 жыл бұрын
Most concise and accurate advise I've ever heard about black hair care, thank you!!
@robynkeonia
@robynkeonia 3 жыл бұрын
my hair fell out because of my lupus and now that it’s under control and thicker i’m trying to find ways to get my length back. before it all fell out it was at my butt. it took me 5 years to grow it out. us black girls know how hard that is. thank you for the tips!
@California-king
@California-king 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you doing better now
@athaliiekouassi5773
@athaliiekouassi5773 4 жыл бұрын
“Leave your hair alone!” That’s why your man has longer hair than you...
@YPM498
@YPM498 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@Chosen4Abundance24
@Chosen4Abundance24 4 жыл бұрын
Yes leave her alone. Water her and massage scalp. She will grow👍
@kianamcintyre9671
@kianamcintyre9671 4 жыл бұрын
@@Chosen4Abundance24 stop the cap that biss does not grow either way 😭
@Chosen4Abundance24
@Chosen4Abundance24 4 жыл бұрын
@@kianamcintyre9671 What are you trying to communicate? I dont understand the slang
@monkiaray9093
@monkiaray9093 4 жыл бұрын
This is true
@tinkalinks
@tinkalinks 4 жыл бұрын
Listen! The part about the stylist “making the braids neat” with scissors.... I cringe every time I see anyone do that. They’re cutting you hair🤦🏾‍♀️Great video!
@saej7499
@saej7499 4 жыл бұрын
Ohh yes! The lady that used to do my hair, cut my edges even when I asked her not to.
@ihateyoukash
@ihateyoukash 4 жыл бұрын
Aniya Raine millennials are not kids. they are 26 to 40 years old. and frankly us “kids” are tired of being called millennials; so please stop.
@iiFallenWish
@iiFallenWish 4 жыл бұрын
@Aniya Raine 30 and 40 year olds are kids now?
@meditatingonthemoon
@meditatingonthemoon 4 жыл бұрын
This comment literally triggered me. I had a stylist literally cut a big chunk of my hair and pretended she did it by mistake. It took everything within me not to knock tf out of her bc I didn’t wanna be imprisoned 🤣🤣 but Lord did I cause a scene THAT day 🙂
@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 4 жыл бұрын
it's true!
@fireke9346
@fireke9346 4 жыл бұрын
People who disliked this are craze no cap... They prolly bald
@lccoffie5198
@lccoffie5198 4 жыл бұрын
Lol...
@msshannonigans
@msshannonigans 4 жыл бұрын
Real talk, these videos are my ish. I don't have the right hair type to best benefit from her advice, but she's so amazing I continue to watch and learn. I was blown away by your comment - like, I was convinced there were like 2 or 3 dislikes. When I saw the amount... I got straight angry. You called it: the only reason somebody could dislike her is out of jealousy.
@didijean7735
@didijean7735 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@VirtuousJeda
@VirtuousJeda 4 жыл бұрын
Facts 🤣🤣🤣 .
@redhoodin2422
@redhoodin2422 4 жыл бұрын
hahaaha
@indigo-streak9912
@indigo-streak9912 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not black but I have thick, wavy hair and they break and I could never grow it past my shoulder blades until I tried braiding them and my gosh they're growing now ❤
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/aH2WqJ1rpZijhbc
@sorenadix6411
@sorenadix6411 4 жыл бұрын
"Comb" your hair with your fingers, and comb/brush once/twice per month (boar's hair), trim ends once/twice per year. Water, water, water your natural hair!! 💅
@tammycmd
@tammycmd 4 жыл бұрын
I only comb my hair when I detangle it before I wash it once every two weeks. If its dry I moisturize it with a leave in conditioner and water do a twist out a rock a high fro ponytail.
@TheShanieB
@TheShanieB 4 жыл бұрын
Ppl SERIOUSLY underestimate the importance of your hair getting water.
@Gajuanlaw15
@Gajuanlaw15 4 жыл бұрын
TheShanieB from drinking water or actually putting it onto your scalp and hair?
@youngqueencourage6967
@youngqueencourage6967 4 жыл бұрын
@@Gajuanlaw15 thats what im wondering
@deborahnyarko6183
@deborahnyarko6183 4 жыл бұрын
YoungQueen Courage I think using actual water on your hair. That’s what I do and it really makes a difference. Your hair needs water more than anything! But also actually drinking water and staying hydrated is important too!
@alexiacolette9994
@alexiacolette9994 4 жыл бұрын
I remember how my classmates used to laugh each time I said I kept my braids in for 4 months. Who’s laughing now?🤪
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfdaYyCa96hhpY
@theonlynatasha
@theonlynatasha 4 жыл бұрын
Extra tip : make sure when you’re doing a trim of your split ends use sharp actual hair shears that haven’t been used on any other surface other than your hair otherwise it can cause split ends itself
@ChantelCutsUp
@ChantelCutsUp 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct!
@dunlapcap
@dunlapcap 4 жыл бұрын
Outrageously correct. At the start of my journey in 2015, I made this horrible mistake, my hair took MONTHS to recover by going to the stylist and getting all the split ends I CREATED (using regular office scissors) cut off. Set me back so so much.
@Michelle-lo2mv
@Michelle-lo2mv 4 жыл бұрын
Caprice Dunlap me reading this after cutting 3 inches off with 5 year old school scissors 👁👄👁
@LifeWithKay1157
@LifeWithKay1157 3 жыл бұрын
This method definitely works, been doing it for 6 months and my hair is the longest it’s ever been ! Thanks girly ♥️
@MindlessCrispyx
@MindlessCrispyx 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been doing the least to my hair all year and it’s honestly been growing like never before. I avoid heavy products and use oils instead and moisturise it with masks every so often, it took me a while to come to the conclusion that the least you do ,the better. I keep my hair in twists most of the time, under wigs or under hair wraps and do my braids looser than most people. And it’s honestly been the best thing ever. Many call it lazy but it works.
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfdaYyCa96hhpY
@thebeautystanley
@thebeautystanley 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly.. I do the least with my hair… and it has grown so much the past 6 months ..
@KurosakiLuvar01
@KurosakiLuvar01 Жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes! Less is more! Some are just constantly in their hair 24/7 and wonder why they have all this breakage.
@thatsbeverly3305
@thatsbeverly3305 4 жыл бұрын
I keep my hair in for 3 months as well..I stretched it to 4 months one time and everyone looked at me in disgust but when they saw the length of my hair they started begging me to tell them what I use lol..I literally agree with everything you are saying
@aderojubukola7634
@aderojubukola7634 4 жыл бұрын
How do keep your hair neat during that period? Doesn't it itch or smell?
@thatsbeverly3305
@thatsbeverly3305 4 жыл бұрын
@@aderojubukola7634 no it doesn’t tbh..I don’t do anything...
@aderojubukola7634
@aderojubukola7634 4 жыл бұрын
@@thatsbeverly3305 wow I will give it a shot. Thank you.
@thatsbeverly3305
@thatsbeverly3305 4 жыл бұрын
@@aderojubukola7634 you should and I promise you your hair will grow soo well
@aderojubukola7634
@aderojubukola7634 4 жыл бұрын
@@thatsbeverly3305 😁 Thank you once again.
@YeaNo.
@YeaNo. 4 жыл бұрын
I love wearing knotless box braids it eliminates a lot of the buildup from knotted box braids. Grows my hair nicely and its easier to moisturize your hair
@dorothywamaitha6924
@dorothywamaitha6924 4 жыл бұрын
How do you keep your hair moisurised in braids?
@YeaNo.
@YeaNo. 4 жыл бұрын
🥰 knotless box braids are the best option for this as knotted box braids are heavy and cover most your hair as its tucked into the braid (if the hair braider is good). To moisturize with knotless braids you'll need a spray bottle full of water you can either mix in your favorite leave in conditioner OR apply the leave in after spraying your hair damp with the water. Once your done with that apply your favorite oil or hair grease! Once that's done you're all set. Repeat as often as necessary I do it 3x a week.
@Rys_nailco
@Rys_nailco 4 жыл бұрын
I really want to knot braid on myself but I’m scared that because the texture of my birracial hair it will fall out and become frizzy
@YeaNo.
@YeaNo. 4 жыл бұрын
@@Rys_nailco I've never heard of braids of any kind making anyone's hair frizzy. I know knotted box braids on fine hair can make fine hair fall out because they're heavy and tug on the hair too tight. But knotless box braids are pretty weightless if they're thin. I do mine myself all the time and never had any issues.
@Rys_nailco
@Rys_nailco 4 жыл бұрын
@@YeaNo. really ? Watch hair type do you have I have 3a- 3C
@senaitbennett9226
@senaitbennett9226 3 жыл бұрын
You are the first person that explain about African American (African) hair growth properly I always tell to my customers the same thing all the time Thank you for making this video I really appreciate you I will really share it!!
@PoptartKid
@PoptartKid 4 жыл бұрын
I finally learned how to cornrow my own hair during this pandemic. With that being said, I've been wearing crochet braids and its been such a huge relief to be able to control the tension of the braids and save on money. :)
@lanaer8496
@lanaer8496 4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾... Learning how to crochet braid my own hair was such a blessing for me!!
@akanotgiveafuck6970
@akanotgiveafuck6970 4 жыл бұрын
Once my mom went to get sew ins and she kept in for quite a long time she got some new growth too but her edges were snatched, mind you the sew in didn't even look good my uncle literally said and I quote " why the part look like when moses did part the red sea" Sorry for my english my uncle said it in patois so I tried my best to change it to proper English
@mensahpraise5028
@mensahpraise5028 4 жыл бұрын
😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you're funny
@akanotgiveafuck6970
@akanotgiveafuck6970 4 жыл бұрын
@@mensahpraise5028 lo thanks
@jerryokonji411
@jerryokonji411 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@larissaa247
@larissaa247 4 жыл бұрын
joonie's expensive girl i freaking love your username 🤣💀
@akanotgiveafuck6970
@akanotgiveafuck6970 4 жыл бұрын
@@larissaa247 thank you lol
@shannonarmstrong6364
@shannonarmstrong6364 4 жыл бұрын
I moisturize daily my 4c 4b hair loves it.. my hair hates small braids or twists.. no wigs or weaves Your hair is gorgeous
@user-bm8rr2gx7z
@user-bm8rr2gx7z 3 жыл бұрын
I redo my hair every big break. Start of school, Easter, Summer, Christmas unless it looks like I REALLY need a refresher
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfdaYyCa96hhpY
@DJ_Ndiks
@DJ_Ndiks 4 жыл бұрын
I keep my hair in large box braids and I moisturize it with Softn Free Ant-Dandruff Curl Moisturising Spray. This has made a difference in my hair. For me moisture is a very important part of growing my hair.
@briellecruz4170
@briellecruz4170 4 жыл бұрын
This has been the first natural hair video (in a LONG time) that I enjoyed. Beautiful Dark skin woman. Dropping knowledge. Getting to the point instead of posing in front of a camera regurgitating the same damn style. Subscribing now!
@trawlins396
@trawlins396 4 жыл бұрын
Girrrlll I can't stand when KZbinrs do nothing but pose. So worried about looking cute 🙄.
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfdaYyCa96hhpY
@70revere
@70revere 3 жыл бұрын
Dang yall be so distracted by skin color. That kind of obsession is an obstacle to progress.
@Pomagranite167
@Pomagranite167 3 жыл бұрын
Theres nothing wrong with acknowledging a person's skin tone or darkness- its only a problem when u specifically point it out to degrade someone. I think the problem is you bc for some reason, acknowledging blackness and dark skin makes u uncomfortable for whatever reason.
@traceydumase
@traceydumase 4 жыл бұрын
Protective styling has honestly grown my hair out more in the past few months than it has in the 3+ years I've been natural. And that's because I started being more deliberate with my takedown process. I protective style with mini braids and I've been keeping them in 2-3 months so far. Keeping my current braids in til' October (which will be just under 4 months)
@tonedeafdavis
@tonedeafdavis 2 жыл бұрын
Because of this video I am now in my 6 month of protective styling and my hair and scalp problems have all but disappeared. Now I'm upping the ante and doing things like trying to be more mindful of bad habits such as touching my hair throughout the day as this depletes the oil. I wouldn't be on this journey if you hadn't have made me see the light. Thank you Seun!
@alicepie3660
@alicepie3660 Жыл бұрын
How often do you wash your hair?
@valeriastokes504
@valeriastokes504 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lenght, but I will braid my hair during long stretches and wear a crown. Otherwise I do buns, tucked ends and rotating the bun. Patience is important re: any protective style. But moisturizing is key, cause dry hair breaks.
@tastelesssoperatatouille4396
@tastelesssoperatatouille4396 4 жыл бұрын
This is so true. My hair didn’t start growing until I started wearing box braids and fixing them every two months. The back of my hair grows extremely fast with big box braids and the top grows faster with smaller ones
@mademoiselle_milla
@mademoiselle_milla 4 жыл бұрын
Set it and forget it!!! I’m a protective style junky and it’s been my weapon in retaining length, too. Lol I feel so affirmed by this video. People have this misconception that protective styles are hair neglect and it’s more like hair rest. Awesome tips!! Also, for your point at 14:38 - agreed! moisturizing *everyday* can lead to product build up, especially waxy edge controls. I generally spray with a leave in every few days, then moisturize and oil as needed. I have low porosity hair and if it’s properly moisturized before the style, it retains moisture pretty well throughout. Also, if I’m wearing box braids for an extended period, I’ll get the edges redone like every 6 weeks.
@lainawaina9972
@lainawaina9972 3 жыл бұрын
This is true braids and protected styling makes your hair grow
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfdaYyCa96hhpY
@bonitameredith8991
@bonitameredith8991 4 жыл бұрын
It is nice to hear honesty from experience instead of talking to talk. And the tips are very helpful like not braiding too tight when doing crochet to allow for the installed hair to have room makes good common sense. Thank you for giving me some hope.
@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@chira5035
@chira5035 4 жыл бұрын
She low key looks like Gabriel Union. ...
@ElleBellsChannel
@ElleBellsChannel 4 жыл бұрын
She looks like Shanicia Knowles.
@julieraenemalidde5371
@julieraenemalidde5371 4 жыл бұрын
Boy! I’d be whipping that hair in ppls faces if I had it!! So there!!
@butterflyj685
@butterflyj685 4 жыл бұрын
I thinks she favors more like Serayah McNeill /(Tiana) from Empire just with straight dark hair.
@gucciidaily3743
@gucciidaily3743 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss
@chantellify
@chantellify 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely the same tribe as Gabirel
@mermaidglow6998
@mermaidglow6998 4 жыл бұрын
Seems like you had a spiritual journey with your hair, a journey of learning and overcoming. SOOOOO HAPPY THIS VIDEO IS OUT. Breaks my heart every time I hear a beautiful (and frustrated) Black girl saying her hair don't grow. I stopped years ago going to the salon, seriously more than 17 years ago. Their business is making money from cutting y'alls hair, you want it to grow protected, don't abuse heat, and frankly don't cut it all the time. I grew my hair long, I do relax, I'm older, I tried growing natural years ago that didn't go well, but it is long.
@an922mo68
@an922mo68 2 жыл бұрын
Now. I can honestly say this woman is thoroughly enjoying the process and very specific with the examples that people need to actually grow their hair including the damage that a hair stylist can do to our hair especially pulling it and cutting it! The best hair video on KZbin for hair growth. Absolutely the best!!!
@aaliyahismail4514
@aaliyahismail4514 4 жыл бұрын
Listen to what she’s saying. I’m 11 and also have waist length hair, and that’s because I always wear braids
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370
@savagetothestreetsmovies9370 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfdaYyCa96hhpY
@vibez398
@vibez398 3 жыл бұрын
box braids or just mini braids without extension?
@galaxyhouston9377
@galaxyhouston9377 4 жыл бұрын
Am I early or am I early?!!!!! 😍😍😍 We love to see black hair flourishhhhhhhhh
@SeunOkimi
@SeunOkimi 4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@therelaxedafro7539
@therelaxedafro7539 4 жыл бұрын
"Am I early or am I early" 🤣 you must have been sooo early lolz
@yougogirl9439
@yougogirl9439 4 жыл бұрын
I was meant to watch you!! I had two dreams my hair grew at my butt. And you’re right! I keep my hair in my braids for two months and it grew so well!! I’ll keep doing it. Thank you thank you!!
@nonamegiven56
@nonamegiven56 3 жыл бұрын
You've hit the nail right on the head. I've been saying this for years. Ppl are very impatient.
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