Did The 'Man in the House' Rule DESTROY Black Families?

[@cvlastra]

The man brings order, with no man there is no order

[@wakinglife7065]

Order and routine. Children thrive on routine. Such as specific dinner times, bed times and weekly planning. Children sleep better with men in the house. Plus daughters menstruate earlier without a man in the house so in effect they have a prolonged childhood by simply the father being present. Fathers are so important

[@aaronhines9810]

The man of the house hold builds the family structure, but in today's world where there's no man of the house hold how can he destroy a house he doesn't live in?

[@blas4me50]

It's all Jermaine's fault.

[@sionrouge1697]

If there was no government intervention or child support it would force the women to make better choices.

[@aishadelva1623]

He's destrythr household by not being present

[@rlj615]

​@@aishadelva1623 Some could have left the house but not all. Most force out the household due wife is not satisfied with job the husband. So they say hey since James isn't making a whole lot but I don't want to work. So I would ask the government to assist my lazy butt. All I have to do is force James out and have control of the kids and I would have a chance to get food stamps. It was the plan of the government to separate us.

[@thetruthandnothingbutthetr6484]

@@rlj615black women (honestly all women) should stop procreating with black men

[@magicworld3242]

Watch the movie (Claudine) from 1974. Starring Diahann Carol and James Earl Jones. Maybe it could give some clarity on this subject.

[@cazziehoward6995]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@LIVEFRMNYC]

That movie is timeless.

[@decarlowilson]

Yes

[@MitchMitch77-77]

Some of us are just stuck in a Gossypium herbaceum mindset! The only thing missing is the field!

[@Nessman99]

The benefits were only supposed to be temporary. They also had free training to get a job so you can come off the benefits. Section 8 was an emergency service then. It was like if you were burned out. That was temporary too. What happened is our little sisters kept finding ways to combat the system by continuing to have children and picking the wrong dude to impregnate them. The ones who were criminals or hustlers. The cycle continues.

[@logicalcritik2144]

What you say is true but let's be honest, most women in this situation are easy and loose with the cooch, and lacks sexual discipline, giving those criminals and hustlers access to their wombs.

[@magicworld3242]

@Nessman99, The Projects was suppose to be temporary housing, The (Sista's) have made it into generational housing. You'll see, The Great grandmother, The Grandmother, The mother and her daughter, all living in the same apartment, with no man in sight. Then all 4 generations of women are taught to blame men.

[@GaryTisdaleFungkSta1]

@@logicalcritik2144 Liberal Indoctrination of Liberal White Deviant Ideologies Most of the social engineering of the Black Community is from the Liberal Left, through educational institutions and the media they control and setting up conditions to manipulate warriors and wise men out of the community, weakens the community's protection and more success-able to control the women and their offspring That's why Blacks buy into the dysfunctional tropes Liberal White Media consistently feeds to the Black audience and acts it out

[@newtonraymond77]

This is what's KS spoke of constantly, the black woman who traded the husband for food stamps

[@thetruthandnothingbutthetr6484]

Yeah , she should’ve just let her children starve instead and wait on the black man to provide

[@JBoomer-pi6ml]

Adults need to make better decisions, because ultimately the children can suffer.

[@jimmiejackson8489]

They. Do. Not. Care. F-R-E-E M-O-N-E-Y

[@HomieSimpSon]

I lived through this in the early 70s. But my father did not leave the family, he died. Before that we lived in a house - after he died we had to move into government housing. Most of the women living there had children with no man in the house and on government assistance. They were told that men were not allowed to live there or they would lose their benefits.

[@bookerlo1977]

True.

[@Nessman99]

​@@bookerlo1977.I understand. That was another reason for the breakdown of the family. Especially if your mom was a stay at home mom. I am proud that you made something of yourself and family. Respect

[@redpillscience1288]

​@@Nessman99 all choices bro

[@Nessman99]

@@redpillscience1288 yup all day.

[@Princeguitarz]

Michon now you know why they cut her off, if he's not working he is suppose to apply for welfare; otherwise it's "FRAUD"!!! (Claudine) 🤣🤣🤣

[@caramel_belight]

Just like James said it! 💯💯💯

[@darylrichardson8567]

You don’t have to go to college, to know that getting rid of your MAN for food stamps isn’t a good deal. You can do this without long division

[@marcushennings9513]

Exactly, imo the first problem is their selection of men they chose to get impregnated by. Then, there's the abuse of the system by making it a lifelong profession instead of a short-term solution, whereas many will strategically space the birth of a child to keep the benefits coming in. This falls directly in the hands of females, not some conspiracy plot by the Man or their man, but even if it is exactly how many times are they gonna fall for it. They're not imprisoned and in many cases could figure out arrangements for fathers to see their children the same way they'll figure how to sneak out and cheat on their man when they want to suchas meet ups at a family member's or friends house, public parks etc they just dont want them to see their fathers or perhaps not exactly sure which one actually is the father.

[@mizkomunikation9478]

When a welfare check offers more than you can provide, that means you’re just living off of a woman.

[@randidennis7790]

We've been saying this for years. In fact, if one looks at how the 'great society ' programs of the late 60's were structured, this was encouraged. Worse still, an entire 'industry ' of agencies that preyed on the poor [meaning mostly urban poor blacks, Hispanics and some whites], doing exactly this. Besides, this provided office jobs for 'activists ' who could not find work otherwise.

[@ranman7729]

More knowledge, more education........More SELFISHNESS!!!!! More Individualism,More proof that this was always cool with black women.

[@couldbeanyone8174]

Yes! Just the way Margaret Sanger wanted it to, as well as the government system, smh 🤦🏿, so it made it seems as if women can do it on their own 🤷🏾😂🤣🤣🤣

[@logicalcritik2144]

Sure, but they needed some willing participants.

[@redpillscience1288]

​@@logicalcritik2144 yup and the useful idiots are still being duped the same tactics in the form of liberalism

[@PSYCHDEGREE63]

They had to pay for food stamps back in the day 🤔🤔, that's crazy, sorry for the loss of her child 🙏

[@theresapoll]

No woman in her right mind would rather have SS, then the man in the home. If the man stayed around then it wouldn't be no struggle for the couple.

[@matthewbrown8679]

Depends on the man.

[@darkage5]

You must not have been paying attention to history as it unfolded around you. Millions of women did exactly this. The welfare system destroyed the majority of black families for decades.And women are having babies for the benefits even now. How do you not see this being as common as the cold?

[@aishadelva1623]

THANK YOU! THE MAIN ISSUE IS MEN KEEP LEAVING

[@Cuteave1004]

Not keep leaving but expect women to put up with they bs just to keep him

[@mikenuyen4441]

Early 1960's. families with a husband and employed were required to pay a small percentage of their wage to obtain a much larger amount of those colorful food stamp booklets. many women would lie and say no man was living there. the caseworker always made an appointment so you knew when to hide things. Didn't want the state to know you were living with a man.. When mom had another kid we had to hid him so they would not take the ADC or ADFC away and put you on General Assistance for a year. General Assistance meant vouchers, direct pay to vendors etc. No cash, no car, no entertainment but everything is free.

[@wonderfulwatsoncpa]

Short Answer - Yep! Those who are too young to remember need not respond.

[@seanoconnor1478]

Some people confuse academic achievement and intellect..

[@richardasunrise3514]

We take away all these social services that continue to be abused and so I'm going broke because of all that abuse so what did they do now they find a way to take care of what's theirs what they signed up for!

[@Joe-qg7iw]

If one is enlighten then one is a troubled man and if one is happy then one is living in the dark.

[@thundacat9378]

Deep…. But I think I understand

[@marieriddick8388]

Initially, you did have to pay for food stamps. For every dollar you paid, you would get $1.50 worth of stamps.

[@pervertedalchemist9944]

It if wasn't for the internet, a lot of people would attempt to rewrite history to suit their false narratives.

[@lennylink8772]

The internet made it easy to manipulate people... example BLM, the media only showed edited clips in order to manipulate the viewers thoughts. When you leave out the fact that a suspect was reaching for a weapon, or choosing not to share a story on police brutality because the officer was the wrong skin color...

[@pervertedalchemist9944]

​@@lennylink8772 Except I was speaking clearly on the past...not the present...

[@lennylink8772]

@@pervertedalchemist9944 That is the past.

[@sergeant1446]

Attempt? They already did, they rewrote everything.

[@redpillscience1288]

What false narrative

[@stebo5562]

Don’t accept gifts from your enemy

[@wayne9489]

I love watching your content 😊

[@aaronhines9810]

Oh almost forgot, I got the 7# like ☺

[@jaygray6595]

WHOA you had to PAY FOR FOOD STAMPS back in the gap......SHEEEESH!🤦🤦🤦

[@williamstraughan2949]

you know pres johnson started all of this mess

[@hamilton215]

We still judge over here.

[@tyronebost2743]

Sorry, I meant in 1950. The marriage rates for Black women was probable to that of whites. And in the 30s, the marriage rates were higher because our culture at the time placed a great stigma on black women who had babies out of wedlock. It was also a disgrace to their families for them to do so. Something happened to change the cultural norm. Yes, it was welfare policy. Get rid of your husband if you want medical care and food. I am not blaming anybody for being a bum back then, because this was prior to the march on Washington for jobs and freedom. It was very hard for a black man to get a decent job outside of shining shoes, being a butler, a chauffeur, Coleman, porter etc.. I if you look at the war on drugs and resulting mass incarceration, and how a criminal record will make you unable to get a decent job just like before the civil rights movement you will see striking similarities. I know you shouldn’t sell drugs, but the government shouldn’t dump crack in impoverished Single-family neighborhoods to pay for wars against communism in Central America (setting up the culture of drug dealing on a massive scale in these impoverished neighborhoods. If there are no good men to Guy, these kids, there will be plenty of bad man who will set them up and business. Thanks a lot more complex than what we make them out to be sometimes but you are right nobody should lay down and have a baby with a bum But there’s enough blame to go around for everybody, including the government and the successful Black people who only want to ridicule and look down their noses, not provide any real help. Read about the crack epidemic. Also read about alcohol, prohibition, and all the violence that happen with alcohol was illegal and white people were poor. this is not all genetics a lot of his pathologies or a lot more complex. That you may think and no you still shouldn’t have a baby with a bum.

[@iampaytontv]

This is a bunch of garbage. If the “government” dropped drugs and guns off at my front door, I don’t have to distribute them. It is a CHOICE to sell and distribute drugs and guns to your community. If you break the law, you will be held accountable. Plain and simple. Black men have been trying to paint this narrative and it’s stupid. The system didn’t make y’all sell crack- a highly addictive substance to pregnant women in your community. Black men destroyed the community through drugs, guns, promotion of violence, abandonment of families, and lack of provision, among other things. Black children were impoverished because their fathers either abandoned their mother OR he was there and would not work.

[@cazziehoward6995]

I love your content 🙌

[@katrinastrub1255]

You used to have to buy food stamps... basically you got a lot of stamps for a little money.

[@ther9924]

OMG the teaser photo😂. I saw a couple who looked just like that in Sam's Club today

[@rastazrealities]

In other words; our ancestral people sold us out a llllllllooooooonnnnngggggg time ago.

[@sergeant1446]

What the he'll are you talking about? you ninjas are ignorant as A/F

[@theresapoll]

You've some black women out here having a tribe of children, so they don't have to work.[ those women are slickers] Then you've black women out here receiving SS and once they get a steady job , no more SS. Once the women did something with her life, even though the man left l can respect her situation. Not all black women that received SS, were bad women. Since that documentary was late 60's early 70's, black men didn't change [some, not all] were runners. Just leave the woman and go to another woman house to do the same thing. Plus, back in the day the women had a house or apartment, the men never had a place of their own.

[@YHWHWILLBEDONE]

Dang, from your description sounds like Melanated Men shouldn’t even be born and we’re generally useless! I’m confused, I thought YHWH doesn’t make mistakes and as a ‘Melanated man I’m born in his image? So is God useless? I’m clear on one thing though, in every spiritual book on the planet, the enemy is typically referred to as the “false accuser” and her demons by actions follow in her image! Prayers for you and people that think like you, I don’t think you understand the meaning of eternity! This life was a test and some people well let’s put it like this are failing!

[@payet_the_mechanic]

Wait, what are you even talking about? "Back in the day" as you put it, there were laws on the books about women not even being able to open a bank account, credit cards, and inheriting/acquiring property. Please stop inventing stories.

[@theresapoll]

@@payet_the_mechanic Since l used to get assistance back in the day from SS in the late 70's, l know what l'm talking about on this subject. SS is temporary until you get on your feet, l graduated from college and found a job. l don't need to make up a story, when l know what their rules were to apply for assistance. [my comment wasn't for debate]

[@aishadelva1623]

Exactly. Black men just leave and move on, they keep saying women this that. THE MEN JUST UP AND LEAVE ONCE THEY HAVE TO DO ANYTHING

[@PsalmsPoetic]

First of all Messy Michon you crack me up. I be up in my car laughing out loud at some of your commentary. Regarding the $70. Back in the late 60s and early 70s mothers would receive a welfare check that they would cash at a supermarket or a check cashing place. Around $200. They would then go to the food stamp office and purchase food stamps for $70. They would get $140 worth of food stamps. That's the $70 she's talking about at @1:10.

[@MessyMichonLive]

Thanks for watching and commenting!!

[@PsalmsPoetic]

@@MessyMichonLive Absolutely. Thank you for your content.

[@airborne5642]

Personal Responsibility

[@caprice28]

It didnt help.

[@bottleorcap8988]

The thing is that these women put these men out because they have the safety net of welfare and other social services then she goes to court and the man hast to pay back all of the social services and which was extended to the mother and the child

[@TonioBryant1]

Casualties of war.

[@tyronebost2743]

Have you ever had a sick child? One thing that nobody is mentioning is that medical insurance is attached to your job in this country. If you attended the march on Washington for jobs and freedom ( the whole name for the original March.) what is simply watched Good Times,you would understand that it was very difficult for Black men to get a decent job back in those days you couldn’t get medical insurance from a shoeshine j elevator, operator, butler, or a maid. A lot of women who stayed with their man worked as maids to try to make ends meet and in most cases, they were working for middle-class white women. If, if you are not old enough, you will not understand that most successful Black people over the age of 60 mothers worked as maids in middle-class white women’s houses. At one time or another to make ends meet and it was highly competitive. If you read about the slave markets in New York in the 60s, where black women would go and wait for white women to pick them up for maid service and laundry. Rosa Parks worked as a Maid and was almost raped. She also worked as a seamstress. And was a field secretary in the NAACP, so she was very intelligent. My father raised seven children he had a very hard time keeping a job and it wasn’t because he was lazy. He later had a painting business I agree that you shouldn’t be having babies with bums the question is, how do you turn the culture around because this has been ingrained in our culture starting with a great society programs. In 1950 and you can Google this merge rates for black women was comparable to that a white women, and it was even greater than white women in the 30s. What did you think happened to change that? if you’re not old enough, you don’t realize we don’t didn’t have the same job opportunities in the 60s we have now the ones that those meds and fought for and if you get a criminal record, you don’t have them again. So dumping drugs in our impoverished neighborhoods didn’t help either. The problem is in the culture created by the crack epidemic (please do some research on the crack, epidemic) and the social welfare policies. I was lucky I come from a two-part family and had some good guidance from the men in my family and stayed out of trouble was able to get a good job and a business but I lived through much of what you were talking about so it’s quite easy for me to look down my nose at other people who weren’t as fortunate. But we definitely need to get our culture together

[@MessyMichonLive]

OK, I'M NOT READING ALL THIS BUT I SEE YOU ASKED ABOUT THE CRACK EPIDEMIC, I WAS HERE FOR THAT AS WELL. YES, IT TOOK A TOLL FOR SURE BUT HOW FAR REMOVED ARE WE FROM THAT? HOW LONG DOES THE COMMUNITY WHINE AND COMPLAIN AND DO NOTHING TO IMPROVE THEIR SITUATION? SO IT'S LIKE SLAVERY THEN, USE THAT AS AN EXCUSE AND NEVER MOVE FORWARD OR CHANGE CUZ YA KNOW...SLAVERY AND CRACK!

[@donaldmcgee6334]

Didn't satan beguile Eve?

[@LIVEFRMNYC]

I wonder can a women living on govt housing can have a women lover in her place?

[@michellecampbell1115]

Now she can, The "Man in the household" law was overturned by the Supreme Court in 1968.

[@kevinmonk9491]

What do you think?

[@soulbrother1143]

This video you are reacting to is the birth of the grimlord

[@chalinofalcone871]

"Electronic man wears his brain outside his skull and his nervous system on top of his skin. Such a creature is ill tempered, eschewing overt violence." [The Global Village, Marshall McLuhan, 1989, Sec. II. THE GLOBAL EFFECTS OF VIDEO-RELATED TECHNOLOGIES, Ch. 8: Global Robotism: The Dissatisfactions, p. 94]

[@decarlowilson]

Michon, love your takes usually, but this one was way off base. Let me school ya. Welfare was created in late 1930's by PRESIDENT Franklin Delano Roosevelt for soldier's coming back from from World War 2 who had lost limbs, were shell-shocked or died. Farmers were given welfare (which federal government redefined as "subsidies") in the millions. Black soldier's, for the most part, did not receive these benefits due to institutional discrimination. So they survived on what they could. So please understand, the government looked out for whites through welfare, food stamps, v.a. 1st time home ownership (you could put a dollar down to buy a house), free college, retraining for jobs. This all happened from late 1930s to 1965. That's when Blacks became citizens. The requirements then changed. Where white families were able to stay together for whites after WW2 & Korean Wars and receive government benefits Black families were purposely torn asunder because whites hated that Blacks had became citizens. Welfare is a part of COINTELPRO which orchestrated, with federal/state/local governments to fracture Black community solely. Whites are not experiencing this. Remember Michon, we had just become citizens of a country we had been in for over 300 years that had laws making it a crime to learn to read, write or think. At the same time there was an exodus called the "2nd Great Migration" that happened during 60s where Blacks came north in search of assembly jobs. Some got them while others did not & lived in dilapidated housing left by Italians, Irish & Jewish who lived there previously. It is on Black people because we were dumb enough to think they would be welcomed in a country they brought them here, by force, enslaved.

[@izzo2998]

Interesting. Are your dates right? The US didn’t enter the war until 1941, and soldiers didn’t start returning until the late 40s. Was just curious, as your dates don’t seem to align with history.

[@decarlowilson]

@@izzo2998 i understand your confusion. 1929 we had great depression. FDR created wpa to create jobs plus myriad of other programs due to no one having money. Then ww2 breaks out. Benefits were going out b4 war bit ramped up after involvement in ww2. Good question.☮💯

[@peternorthrup6274]

Stop getting these women pregnant.

[@redpillscience1288]

So MLK wasn't a liberal huh 😂..... how these sneaky yt liberal try to portray him huh 😂

[@shellsopinion5837]

He was socially conservative and a republican. I honestly don’t know what liberals were like in the 60’s other than protesting the Vietnam war.

[@theresapoll]

Black men destroyed that theory, by leaving the woman with his children. So, if she went to Social Services for assistance that was her best bet to support her children. Black men still using that old slogan and it's 2023, but won't support the mother of his children. [just pathetic]

[@magicworld3242]

So, it's the black man's fault ? You bare no responsibility for laying down, getting your groove on and continuously popping out kids with different baby daddies ? Yeah... It's all Jermaine and Tyrone's fault. Got it 👍

[@HomieSimpSon]

What's pathetic is the men that women are choosing to have babies by...

[@logicalcritik2144]

You are concentrating so much on the men; but I think women have some responsibility in who she's allowing access to her womb.

[@theresapoll]

@@logicalcritik2144 One thing l won't do is Yeahing for men that don't support their family. You can be with a man for months to years and when you say these words...l'm pregnant. They've two choices to stay and support or just leave to the next woman. It doesn't matter if he's a high or low value man, tell him your pregnant and watch what's going to happen. Why keep a man in the home and he's lazy, it's better to let him go and focus on yourself and children. Yes, you've some women that are lazy and keep having a bunch of children by any man, so she won't have to work. Then you've some ambitious women getting an education and a job to support her child/children, since the man has left.

[@djm1613]

@@theresapoll you females be making men fathers before they are ready and you all expect a positive result black women are terrible with using the iud and birth control pill compared to women in other communities

[@theresapoll]

One thing l don't do is Yeahing for black men when they're wrong and no good. After watching my mother and female elder cousins handling their household by themselves. The men weren't there and drop by once in a while to leave chump change, so she can buy food or whatever. Black men have a good time with the woman until she says, l'm pregnant then their entire image change. Instead of being supported to her and his child, their decision is to just leave. [just horrible]

[@djm1613]

Black women have the least p discipline of any woman out there if black women used the iud and birth control at the same rates as women in other communities we be okay

[@Troystreetzproduction]

So all of them was bad at picking responsible fathers everybody plays a roll in there own short comings

[@theresapoll]

@@Troystreetzproduction True.

[@djm1613]

@@Troystreetzproduction no the ly are just bad at using birth control women in other community’s get skeeted in just as much and there men go raw just as much but get pregnant less because of birth control

[@aishadelva1623]

Exactly! Once the woman gets pregnant they decide to just up and leave and go play in the streets

[@theresapoll]

Cyn G already had this content on her channel and black men today, still lying about SS put them out. Another excuse to get the attention off of them and to down grade the black woman for getting assistance. [again, they're pathetic] Since l used to received SS back in my day, l know first-hand about this matter. [black men need to stop lying]

[@HomieSimpSon]

And Black women need to stop getting pregnant by Pookie and Ray Ray...they will never own up to their responsibilities. Choose wisely and marry before you carry.

[@djm1613]

I’m tired you all complaining yall women take no accountability y’all don’t use the iud and birth control as much as women in other communities do and y’all expect a positive result fact of the matter is black women ar e the least responsible at using birth control compared to women in toher communities

[@darkage5]

Let me guess you are one of those women that are in love with pookie and ray ray and thought you could change him into what you wanted. Didn't work out and now you are mad at all black men. So hard to look in the mirror and see that it was your own poor choices that put you where you are.

[@theresapoll]

@@djm1613 Since l had one child and received SS in the late 70's, my situation was totally different from other women. IUD was very hurtful to my body and the pill worked out for me. lt's not all women that played the system, so they won't have to work. l appreciated the assistance and did good with my life.

[@djm1613]

@@theresapoll tell your success stories my to women in our community