Discovered My Husband Secretly Gave Our House to His Mom After I Paid the Mortgage for Years...

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Discovered My Husband Secretly Gave Our House to His Mom After I Paid the Mortgage for Years, Now It's Getting Auctioned and We're Getting Divorced.
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0:00 - Story 1
14:53 - Story 2
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@DarkEinherjar 5 ай бұрын

The first story teaches us a very important lesson: when it comes to agreements such as these, ALWAYS HAVE A SIGNED CONTRACT!

@darkriku12 5 ай бұрын

Or recorded conversation. Verbal contracts are still contracts.

@thetruesimplegrid 5 ай бұрын

@@darkriku12verbal can be thrown out as they said they said if there is a written agreement.

@duewhat9815 5 ай бұрын

@@thetruesimplegrid You clearly don't know what hearsay is.

@thetruesimplegrid 5 ай бұрын

@@duewhat9815 meant to say he said he said, hearsay would’ve implied a third party heard this but wasn’t there

@BlueAversion 5 ай бұрын

When you get married, barring a pre-nup, don’t assets such as houses get automatically become part-owned by the spouse? Also as OP could prove she was paying the mortgage wouldn’t she be able to lay some claim to it in a divorce?

@mksmike 5 ай бұрын

I knew it! The moment Alexa put his mother's name in the deed I knew he was trying to scam op out of any claim to the house in case of a divorce.

@tothewonder6248 5 ай бұрын

Oh wow. So he's just a con artist.

@CG-yb6zj 4 ай бұрын

"The one he wants can't provide what he wants." This is what gets me about people like the ex-husband and his family. You vilify others, namely women, for their "modernism" but like a scavenger try to make bank off them that they because of their "modern" ways, all the while claiming bs superiority like it means something. They want to FEEL like 'the man' without actually BEING and behaving like one, then throw a fit worse than a child. Ugh, now he's lost more time, money, and his credit score tanked worse trying this scam a second (if that) time. Wish OP the best.

@Kalimar07 Ай бұрын

Not to defend anyone but js wages were twice as high when women didnt work and the fact that women work is why men have to rely on the modern woman

@lynx9311 5 ай бұрын

For the second one I think she realized that he's been paying for everything whike she studied. She was crying that she'd have to find a place to live and pay for. I hope he asked for half the rent.

@CensorshipVictim Ай бұрын

Sounds like OP was nothing but an ATM and she was setting the new guy up as her BBD (Bigger, Better, Deal)

@pochuyma9530 5 ай бұрын

2nd story: Emotional affair that would eventually lead to a physical affair. 😮

@Maninawig 5 ай бұрын

Nah, it was going to lead to a second marriage... she was already inviting him to meet the parents.

@user-hr5pc3rt2n Ай бұрын

When someone tells you they "will" add your name to a property be sure you are there at the clerks office when it happens. 😊

@DivineKnight_115 5 ай бұрын

My dad did something scummy like this before my parents got divorced. He was in a nasty car wreck in Texas coming from a motocross race with another woman. We live in another state entirely. We drove to Texas to learn what happened, he had a broken neck and was in critical and so was she. My mother was so pissed we all left and my grandma, his mom and my aunt his sister stayed with him through recovery. This isn’t the first time my mom caught him doing something like that and only stayed with him as long as she did to give me a long a normal childhood with both parents as long as possible. She went to his job he owned to pay his employees, had to lockpick his office door and found an expensive Ducati autographed trophy bike from a former pro, and a bunch of papers with her signature scribbled on it repeatedly. She planned to sell some camp property they owned for a few years to help with medical bills from the wreck. Come to find out the bank manager said not only did my dad sell the land months prior to the wreck but he had taken my mom off the account as well. Turns out he was forging her signature and most likely planned to just divorce and ditch. The whole situation went as good as it could’ve gone. My dad made a full recovery having rods holding his neck together, they got divorce with no contest when I was in middle school. At 10-13 it really sucked having to learn your dad is not only an adulterer but would use you as canon fodder just to get back at my mom who was nothing but loyal to the marriage. He was always unhinged and a workaholic life of the party. After the wreck he had depression, made a stupid suicide joke in front of a psychiatrist and had been held for a few weeks and diagnosed bipolar depressive. It explains his behavioral issues but still insane to rationalize all his behavior to mental illness. My family has history of addiction since his dad is an alcoholic and my dad claimed a sex addict. I probably should go see a doc to see if I inherited any kind of addictive traits conditions or the like. Point is I can’t stand cheating. I understand it and can rationalize it in certain situations but most of the time I can’t excuse it without proper motive like one person giving up and forcing the other to move on in some way or abusive relationships. I just want to have my own family and raise some kids with two parents who love each other.

@Maninawig 5 ай бұрын

Second story: I am really interested in what OP's In-Laws have to say, as she was going to introduce her AP to them the way you would a potential suitor.

@fuchsiasecret120 5 ай бұрын

Story 1: Jeez... this is 1 of many reasons why i always mentioned prenups in my relationships... over the years i ha e happily learned that all the men who were offended that i would want that are now toxic abusers and/or dead beat dads... honestly, marriage should be illegal without one these days, to many people that are willing to play the long con and/or ruin someone's life for money rather than do anything right for themselves

@Row-Low 5 ай бұрын

too many evil fks out in the world... a lot marriages is a just a ploy to get the bags

@MMC619 5 ай бұрын

Marriage without a insurance is like asking for death sentence people change over time losing your hard earned assets over marriage is most pathetic. Lucky I am single 😂

5 ай бұрын

Yep prenups and paternity tests should be mandatory and not something you can pick and choose, it protects everyone involved from scummy people.

@Mr.McWatson 5 ай бұрын

Prenups and mandatory paternity tests should both be mandatory if we're being real.

@JamieJosef 3 ай бұрын

You’re happy that they turned out to be abusers?

@Row-Low 5 ай бұрын

first story. its gonna be a long time to get your credit to go green. good for my man xD

@longwaydown6959 Ай бұрын

Pretty sure OP was a female?

@Row-Low Ай бұрын

@@longwaydown6959 i think so too but it doesn't matter

@ladybug8851 Ай бұрын

@@longwaydown6959 op is a female. She was talking about her husband. The loan and everything was in his name so it's his credit score that is going to suffer, not hers.

@chessieray1465 5 ай бұрын

That's unfortunate that OP had been played for a long-con. But kudos for the revenge.

@tothewonder6248 5 ай бұрын

On the 2nd story, I don't like how it's automatically considered suspicious for people in relationships to have friends of the gender they are attracted to, but she was up to no good. That I agree.

@ReconCrusader 5 ай бұрын

Because having opposite gender friends when both are straight or bisexual is a VERY very dangerous situation. And you never know when one might be trying to fuck the other. It is INCREDIBLY common (the desire)

@darkriku12 5 ай бұрын

@@Steveneldios"gender attracted to", not "person attracted to"

@redguy2312 5 ай бұрын

Men and women cannot be friends. Grow up dude.

@Maninawig 5 ай бұрын

What bothered him wasn't the person's gender, but how much time she spent texting that one guy. That said, I have yet to meet a woman with all male friends that isn't being passed around.

@premiumfruits3528 5 ай бұрын

must be a woman who loves attention, then a woman having a bunch of straight male friends is 100% a red flag, and 95% of the time it means there's at least emotional cheating going on women don't seem to understand that you wanting attention from others is still cheating, even if it's not one specific guy, just attention in general you might see them as a friend, or at least tell yourself you do, but those dudes are not your friends, they don't give a shit about you beyond the presence of your vagina, any dude that genuinely enjoys the company of a female friend is either gay or so in denial he needs therapy, women do not offer anything to a man in terms of real friendship, a man can not mentally form that brotherly male bond that he forms with his real friends, it's just not possible, you are there for your looks and the potential of getting into your holes, don't get it twisted

@Mr.McWatson 5 ай бұрын

Second story: it's kind of wild how often this happens with women. Lose interest in the guy they're married to/dating, but enjoy having him finance their life while they go fishing for a "better" guy. Get found out, devolve into absolute histrionics and tears, while claiming the guy has it all wrong, and it's innocent, and she'll stop. For bonus toxic points, some throw in the "this is your fault, you made me do this" here.

@KageKobushi 4 ай бұрын

"If only you'd paid more attention to me while I went out of my way not to invite you to parties!"

@prettyinpinky5937 Ай бұрын

This happens both ways though! Men cheat, but stay with the wife cause she’s a maid, nanny and makes them look good and the mistress is for fun! Then blame them cause they weren’t giving them enough sex., Some people are just trash regardless of gender.

@kky1797 5 ай бұрын

Story 1 - This story is like Swiss cheese 😆.

@IntegralKing 5 ай бұрын

what a weird story. I'm curious what country or state this story is from. In the US, in California, If she had just divorced, she would have gotten the value she added to the house anyways since the mortgage was paid with communal property. And by forcing a foreclosure fire sale, she loses quite a bit of money on a bank sale vs a private sale. She should have just divorced and demanded half the value of the house. Then, if the guy or his parents can buy her out, so be it. If they can't, then they sell the house together.

@manifest2203 4 ай бұрын

I think for her the fact that his parents didn’t get the house is more than worth it to face the loss. Plus looks like they will lose the grocery store too. Or at the very least take on another huge debt to pay her back.

@maigrande-wang696 Ай бұрын

@sheilabailey4005 Ай бұрын

Because Alex's parents had to sell the grocery store to pay the compensation, it seems like the op asked for the value of the house she will be losing in auction.

@kingreee4218 3 ай бұрын

grocery store?? and scammers?? it all makes sense now

@katemakesart Ай бұрын

Phew, I let out a sigh of relief when OP said it was in his name...

@Nathan_Bookwurm 5 ай бұрын

You know story 2 written by an American: "She went out of her way to bake this cake, cuz she WALKED to the store." 😂😂😂 Oh nooo, outrageous, using your legs to buy a few ingredients .

@longwaydown6959 Ай бұрын

@Nathan_Bookwurm You must not understand why that can be a big deal in some of the states. Most of our infrastructure revolves around having a car. Simple things like grocery stores, retail centers, Malls, etc. Are all normally far from an area that you live in. Hell when I lived in Tennessee for a little bit, the nearest grocery store was 45 minutes away by car. It would take someone hours to walk there and back. Not to mention that a lot of the main roads that connect the urban housing environment are roads that are illegal to walk on like highways. So yeah, he's probably considering it a huge deal if she was willing to put effort in like that just to back cookies dor this dude

@peepawfart Ай бұрын

You are stupid if you don't realize American cities not only don't have sidewalks, but are built in a way where the nearest grocery store is an hour walk away at least. I don't live in a rural area at all, my nearest grocery store is a 10 minute drive but a 2 hour walk. I can't stand it when non-americans talk shit when they don't know what the hell they're talking about. You probably think it takes an hour to drive from the Statue of Liberty to the Grand Canyon.

@aceseightsa8411 Ай бұрын

Well its 40 minutes by car to nearest store for me here in TN so... yea it'd be a big deal to WALK there & back. Foreigners don't realize how big USA is & alot is rural w no public transport. We measure distance in time here not miles. Its a 1.5 hr drive to next COUNTY every Sunday for church & dinner w grandparents. You can drive HOURS & still be in same county. Some states drive DAYS still in same STATE.

@brianarnold8666 Ай бұрын

Its never on the betrayed spouse for the other having an affair

@stonerstarkark8845 Ай бұрын

Hired a pi with the money she would have used on the mortgage that's exactly how I would put it😂😂😂😂😂 5:51

@aprilwatson7402 4 ай бұрын

I was really hoping in story two she was just trying to get a foot in the door with someone who might have connections since he didn't know the other guy's background. Sucks it turned out that way. good luck to both OPS.

@Not.Alyssa777 5 ай бұрын

People are just insane

@eyez409 5 ай бұрын

I would've put a bid for the house tbh

@YuniS772 Ай бұрын

Op is Genius ❤

@andrewdavis7620 4 ай бұрын

Sounds like a stereotypical southern family of old school racist democrats

@Reggy2000 5 ай бұрын

Story 2: gentleman, this is what genuine burning desire looks like. It just wasn’t for the husband. This story as well as story 1 illustrates the issues that can arise from marrying someone with a different financial background than yourself!!!

@boredcryptek5513 5 ай бұрын

Who is paying their mortgage after 3-5 years?

@aceseightsa8411 Ай бұрын

I paid off a 30 yr in 12. Low pmts, multiple early pmnts

@mshake7056 Ай бұрын

Story 1 wow seriously be careful who you get with and always get a prenup

@albertgongora6944 3 ай бұрын

You know what makes no sense about the first story and it's poster The literal fact that they never once questioned that they went from dating for just a small amount of time with their ex-husband to quickly getting married and that wasn't a red flag to them that they're literal ex was brushing them into marriage status and then all of a sudden as soon as that happens The guy can't keep enough money to make sure that they were able to have a house and then the OP was the one paying off the mortgage all of a sudden like I don't get how she couldn't see that this dude was taking her for a ride this whole entire time

@Redditales_YT 5 ай бұрын

Absolutely crazy WHAT

@matthenry3569 Ай бұрын

2nd story she was cheating, maybe just emotional but she's a cheater and got what she deserved.

@juanleon3875 5 ай бұрын

God why are almost all the stories where something bad happens is always the Sil, Bil, Mil, Fil husband or wife!? Or maybe the brother sister mother and father!?

@gostavoadolfos2023 5 ай бұрын

Alex definitely Asian 😅

@fobinc 5 ай бұрын

I'm pretty sure there's no basis to assume this.

@athrunmoza8996 5 ай бұрын

Alex clearly a western 😂

@juv3675 5 ай бұрын

Yeah he is definitely Asian

@lexilunke525 5 ай бұрын

Probably muslim considering how anti women the MIL is.

@lexilunke525 5 ай бұрын

@@athrunmoza8996 You didn't listen to the story how the MIL insulted women "of this country". The name is not the real name and just a fake name. "Alex" is 99% a muslim 1% elitist Asian.

@Top-G35 5 ай бұрын

Bro she baked him cookies…….., it’s over dump her

@challengeentertainment6008 Ай бұрын

Any update on story 1?

@duckkd9934 5 ай бұрын

I rlly like ur vids but pls remove the background music in future its kiinda annoying

@Cheshyre. 5 ай бұрын

Was that English?

@darkknight3037 5 ай бұрын

@@Cheshyre. does it look spanish to u?

@ununhexium 4 ай бұрын

@@Cheshyre. yes, perhaps you could use duolingo to learn more English :)

@PaulaCollins-pz5rd 4 ай бұрын

The audacity of men

@bonecrushermace Ай бұрын

Not all men are bad

@CultsOfTheLamb Ай бұрын

@@bonecrushermacebro couldn't spit more of a fax 🗣🔥🔥🔥

@GuardianHalberd 5 ай бұрын

no, wait someone clarify this to me The woman paid 95% of the house, then let it defaulted to force an auction? Doesn't it mean she lost all the money she invested? If yes, she's truly stupid

@alana.dyer.author 5 ай бұрын

Yes, she did that, but also, he can never have a house for a while. Meaning he can't do anything because of his shitty credit score 😂

@elbantochadders4035 5 ай бұрын

3 years is Definitely not 95% of the mortgage

@chalidem 5 ай бұрын

Unless she was paying extra to finish the loan instead of the 20-30 years...we do that a lot in our country. People would rather pay over 50% of monthly earnings to clear property debt.@@elbantochadders4035

@alext9320 5 ай бұрын

Yes she would lose all the money invested, but as things were going she was going to lose it all anyway. She was paying for a property that wasn't hers, legally speaking. She had already lost, but by defaulting on the mortgage she made sure no one got anything. With that said, she states that she included compensation for her contribution towards the mortgage as a term in her divorce.

@Yuuuui4 5 ай бұрын

She can't sell the house to get back the money either. It's a lose lose situation. It's best option to make him took a huge blow (losing the house and bad credit score)