Disrespectfully - Hero or Enemy? | Episode 22

Grab your heroes, grab your enemies and get ready for another episode of Disrespectfully! Today we talk about our strange addictions, Oceangate Part 2, the Titanic and going under.
00:00 - Our strange addictions
4:15 - How are we doing
5:30 - Hose me down
9:45 - Going under/Katie’s surgery
17:45 - Joshua Tree
19:40 - Traveling with Beis
22:10 - Vessi
24:00 - Joshua Tree cont.
33:00 - Grandpa behavior
40:31 - New Billionaire Oceangate Part 2
43:26 - Titanic/Toxic Relationships
49:51 - Liquid IV
52:24 - hero or enemy?
58:37 - Basement
1:04:40 - Heuxmetown Heroes
1:09:35 - WWDD
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[@JenjunkJuni-rr2rc]

Katie was so vulnerable today. Considering her traumatic event, I think keeping her feet on the floor for a nap makes a lot of sense. ❤ you Both!!!! 🥰🥰

[@ewalala682]

yes 😍 danas comments were just so off 🙃 the disgusted face and stuff

[@cate4338]

Katie's recovering from from such horrific injuries and what she endured through the recovery process is heartbreaking and further confirmation of her strength... sharing this can only help others struggling...

[@lesb5544]

Dayna is me inhaling information for anything my brain starts obsessing about

[@Mimi73161]

See ppl forget shes had a tbi!! And she hardly ever mentions it! I had all but forgotten! Katie you really are a queen❤! Love u Ladies so much, and really enjoy the pod!!!

[@jmenick2023]

whats a tbi?

[@debbyvibbert3177]

All the hate and no respect. After she fell through a skylight think in coma briefly. I'm sure reasons for allowing Stassi bullying once that friendship ended a softer kinder Katie emerged. Sadly a toxic Swartz allowed jealous Sandoval to repeatedly abuse her.

[@debbyvibbert3177]

​@@jmenick2023traumatic brain injury

[@sierra9076]

@@jmenick2023traumatic brain injury

[@Mimi73161]

@@debbyvibbert3177 I know...a skylight, like damn can you imagine how scary that would be?

[@dawnrussell9889]

I’m going to need a second podcast where you ladies just recap movies. Laughing so much I’m crying!

[@Mimi73161]

i know we need more than once a week!!!!!

[@annettepade1604]

Katie🤗I bow for you💪Queen🤩 You are such an inspiration in wisdom and truth😎 Keep on rocking🙃 Love from Denmark

[@AirJKB13]

Keep talking. You’re setting such a healthy standard for yourselves. The choices are not always clear. You reveal some choices people don’t know they have. Illuminating certain behaviors most of us encounter eventually. You’re saying it’s ok to walk away. To say No thanks.

[@ashleynfigueredo]

ANYTIME Titanic is on, or gets added back to Netflix, I’m watching it. Every time. I’m with Katie on that. 😂

[@cassandrafarquhar7354]

Napping like Katie is the best way to keep you from falling into a deep sleep and feeling trash when you get up

[@JessicaTakenMusic]

You both have been helping me with my single girl era it just happened as of 4 days ago 🤣but I started watching your podcast awhile ago and now it’s EVEN BETTER because I just feel one with you guys 😂😂thank you so much I love this podcast so so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@Mimi73161]

Love this so much!! You got this girl❤❤❤❤live your BEST life!!

[@JessicaTakenMusic]

Thank you 🥹

[@Mimi73161]

@@JessicaTakenMusic girl power!!!

[@AlienChicken]

The best podcast in the game

[@madeleneamendola7188]

Thank y'all, you made my Wednesday morning again. All power to you!

[@lolacookie453]

I woke up in the middle of my nose job as he was hammering away at the bump 😂 😂 I can still feel and hear it 😂

[@roxannar3820]

😮😮😮😮😮😮

[@runnerdee]

12:59 I relate so hard to the nausea thing. My daughter was an emergency C-section. I was so nauseated from the epidural they kept having to give me more and more anti nausea medication. I ended up throwing up the first time they let me hold her.

[@stalesunday]

visualizing katie in her nap position made me chuckle

[@valerielinares6974]

I’m devastated I didn’t get to run into you girls in pioneer town! We were there the weekend prior. When I saw the farm animals on Katie’s story I cried. I fed those same chickens and goats a week earlier😭

[@shanahz9573]

I was so sad that the most recent VPR season ended. I am loving your podcast. It is helping fill that void. Dayna, I missed you being on the show. I am so glad I can catch you on here. Katie, I love your honesty and feel like another world we could have been friends. Thank you ladies!

[@bedeviled2much376]

Adore y’all! Enjoy the podcast so much.💖😘

[@elizabethnieman5513]

I just wanna say, thank you for the laughs every week! You ladies are a light in a dark world 🌎💜

[@cassandrafarquhar7354]

The hands on the chest nap is an actual thing.

[@karlaa8651]

Ok The Office ASMR on Spotify is my go to when I can’t sleep. It’s just a guy narrating episodes of The Office. Even on my most sleepless nights, I’m out before an episode is over. He did drop off the face of the planet after season 6 tho

[@adriana27100]

If you're looking something else I really enjoy the channel Get Sleepy as well ❤

[@MyBeautifulHealth]

Dayna-Find recordings of Corey Taylor from Slipknot speaking- he’s brilliant and his voice is…chef’s kiss

[@MyBeautifulHealth]

Honorable mention to Marilyn Manson’s speaking voice..

[@Ginger_girl_99]

Wednesday is now my favorite day of the week!!! Love you ladies💚💜 #disrespectfully

[@orneryunicorn6078]

Can we come up with a disrespectfully Playlist on Spotify? My contributions: 1. Cinderella Snapped 2. Labour 3. Feminine Rage You’re welcome, but can you add? I feel like there is more out there that I can’t find.

[@karterbanger386]

Not me spitting my lunch out at work at the titanic part "hold my beer, up on her tips for half a second" ugh laughing so hard!

[@maggieyoung8090]

🤣😂🤣

[@adriana27100]

I Believe it was my strange addiction.. I remember the guy who had a bunch of pool floatie animals and the woman who bought a roller coaster... That show is wild!

[@mistyeddy7523]

Omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂💀 the best home town hero! Had to unplug the TV

[@mistyeddy7523]

I love my Wednesdays with you both ❤

[@SummerRoseCarter]

Oh Kimerberly... that gave me a laugh and I don't even remember the last time I did laughed to be honest. Thank you 😂

[@rachelpappas5848]

The way I obsessed over the submersible last year

[@SammEKayy]

I have insomnia and have been since I was very young. First surgery when I was in 5th grade...they had to give me much more anesthesia than normal because it didn't knock me out. Super fun times.

[@siyuan962]

Why is Dayna so hilarious???!!! LOLL love her!

[@hanna_jutlendia]

I loooove this podcast, just cleaned the house with this on and had a laugh doing it

[@JustLotts74]

Haha I have PTSD. I am that person that found out my partner had a very odd kink and it was a couple of years in. I peaced the fuck out 😂

[@Christianne78]

Don’t be shy! What was it???

[@adriana27100]

If you feel comfortable sharing what it was?

[@TeeVaPool]

Great podcast girls ❤

[@lalaa8653]

Honestly can these billionaires that keep going down there to the ocean to die donate their money to us poor ppl lol. Like.. Love you Katie and Dayna

[@happyblacklegends]

I understand the POKE bowls perspective. Those orders were probably really backed up, and maybe they did have irl orders to finish too.

[@eggmaster7974]

The “Oh perfect” from dayna talking about Katie missing teeth and being able to eat had me sssssooooooooo dead 😭😂☠️☠️☠️

[@maggieyoung8090]

Girls, you guys are the best! I have laughed so much in this podcast. 😂🤣 With Dayna on 10 getting lost & Katie with her naps In her vampire position. I couldn’t stop. You both are a breath of fresh air! Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us & making our day a little brighter! ❤

[@natashab3412]

Imagine TS being a fireman , .me neither. I live next to a firehouse in the city , def not all sitting around eating ribs lol & The attractiveness ratio v other professions is fairy high imo

[@angelaallen1207]

Imagine just casually saying "my friend Wes" and not "my friend Wes Borland from 2000s numetal band Limp Bizkit." We love a humble queen. I also loved hearing about Emo Night from Dayna. eta: Black Light Burns' Cruel Melody is one of my favorite albums of all time.

[@CBPz]

Katie taking vampire naps 😂 🧛‍♀️ ⚰️

[@alishiasmith8779]

Zofran is great, but over use can cause cardiac problems. Smelling rubbing alcohol is supposed to stop nausea as well. It works for me sometimes.

[@Mimi73161]

Peppermint oil is also GREAT and peppermint water or sucking on one if you can tolerate it!!

[@minervaramirez52]

Love this podcast! Listening since day 1

[@joycearnott9173]

Brilliant ladies . First time for me listening to this , and thoroughly enjoyed this x U

[@taylortot666]

katie!! your napping position sounds very relaxing and grounding! feet on the ground is literal grounding and hands on your chest also grounds you to center yourself...the way you "nap"/rest is actually aligned with what a person can do to re-center and relax. I'm going to try that, bc going into bed allows the opportunity to sleep for hours and wake up frothing with hate lol

[@JenniferAgbo-ih1eh]

I always wondered about Katie’s accident and the TBI and how no one around her was sympathetic to the affect such a fall could have on her emotional regulation I can’t believe she even went through that

[@xArchxAngelx18]

AHHHH i love you both

[@Eight0eight]

I feel SO seen, and heard, every time I hear an episode

[@kristinamccardle2539]

I love everything about your podcast. Thanks for being honest where you stand politically ❤❤❤

[@ellewiens3831]

I always listen to you lovely ladies before bed 😊

[@oceancat0450]

I just found this podcast two days ago and I’ve binged so many episodes while working out. This is the BEST podcast with a VPR cast member(s) I’ve listened on and off to the majority of them. Some are CRINGE. Anyways, I can picture, hanging out with you guys, drunk at a bar, Dana especially with her dry sense of humor, would have me peeing my pants. 🤣 you guys are hilarious and don’t even try. Cheers ladies! ❤️

[@christinamaxwell8330]

I love the restaurant questions lol. We always prioritized the people that were in the restaurant physically at our place, but those delivery apps do have a ranking system, and alot of the metrics are based on speed of orders. So if you take a long time to make the orders, and the drivers are waiting, they can give your restaurant a bad review and it affects your visibility ont he apps. Might be why that Poke place was prioritizing the online orders 🤔

[@makddl]

3 minutes in and i'm dead. you guys are so funny ilysm

[@S_patricia]

I’m not a big nap person, but I tried Katie’s napping way and can confirm, it works 😂

[@maggieyoung8090]

😂🤣

[@roryp2052]

My parents live in Joshua Tree so it was so fun to see you guys posting in an area I know so well! I also got my wedding catered from Red Dog 🌮 dying to get to an emo night at Pappys if you guys go again!

[@carolineholden6921]

Girl, get a rice cooker and make your own poke. It's so easy - and good!

[@Caughtbetweenarock]

So gagged that you slipped this in 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 45:45

[@ireneSag]

Not weird Katie, I watch Titanic if it's on too. My favorite movie !

[@sunshine6616love]

Dayna, do you have a lot of Scorpio in your zodiac chart? That could explain your deep diving into dark things etc

[@discolemonade1745]

God, I fucking love this pod.

[@Yash0613]

I nap like Katie vertically tucked into the corner of my couch with my feet on the floor but only if I’ve taken my adhd meds. Otherwise, I need to tuck under my weighted blanket & disappear for 3+ hours. My friends dislike how unpredictable my naps are but I envy their ability to take cute little cat naps.

[@johnene]

Traumatic Brain Injury = those neuron and pathways are injured so your brain needs to find another route. People don't consider how serious and lifelong a TBI is.

[@jennycollins7388]

Vallejo ,CA use to have the BEST looking firemen. I swear each one that jumped off was hotter then the last. I felt like I was watching a sexy calendar shoot lol that was over 10 yrs ago now

[@Sarazee24]

We need merch please 🖤

[@AlienChicken]

You can have my zofran, just gotta make a trip to Moses Lake 😂 zofran makes me instantly vomit especially if I'm only a little nauseous, just everything gets worse. Lol please. I am the zofran plug of your dreams Dayna ✨️

[@Mimi73161]

Peppermint oil works Great and you rub it on wrists behind ears!! Or Peppermint water or sucking on a Peppermint if you van tolerate it. I prefer the oil because usually I cannot tolerate anything by mouth.

[@cassandrafarquhar7354]

I was waiting for them to throw up finger guns asking if rose want to get popped? 😂

[@colbycharles926]

Katie wearing Schwartz' shirt? Curious.

[@CBPz]

Ingrid goes west reminds me of Jo

[@ArielyGarcia]

I share the same sleeping cycles as you Dayna.

[@Kendall.keykey]

Hi 👋 L💖VE you both sooo much!!! Feels like im chatting with my own girlfriends!! 👯‍♀️💖💖

[@alyssadavis1262]

THATS MY BESTFRIEND NEIGHBOR AND NOW EW COWORKER TARA!!!! I called her immediately OMG that sex doll shook up everyone

[@tiffanygoldbin]

I love Fiona apple - “ got my feet on the ground and I don't go to sleep to dream You got your head in the clouds, you're not at all what you seem This mind, this body, and this voice cannot be stifled by your deviant ways So don't forget what I told you don't come around I got my own hell to raise”

[@annettepade1604]

And Dayna❤

[@SarahReding]

Omg Katie I actually nap like that too. Maybe cuz I'm also a tbi girl but if I get too comfortable then it won't be a nap I will just go to sleep for like 6 to 8 hours but if I do the sit up napping with my phone by me that way my alarm can't be missed and it's already in my brain that I can only have X amount of time to sleep then that's just what I do and it works but sometimes my ankles gets swelled up from doing that

[@EricaUrr]

Omg what is it about being 30 and suddenly having a sensitive stomach? Because I had 2 surgeries within a month of each other. Got sick the first time after taking a Zofran, so they gave me this little patch in the back of my ear instead. I can't remember the name of it for the life of me, but I begged for that one before I even woke up 😂 saved me. Now I randomly get motion sickness😅

[@Caughtbetweenarock]

Skip the croutons, eat a futon 😂

[@AirJKB13]

Any business would take the big $ (a door dash rush). Maybe avoid prime time in smaller establishments. Or keep in mind the door dash might be a factor as of today.

[@VMH-03]

❤

[@MyBeautifulHealth]

Fiona NAPple 💤

[@iphotons]

"unasleep you" hahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahaha 🤣😆🤣

[@Yash0613]

Orders are orders. Whether you’re online or in person makes no difference to the succession of tickets in BOH or their priorities. Online orders are hated more by BOH than the people who don’t get them on time. Let’s blame the restaurant owners for over-extending their staff.

[@christinamaisano2952]

Dayna you don’t sleep at night because you nap maybe.

[@emmyhynes5827]

God I love Dayna I'd love her to be paid to be vpr as a main cast member

[@Mimi73161]

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@user-mc9zv3yn1u]

Does katie have swarts shirt on

[@nadineborrego4087]

Trial wasn’t federal it was state level he can’t vote in new York but can in Florida where he resides

[@gilioidable]

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

[@rickelspickles]

Dana & I nap the same I feel seen

[@oceancat0450]

Ooof. Please pleaseeee don’t start talking about politics. I love this damn podcast.

[@fishfooood]

Executive order 13848

[@RealityRecapGurl]

Please give us a warning when you’re going to go into graphic details about anything medical related for those of us that can’t handle that stuff lol😢

[@fishfooood]

Executive order 13823

[@ewalala682]

i need a katie only podcast 😍 don't enjoy the dana part so much 🙈

[@kristasierra5393]

I think they balance each other very well; Dayna's kinda high-strung and Katie couldn't be more laid back

[@tamilee9462]

Can you leave politics out of the podcast?

[@penelopelohr1198]

I am not able to listen to your podcast if you are going to discuss politics because not all of your listeners are liberals some of us are patriotic conservatives that care about Constitution and free and fair elections. I was riding until today. 😢

[@emmyhynes5827]

Lmao byeeeeee

[@Kathi_3454]

You lost me with your remarks on Trump. Love you Katie, but bye.

[@ziehlstudio2871]

NGL during my recent divorce, I pretty much ONLY dated firefighters .. let me tell you there’s some Very interesting stories there , fo sho. Ok also M8b one lawyer too… and a sculptor. But still…. Why are guys in uniform so hot🔥🔥🔥💫 luv ya!! 🌸🩷🌸🎀☮️

[@Caughtbetweenarock]

Skip the croutons, eat a futon 😂