Divorce Attorney Explains Why Mandatory DNA Testing is a Game-Changer!

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In this video, a divorce attorney breaks down why mandatory DNA testing at childbirth could be a game-changer for families. We discuss the emotional and financial toll on men who discover they are not the biological father years later, the legal complexities of child support, and how mandatory testing could prevent these heartbreaking situations. The attorney also sheds light on the family law system and its impact on parents. Watch to learn why this issue is more important than ever!
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@robdog7516
@robdog7516 Ай бұрын
The court is not out to get you?.. Then why do I see SO MANY CASES where the man has PROVEN he is not the father, meaning the woman LIED UNDER OATH, yet the court still makes the man pay for a child that is not his?
@RoseNZieg
@RoseNZieg Ай бұрын
something something about expected obligations. that's a load of crap.
@johnchandler1687
@johnchandler1687 Ай бұрын
Move to Louisiana. There State Supreme Court ruled in the 1980s that no man can be made to pay support for a kid that isn't his. Even if married to the mother at the time of birth.
@selfdo
@selfdo Ай бұрын
@@johnchandler1687 That's actually typical common law that PRESUMES paternity on the part of a married man of the child his wife bears. It was originally intended to assert the husband's right as a father to his wife's child, but now it's used to "win the lottery".
@MSSynsyterGates
@MSSynsyterGates 24 күн бұрын
So usually the guy signed the paper claiming he was the father at the birth of the child and legally they assume the responsibility for taking care of the child. Essentially taking the parental rights for the child. Now the problem is if he signed it because she lied to him. Then that should be easier to contest. Sadly if the guy signed the document, in the eyes of the law hes the legal parent of the child until he can challenge that. The child support courts doesnt care if he got the test after he signed the paper saying he was the father.
@912bush
@912bush Ай бұрын
Child Support is the ONLY bill on earth that doesn't require any proof before payment
@evos469
@evos469 Ай бұрын
It's reimbursement to the state
@paragon7934
@paragon7934 Ай бұрын
That's cause in it's entire, it's illegal and unconstitutional
@ashielarry
@ashielarry Ай бұрын
Child Support is the biggest scam being ran by the States. Whenever I hear attorneys speak on Child Support, I ask myself if they are complicit in the fraud or they really haven’t done any research to know what is the basis of Child Support. Child Support has nothing to do with your child. It’s is a scheme where they use play on word; just like the term “Life Insurance”. Life insurance is actually death insurance.
@flysquared
@flysquared Ай бұрын
Bro lmaooo. It don't matter if you have proof. If your wife cheats on you and gets pregnant, as long as yall are married that baby is legally yours.
@juliustaylor9920
@juliustaylor9920 Ай бұрын
​@@evos469facts...retirement to be specific
@lilblackduck2001
@lilblackduck2001 Ай бұрын
One of the biggest issues is if you pay support for a year or two, then you find out the child is not yours. The Court will literally tell you that since you are already paying you need to keep paying because the Child needs financial support.
@paulcerny3805
@paulcerny3805 20 күн бұрын
Unconstitutional ITS NOT A COURT- sue separation of power
@TheRecReport
@TheRecReport Ай бұрын
The child has a right to know their parentage
@MrKanilammit
@MrKanilammit Ай бұрын
Exactly. The problem is framing paternity testing as a way to protect the man. Society doesn't give a s*** about men. This needs to be framed as "won't somebody think about the children" to get anyone to care.
@thetroyagency
@thetroyagency Ай бұрын
I think you should simply put the liar in prison and take everything she has. That’s pretty much what they do to men if they don’t pay child support. why shouldn’t be any different?
@edwinufos
@edwinufos Ай бұрын
Ya’ll being too damn careful of what y’all say the woman should do some community service and probation and if it’s over a certain amount it should be a felony just like when you shoplift if it’s over a certain amounts it’s a felony this is fraud. When the father don’t pay his child support they take his driver license and put him in jail. Lock her ass up. But they not gonna do that because the jails would be filled with dead beat mothers and the child would be in foster care and they don’t want that because they can’t handle the kids they in there now or find homes for them.
@enliam3849
@enliam3849 Ай бұрын
If I go to jail for not paying child support. She’s paying me back an if she doesn’t pay she goes to jail.
@BC-vg3zf
@BC-vg3zf Ай бұрын
Especially for 18 years of fraud
@paulcerny3805
@paulcerny3805 20 күн бұрын
Child support /services is a executive branch of government, its unconstitutional- can be sued IT NOT A COURT OR A JUDGE
@CollegeBoyDeon
@CollegeBoyDeon Ай бұрын
If you think the courts is not out to get you related to child support, then you are a whole fool.
@MichaelSHartman
@MichaelSHartman 27 күн бұрын
By making an unknowing man who isn't the father provide a lifetime of income is fraud. She has broken the marriage contract. The woman should go to prison. Like everything else she probably won't.
@kdub3892
@kdub3892 Ай бұрын
I disagree.. Never willingly give the Gov your DNA. At least Avoid as much as possible.
@darscassel
@darscassel Ай бұрын
It should be done. Absolutely.
@MSSynsyterGates
@MSSynsyterGates 24 күн бұрын
To anyone wondering how the court makes the guy pay when the child isnt his the answer is the guy signs a document accepting the parental rights of the child. By signing this they become the legal guardian of the child and once that happens in the eyes of the law the guy is the father. So the court will treat him as the father even if he isnt the bio dad until he can contest his legal rights to the kid. The real answer is get the test before you sign anything. If she is claiming you're the father and you havent signed anything, its much harder if not impossible for the court to get you to pay anything.
@rcaraway1
@rcaraway1 Ай бұрын
The caveat that needs to be part of the equation is that every man’s DNA should be in the system. Establish who the father actually is.
@johnchandler1687
@johnchandler1687 Ай бұрын
Uh- no thanks. Big Brother already has more information of ours than I like. Once paternity is disproven mother's should be required to name any potential fathers. If they refuse put them in jail for contempt of court just like people who refuse to cooperate in a trial. Then make the real dad reimburse the "dad" for all expenses of raising the kid and/or child support. In a divorce the mom should have those expenses taken out of her half.
@rcaraway1
@rcaraway1 Ай бұрын
@@johnchandler1687 If women’s DNA is required to be in the system so should men’s.
@GUNVALKERIE
@GUNVALKERIE Ай бұрын
It would give peace of mind to he person who is about to be a father... I support the idea for there to be a mandatory DNA testing
@thomaskeyton7771
@thomaskeyton7771 Ай бұрын
I would rather be in jail then pay for a kid that dont belong too me. I will never do it exactly why i avoid relationships now because all they offer is kids and increased demand of a lifestyle that fits them or they aint happy. Would rather be in jail then give them a dime.
@zeanu2015
@zeanu2015 Ай бұрын
3:02 It didn't affect 3 lives it affected 2 lives, the man and the child cause none of them two had something to do with it, the woman chose to sleep with another man and keep the baby to put it in the different man's name without telling, that's actually evil
@MackMillions
@MackMillions Ай бұрын
The only scary part about that is what else will they be extracting during the test. I absolutely love the idea for the child support issue. When the gov gives they also take 10x as much.
@Dweeble233
@Dweeble233 Ай бұрын
If the government wanted your DNA, they already have it. They could get it at any exam, physical, or specimen testing. And simply not tell the public.
@prouddegenerates9056
@prouddegenerates9056 Ай бұрын
That’s actually the main concern
@maestromecanico597
@maestromecanico597 Ай бұрын
A child should know their biological roots if only to prepare for the genetic conditions that are inevitable.
@douglasnyenke2505
@douglasnyenke2505 Ай бұрын
This guy didn't answer any questions.
@sltinesltton8371
@sltinesltton8371 Ай бұрын
Of course the lawyer don't like that. That's going to dig into their pockets.
@lockitdownduck4033
@lockitdownduck4033 Ай бұрын
Fraud- yes a felony
@frankrobinsjr.1719
@frankrobinsjr.1719 Ай бұрын
If she wants child support, she should be able to prove beyond a shadow of a doubt who the father is.
@ОксанаЧернохвостенко
@ОксанаЧернохвостенко 29 күн бұрын
so how are men going to prove that they don't cheat? Or is it only women who has to prove their loyalty? No test - no s*x, no dinner, no nothing
@MissOshunPossible
@MissOshunPossible Ай бұрын
If someone lies under oath there should be jail time period.
@kieley99
@kieley99 Ай бұрын
It’s a crime but typically only men are held accountable when lying in family court. I speak from a place of personal experience where my ex & her first shady lawyer lied multiple times. It was brought to the attention of the judge each time only to be shrugged off by the courts. Had I lied about anything the judge told me I’d be held liable for committing perjury 🤦🏾‍♂️
@rex8255
@rex8255 Ай бұрын
If a woman lies about the paternity of her child, and tries to pass it off to "her man", she should be prosecuted for fraud. We don't even need a new law for that, as the legal definition of fraud is "n. the intentional use of deceit, a trick or some dishonest means to deprive another of his/her/its money, property or a legal right."
@craigclermond8001
@craigclermond8001 Ай бұрын
​@rex8255 100 %. If she is sleeping with more than 1 man at a time unprotected, then there is doubt, and a test is warranted. It's not good enough to just name who you prefer as the dad
@zenthorth4874
@zenthorth4874 Ай бұрын
@@craigclermond8001 "If she is sleeping with more than 1 man at a time u̶n̶p̶r̶o̶t̶e̶c̶t̶e̶d̶, she's a cheater, dump her." Fixed it for you.
@SCM0NDT
@SCM0NDT Ай бұрын
What you going to do with congress, the Senate, and actually every politician called under oath?
@nelly928478
@nelly928478 Ай бұрын
Unpopular opinion as a woman but, I think it should be mandatory. Everyone should be held accountable for the sexual decisions they make, especially if they result in the creation of a new life. Make good sexual choices or maybe just pursue a traditional family structure to avoid the embarrassment and reality of unknown paternity. If you’re out here having reckless sex with the possibility of not knowing the paternity of your child you’re not mature enough for sex.
@raveshalight6282
@raveshalight6282 Ай бұрын
Exactly that. It's too many messy people, both men and women alike. If it is his, he needs to do his part as a man and father regardless of the situation with baby mama. If it's not his, he has no obligation to the child
@ndlovulwazi
@ndlovulwazi Ай бұрын
The courts don’t want any changes because some of the child support money funds the judges pensions, it’s absolutely ridiculous
@kingirie9892
@kingirie9892 Ай бұрын
Facts
@jpoupart23
@jpoupart23 Ай бұрын
Mandatory DNA test must done in ALL birth certificate process regardless marriage status…I had a coworker who was paying child support over five years after divorce…the child had a medical situation so he discovered was not his…he sued her ex and got all child support money back and stripped his last name from the birth certificate…obviously a paternity Fraud is not identified as crime so the lady is fraud free in the general community…Paternity Fraud got to be a crime…period
@macmcleod1188
@macmcleod1188 Ай бұрын
It also makes the real father responsible (which may prevent them from doing it repeatedly) and doesn't give bad medical information to the child.
@barringtonmorris90
@barringtonmorris90 Ай бұрын
My wife and I are expecting our first child. I am 99.99999999999% sure that is my baby. The day my wife told me “I’m pregnant.” I hugged her, smiled and calmly stated to her “we are getting a DNA test.” Men…protect your energy.
@BreannLaFaye
@BreannLaFaye Ай бұрын
Haha My husband was 200% sure and we still got one. Now every time the baby does something unique, I’m like “that’s from your 99.99% ”😂
@MrT-nh6di
@MrT-nh6di Ай бұрын
​@BreannLaFaye That's great, married, not married. All couples should have a DNA test done. Women can cheat or have sex with another man. Put the baby on the guy they want the father to be.
@CesareNero
@CesareNero Ай бұрын
Yeah aiight
@BILLY_BO
@BILLY_BO Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@troy028
@troy028 Ай бұрын
Sounds like your wife found a fool. She won the lottery. 😂😂😂
@seangosa741
@seangosa741 Ай бұрын
Mandatory DNA testing at birth is a MUST!!!
@MrT-nh6di
@MrT-nh6di Ай бұрын
1000%
@ceasetheday87
@ceasetheday87 Ай бұрын
Until then, the father must get the paternity test on his own. People don’t even buy phones without cases these days and you expect to have children without DNA testing?
@dbears1603
@dbears1603 Ай бұрын
Facts
@MarrianBrown
@MarrianBrown Ай бұрын
Tell your governor If you were born a man, you deserve that😊
@ОксанаЧернохвостенко
@ОксанаЧернохвостенко Ай бұрын
men will retract real fast if we make a test mandatory for every child AND notify a wife if a husband had a child with a side chick. Men cheat almost twice more often so by extension have more children outside of marriage. Also force child support for EVERY CHILD a man has even if a mother didn't file, and if man doesn't pay - jail time because half of men don't pay child support for their own children already. That'll be a shitshow men asked for
@siyabongamkhize692
@siyabongamkhize692 Ай бұрын
Child support is the retirement fund of judges too.
@ashielarry
@ashielarry Ай бұрын
You have done some research.
@Mrjones-ed7hi
@Mrjones-ed7hi Ай бұрын
I keep seeing that comment, but I have not found it written. So if you know where it's written, please share where to find it.
@ashielarry
@ashielarry Ай бұрын
@@Mrjones-ed7hi You will probably have to look at your State’s Judicial Structure to see how the Judges get paid. The main thing to understand is that Child Support’s correct name is Title IV-D. Meaning, Title IV-D of the Social Security Act. Therefore it is a Social Security program. Consequently, you have to look at the Federal Laws, Code of Federal Regulations, and Social Security POMMS Manual which governs the program. In Title 42 of the US Code, there is a section titled “Grants to States”, this explains how the Federal Government provides grants to each State’s Treasury department on the value of the Child Support “contracts” they threaten, intimidate and coerce noncustodial parents into. So it Federal government is providing grants to the State’s treasury, look at how the Judge’s get paid from the State’s Treasury. The sickening part about Child Supports is the States are actually stealing the money. The grant money is supposed to go directly to the parent who has the Child. This can be found in Congressional Records, this isn’t me saying this. Basically, the Child Support amount determined by the County Court is prepaid by the federal government once the judge signs the Income Deduction Order. On another note….this is not the only funds the States steal that is supposed to go to the children. The Federal government also provides grant money to the States and this grant is tied to the Birth Certificates. People need to read!!!!
@Mrjones-ed7hi
@Mrjones-ed7hi Ай бұрын
@ashielarry I know about Title IV-D. I just haven't found anything that says the money goes into judges' retirement. I also saw comments that it goes into the same pool. But I also read that they can't use the money to pay judges, but can you use it for staff and training. I've also looked at my counties budget, and you can see federal aid and how it's spread out . Some of the aid is labeled as "special." It doesn't show where that portion is being spent. To classify something as special, I believe the government shouldn't be able to do that and show what every dollar it's spent.
@ashielarry
@ashielarry Ай бұрын
@@Mrjones-ed7hi I am in Georgia and when I look through OCGA, it clearly states that Garnishment is supervised by the Clerk of the Court. However in Title IV-D cases there is the appearance that it is being done through the Department of Human Services. My point is that these BAR members use a lot of some and mirror to deceive the people about what is really going on, so find out if the judges have a retirement fund will have to be a top down search. Because the Administrative Law Judge has some biased interest in making sure you are on Child Support.
@Vyrus-1980
@Vyrus-1980 Ай бұрын
Men need to remember that EVERYONE in the "justice system" is out to get money from you one way or the other. The judge is profiting from your misery, BOTH lawyers are profiting from your misery, the STATE is profiting from your misery, the woman is trying to profit from your misery, etc. EVERYONE is just looking at you as a paycheck, not a human being.
@darbyohara
@darbyohara Ай бұрын
Yup. You avoid their claws by having a properly crafted and signed prenup that includes - no alimony, each side pays legal fees in event of divorce, mandatory dna and genetic testing in utero, and predetermined division of assets
@johnchandler1687
@johnchandler1687 Ай бұрын
Any lawyer worth his salt can and will break it. Just another way yo get your money. It's all we got, though.
@zombieshoot4318
@zombieshoot4318 Ай бұрын
This needs to be nationwide. Mandatory. And if the man isn’t the father he’s not on the hook for the child. Ever.
@MrAranton
@MrAranton 23 күн бұрын
There must be one exception: Sterile men who in advance consented to raise a child resulting from a sperm donation.
@kdub3288
@kdub3288 22 күн бұрын
And if they’re married, this should nullify the man from having to give any assets to her upon to divorce, prenup or no prenup.
@county23
@county23 Ай бұрын
34 yrs ago my ex-wife came up pregnant, what saved me was I had a vasectomy 4yrs earlier, otherwise I would loved and raised a child under false pretenses
@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001
@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001 Ай бұрын
Did this mafaka really just say that the courts are not out to get us??????????
@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001
@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001 Ай бұрын
Either he’s lying and being intellectually disingenuous….Or he doesn’t understand the system we live in…I’m not sure which is worse.
@lilp4000
@lilp4000 Ай бұрын
Yeah I heard that and almost clicked off cuz I can't trust a mf who says that
@shorts26
@shorts26 Ай бұрын
​@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001 he's a divorce attorney and that's how he gets his money so of course he's going to lie about it because if men don't get married or use the courts he doesn't make money...I've seen and heard from people who actually have been through it how they're treated
@ALytch
@ALytch Ай бұрын
They couldn't find another attorney, he seems inept period.
@BILLY_BO
@BILLY_BO Ай бұрын
As a guy who works in the courts in NY. I see a lot of shit everyday. Let me TRY to explain what he’s saying. He’s not saying the courts dont be grimey to men. We all know that. Its a given. But most of the time, courts are actually lenient when it comes to missing court dates. More than the general population thinks. I see it happen all the time. But no one is going to acknowledge it. No one is going to focus on that and be like WOW BREAKING NEWS. The courts just gave this guy a break for missing his laat court date. We’re humans. We tend to focus on the negative stories. Those stand out more and can have us thinking this is what happens MAJORITY of the time.
@franklinwill22
@franklinwill22 Ай бұрын
Let's be clear dude is a lawyer he greatly benefits from divorce also. He's not going speak negative on the family court system.
@CryptoKernels
@CryptoKernels Ай бұрын
Exactly, it feeds his sneaky ass.
@editname3145
@editname3145 Ай бұрын
I work in a hospital in NYC and do have fathers doubting and women telling us they are not the baby's father. It happens often though.
@sdmoore89
@sdmoore89 Ай бұрын
Those men should get the DNA test.
@crisiscore93litmus56
@crisiscore93litmus56 Ай бұрын
If a woman tells you that the guy in the room isn't the father, are you legally allowed to tell the guy? Or is there some sort of confidentiality clause that prohibits you from telling the guy?
@editname3145
@editname3145 Ай бұрын
@@crisiscore93litmus56 we cannot say a word because of HIPPA. Actually we even had a mom that was infected with a deadly disease and he didn't know. She told us he doesn't know so we had to lie every time we used to go get the baby to give it medication. As soon as the baby is born medication has to be given every 3 hours. This should be penalized, that is a crime. She and the baby was able to have her medication but not the boyfriend since he didn't know. 7 year relationship she said.
@nda42831
@nda42831 Ай бұрын
3:28 Reverse it. Pay the money back if not they go to jail. Easy, it’s not rocket science. She committed fraud. If committed fraud any other way it’s jail 1st, payback later. Make the punishment harsh enough then over time you’ll see this crime less and less. Women are fighting for equality and we are not giving it to them.😂
@flamingrage100
@flamingrage100 Ай бұрын
@@editname3145woah, that is some next level type evil there
@jakeizlove
@jakeizlove Ай бұрын
DNA testing at birth should be mandatory.
@ОксанаЧернохвостенко
@ОксанаЧернохвостенко Ай бұрын
and notify a wife if her hubby has a child with his side chick. Men cheat almost twice as often as women. That'll be a shitshow men are asking for
@johnchandler1687
@johnchandler1687 Ай бұрын
@@ОксанаЧернохвостенко with studies from several countries showing 15%-30% of kids born in marrage are not the husband's, I doubt that "twice as much". Since a large majority of intercourse doesn't result in pregnancy; that's a whole lot of cheating by wives going on. Also, many , if not most, of those cheating husband's are getting it from someone else's wife. When I did plumbing and home repair I was met at the door several times by wives in a barely closed robe with nothing underneath; once by a beautiful long haired blond in a man's dress shirt with only one button fastened.
@davidhunt313
@davidhunt313 29 күн бұрын
​@user-vf3wb8fo7g *_Men cheat almost twice as often as Women._* What is your evidence.. if any?!?? Also,... what is the harm suffered by the wife when the husband is having children with other women?? Unlike a cockolded man.... she isn't having to financially pay for a child, not hers??
@rebeccaconlon9743
@rebeccaconlon9743 23 күн бұрын
A good way for pharmacy companies to farm human dna
@jakeizlove
@jakeizlove 23 күн бұрын
@@rebeccaconlon9743That’s better than paying child support for 21 years. 😂
@ratswagger
@ratswagger Ай бұрын
Sue the mother for pain, suffering, defamation of characters, and mental health. Play the long game. Go to therapy, counseling, and save every derogatory text or message that theyve ever sent to you. After the child turns 18 calculate the money spent that was spent due to your suffering. The money on medical treatment, counseling, gas that you spent to go to appointments, prescriptions, and the mental effects that was caused by a lie. Get you a lawyer and file. You may not get all of your money back from child support but you can get reimbursement for your medical expenses, mileage, and the interests based on the cost of living from the time that you started seeking treatment. Play the long game. The woman won't know what to do whenever it's the child's 18 birthday and they get served a certified letter from a courier.
@darscassel
@darscassel Ай бұрын
You only need a few cases.
@getitgirl60
@getitgirl60 Ай бұрын
This has been going on since forever. Its just that now we have paternity test. I've met so many older adults that are just now finding out who their daddy is...lying heifers will always be around.
@seensay2132
@seensay2132 Ай бұрын
The system has basically been turning a blind eye. Acting like they don’t exist.
@mostunclean6619
@mostunclean6619 Ай бұрын
Mama’s baby, daddy’s maybe. A story as old as time. I remember when elementary schools stopped doing blood type exercises because too many infidelities were exposed and opened up the school system to civil lawsuits. 😂
@drayshawngoodman1112
@drayshawngoodman1112 Ай бұрын
At home paternity test were banned in France. Unless you travel outside to do it because it would cause discord.
@johnchandler1687
@johnchandler1687 Ай бұрын
​@@drayshawngoodman1112The infidelity rate in France ( 30+%) that their government didn't want to lose all that money. Being basically a socialist state the government would have to support all those no- father kids. It's all about the money, not marital discord. 😊😅
@drayshawngoodman1112
@drayshawngoodman1112 Ай бұрын
I think the government which banned the test would disagree. They want to keep the family together and cause financial hardship.
@JuliusMays262
@JuliusMays262 Ай бұрын
Dude. Laying his butt off if you don't show up for court during the custody or child support, they default you and you will be paying what they want you to pay, there's no if ands or butts about it.
@getitgirl60
@getitgirl60 Ай бұрын
@@JuliusMays262 you can ask for a modification hearing if you disagree. It's not final final.
@greghight954
@greghight954 Ай бұрын
How about just show up to court?
@smithsmith1956
@smithsmith1956 Ай бұрын
​@@greghight954If you even know about it. Its a common tactic of women to keep the man ignorant of the court hearing by using a past address ao he doesn't get the summons.
@zenthorth4874
@zenthorth4874 Ай бұрын
@@smithsmith1956 The court must be able to show the summons was delivered and received or a lawyer can and will succeed in tearing that court apart. One of the few things courts don't actually mess up often. The question is, "did you get a lawyer to argue on your behalf that the summons was not received?" If not, you are toast. There is a huge difference between a defendant saying, "I didn't know" and a defense attorney saying, "My client was never properly served a summons." Always lawyer up. No matter how much it costs, it is still cheaper then what the courts will do to you alone.
@smithsmith1956
@smithsmith1956 Ай бұрын
@@zenthorth4874 And that's another problem. The men usually have to pay for the woman's lawyer as well as his. Many men end up not being able to get one for themselves. The system is rigged.
@lelandbraggs7195
@lelandbraggs7195 Ай бұрын
That lawyer was just lawyer-ing talking. Didn't answer one question directly, and you guys need to ask direct questions.
@NikkoJ
@NikkoJ Ай бұрын
Facts
@johnchandler1687
@johnchandler1687 Ай бұрын
Lawyers go to school 4 years to learn how to break contracts they just made and to lie like a rug. Then us idiots vote them onto office and expect them to run an uncorrected government. A law degree should be an automatic disqualification to hold public office.
@myrealname2022
@myrealname2022 Ай бұрын
False accusations should equal, to the day, equal jail time. If a woman claims r@pe, and a guy goes away for 9 years 7 months and 18 days, guess who is going to jail for 9 years 7 months and 18 days ineligible for parole. Not one minute less.
@anthonyplayground1402
@anthonyplayground1402 Ай бұрын
You should be asking why hospitals STOPPED blood testing babies.
@darscassel
@darscassel Ай бұрын
Why, do you know. They sure as heck test for everything else!! Probably insurance coverage refused to pay.
@robertwall1419
@robertwall1419 29 күн бұрын
It’s Simple‼️They had too many “fathers” finding out that they weren’t the biological father and causing a scene‼️👀🤬👀🤬👀🤬👀🤬👀🤬👀
@liarwithagun
@liarwithagun 29 күн бұрын
because the federal and state governments give the hospitals money based on how many birth certificates get signed. The gov does this to try and get men to commit to raising a kid to prevent women from becoming single moms and going on welfare (i.e. taking gov money). If the hospitals started telling guys they aren't actually the father when the fools believed their wahmen about the paternity of the child, guys would refuse to sign the certificate and leave the women, losing the hospital some of their gov money.
@oakcliff42
@oakcliff42 Ай бұрын
I support the sentiment but as a policy DNA before birth is flawed. A better policy would be mandatory DNA before any child support order.
@mattbrown837
@mattbrown837 Ай бұрын
Good for legal reasons,emotional not as much. Depression kills.
@DaveT0818
@DaveT0818 Ай бұрын
So.. a man could support a child his entire life without knowing that the child is not his... where is the fairness there? The woman of course knows that she is the biological mother... the Dad .. he may believe so.. but without proof he never does "know".. with DNA testing becoming a simple swab test it's neither invasive nor unreasonable.. protects everyone involved..
@Colton-wz5sh
@Colton-wz5sh Ай бұрын
Its not flawed. Get the paternity test asap
@SCM0NDT
@SCM0NDT Ай бұрын
So if divorce happena 2 years later, and you find out in the divorce that the kid is not yours, is it too late? But you have invested 2 years of your like already.....
@darbyohara
@darbyohara Ай бұрын
At birth in the hospital BEFORE the birth certificate is signed. You can’t do it after
@factory2590
@factory2590 Ай бұрын
They dont even have to show you were notified of the hearing before issuing default judgement. Lawyer...liar....same thing.
@mikeice38
@mikeice38 Ай бұрын
I hate when a guest show up and throw the questions back.
@johnthomas4868
@johnthomas4868 Ай бұрын
I can’t believe this lawyer is dancing around the question when it comes to women committing paternity fraud: if they lied, they need to do time. It’s as simple as that.
@neilcampbell2222
@neilcampbell2222 Ай бұрын
Paternity fraud is criminal fraud and needs treating as such. Find the statements where she says there is no other possible father. Then make a criminal complaint. Win a criminal conviction. You are not allowed to gain from criminal actions
@mslady5650
@mslady5650 Ай бұрын
As a woman, I think mandatory DNA testing is good. I think it will cause women to think twice
@spicole2937
@spicole2937 Ай бұрын
Child support is debtors prisons
@Money132215
@Money132215 Ай бұрын
As long as people have a choice to participate or not the game will get cheated options should be removed, make it mandatory
@jayjuggrnaut
@jayjuggrnaut Ай бұрын
Bruh a lying ssa baby mama has affected more than 3 lives (3:06). You've directly affected the family of the father, cause they've (most likely) spent money and time on the child as well. Caused emotional, financial and psychological damage.
@CrashCraftLabs
@CrashCraftLabs Ай бұрын
should be a felony and more charges for every month of fraud
@PrayingPanda
@PrayingPanda Ай бұрын
7:07 not all money is good money. As Black men, yall should know that.
@noknewspodcast
@noknewspodcast Ай бұрын
4:53 the lady from Lovely Bones lost all her publishing deals shortly after. I believe her other books were slated to get movies deals too. She won't make another dime off the lie. Its still terrible but at least its a start.
@SKIP-yj3xp
@SKIP-yj3xp Ай бұрын
You guys need to ask direct questions, have the guest give direct answers, instead of this rambling about everything under the sun which leaves the questions unanswered.
@CrownAndThrone-1Law
@CrownAndThrone-1Law Ай бұрын
Bruh! This what they do because it's a way to distract you. These goofies don't have the mind to be direct they'll ramble just to make a good show from their perception. The people always against the institutions and always will be. All skin folk ain't kin folk. They not like us
@timexyemerald6290
@timexyemerald6290 Ай бұрын
Oof. Haven't watched video fully yet but that just made don't wanna watch pointless rambling and no answer😅
@truejustice2075
@truejustice2075 Ай бұрын
It's crazy how easy you can sign a birth certificate claiming your the father of a child but it's so hard to get your name removed when it's uncovered that the mother committed paternity fraud and the child was never yours to begin with. Some women have been speaking up against mandatory paternity testing, I guess they don't want to get exposed for lying and community paternity fraud also.
@pamelaliegh
@pamelaliegh Ай бұрын
I’m a Mom of two boys. I believe DNA testing for every birth leaves everyone knowing what’s what. Every birth.
@filtrotp40
@filtrotp40 Ай бұрын
Mandatory DNA testing. Mandatory pre-nups. Mandatory pre-marriage counseling. Mandatory child support agreements at birth (put the funds into a trust for the child administered by a 3rd party). That would be a good start.
@BillyBob-yn9tx
@BillyBob-yn9tx Ай бұрын
lol yeah right!!!!
@rbull8416
@rbull8416 Ай бұрын
My brothers first girlfriend claimed he was the father. DNA test said no. 5 years later i am seeing a married woman. She gets pregnant. Her husband is all happy but 4 years later DNA said i am the father. Yes i paid child support and today my grandkids are my love and joy. l wonder if this happened to my family how many more DNA surprises are out there?
@liarwithagun
@liarwithagun 29 күн бұрын
based on statistic, somehwere between 5% and 33% of 'fathers' aren't biologically related to 'their' kids. The range of the number seems to be mostly based on how much money you have. So the poorer you are, the more likely your kids aren't actually your kids, and the richer you are, the less likely your kids aren't a tually your kids.
@taz598
@taz598 Ай бұрын
In TN they now do mandatory DNA testing at birth before a father's name can be put on the birth certificate....It should be all 50 states.
@lxvebassin2179
@lxvebassin2179 Ай бұрын
I got DNA tests for both of my kids
@ALrinea
@ALrinea Ай бұрын
Easy, mandatory direct after birth before the birthdertificate is signed. The next thing it should change, if the child is not yours child support should stop instantly and the mother needs to pay back all child support paid till that point.
@flexjohnson18
@flexjohnson18 Ай бұрын
Funny thing is the mom should do it too. Wasnt there some new jersey hospital that accidentally swapped 200 plus babies meaning 200 moms had babies that werent theirs either
@rhvoriginals3083
@rhvoriginals3083 Ай бұрын
Given that 33% of children tested at the time of divorce proceedings turned out to not be the husbands. Mandatory tests at birth will certainly launch more divorces. It’s scary to think how much higher that percentage will be when all children are tested?! Wow!
@jonathanbuzzard1376
@jonathanbuzzard1376 Ай бұрын
The percentage will be *much* lower. The issue at the moment is we are basically only testing if we suspect there is a question over paternity. That is not representative of society as a whole where there is little doubt over most paternity. Studies estimate the rate of paternity fraud in society to be in the 3-5% range. However, this is still *way* too high and does not deflect from the need for mandatory DNA testing at birth.
@johnchandler1687
@johnchandler1687 Ай бұрын
You must have got your figures from a women's support site, Johnathon. Studies from several countries show that 15%-30^ of kids born in marrage are not the husband's. Other studies on sexual behavior shows a woman is more likely to cheat on her fertile days. It's hardwired in instinct.
@kaiwind
@kaiwind Ай бұрын
What about suing the judge for defamation of character an slander ?
@ivannightly1919
@ivannightly1919 27 күн бұрын
all you have to do is watch paternity court and see how many guys got screwed and often she knows who the father is and still in contact. one guy got his name picked out of a phone book never met her but no charges on her because she said she had panic and made up a name
@timsartistic7328
@timsartistic7328 Ай бұрын
The Fact that Child Support Court often separate the Case for Financial Support from the Case for Custodial and Visitation Rights is crazy, so basically a Man's Money is more in the best interest of the Child than Visitation! Since my father's been Married 3 Times I have seen him go thru all kinds of Hell with Mom and all of the other Women and one of them got so mad, she moved to Miami over 500mi away to another State, then tried to file for Back Child Support when the Boy was 16yrs Old. She lost her Case of Course, but nothing could be legally done to her for Parental Alienation and it's so sad how much more power women have in Custodial Rights than Men and we can spend thousands and years in courts and still never win - Look at Brad Pitt's long battle with Angie Jolie over their kids and he got money. We have to educate ourselves and our Sons not just about Sex, but the Realities of Child Support and stop laying down with any woman just to get laid and protect our seed.
@albertvirgil4471
@albertvirgil4471 Ай бұрын
We need mandatory DNA TESTING RIGHT NOW!
@douglasnyenke2505
@douglasnyenke2505 Ай бұрын
Is this the best lawyer you guys could've found ? This guy is weird.
@GS-mh6ub
@GS-mh6ub Ай бұрын
This dude seems a bit phony and doesn't seem to be comfortable telling it like it is.
@darbyohara
@darbyohara Ай бұрын
Mandatory dna testing at birth should be a standard in the battery of infant testing. It determined paternity and can be used for test for the presence of genetic illnesses. The way to get this standard is to get insurance companies to demand it, they don’t wanna pay healthcare costs for a child that isn’t really a dependent of the father. Make the testing standard and mandatory and allow people to voluntarily opt out
@kamellegomez3741
@kamellegomez3741 Ай бұрын
Every man can already request it at birth
@JohnWilliams-wm7dy
@JohnWilliams-wm7dy Ай бұрын
This why ppl don’t like lawyers. He took sooo long to answer simple questions
@kengojoe2444
@kengojoe2444 Ай бұрын
Considering how often it happens, a old friend of mine went 10 years believing his son was his until his son got sick, thinking he was match but found out that he wasn’t a match then did a dna test and found out he isn’t the father it devastated him, he temporarily separated from his wife to clear his thoughts, but in the end it didn’t change the fact he was raising a son and went back to his wife and had a thorough conversation.
@kingirie9892
@kingirie9892 Ай бұрын
We dont need to wait for a law to be pass,once you find out you going be a father startin saving for the dna test. And after the mother gives birth go to the nusery and get the baby swabed simple . Also ensure you keep every recipt or digital proof of money spent during the nine months,that you proof to back your civil lawsuit if it turns put you are not the father
@Paladin7845
@Paladin7845 17 күн бұрын
Gave up after 4 minutes. Typical equivocating Layer who's NOT giving any straight answers to the questions!! Especially when the hosts ask him directly for his opinion! Probably pass on this channel in the future for wasting my time. DNA testing should be MANDATORY and Paternity Fraud should be a PUNISHABLE CRIME.
@spookum89
@spookum89 Ай бұрын
THEIR CLEARLY INTERVIEWING A SIMP 😂😂😂 dude is scared to upset women. He watching tf outta his words
@matthewwolff3729
@matthewwolff3729 Ай бұрын
As the old adage goes, trust but verify.
@MamaMOB
@MamaMOB Ай бұрын
It's an absolute must! Women abuse this system far too often. Men find out 50 years later that none of their children are theirs. That needs to be a crime! I was a single mother. I would have had no problem giving my son's father a DNA test. I know he's the father. He was the only man I was sleeping with. But if he wanted one I'd give it to him. And I've told my son who's 19 if some girl ever comes to me telling me I'm going to be a grandma I'm demanding a DNA test. My son is not going to be raising another man's child without his knowledge and unless he decides to. Which I've also told him not to do. As a woman I believe that any woman who lies about SA or paternity should get all of the charges that could go along with it. So if the man went to jail she should get kidnapping charges. Because the state kidnapped that man on her word. She should get lying under oath she should get wasting police time she should get kidnapping charges the whole nine. And she should spend time in jail for it. I'm sick and tired of the government infantilizing my sex. We are just as capable of being monsters as a man.
@rsdgdbdh
@rsdgdbdh Ай бұрын
HELL KNOW. your giving the government your DNA. HELL KNOW. You can do a DNA TEST BY GIVING THE BABY HAIR AND GIVING YOUR HAIR.
@addis.temari
@addis.temari Ай бұрын
Ok. She commits paternity fraud? She pays full restitution to victim, 5K fine to local CPS, AND 52 CONSECUTIVE County Jail WKEND GETAWAYS😅😅😅😅 And must do a PSA on the Evils of Paternity Fraud.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@jwlfj1200
@jwlfj1200 22 күн бұрын
My parents have been overall happily married for 64 years. But strangely, my father always had a warning about women. They could be the most selfish vicious vindictive creatures on God's Earth .
@ShaeJ_Shae
@ShaeJ_Shae Ай бұрын
Yes, it should be mandatory. Married or not. Married 13 years. I gave my husband a DNA for both our boys for His peace of mind. We’ve seen situations where babies have been placed on men and they find out the truth in the worse way; during medical emergencies. One man, (his cousin) was taken to jail because he went ballistic at the hospital because he wasn’t a DNA match. Overall good dude, but he lost his ish in the moment. And who can blame him? The child was 14 years old!🤦🏽‍♀️Nope! Mandatory!
@apushman
@apushman 14 күн бұрын
There needs to be some sort of “False accusation” laws. If there are some already then they need to he enforced. If you knowing falsely accuse someone of grape or SA, you get the same sentence plus some. Demand child support knowing its not his, pay back all the money plus some along with jail time if he served any. Show there are consequences and the behavior should deter a bit.
@deano4138
@deano4138 Ай бұрын
Pros: Saves time/emotion/energy for men, women, and the system. Protects kids from father uncertainty/instability later in life Takes all the emotion and politics about finding out (its not because i don't trust you, it's just mandatory vs "YoU dOnT tRuSt meEeee. Reeeee") Cons: Women feeeeel icky Family Judges lose their free meal ticket
@TheCynysterMind
@TheCynysterMind Ай бұрын
You all are to damn wishy-washy... grow some balls! We are talking about FRAUD! when the amount of money exceeds a certain threshold. Restitution is mandatory! Keep in mind. The woman didn't just steal money, effort, emotional trauma from the guy. She has defrauded her children!
@got2kittys
@got2kittys 20 күн бұрын
To the people this offends: you're doing your part in removing a great social injustice. The destructive consequences are well worth it. The Father and Mother should be proud of proof, and make this contribution to justice in your society.
@RemingtinArms
@RemingtinArms Ай бұрын
I think it should be a potential Father's responsibility to have paternity tested. Mandatory giving your DNA won't happen, there are 4th and 5th amendment conflicts. Could be a challenge to get something like that passed...
@JustaGuy_Gaming
@JustaGuy_Gaming Ай бұрын
Mandatory testing helps everyone but the government. Men avoid being tricked into raising kids that aren't theirs and woman can avoid the sigma and loss of trust if a man had to ask that question. Sadly the government is out to get men, as one judge said someone gas to pay for that kid. If tge man isn't on the hook the government will be forced to pay for more single mothers.
@garyholiday7446
@garyholiday7446 Ай бұрын
DNA TESTING will save a lot of heartache and deceitful practices, it's a win win for Men seeking the truth....
@mileslugo6430
@mileslugo6430 24 күн бұрын
You ever see that meme about King of the hills Dale Gribble actually knowing Joseph wasn't his son but he was raising him in Spite of Red Corn. I would think it poetic if the man wanted custody of the child even after knowing the results and then forcing the beguiling mother/ Bio father to pay for time lost and expenses.
@AintIAWoman-jm7wt
@AintIAWoman-jm7wt 29 күн бұрын
Mamas baby daddy’s MAYBE! Protect yourself with DNA! I am a woman and I’m all for it. If a woman is honest, it should not be a problem. Mandate it! It’s not fair to the child or the man.
@nousernamesarevalid
@nousernamesarevalid 15 күн бұрын
There was once a woman who had a twin that merged with her at birth. However, her lady parts were that of the twins. Something happened with the court case, and it was found her children were not biologically hers. I think her children were taken from her for a while before she was able to prove they were hers. Also, for IVF, its always a risk that the lab mixed up the egg, sperm or embryo. I think both parents should be DNA tested at the hospital to address all issues.
@kingfabaro2705
@kingfabaro2705 Ай бұрын
He was dodging the question.
@dilbertjunkmail
@dilbertjunkmail Ай бұрын
Men must always look out for their own interest. Begin with a Pre-Nup, because bridging the topic lets you know the kids of woman you're getting entwined with. It's actually better for Men NOT to get married, but the force of cultural tradition is strong. Government involvement is the problem. We should be able to insure and protect people we want as well as stop protection when we're betrayed.
@Beef_Wellington_Ross
@Beef_Wellington_Ross Ай бұрын
I 46. No children. Having a child that I'd have to look at and wonder if it's of me? Then, having to pay CS? No thanks.
@mauriman2210
@mauriman2210 26 күн бұрын
If it were me & the kid/s weren't mine I'd be seeking citizenship in a country that doesn't *shake hands* with the USA... If I had any military training I'd sign up with the French Foreign Legion with them you get French citizenship & a complete *new identity* ...
@PhilipDarragh
@PhilipDarragh Ай бұрын
IMO, this guy does not understand tt the courts R out 2 get a man 4 C/S. This is bcz the states make big $ out of C/S. Why aren't women sent 2 debtors prison like men R?
@kristopherdaniel707
@kristopherdaniel707 Ай бұрын
100% agree with mandatory DNA testing. Make people take responsibility for their actions.
@HereWashThis
@HereWashThis Ай бұрын
Its a simple concept that businesses have followed for years: “Trust, but verify.” The ladies are all fir “Believe All Women,” even when they know false accusations happen (and become the term was really meant to encourage people to treat alleged victims with respect). Apparently, though, similar logic applies to women only when it benefits them. The appropriate response to a woman who balks at a paternity test is: “Too bad.” It really is that simple. If she tries to manipulate the situation, the man should assume the child isn’t his. Why is this even an issue? Answer that correctly and you’ll understand why so many women are against these tests.
@40billwaugh
@40billwaugh Ай бұрын
DNA testing needs to become mandatory at all hospital births. HOWEVER, the results should not be available to police or prosecutors without a warrant.
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