I will never trust an adult wanting to date a teen. Controlling issues at best...I won't mention the worst...
@TheRealBlackula4 жыл бұрын
BULLSHIT!
@TheRealBlackula4 жыл бұрын
@Olga Williams STFU!
@kuroichan1014 жыл бұрын
@@TheRealBlackula you must be a creep
@tiffanymonique70983 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you he got with this 17 year old girl giving the story of him having cancer and thinking he was going to have in house and house servant when she's far smarter than he is as she probably wasn't 17 to know that he should be moving around doing his own medications he should be going about his daily life that's what they say and colleges will tell you that now when hes at the point where he just can't anymore Dan she steps in but hes looking for a maid
@shannonmarietay90845 жыл бұрын
My daughter is 18 and I always talk to her about creeps like this man who prey on young ladies. What the hell kind of relationship is he expecting from a 17 year old🤷♀️🤷♀️
@grindhard43124 жыл бұрын
She way mature for 21. Very leveled headed and responsible. I can tell. He's definitely using cancer as a crutch and asking a lot of her and being pushy about it. Giving the relationship the right attention I don't see anything that can't be worked out with just a little communication and compromise
@grindhard43123 жыл бұрын
@Stacy Burns I was speaking on the relationship as it stood right now in present time. Stop being ridiculous and looking for a reason to insult. I have a daughter that's 17 and in no way would I approve of her and a 27y/o!! Maybe that was this girl's problem she didn't have a father around!
@mikaeels.64773 жыл бұрын
Lol. Exactly
@Weeeewriter3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@wordplay14153 жыл бұрын
🤣
@kaywilkerson49378 жыл бұрын
He is scared of losing her, and she too young to be a wife or caregiver. Marriage and becoming a parent are the hardest job for a couple.
@legendjakarei62648 жыл бұрын
Kay Wilkerson I agree
@shanny09718 жыл бұрын
Jakarei Mcclinton amen
@florencecooke6327 жыл бұрын
Kay Wilkerson
@kalodontcare87807 жыл бұрын
first and foremost if my Husband is not scared to lose me than I don't want him. It should be that way,he know what he has & any couple regardless if you gave them the world you should always feel one another deserves better than better.& Marriage has no age on it,the life commitment, love,& loyalty is what needs to be there.Also who said I was going to be a parent at 17? I'm 22 without kids STILL & even if I did have them Age had nothing to do with it ,its young parents out here everyday having kids taking great care of their kids. Please hop off this bandwagon with everyone of just bashing what you have assumed and not for surely know.
@dhev16667 жыл бұрын
Kara King. so true thank you
@ChelcieSPorter8 жыл бұрын
She was young and pretty and he tried to scoop her up as quick as he could. 17 and 27- not okay. She still seems more mature than him though..
@montgal536 жыл бұрын
At 17, you are still a child NOT a woman. Let that sink in.
@daan79185 жыл бұрын
Chelcie Porter the same thing with that disgusting female teacher who raped that 14 year old boy and then after 3 years dropped a baby on him what a disgusting woman but she gets away with it cause she a woman she can sexually abuse a 14 year old for 3 fucking years
@thisismyinferno5 жыл бұрын
@@daan7918 she served time, but kept contact and control of him. Plus, the kids. She groomed him completely. It's so sad. She still has him to this day. I think.
@IceWhiteice224 жыл бұрын
They always seem to skip over that underage thing on this show hmmmmmm
@brotherLee3404 жыл бұрын
17 is bad but is legal in most states. Just maybe a little morally wrong tho
@milleberitaag21005 жыл бұрын
He is grown enough to take responsibility for taking his medicin on the right time!
@michellete85452 жыл бұрын
Dude is pushing 30. Childish, irresponsible idiot.
@ForeverFit727 жыл бұрын
3 minutes in - this young lady should be educating herself, enjoying her youth and growing - not being his wife/caregiver. her youth is being wasted
@marcpatrickefeni99925 жыл бұрын
What makes u think u are in the position to offer this judgment? Do u know why destiny brought them together even if in ur eyes it is not right?
@puseletsomampuru3725 жыл бұрын
@@marcpatrickefeni9992 Co-ask
@cocoabutta600o35 жыл бұрын
I agree
@janepherkhisa18014 жыл бұрын
These two people are in love, it's the outside world that's trying to separate them not knowing why God had to put them together.
@silatikalaluka38474 жыл бұрын
💯 fam.
@moniquew36038 жыл бұрын
He pays for ..." Internet, wifi and hotspot" 😂
@NYPD178 жыл бұрын
Moni Que W lmao 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@shayjones88678 жыл бұрын
Ummmm.....LMAO!
@BrookeAppleton7 жыл бұрын
Moni Que W 💀💀💀
@BFFFL14927 жыл бұрын
His age definitely showed with that comment. I was like wtf, swear those are all the same! 😂
@philileduma89837 жыл бұрын
Ashley Alexandria I feel like that was the wife's exact thought based on her reaction
@shiheart165 жыл бұрын
Her family don’t like him because he was 27 trying to date her at 17.
@gailsmith8362 жыл бұрын
She was in foster care so I guess they don’t get to have a comment.
@mikellbull Жыл бұрын
Right. Buddy a pedophile
@jmpresco8 жыл бұрын
He got upset with the outfit thing because that is exactly how my dad use to get upset about my sister's outfits. He is dressing her because deep down he thinks of her as a child. He wouldn't be dressing a 30 year old woman. She was barely finished high school when they met and only 18 when they got married. That's way to young. He wants support from someone who can not deliver it yet.
@jemalabdurehman25515 жыл бұрын
it's about the judge .you are great .
@grindhard43124 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@Jasminemarie946 жыл бұрын
He’s controlling and crazy. He tried to do that controlling shit on women his age and realized it didn’t work so he found a CHILD to manipulate and mold into what he wanted her to be. Now that she’s getting older and a little wiser, they having issues because she talking back. He a grown ass man. If I was her family, I would put hands on his creepy ass too because he knows what he was doing. I’m disappointed that the judge really looked over his controlling and crazy nonsense and didn’t call him out on it.
@juanitakelley8877 Жыл бұрын
I don't know why she like him? Why? What for? 🤣🤣
@somamamebrahimi42817 жыл бұрын
I think it's horrible that a 27 year old is trying to get with a 17 yr old. To me that's a pedophile. If he loved her he should have known that she was too young.
@zee.2345 жыл бұрын
Exactly.. he is sick in the head.
@Codi8924 жыл бұрын
Did he know she was 17 when he approached her?
@bhakthyjose12564 жыл бұрын
@@Codi892 yes I guess because he did mention the age played a "significant" role in their relationship.
@Zhane-ce7nj8 жыл бұрын
A 27 year old after a 17 year old. Disgusting.
@23daddio7 жыл бұрын
Zhane Doe Mexicans do it at a younger age
@rockyraquel30247 жыл бұрын
Henry Daniel Racism LIVE in the comments guys 😮😮😱
@23daddio7 жыл бұрын
Tuff Stuff I wasn't being racist just stating facts
@MZUNUSUAL7 жыл бұрын
Because he think she is young and he could mold her into the woman he wants.
@brandonmukum89977 жыл бұрын
Zhane Doe it's a good age for marriage. women get old faster than men
@dexterdamonkey8 жыл бұрын
Men like this look for young women, expecting them to be insecure and easy to manipulate and mold to what they want like a doll. Whatever else happens in their life, good or bad, nothing kosher about a man almost 30 looking at a teenager. There's a reason why these men can't get along with women their own age, Big. Red. Flag. (Manipulative, lying, physically violent, using his illness to paint her a villain... it sounds funny and harmless here, but if you back up and have perspective, it's a very creepy list of no no)
@dorisharrer48577 жыл бұрын
dexterdamonkey Gbam!,well said !
@ForeverFit727 жыл бұрын
dexterdamonkey - you are 100% correct. and I totally agree - when a man is not able to be in a relationship with a woman in his peer group this is a major flag to run as expeditiously as possible ... she was 17, a teen, when he met her ( not on my watch)
@brookssmith58077 жыл бұрын
I really agree and he sounds so dumb with his explanations he tries to use his sickness to manipulate her
@sane_njomi6 жыл бұрын
This is so true. When I was 18 I dated a 27 year old and was with him for 5 years. I was a complete emotional wreck when we split. I was inexperienced, straight out of high school and didn't date when I was in there and the relationship was basically me proving myself worthy of him and constantly trying to come up tops over every woman he had waiting on the sidelines. We split because I cheated. Granted I wasn't perfect either but he moved in with his new girl a week after we broke up. Looking back he never could be alone and I was constantly kept on my toes. My self esteem took a knock because of that relationship but yeah. These big age gaps amongst younger people are grounds for exploitative and insecure people who exercise power dynamics. Still healing from that but I'm glad I'm not there anymore
@tersooawen50396 жыл бұрын
Complete nonsense! Is 31 really that old? That's crazy!
@ceea68028 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one concerned or think it a warning of what is to come when an individual starts punching walls etc? #run
@MartianBlues118 жыл бұрын
Chessy J He clearly has some issues and they don't involve his cancer. He really should grow up.
@deepersoul6898 жыл бұрын
Yes, that's very warning. I've heard frequently from domestic abuse observers that if a guy punches walls or destroys objects around you out of anger her is so many times more likely to actually hit you the more it occurs. He's such a silly fucking person.
@ceea68028 жыл бұрын
MartianBlues Agreed
@cassandreweendychery6 жыл бұрын
Runnnnnnnn
@DavinaMealoha6 жыл бұрын
CHESSICA AIKEN I hope she runs. He's bad news!
@katelynn7678 жыл бұрын
She's really pretty. Like wow.
@yaelyaelvik39037 жыл бұрын
katelynn767 true really really pretty
@blockthis087 жыл бұрын
She a'right
@Lizzycheeks_6 жыл бұрын
I was like holy crap gorgeous!
@DavinaMealoha6 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🙌🙏 Mixed is always beautiful. I got cousins mixed Black/Pilipino/Hawaiian gorgeous af! 🙌🙌🙌🤗❤🤗❤ Same exact mix like Nicole Scherzinger... just fricken gorgeous.
@INDIGO.GODDESS_5736 жыл бұрын
Davina D LIES.. MIXED IS NOT ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL.. 😂😂😂. LAWD..smh
@MartianBlues118 жыл бұрын
This old ass dude was creeping on a high schooler and still ended up being the immature one in the relationship. How did that happen. How is a child more responsible than you? Sometimes I find that cradle robbers are often insecure. They are terrified that their young spouses will find someone their own age and leave them. He should quit worrying about whether she's wearing her ring at work and instead work on his own issues. I hope he fights the cancer, but she should run for the hills. They are on two different maturity plateaus and he's just not on her level. Thank goodness that they don't have kids together.
@aubreycraraig8 жыл бұрын
MartianBlues not necessarily i was graduate by 17
@MartianBlues118 жыл бұрын
Prissy Brey I graduated at 17 too. It's pretty irrelevant to the point of my comment, though.
@KennethDAstonJr8 жыл бұрын
Yea I do have to agree at 27 I wouldn't approach a 17 yr old. Her issue is, she don't have a dad, cause a real man wouldn't let his 17 yr old daughter date a 27yr old man!
@AmanishaketoMeroe8 жыл бұрын
@Kenneth D. Aston Jr. Totally agree
@pookienempooky93398 жыл бұрын
Kenneth D. Aston Jr. You are so right. These grown, emotionally retarded boys look for girls who don't have the protection of a father. These girls are easy prey. He would see hell messing with my girl. My daddy always told me don't go to any man but him, if I need something.
@CARAMELKISSES7168 жыл бұрын
he robbed her of her teenage years.. #SMH.
@jf30287 жыл бұрын
Mrs_Cole * you know you stop being a teenager at 19 right? He took 3/8 teenage years. I wouldn't call it robbing.
@MrJduke406 жыл бұрын
She not a victim she is a volunteer.
@treasuredaniels22456 жыл бұрын
he didn't make her
@tersooawen50396 жыл бұрын
Hahaha! I can't figure out the thinking in some parts of the world. That is the cause of excessive divorce in the Western world. The guy is just 31, not 60. Women mature faster emotionally and otherwise. Just notice her sense of financial responsibility. He does not have that. The most important thing is that they feel comfortable together physically. Age does not matter here at all. The difference is not even that much.
@royalone86286 жыл бұрын
@@MrJduke40 She was a victim of this old dude. He found a kid to manipulate
@JJ-eb1zp8 жыл бұрын
At least they don't have any kids
@m.s.17537 жыл бұрын
Jan J it won’t be long and after that her life will go off the rails when he wants to leave her with two kids.
@montgal536 жыл бұрын
Yet. . .
@denisemanfre95426 жыл бұрын
Mthwakazian Mthwakazian can he father kids after the cancer
@asabifatosin11504 жыл бұрын
After treatment for lymphatic cancer, it’s unlikely that he can have children.
@elaineyhouston92034 жыл бұрын
I admire the level of respect they show each other in court and how honest they are in their responses to the judge
@omgmazin8 жыл бұрын
he was 27 chasing a 17 year old?
@taiodus34015 жыл бұрын
@@yemedemure414 abuser picked her straight out of foster care.
@datgurlky15 жыл бұрын
Right. This is just like an R. Kelly situation. Wonder where they met? Outside of her high school probably.
@coriesmith26334 жыл бұрын
He preyed on her
@asabifatosin11504 жыл бұрын
Tai Odus He was raised in foster care. She eventually got adopted. No doubt years of battling such a serious illness made him socially less than his actual age by years. No doubt being in foster care for years and then adopted made her emotionally older than her biological age by years also.
@brotherLee3404 жыл бұрын
@Christopher Cravens naw..they only 10 years apart lol
@ajwriter56998 жыл бұрын
He is controlling because he doesn't want to be alone and unstable anymore. He's also very petty. She's a pushover when it comes to her family and scared to put her foot down when it comes to him because she doesn't want to upset him. Like judge said, they both grew up without a stable foundation. So I'm pretty sure they fill an emotional void for each other. He wants a mother to take care of him. She wants a father to make her feel protected and secure. I hope they can grow up a little more and work it out.
@jaynecampbell43962 жыл бұрын
Perhaps he is very scared?
@nicolemoor21208 жыл бұрын
I feel sad for him that he has cancer but I also think that he abuses the fact that he has it because every thing he says he uses his illness if he really is ill he doesn't ran out of a car and so on. just saying
@kalodontcare87807 жыл бұрын
Pookienem Pooky & thats fine with me 😌.Married couples can be all that and than some.who cares?..oh wait you care
@tarshiabaker49873 жыл бұрын
Exactly one min he in so much pain but has the energy to argue over and outfit and punch a wall he had cancer b4 he met her who was getting his pills then he I sympathetic to his diagnosis but it doesn't mean he can't do things for himself which the hospital promotes i know work in hospital for 15yrs and yes I can see he uses his cancer to manipulate her to do what he wants
@easytosing8 жыл бұрын
She's gorgeous 😍
@MartianBlues118 жыл бұрын
Catherine P Yes! She's very pretty.
@pookienempooky93398 жыл бұрын
He needs a nurse. This young girl is trapped.
@pookienempooky93398 жыл бұрын
This girl should be enjoying her youth, not being a nurse maid to a dude 10 years her senior. This could not be my daughter.
@jeffreyhood25028 жыл бұрын
I agree with you she to young to be tied down like this
@ajwriter56998 жыл бұрын
twistedblktrekie but also more empty She's bounced around from foster home to foster home. I'm sure he fills an emotional void for her as well.
@mdniteeagl16478 жыл бұрын
I think Judge Lynn nailed it in her summation - these two are trying to make a family/relationship when they have no idea what one is, having never been in one. Kara does not have a caregiver personality, partially because she's too young to understand the concept. You can't wait for someone in need of care to tell you they need their medicine - you have to know the treatment schedule and make sure they are following it. Brandon appears to forget she is that young and expects a higher level of maturity... but she's still a kid with no life experience. They both have a LOT of growing up to do, but I don't know if they can do it in time to make this work long-term.
@kalodontcare87807 жыл бұрын
MdniteEagl Oh but we will.Try again ✋😌
@marrayahmanni69517 жыл бұрын
Kara King Good luck to you. Age is nothing if you're committed. You're beautiful and young. Be happy with our without him and screw the Haters! 💜
@RadBunny22697 жыл бұрын
I hear you. W/ the right type of support around them & older married couples to mentor and walk w/ them, they have a good shot.
@aniialowe19803 жыл бұрын
He didn’t really want a wife for real. He wanted someone he could control and mold into the servant/companion he wanted her to be. At 17 she didn’t even know what type of woman she’d be yet.
@Arbitorriku28 жыл бұрын
She's a child, and he needs to grow up. He's fighting cancer, his life is literally on the line...yet he can't treat himself and relies on her for treatment. She is a child, like myself, and needs to focus on school and not a husband.
@kalodontcare87807 жыл бұрын
Arbitorriku2 can i be a child first before you start referring to me as a "child".You just sound plain ignorant
@kazandreiagrey44297 жыл бұрын
Arbitorriku2 from where I'm at we finish university at 20 so I think she's good. Better than getting preggo and shacking up.
@KH-bt2fs3 жыл бұрын
She’s not a child she’s 21 she was a child when he started dating her
@nigerianclassic82095 жыл бұрын
I think he's taking advantage of her youth. He uses his illness to burdened the relationship. He needs to get it together. I dont think she married for love. She married him because she was sorry for him and he's abusing it!
@princesses06098 жыл бұрын
She is beautiful and too young to be married and not happy move on baby girl you have so much more life to live
@kalodontcare87807 жыл бұрын
Miyahrimom Williams so continue to date not married.I don't have to be with hella different guys to find the one😂😂 Im not in jail.
@fwb10128 жыл бұрын
What is happening? I am so confused with this dude. He is not a man. I hope she divorced him; she needs to finish school and be free. 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️
@lajunecrockett23816 жыл бұрын
Hope the judge tell her to leave
@itiswhatitis_8428 жыл бұрын
Everything seems to match. Her skirt with his shirt. Her shirt with his jacket. Judge's necklace with make up. It looks beautiful😁
@farraharray72318 жыл бұрын
He's just like his name...A trip with no luggage
@mizannwells83818 жыл бұрын
+Farrah Array 😂😂😂
@NellieKAdaba8 жыл бұрын
lol
@dorrettp13398 жыл бұрын
Farrah Array these men piece of s..t
@dorrettp13398 жыл бұрын
Farrah Array i feel so sad for her. this mam at 31 is is soooo immature. acting like he owns her....
@farraharray72318 жыл бұрын
He's taking advantage of her naivety and her youth. He's basically a pervert.
@KennethDAstonJr8 жыл бұрын
I would really like to hear what line he used on her lol I bet is was "hey, little girl want some candy" or "Can you help me find my puppy" or "You mom wants me to pick you up from school" lol All jokes aside, she seems very mature for a 21 yr old. I have seen 30 yr old females on here that act very immature. She hasn't once interrupted, rolled her eyes, or acting ghetto.
@NellieKAdaba8 жыл бұрын
True
@gagabuah8 жыл бұрын
That's because she isn't full black . lol
@kalodontcare87808 жыл бұрын
gagabuah not black at all
@JayBezzle8 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@gagabuah7 жыл бұрын
John Smith , just because, I can tell the difference between races doesn't mean I am a racist. Only a racist recognizes a racist. You are surely one :-)
@elroywalker22726 жыл бұрын
Wow!!!! I love this couple be each other strength and grow, a lot of people don't get to the point get to understanding each other pain. Life is full of joy you are a young married couple with potential.
@DeviancyBehavir8 жыл бұрын
She's too young, I'm just going to put that out there. He's too immature and silly for words though. They'll make it for another 5 years at the most and be moving on to other people.
@jabirbrown24458 жыл бұрын
Deviancy Behavir I would have say your right
@dorrettp13398 жыл бұрын
Deviancy Behavir hope sge won't have any childen for him....at least not yet
@thecounselorace6214 жыл бұрын
Nah when she reads these comments, they will snap her out of the hypnosis, he want change, and the look on her face in those proceedings, says she don't love him, when you try and control a person, the little love they may have had for you fades away, the cancer effects your personality as well, when your sick and in pain it makes you very irritable, both of them had issues with being abandon, that makes this a recipe for disaster.
@INDIGO.GODDESS_5734 жыл бұрын
@@thecounselorace621 She's all in the comments. Taking up for him and their relationship. If she love it. I like it..🤷🏿♀️
@myme82085 жыл бұрын
She's so amazing. At the end you could see her being his backbone and help him straighten up and talk. They're a beautiful couple. And she'd mature enough to make her own decisions.
@itsyagirlnatasha21583 жыл бұрын
One thing i love abt the judge she always let the couples know she hears them. Alot of people just want to be heard. She is def good at what she does.
@Brownfox19818 жыл бұрын
Kara is BEAUTIFUL how did he get her
@shawndrawoods8 жыл бұрын
Malcolm Fleming .... foster care and a need to be loved. She mentioned no one ever presented themselves as a gentleman to her before him. I'm actually amazed at the level of issues they have, not much at all.
@percyastronautstatus.87808 жыл бұрын
not
@YoungVon222937 жыл бұрын
4 G's Goofy Guys Get Girls
@yukiyawells10196 жыл бұрын
NOOOOOO
@VerdeLane6 жыл бұрын
@@shawndrawoods "No man ever approached me like that"... GIRL at 17 what men are you even talking to? Should be dating other teenagers. Out here married and caring for a cancer patient with limited resources. Talk about flushing your youth away. Hope she gets out before they have children.
@bribri07868 жыл бұрын
I think she should have dated him longer. At her age all I wanted to do was travel and meet new people and party with my friends on top of getting my degrees. To me, marriage is for after you've explored the world and yourself a little bit.
@kalodontcare87807 жыл бұрын
Britt Brat I've traveled to Hawaii twice,Baltimore,New Orleans,Florida,Atlanta,Compton,San Francisco, L.A, Palm Springs and thats not even the full list.Also I'm not the party type,that's not important to me.Me taking care of the important things in life is what matters not where the next party is at. & last but not least Marriage does NOT have a age on it.
@kazandreiagrey44297 жыл бұрын
Britt Brat works differently for everyone surely. Tho being in the 20s is still considered "young", I personally think it'd be an ideal time to take what one wants for their future seriously. It's not the wrong time to settle down either especially if the partner is already at that phase. Besides if she or anyone for that matter still wants to party or enjoy life alone, having lots of "me" time for leisure and self development, then they won't be with someone more mature and who wants to get married right away.
@LoveDuah8 жыл бұрын
she should be building a career
@DaSippPrincess6 жыл бұрын
EvelynLove Fosu-Duah she is
@miss.teetee11668 жыл бұрын
I think he is doing her a disservice by marrying her so young and then not even giving her the opportunity to grow up. He should've never dated her in the first place. He was way too old.
@piinkz308 жыл бұрын
Torie Townsend he was looking for a caregiver ...
@shayjones88678 жыл бұрын
Right he wasn't looking for a life partner he was looking for help!
@dorrettp13398 жыл бұрын
Torie Townsend i don't think he cares...for her just for his cancer... then he puts a fist through a wall....because she wouldn't wear an outfit HE picked put...seriously?? who does that? i feel sorry for the young girl, the judge should tell her to bounce...
@rockyraquel30247 жыл бұрын
Torie Townsend AYE but now she 21 and he 31 And Trump is like 70 something his wife if 40 something 😐 see my point BULLLLLSHIIIT 😂😂
@lindalabrador97122 жыл бұрын
Why can’t HE take his medicine & has to WAIT for his Wife to give it to him?? 🙄 Ain’t NO MAN telling me what to wear! 👎🏼
@katj.13328 жыл бұрын
May God bless you both! May God heal you of cancer and I wish you a happy and miraculous life.
@wyteriawilson40076 жыл бұрын
I love how they looked at each other at the end. Best of luck!
@ForeverLumoz8 жыл бұрын
Wow. He's so immature it's scary. Run girl!! You are so mature and so grounded, you deserve better than him. Sorry for the cancer, but don't fill a void with someone not worth it. OMG he's the same age as me! I'm horrified! How can he be so insecure and childish? Grow the f up!!
@gidgethrobowski38606 жыл бұрын
Exactly...
@silatikalaluka38474 жыл бұрын
He cuffed her first chance he got . She got married too young 🥺☹️
@AliAli-lh6rx7 жыл бұрын
All the negative comments towards the man are stupid. This is the superficial world we live in. She is a pretty Woman who obviously loves this man. let them be. All these comments saying she should leave him for sombody younger, better looking ect are stupid. This is why there are so many single mothers struggling to get by. He may be a little insecure and a little childish but i see no major issues with this union. If she is mature like everyone says, she made an informed decision about her life. (a good one in my opinion). Shes wise enough to know what is good for her. On another note, this man should be grateful for having a smart woman like her by his side. And she should appriciate all this man does for him. appreciation goes along way. if you both are reading this, try be more supportive and appreciative of one another.
@yemedemure4144 жыл бұрын
@@Laylathelayla811 ❤❤❤
@teresaj.41037 жыл бұрын
I don't think it is right to sit in judgement of another person's relationship. You don't control who you fall in love with. Yes there is a age gap and some serious issues they are dealing with.... but we all have issues. I'm just glad she isn't one of these young women with several children and have NEVER had a husband. If they love each other they can make it. And ladies we all know you can be with a man of any age and he turns out to be a damn fool!!! So it is all about love and respect. I wish them blessings and happiness.
@bellepapillondeesse82467 жыл бұрын
Teresa J. ,agreed. Many are focused on the age gap or about how much more attractive she is compared to him which makes no sense to me but unfortunately that is the mind set of many people out here. My only concern was her being 17 at the time. He should have waited until she was at least 18 to begin dating. However what's done is done. . I hope they remain strong & pay no mind to those who are wishing for their failure. I believe as long as they are willing to work with one another, they will have an unbreakable marriage.
@zoelife72724 жыл бұрын
the comment section is for the viewers' views. persons do not have to agree. it's an open forum. no one can tell another, how to feel, or what to say.
@fckfmselfcare6303 жыл бұрын
Yes you can control who you fall in love with 😒
@arlisaburkes80713 жыл бұрын
@@bellepapillondeesse8246 I think he requires her to have a whole lot of wisdom @ 21 to care and support him with his medical needs. To defend him with family issues , let him control the finances and what she wears, is way too much for a 21 yr old or any age! Him stalking her about not wearing a ring & punching walls is scary!
@WIGAHOLIC148 жыл бұрын
She too young my opinion to be married especially to someone who struggling with illness. That is hard for people who been together for years but entering into a relationship knowing someone has a serious illness I probably could not do it. The age gap is too much they in 2 different stages in life. At 21 you want to free and party and do you versus 31 you probably ready to settle down and be stable.
@erinwilliams62018 жыл бұрын
WIGAHOLIC 14 But not every 21 year old wants to do all that foolishness.
@kalodontcare87808 жыл бұрын
Erin Williams thank you.Not every 21 year old doesnt need to party and be in clubs to live life to the fullest.I dont need to be that 21 year old
@mokenistic4 жыл бұрын
T Henderson it is call bonding, they bonded emotionally, where you really paying attention? 1.they were both on foster care, 2.she mention that she felt sorry for him having cancer. and that he is the first guy who approached her like a gentleman. They both love each other and their love and life story is what inspires great novels and great movies. And I am so inspired. You sound so heartless and negative, open your eyes heart and learn, I hope you are not materialistic
@grindhard43124 жыл бұрын
Naaah she not the party and free type I can tell. She's very mature and level headed than most 21y/o just looking to party and waste their 20s away
@BigMoe38 жыл бұрын
cradle robber.
@ninaedwards3457 жыл бұрын
Dark Rainbow what ? That's a new one
@INDIGO.GODDESS_5734 жыл бұрын
@@ninaedwards345 that's old as dirt how old are you😂😂😂
@MimiNwabuokuMD7 жыл бұрын
Oh my, I had to laugh at the judge's Garanimals quip. You had to be a child of the late seventies to early eighties to get it😀😂😀😂
@TheNaphisa035 жыл бұрын
The look he gave her at 19:40 is eveything!! This man is a man in love with his wife. 😀😍
@LadycookieK03048 жыл бұрын
This young lady needs to look into print modeling she is absolutely stunning. I am praying for their marriage
@gailsmith8362 жыл бұрын
She is stunning but I don’t think they should stay married.
@lezwilliams39158 жыл бұрын
He got too many come backs/snap backs for me. He is way more emotional than she-the female-is. glad he admitted he was being foolish...that's a step forward..good luck
@princegbalea8 жыл бұрын
I have full honor and respect for this girl, this is what you call a woman. I hope this brother get well and continue to love her.
@brishaberries01016 жыл бұрын
I like them as a couple. None of their issues were commitment or trust, it was petty things they can work through.
@AkilJacob7 жыл бұрын
Young, cute, no kids and going to school. How this old ass dude find this girl? He must have been eyeing her on the playground for years!
@zoelife72724 жыл бұрын
Mismatched. She's young, naive. He's older, insecure, and knows she's naive. They came together because of similar misfortune. When she matures and discovers herself, she will be a different person altogether.
@Pursuepeace07153 жыл бұрын
well for most men there is a reason why they prefer a much younger women. 1. he can mold her to his will, 2. Not a lot of life experience so she will have less of an opinion 3. and of course to bare children 4. more submissive
@selenagrinage56314 жыл бұрын
A fluke👀👀👀 yeah brother you groomed this lil girl👀👀👀 I'm sorry for your health but BROTHER YOU DIDN'T MEET NO BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY YOU MET A CHILD MY GUY👀👀👀
@mayym78767 жыл бұрын
I am 22 and my boyfriend is 32. We work great as a team. All about effort to make it work and work well..
@patp26907 жыл бұрын
Mayy He rules.
@segolamepearlrapula22006 жыл бұрын
I'm 22 and dating a 31 year old. He's amazing!!
@LeshaFBaby4 жыл бұрын
If she were my daughter I would be encouraging her to enjoy her youth but then again Im not surprised she didnt have the proper guidance
@NSyashwanth8 жыл бұрын
they need each other and why are people commenting that they will leave each other. That's not going to happen. hope they will be with each other till the end. and be happy
@helgapataki41568 жыл бұрын
He acts like she's his toy/nurse. Girl get out & run while you can. You're gorgeous & will go far in life, you don't need the extra baggage. You are no ones hobby.
@kokefran37565 жыл бұрын
I like the couple, I hope they work it out, she's a very nice lady and sh's been there for him through his cancer, You can see they both love each other
@sheilap98542 жыл бұрын
I Really thought that She Should have left this Guy, I don't think him being Controlling is Going to Change 🤔
@yordanoshaile87347 жыл бұрын
At least they married instead of shacked up!
@Ken-iu2zp6 жыл бұрын
Yordanos Haile True
@tanyagivens43386 жыл бұрын
She grew up within dysfunction and so the stability of marriage likely works for her. Her childhood was probably not like those who spent their entire life in a functional household. With that being said, their relationship actually looks like it will be a good relationship if the husband does not let his insecurities get away from him. I pray they create the stability and family that everyone deserves.
@cutietae2472 жыл бұрын
17and 27…..he really shouldn’t have been with her at that time,married her at 18 smh
@antaresscorpicus6925 жыл бұрын
He's using his illness as an excuse for everything wrong in their relationship.
@etherealeden37948 жыл бұрын
She's too young to be a wife. She could be doing so much for herself if she didn't have to be responsible for a husband. If he wants a homemaker he should marry someone older and settled.
@grindhard43124 жыл бұрын
No such thing as being "too young" to be married. At 18 your legally able to do whatever you like. It's about two ppl who can come together and both decide it's what they want.
@TheNAUGHTYNOOK28 жыл бұрын
The age difference is a major factor ,why they are having problems, plus him having cancer doesnt help matters either,smdh ,I would of hurt him lol if he was pursuing my daughter
@Sun_MoonAries8 жыл бұрын
I like this couple they are silly but idk I just like them best wishes 💞💞💞💞
@kalodontcare87808 жыл бұрын
Naytasha awww thank you so much,im glad people see good in us
@Popcorn-vg2qh6 жыл бұрын
Naytasha I wish happiness also. It's all about communication. Give and take. I really enjoyed this case
@IabbGitnoJ81605 жыл бұрын
She's a baby, so of course age makes a difference. She is too young for that type of responsibility.
@adrianbeal72028 жыл бұрын
man I wish I was ugly like bruh they always get the prettiest women I just don't understand
@adrianbeal72028 жыл бұрын
Quiela Ivory all dat sound good but I wish.
@jc_807 жыл бұрын
Adrian Beal sadly opposites attract some mean spirited women/men always get kind hearted partners sad....
@BernardBrunu17 жыл бұрын
I'm ugly and I disagree on ur point. I'm 21 avd no girl has ever cared about me except my family
@markrodrigue69136 жыл бұрын
Right, Look at Jay z
@falidisu21396 жыл бұрын
I agree... Pretty girls pity them and wrongly think that they are going to be faithful- Wrong
@beezy3647 жыл бұрын
She's lost, probably never had a father.
@vanknip43208 жыл бұрын
She doesn't love him and was hoping Toler would give her an out.
@YooLaDeshiamisphit2 жыл бұрын
Her marrying him was the biggest mistake of her life. He's too old and he's sickly. Now, her whole life is about him. She should've listen to her parents.💯
@karajohnson13097 жыл бұрын
lol I'm mad we got the same name but he is using cancer as a crutch so he can win an argument and keep her around
@kalodontcare87807 жыл бұрын
kara johnson childish
@andream49894 жыл бұрын
I literally don't even understand...how does a 27 year old come across a 17 year old at all? Let alone to date?
@KH-bt2fs3 жыл бұрын
Work some 27 year olds work at fast food grocery stores and office jobs I’m 19 and work wit a 26 year old 😂
@natashaclarke1857 жыл бұрын
My mother is 10 yrs older than my father been together years what does age have to do with love commitment they are a nice couple just going through things
@7voidfemme76 жыл бұрын
Natasha Clarke mostly just a little odd that he might have known she was underage and kept pursuing her (because legal issues)
@manisthemeasure59734 жыл бұрын
10 yrs age differential is really not much. However the fact that she was only 17 when they met and he was 27 makes you wanna cringe a little in terms of how mature she may have been. It’s like 15 and 25, or 16 and 26. They are all 10 yrs apart but the maturity factor is something to worry about.
@mingzdijaps7 жыл бұрын
I'm 10 minutes in watching this and I still can't understand how they wind up together
@pinkiid15654 жыл бұрын
I like them together...nobody understands better than they do!! Age doesn't define maturity, they're both old enough to decide what's best/bad for them.
@kalodontcare87804 жыл бұрын
We are over very toxic and abusive
@plainjaneofalltrades38533 жыл бұрын
They are too cute and I do understand her becoming closer through the affection they share. She also needs to be able to explore individually IF that suits her needs and desires, otherwise, they can explore and discover together.
@bryant51w8 жыл бұрын
This was a good one👍🏾
@biancajohnson3195 жыл бұрын
he's creepy. he snags a 17 yo and gets mad he can't pick out her clothes for school. out of order!!!
@dance4life12088 жыл бұрын
Y'all in the comments act like y'all never seen a good looking Person before
@ididntreallymeanit8 жыл бұрын
dance4life1208 cute profile pic
@nobully1008 жыл бұрын
dance4life1208 Lmfaoo Thank you!
@joshuaorumwesodia41718 жыл бұрын
dance4life1208 you're gorgeous!
@blackbutterfly233ify8 жыл бұрын
dance4life1208 Lol you watch divorce court too
@sexychocolateswife7 жыл бұрын
Word! She's a pretty girl but I kept wondering the same thing going down the comments. Like damn yall acting like she's the most gorgeous person EVER lol
@CarolynBeasley5 жыл бұрын
Hello everyone. 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀@3:55 he said what exactly??? Pain remigicidine. Okay I'll wait for you all to explain. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@JohnJohnson-oe3ot8 жыл бұрын
Chronic pain and getting ur meds are very difficult . Pain patients often spot one another on meds when they are same Or similar
@daan79185 жыл бұрын
Finally a couple that has alright issues no crazy cheating or accidentaly bringig life into the world
@saez13132 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👌
@operadavis14627 жыл бұрын
shes a baby😑. Mature and beautiful she is. Age is something you dont get back.
@Ms.FunkySoapBox5 жыл бұрын
The whole argument over clothes is because he was wardrobe stylist before his cancer. I wish he would have spoken about that fact. It's his thing.. his passion. Look at what they wore to the show... well put together, my brother!
@baesoo36015 жыл бұрын
Same experiences with my ex he was 26 and that time I m 16🙈 (my first love) but I m in a relationship not in marriage so we broken up after 1yr of relationship Now I m 21 😽I was successfully moved on but that was very painful
@marcpatrickefeni99925 жыл бұрын
May God bless your marriage Kara and Brandon and may you receive the wisdom to make your marriage work. Please, Kara, don't walk away just yet. I wish you both happiness and fulfillment.
@ayefo78004 жыл бұрын
He really argues with her over matching clothes?! Braaaahhhh......
@cloo6748 жыл бұрын
17 and 27? Red flag ⛳️
@NellieKAdaba7 жыл бұрын
She's 21 now and he's 31.
@ixamxmsright2 жыл бұрын
What is a 27 year old man , with a fatal illness, doing scoping out a 17 year old girl?😡 Plain user .
@jetmanjayjay46042 жыл бұрын
I think in spite of their past of not having a family, this guy has a really good girl for a wife and I think he should take it easy with her, love her and things will work out for them. I think her heart is in the right place and she will make a wonderful wife. Just don't live without prayer. Wish them all the best.
@jrshakinah8 жыл бұрын
I can't.
@mauricegaskin56947 жыл бұрын
One must note that this couple was abandoned from young, and have bounce back from adversity to be married. Unfortunately, he was diagnosed with cancer that can be cured. Applaude the couple, and forget the age difference, which is not bad, Donald Trump, American President, is 19 years his wife senior. I see a lovely couple, but some of you see a black man with a light skinned lady, and see that as a problem, which they don't see. People has the right to choose who and what they want, and when they want. I love this couple.
@marrayahmanni69517 жыл бұрын
Kara, the fact that you're on here explaining yourself to strangers about your relationship and episode shows a bit of immaturity, which is to be expected at your age. I've seen MANY episodes of shows on YT and have YET to see anyone in an episode comment on it and bother to explain themselves. You don't owe 👉anybody👈 any sort of explanation about YOUR HAPPINESS. You made a grownup decision and no matter what you say, people will have something negative to say about it. Be happy with your man and enjoy your Youth. Brush the Haters all the way OFF!!! Good luck to you Beautiful Lady! 💜