Divorce Court: Rachelle vs. Andre - Who's Calling the Shots?

Divorce Court - Rachelle vs. Andre - Who's Calling the Shots? - Season 17 Episode 150 - Full Episode
In the courtroom today, Judge Toler reins in an angry and combative woman. Is fear and intimidation causing her boyfriend's deception or is there another reason?
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[@ayefo7800]

If you're arguing with people on a near daily basis, that's a YOU problem. And then she gets into these arguments and wants HIM to come to her rescue and clean up her mess. I wouldn't be surprised if he's scared of her😬 What a bully....

[@lavkyn]

this!!!

[@lavkyn]

I'm like how did they get married.. this didn't happen overnight

[@xXLilSmurthXx]

@@lavkyn she scared him/bullied him into marrying her 🤣

[@DontGive2Fuccz]

How dare you blame this innocent chick….the nerve of you 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@KevinMadison-vc1ky]

She is crazy and at the same time he is a little slow 😅😭🤣

[@jermainebenson4724]

You are Crazy 😂Lol!!!!! At the same time

[@red6hot1913]

She interrupts people when they are speaking. Her major issue is that she doesn't listen well. She listens to respond. Then by the time she responds, she's agitated because she wasn't listening.

[@nuimproves6906]

“…At the same time.” 😂😂😂

[@CoachBWiley]

Jesus I got sick of hearing him say that bs. Smh.

[@deborahrolle3858]

Everything lol

[@JayPrettyMuch]

…. And everything else like that…” thinking up lies and excuses. Lol

[@FalaqX]

I know him personally, and he has a diagnosed speech impediment.

[@JayPrettyMuch]

@@FalaqX I totally understand that. Hoping he found peace after this situation.

[@chaundawalker6741]

Honestly, when the judge said he's scared of you. I was thinking the same thing. Telling her the truth makes him anxious 😟 He knows he is failing. He is speaking slow because he is cautious about using the wrong words (trigger words). Certain statements like, " I don't know" " I can't " "Can you help me" or " I can't afford it" will set her OFF 🧨. She's hotter than 1000 firecrackers on the fourth of July. He needs a 🙏 life. 😅

[@candazec.7049]

How the hell is this woman a caregiver with THIS amount of anger? I don't know about you, but I would not want to be her patient. She needs anger management.

[@TheeMichellesMind]

Baybeeee, if she was on Judge Mathis’ show acting like thissss … he would’ve thrown her out of his courtroom quick fast and in a hurry!!! 😳

[@shimmergangfitness5880]

Real fast !!!!

[@t.bailey5043]

That part and call it contempt court.

[@MsBizzyRae]

Wow! She is the problem! You want a man to lead, but you want to be in control then tell him he isn’t leading. How would this ever work? She’s a mean bully.

[@ronniem3592]

Don't cry brother , she's a bully

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Hes a lazy bum

[@kingdjack6]

The show went downhill after she left.

[@justaregularguy115]

Lynn is by FAR the best DC judge. I think she left to retire and be with the husband she's always gushing about (and when he died recently, she returned). Knowing that its kinda bittersweet seeing her back. on the bench.

[@jar7840]

She left because after the show moved to Georgia, the cases were just different. It was a lot more drama and silliness and she didn't like the direction the show was going in.

[@one_ice_cold_chiq]

​@@justaregularguy115she's back on DC?

[@justaregularguy115]

@@one_ice_cold_chiq I think she has a new show called Commit or Quit. Still a return to the TV bench.

[@LeshaFBaby]

No lies told...and because it's scripted now

[@LadyLoveMsSunshine]

Yikes!😮 She's a piece of work. I feel bad for her circle. I'd have to cut her off. Her energy is extremely negative.

[@t.bailey5043]

That part

[@minae9935]

She is so annoying. But at the same time, I can give her grace because I know how mean people can be to bigger/fat people. I think she got so used to always having to be on defense and ready to protect herself and pop off on anyone who even tried to make her feel less than that now she doesn’t know how to operate any other way.

[@scorpionqueen2193]

Agreed 👍🏽

[@SRT_DRE]

Ain’t nobody being mean to 6ft 250 lb women with attitude problems 😂

[@Ayomi28]

I have been big my whole adult life and this is her life experience because she is nasty and too busy matching energy. Misery attracts misery

[@bryanbeeman5256]

I feel like every child that had to deal with bullying and teasing to the Nth degree needs counseling. She harbors so much anger and bitterness that she’s her worst enemy. This definitely stemmed from childhood and it’s not just her weight that was the issue. I’m sure it was the teasing of her height and she being dark skinned that helped push her overboard.

[@t.bailey5043]

That part. Yeah she's not for him.

[@BRoWNSuGaR061710]

Did yall peep the lady behind him? She was cracking up everytime he said "at the same time" 😂😂

[@Supaberry]

Let me go back and look 😂

[@naudiamilan]

the lady and the dude was in cahoots 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

She is so broken and it shows.

[@yemedemure414]

Very!!!

[@Amanda-rc3iy]

💯

[@Jazzyk86]

Yes and I honestly feel she should have went through some therapy along with her weight loss so she can heal herself mentally and emotionally.

[@rodericko9534]

Yes ..she definitely needed this judge rebuke n instructions or corrections

[@admar6934]

​@Jazzyk86 I mean if you fat and people are pointing it out is for your own good ,sure their words don't come the best way but from observation she dont seem to take any advice from no one she thinks she's right about everything even if she's not and is very aggressive, we can't victimize her she got a problem and needs to face it becawhile she can look hurt some people ate just like this ,she's not willing to take accountability for her actions and is why she struggling,she wants to always be in control

[@gailsmith836]

He’s terrified of her that’s why he lies so much.

[@angelacarlisle1708]

No he lies because hes a lazy bum

[@deew7837]

If he say... At the same time...and every thang like that.. one more time

[@jar7840]

It was so frustrating. He kept saying a whole lot of nothing.

[@neveradullmoment6882]

😂

[@BananaPhone234]

Some people are just liars. However if a person is generally honest but are not honest with YOU- it’s because you’ve made a space they can’t be. That’s all relationships: parents, spouses, employees…. If you want the truth then respond well to it.

[@leatherface4133]

If he says, “at the same time” one more time 😩😩😩

[@lavkyn]

and everything else....

[@nuimproves6906]

He looks like he wants to cry. She’s operating out of a place of fear. Annoyance and anger. She doesn’t give him a chance to fully handle situations. And I kind of see why. He does seem slow. She should just leave him. How can you respect n sleep with a man like that. Leave him and get anger management. Problems solved

[@ronniem3592]

I was thinking the same thing, is he tearing up?

[@zee.234]

He is definitely slow and it pisses her off

[@TheeMichellesMind]

That part!!! He seems not only slow but a little sorry. I’m not saying she doesn’t have any issues, but a man like this will drive you crazy! I had one in my 20s, and NEVER did again. Then to take her money and make up some whole delusional plot about he’s going to school - he** no! He can’t be that scared of her if he had the nerve to do that. Just leave each other alone at this point! 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️😩

[@bryanbeeman5256]

She doesn’t respect him, but she wanted him because he wanted her. He chose her at her lowest. She’s damaged however, if she’s elevating, she’s going to want him to elevate as well. She may see herself better than she used to be because she lost weight, but she feels like she can fight when she feels like she’s offended now.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

And this is gonna sound mean to, and I apologize for that however, he from Mississippi. If you lived in Mississippi, at any time, you’ll know why I say what I’m saying. So he is not necessarily slow, but he’s slow.

[@gehughes2724]

Uhmm Bro why did you marry a woman with 5 children who is barely 30, let’s start there! !

[@xXLilSmurthXx]

Take a shot every time Andrew says "at the same time." How many shots have you taken? 🤣😂

[@KevinMadison-vc1ky]

😅😭🤣

[@MsDee0221]

😂😂😂 “and everything” Whewww he was driving me crazy!

[@eye-ris8898]

That would be suicide. 😂😂

[@ms.zbedroomeyes8627]

She is coming off as a very hard person to deal with. He is intimidated by her. If I were him, I would leave her because no other man would allow her to treat them like that. Something about her doesn't sit well with me at all. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Hes a lazy bum

[@lavkyn]

And everything else.... and at the same time... his 2 favorite phrases😅😅😅

[@KevinMadison-vc1ky]

At the same time this is ridiculously hilarious 🤣😭😅

[@tonijohnson7804]

Yes😂 I'm like this woman is impossible!!!😅

[@gailsmith836]

The judge said to her “you and I are on the same team “. But she isn’t listening.

[@NewOrleans_KeyKey]

He can’t even tell his lies right 😂😂..

[@TheeMichellesMind]

Exactly!!! That’s why he keeps saying “At the same time”. Trying to get the lie straight but too slow to get it together. 🙄

[@FalaqX]

He has a speech impediment

[@waltonjones5411]

At the same time...and everything...you know what I am saying...at the same! Damn Son...!

[@Fogo4Life1]

At the same time, at the same time .......lol

[@ParisMilan4]

At the same time......... and everything else 😂😂

[@Rightfullyso892]

This judge is so dam good, God bless you and I do hope you have your own PRIVATE COURT, we love you ALWAYS.

[@JumpTossCatch]

The way she sighed and rolled her eyes when the judge said that he's scared of her .... "I'm the sweetest person in the world!" *As she death grips her lecturn and grits her teeth *

[@worldhealthrn]

He doesn't seem gentle, but not responsible or reliable or like he can handle business even professionally

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

Take a shot of liquor every time he says, “At the same time” 😆🤣🥴🥴💀💀💀

[@stacycarmichael1270]

And “and everything else”

[@deborahrolle3858]

😂

[@Can-1981]

Maaaaan, we all gon be in the ER with alcohol poisoning😂😂

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

@@Can-1981 lol 😂

[@FalaqX]

He has a speech impediment

[@wordplay6665]

Arguing everyday 🙄 I would lose my mind, let alone get my first child and her 6th!

[@pamelarhoad9689]

She said she argues 30 times a day.

[@annettebullard-be8cx]

They are too broken pieces trying to make a whole person. They have work to do individually, before they can fix their relationship.

[@deairascott9451]

How many at the same times are we going to hear 😂😂

[@jeremyc5882]

You wrong 😂😂😂😂

[@JackJobs-uy5xt]

Hi they need to go their separate ways they will never gets along she is a angry woman 😹

[@angelacarlisle1708]

No wonder shes hacked off. He needs to get off his lazy ass

[@cadillacdeville5828]

He lacks ambition well as assertiveness .. and she likes things done when she says so and thinks she should do everything. He's not a sufficient leader, why stay ? Her inside needs repair that has nothing to do with him .

[@jusme773]

At the same time and everything else

[@foxyroxy1010]

This woman is a bully, living with her is like walking a tight rope and he's afraid of her. Her whole attitude stinks he needs to run and run far away from her, she'll never change.

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Hes a wuss

[@biggwillnyc4047]

Bro , RUN FAST. !!!!!!

[@angelacarlisle1708]

She needs to run from the bum

[@jeremyc5882]

At The Same Time 🤣🤣🤣 At The Same Time

[@physicFitness]

At the same time, and everything else lol 😂😂

[@taronreed2597]

I see why she got 6 kids & lonely, her attitudes sucks

[@savtrill333]

"And at the same time" Shut tf up😂😅😂

[@lifeofjazz6944]

😂😂

[@t.bailey5043]

She can't be quiet. I can tell she didn't follow directions in school.

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Oh come on 🙄🙄

[@aprilbouknightmarquez6340]

​@@angelacarlisle1708this lady has to be you bc you can't hush either 😂

[@eucetteoreste5794]

She looks very aggressive

[@vidalsmith9160]

She wont find another man to put up with her foolishness and that attitude another single mom..smh

[@user-so6qh1ou9o]

Another lying man who was complacent with being unemployed

[@angelacarlisle1708]

She hasnt found a man..he sure isnt

[@aprilbouknightmarquez6340]

I think he's great 😂😂... the next dude will whoop her a**.. ​@angelacarlisle1708

[@Bubbles-fw2ps]

I think this man is a wimp,and not man enough to protect his wife. I also think he resents her ,and I think she should move on ,love herself and be happy .

[@user-jn4ns1qb1h]

Agree

[@Rodwill18]

Women give the worst advice, you don’t simply just throw away marriage because it gets rocky.

[@CandyCoated96]

I think this woman feels she carries all the weight. She feels she is her families main protection and provision. She doesn't feel she can give him the position to lead, because he will fail and that alone has caused her to resent him. I don't think he realizes how things like lying and being unpredictable causes people to lose faith in you, because for him its a habit. To me I don't see him taking responsibility for those serious issues. They will continue to effect his life in more areas than one. I think she maybe insecure as she did receive the judges advice with no conflict. Losing weight doesn't always fix the insecurities you had from living in the body you previously walked through life in. To find issues in every aspect of life means you have no peace within. She has a lot of anger and anger is a symptom of fear. Healing is essential for peace. She should get the counseling she needs. I will also add that their issues can be resolved with communication, but they have to want it to work to embark on the journey of compassion and understanding for the other. If he wants to lead, he has to show himself as a leader. Than she has to allow him to do so and trust his heart towards his family.

[@valeedadavidson678]

SHE'S A BULLY

[@moeknight6494]

No this is a classic Patrice O'Neal joke but in real life. She's a female shark but she married her food a penguin. He was a penguin when they met. She knew that. Now she's tired of playing with her food. But her problem is a male shark will never be attracted to her, only penguins. And the man, my guess is his mama was also a female shark, so they're probably wasn't strong man around him. I don't think he's seen a man check a woman. But he's a good man. All good men aren't strong, just as all strong men aren't good.

[@eucetteoreste5794]

At the same time 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kayd6539]

You know what I'm saying 😂

[@flygirlkai9189]

At the same time

[@Isiahbryant20]

AT THE SAME TIME, and EVERYTHING ELSE… Jesus stop saying that

[@gab19guerin72]

She is mean and flawed, which results in her being a bully. He is slow and immature. His speech is proof of his lack of knowledge. He starts sentences with the same 2 intros, no matter the topic. That isn’t normal.

[@FalaqX]

I think he has a speech impediment.

[@xXLilSmurthXx]

As @chaundawalker6741 said above in the comment section, "He is speaking slow because he is cautious about using the wrong words (trigger words). Certain statements like, " I don't know" " I can't " "Can you help me" or " I can't afford it" will set her OFF 🧨. She's hotter than 1000 firecrackers on the fourth of July. He needs a 🙏 life. 😅"

[@willinejoseph529]

That man is scared

[@gab19guerin72]

@@willinejoseph529 he should be.

[@tib1632]

He isn’t masculine enough for her. She need a man who is masculine and protective. This guy isn’t it. She needs an attitude adjustment though, she’s on defense mode.

[@yemedemure414]

Ruuuuuuuuuuun Forrest ruuuuuuuuuun!! This is an example of a Jezebel and Ahab relationship. Unequally yoked!!!

[@lydiasetordjiedaley3424]

They are ill-matched; she's aggressive and conforms to the "angry black woman" stereotype whilst he's brow-beaten and lacks confidence .. Deadly combination..

[@LettaRenee]

At the same time & everything else. 🙄

[@bryanbeeman5256]

This episode is far too common. Women with no self worth hook up with men that are limited with low self-worth. Then, the woman grows, but the man does not. Now, she is trying to force him to grow when he possibly can’t or won’t grow. She needs therapy and need to move forward.

[@user-iv1yi6cz7o]

THIS GUY IS DEPRESSED FROM HER..SHE WILL HURT SOMEBODY..LEAVE HER PLZ SIR 🙏 SHE IS SO SO 😡 ANGRY

[@jeffreycooper5187]

She needs a hug FR

[@konandadestroyer2485]

Shes a bully

[@jeanp1323]

I don't know how they even got together in the place

[@crystalkimble7018]

Well...2 minutes in and she's THE PROBLEM!! #therapyrequired

[@lavkyn]

she treats him like a child😢

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Then he needs to man up..hes mamby pamby

[@aprilbouknightmarquez6340]

​@@angelacarlisle1708the next dude ain't gone deal w her BS..

[@thelmarobinsonrobinson2673]

Great júdge Toler.

[@user-cg8vs6wb7z]

She's very controlling and she seems to be so angry all the time. And she comes off as being a bully. She needs someone that could handle her . He's not the one for her

[@MontManii]

I love you judge

[@nflglo]

Need her back

[@Luella-dg4xt]

She is so angry, and insecure and is taking it out on him. What a sad miserable life to live!😒😒😒

[@cutelove99]

Lord... That man needs to RUNNNNNN ANDRE. RUNNNNNNN😂😢😮

[@Reddit_Tales2]

Mehnn her face, voice and statement all speak aggressive and bully. Damnn

[@peterwebb4468]

At the same time 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@maryburke7850]

Girl if the sweetest person I the world I hate to see the meanest. You’re just a bully. I hope he gets his self esteem and man up and leave her

[@SHAYDEE3]

This poor guy is soo beaten down he cant even think to articulate how he feels.

[@user-lx8ye2iv3e]

She is not allowing him to be a man

[@williamdudley8588]

She still weighs more than him , after losing 200lbs DAM 😂😂😂😂

[@erinoshun9331]

No she's just talk. The husband is heavy too.

[@Heisepic]

everyone commenting negative towards her is wrong. i am a man and i know this guy. he is a lair. thats why this lady is like this.

[@t.bailey5043]

Like you know him personally.

[@jeanp1323]

Both things can be true

[@michaelsanchez5783]

6 children?! Bro lost when he dated a single mother.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

This is going to sound mean, but it’s a good dose of reality for you. She was extremely obese, picked on and bullied when she was young, had five children before she met Andre, has a child with Andre, and now that she has lost weight, she feels like she’s entitled to someone better than Andre. All the while she has a anger problem, an attitude problem, and is negative as the day is long. Who is trying to sign up for this? What good man wants to rescue a woman like this? I’ll wait…

[@SHAYDEE3]

2 minutes in i see who the problem is. This lady is bottled up anger. Lord save this man's life.

[@SPtheGREAT]

It seems to me that she knows he can't do better than her...narcissistic behavior...but AT THE SAME TIME, AND EVERYTHING ELSE...

[@rhondiaford8643]

I think he should go back to school (for real) taking communication classes. They both need personal therapy, and they should both attend a good Bible teaching, Bible believing Church🌸

[@thenjiwemoyo6981]

He must stop this at the same time I am going to bed now I can’t 😅😅😅😅

[@DevonishMurphy]

This man was dealing with this for 6 years. Six mofoing yeaaaars yo. HOW

[@EmpressTee1619]

I was once in a relationship for 6 years with a compulsive liar. He wrecked my car, he misused bill money, he would lie about women, he even lied about being bisexual. It made me overly angry. I snapped at him often because I knew nothing he said or did was authentic. It was like I always had to have my guard up. Some people bring out the worst in you then act like you're the problem. After all how bad can she be if she's doing his job applications and giving him money to buy books for school. Those are very supportive actions.

[@williamstrand12]

These women swear they’re not the cause of a man not being who he once was!

[@zeescott4770]

These are the women that your mother tried to warn you about!!!

[@angelaread3715]

The young woman does not listen. She needs serious counseling.

[@reggiewilliams7111]

I was married to a woman with that type of behavior and attitude she was also quick tempered and violent. the really sad thing is that people would blame me when she would attack me. After 8 years of marriage she left me for another man then after a short while of leaving me that man start abusing her. She actually expected me to except her back in my life after 2 years but I didn't.

[@ginginbenton6463]

Toler you are, AMAZING

[@GreaterCall]

He is too docile fir such an aggressive woman. But her attitude has merit. He outright lied about the school situation. She thought she was getting an educated man! So much anger in our race in both men and women!! Why??

[@user-iv1yi6cz7o]

HE NEEDS TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL..

[@deejaymarie3938]

This man simply wants peace and she wants to be right

[@ashleyjones4797]

She’s 31 with SIX kids and only ONE by him… clearly he’s not the only man that couldn’t deal with her!! She’s highly insecure and has emotional issues… she’s broken like a shattered glass plate that’s been dropped

[@jessechilton708]

She too controlling. She won't let him handle it sometimes.

[@questioneverything751]

Leave that woman before she kills you and your kid. She has demons in her

[@denisejohnson5065]

I am probably the odd one out, but he annoys me FAR more than she does. He ALLEGEDLY lies because he is afraid...yet he took $400 of HER money based on a lie. Nope. He is just a liar and that's it. Yeah she has attitude, but I feel some of it is justifiable dealing with him.

[@omega_supreme]

That's an evil woman. All them kids got her bent.

[@levit8t]

Dude says ‘and everything else’ too damn much

[@ishamcintosh5779]

This man ...