EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW | Divorce Court's Judge Lynn Toler Drops Gems | Dear Future Wifey E804

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Dear Future Wifey

Dear Future Wifey

Күн бұрын

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@Grace4thislife
@Grace4thislife 11 ай бұрын
I love Judge Lynn Toler watched her on Divorce court one of my favorite quotes/wisdom nuggets from her is “Never let a man tell you twice he doesn’t want you”❤
@CherylYHowardGetYourLifeBack
@CherylYHowardGetYourLifeBack 11 ай бұрын
Yesss! That's one of mine too
@danielleg2616
@danielleg2616 11 ай бұрын
That changed my life
@fam2616
@fam2616 11 ай бұрын
@@CherylYHowardGetYourLifeBack Mine Too! Bro you got One Time to tell Me.
@terryadams5536
@terryadams5536 11 ай бұрын
This quote will stay with me forever. It's 100% the truth.
@sherrynelson365
@sherrynelson365 11 ай бұрын
Yes Lord!!!
@revettemoten3004
@revettemoten3004 10 ай бұрын
Judge Toler can talk about ANYTHING and I will be here for it❤
@superblessed2956
@superblessed2956 10 ай бұрын
Love my Judge Lynn❤❤❤❤❤
@angieperry154
@angieperry154 10 ай бұрын
She’s my role model! I’m trying to be like her
@EliteTrainingCenterHouston
@EliteTrainingCenterHouston 10 ай бұрын
That part!
@deeevans1389
@deeevans1389 10 ай бұрын
sooo beautiful ❤ thanks for sharing
@ITSjpBitch1
@ITSjpBitch1 10 ай бұрын
ANYTHING…you hear me
@kristinthompson5025
@kristinthompson5025 11 ай бұрын
"Run your emotions, don't let your emotions run you". This has been a very gem dropping episode.
@aubrie_morgan
@aubrie_morgan 11 ай бұрын
Thats not an epiphany.
@healnhrtz5412
@healnhrtz5412 11 ай бұрын
y favorite judge ever! Brutally honest! ❤❤❤❤
@sharondathomas6313
@sharondathomas6313 11 ай бұрын
Very!
@josiewebster6643
@josiewebster6643 10 ай бұрын
K you are so right this is a Gem episode....
@jeanniejones8777
@jeanniejones8777 10 ай бұрын
I officially realize that Judge Toler is one of my favorite people in the entire world. I think her books would be great to base the podcast series off of.
@Ladyrena6
@Ladyrena6 8 ай бұрын
What a man....a real man...dealing with his illness but also working extremely hard for his household....nobody fam is perfect...i think Judge Toler's family was what it was suppose to be. God llowed them, her to make. So she did. Bless you. This been a blessing to hear ...!!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ekaperkins
@ekaperkins 10 ай бұрын
I love me some her!!! I am 36 years old and you've taught me so much about relationships. I was the daughter you never had and listened to you, quoted you and respected you! I will be here to support you in whatever podcast you choose! I love you Mama Toler!!!!
@doinglifemyway1755
@doinglifemyway1755 10 ай бұрын
Lovely comment
@teacherturnedhomesteader7368
@teacherturnedhomesteader7368 10 ай бұрын
Heartfelt and wonderful comment
@kfransissy8101
@kfransissy8101 10 ай бұрын
This is a sentiment we share❤
@debbee18
@debbee18 9 ай бұрын
You must have read her book Dear Sonali, Letters to the Daughter I Never Had. I love it! She's a prolific writer!
@veebaby5537
@veebaby5537 5 ай бұрын
Ordering now! ​@@debbee18
@DJ-wl9iw
@DJ-wl9iw 11 ай бұрын
When she talked about her husband coming home one day just to listen to her vent and then when she was done and he sure she was ok he went back to work, that did it for me. I hurt for her and I’m impressed she’s still standing. Never met the man but the way she talks about him tells us everything we need to know.
@emilyn7572
@emilyn7572 11 ай бұрын
💯
@izmane
@izmane 11 ай бұрын
my sentiments as well.
@mishawilliams4319
@mishawilliams4319 11 ай бұрын
I CONCUR 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@hattiewhitfield2629
@hattiewhitfield2629 11 ай бұрын
Thank You Queen…..
@hattiewhitfield2629
@hattiewhitfield2629 11 ай бұрын
Talk about anything you want, we’re here for it!
@mkitsioslmt
@mkitsioslmt 10 ай бұрын
"My plan was him and his plan was me." lmao..Facts! 🔥💯🔥💯🔥
@AngellaMunchiluePhillips
@AngellaMunchiluePhillips 10 ай бұрын
“In a fight with anybody, the first battle is always with yourself”. That’s a word right there 😊
@theresasmith5934
@theresasmith5934 10 ай бұрын
A very wise and generous lady. She's been through alot and shares her wisdom.
@joyricherson4570
@joyricherson4570 10 ай бұрын
Yup I always say let me look at myself first
@carnation242001
@carnation242001 7 ай бұрын
The way he controlled this interview and brought her back before she lost it is absolutely amazing and humbling and I honor a empathetic heart posture...
@annieaviles4760
@annieaviles4760 10 ай бұрын
Her and her husband fully supported each other. They were each other’s rock.
@LisaKinsey-u6e
@LisaKinsey-u6e 10 ай бұрын
I love that when she got within a quiet emotion, He knew how to motion her back into the process . Very Great interview.
@Islander463
@Islander463 10 ай бұрын
I was saying this, love how he navigated the interview when it became overwhelming
@herfamiller139
@herfamiller139 11 ай бұрын
"You cant stay mad and stay married!!"(gem packed session)
@toshasmith9429
@toshasmith9429 10 ай бұрын
Judge Lynn Can talk about anything and I’ll listen. Such a wealth of knowledge
@paulacopeland8360
@paulacopeland8360 10 ай бұрын
Judge Toler's husband Eric knew how to soothe her just like her mother knew how to soothe her father. That was such a blessing.
@georgianacollington2104
@georgianacollington2104 11 ай бұрын
Her mom covered the perception of their father’s image in their eyes… That is so powerful…💯🔥👏🏾👏🏾
@jerzeygirl1972
@jerzeygirl1972 10 ай бұрын
Yes!!! I would love to just sit and listen to her mom
@valindanewton6754
@valindanewton6754 10 ай бұрын
Each, I forgot that 💎 gem..❤
@tout2324
@tout2324 11 ай бұрын
Absolutely love how she honors her mother, she sounds like a phenomenal woman!
@ChozenbytheAlmighty
@ChozenbytheAlmighty 11 ай бұрын
And her father
@WellnessForMoms
@WellnessForMoms 11 ай бұрын
She can talk about Mother’s Rules on her podcast…that alone is a pot of Gold!!!
@cjjohnson2250
@cjjohnson2250 11 ай бұрын
Judge Lynn just doesn't understand how much of a mentor or inspiration she is to me because I lost my husband and best friend of 23 years back on 12.18.2022. As I was going thru my grief unfortunately she had lost her husband shortly after that. Her inspiration, wisdom and strength encouraged me to understand and get thru my own suffering. I thank you my sister❤
@neshkatama9083
@neshkatama9083 10 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss 🙏
@cynthiacoburn7437
@cynthiacoburn7437 10 ай бұрын
This is one of the most amazingly beautiful Interview, from beginning to end ♥️🙏🏽🤗
@pamgreen9248
@pamgreen9248 10 ай бұрын
Me too!!! Lost my husband of 34 years around the same time.
@godzdaughterh1180
@godzdaughterh1180 10 ай бұрын
My Heart Goes Out To You 🥰 PRAYERS UP 🙏🏼
@reenam7177
@reenam7177 10 ай бұрын
Same here Sistar, I lost my husband 12/23. She is helping me with how to deal in my new normal. Good and bad days. Be well my Sistar.
@Verac_IV
@Verac_IV Ай бұрын
I love how he knew how to shift the interview when he notice she was having a moment. Thank you for being sensitive and not ashamed.
@faithgeorge9152
@faithgeorge9152 28 күн бұрын
Thank you for this comment
@imaniwave4236
@imaniwave4236 8 ай бұрын
“I didn’t need a man, but I wanted a family” I felt that with my soul
@feliciamoore6325
@feliciamoore6325 10 ай бұрын
This was a life-changing, sad, but greatly encouraging podcast. I am 60, single, never married, and am so ready to take on the rest of my life of purpose. Thank You, Judge❤
@tinytowz4471
@tinytowz4471 10 ай бұрын
Latteras Whitfield is an excellent interviewer who actually listens and gives Judge Lynn full response time.
@whitdevereaux
@whitdevereaux 11 ай бұрын
I'm so glad mental illness is also talked about in such a loving way. Thanks for sharing your life Judge Toler!
@loria.buttsesquire3867
@loria.buttsesquire3867 10 ай бұрын
Exactly. We would do better to seek understanding and our own emotional balance/intelligence, and extend grace. IMHO
@Realness4sho
@Realness4sho 10 ай бұрын
@gloriaalleyne7135
@gloriaalleyne7135 10 ай бұрын
I loved this interview and what struck me, was when she said life is like a roller coaster not a mountain to climb. I was just complaining to my sister that when you get up each day it is one thing after another because I was just climbing the mountain. Now that I know it is like a roller coaster I will be better prepared. I pray God continues to hold you in his bosom.
@valdeniasimmons2935
@valdeniasimmons2935 9 ай бұрын
just watched the entire podcast...I'm in awe of this woman and the life she lived and is living. Her podcast could be about almost anything: her life in a "planned" black professional community; her time at white educational institutions and on to Harvard, her decision not to pursue her dad's aspirations for her career, life with a mentally ill dad and and an exceptionally emotionally gifted mom, raising sons, and of course marriage/relationships. I think that she is still navigating her grief and really think that is for a conversation wa-a-a-a-y in the future. But whatever you guys come up with I am here for it. Thank you for this conversation and giving it all of the time it needed. I can't imaging your cutting out any of these moments.
@janellamurphy5665
@janellamurphy5665 9 ай бұрын
I am watching now March 3rd 2024....
@mekaw0
@mekaw0 10 ай бұрын
Every woman needs an elder like Judge Lynn to help her navigate life and I think that's what her podcast should be about, answering young women's questions and helping them navigate life like her mother did for her ❤️
@shareenladd1048
@shareenladd1048 11 ай бұрын
Laterras, the way you handled this interview. Emmy worthy!
@chareelewis6331
@chareelewis6331 10 ай бұрын
Exactly! He read the room and her very well. Much respect to him!
@xtormluv
@xtormluv 10 ай бұрын
He understood his assignment. You can tell he was tapped. Wonderful Job Laterras❤
@lvsudiah
@lvsudiah 10 ай бұрын
She’s a legendary storyteller!!! I love her energy!! And she is wise beyond!! She makes everything she says clear and with complete understanding.
@janicewilson6146
@janicewilson6146 9 ай бұрын
I dearly love this woman because she is honest and allows us to learn from our mistakes with her advice and encouragement to make better choices. She is awesome!❤😊
@jamesjackson4781
@jamesjackson4781 Ай бұрын
Yes she is really honest Janice
@jamesjackson4781
@jamesjackson4781 Ай бұрын
How are you doing
@melishawilliams8671
@melishawilliams8671 10 ай бұрын
“Beat the the game if everyone dies in order” my God talk about a blessing
@YashicaH
@YashicaH 11 ай бұрын
I am in love with her persona, wisdom, and strength on and off camera. Thank you, Auntie Lynn, for your beautiful testimony.
@carolinagirl2428
@carolinagirl2428 11 ай бұрын
‼️♥️‼️♥️‼️♥️
@stephanierussell4450
@stephanierussell4450 11 ай бұрын
Me too I could listen to her talk all day
@mizannebillions5703
@mizannebillions5703 11 ай бұрын
Aunt Lynn had great insight as a young woman, would love to hear what her thoughts of not having great insight as a young person to resolve and work through as a mature person.
@SerenaSaysHerName
@SerenaSaysHerName 11 ай бұрын
Judge Lynn... can talk about ANYTHING... I'M LISTENING...I ABSOLUTELY LOVE HER!!! EVEN MORE TODAY!
@miloperrault2614
@miloperrault2614 10 ай бұрын
Exactly, you took the words out of my mouth. I'd listen to anything Judge Lynn has to say. I still watch her Divorce Court videos on KZbin. I visit her Instagram. I'm so happy to see her sharing what's she's been thru and the important people she's unfortunately lost. Never imagined how instrumental her husband was to her success. Happy to see and hear her on the upside if the roller coaster. I/we love you Judge Lynn, God Bless you!❤❤❤
@mmodl
@mmodl 10 ай бұрын
She’s so open and transparent about her journey on her IG. Some of the dark moments she’s shared have had me praying like I know her. It’s so heartwarming to see her get to this place.
@ladybwallace
@ladybwallace 11 ай бұрын
Don’t convey your frustration-Convey Information!!!!!! 🔥 🔥 Convey: to transport - to transfer - to forward-to channel Meaning don’t allow your frustration (feelings) get in the way of what you’re trying to communicate. Been married 24 years and this is facts!!!
@ChozenbytheAlmighty
@ChozenbytheAlmighty 11 ай бұрын
!!!!!!!!
@ylondamillerTHETRUTH
@ylondamillerTHETRUTH 11 ай бұрын
A gem!!
@Tammy1579
@Tammy1579 11 ай бұрын
That hit deep
@mishawilliams4319
@mishawilliams4319 11 ай бұрын
True 🙏🏾🙌🏾
@ladybwallace
@ladybwallace 11 ай бұрын
@@ylondamillerTHETRUTH Right!!! This woman is giving free wisdom and counseling 😌
@richieyh3211
@richieyh3211 10 ай бұрын
I so admire Judge Toler. A mighty woman of integrity and character. I can sit and listen to her wisdom for hours. Sending you all the best Auntie Your Honor.
@taureanheart8931
@taureanheart8931 10 ай бұрын
“Auntie your honor” 🥰 I LOVE THAT!
@ines-simpson
@ines-simpson 10 ай бұрын
You can tell this conversation has somewhat helped Judge Lynn with her healing process by talking about her marriage and keeping the memory alive of her husband and parents Great interview!
@mikat7365
@mikat7365 11 ай бұрын
I love the fact that she said "I'm not that social. It just happened to me." So much pressure is put on singles to do this or that. She was just living her life and someone else noticed that she would be a great fit. I truly believe the God of the impossible can do anything, even have your husband show up in unexpected places.
@toussaintan
@toussaintan 10 ай бұрын
I know right 😊
@natashacampbell5200
@natashacampbell5200 10 ай бұрын
Same. Im the same
@foxymaz11
@foxymaz11 10 ай бұрын
"Don't convey your frustration, convey information." This podcast was so powerful and transformative!! Thank you, thank you, Laterras and Judge Toler!!
@reneeray4211
@reneeray4211 11 ай бұрын
Thank you Laterras. I really appreciate how you handled Judge Lynn in this interview. You never rushed her and you allowed her to grieve without you getting uncomfortable. I also think you did a great job of keeping the interview moving. Great job!
@Ogeboo343
@Ogeboo343 11 ай бұрын
Yes I noticed this. That’s great emotional intelligence from Laterras
@JRenee-Sings
@JRenee-Sings 10 ай бұрын
YES! Such great balance ! He did an awesome job with this interview!
@noexcusetoday
@noexcusetoday 10 ай бұрын
He does such a great job!
@NataliaHals
@NataliaHals 10 ай бұрын
I seldom comment on KZbin, but I needed to stop to say that this whole interview was a MasterClass in life. Thank you for having Judge Lynn on and Judge Lynn, thank you for sharing your life, wisdom and Eric with us
@Stephanie-007
@Stephanie-007 10 ай бұрын
This lady right *HERE* ... is the definition of a true queen❣️Love and light always, Judge Lynn. You are undeniably every woman, and that is truly something magical to behold.
@gdenisesims6027
@gdenisesims6027 11 ай бұрын
"Some call it trauma, I call it trials......it made me stronger." That blessed my soul! It's all about what you do with what's happening in the moment! Thank you, thank for this interview!❤❤
@kimb6900
@kimb6900 10 ай бұрын
"If I'm smiling at you I'm being nice. I'm not looking to be convinced!" 😂😂😂 Hallelujah! 🙌🏾 Now that's a word right there! Love Love Love Judge Lynn ❤
@kor405
@kor405 10 ай бұрын
My quote of the year !!! Trust me
@Realness4sho
@Realness4sho 10 ай бұрын
Selah,💜
@CBtalks8554
@CBtalks8554 10 ай бұрын
I would just Love to Hear Judge Lynn Toler just Share Life Lessons like she is Talking to you. She is Absolutely POWERFUL
@Realness4sho
@Realness4sho 10 ай бұрын
✅🥰
@annamc8228
@annamc8228 4 ай бұрын
I would like to hear more of Judge Lynn - I could listen to her all day
@aliciasmith4056
@aliciasmith4056 9 ай бұрын
Mann I am so charged by this interview!!! With pride, Joy, respect and even more love for my favorite Judge Lyn Toler!!!! You’re my girl! Even though we’ve never met!….Mann!
@simplybridge888
@simplybridge888 11 ай бұрын
Listennnnnn, this right here needs to be celebrated. I follow her on TikTok, and we cried and prayed with her. She is truly loved, and I'm just glad to SEE that she's doing better. Death and grief ain't NO JOKE, but CHRIST will guide you through it. I know HE did it for me. Judge Auntie Lynn...we LOVE YOU....keep going.❤️❤️🥰
@theresafairley5633
@theresafairley5633 11 ай бұрын
I lost my husband recently and would love to speak with Judge Toller. I've never made this request to anyone ever. So I thought I'd put it out there. How would I go about doing this. Any suggestions?
@tivedamatthews-wl4hb
@tivedamatthews-wl4hb 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for Teaching & keeping it Real as Real can get. YOUR LIFE is truly a TREASURE for so many women and men for generations to come. Praying your Journey will continue to enlighten. THANKS
@tachiadace8156
@tachiadace8156 11 ай бұрын
Loved this episode. Judge Lynn podcast should consist of many seasons. 1.The wisdom from her mother. 2. Making marriage work. 3. Life as a widow. 4. Most interesting stories from Divorce court. 5. Commitment, Communication and compromise. 6. Respect my Daddy, He was that Dude. 7. Legal advise for those caught in the middle of messy lives. These 7 seasons in any order would be great. Praying for your comfort and peace ❣️🙏🏾
@alicebrockwell7650
@alicebrockwell7650 10 ай бұрын
Here is a perfect living!
@FlowwithJo
@FlowwithJo 10 ай бұрын
You’de make a phenomenal podcast producer @tachiadace8156
@dreamawhitlock874
@dreamawhitlock874 10 ай бұрын
I loved this interview with Judge Lynn Toler ! She is a force! Dropping gems for living life. Teaching life lessons through her mother's teachings. She could easily have a podcast where she gives advice that helps people navigate life's issues in the world full of crazies. Just giving advice to people that need solid advice on anything relationships, and living. Whatever she decides to do, we will be there for it!!
@lashanntriggs8687
@lashanntriggs8687 11 ай бұрын
I would love to see Judge just talk about life. Picking a different topic every week from the viewers and allow her to share and impart wisdom on us all. Love, kids, work, marriage, siblings, parents.... especially caring for your parents in their older age. I am newly 50 and started caring for my dad a few years back. He is still independent however I take care of his laundry, grocery, doctor's appointments and one of my sisters does his finances. Why didn't anyone prepare us for this? We need to teach and prepare our children for what is to come. Maybe that conversation sparks a financial one and start prepare if they haven't done so already. I would love to gather more nuggets!!! Thank you Judge Toler for your vulnerability.
@shesonyoutube
@shesonyoutube 10 ай бұрын
Agreed 💯
@charlenebrown3453
@charlenebrown3453 10 ай бұрын
Yes!!
@martharinebiseko1457
@martharinebiseko1457 9 ай бұрын
In Africa it is obvious that you must look after you children
@simonehutson5845
@simonehutson5845 10 ай бұрын
The conversation was so easy and authentic. She’s a gem.
@tiffanytip23
@tiffanytip23 4 ай бұрын
I love her. I met her years ago when she wrote her book "My Mother's Rules" she came to my church and spoke to us about her book and signed them for us. She is a blessing.
@ForMySoulSistas
@ForMySoulSistas 11 ай бұрын
@01:01:10 She got me when she cried...Loved her advices: ↪️You gotta get that life is a roller coaster, it doesn't always get better, it gets up and down ↪️I don't make room for ppl that I don't like ↪️If you want the situation to change, change first ↪️When you have an issue with someone, the 1st battle is always with yourself ↪️You beat the game when you bury each other in the right order ↪️I have 6 sons, I'll always have a date! I have all her 3 books and have yet to finish them!
@shalonShadea
@shalonShadea 11 ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you !
@sb19_
@sb19_ 11 ай бұрын
I love her gems. She is such a wholesome woman❤
@lajoyahill3139
@lajoyahill3139 11 ай бұрын
As a young widow myself, I love that you had her on. This was a very healing episode. Thanks for sharing this with the world. ❤❤❤
@tysgem7
@tysgem7 11 ай бұрын
Amen; same here, I found it truly inspiring and genuine.
@natasharochelle3218
@natasharochelle3218 11 ай бұрын
🙏💐💐sending you comfort and ❤
@lb1798
@lb1798 10 ай бұрын
@tysgem7 ME too. Gone 6 years had been married for 48 ❤️💔❤️
@nakeshadatcher9105
@nakeshadatcher9105 10 ай бұрын
I have been praying for you so much. During her grief, i felt like she was a family member grieving and I couldnt help. It is amazing how humans can love and care about someone you have never met. Auntie, I feel so much better knowing you are in a better place. ❤
@phoelinbradshaw7738
@phoelinbradshaw7738 10 ай бұрын
me too
@zackarybates4065
@zackarybates4065 4 ай бұрын
Thank You Judge Lynn for all the humor and wisdom you gave us over the years ! You are appreciated!
@raegray8768
@raegray8768 7 ай бұрын
The grace for mental health and Woman’s wisdom. That’s what I want Judge Lynn to talk about on her podcast.
@ebangamuriel
@ebangamuriel 10 ай бұрын
'Rose up like yeast' 😮 My mouth dropped 😂😂😂
@francenegayle3866
@francenegayle3866 10 ай бұрын
Stunned 😂😂😂😂
@thyrajoseph2720
@thyrajoseph2720 10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂..I laughed so hard when she said that!
@reneeray4211
@reneeray4211 11 ай бұрын
This is my girl! I have learned so much from her. I am praying for her complete healing. I can only imagine her pain. I love you judge Lynn. Be blessed!
@ceoa
@ceoa 11 ай бұрын
I've learned so much from her too. She can talk about ANYTHING as far as I'm concerned, because I know she's always going to be REAL. 👏👏❤️
@trinimarie9974
@trinimarie9974 11 ай бұрын
I've learned so much from her ALSO
@sfreeman417
@sfreeman417 11 ай бұрын
Don't convey your frustration. Convey information...This is a gem! Listening to Judge Toler feels like family.
@bewellwithsantosha
@bewellwithsantosha 10 ай бұрын
Laterras, I've been watching your podcast for some time now, and I always thought you were a great interviewer. However, after watching you gracefully navigate Judge Lynn when she was close to breaking down, solidified it for me. This was a great interview with so many gems!!
@loreenheath1472
@loreenheath1472 10 ай бұрын
I loved this podcast so much. I applaud Judge Toler for her candid responses and her transparency during this difficult time. I miss her on Divorce Court. The podcast can be about relationships, self discovery after loss, navigating thru mental illness in families or random legal advice..the sky is the limit. I'm here for whatever she chooses.
@candiraiin
@candiraiin 11 ай бұрын
“He was willing to change to accommodate me” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. This speaks volumes!!
@veebaby5537
@veebaby5537 5 ай бұрын
Have mercy 🙌🏾
@nikkibillions2323
@nikkibillions2323 2 ай бұрын
Solid ❤
@Xdnnn544
@Xdnnn544 10 ай бұрын
Judge Toler is so charming! I second checking out judgment call podcast for down to earth wisdom.
@nichellenunya
@nichellenunya 11 ай бұрын
LISTEN… when I say… I haven’t been so ready to listen to a podcast as I am this episode. YES GOD! Use her!!! ❤
@BrendaMack-h2z
@BrendaMack-h2z 11 ай бұрын
I lost my husband 9 years ago and it is truly a different kind of grief. I appreciate her.
@deborahdixon5181
@deborahdixon5181 4 ай бұрын
She’s absolutely beautiful she’s still healing may God let her heal with lots of Love ❤️ and support
@deborahtaylor1587
@deborahtaylor1587 10 ай бұрын
I’m always YouTuding early in the morning, at 67 and retired that’s what I do. Judge Lynn Toler this Podcast this morning on “Dear Future Wife” has ministered healing to from grief I have experienced from loss back to back, and I just want to say thank you for taking the call from Laterras R. Whitfield and agreeing to do this Podcast as your authentic self. ❤
@DEdwards247
@DEdwards247 10 ай бұрын
@jessikafuller9839
@jessikafuller9839 11 ай бұрын
I haven’t even started yet and I’m short getting emotional 🥺🥺🥺. Ima comment again after the video yall😂😂😂😂
@terryadams5536
@terryadams5536 11 ай бұрын
Me too!! Let me get my tissues. 😂
@SamariaYvonne
@SamariaYvonne 11 ай бұрын
Same. She is so humble and wise. I have to watch without being distracted.
@girlbrown804
@girlbrown804 11 ай бұрын
Me too girl...I love Judge Lynn and I love her and Big E's love story.
@annettep30
@annettep30 11 ай бұрын
Me too, Kleenex on hand.
@alovelywalk88
@alovelywalk88 11 ай бұрын
I started tearing up during my morning walk. Such a beautiful story ❤
@keahharrison4765
@keahharrison4765 11 ай бұрын
I clicked so fast. I grew up watching Judge Toler and I remember how sadden I was when her husband died and the posts she was making right after his passing. I’m glad she now has the strength to talk and be on camera again 💕
@cherylpolk4226
@cherylpolk4226 10 ай бұрын
The judge can talk about anything, I love how she talks about her mother and she lifts her up.
@glenperkins3389
@glenperkins3389 10 ай бұрын
I Love Judge Toler I'll sit on the floor and just listen to the wisdom. As her daughter she never had!🎉❤❤ Stay strong
@barbaraalexander225
@barbaraalexander225 10 ай бұрын
This is the most awesome and informative interview I've ever listened to, to the end. I am 84 years old; learned SOOO much and took away lots. Thank you much for taking this time to share such, about your life. I believe the Lord Thy God allowed you and your family to go through all you've been through, to share and bless this new generation and especially the older generation. May the Lord continue to bless you as you move into your new normal.
@praisealcolic
@praisealcolic 10 ай бұрын
Yes. Amen.
@kathrynbrockenberry3326
@kathrynbrockenberry3326 10 ай бұрын
Amen
@beneiseoleinmheart5614
@beneiseoleinmheart5614 10 ай бұрын
Amen🎉
@Luvurselffirst
@Luvurselffirst 11 ай бұрын
She stay dropping gems Here are a few 1. When going through emotional pain think rollercoaster not mountain 1.a Think through what you're feeling. Emotional awareness Don't convey your frustration convey information. Learn how you communicate and clean up areas that need cleaned 2. Dont make room for people you dont like. 3. Control/run your emotions, don't let your emotions control/run you 4. If someone wants you they are willing to do something different/change to accommodate you. 5. When in partnership, lead with your strengths; take what you're good at and what the other person is good at and build from there. 6. Take the best that you have and do the best for your partner and they should take the best that they have and do for you. This woman is a gift to is all. Purchase all her books I purchased "what my mother's rules" a few moments ago
@janetabernathy9703
@janetabernathy9703 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for listing these nuggets!!!
@Luvurselffirst
@Luvurselffirst 11 ай бұрын
@@janetabernathy9703 no problem, Auntie Lynn is a gift!
@shebawinters6964
@shebawinters6964 11 ай бұрын
Yes, my book is purchased!
@blessedqueen555
@blessedqueen555 10 ай бұрын
Yes, thank you
@MaricaIvica
@MaricaIvica 9 ай бұрын
How is the book?
@Dream-Me
@Dream-Me 11 ай бұрын
This woman raised me 😢❤ Everything I've learnt about myself and relationships has been from watching hours and hours of divorce court. Also reading her books. What a gift she is to us 🙏🏾❤❤
@caustin609
@caustin609 11 ай бұрын
I couldn't have said it better myself 🫶🏾
@blessingmlalazi9434
@blessingmlalazi9434 10 ай бұрын
I felt this comment!! She is not appreciated enough
@jobi-j
@jobi-j 10 ай бұрын
Sis, she raised me too and still is. I can definitely say I'm the woman I am because of her when it comes to emotions, communication and relationships
@valindanewton6754
@valindanewton6754 10 ай бұрын
You and me both..watched hours of divorce court. I hung on her every word. I quoted her all the time. One gem was about the significance of Valentines day or a big wedding. She broke it down so I could see it in a different way. ❤
@quichequiche4274
@quichequiche4274 10 ай бұрын
Me too, me too!
@mzjz6103
@mzjz6103 10 ай бұрын
She too is a genius! She was molded by geniuses. I'm thankful for God putting her life in the line of my path. She's a BEAUTIFUL Soul packed full of wisdom ❤
@Pjsixty60
@Pjsixty60 10 ай бұрын
What a beautiful comment, I just love it, in a strange way, i feel the exact same way. As if I wrote your comments myself. Wow!! Thank you 🙏🏼💜
@LoveyourselfSK
@LoveyourselfSK 10 ай бұрын
I love Judge Toler. Fell in love watching her on Divorce Court listening for her wisdom. I felt her pain when her husband died. I wish her all the best and look forward to what she has next.
@iSaidGoodDay
@iSaidGoodDay 10 ай бұрын
Laterras, I can’t believe you didn’t read her books before she came on your show. Her parents are sooo much of who she is. Her (written) story is everything.
@goodgirlgonerich
@goodgirlgonerich 10 ай бұрын
I watched my mom grieve her husband after he died and the process Judge Lynn Toler is going through is both excruciating and healing. She has a beautiful soul! They don't make women like this anymore, but watching her journey will inspire women to achieve the Godly, womanly characteristics she exudes. God bless her! I pray she heals completely and divinely... 🙏
@brosing14
@brosing14 10 ай бұрын
I was thinking of her glad to see her healing from the lost of her husband. God bless you.
@tinathomas2312
@tinathomas2312 10 ай бұрын
Amen 😊.
@janae412
@janae412 10 ай бұрын
"This is what it looks like to love your wife's heart properly." AMEN!
@l3l3Cakes
@l3l3Cakes 10 ай бұрын
I really slept on Judge Lynn. Her tough nature never appealed to me, but now I’m seeing this soft side of her and how relatable she is, I could sit for hours and watch her speak. She is full of so much wisdom and humor. I hope to be like her someday. Thank you for this interview L🙏🏾
@angieperry154
@angieperry154 10 ай бұрын
I occasionally watched divorce court but wasn’t a fan of the drama although I did pick up on a few of her life lessons it wasn’t until social media that I able to tap into this energy source
@crystallatta8770
@crystallatta8770 10 ай бұрын
I've always seen her tough nature as love. Sometimes you have to be stern for people to listen. I don't believe that she would be that way if she didn't care. All she wants is for others to see their own self worth and treat others the way you want to be treated. Judge Toler is definitely a real one❤
@FocalPointElisa
@FocalPointElisa 8 ай бұрын
There is a level(s) of respect and care the judge's parents demonstrated to her and her sister that, unfortunately, separates her experience from being a "trauma" to a "trial." She spoke of her mother's emotional intelligence, not in theory, but in action, she spoke of her father's mental health diagnoses as it related to a period of time and cultural understanding (or lack thereof). Judge Lynn Toler's parents seemed to be intentional people who made sure their children would have a sense of purpose. It's always refreshing to hear people speak in this way.
@EvelynJenkins-uo4zi
@EvelynJenkins-uo4zi 4 ай бұрын
She keeps it real at all times i like her blessings and prayers
@tamaradarice2484
@tamaradarice2484 10 ай бұрын
We need to give her flowers ALL THE TIME!!! Absolutely amazing, so much meat and life changing perspectives in her life story. Priceless..........
@TheSureFireWomb
@TheSureFireWomb 11 ай бұрын
I gifted my three daughters "Dear Sonali" last year after reading it myself ... in my 40s. I would love and support a podcast that speaks to self and emotional mastery as women, single or married. Please, offer more of what Duchess provided. It is a wealth of wisdom and would be greatly appreciated. My heart broke when hearing of Big E passing. The depth of their love and strength of commitment was obvious in her eyes whenever she spoke of him on DC. Thanks for this one Laterras. Much love and respect to the Honorable Judge Lynn Toler. Blessings. ❤
@JoniKing09
@JoniKing09 11 ай бұрын
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Judge Toler!!! Continued prayers for her strength and endurance🙏
@drivenchats
@drivenchats 10 ай бұрын
Judge Lynn Toler’s advice is timeless!
@CarasPlace
@CarasPlace 10 ай бұрын
I absolutely love Judge Lynn Toler! She’s so wise, transparent and full of gems. 💛 Thank you so much for sharing this interview.
@charlottef7650
@charlottef7650 11 ай бұрын
This is one of the most authentic and organic conversations. I loved it and I believe they were so present with one another that they didn’t know cameras were in the room.
@Ven-o5o
@Ven-o5o 10 ай бұрын
Podcast on Relationships and Handling Emotions
@angelajohnson7001
@angelajohnson7001 10 ай бұрын
Yes, this woman has soo much wisdom. She is raw and uncut.
@sharoneh8929
@sharoneh8929 10 ай бұрын
Judge Lynn Toler is such a gem. I love the idea of memorial book💯💯💯❤❤❤. She gives of herself so transparent and real talk about her grief, life, and her husband. God bless you and your family.
@annadillon948
@annadillon948 11 ай бұрын
I love listening to Judge Lynn. I’m 67 and I stop to listening to her speak about her life I love smart women and that is who she is. 🙏🏾♥️🙏🏾
@breezyakanan7544
@breezyakanan7544 10 ай бұрын
Judge Lynn is truly a phenomenal woman. Those who love her profound intellect and her ability to teach, enlighten, and empower anyone whose mind and heart are open to growth can overcome obstacles we face during our journey through life. Special Blessings Judge Lynn you are simply the best.❤❤😊😊❤❤❤
@preciousmoments7774
@preciousmoments7774 4 ай бұрын
Look, I do not care what the world says,Judge Auntie Lynn is my mother. She raised me, groomed me and guided me through my TV screens❤
@drusillayoung9552
@drusillayoung9552 11 ай бұрын
We gravitate to her because she is real about her grief. ❤❤❤
@lydialafortune2775
@lydialafortune2775 11 ай бұрын
I lost my only son some months ago ,l still need healing and Judge Lynn has so much wisdom and knowledge to share on loving and losing your love one .May God just continues to bless you in your journey.
@ArtLee68
@ArtLee68 11 ай бұрын
It’s the love that she and her husband shared with each other. She dropped so many gems for young couples. This life is too short to go through without having loved.
@lwmsculver3628
@lwmsculver3628 4 күн бұрын
Talk about the struggles in marriage after 30+ years. Many think they don’t exist but marriage is work. Loved this session!!!
@aarontshwanda5994
@aarontshwanda5994 6 ай бұрын
💜 Seven is a number of completion. Her mother "The Baddest Chick" deserved 7 books. Thank you for the wisdom in this interview. I needed this Judge Toler. One of my best ladies just shared this with me and I am 1 hour in complete AWE!
@on1accord78
@on1accord78 10 ай бұрын
This is the first time that I saw a long time length on a KZbin video and said, “Oh, I’m definitely watching this!” It’s worth every minute! I just love Judge Lynn Toler…a true American Treasure!
@theGift_TQ
@theGift_TQ 11 ай бұрын
You did an AMAZING job with this interview!!! Each time that she was about to break down, you shifted gears with such ease. How EXCELLENT AN INTERVIEW THIS IS!!! Thank you for what you do, and how you loved on Judge Lynn! ♥️
@DearFutureWifey
@DearFutureWifey 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for catching that
@toussaintan
@toussaintan 10 ай бұрын
Laterras, Thanks for helping her through her journey.
@alovelywalk88
@alovelywalk88 11 ай бұрын
Watching her journey since the love of her life transitioned is something I can’t put into words. I’m excited to hear more about her/their story ❤
@DearFutureWifey
@DearFutureWifey 11 ай бұрын
I agree
@luvnyaalwayz
@luvnyaalwayz 11 ай бұрын
What????? Her husband passed away?? 😢
@jasminasinanbegovic6225
@jasminasinanbegovic6225 10 ай бұрын
Mrs. Lynn you radiate authenticity. That's why you are loved from people. People are looking for that character without make up, to direct them, since 99% of them are lost
@positvelyexpectant1383
@positvelyexpectant1383 5 ай бұрын
I remember listening to the podcast Judge Toler was on before Christmas talking about her husband, followed by him dying some weeks after. It was amazing how she spoke about him and I hope he heard it before passing. Always admired their marriage and her stories shared by her - good and bad. Praying for your continued healing JT 🙏❤️
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