Divorce in the Quran - Live Khutbah by Nouman Ali Khan: New Jersey (USA) | Al-Mustafa Islamic Center

[@lynnlawand5205]

Those people are so lucky to have a lecture with him! Subhan allah, if he's only a student of quraan and he's such a good khatib how was Rasulu Allah PBUH🥹❤️ may allah grant us all jannat-ul ferdaws and gather around rasuu Allah while he tells us stories and stories that never end😭❤️

[@ahmednur1405]

Subxanallah

[@srumi3851]

I feel lucky too because I can learn from him whenever I want. However I really want to see him live on story night stage. 😊

[@nimisable]

Love Islam. So happy I am moslem woman . Love Allah swt. Women in Islam are the ultimate blessed. الحمد الله

[@everseeking60]

Your feelings are your God! 😂If I was drinking my coffee I would have spilt it out of laughter. Br Nouman has had such an impact in my life with arabic and quran. This was an amazing speech and sadly the truth. From what I have seen and experienced myself in the past, when a woman has been treated badly through words and actions and divorced at a whim, Allah opens up doors for her and gives her more than she ever expected and a much better happier fulfilling life. They think they have hurt you but in reality they have only hurt themselves. Allah is always with the one wronged❤Alhamdulilah, Allah is always just. His commandments are not to made a mockery of. ❤

[@jpf2121]

I was meant to read your message on this day ❤ Al hamdulilah

[@hafnimuchtar1455]

Separating your feeling with your behaviour. How? Keeping Allah in your mind. Jazakallah Ustadh

[@samanbahram8113]

What an eloquent bayaan. Please upload them every week. I consistently listen to them and look forward to them.

[@rabiaaftab5283]

How can someone be so emotionally intelligent, MashaAllah TabarakAllah .

[@maryam_a-raji7383]

Such a delicate topic, so delicately handled,putting men in charge. Jazaaakallahu khayran Ustadh

[@Aesh004]

Wao ... This khutbah just given all self acceptance to what happens in society 💌

[@JashimRules]

Separating behaviors from our feelings is something that can only happen when we are mindful of Allah. When we fail to do so, it can not only lead to problems, but make us feel alone and lonely. Marriage is the ultimate cure to loneliness. 35:31 SubhanAllah, what a beautiful lecture, storytelling and great insights. Bless NAK.

[@ainyghani]

Some people feel very lonely and alone in marriages as well.

[@Nad.s67]

Merci pour vos discours et conférences qui sont toujours d un grands rappels.quallah vous protègent,récompense votre épouse,vos enfants, vous. Qu il raffermissant nos pas sur le chemin droit.🙏

[@jeremynx]

Amazing❤ i love this religion more for being so fair

[@Wisdom_Aspirant]

Alhamdulillah! Jazak Allahu Khairan Ustadh. That really was needed. SubhanAllah!

[@mahbubhossainshakil8219]

What a deeper explanation!!! Allahu Akbar. May Allah increase Ustad knowledge more and more

[@anishakhan2376]

Very nice khutbah MASHA ALLAH.....very well defined.....JAZAKALLAH

[@AaronCardenas-bx7vc]

Wow so beautiful and full of wisdom subhanALLAH thanks for sharing JazakaALLAHkhairum

[@rakhee_aisha]

Mashaa Allah Jazakh Allah Khair Beautifully Explained brother

[@karimel8291]

Beautiful wisdom once again.. Jazak Allah alf khair our belived NAK ❤❤

[@ryze5436]

Duas for whole team ❤❤❤

[@ayeshaasif1537]

JazakAllah khair ustad Noman for such a beautiful reminder ❤

[@deebaparveen6010]

Alhamdullilah great khutba Barak Allah feekum ❤ Love you for the sake Of Allah Swt ❤ May Allah swt give us pure hikmat to understand our relationship Allah Swt blessed us ❤

[@nusratpopy8724]

May Allah Taa’la guide us and give us hedayat, Ameen.

[@godisonegodhaswon]

JazakAllah Khairan Ustadh

[@jaffarseid7638]

Masha Allah that was beautiful jzk.

[@candicecole19]

“Our Lord, let not our hearts deviate after You have guided us and grant us from Yourself mercy. Indeed, You are the Bestower.” ~ • ~ (Quran 3:8) 🤍

[@jocelynburrell445]

May all tribes onext Generation s be united and keep the role straight Insha Allah

[@mP-zu8pw]

Very good NOUMAN ALI ...

[@ashamohamed2627]

Allahummah barik NAK as usual Master class❤

[@ayeshakunni6908]

JazakAllah khairan❤❤❤

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Jazakallah. USTAD

[@siffatnahar4697]

What a beautiful recitation!

[@SJ-gs6du]

Subhan Allah

[@misstornton3848]

Thank you, dear teacher

[@naadirahimomova7484]

Jazaakallohu hoyron

[@fatimaameur1162]

Wow... La Ilah ila ALLAH

[@wasbanaseer3449]

My husband didn't let me stay at his home even when I was his wife he said to me in front of his mother and brother I am going back to England and you can't live in this house this is not your house it's my mother's house. My mother in law said I can't take her responsibility send her back to her house and my husband was blindly following it. I stayed there by begging and only msg I got from my husband after he went to UK was go to your house if something happen to my parents you will be responsible.............this is what M uslims are doing Allah taught us so many things but we Muslims just don't fear Him

[@Aissa_gilly975]

“Our Lord grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous” Al-Furquaan verse 74

[@nimisable]

The best like always.الحمد الله

[@missyofficial365]

I love him

[@asmaaamir8133]

Jazakallah❤

[@lit.arabic]

Maa shaa Allah

[@MahaAdeel-ey2kb]

JazakAllah

[@wanderingmuslim]

Could you please re-upload the other khutbah where half of the audio was missing? That one was very different and beneficial!

[@LauratuUmar-zo7fg]

mashaAllah TabarakaLLAH! His explanation of this concept is spectacular! May Allah (S.W.T) preserve and reward him with Jannatul Firdaus.

[@NASSOROSULEIMAN-ps7ht]

powerful❤

[@ghaisaniaimeerais1085]

32:41 seperate ur feelings and behavior

[@sambayanzai]

I was looking forward to this lecture. Thank you! One thing the voice was very low had to put on my EarPods to hear better.

[@aminatullahabdullah6001]

Mashallah

[@imannajjar2616]

الله اكبر

[@A_Muslim_New_Yorker]

Usted in New Jersey❤

[@BetruetoAllah]

ليس انسان الا ما سعي..

[@ryze5436]

......impatient society now... do nikah, but live with your own parents, until u r mature stable enough to live alone, do holidays together until then

[@jocelynburrell445]

😮😮yes that was a needed understanding

[@jocelynburrell445]

And seeing the order as said and how both get a chance to humble selves before the Merciful and get the wisdom that comes no human could provide

[@SahaabaSsidiq-px4fo]

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته شكرا جزيلا حب كثيرا من رواد

[@ayahucub]

QS At Talaq 65:1-7

[@MohsinKhan-gp8wj]

Salllallahu alayhi waalehi wasallam

[@MohsinKhan-gp8wj]

Sallallahu.alayhi waalehi wasallam

[@Aesh004]

Bayyinah team, some grey screen appear during the middle. You should fix

[@gratefulslaveofallah4433]

For example, I would not want to divorce with person who behaves as Allah commanded in this surah 😅 But, unfortunately, many muslim men don't act like this, maybe because they just don't know quranic divorce style

[@dalalali9767]

أحسنت

[@sumaiyabasadien4890]

Alhamdullilah this is so timely and helpful. However, what's the case if a woman is divorcing her husband because he doesn't provide & she has become the breadwinner?

[@NashrumNur]

My wife left me for better option i am an engineer and i tried my best...but she still mad for her ex boy friend. We hade 3years of married life but she says she still love her ex. On 9 December she forced me to give mutual divorce and on 9march (3month) it will be over. I really don't want her to lose...please keep us in your duas. She doesn’t do any contact and if i call she refused to talk and insults me.

[@Muslim.mode.]

Marry a women who doesn’t commit Zina (boyfriend) or even a virgin 😅 inshallah next time

[@mandyk2743]

Very well explained. But the people today have taken divorce to another level, its such a shame to know that people r getting divorced jus because the girl's family didnt give enough dowry at the wedding. May Allah guide the muslims and make them understand true meaning of religion and its teachings

[@karimmoorad9649]

Girl's family give dowry? Which country is that?

[@farrahkhan6101]

​@@karimmoorad9649Pakistan 😑

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[@AydanJafarzade]

12:00

[@fitrarsy]

Ka tolong dibuat subtitle version indonesia🙏🏻

[@shaniabdallah2662]

Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh. If there is someone understanding the meaning of the opening poem, please translate it for me. I heard it many times in ostadh Nouman's khutba.

[@ahmmedsultana4498]

Parinde ke Jin aane lagay Hum parinde hai Huuuun hun saunds sunare Hamarese parinden baath kerre ! Hoor rori bolke Urdu me sunare Parende! abku 4 bar aaye!

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[@ph.marwaalbulushi1989]

The way he explain things, it seems like a true muslim should be more gentle, more sensitive, more caring. The way society is working is the more u r religious the less flexible or sensitive u r. For the longest period this is what I have noticed 😢😢😢

[@harishhabit]

I understand this because I experience it myself. After I got cancer, I begin to do the innerwork. I realize that it is the trauma (feeling of unworthiness and fear) that causes me to have this controlling behaviour. I want people to hear me out, to be obedient, so that bad/unfavorable things don't happen. This controlling behaviour is very difficult to acknowledged, because I thought I was performing nahi munkar. Being mindful 24/7 isn't easy either. Extra struggle for people w trauma to be more gentle and understanding that people's conditions, backgrounds, level of perceptions vary. I used to be around people that are strict in terms of the delivery of dakwah, which made my trauma worse. Alhamdulillaah now I'm slowly unlearning those behaviour.

[@nagmamau1351]

Please Urdu mein Surah al-baqarah ki tasvir kijiye

[@Sibh1996]

I’m riiiich

[@kmorgan2351]

صوت المايك منخفض اتمنى رفعه

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❤

[@nagmamau1351]

Please Urdu mein Surah Bakra ki Tafseer kijiye Hamen English nahin aati

[@ashnakhan8053]

Alhamdullilah ustad Nay complete ki hoi hai Epic masjid KZbin channel hai wahan pay ap ko mill jai gy

[@peace299]

I have a question

[@johngurvan8279]

My atheist daughter married a muslim, but they were legally married so she has protection from the law. Clever daughter

[@Muslim.mode.]

A atheist women can’t marry a Muslim man

[@mishtystyles112]

Is there’s a mismatch in video

[@TheKhalidx]

What if they change their mind during the 3 months

[@messileo9484]

I'll probably divorce mu wife bcs of bad thing said aboute to all his friends and family. Im also considering the possibility of forgiving her but if I do I'll not forvige and talk with her family. Do you think I should forgive her and "forget" her family,will the marriage still be fine or maybe will not be possible to maintain? Or should I just divorce her and let her and me go our ways? Pls help me

[@Muslim.mode.]

Are considering divorcing her because she said bad things about your family? I don’t get it

[@messileo9484]

@@Muslim.mode. No, she said about me and bad things about me to her friends and family and made me like a joke. Now she repented but I dont know if forgive her or not, Im not sure if I can believe in her anymore. Also I don't her to suffer because of this. So I dont know what to do

[@Muslim.mode.]

@@messileo9484 hard to give help without the details are about How bad these things said were, but it is a sign that she does not respect you and she might only be sorry because you caught her, but also maybe there is some bad/weak things about you that she has ask you to change in the past but didn't, and now she is venting out to other people bc you refuse to change/improve, idk full story but some thoughts to consider, may Allah ease your situation

[@messileo9484]

@@Muslim.mode. Yeah she is sorry, but Im not 100% sure that she will not do it again. She told me that she did something very wrong and she asked sorry. But maybe it's because I caught her. Ive done something wrong also because I was spying her phone because I didnt trust her anymore and then I found that she told about what happens in our house and also our secrets to her family and friends. She did this because she was very angry with me because Ive done something wrong(masturbation). But things became sooo big, if she stayed quiet and told no one about what I did and my problems and what happen in home then I would have surely forgive her even when she told me bad words at my back. Now I dont know if continue with divorce or leave her to her new life. We have 22/24yrs old so maybe she is young and didnt know the importance of keeping private thing private and dont tell to anyone. But I also think that Im not sure if she will do it again, so Im having and I'll have trust issues. I spoke with an imam and he also told me to divorce bcs you can't live a life where you dont trust each other.

[@wasbanaseer3449]

Just sit with your wife alone don't listen to anyone put your trust in your Allah Communicate' sometimes things only gets worse where one of partner is not ready to talk and things get worse by silence and involvement of other and their opinions . Settle things with your wife by talking tell her which hurt you ask her why she did it make her understand it hurt you listen her understand her what she wants Everyone deserves one chance , forgive her for sake of Allah. Divorce is very easy but making your marriage work is harder don't give up look at couples around you what if they had divorced each other on their initial fight would they have been here today where they are. Sometimes we have to let go of our egos . If someone asks forgiveness forgive them like you want Allah to forgive you. Then after this if this behavior becomes repetitive and you feel being wronged then you can part ways . May Allah guide every believer ameen

[@sumbalsajid9208]

I have a question. That if we are instructed by Allah tala how we should act. And what we feel is something different. Than this doesn't go for hipocracy. That I don't like a person. But Allah tala has instructed to be good with him. Then I have to be good with him but inside my heart I don't even want to look at him. Is in comes in hipocracy. That I have something else in my heart but I am showing something else. Please clear my point if you can see the msg because its really disturbing. 😢

[@qiblaquest-q9v]

Personally I think that counts as patience and forbearance rather than hypocrisy "And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth easily, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace." Quran 25:63 Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "The strong is not the one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong is the one who controls himself while in anger." Sahih Bukhari 6114

[@harishhabit]

I read a comment abt this on ig. There's a shorter version of this khutbah. I'll copy them for you insya Allah

[@harishhabit]

@sumbalsajid9208 @ neehatariq Hypocrite is someone who pretends to like someone and make them feel that they are something to them when he/she hates them and tries to harm them behind their back... hiding your dislikeness and behave like a normal person is not being a Hypocrite when you're not conspiring against them... and you just want to get over that meeting peacefully. For example you don't like a teacher or a colleague of yours because of some annoying habits or because of their personality... but that doesn't mean you imply harm on them or talk to them disrespectfully, you maintain you professional composure and deal with the day talk to them with a great sense of social responsibility and move on with the day without having bad intentions for them... you don't trash talk them or conspire against them because that's what a hypocrite do who hate someone but makes them believe that he/she absolutely love them @ ishaquemkhan Hypocrites are completely different people. They harm you while make you feel they are with you or they love you. But if you control your anger and smile while you don't like someone just for the sake of Allah and you are harmless to them. That's completely different.

[@Aoun-Mohammad]

Khutbah without voice ...how to imagine what ustaad is saying ...

[@azlanshahnk]

Try put up your volume

[@mahadihasan1029]

Translation Bangladesh language please

[@МоррисДжеральд]

31-جزیره سنت متیو.کانادا.کمان.

[@MeemNun_ALiF_Revived_LykNvrB4]

🙂

[@shadmanaaz]

Assalamalaikum if wife doesn’t want to stay in marriage and keep on saying I want to be with you and trying to harm you discreetly

[@petal21]

wa Alaikum assalamu brotber, Read surah albaqarah or play it in your home everyday. The reason why I am sayong this is because I have witnessed separation in close families and later was known that there was hasad, ain and or sihr. May Allah make it easy for both husband and wife ameen. Find out why she doesn't want to stay in marriage.

[@shahidachoudhury6925]

Do Istikhara for what she is doing , may Allah help you to understand what’s going on her mind .

[@razamughal9095]

That still a wife, there are PARENTS that are trying to discreetly harm their own children

[@petal21]

@@razamughal9095 May Allah have mercy on all. This dunya is a scary place

[@breenadorson7745]

P r o m o S M 😢

[@Tariq.Mahmood1]

brother Nouman no rafa yadain no hands on the chest aur takhny sy uper kapera nai have not you read the hadiths from bukhari and muslim

[@ambringhazala2079]

It's important to recognize the diversity of perspectives within schools of thought deriving knowledge from the Quran and Hadiths. Interpretations of Hadiths vary, leading to differences in fiqh. Emphasizing commonalities over differences is encouraged. Additionally, discrepancies in takeaway from khutbas exist; some derive lessons while others critique.

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Pakistan Allah swt ke Raz nahye queen ellizabethe ka Raz hay

[@МоррисДжеральд]

29-ثور.کنیترا مراکش. !!!

[@mira_mon]

Thank you for this, such an eye openinb 🤍

[@MohsinKhan-gp8wj]

Sallallahu alayhi eaalehi wasallam

[@zubiashakeel5648]

❤

[@МоррисДжеральд]

31-جزیره سنت متیو.کانادا.کمان.

[@МоррисДжеральд]

31-جزیره سنت متیو.کانادا.کمان.